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Ask Slashdot: Smartest Way To Transfer an Old Domain/Site?

An anonymous reader writes "Back in early 95 I registered a domain name and built a website for a hobby of mine. Over time the website (and domain) name have built a small but steady stream of traffic but my interest in the hobby is essentially gone and I've not been a visitor to my own site in well over two years. I'd like to sell the site/domain to a long time member who has expressed interest in taking over and trying to grow the site, however I use the domain for my own personal email including banking, health insurance, etc. How have fellow readers gone about parting ways from a domain that they've used for an email address?" More generally, what terms would you like to include (or have you included) in a domain transfer? Old horror stories could help prevent new horror stories.

113 comments

  1. Step 1 by leighklotz · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'd create a new domain for yourself first...you need to get off the old one.

    1. Re:Step 1 by Xest · · Score: 1

      To expand on this, get a new domain, setup a new e-mail address etc. keep the old domain for a year but redirect everything to your new domain, over that year keep a log of anything that was addressed to your old domain and make sure it gets updated to the new one. If a years not long enough, make it 2 years, but effectively the point is this, if you get to a point where you've not had anything through in a year to the old domain you can be pretty sure nothing of value is still using that address, and then hand it over.

    2. Re:Step 1 by HappyDrgn · · Score: 2

      I would take the added step of putting an auto reply / vacation message on the old mailbox, so that anyone emailing you gets a reply telling them your email address has changed, but still forwarding the message so you still get it.

    3. Re:Step 1 by fafaforza · · Score: 2

      Potentially creating backscatter spam. I would respond personally/manually. Set up a separate folder or mark any mail being sent to the old domain so that it's easier to spot anything still going to that domain.

      And I think I'd wait about a year after moving to a new domain for email before handing over the hobby domain. And even then, I'd require to run the email server for at least a few months after that so that no forwards can be changed and mail can't be seen.

    4. Re:Step 1 by edb · · Score: 2

      Please don't generate a new email message, that's a potential source of new spam.

      Much better to configure your SMTP server to reject the email at SMTP connect time, with the error message containing the new address to use. The error message usually ends up visible to the human sender, and spam 'bots will ignore it.

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  2. Maybe by Anrego · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Disclaimer: I have no experience in this situation this is just my take on this so take with lots of salt (well.. try and keep it under 1500ml if you are watching your sodium.. )

    I’d move the site to a new domain name owned by the new guy, keep the current domain name, and just set up a friendly redirect page (with an appropriate explanation to users).

    Eventually people/search engines will learn the new domain name (and even if they don’t.. keeping the redirect up forever is probably nothing) and you can start migrating to a new email address while keeping the old domain name “just in case”.

    If other people have email accounts or rely on other services on the current domain... then it gets more complicated.

    Also I’d personally like to thank you for asking a question that is:

    - non-trivial
    - can benefit from the vast amount of diversity and experience within the slashdot crowd
    - will probably generate interesting stories
    - and most importantly, isn’t depressing as hell nor a reminder that everything is falling apart in our industry

    This is what "ask slashdot" could be! We really need more of this!

    1. Re:Maybe by winkydink · · Score: 1

      Yes. Keep your domain name and move the site to a new domain with a redirect left behind. If they are also using the domain for email, provide forwarding. If there are other services involved, you'd need to provide more detail first.

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    2. Re:Maybe by Pope · · Score: 1

      Or, if you totally want to be disassociated with the domain, get a new one, and change any affected email addresses to the new one. Any email that's being used by a company as a contact method will just be a line in their database: changing it will just overwrite it and any new emails they need to send out will get to you without a problem.

      The biggest problem IMO is for personal emails, since so many people will have you in auto-complete or in an address book that they use.

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    3. Re:Maybe by sensationull · · Score: 1, Offtopic

      Disclaimer: I have no experience in this situation this is just my take on this so take with lots of salt (well.. try and keep it under 1500ml if you are watching your sodium.. )

      Metric fail, 1500mL is 1.5 Liters and almost certainly toxic if only as a descicant: http://www.google.co.nz/#sclient=psy-ab&hl=en&site=&q=1500mL+in+liters&pbx=1&oq=1500mL+in+liters

    4. Re:Maybe by ganjadude · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I agree with this as well. sometime around 2001 I was working with a fairly big niche website, maybe around 25000 users 2500 regular users. and they not only transfered ownership of the site but they changed the name of the site as well. What we ended up doing was buying the new domain and setting up the new site with new logos etc than we simply put a redirect up on the old domain, left it for about 6 months before the traffic to the old domain was pretty much zero and the new domain was flourishing.

      Fast forward to around 2008, A turn based web game community I was an administrator for sold out a portion of the community to zynga, thescum of the gaming world. He decided that with a portion of the community gone that it would be good to change the name of the rest of the portion he maintained. He proceeded to change the forum,the 4 different domains and put them all on one domain where before it was a little cluster. Overnight he did this, he killed the original links to everything but the forum. Traffic declined 65% in that first week and it never recovered.

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    5. Re:Maybe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Would it be ok to take 1.4 liters of salt?

    6. Re:Maybe by imjustmatthew · · Score: 1

      Also I’d personally like to thank you for asking a question that is:

      - non-trivial
      - can benefit from the vast amount of diversity and experience within the slashdot crowd
      - will probably generate interesting stories
      - and most importantly, isn’t depressing as hell nor a reminder that everything is falling apart in our industry

      This is what "ask slashdot" could be! We really need more of this!

      This is so true. I'm glad to see the first ask slashdot in a long time where I'll be reading the all the comments at 0 without having any mod points.

    7. Re:Maybe by Qzukk · · Score: 4, Interesting

      If you absolutely want to give them the domain, then tell whoever to set up their own hosting and change the A records for the website to the new host while keeping the MX records and adding an old.example.com A record for people to access the old site while you transfer data between hosting companies. In the meantime, get a new domain and start updating everyone who emails you with your new address. After a suitable time (you no longer receive email at the old address), transfer the domain to this person.

      As a bonus, it means that whoever is wanting to take over the domain is going to have to prove they're going to run it for several months. If they decide that it costs too much to run, flake out, or just turn it into a porn site, you can point the A record back and find someone else.

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    8. Re:Maybe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      he should used 301 redirects on those pages

    9. Re:Maybe by uncledrax · · Score: 2

      So you're arguing that the parent is correct, and users should DEFINITELY keep under 1500ml of sodium?

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    10. Re:Maybe by AJH16 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, this is probably the best name and actually, you could even maintain domain ownership but simply setup DNS records for it with the entry point on his server doing a permanent redirect so that search sites will catch on to the update and the URL will re-write. I've never let go of a domain name that I actually used intentionally and was thankfully able to reclaim the one that I had that accidentally lapsed, but we had something where we wanted transition from people using gccafe.com to wiicafe.com when the Wii first came out and we did it via a permanent redirect on the web server. Making it so your DNS directs to their web server for the necessary sub domains ensures that your server doesn't get hit with significant load, though you could do a permanent redirect on your own web server as well if you wanted to re-purpose the domain while leaving a redirect up.

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    11. Re:Maybe by garyebickford · · Score: 1

      sorry, moderated by accident, replying to cancel.

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    12. Re:Maybe by marcosdumay · · Score: 1

      I’d move the site to a new domain name owned by the new guy, keep the current domain name, and just set up a friendly redirect page (with an appropriate explanation to users).

      Please, don't. When you want to redirect somebody you give them a 301 or 303 answer. You don't set up a page with free text telling that in natural language. Only people are able to parse natural language, and bookmars and search engines won't be updated if you do that.

      On that case, it would be best to use 301 answers. You can write them in simple mod-redirect rules.

    13. Re:Maybe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I’d move the site to a new domain name owned by the new guy, keep the current domain name, and just set up a friendly redirect page (with an appropriate explanation to users).

      Absolutely no! Don't leave a redirect page behind! This has horrible usability and will, inter alia, break ALL deep links.

      Just set up a redirect for the whole domain. The new owner can explain the situation on the destination page (e.g. using a small banner).

  3. Don't trust the buyer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm sure he's a nice guy, but migrate everything away from that domain before selling. This means adjusting every account you've signed up for using that email address/etc. Then wait six months and see if anything new comes in. Under no circumstances should you expect to receive any forwarded mail without someone having read it.

    1. Re:Don't trust the buyer by characterZer0 · · Score: 2

      Under no circumstances should you expect to receive any forwarded mail without someone having read it.

      This holds for any email on any system. Use PGP.

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    2. Re:Don't trust the buyer by Anrego · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Sounds reasonable.

      Once he's convinced his bank, health care provider, and generally everyone outside an extremely small group of people of this.. he'll be all set! (well, except that this doesn't really protect against the new owner killing his email service outright either).

      (All kidding aside, it's a lost cause. PGP isn't simple enough for the masses, doesn't work well with the whole webmail thing (aka how just about everyone access their email these days), and in the few cases where it works, ironically makes non-geeks more nervous (why does this email say something about security, am I being hacked!!!).

    3. Re:Don't trust the buyer by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      Why a non-geek get nervous because of what it says? Are you implying they might *READ* the notice saying it's secured?

    4. Re:Don't trust the buyer by Anrego · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually it's the opposite!

      My experience is non-technically inclined people tend to associate different with bad. When an email shows up and has a different colored title, or a weird symbol, or a dialog pops up asking them something about keyrings ... they freak out and get nervous (especially if they see words like "security").

      More importantly, most users don't care about this stuff. It's not intuitive for them to think "oh, this means I can be reasonable sure thsi email hasn't been tampered with and was actually sent by this person (or someone with access to their PC)".

      The problem is to be successful for the masses, PGP would have to have immediate widespread adoption in email clients, which isn't going to happen.

    5. Re:Don't trust the buyer by darkpixel2k · · Score: 2

      Under no circumstances should you expect to receive any forwarded mail without someone having read it.

      This holds for any email on any system. Use PGP.

      The number of companies out there that have a 'preferences' page with a space for my public key is astounding. Every single e-mail I get from them is encrypted...er...wait. Welcome back to the real world. Unless it's something that happens automatically (so your mother and grandmother don't have to figure it out) it won't happen.

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    6. Re:Don't trust the buyer by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      Yes, yes, I agree 100% with everything you say.
      I was trying to be funny, because, let's be sincere, users don't READ, so there's no way they find out the word "secure" was present in that sentence. :)

    7. Re:Don't trust the buyer by Anrego · · Score: 1

      So I got woosh-ed :(

      so there's no way they find out the word "secure" was present in that sentence

      Indeed.. and even if they do happen to glance across the word in their panic.. as said it actually makes things worse! Any sentence about security, even one confirming something is secure, will scare a user (which I guess was the point of my knee-jerk post).

      On a serious note, we as a community all understand this problem.. but none of us (myself included) have figured out a good way to deal with it. Maybe we should just introduce randomness in our applications to get users used to the concept that different doesn't always mean broken!

  4. Keep the domain IMO by mewsenews · · Score: 5, Informative

    There's no clean way to ensure a new owner will provide service for your old email address to your satisfaction.

    However, it is ridiculously easy for you to set up a permanent redirect from the front page of the website to a new location managed by this guy who is interested in being the new maintainer.

    You could even set him up with a subdomain of the current domain name so that folks feel comfortable that it's the same old site they've been visiting for years. This requires very little effort on your part and you maintain control over your email address.

    1. Re:Keep the domain IMO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same here. I would keep the ownership to the domain so you can manage your email adresses. You can have the "www" host point to any IP address the other person wants. At the same time you can set up a couple of forwarded email addresses (like for instance "info@").

    2. Re:Keep the domain IMO by BarfooTheSecond · · Score: 1

      +1
      keep the domain, put a redirect. I've done it with a 1000+ users forum.

    3. Re:Keep the domain IMO by trnk · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Next week on ask slashdot: 'I'm a long-term user of a forum on a domain that the owner is no longer interested in, I've offered to buy from him but instead he's told me he wants to keep it and offered to let me purchase a redirect to my servers instead. I was planning on investing quite a bit of time and money to build up the site and it's brand but I'm worried about him retaining control. Is this a good idea?'

      ...Well, there's no clean way to ensure the old owner will provide service for your forward to your satisfaction...etc.

      Come on, everyone saying 'just keep the old domain' really isn't considering the implications of that for the interested buyer.

    4. Re:Keep the domain IMO by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>There's no clean way to ensure a new owner will provide service for your old email address to your satisfaction.

      It's called a "contract" or "memorandum of understanding" in the business world.

      If you haven't heard of them, they're sort of like source code, that run in people's heads, and get interpreted by lawyers and justices.

    5. Re:Keep the domain IMO by aitikin · · Score: 1

      ...and, unlike source code, rely on human beings to run. I'm not saying a contract isn't a good idea, however contracts are broken and misinterpreted very often.

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    6. Re:Keep the domain IMO by vawarayer · · Score: 1

      Come on, everyone saying 'just keep the old domain' really isn't considering the implications of that for the interested buyer.

      Domain is not only Website. Clearly the potential seller is not ready to sell. He wants his e-mail. Can't blame him for that, nowadays a freakin e-mail address is more permanent than a phone number. Consider that some domain names are bought ONLY for e-mail adresses, and Web sites are never set up. Red corner : e-mail address that has been in used for ages - banking, taxes, friends, family communications Blue corner : hobby Web site I vote Red. At this point in time, wannabe buyer interest is irrelevant. Seller needs to keep his domain name and go on with his life.

    7. Re:Keep the domain IMO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Come on, everyone saying 'just keep the old domain' really isn't considering the implications of that for the interested buyer.

      I worked for a company in a small town years ago that was part of a conglomerate run by the richest family in town. They did everything from lawn service to software development, civil engineering, IP PBX deployments, and they also ran the phone company, cable company, and ISP (which I worked for). All of those companies ran under one identity. One day the ownership received a very generous offer for the phone, cable, and internet companies, and they opted to sell. As for the name... well, the ownership's last name was also the name of the company, so they weren't about to sell their own last name as part of this deal. What they did was grant the buyer a 2-year window in which they could continue to run the properties they were buying under the old name, while they worked on rebranding.

      Seems to me this is more or less the same situation, and I don't see why the buyer and seller can't enter into a similar arrangement here. Write it out in a contract if you have to ensure fair play, who cares. There's no reason the seller can't loan his domain name for a certain period of time while the buyer takes over the website and comes up with a strategy for renaming it. If the seller's nice about it, he could just leave a host record in their permanently so the buyer doesn't lose users who are too stubborn to update bookmarks. Doesn't cost him anything at all.

      Remember, it isn't the name of the website that is important, but rather what the website does, what content is on it, etc.. This is what the buyer really wants. The name does not contribute to the function of the site at all - unlike an e-mail address, which is entirely dependent on the name. I understand that the buyer has some interest in what happens with the domain name, but I'd argue it isn't as important to him as it is to the seller.

    8. Re:Keep the domain IMO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Come on, everyone saying 'just keep the old domain' really isn't considering the implications of that for the interested buyer.

      Which is true, but he's not the one who Asked Slashdot, is he?

      When an acquaintance in the real world comes along and asks you for advice in dealing with a total unknown party, you give advice targeted at helping the acquaintance protect himself against the unknown. You assume that the unknown party is getting equivalent advice on how to deal with your acquaintance, and, with each party protecting itself against the other, a fair solution will be achieved.

      The buyer probably would be well advised to fill out its own mirror Ask /. It may well advise them not to buy, or to pursue some alternative arrangement, but in any event, no harm would be done.

  5. Do you want to get rid of the entire domain? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    Might it simply be sufficient to transfer your site hosting to the other party and point the DNS records for the site itself to whenever they want? You can then have your mail hanging off the original domain and retain control of it.

    1. Re:Do you want to get rid of the entire domain? by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      Why is this downvoted? It's actually the best solution proposed.

    2. Re:Do you want to get rid of the entire domain? by fafaforza · · Score: 1

      I guess unless you don't want to be paying the registration fees.

    3. Re:Do you want to get rid of the entire domain? by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      What fees? He already pays a free for e-mail hosting, and he'll pay it anywhere else.

  6. Do not be reliant on the new owner. by characterZer0 · · Score: 1

    Move all of your services off of the domain, then sell it.

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  7. Simple by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

    Get new email addresses. If the new owner starts mucking up your email, your only recourse will be a civil suit, and is it really worth it just to keep some old email addresses?

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    1. Re:Simple by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      i think the bigger threat is if the OP forgets to change the email address associated with any given sensitive account, then the new domain owner can use the "forgot password" link. now that the new owner controls the domain and any email addresses associated with that domain, the new owner can potentially get access to private information or reset passwords.

      especially if the email address has been in use for over 15 years - there are probably many long forgotten services that were registered with that email, and who knows what kind of havoc (if any) a malicious person could cause by gaining access to them.

    2. Re:Simple by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      It strikes me the OP mucked this up years ago. When he began to let the site basically run itself he should have moved his email hosting elsewhere and redirected from the old address to the new, monitoring who was sending him email. It's a little late now.

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  8. Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by Fastolfe · · Score: 5, Informative

    Why do you want to transfer the domain when you can just give him/her control of the web site? You can continue to own the services on the domain that matter to you (mail) and they'd own the HTTP service on the IP address you point the domain to. This could even be an intermediate step to full ownership transfer once you've moved your identity someplace else and are comfortable with the new owner of the domain taking more ownership over it.

    1. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by Pope · · Score: 1

      This x 1000. Set up a totally new domain name for the site and move everything you're not interested in over to it.

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    2. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by Anonymous+Psychopath · · Score: 1

      Why do you want to transfer the domain when you can just give him/her control of the web site? You can continue to own the services on the domain that matter to you (mail) and they'd own the HTTP service on the IP address you point the domain to. This could even be an intermediate step to full ownership transfer once you've moved your identity someplace else and are comfortable with the new owner of the domain taking more ownership over it.

      Agreed, this is the best solution. Keep the domain, transfer the web service only.

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    3. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by ZeroSumHappiness · · Score: 1

      The domain name is, arguably, the more valuable part. If I wanted to buy Walmart.com it's not because I like their webapp.

    4. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      +1 again. And if you use a 301 redirect then search engines will quickly attribute the old domain's page rank to the new domain (but anyone coming to the old one will still get where they want to go).

      This aggregation of old sites to a single core site shows what I mean:
      coupletherapynyc.com
      traumatherapynyc.com
      individualpsychotherapynyc.com
      All the above point to the following link (which accrues all the search engine rank because of the 301 redirect):
      gennabrocone.com

      Here's a brief google article about it: 301 redirects

    5. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by ZombieBraintrust · · Score: 1

      Sell the site first. Redirect all content to new owners domain. After you have migrated your personal email off the domain sell the old domain to the new owner. This gives you plenty of time to see verify your email move is working.

    6. Re:Keep the domain, transfer the web site? by PoolOfThought · · Score: 1

      The monetary value in a domain name is the traffic it will bring. If the traffic is going through to the new site maintainer either way then they don't really care if they own the domain name or not... not from a "value" perspective.

      As long as they can still monetize it (or whatever they're trying to do) they should only care that it not be pulled out from under them once they build up even more traffic - which is a very legit fear. If they are building up the traffic in hopes of selling it to yet another individual down the road then they will also have legit concerns in not "owning it" outright.

      However, there's still nothing preventing the OP from just selling the "www" rights to the domain and both parties being covered until such time that it's worth it to the guy to buy the whole thing.

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  9. Forward the Email by Mandatory+Default · · Score: 1

    Require the buyer to forward all of your email addresses for 24 months. Help the person set up the forwarding if they don't know how to do it.

    1. Re:Forward the Email by Anonymous+Psychopath · · Score: 1

      Require the buyer to forward all of your email addresses for 24 months. Help the person set up the forwarding if they don't know how to do it.

      Not a good idea, unless you're ok with them reading your email, too.

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    2. Re:Forward the Email by Mandatory+Default · · Score: 1

      There's hundreds of millions of people using Cox, Gmail, Comcast and numerous of other services that have thousands of employees who have access to your mailbox at any time. You aren't "safe" because you use some commercial service. And let's not even talk about the intermediate nodes that your traffic can get routed through, some of whom have government requirements to log your email whether you know it or not.

      Personally, I'd trust someone with whom I had a longtime connection a lot more than I'd trust the average large company.

    3. Re:Forward the Email by fafaforza · · Score: 1

      Relationships go sour, people can give into temptation of snooping a bit. Why risk it, is there anything to gain? There are ways of doing this where there will be no question that email wasn't read, and this would help the new owner as there won't be any chance of accusation of him eavesdropping.

  10. Not even that complicated by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    Keep the domain, yes, but "lease" the rights to the www version of the site. Your DNS record can point the MX record to your mail sever (or Gmail, or whatever), while the A records for the domain and www host to wherever he wants to host it. You may wish to setup forwarding on certain addresses for him, like webmaster@, but make sure the domain is locked and secured to you first.

    1. Re:Not even that complicated by JWSmythe · · Score: 3, Informative

      You shouldn't have posted as AC. Some people won't see this, and you have the right answer.

          Set the A records to wherever the new web hosting provider will be. Set the MX record to where the mail is to be delivered. It will then be up to him (the submitter) to forward mail for anything specific at the domain, such as webmaster@ to the real webmaster.

          Or in bind...

      ;
      ; domain: example.com
      ;
      $TTL 3600
      @ IN SOA ns.example.com. webmaster.example.com. (
                      2012021401 ; Serial (soa version)
                      14400 ; Refresh after three hours
                      3600 ; Retry after one hour
                      86400 ; Expire after one day
                      3600 ) ; Mininum TTL of one hour
      ;
      ; name servers for this domain
      ;
                              IN NS ns1.example.com.
                              IN NS ns2.example.com.
                              IN NS ns3.example.com.
      ;
      ; A and MX records
      ;
       
      example.com. IN A 1.2.3.4
      www.example.com. IN A 1.2.3.4
      mail.example.com. IN A 5.6.7.8
      example.com. IN MX mail.example.com.
       
      example.com. IN TXT "v=spf1 ip4:5.6.7.0/25 a mx include:example.com include:example.com ~all"
      *.example.com. IN TXT "v=spf1 ip4:5.6.7.0/25 a mx include:example.com include:example.com ~all"

      And most importantly, the submitter shouldn't have needed to even ask this. Dearest submitter, please turn in your geek card on your way out.

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    2. Re:Not even that complicated by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

      A third of the way down the page, and the first person to give the correct solution. And it's currently scored at 0...

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    3. Re:Not even that complicated by Atzanteol · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And most importantly, the submitter shouldn't have needed to even ask this. Dearest submitter, please turn in your geek card on your way out.

      Perhaps he does, or maybe simply hadn't thought of it. Either way he's looking for options and advice based on personal experience. What's wrong with that?

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    4. Re:Not even that complicated by icebraining · · Score: 2

      You can even set up an NS record just for the subdomain and let them manage their own A records without having to waste time in case they change hosts or something.

    5. Re:Not even that complicated by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      Upvote for informative. Downvote for being an asshole.

    6. Re:Not even that complicated by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      EXACTLY what I was thinking as I was reading the post :)

    7. Re:Not even that complicated by Lanboy · · Score: 1

      But then you are left changing the IP for the site. If possible just cname the site hostname to a DNS hostname that the new guy controls . As long as you don't need to have a https version of the site. Then either migrate your mail to a new domain over time by changing all your account profiles and informing your correspondents of the change, or put a banner on the site informing visitors of the upcoming change to the new domain name.

  11. Are you selling the brand? by Liquidrage · · Score: 1

    Is this really a profitable thing that people support themselves off of? If so I would just stipulate he keep your used email addressed forwarded to your new gmail account or whatever. If the only thing is email, it's an easy issue to solve.

    If it's not really a brand and no one's making money, if you want just keep the domain, have them get their own, transfer over the content (files) that matters, and agree to host a redirect to his new site on the main page(s) and a custom 404 can redirect to the new site as well.

    I did go through this long ago as I had a very popular programming website back in the late 90's that I eventually grew tired of and just let go of but that had my email address that I used. So I just switched over everything that mattered to a new email account. I'm sure you'll forget something, but in most cases that's a phone call away from fixing. No matter what you should switch for personal use (which is what I consider banking, health, etc) to a gmail/yahoo type email account that will always be there no matter what your hobbies or attention span are.

    1. Re:Are you selling the brand? by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      404 is "page not found". You mean something more like 301 ("moved").

    2. Re:Are you selling the brand? by ilo.v · · Score: 1

      No matter what you should switch for personal use (which is what I consider banking, health, etc) to a gmail/yahoo type email account that will always be there no matter what your hobbies or attention span are.

      No. Then Google / Yahoo own the domain name. Bite the bullet and buy your own domain name that you use only for personal stuff like email. It is ok to use Google to provide the service (like Goodle Apps for your domain), but YOU own the domain. You can then change providers at will over the next 50 years without ever changing your email address again.

    3. Re:Are you selling the brand? by Liquidrage · · Score: 1

      No, I meant a 404. Because I'm assuming he has stuff on the server he wants to keep that is his and not the other persons and not part of the hobby site. He was using it for personal reasons too for doing a 301 wouldn't work there.

    4. Re:Are you selling the brand? by Liquidrage · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't. To me it's email and I like that it's a provided service. I have a few domains right now and all their main email's just forward to my gmail account. I don't think it's much of a risk to say @gmail.com is gonna be around a while.

    5. Re:Are you selling the brand? by edb · · Score: 1

      gmail.com may be around for a long time. But you may decide at some point, for whatever reason, that you do not want Google Gmail to be handling your email. It's pure hell to change to a new email address, much harder than changing a phone number, because senders' records of what they *think* is your email address last essentially forever. Not at all like a little black phone book.

      Domain names are cheap, as low as $5 a year depending on the Registrar you use, but certainly easy to find for less than $10/year. Buy one for your personal use. They're not just for business any more!

      Set up your private/personal/vanity domain so that email gets handled by whatever email service provider you are using for the moment. Change providers when you want, for whatever reason. Your email address doesn't need to change.

      Benefit: if you own the whole domain, you can change the "local" part (to the left of the '@') any time you want if the S/N ratio goes bad due to spam.

      It took more than a century to get phone number portability, so that you can take your phone number with you when you change phone service providers. It's built into the email system, if you use it correctly.

      And since domain names are quite cheap, compared to the "Old Days", by all means use a different one for a hobby or small business, from Day One, separate from your personal domain. Then you don't have to struggle to separate your personal life from your hobby-become-business from your small-business-just-sold.

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    6. Re:Are you selling the brand? by hobarrera · · Score: 1

      404 means not found. There's no redirection, the browser shows the error, and everything ends there. In case of doubt, read the RFC.

  12. Dear Jerry... by srussia · · Score: 5, Funny

    Over time the website (and domain) name have built a small but steady stream of traffic but my interest in the hobby is essentially gone and I've not been a visitor to my own site in well over two years. I'd like to sell the site/domain to a long time member who has expressed interest in taking over and trying to grow the site, however I use the domain for my own personal email including banking, health insurance, etc.

    There's nothing for it but to just suck it up and keep your yahoo.com e-mail.

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  13. CmdrTaco, is that you? by utahjazz · · Score: 5, Funny

    my interest in the hobby is essentially gone and I've not been a visitor to my own site in well over two years.

    CmdrTaco, is that you?

    1. Re:CmdrTaco, is that you? by Shifty0x88 · · Score: 1

      CmdrTaco, is that you?

      HAHAHAHAHAH,

      I wish CmdrTaco was here right now...... ;(

      Slashdot has gotten very sad....... and so have the posts (NOT this one though)

    2. Re:CmdrTaco, is that you? by kiehlster · · Score: 1

      One day, a new savior will arise. Until then, we must search for the prophesies. Beware the idle prophesies.

    3. Re:CmdrTaco, is that you? by gmhowell · · Score: 1

      CmdrTacoSupreme?

      I'm not sure how Rob Malda putting sour cream on his head will help slashdot, but at least someone would be trying something.

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  14. Don't do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just don't do it.
    Tell the member to register a new domain and do a redirect for some time... it will save you troubles.

    See what was done, for example, with freecode.

  15. HTTP 301 by chenjeru · · Score: 5, Informative

    As Anrego says, I'd suggest not actually handing over the domain. Instead, rebuild the site under a new domain while updating key content such as contact links, and then set up an "HTTP 301: permanently moved" redirect to the new site on the new domain. This will transfer your pagerank to the new domain and makes search engines happy. Then, you can keep your email and other domain services under your own control.

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  16. Service separation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the new owner does not need email, then you could own the domain, but point the A-records (and AAAA-records ;)) to his site, while keeping the MX-records for your self. This would probably require a private agreement between you, and you could decide to keep ownership of the domain, while renting out the webpage-part.

    Another way, if it is sufficient to sell www.yourdomain.tld, you could delegate that address via NS-records to his domain servers. Then you have yourdomain.tld and any subdomain except www.yourdomain.tld for yourself.

  17. MX records are your friend... by klubar · · Score: 2

    If there is a little bit of trust between you and the buyer the following will work.

    Change the MX record on the domain to point to your own mail server. You'll continue to get the mail and can forward all of the site mail to the new owner (using some other domain).

    Get a new email address and update all your accounts to point to the new address. After 6 months or so, just hand over the DNS control to the new owner.

    If there is no trust between you and the buyer it's going to be complex, involve lawyers and probably an escrow agent. I'm guessing the site doesn't generate enough revenue to be worth the compexity. If there isn't trust, unless the site is worth more than $20K (or so) it probably will cost more in legal and escrow fees than you'll get for the domain.

    1. Re:MX records are your friend... by Holi · · Score: 1

      An easier way, and one that would more likely be acceptable to the PURCHASER of the DOMAIN (sorry for the emphasis but I really doubt anyone wants to buy a website without being able to have corresponding email, and also having assurance that the site won't just disappear one day), would be to have a contract stipulating you have your email address for the life of the site. Then work on moving all your services off that domain.

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  18. Easy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Point an A record to the guy for the www.example.com site, cname the example.com to the www.example.com site; point an MX record for mail.example.com to him/her (and they can have the inconvenience of dealing with it, if in fact email is still used), keep the rest for yourself, you'll still get your mail. Over time migrate those addresses to a domain you plan to keep for life.

  19. two different things by pinfall · · Score: 1

    Keep the domain name. Host the DNS.
    Point all A records to the new owner's IP.
    Point the MX records to your own host.

  20. loose coupling by s1d3track3D · · Score: 2

    thanks for reminding me to not couple my personal duties with my interestes/domains/sites.

    interestes and hobbies come and go, seems the easiest way to handle this is to never have to.

  21. Keep The Domain, change the DNS by Idimmu+Xul · · Score: 1

    Keep the domain name, give the guy the site, code, database etc but just change the DNS to point at his webserver, but keep the MX records for yourself. Then move all your mail to a new email address as it comes in, then in a year give him the domain name when you're satisfied you're sorted.

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  22. Donate it to a domain name squatter by scarboni888 · · Score: 1

    Those poor buggers obviously need the money or they wouldn't be involved in artificially jacking up the prices for their own benefit.

  23. Wean yourself ... by Skapare · · Score: 1

    ... off of the domain that has a meaning specific to a website, and move to a domain you get today that has meaning about you, personally. Spend the time it takes to change everything, like your banking, over to an email with the new domain. Maybe that will be a few months.

    In the mean time, point DNS for the website over to wherever the new owner's hosting. Forward webmaster@example.com to his email. Then after a few months, transfer the domain ownership for the agreed money value.

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  24. Keep domain but point it to his server by dn15 · · Score: 1

    In addition to the suggestions that you redirect to a new domain

    You could keep control over DNS so that you just point yourdomain.com and www.yourdomain.com to the new guy's server, but keep MX pointed wherever you want.

  25. Sell the site, not the domain by Sloppy · · Score: 2

    Moving your email address is a hassle. Let's just assume you don't want any hassle at all, at the cost of the new guy not quite getting everything he wants (yet still be dealt with very reasonably).

    Sell the site, not the domain. Keep the domain either for the rest of your life, or until you're so bored out of your mind that you have the time to deal with moving your email (i.e. hopefully the rest of your life).

    On the still-yours domain, have a web server reply with 301 redirects to the equivalent page at the new domain. Then after a while (a year?), have it reply with 410. Then after a while, uninstall the web server. There may always be some stale links, but there's nothin' to do about that.

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  26. Transition period by MetalliQaZ · · Score: 2

    Move all of your accounts to a new email address ASAP. Then, over the course of a few months, watch the old email address closely. Watch for any straggling emails going to the old email. Fix any stragglers. When you are comfortable that the only thing showing up is SPAM, then transfer the domain.

    Look, there's no way you can be 100% sure. The best thing would be to trust the new guy.

    Speaking of stragglers... Just today I noticed that two large companies (one named after a large South American river, the other is a giant Bank in America) that were still sending stuff to an old email address after I had changed my account preferences. Obviously my old address lingers in their databases without any user interface to clean it.

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    1. Re:Transition period by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You may have multiple accounts without realizing it at that large e-tailer. The accounts there are tied to the email address, not the other way around.

      As far as the Bank is concerned, give up. They are a mess.

    2. Re:Transition period by novalis112 · · Score: 1

      I had the same problem with that large bank (many years ago before I dropped them like a bad habit). It turns out that the geniuses at Large Bank in America decided there should be two separate "addresses" for you, both changeable online, but in two completely separate places. One address for your account, and one address for your mail. Please don't ask me to explain that in a way that makes any sense.

  27. Not that bad, really by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    I did this about 8 years ago. I just updated things as e-mails came in, I made orders, or whatever. I probably got the last one done about two years after I started, but the 98% bulk was done in 3 months.

    Pick a name you're unlikely to lose interest in and plan on using it forever.

    I agree with the other poster who said you should retain the domain for now and set up DNS records and mail rules for the other guy until you're done moving stuff over.

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  28. Re:Step 2 by Joce640k · · Score: 5, Informative

    Step 2: Run *both* domains for at least six months.

    Change all mail that's in databases (bank, etc), tell as many friends as possible to use the new address.

    Set up mail forwarding to the new domain so you always hit 'reply' from there. Never reply on the old domain.

    Meanwhile, give your friend access to as much of the site as possible while still keeping the admin password to yourself. Most servers allow separate FTP accounts, etc., he should be able to change files without admin access.

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  29. Change all your sites to a new email. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Transferring ownership of a domain is largely trivial. The domain name itself can be transferred easily and the ownership change can be facilitated with minimal paperwork. Email really isn't that hard if you have kept good track of all your online accounts. Go to every account and change the email address and delete the old email from their records. Then do a "I forgot my password" test on those sites to ensure the password renewal arrives to the correct email and not the old one. Make sure that you alert all of your friends to your new email and begin regular communications on it with them.

  30. DNS does that for you... by xded · · Score: 2

    DNS A records (i.e., the ones that provide IP addresses to web browsers) are different from MX records (i.e., the ones that provide IP addresses to MTAs), and in your domain you already have both.

    Just keep the ownership of your domain, point the A record to the new guy's server and keep the MX record as it is (or point it to Gmail, to finally move all the email addresses off your SquirrelMail thing...)

  31. Smartest Way by tokul · · Score: 1

    Smartest way is not to transfer your personal domain. It is part your life after all and only really dumb people would sell their own soul or self.

    1. Re:Smartest Way by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A bit late now, but it would have been a good idea to keep your personal email separate from the email relating to the site, use different email addresses. Then no problem - the new owner gets the emails relating to the site, which is correct, and you keep getting your email.

  32. Nice try... by rampant+mac · · Score: 4, Funny

    "Back in early 95 I registered a domain name and built a website for a hobby of mine"

    Nice try Mr. Goatse. We're not falling for this one again.

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    1. Re:Nice try... by Chrisq · · Score: 4, Funny

      "Back in early 95 I registered a domain name and built a website for a hobby of mine"

      Nice try Mr. Goatse. We're not falling for this one again.

      anal stretching was his hobby, you insensitive clod.

  33. Really simple by Vrtigo1 · · Score: 1

    Don't sell him the domain, just lease it to him for all eternity.

    You would retain ownership of the domain, and you would retain control of the DNS servers it's pointed at. This way you can point the DNS for the website at whatever webserver IP address he wants it pointed at, and you can point the MX record at whatever e-mail server you want. This lets him have the domain for web purposes while you retain it for e-mail purposes.

    Alternately, you could also sell the domain to him, and just ask that he setup e-mail forwarding for any mailboxes you currently use so they are redirected to another of your e-mail accounts, however I would not do it this way because you wouldn't have any way to verify he isn't snooping on your e-mail.

  34. Comment removed by account_deleted · · Score: 2

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  35. Set up a new by geekoid · · Score: 1

    email system Wither do uit your self, or gmail..whatever.

    Sell the domain, and in the contract specify a set ogf email address you get for 2 years.

    Immediately begin migration process.

    I've dome this, it's not that hard as long as you take care of things as they come in.

    Once sold, you can not rely on the buyer to keep it up.

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  36. Re:Step 1, reversed by rduke15 · · Score: 5, Informative

    I'd create a new domain for yourself first

    No. Do it the other way around. I would create a new domain for the new guy taking over your site, or let him do it. Then transfer the web content to the new site, and set up a redirect on your site to the new one.

    That way, people going to the old web site end up on the correct new site, but you don't have to change or worry about anything related to your personal email addresses.

    If your web site also used email @yoursite, then YOU take care of setting up a redirect or whatever solution seems best.

    You don't want to have your personal stuff at the mercy of someone else, or to have to call him to find out what the problem is if he made some configuration mistake or whatever.

  37. Bleh. Why move yourself? by the_B0fh · · Score: 1

    Move the site/hobby to a new domain. You control original domain. set up a pointer for new domain. Done.

    Unless you are offered shitloads of money, it's a pain in the ass to move domains.

  38. Re:Step 2 by asdf7890 · · Score: 1

    Or don't transfer the name proper at all. Well, don't transfer it but monitor email on it for six months.

    That way you have no security issue at all.

    You want to be helpful to the new site runner of course, but it would be much safer to hand over copies of the site and relevant databases (sanitised where needed, of course) then point the relevant A records to his/her web server and forward things going to relevant email addresses that way too.

    You have no security issues, they get the domain to keep running the site under and can respond to mail sent to site related addresses, and the other users of the site should see minimal (if any) downtime if the transition to their web server is done well. Everyone should be happy with that.

    If the new owner wants fuller control of the domain at a later time, they can perform a managed transition to a new domain without needing to involve you (host under both old and new names for some time by advertise the new name, then start responding to requests for the old domain with redirects to the new (if you use the right redirect search engines rankings should not be lost), and finally replace responses to the old name with "please update your bookmarks" after a while longer).

    You'll want to transition completely off the old name yourself of course. Do that in the phased way others have suggested, but don't get rid of the domain, at least until you are 100% sure that absolutely nothing you care about will ever go to it my email. Keeping the domain active will only cost a few $ per year unless it is one of the novelty types, or otherwise under an expensive country-specific TLD, or registered with an unnecessarily expensive registrar.

  39. You are waaaay overthinking this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You've got to be kidding me.

    People change physical addresses all the time. It's not a big deal. Changing your email address (or phone number) is even less of a big deal.

    Start using your new email. Update business that you can think of. Don't obsess over it.

    If you happen to forget to update a business with your new email, it's generally quite easy to contact them and say "Hey! I've changed my email!" After asking you a few verification questions, they'll have you fixed up.

    If you're that worried that the person you're transferring your domain to is going to steal your email address and identity, just don't do it!

    It's not a big deal. Really.

  40. Re:Step 2 by Dan541 · · Score: 2

    Set up mail forwarding to the new domain so you always hit 'reply' from there. Never reply on the old domain.

    Also if you filter the mail into a separate folder it helps you to find contacts and services still using the old address.

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  41. Ah yes... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A fresh-ish variation on the old "if you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear" argument. :) Good to see attempts at facilitating governmental tyranny in the name of protecting "the children" is not limited to the US.

  42. Bad planning. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Your entire problem smells of bad planning. You should never have mixed your personal domain with one of your hobbies. You should have had the foresight to plan for this day.

    That being said, it's probably not a difficult a problem as you think. get a new emai address and _call_ your bank/insurance/whatever; get them change it. People tend to over estimate the amount of emails they get. Monitor your current email address for a year and whittle your inbox down to spam.

    Try to get google to show up a website with your new email address (in case someone googles your old one).

  43. fetchmail by GPLHost-Thomas · · Score: 1

    Simply start using another email address, then use fetchmail to grab the content of the old mailbox. After a year or so, all your contacts will have seen at least once the new email address. Then grab all the addresses of whoever is still writing to you to the old address over the last 6 months (it should be easy to do with a nice mail filter), and send them a mail telling that you'd like them to stop using the old email address. Later on, if you can keep the old email address that's nice, but not mandatory, because all of your usual contacts will already know and use the new one. Only people writing you less often (which probably you care less as well) will have only the old address in their address book.

  44. Learn the correct terminology by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "More generally, what terms would you like to include (or have you included) in a domain transfer?"

    Well, to start with you should learn the proper terminology. You're not attempting a domain transfer, you're going to be abandoning your domain entirely.
    A domain transfer is simply moving from one host to another (or self hosting), in which case my first piece of advice is to make sure you get your TTL entries set properly so it updates DNS quickly across all providers.

    What you're doing is giving it up entirely, and you want to be sure you're not going to still have personal information flowing to the email addresses you used to use.
    I'd start by preparing to get things put into writing, in which there is a gradual take-over of duties to the new member but you still maintain your specific email addresses. If you're worried about security you should be sure to remain in primary control of the mail functions for a good period of time. Honestly you should have been doing this at least a year ago when you realized it had been over a year since you lost interest.

    What you need to do is go through all your old emails and get your contact information updated with all the organizations you used. Checking old server logs may help identify people whose email you've long since deleted.

    It's going to be rough, and in the future I'd strongly advise that you keep your personal stuff completely apart from anything else.

  45. Just an anecdote by adolf · · Score: 1

    I sold a domain to a gentleman who wanted it badly (hi Kyle), and had been using it for much of my personal business.

    He just forwarded the email from my requested addresses over to my new email address. No big deal on his end -- any mail tosser worth its salt makes this easy.

    It was completely informal, and it gave me time to transition to a more permanent (and less contentious) home.

    Eventually, I dropped the "new" email address that Kyle was forwarding to, and haven't really missed it.

    Just sell the thing (if its worth anything), ask for your email to be forwarded (and make sure it actually is being forwarded -- not everyone is as easy to work with and so adept as Kyle) and leisurely begin changing your email address at the places where it is important to you to do so.

    It's a minor pain, but the worst that can happen is that your (presumably honest) buyer drops the ball and the forwarding never works right all, but then your Really Important Personal Stuff is still relatively easy to transfer.

    People switch ISPs all the time, and a lot of the time change their email because of it. Banks / creditors / utilities are used to it, and have systems in place to deal with it. A bit of a PITA, but, seriously: It ain't so bad.

    And the best case is that the old address(es) work fine for years to come. Your job is to not rely on that continuity, and to just get the hell off of the domain you've sold as soon as it convenes you.

    Lawyers and contracts and explicit agreement are useful for times when you don't trust someone.

    And if you don't trust your buyer, don't sell to them. Nobody's forcing you to, and a domain name and hosting is very cheap these days (especially for something that you no longer care about) compared to a lawyer or even the time discussing the matter with one.