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Researchers and My Uncle Claim Foreplay is Overrated

According to a survey based on 2,300 women, foreplay has little or no significance when it comes to the likelihood of having an orgasm. What seems to matter is the duration of intercourse, 16.2 minutes on average. It should be noted that this study was done with Czech women. When a similar study was done with US women the average length of intercourse was a limp 7 minutes. Way to go team USA! "In contrast to the assumptions of many sex therapists and educators, more attention should be given to improve the quality and duration of intercourse rather than foreplay," say Professor Stuart Brody of the University of the West of Scotland, and Professor Peter Weiss, from Charles University, Prague.

6 comments

  1. Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by rfc1394 · · Score: 1

    Going back as far as the 1970s, it's been found, over and over, through studies, that the vast majority of women do not, I repeat, do not orgasm as a result of vaginal intercourse. Best results I've heard are only 30% of women can orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone, and some quote results as low as 10-15%. Women need clitoral stimulation in at least 70% of cases either through cunnilingus or through fingering to be able to achieve orgasm. I don't know who did this survey, but either they've selected a large number of women who don't fit the profile, or there is some aspect of female sexuality that is different there.

    Further, women need foreplay if for no other reason than to allow them to be receptive to intercourse (as in allowing the vagina to relax) and to lubricate properly. Don't know where these people got their results, but I suspect there's something not quite right about them. Or perhaps if intercourse goes on this long it might be entirely different.

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    1. Re:Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with this study, personally. It's all about technique. As long as you get the woman "lubed up" ahead of time, pay attention to her non verbal language (breathing, body language, etc.) and give her want she wants, you'll have no problem getting her off. For example, I was dating a woman once who had never been able to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but just listening to her and using decent technique, I was able to get her to orgasm every time.

      I can still remember the first time we had sex and I made her cum. I felt so proud of myself.

      PS: I thought this was a topic I'd never discuss on Slashdot. Ever.

    2. Re:Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by ChodeMaster · · Score: 1

      Coincidentally it's a topic I wish you'd never discussed on Slashdot. Ever.

    3. Re:Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was dating a woman once who had never been able to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but just listening to her and using decent technique, I was able to get her to orgasm every time.

      Me too. And I was proud too. Then we split up and she went back to the guy who couldn't manage it. Oh well :)

      OTOH my studies didn't cover 2,300 women. If there are another 2,299 that want to let me try this out then reply to this post :)

    4. Re:Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I've had women fake orgasms, too.

    5. Re:Completely Mistaken and Totally Wrong by dragonsomnolent · · Score: 1

      McGrew,

      Once again, you owe me a new keyboard (wish I had mod points)

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