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High Tech Companies Becoming Fools For the City

theodp writes "Drawn by amenities and talent, the WSJ reports that tech firms are saying goodbye to office parks and opting for cities. Pinterest, Zynga, Yelp, Square, Twitter, and Salesforce.com are some of the more notable tech companies who are taking up residence in San Francisco. New York City's Silicon Alley is now home to more than 500 new start-up companies like Kickstarter and Tumblr, not to mention the gigantic Google satellite in the old Port Authority Building. London, Seattle, and even downtown Las Vegas are also seeing infusions of techies. So, why are tech companies eschewing Silicon Valley and going all Fool for the City? 'Silicon Valley proper is soul-crushing suburban sprawl,' Paul Graham presciently explained in 2006. 'It has fabulous weather, which makes it significantly better than the soul-crushing sprawl of most other American cities. But a competitor that managed to avoid sprawl would have real leverage.'"

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  1. Soul Crushing? by Mikkeles · · Score: 2, Insightful

    'Silicon Valley proper is soul-crushing suburban sprawl,' ...

    And a city is "soul-crushing urban sprawl".

    Big difference!

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    1. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Even Manhattan is so small that you can walk across it in less than an hour. The length of it can be walked in 3. That's hardly "sprawl".

      The soul-crushing part rather depends on the person, but I don't know many who pine for the suburbs. People roughly fall into urban and rural preferences... I'm sure there are people who revel in suburban life, but it's just not something you run into that often (and I live in the suburbs). Most of the people I know moved to the suburbs because they have kids and want access to the good schools. Of course, I have selection bias since I myself have kids and therefore mostly meet other parents. I confess to knowing one neighbor who retired to our suburb because they were tired of Manhattan.

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    2. Re:Soul Crushing? by c0lo · · Score: 2

      'Silicon Valley proper is soul-crushing suburban sprawl,' ...

      And a city is "soul-crushing urban sprawl".

      Big difference!

      But... are there many suburban homes with basement?

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    3. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      totally agree

      I cannot imagine anything more soul crushing that just being reminded that you have no identity, no visibility, and that you are little more than just one of the teeming horde which is exactly how I feel when I am in downtown anywhere. It might help if the cities he mentioned had any soul but I grew up in San Fran and let me tell you, after hours its a ghost town, and at other times of the day it is just a constant reminder of how completely f*ck*d we are as a society. the problem is not where the company is, the problem is the company itself.

    4. Re:Soul Crushing? by dkleinsc · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Well, here's what I think they're after: City centers (assuming there is a city center, not all cities have them), tend to be areas filled with the things that make the city unique: tourist attractions, public artwork, nifty historical architecture, headquarters skyscrapers of well-known businesses, etc. Suburban office parks tend to be identical no matter where you go: big glass boxes, concrete and glass boxes, brick and glass boxes, sometimes some marble veneers on the glass boxes, mixed with a variety of chain restaurants to feed the lunch crowd.

      Another way of looking at it: If you work in a suburban office park, describe how it's different in any significant way from the one portrayed in Office Space.

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    5. Re:Soul Crushing? by superdude72 · · Score: 4, Informative

      I grew up in San Fran and let me tell you, after hours its a ghost town,

      Huh? You might want to travel outside a 3-block radius of the Transamerica building.

    6. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I suspect he grew up either outside San Francisco or in one of the residential areas (like Sunset). Certainly it is a "ghost town" compared to Manhattan, but then people don't live in tightly-packed 35-story buildings either. The Castro certainly isn't dead after hours, whenever they are :)

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    7. Re:Soul Crushing? by aurispector · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yep, the parent poster misses the point. People like cities because that's where the cool stuff is concentrated. We aren't talking about cities in terms of the boundaries of the municipality but rather the city centers where culture thrives.

      Restaurants, shops, galleries, theaters, sports venues, you name it. Who in their right mind would choose a sterile office park with a subway franchise as the only choice for lunch when you could be near world class cuisine? And be within walking distance of a cultural event after work?

      Cities aren't soul crushing, they're the geographic locus of the human soul.

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    8. Re:Soul Crushing? by superdude72 · · Score: 1

      Hey the Sunset is a happening place! 9th and Irving.

      I would expect someone who grew up in the city to figure out how to get from Lake Merced or wherever to the part of town where there is stuff going on. You don't find yourself in the ghost town part of San Francisco by accident--the locals have to work really, really hard to keep fun stuff from infiltrating.

    9. Re:Soul Crushing? by Brian_Ellenberger · · Score: 2

      Another way of looking at it: If you work in a suburban office park, describe how it's different in any significant way from the one portrayed in Office Space.

      Wait, urban business don't have cube farms? For me personally, living in a city would be like my entire life is Office Space. Work in a cube, come home to a cube of an apartment. Except that the cube of an apartment is ridiculously expensive.

    10. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its the lure of the night life. After hours in NYC is awesome. Drinks with co-workers especially the cute girl from accounting bring in the young, talented but socially awkward hackers. Then its off to Babylon on 34th street for hooka and dancing.

    11. Re:Soul Crushing? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      On weekends, sure. And there used to be clubs open late dotted around. But most of those have been gentrified and during the week even the Haight or the Castro is deadsville after the businesses close. Sure, closing time is later, but they still roll up the sidewalks.

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    12. Re:Soul Crushing? by IANAAC · · Score: 3, Interesting

      It might help if the cities he mentioned had any soul but I grew up in San Fran and let me tell you, after hours its a ghost town, and at other times of the day it is just a constant reminder of how completely f*ck*d we are as a society.

      When I was in my mid-twenties, I moved to SF as a single person. My parents, who lived in the suburban sprawl of Phoenix, AZ, were always worried about me. It was hard for them to imagine that there were vibrant communities throughout the entire city that provided safety for everyone living in the area. In fact, I don't know of a single area in SF proper that there aren't corner stores and eateries that are open past midnight.

      It was also hard for them to realize that it was relatively easy to become friends with owners and other patrons of all these corner spots, and we'd all eventually come to care for each other. If something happened to one of us, the rest of us would inquire what was happening, if there were anything any of us could do, whatever. Of course they couldn't understand that. Suburbs just don't offer that.

      If anything is a ghost town, it's suburban America. But I can assure you, such a compact, diverse city as SF is hardly a ghost town. Growing up in SF, surely you realize that you never had to travel many blocks to find plenty of human activity. If not, you were most likely a shut-in.

    13. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Forgive my ignorance :) My time in San Francisco is almost entirely as a visitor (my then-girlfriend lived there for 4 years). I never witnessed any "ghost town", except up in the hills of Sunset. But they are equally deserted during the day.

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    14. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      But "ghost town" compared to what? The Valley?

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    15. Re:Soul Crushing? by DragonTHC · · Score: 1

      simple. When the VC dollars dry up, at least cities offer hope to newly out of work nerds.
      Office parks in suburban satellites tend to only offer retail and food service opportunities when the large companies crawl out.

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    16. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Twenty-year resident, right here and yeah; it shutters after 0300 for sure. Sure, there's Sparky's, some stuff in the mission (RIP Big Heart City), but just your options narrow incredibly to things that involve house music, and I'm just not that into it. It's not much better than Portland in that regard. People who think it's a city with it's big-boy pants on have simply never been to Manhattan. Whole. Other. Level.

      And to the trans-america building comment... yeaaah; nobody lives in the financial district, homie.

    17. Re:Soul Crushing? by philipmather · · Score: 1

      Exactly, that describes London to a tee.

      "Uban sprawl" - Since about the 17th Century (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Fire_of_London#London_in_the_1660s)
      Painfully expensive - Check
      Traffic congestion - Check
      Smelly - Check
      Noisy - Check
      "soul-crushing" - Can be

      Restaurants, shops, galleries, theatres, sports venues - some of the best in the world.
      Boring - Nope

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    18. Re:Soul Crushing? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      But "ghost town" compared to what? The Valley?

      Cities that never sleep. I've never been to any of those, but I'm led to believe there's a number of them throughout the world. SF is not one of those; it definitely has a bedtime that only* coffee addicts, eternal partiers, street sweepers, car thieves and crackheads habitually ignore.

      * (Statistically)

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    19. Re:Soul Crushing? by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 1

      > And a city is "soul-crushing urban sprawl".

      Soul-crushing urban lack of sprawl.

      Cities are nice places to go to to do stuff, but I'll take a house in the suburbs any day and drive down there on a highway. It's the way God intended it to be.

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    20. Re:Soul Crushing? by NJRoadfan · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It really depends on the suburb. The older ones tend to be more walkable and have things going on (along with a real downtown area). The stereotypical and HOA infested new ones are boring and sterile and require a car to get anywhere... including out of the subdivision.

    21. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with places like Manhatten is that they have both positive and negative influences that reach far beyond the city limits. The entire concept of Manhatten is a nightmare. It is hard to imagine a worse environemnt for people to live in.It represents the total slaughter of nature and an exporter of garbage oand sewage beyond imagination.
                              For the computer industry to have good workers that are able to produce quality product a much better environment is called for. Health and work output are linked. In Manhatten just traveling to and from work is stressful and dangerous. I would far rather see skilled workers locating in N.Carolina or many areas in Virginia where they can take a walk without choking on pollution and have very little chance of being attacked by deranged citizens.

    22. Re:Soul Crushing? by Jerrry · · Score: 1

      Well, here's what I think they're after: City centers (assuming there is a city center, not all cities have them), tend to be areas filled with the things that make the city unique: tourist attractions, public artwork, nifty historical architecture, headquarters skyscrapers of well-known businesses, etc.

      Yes, but they're also full of bums/beggars, filth, graffiti/grime coated buildings and streets, noise (constant car horns and sirens), congestion, bad smells, crowds, long waits, and many other reasons why many people prefer to live in suburbs.

    23. Re:Soul Crushing? by mjwalshe · · Score: 1

      Quite right I work near Holbourn (London UK) and have the west end British museum and the globe on the south back a short walk away.

    24. Re:Soul Crushing? by TheGratefulNet · · Score: 1

      Cities aren't soul crushing, they're the geographic locus of the human soul.

      used to be. but that's old-people thinking. sorry...

      I like my car. I like its quiet time, or the music I can play. I like being able to get up and go where I want and not be a slave to public trans. I hate being stuck on foot or bike in bad weather. I hate the noise (!!) in the city and the pollution and the filth.

      I can drive to any cuisine I want in the bay area and it won't take me talk my lunch break, either. parking is possible and sometimes even pleasant.

      all the the 'bad old suburbs'.

      is downtown palo alto a city? I don't think so. parking is sometimes tight but not usually that bad and you can stroll around and have the 'city experience' without the down-side.

      I will never want to live inside a city. having access to one is a must; but living in the quieter side of the rat-race is also a must-have for me. country-side is too far of a drive and city-side is nothing I want; so burbs is what's left. its not perfect but its far preferable to those who aren't in their 20's (and I'm not).

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    25. Re:Soul Crushing? by morari · · Score: 3, Informative

      Restaurants, shops, galleries, theaters, sports venues, you name it.

      Crime, over population, pollution, noise, traffic congestion, rats and roaches, stupid regulations that limit personal freedoms, high cost of living, etc, etc, etc...
      Cities are about as soul crushing as you can get.

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    26. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I remember coming back to California from living in Nicaragua for a year and I was appauled. I was passing through San Francisco to go to an embassy and at the gas station a young chick was went full histerical because the gas pump wasn't working properly. Those tattered and frayed edges just didn't exist down there.

    27. Re:Soul Crushing? by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Everyone is ignoring the insane cost of cities (especially Manhattan). I pay less monthly in mortgage now for a huge house in Austin than i would have paid for a small 2 bedroom in Manhattan. Forcing people to move in to the cities is effectively cutting their income or quality of life. They should be resisting...

      Cities were fun when I was 20. It's just insanely impractical now. I prefer to be "near" one, where "near" means I can visit on the weekends with some investment, but I'd rather live and work where I'm isolated from the costs, crowds, and crime.

    28. Re:Soul Crushing? by f16c · · Score: 1

      Agreed. Daughter Number One moved to just outside NYC. She works there from time to time and revels in both the cultural and artistic access that that city allows. She also learned how to drive in the big city and has the dents in her car to prove it. It isn't for the faint-of-heart. Mostly she parks just inside the borders at a large parking garage and hoofs it to the closest subway station. Navigation in the city requires a mental map of the subway that still leaves me perplexed but is a requirement to economical and efficient travel there.

      As far as companies relocating to cities in general is concerned: It sort of depends. I live close to Baltimore. Baltimore is a mess. Companies seem to be relocating away from here. This is historically a heavy manufacturing town. The infrastructure required for any sort of high tech manufacturing seems to be lacking because the only companies that have moved here were Biotech outfits that don't seem to last long before running through their start-up cash and going out of business. The only chip foundries here are the kind used for defense outfits that are pretty close to obsolete. We are not likely to get a Google or similar here any time soon as the big money access is elsewhere. DC is right down the road and that means most companies want to be in either northern VA or in the DC suburbs like Bethesda or Germantown. There are lots of Banks, law firms and lobby firms in DC but very little manufacturing that I know of.

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    29. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Again this is bullshit. I work here in the SF bay area and we had this same article a few weeks ago, so somebody must have paid geeknet again to run this on slashdot. My answer to this is just what I posted before and what I am also happy to tell every recruiter:

      I am not interested in working in San Francisco.

      P.S Glad I didn't go with one of these companies that are on the list, the one that seats people like in a chinese internet cafe you know who you guys are and this is why I didnt join.

    30. Re:Soul Crushing? by Jawnn · · Score: 1

      'Silicon Valley proper is soul-crushing suburban sprawl,' ...

      And a city is "soul-crushing urban sprawl".

      Big difference!

      Big difference yes, but "sprawl" is the antithesis of the dense urban high-rise community. Phoenix, Houston, Colorado Springs, and of course the Silicon Vallery are just a few places that come to mind when community "leaders" reject "restrictive" ideas like community planning. The result is miles and miles of surface streets as the only way to get from place to place, and those places are strip malls and tract homes, interspersed with ugly apartment complexes. Miles and miles and miles... and miles of them. I've lived in both and between the two, I'll take the city, hands down. Urban life is not for everyone, certainly not for me, but it beats all hell out of living in the middle of hundreds of square miles of ticky-tac houses and strip malls.

    31. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      So I live and work here in silicon valley. Let me tell you why: because I am sure as hell not moving to SF and I am not going to put up with a commute from hell either. So not interested. SFis cramped, super expensive and what if they dont provide parking? I am not going to get on a crowded bart train every morning and inhale your farts. I have a 20 min commute right now and I hit Whole Foods for lunch every day, you're offering me a 90 minute commute and shitty processed restaurant food for lunch.

    32. Re:Soul Crushing? by Guido+von+Guido+II · · Score: 2

      Cities aren't soul crushing, they're the geographic locus of the human soul.

      used to be. but that's old-people thinking. sorry...

      I hate to break it to you, but a preference for the burbs is old-people thinking.

    33. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      As a disclaimer, I agree with you entirely. The suburbs are soul-crushing and the worst. Either live in the city or complete country. And the joy of being able to live and therefore have a 10-15 minute walk to work is the most amazing thing in the world. I come from a suburb in NJ and it's a soul-crushing commute. 45 minutes MINIMUM to any job in nearby NJ, or MINIMUM 1.5 hours *each way* (3 total) for the city. Nevermind the fact that that 1.5 hours includes a drive to the train station with NO parking and 3 trains.

      Now, I do have to call you out though on a few things. First off, NYC is a dump. If you commute, it's not as bad. But if you live there, you'll get real tired of living in honest-to-goodness dirt and filth. Even in really nice buildings, it's just completely dirty. And of course you know, 1 bedrooms start at $3,200/mo. I doubt those companies WSJ mentions pay the salary that equals that. So good luck thinking you'll get to live in Manhattan and work at a tech company. You'll be relegated to living in the Bronx or Queens and again you'll get the commute.

      Lastly, NYC can NOT be traversed in the time u mention. Hell, I had a co-worker long time ago who lived in the Village and had a 45 minute commute (using a quick 1 train ride) to Wall St. So unless you live right next to work, you are "commuting" in Manhattan as well.

    34. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      So true. I live right by Manhattan. One bedroom's start at $3,200/mo. But unless you're pulling $120k+, you're stuck with the typical $1,800/mo studio. So you're stuck, in a box. I'd love to work and live in the city. But I can't justify not only paying that much, but paying that much and living in a dorm room.

    35. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In fact, I don't know of a single area in SF proper that there aren't corner stores and eateries that are open past midnight.

      Come to Dogpatch/Potrero Hill. The only things open past ten are four bars, none of which serve proper food. That said, it's the most "real" neighborhood I've ever lived in, in that most of the residents (condo yuppies excepted) and shopkeepers know each other by name.

    36. Re:Soul Crushing? by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

      Lastly, NYC can NOT be traversed in the time u mention. Hell, I had a co-worker long time ago who lived in the Village and had a 45 minute commute (using a quick 1 train ride) to Wall St. So unless you live right next to work, you are "commuting" in Manhattan as well.

      Dude, was your co-worker commuting on horse-and-carriage? You can *walk* from both the East Village and West Village to Wall St. in less than 45 minutes. I would regularly travel from the top of the Upper West Side down to the East Village and that would take only 45 minutes.

      And of course you know, 1 bedrooms start at $3,200/mo

      In a luxury apartment building (i.e. gym, door and laundry service, concierge, rooftop garden), yes, that's about right. However in places like the East Village - which is considered quite expensive in Manhattan standards - most decent one-bedroom places go for around $2200 and you can pick up a two-bedroom for $2500.

    37. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      Lastly, NYC can NOT be traversed in the time u mention. Hell, I had a co-worker long time ago who lived in the Village and had a 45 minute commute (using a quick 1 train ride) to Wall St. So unless you live right next to work, you are "commuting" in Manhattan as well.

      Dude, was your co-worker commuting on horse-and-carriage? You can *walk* from both the East Village and West Village to Wall St. in less than 45 minutes. I would regularly travel from the top of the Upper West Side down to the East Village and that would take only 45 minutes.

      Haha, maybe. :) I'm just going by what she told me. 45 minutes, with a train ride. Don't forget Wall St is pretty big. Walking 45 min to the beginning of Wall *area* by the Seaport *maybe*. But I gotta call you out on walking from the Upper West to the East village. No way, train or walk, did you make it in 45 minutes.

      And of course you know, 1 bedrooms start at $3,200/mo

      In a luxury apartment building (i.e. gym, door and laundry service, concierge, rooftop garden), yes, that's about right. However in places like the East Village - which is considered quite expensive in Manhattan standards - most decent one-bedroom places go for around $2200 and you can pick up a two-bedroom for $2500.

      I'm sure you can find places that cheap, but I doubt that they're no less than super-rare. All my friends live in the city for years, and I've never even heard of rent that cheap unless it was for a shitty walk-up studio. And it's the East Village. Who wants to live there? It's not close to anything. Part of why people live in NYC to live within walking distance to work. It would take 45 minute commute to get anywhere from the E. Village. And no, it's $3,200 for a place with no amenities like you mentioned. And a walk-up. And no doorman. I don't know how you get the places you do, but to all reading this, let me assure you it's not the norm.

    38. Re:Soul Crushing? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Depends on the city. I lived in Dallas, about 10 miles north of the city center, still well within the city limits. I always thought it was suburbia. My house was on a 1/2 acre lot. I could walk the 100 yards to the nearest shopping center. The schools (elementary, middle and high) were all within one mile of home. But 10 miles away was downtown Dallas. Though not world class in culture, it still had art and events. For a while, I was going to Deep Ellum weekly for the local culture. It wasn't soul crushing.

      I took a business trip to NYC once. I say a guy on the subway. It was about 7 p.m. (late commute, I work longer hours on trips). He was in a suit that looked like it was nice in the 1960s (and no, it didn't look tie dyed or anything, just old, really old). He had an expression on his face like he was going home to kill himself. His soul was long since gone. That's what I think of for the city. Walk NYC. Look up (not up at the buildings, but at the people). They stare down, bored, tired, or soulless.

      But that's NYC. All the cities have a different feel.

    39. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I grew up near 16th and Mission, it was never a "ghost town" as I recall. There's Valencia Garden which has something going on every night. Besides the prostitute and the drug dealers, there are bunch of artist and activities that hang out at coffee shops and pizza joints. The only boring place are the "suburban" part of the city, San Francisco was an affordable place for interesting people before all dotcom money.

    40. Re:Soul Crushing? by Randle_Revar · · Score: 1

      Yep, there is a strong movement of young people to the urban areas, and even a trend of not buying cars, which does not seem to be entirely based on a crap economy.

    41. Re:Soul Crushing? by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

      Lastly, NYC can NOT be traversed in the time u mention. Hell, I had a co-worker long time ago who lived in the Village and had a 45 minute commute (using a quick 1 train ride) to Wall St. So unless you live right next to work, you are "commuting" in Manhattan as well.

      Dude, was your co-worker commuting on horse-and-carriage? You can *walk* from both the East Village and West Village to Wall St. in less than 45 minutes. I would regularly travel from the top of the Upper West Side down to the East Village and that would take only 45 minutes.

      Haha, maybe. :) I'm just going by what she told me. 45 minutes, with a train ride. Don't forget Wall St is pretty big. Walking 45 min to the beginning of Wall *area* by the Seaport *maybe*. But I gotta call you out on walking from the Upper West to the East village. No way, train or walk, did you make it in 45 minutes.

      When I said I traveled from the Upper West Side to the East Village, I meant by train. I did this at least twice a week for a year. I lived on 103rd and Broadway (until last month) - just take the 1 to 96th st., hop on the 2/3 (express) to 14th st then transfer to the L to get to 1st avenue in the East Village. My gf lived on 11th and 1st and my trip never took longer than 45 mins, often it would be quicker if I was lucky with the trains.

      And of course you know, 1 bedrooms start at $3,200/mo

      In a luxury apartment building (i.e. gym, door and laundry service, concierge, rooftop garden), yes, that's about right. However in places like the East Village - which is considered quite expensive in Manhattan standards - most decent one-bedroom places go for around $2200 and you can pick up a two-bedroom for $2500.

      I'm sure you can find places that cheap, but I doubt that they're no less than super-rare. All my friends live in the city for years, and I've never even heard of rent that cheap unless it was for a shitty walk-up studio. And it's the East Village. Who wants to live there? It's not close to anything. Part of why people live in NYC to live within walking distance to work. It would take 45 minute commute to get anywhere from the E. Village. And no, it's $3,200 for a place with no amenities like you mentioned. And a walk-up. And no doorman. I don't know how you get the places you do, but to all reading this, let me assure you it's not the norm.

      Well as a personal anecdote, I am currently living in a luxury apartment building (with gym, pool, concierge, doorman, laundry service and rooftop garden) on the Upper East Side and I am paying $3225 split between my girlfriend and I for a 1-br on the 30th floor with a view of central park. When searching for this place last month we saw at least 10 similar apartments in the same price range.

      Also, the East Village is no-longer the shithole it was in the 80's - sure it has NYU kids but it also has a bounty of small local shops and restaurants, and also a great sense of community, that really can't be found elsewhere in the city (apart from maybe the West Village).

    42. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      Well as a personal anecdote, I am currently living in a luxury apartment building (with gym, pool, concierge, doorman, laundry service and rooftop garden) on the Upper East Side and I am paying $3225 split between my girlfriend and I for a 1-br on the 30th floor with a view of central park. When searching for this place last month we saw at least 10 similar apartments in the same price range.

      Look, please don't take offense to this. I'm not trying to be mean. But there is no way that exists. You're telling me you live in Central Park East and you're only paying $3225 for a 1 bedroom? I'd want to see the lease documents on that. That's quite frankly even more rare than seeing a unicorn. And to see 10 of them? Hogwash. And the excuse about the economy can't be used. NYC is the only one that was exempt on the housing market values.

      Also, the East Village is no-longer the shithole it was in the 80's - sure it has NYU kids but it also has a bounty of small local shops and restaurants, and also a great sense of community, that really can't be found elsewhere in the city (apart from maybe the West Village).

      That's very true. It's actually a nice, fun area. Though for me it kinda stinks. No interest in dating a 18 year old who is out drinking until 4 am at the local lounge every night. But yes it does have character. But the point still stands. If you're actually living and *working* in the city (students with mommy and daddy paying the rent don't count), no one wants to live in the E. village because it negates any conveniences living and working in the city offers.

    43. Re:Soul Crushing? by mirability · · Score: 2

      I agree. I left NYC because I was sick of paying most of my paycheck to share a shitty apartment with roommates and commute an hour each way to work. It was soul-crushing. I live in Chicago now and I like it much much better. I would like to see more tech activity in small college towns that already have some great urban amenities like concerts, great food culture, art, sports, etc. I see that a bit in Madison here. I've heard good things about Austin as well.

    44. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      First off, NYC is a dump.

      If I were Emperor, the first thing I would do is have the dogs in NYC killed. But I digress...

      They say that you know you are from Philly when you find yourself marveling at how clean NYC is... well, I lived in Philly for 12 years before moving to NYC :)

      We moved from NYC for precisely the reason you describe. Pay was not so much higher than Philly, but the cost of living was astounding. Our Manhattan 2-bedroom was about $3500... that's a mortgage plus taxes and insurance in a ritzy Philly suburban 4-bedroom house.

      I'll call you out on the walk. I used to cross the island on foot regularly (and often beat the cross-town buses); it's 45 minutes river-to-river. But yes, it's amazing how it can take 45 minutes to go two miles by subway. In my case it was a 15-minute walk to the subway. The subway itself stops every half-mile and only does about 20-30 MPH. I could get somewhere big like Union Square in half an hour from my place on the Upper East Side, but in general I counted on things taking 45 minutes. Of course, at 10AM on a Sunday you could take a cab all the way up 1st Avenue in less than 10 minutes, but that was about the only time :)

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    45. Re:Soul Crushing? by jythie · · Score: 1

      Well, 'right mind' might be the key word. It is a question of what one values, and we live in a society that values extroverted activities.. so people who prefer quieter places and dislike the dense populations of cities are considered 'not in their right mind'. I live right next to a major city and have to go in for work... there is nothing it can offer that offsets the annoyance of dealing with so many people, thus I actually really miss working in an office park.

    46. Re:Soul Crushing? by jythie · · Score: 1

      And one nasty surprise these companies will discover is, over time, if they want people to work in their city offices they have to pay a lot more. One of the reasons so many companies moved to the burbs was the lower cost of living (and lower cost of renting corperate space).

      We see this every now and then.. a group of companies rides high on a wave of investment and move into the city because they can afford to waste the money....

    47. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      I laughed out loud when I read your post. Amen to that. I used to go to Philly a lot. You are so right. It's hard to believe, but Philly is so damn dirty it really does make NYC look clean. And yea, you can live in Center City (the Park Ave of Philly) in a 1 bedroom for 800/mo LESS than a dumpy area studio. Philly rocks. Even though it's so dirty, I'm surprised u left. Short of the dirt, I think it's a superior city.

      Well maybe the walk. But when you're going to work, do u want to arrive looking like u just worked out from a 45 minute walk? Though then again, after taking the subway, with how hot it is down there and basically everyone being homeless rubbing up again you, it ain't that bad!

    48. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 3, Informative

      It represents the total slaughter of nature and an exporter of garbage oand sewage beyond imagination.

      Environmentally, Manhattanites are far gentler per-capita then their suburban brethren. Most don't have cars, heating and cooling is more efficient, and they occupy a lot less space.

      Traveling to and from work in Manhattan is pretty easy - you walk (!!!) about 10-15 minutes to a subway stop, take the (admittedly crowded) train for a few stops, then walk (!!!) to work. The number of obese people I saw in Manhattan pales in comparison to my experience in the suburbs. I think your risk of cancer is higher in Manhattan, but people in general seem pretty healthy. New York City is one of, if not the, safest large city in the US. Manhattan is particularly safe.

      Also, the single woman to single man ratio in Manhattan is like 60:40... that ought to be good for nerd health!

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    49. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Agreed. Older suburbs were often developed before the freeway system by the railroad companies. You get older, less efficient, and harder to maintain houses but in exchange a much more walkable, livable community.

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    50. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I can attest to NYC never sleeping. I lived in the mostly-residential Upper East Side, and would sometimes stay out until 4AM on a weeknight without having any trouble finding places that are open. Once my wife and I tried to get dessert at Serendipity at 10:30 PM on a Tuesday and the wait was more than 1 hour... we, um, reconsidered. San Francisco is sleepy compared to NYC. Though once late-night I did encounter a homeless guy shouting "MacArthur was right! MacArthur was right! There is no difference between the 38th parallel and the 37th!"

      I'm in Philly now, which is pretty fun but clears out after the bars are forced to close at 2AM.

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    51. Re:Soul Crushing? by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

      Well as a personal anecdote, I am currently living in a luxury apartment building (with gym, pool, concierge, doorman, laundry service and rooftop garden) on the Upper East Side and I am paying $3225 split between my girlfriend and I for a 1-br on the 30th floor with a view of central park. When searching for this place last month we saw at least 10 similar apartments in the same price range.

      Look, please don't take offense to this. I'm not trying to be mean. But there is no way that exists. You're telling me you live in Central Park East and you're only paying $3225 for a 1 bedroom? I'd want to see the lease documents on that. That's quite frankly even more rare than seeing a unicorn. And to see 10 of them? Hogwash. And the excuse about the economy can't be used. NYC is the only one that was exempt on the housing market values.

      I have no reason to lie. It's not on Central Park, its on 96th and Lexington, but as we are on the 30th floor we see over the park - lovely sunsets too. Here is a website with the availabilities in our building: The Monterey, there are plenty on there to choose from around $3200. If you want to come live in the building please email us as we get a $1000 bonus for enticing new tenants.

      Also, the East Village is no-longer the shithole it was in the 80's - sure it has NYU kids but it also has a bounty of small local shops and restaurants, and also a great sense of community, that really can't be found elsewhere in the city (apart from maybe the West Village).

      That's very true. It's actually a nice, fun area. Though for me it kinda stinks. No interest in dating a 18 year old who is out drinking until 4 am at the local lounge every night. But yes it does have character. But the point still stands. If you're actually living and *working* in the city (students with mommy and daddy paying the rent don't count), no one wants to live in the E. village because it negates any conveniences living and working in the city offers.

      You seem fixated on the idea that the East Village is inconvenient for traveling in the city, which I have never found to be the case. As far as I can tell, Midtown is the only place in the city that would satisfy your 'on-the-doorstep-of-everything' criteria, in which case fair enough, I hope you like noise and elbowing through flocks of tourists in order to get out of your building. The East Village is far more trendy and interesting, and has much better bars and restaurants, i.e. not stupidly expensive tourist traps.

    52. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Even though it's so dirty, I'm surprised u left. Short of the dirt, I think it's a superior city.

      I'm back :)

      with how hot it is down there and basically everyone being homeless rubbing up again you, it ain't that bad!

      The newer cars have AC that works, so things have improved a bit. Some of the stations are miserably hot - I think the 51st St station under the Citibank building on Lexington (the E and M) might be a portal to hell. Fortunately, at rush hour the trains usually come at nearly 1 minute intervals.

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    53. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The urban environment is not merely soul-crushing, it is also mind-crushing. It really is a dumb place for high-tech. Which is why so much of high-tech over time has been developed in the suburbs.

      From an article about a recent study:

      NEW YORK (AP) — This may come as no surprise to residents of New York City and other big urban centers: Living there can be bad for your mental health.

      Now researchers have found a possible reason why. Imaging scans show that in city dwellers or people who grew up in urban areas, certain areas of the brain react more vigorously to stress. That may help explain how city life can boost the risks of schizophrenia and other mental disorders, researchers said.

      Previous research has found that growing up in a big city raises the risk of schizophrenia. And there's some evidence that city dwellers are at heightened risk for mood and anxiety disorders, although the evidence is mixed. ...

      The study is certainly not conclusive, but it is is consistent with a large body of existing research (and common sense) that does indicate that city life is quite stressful on the mind and body. Just looking at exposure to pollution alone, the big city is a big loser for cutting down on one's risk of cancer and many other serious sicknesses. And then we have exposure to disease, especially foreign diseases that one's body has weaker defenses against. Another strike against the big city.

      It would seem to me that the only thing drawing high tech companies to big cities is big office spaces at low rents. And then coming up with how to spin this as a good thing. There is little good about a big city. Which is why for hundreds of years, a life in the suburbs has been the dream that so many have strived for.

    54. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      that's because SF hasn't hit the right density yet
      it happens a lot and the required density can vary a lot depending on the mix of residential / commercial properties

      take country areas for example where everyone knows everyone in a 100mile radius
      it's sometimes not as friendly, but that can be more due to distance than anything.

      in suburban sprawls it's similar, except you start forming "factions" because trying to know everyone gets difficult
      as a result, not everyone talks to everyone so there's an uneasy "are they in my circle of people?" thing
      in the suburbs though the distances between people are smaller so it's easier to keep in touch

      same thing happens at the city level where at low densities, it easier to be friendly with people
      you still have the whole "they are not in my circle of people" thing, but it's easier to ignore due to the number of factions
      at which point you sort of become "blind" to how much is really going on in comparison to your world
      distance between people are again smaller, but all it really means is you're focusing your circle to an area

      once you start scaling up the density though, you'll realise just how small your circles are in comparison to the whole
      and how much much or little is going on around you
      this is applies for country, suburban and city areas

    55. Re:Soul Crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      I laughed so hard I almost was crying. You are right. I've been in that station. It truly is the portal to hell. Best description of it I've ever heard.

    56. Re:Soul Crushing? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Uh, I for one prefer the suburbs. I don't want to live in the middle of nowhere - I want to be able to drive less than 10 minutes to do shopping/etc. I don't want to have to park on the street when I get back home, and fight over might parking spot when it snows. I can easily drive to any number of places that serve good food, whether for lunch or whatever. I can also turn up the volume on my TV and not bother the neighbors, and likewise have quiet when I go to sleep.

      Oh, and I pay way less in taxes.

      Why would I want to live in some city, with nightmarish traffic? Most don't have great public transit in the US either - a few are decent, but not most. You end up needing to drive for a lot of stuff, and that is a pain in the city.

      I don't get what it is that I'm supposed to be missing. I sleep at night - I don't hang out in clubs or whatever.

    57. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's great that Big Tech is coming to London. About time The City started to see some real competition for talent. There's a lot of hipster-style companies around the Silicon Roundabout but for 'harder' dev stuff there's only really been Google recently unless you want to move out to the Cambridgeshire countryside. Now we're seeing Skype and Amazon scaling up and I'm hoping that's going to start the ball rolling on forming a serious software engineering community in what I would argue is the greatest city in the world. NY's awesome and fast, SF is beautiful and hip but London has all that plus an amazing backstory, world-class museums, galleries, theatre, fashion, universities. And pubs. Never forget the pubs.

    58. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I just want to know what suburb you live in with good food! :) Mine has all of the fast food places, an Applebees, a Chiles, an Outback, a couple of pretend Mexican places (Baja Fresh, Qdoba, Chipotle), a bunch of terrible Chinese, and some mediocre pizza places. Shockingly, no Fridays. The one bright spot is this fantastic Korean crispy chicken wing place, but it is technically inside Philly city limits... We generally hop on the train and go to Philly for our food.

      But food is subjective. One thing that is missing for me in the suburbs is diversity. My suburb is old and relatively diverse, but I like the flavor of the city - exposing my kids not just to blacks and whites, but the whole range of cultures - even crazy people, homeless, etc. I'd like them to be exposed to people of different economic classes so they aren't like some of my friends who grew up in a rich white suburb and seem awkward around people not like them.

      The car is a mixed bag. In general, I hate driving around. I like having it for trips, but it's an expensive luxury. When we were in NYC we had a Zip car membership and spent nowhere near what we currently spend on insurance for two cars, let alone the cost of the cars themselves plus upkeep and gas. I have a very easy commute right now, so the driving isn't too much of a burden - but in the past I've been known to rent an apartment right next to my office park to avoid commuting.

      It was easy to meet new friends in the city. This isn't important if you are living near where you grew up, but if you are new to an area, a city is much more fertile ground for meeting new friends than the suburbs where everyone is already doing their own thing.

      The other thing I miss is that people used to visit us. Yeah, they were just using us for the free NYC crash pad, but I liked having guests all the time. We get occasional guests now, but not like when we were in the city.

      But if you are happy, don't let anyone talk you out of it. Like I said, my neighbors retired to the suburbs from NYC :)

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    59. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I made the mistake when I was new to NYC of transferring from the 6 to the E at that station on my way to a job interview in a full wool suit. I was a mess when I showed up. I started transferring to the 7 a stop lower after that :)

      The worst thing I ever did at the 51st St station was absentmindedly get on a completely empty train car. Well, it wasn't completely empty - there was a homeless guy taking a dump on the seat. I only get on crowded cars now...

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    60. Re:Soul Crushing? by G-Man · · Score: 2

      Having lived in both the Boston area (Cambridge/Somerville) and Albuquerque (considered more of a 'sprawl' city), I can say that Boston was better if you are a *consumer* of culture. Obviously, ABQ cannot hold a candle to Boston for museums, symphony, cuisine, etc.

      However, I noticed when I moved to ABQ that a much greater percentage of people I met were *producers* of culture - people in dance/theater troupes, people in bands, folks who restored cars, someone who played amateur football - and this was working at a similar DoD-oriented facility to the one I had worked at in Boston. The folks in ABQ actually had a little time/money left over at the end of the day to pursue hobbies.

      Was it high art? No, but what is more 'enriching', someone listening to a symphony or someone who composes a song themselves? I ended up getting a Masters in Architecture, which would have been utterly impossible in the Boston area - I was so maxed out paying the mortgage and other expenses I could never have afforded to take the time off.

    61. Re:Soul Crushing? by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      If anything is a ghost town, it's suburban America. But I can assure you, such a compact, diverse city as SF is hardly a ghost town. Growing up in SF, surely you realize that you never had to travel many blocks to find plenty of human activity.

      Yeah, but most of us aren't gay.

      Irrelevant unless you give a shit about what people do with their private lives.

    62. Re:Soul Crushing? by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      I remember coming back to California from living in Nicaragua for a year and I was appauled. I was passing through San Francisco to go to an embassy and at the gas station a young chick was went full histerical because the gas pump wasn't working properly. Those tattered and frayed edges just didn't exist down there.

      I hear you. I'm from Nicaragua, and indeed, I had the same culture shock. Lots of flaky people going bat-shit for the most inane, inconsequential shit. We don't see that often in Nicaragua, but that's not because we have some social pluses that we do not have here in the US, though.

      In our countries, people don't go batshit crazy with stupid, inane things when there is real shit going on (like, living day to day wondering if you will have food the next day.) Or, until recently, just two decades ago, we simply killed each other in the name of ideology (another stupid, inane and truly inconsequential thing if we really reflect on that.) Unless such a person is an upper-classer, Darwin just take care of that shit in our society.

      Not sure if that is something to be praised or condemned, though. We were a very fucking violent society, one stone throw away from rampant honor killing and crap like that. We can still be even though our society has made a lot of civic progress in the last two decades.

      Sometimes when I see people going batshit crazy with their damned sense of entitlement because some stupid, universally inconsequential inconvenience, I sometimes feel an urge to beat them up with a crowbar telling them "you little shit, whole families in other parts of the world feed of garbage cans, and you bitch because you are waiting 2 extra minutes in the waiting line???".

      BUT life goes one, and good people and stupid, self-centered people go about their lives. And if there is a God, the stupid shit they do, it's something between them and their maker within the civic institutions of a nation of laws. And I will take that, and all the whinny self-entitled bitches over seeing children picking up rotten tomatoes for food, seeing people harassed or killed for having a different political inclination, or a Sandinista dictator becoming president with 36% of the vote anytime of any day from today to the day I die.

    63. Re:Soul Crushing? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Ironically I'm not far from you - Montgomeryville area. Sure, have all those chains, and they aren't actually that bad. However, there are also some gems. If you like sushi there is Minado in East Norriton (has declined a little, but is still really good and wonderful to bring anybody not into sushi since the buffet offers opportunities to try it but with hot food as a backup), and Ooka in Montgomeryville. There are some small gems in the surrounding suburbs - you can usually find them on Google local and such (one tip is Maize in Perkasie - worth a drive actually, but have reservations as it is REALLY small, and plan on spending 2-3 hours as it is just the owner and his assistant doing all the cooking - VERY fine food though and if they have the raw honey with the rolls be sure to try it). I tend to be more into taste than decor and service, so I don't need a full five-star experience. Not sure which side of the city you're on - if you're down in Delaware county I can't vouch so much for what is around there. Fridays are fairly ubiquitous on the north side of the city so I suspect that is where you're at.

    64. Re:Soul Crushing? by russotto · · Score: 1

      I just want to know what suburb you live in with good food! :) Mine has all of the fast food places, an Applebees, a Chiles, an Outback, a couple of pretend Mexican places (Baja Fresh, Qdoba, Chipotle), a bunch of terrible Chinese, and some mediocre pizza places. Shockingly, no Fridays. The one bright spot is this fantastic Korean crispy chicken wing place, but it is technically inside Philly city limits... We generally hop on the train and go to Philly for our food.

      In your area, try Conshohocken. Several Italian, Stonewell (Korean, might technically be in Plymouth Meeting), Coyote Crossing (real Mexican as good as any in the city). Used to be good Chinese in King of Prussia but the place I knew is gone.

      But as for soul crushing... the suburbs might be soul crushing by accident, a mere side-effect of their design (or not). But take a look at the picture of 111 Eighth Avenue (the Google satellite office linked in the summary). That is a massive edifice designed to crush souls on an industrial scale. You can just imagine the souls entering beneath the two dark awnings on the 8th avenue side, and a diabolical system of ramps and conveyors bringing them through the machinery along the length of the building, only to be discharged as soul-paste onto 9th avenue.

      (no, I'm kidding, of course. The dark awnings, helipad, and soul-crushing machinery were removed some time ago. The latter was relocated to Goldman Sachs's offices in Exchange Place, NJ, where there has been very little need for them)

    65. Re:Soul Crushing? by Stiletto · · Score: 1

      We know you didn't grow up there, because you're calling it "San Fran". :-)

    66. Re:Soul Crushing? by Stiletto · · Score: 1

      So, you're stupid and self-centered for complaining about something if somewhere, there's someone who is worse off than you? So there's literally one person on the planet allowed to complain.

    67. Re:Soul Crushing? by EE101 · · Score: 0

      I'm in Philly too. What areas/places do you like for night life?

    68. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The worst perpetrators are the sirens.

      Ambulances create the worst noise pollution problems in the city.

    69. Re:Soul Crushing? by Moses48 · · Score: 1

      To someone that loves nature, urban areas very well can be soul crushing. His point was just that we each have different things that feed our souls.

      I grew up in the suburbs and lived in a big city for years. Each has it's benefits, but the whole point of a suburb is that you are still within distance of all the theaters, shops, restaurants, etc. There are only a few reasons I won't live downtown anymore:
      Fenced backyard with large house for kids to play in. (Not feasible on my salary downtown)
      Safe Neighborhood. (again, there are some rich neighborhoods downtown with little to no crime, but i'm not able to live there)

      Give me those two things and I'd move back downtown in a heartbeat. But as it is I get all the benefits of living downtown (it's only 20 mins away) without giving up a yard and safety.

    70. Re:Soul Crushing? by dintech · · Score: 1

      Cities aren't soul crushing, they're the geographic locus of the human soul.

      Crime, over population, pollution, noise, traffic congestion, rats and roaches, stupid regulations that limit personal freedoms, high cost of living, etc, etc, etc...
      Cities are about as soul crushing as you can get.

      Who said the human soul was exclusively pristine and virtuous?

    71. Re:Soul Crushing? by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      So, you're stupid and self-centered for complaining about something if somewhere, there's someone who is worse off than you? So there's literally one person on the planet allowed to complain.

      There is complaining ("excuse me, you over charged me") and there is going bat-shit, silence-of-the-lambs fucking crazy ("you stupid bitch, my fries are cold, wtf is wrong with you?")** The nuisance is missed to most, and people willing to equate the later type with the former do so from an empty, selfish set of morals to be honest. It's not fucking rocket science, the different nature of the two is self-evident.

      How you take this message is up to you and your values.

      ** I've seen this remark live when I used to work in McDonald's during my college years.

    72. Re:Soul Crushing? by atamido · · Score: 1

      In a luxury apartment building (i.e. gym, door and laundry service, concierge, rooftop garden), yes, that's about right. However in places like the East Village - which is considered quite expensive in Manhattan standards - most decent one-bedroom places go for around $2200 and you can pick up a two-bedroom for $2500.

      Or I could continue to live in my 5 bedroom house with a significantly cheaper mortgage payment, building equity, and deciding which fruit trees I should plant in the yard. I really don't understand all the suburb hate. Sure, I have to drive to get a number of places, but because I have a car I can go downtown, or out into the rural, or wherever else, and it takes about as long. Plus I get more/nicer living space, a nice yard, and nice neighbors, with essentially zero crime.

    73. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      These days I'm mostly dead at night because of the kids. I was always a bar man myself - liked McGillan's, McGlinchy's to get started, Bob and Barbara's, Fergies, Sugar Mom's, and the occasional venture into Dirty Franks. Monks is cool, but I'm allergic to muscles. My friends always wanted to go to the Irish Pub but I never liked it. Cavanaughs was the college spot back in the day. I never really relished the club scene, but mostly stuck to the clubs along Delaware Ave and Spring Garden. When my girlfriend was a lawyer, I spent more time at the Continental than I would have liked. Now we usually go out for dinner when we head downtown, and our favorite place lately has been Talula's Garden on Washington Square. Going to college in a big city was really fun. :)

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    74. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Conshohocken qualifies as an "accidental" suburb IMHO... it's been there a long time as a standalone community, and then it kind of got absorbed and surrounded by the sprawl. Conshohocken itself is kind of cool, but it is a 25 minute car ride :( King of Prussia is even further away - I'm in the northern suburbs just across from North Philly and next to the Northeast.

      Much better to hop on the train, which is 25-minutes to downtown. It quits at midnight, so sometimes you need to suck it up and pay the $40 taxi fare back, but with kids and a babysitter on the clock that rarely happens.

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    75. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Neighbors! (Well, almost. I'm in Cheltenham - but I used to live in Willow Grove and work in Fort Washington).

      For sushi and Japanese in general, I really like Ooka in Willow Grove (didn't know they had other locations) - I haven't tried MInado. Still, it takes me 25 minutes to drive to Willow Grove or 25 minutes on the train to get downtown... most of the suburban spots are like that. I'm faced with a long drive and no booze.

      The closest Fridays in the suburbs is Willow Grove - it's about a 20 minute drive to the Fridays. But you'd pass a Chiles and an Applebees on the way there, as well as a bunch of non-chain places on 611 that offer a similar experience. I've only ever been there with co-workers who have no taste :)

      I don't make it out as far as Perkasie very often... is that still a Philly suburb? LOL. If I'm out there looking for eats, I'll have to try Maize. Google tells me that will take me 50 minutes to drive... I guess I could stay over in Quakertown :)

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    76. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, I don't like having so many people around in downtowns nor am I in love with the rural world. So suburbia is actually pretty nice for me .. close to the city but much quieter and more spread out.

    77. Re:Soul Crushing? by guru42101 · · Score: 1

      ya, but how far outside of Manhattan do you have to live to have an affordable living location? I like working in suburbia, I can afford to live a mile or so from the office. Working downtown means I have to live in a neighboring town and deal with rush hour.

    78. Re:Soul Crushing? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Yeah - Cheltenham isn't in that great of a location - even the other side of the border would be North Philly, which can't have too many options until you get to center city. You'd probably find more in the NE if you head due East. Granted, the NE is nearly a suburb already.

      Can't say I'm too familiar with the options out that far. About the only time I go to Cheltenham is on the way someplace else - like when I used to live in NE Philly and commuted to close to where I live now. I hear there is a decent Brazilian Steakhouse out in Horsham, but I've never been to it - that's a bit of a drive for me...

    79. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      If you like Korean food, North Philly is really good these days - all up 5th North of Rt. 1 is bona fide Korea Town. There are also some decent Caribbean options, and of course Mt. Airy and Chestnut Hill are nearby. The Northeast has some incredible diners and bakeries, and naturally there is Steve's Prince of Steaks. But that's all Philly :) The Northeast is sort of suburban, but it also is not sprawly at all... it has a grid system of streets. Public transit is shameful, but in a lot of ways it reminds me of a California city - everything is low-rise.

      In Cheltenham we have (half of) Glenside. Glenside has a few places that are all right.

      naBrasa is pretty good - but Horsham is kind of a haul for me...

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    80. Re:Soul Crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      When I was in Manhattan I was lucky enough to live in a subsidized (by my wife's employer) apartment. When the subsidy ran out, we moved. You are totally right. If I were single, I'd accept living in the closet for the quality of life that Manhattan affords, but with kids I needed more space.

      That said, if you work in Downtown, Brooklyn is not a bad commute. If you work in Midtown, Queens is a good commute. Hell, Astoria is actually a happening place...

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    81. Re:Soul Crushing? by Kingofearth · · Score: 1

      What if you'd rather go for a hike after work, not get stuck in traffic, don't like having to avoid bums literally asking for beer money, don't want to worry about getting violently robbed at night, and would like to sleep with the window open without hearing traffic? Besides, if I want quality service at a business, I know I need to go to the suburbs. But maybe it's just because Milwaukee is a shit-hole.

    82. Re:Soul Crushing? by Specter · · Score: 1

      LOL...yeah right up until they start to replicate.

    83. Re:Soul Crushing? by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

      In a luxury apartment building (i.e. gym, door and laundry service, concierge, rooftop garden), yes, that's about right. However in places like the East Village - which is considered quite expensive in Manhattan standards - most decent one-bedroom places go for around $2200 and you can pick up a two-bedroom for $2500.

      Or I could continue to live in my 5 bedroom house with a significantly cheaper mortgage payment, building equity, and deciding which fruit trees I should plant in the yard. I really don't understand all the suburb hate. Sure, I have to drive to get a number of places, but because I have a car I can go downtown, or out into the rural, or wherever else, and it takes about as long. Plus I get more/nicer living space, a nice yard, and nice neighbors, with essentially zero crime.

      I've got nothing much against suburbs, although if I had a choice I would live in the country. Having a yard and a larger place are definitely plus points. The problem with driving into NYC is the prohibitive cost and difficulty of finding parking, not to mention the bridge tolls and the insane way that people drive on the streets there.

    84. Re:Soul Crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I pay less monthly in mortgage now for a huge house in Austin than i would have paid for a small 2 bedroom in Manhattan. Forcing people to move in to the cities is effectively cutting their income or quality of life.

      I'm not sure why you're equating the size of your house with quality of life. For some people, the size of your house isn't really that important.

      They should be resisting...

      No, they should be doing whatever the hell they want. You've found what you like. Great. Now try to consider that yours isn't the only way to live.

  2. finally by hey · · Score: 0

    I hate the suburbs.

    1. Re:finally by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I hate the suburbs.

      I like having my own garage and not being robbed even if I accidentally leave the door wide open.

    2. Re:finally by MightyYar · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I like that part, too. I also like the good schools, the relatively clean air, the quiet, and the ease of getting away from people if you want.

      I hate that Chiles is considered an acceptable place to eat. I hate driving everywhere... the sheer insanity of driving to a gym so that you can exercise! I hate the lack of economic and ethnic diversity (though we are in an "old" suburb with at least some of that). Most of all, I hate the static blandness of it all. Same chain stores as you get anywhere else in the US. When we have house guests, we have to all drive somewhere to do something unique... often that means going... to the city!

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    3. Re:finally by Gorobei · · Score: 1

      I hate the suburbs.

      I like having my own garage and not being robbed even if I accidentally leave the door wide open.

      I like not having a garage and not having a car either. And I leave my front and back doors unlocked (yeah for doorman buildings.)

    4. Re:finally by Brian_Ellenberger · · Score: 2

      I hate driving everywhere... the sheer insanity of driving to a gym so that you can exercise!

      You have a house. Why not buy some gym equipment and setup an exercise area? Heck it would easily pay itself back considering how expensive gym memberships are.

    5. Re:finally by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      The inefficiency of that is just as mind-boggling. Equipment that sits unused 23 hours a day.

      In my case, the reason is that I bought a "lifetime membership" many years ago at Bally's that still lives on today. I pay $15/month and that includes a pool and works at any LA Fitness.

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    6. Re:finally by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hate to disprove this but no setting up a home gym that's even remotely comparable to the gym would take your entire life to pay off. I'm not sure of the national average but at a major chain it's 30/month. It's 360 a year. It would take between 3-5 years to pay off a single piece of equipment. To just reach a basic level of parity it would take atleast 15 years not including various equipment breakdowns. So no, the membership is cheaper because i'm not even factoring in the lost space and breakdowns not to mention newer equipment breakthroughs.

      As for the topic itself, it's a push question. Calling the city foolish implies the answer already. I've always been a city dweller but I understand those who like suburbia and rural zones. The ultimate issue is that the world is becoming more urban. The tech world sees that and moved with the trend. The young start ups are naturally urban due to the low cost of start up space & the natural benefits that come with it.

      Also office parks are horrible places to be. They waste space, they usually are architecturally sterile, and generally they lack a good flow plan for both traffic & humanity. In other words they are just bad.

    7. Re:finally by drooling-dog · · Score: 1

      If you're affluent enough, you can pretty much erase any need to ever leave your home, and I've seen quite a few people who are hell-bent on doing just this. Big houses in the burbs with gyms, home theaters complete with popcorn machines, the works. It's kind of pathetic, actually.

      If you have a choice where you live, find a place where you can safely walk, run or bike interesting routes to worthwhile nearby destinations, and get out of your house every day. The exercise problem will be solved, and you'll be a happier person.

    8. Re:finally by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jupiter Fl. is a premium place to live. I had an elderly relative that forgot to close his garage door on his huge home. The police parked a squad car in his driveway and dialed him on the phone and announced that they would not leave until that door was secured.
                                    That suburb was very safe and relatively crime free. Contrast that kind of police service with what you get in most cities. Small towns that are highly controlled and protected can make a great work environment. I would almost rarther live deep in a coal mine than in most cities.

    9. Re:finally by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and the ease of getting away from people if you want.

      What suburb do you live in ? My chief complaint about the suburb is the impossibility of getting away from people when I want to. The suburb's main demographic is families, so the streets are often crawling with children. Neighbours are often nosy as hell. Grocery stores, banks, malls etc. are usually crowded and unbearable. Parks are full of people too ... and dogs :/

      I really dislike kids and dogs, and parents and pet-owners. And they're everywhere.

      In order to get away form people you have to drive to the country. But then, the country might just be a utopian "grass in greener" idea right now. I wish I could rent something in the country and try it out before making a decision to move there.

      The one thing the suburbs have done for me is really help me realize just how miserable I would be in the city. Though I did love it in Montreal when I went there for a weekend, but I don't think I could handle living there.

    10. Re:finally by Pascal+Sartoretti · · Score: 1

      I like having my own garage

      And I like not needing a car.

    11. Re:finally by MogNuts · · Score: 2

      Well, you're wrong and right. You can buy all the equipment you need for $1-2k*. BUT, working out at home is the most un-motivating, depressing thing ever. So if one starts, they'll never stick to it for more than a few months. It's nice to have a social scene and people to talk to at the gym. But then again, in most gyms, 50% of the people who go are either scumbags or are very superficial. So maybe it's not a bad idea to work out at home and skip that part!

      As engineering students are always taught, there are trade-offs to everything!

      * Treadmill: $800
      multi-use Bench for bench presses, dumbell presses, etc.: $150
      Dumbells (that mult-weight one): $100
      Stand for barbell excercises (like bench, squats, etc): $150.

    12. Re:finally by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I only use the bike, pool, and the nautilus equipment at the gym... my shopping list would be much more expensive than yours :)

      If you are into free weights, there's also no spotter at home, which could be a problem.

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    13. Re:finally by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      Ha yes that's true. A pool does cost a bit more than a grand. :) Bikes aren't bad though. And look into used Nautilus's. I picked one up used for $700. And I admit that I even overpaid for that.

      Not sure what your level/knowledge of working out is, but you should include weight lifting and free weights into your workout. In term's of effectiveness, I'd argue you should spend more of your time in that then the other. Like 60/40 in favor of weightlifting. So many more benefits (strength, reduced injuries, increase at rest calorie burning, higher weight loss from circuit training). But anyway, as for a spotter, you don't need it. Unless you're working out past failure or doing negatives, you don't need one. I haven't used a spotter in 10 years. And you can still make gains. I can gain easy 20 lbs of muscle in 8 months without a spotter or doing negatives or forced reps (and yes that is the max u can pretty much put on without the use of steroids in that time frame).

    14. Re:finally by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I'm just outside Philly (literally within a mile of the border). With a 30-minute car ride, I can be in Amish country.

      When I lived in NYC, 30-minutes couldn't get me off Manhattan, let alone somewhere peaceful. Fortunately I had a friend with a boat.

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    15. Re:finally by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I'm mostly concerned about keeping myself mostly healthy... I've always gone with mostly cardio with weight training only on my problem spots (my knees). Weight is not an issue... I mean, I'm overweight by around 15 lbs, but I can control it by eating a bit less. My knees are why I swim/bike rather than treadmill. The home bikes are not too expensive, but I'm not as happy with them as I am the gym equipment. Plus, I'm out in the car anyhow - the LA Fitness is on my way home from work. I used to do free weights with a friend, but decided that I didn't care about muscles :)

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    16. Re:finally by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Good luck with that in 95% of the cities in the USA. Sure, there are about 3-4 you can almost get away with it. However, most cities are not NYC. There might be a subway line or two and if you venture more than about 3 blocks away from it you're either hiking a mile or you're sitting on busses for hours.

    17. Re:finally by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      Jupiter Fl. is a premium place to live. I had an elderly relative that forgot to close his garage door on his huge home. The police parked a squad car in his driveway and dialed him on the phone and announced that they would not leave until that door was secured. That suburb was very safe and relatively crime free. Contrast that kind of police service with what you get in most cities. Small towns that are highly controlled and protected can make a great work environment. I would almost rarther live deep in a coal mine than in most cities.

      Yeah, but industries in Jupiter are almost nill (and to be honest is just the same in WPB, Broward and Dade.) Really good jobs in STEM are only found in Clearwater and Orlando (and a bit going to Tampa.)

    18. Re:finally by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How would you accidentally leave your front door wide open? Also, I've lived in suburbs before, and even there no one felt safe leaving their front door wide open. Have you considered that you might actually just be deluded?

  3. Soul-crushing? by darjen · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I grew up in midwest suburbs, and I don't think my childhood was "soul crushing". If you don't like the suburbs, well that's fine. You are welcome to not live there. But I just don't get the hateful crusade against them. I personally enjoyed having a decent sized yard as a kid.

    1. Re:Soul-crushing? by vlm · · Score: 1, Troll

      But I just don't get the hateful crusade against them.

      Jealousy. Won't come out and honestly say they're jealous of not being able to afford it, so you get mindless blather like "nah nah naa boo boo you suuuuck sooouls nah nah naa boo boo you suuuuck souuuls!" repeat until nauseated. Apparently that's what passes for a detailed logical engineering analysis of why suburb life is worse than urban life. There's some spite to it too, I can only afford to live in squalor so I'll feel better if everyone else has to live in squalor too. Also a little stockholm syndrome where we'll all cheer each other up in the slum by telling ourselves that our dump is really better than someone else's nice place, maybe if we tell it to ourselves enough times we'll actually believe it? There tends to be a bit of immaturity-effect, so if the parents like X (where X might be suburbs, or rock music, etc) then rebellious teenagers (of any actual chronological age) will declare their undying love of -X (where -X might be urban living, or hip hop, etc). Its stealth ageism, in that if you're 23 its time for an exciting adventure, being a crime victim is something that happens to someone else and could never happen to me, and you have no responsibilities (aka spouse and kids), so the city is great fun and adventure, but by 30 its time to move somewhere civilized... right about the time your employer is ready to downsize you for the next wave of cheap recent grads, so mass publicity about moving HQ into an urban environment is kind of a legal "over 25 need not apply" sign. Closely related to the stealth ageism thing there's a "can't keep them down on the farm after they've seen Paris" effect where you can transition from a dumpy dorm directly to a dumpy city as a 22 year old kid, but once you've had a job in a civilized area out in the burbs its hard to stomach downgrading to urban lifestyle again, so its another "older people need not apply" sign... Finally there tends to be the idea that urban living is "new" so if you're trying to hide from yourself or don't like yourself or "just have issues", then maybe trying something new like moving to the city will help... unfortunately where-ever you go, there you are, so as a "find yourself" activity moving to the big city is not likely to be as successful as, say, one of the more atheistic branches of Buddhism or perhaps psychotherapy, or rephrased "if you're running from something, then the process of running matters a much more than where you're running toward"

      --
      "Science flies us to the moon. Religion flies us into buildings." - Victor Stenger
    2. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Midwest suburbia with a giant house is far cheaper than a 1BR apartment in New York or San Francisco.

    3. Re:Soul-crushing? by superdude72 · · Score: 5, Informative

      There are suburbs and there are suburbs.

      Evanston, IL, is a pre-WWII suburb where you can take the El into Chicago, and can walk to the park, to the grocery store, to a restaurant, to a bookstore. There is a mix of detached single-family homes and apartment buildings.

      The suburb where I grew up in California is 30 miles outside of Sacramento. You can walk to... well you can walk to another house. If you want to go anywhere else, you have to drive. Most people commute more than 45 minutes to work. There is a mix of large detached single-family homes and larger detached single-family homes. (Because the locals will scream bloody murder if anyone attempts to build apartment buildings. Something about "property values" and making the community accessible to skeezy people such as singles, childless couples, and people who can't qualify for a mortgage.)

      If you grew up in a suburb like Evanston, I understand where you're coming from. If you grew up in a place like I did and loved it, I must conclude you do not have a soul to be crushed.

    4. Re:Soul-crushing? by MightyYar · · Score: 3, Informative

      You have it exactly backwards. The house and yard and good schools are all far, far, cheaper than living in Manhattan or San Francisco. If you can swing rent on a 2-bedroom in NYC (around $3500/mo when we left a few years ago), you can afford just about any suburban house you want in the midwest - pool, yard, the whole shebang. Probably even afford a BMW or two for the driveway.

      We moved to the suburbs primarily (maybe only?) for the schools.

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    5. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't get it either. I personally love living in a "single family dwelling" and not sharing walls with neighbors. I particularly like not having neighbors tromping about on my ceilings. And yes, I lived in the city for more than three years. My wife and I made a pact that as long as we lived there, we'd spend as little time in the apartment as possible. So we actually got out and used the city for what it was good for -- restaurants, music, museums, plays, etc. And yes, we made extensive use of public transport. But living in an apartment block is a noisy nasty experience. Just is.

      The 'burbs OTOH, are nice. It's quiet, it's clean, it smells nice. There are neighbors with dogs. You can sit out with friends on a deck overlooking a nice yard. There's this privacy thing (that most of us /.ers think is dead, but which lives on in the 'burbs).

      People who claim that everyone wants density need to look around. If everyone wanted density, sprawl wouldn't exist. Everyone would move to the big cities. But they don't. The fastest growing places in the USA are not cities -- it's (still) the 'burbs. Because people *like* suburban sprawl. They do. I do. If that offends you, get over it, and move to the city. Quit trying to convince me that I don't like where I've chosen to live. It makes you sound like an idiot.

    6. Re:Soul-crushing? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Not only is it cheaper to live in suburbia than in The City, but it's also shittier than living in The Country which is still cheaper than living in suburbia. Suburbia is where people who work in the city live when they can't afford to live in the city except in squalor amidst the cockroaches, and where people who want to live in the country live when they have to work in the city and the commute would be too long.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    7. Re:Soul-crushing? by vlm · · Score: 1

      For my own education please elaborate on how

      you have to drive

      automagically translates to

      soul to be crushed.

      Something really weird and bad must be happening to some of you people when you sit in a car, thats never happened to me so I can't relate. Driving my car is not like those idiotic car commercials where its always a joyride in a empty nature preserve and when I park I'm instantly surrounded by supermodels, but driving is not that awful of a soul crushing experience, either. The drive is frankly not very important or noteworthy compared to the destination. Soul crushing is urban, like your neighbor's kid was in the crossfire got shot and died, or your car/house/garage was broken into for the fifth time, or you were mugged again, etc.

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      "Science flies us to the moon. Religion flies us into buildings." - Victor Stenger
    8. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jealousy. Won't come out and honestly say they're jealous of not being able to afford it, so you get mindless blather like "nah nah naa boo boo you suuuuck sooouls nah nah naa boo boo you suuuuck souuuls!" repeat until nauseated.

      Do you have any idea how much it costs to live in a city? Actually, why am I asking -- if you did, you wouldn't say something so profoundly stupid as what you said above.

      I could buy a palatial mansion in the suburbs for what I pay here in the city for a 1 bedroom.

      Apparently that's what passes for a detailed logical engineering analysis of why suburb life is worse than urban life. There's some spite to it too, I can only afford to live in squalor so I'll feel better if everyone else has to live in squalor too. Also a little stockholm syndrome where we'll all cheer each other up in the slum by telling ourselves that our dump is really better than someone else's nice place, maybe if we tell it to ourselves enough times we'll actually believe it? There tends to be a bit of immaturity-effect, so if the parents like X (where X might be suburbs, or rock music, etc) then rebellious teenagers (of any actual chronological age) will declare their undying love of -X (where -X might be urban living, or hip hop, etc). Its stealth ageism, in that if you're 23 its time for an exciting adventure, being a crime victim is something that happens to someone else and could never happen to me, and you have no responsibilities (aka spouse and kids), so the city is great fun and adventure, but by 30 its time to move somewhere civilized... right about the time your employer is ready to downsize you for the next wave of cheap recent grads, so mass publicity about moving HQ into an urban environment is kind of a legal "over 25 need not apply" sign. Closely related to the stealth ageism thing there's a "can't keep them down on the farm after they've seen Paris" effect where you can transition from a dumpy dorm directly to a dumpy city as a 22 year old kid, but once you've had a job in a civilized area out in the burbs its hard to stomach downgrading to urban lifestyle again, so its another "older people need not apply" sign... Finally there tends to be the idea that urban living is "new" so if you're trying to hide from yourself or don't like yourself or "just have issues", then maybe trying something new like moving to the city will help... unfortunately where-ever you go, there you are, so as a "find yourself" activity moving to the big city is not likely to be as successful as, say, one of the more atheistic branches of Buddhism or perhaps psychotherapy, or rephrased "if you're running from something, then the process of running matters a much more than where you're running toward"

      Are you sure you're not the jealous one? Or possibly just a bit nuts?

    9. Re:Soul-crushing? by tnk1 · · Score: 1

      You make it sound like eliminating people more prone to breaking into your house or preventing large, ugly tenements from entering your area is a bad thing. I get how the spread makes suburbs sort of cultural wastelands, but honestly, there has to be a better solution to a cultural problem than increasing your crime rate and turning it into an ugly, smelly concrete jungle.

      Personally, I don't mind driving 40 minutes to get to a metro area for some culture if it means that I can leave the bad parts behind when I leave. By having mobility, I can also drive 40 minutes to *another* metro area nearby to get some extra culture.

      Big cities are exciting, I get that. And young people are probably happy to go to places where it's like high school and college and there is a high population density and stuff to do in walking distance. However, the whole thing gets old after awhile.

    10. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Something really weird and bad must be happening to some of you people when you sit in a car, thats never happened to me so I can't relate.

      You have to sit on your ass in in a massive air conditioned box just to get anywhere. Then when you get there, you have to circle around the massive parking lot to find a spot, possible battling it out with some asshole who decided to cut in line in front of you. Then you haul your groceries out to the car, sit down for another 20-30 minutes, get cut off by *another* asshole on the freeway. Maybe you pull over to a Starbucks, where park again, wait in line for some sugar-drenched coffee.

      Compare to:

      I walk outside, down the block, stop at Whole Foods, pick out what I want and check out. They set up a delivery for me later that day. While I'm out I walk by my favorite bakery and pick up some scones, and then stop by my favorite coffee place (there are about 10 to choose from in a 4 block radius) to sit and have some coffee and read. I decide that it's such a nice day out that I'd like to go to central park, so I hope on the uptown subway that's around the corner, and 10 minutes later, I'm there. I stroll through the park -- not having had to find somewhere to park my car -- and then realize that it's getting to be about time for my delivery from Whole Foods. I pop back on the subway and am back home in 10 minutes.

      Or, if I'm really lazy, I just don't leave the couch, order all my groceries from Fresh Direct, and just let them deliver them to me. That way I can spend my time doing other things than grocery shopping or driving.

      Soul crushing is urban, like your neighbor's kid was in the crossfire got shot and died, or your car/house/garage was broken into for the fifth time, or you were mugged again, etc.

      Yes, that happens *all the time*. Oh wait, no it doesn't.

    11. Re:Soul-crushing? by superdude72 · · Score: 2

      driving is not that awful of a soul crushing experience, either. The drive is frankly not very important or noteworthy compared to the destination.

      It's not the driving, so much as it is all the stuff that has to be wiped out to make room for huge freeways and parking lots. But it's also the driving. When you have a highly populated area where everyone drives, you get sprawl, and with sprawl comes longer commutes. It is not uncommon to have longer than an hour commute in the Bay Area. Two hours a day in traffic isn't soul crushing? Maybe you've just never experienced anything better.

      Soul crushing is urban, like your neighbor's kid was in the crossfire got shot and died, or your car/house/garage was broken into for the fifth time, or you were mugged again, etc.

      WTF are you talking about? Have you spent any significant time in San Francisco? We're not all living The Wire out here. I lived there more than a decade and never experienced any violent crime. There is some bad shit going down in the Bayview / Hunters Point area, but in 10 years I never went anywhere near there. My experience in the Richmond District is about as far removed from urban gangbanging as any suburbanite's.

    12. Re:Soul-crushing? by suomynonAyletamitlU · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I can't speak for the adult experience of living in a suburb, but as a child growing up there, "You have to drive to get anywhere" means "Unless you're friends with the neighbors or have a car, there is nothing to do."

      I didn't get my driver's license until I was about 18, which means that if I wanted to go somewhere, I was begging friends or family for a ride. I perhaps could have gotten on my bike and rode a half hour through traffic, without sidewalks or bike lanes (I have a few times, uncomfortably; also, this was Texas, where temperatures are often 100+ in the summer) to get to a small variety of stores, but I couldn't get, for example, to the mall, or a decently interesting strip mall.

      And asking parents for a ride...? They commuted an hour each day to get to their jobs and were not terribly interested in jumping in the car just to satisfy my boredom. It probably would have been easier if I'd had older friends, but I didn't.

      Everywhere I wanted to be and everyone I wanted to be with I couldn't reach without begging someone and potentially making them upset. So yes, I would say it crushed my soul a bit.

    13. Re:Soul-crushing? by superdude72 · · Score: 1

      there has to be a better solution to a cultural problem than increasing your crime rate and turning it into an ugly, smelly concrete jungle.

      At what point did I describe Evanston, IL as a crime-ridden, ugly, smelly concrete jungle? It's a nice suburb where you can have your car and your yard but it's also not too sprawly. Problem is we don't build them like that any more.

    14. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you're right. It depends how you want top balance your life. I travel a lot between Austin and Portland, and they seem (despite the weather) similar to me, but for some strange reason y feel I have less access to public transportation and I have to drive anywhere in Austin. But that again is in perspective of the neighborhood and what you perceive as surroundings and if you think they are fairly close to you.

    15. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there has to be a better solution to a cultural problem than increasing your crime rate and turning it into an ugly, smelly concrete jungle.

      There is, but WWII gave death camps a bad name.

    16. Re:Soul-crushing? by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1

      You have to sit on your ass in in a massive air conditioned box just to get anywhere. Then when you get there, you have to circle around the massive parking lot to find a spot, possible battling it out with some asshole who decided to cut in line in front of you

      Just for the record - if you pick a distant corner of the parking lot and park there, this is never a problem. Plus you get a little extra walking into your day.

    17. Re:Soul-crushing? by PPH · · Score: 2

      For my own education please elaborate on how

      you have to drive

      automagically translates to

      soul to be crushed.

      Well, if you live in Seattle, that's done by design.

      The local politicians in a conspiracy with downtown developers and car-haters have made traffic hell. It has gotten so bad that the commute from one of its major suburbs to the East (across two floating bridges) reversed about a decade or so ago. Now, people leave the city for jobs on the East side (Microsoft, Google and others). And the highway department (under pressure from Seattle politicians) has never switched the reversible lanes to reflect the realities of the morning and evening traffic jams. Cars are evil. Cars take people where they want to go. Not where the city planners want to send them.

      Likewise, our public transportation systems are being designed to funnel commuters into the city and back out again, as if nothing else exists in the surrounding areas. Light rail that was proposed to serve other city centers and shopping districts (Lynnwood, Everett, Southcenter, etc.) was killed off in favor of a system carefully engineered to bypass everything except downtown Seattle. An abandoned railroad right of way paralleling I-405, serving Eastside communities, is being carved up and handed off for various alternate uses rather than converted to mass transit use. Because it doesn't feed downtown Seattle. And, under the control of downtown politicians, tax money can only be spent to aim commuters at their own downtown area.

      Its called a self fulfilling prophecy. When your developers pour their money into downtown real estate, you have to strangle all the alternatives to ensure their return on investment. Regardless of what the people want. So, pretty soon, sheeple just give up and go where they are hearded.

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    18. Re:Soul-crushing? by der_pinchy · · Score: 0

      old VLM feel off the deep end. must be the holidays.

    19. Re:Soul-crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You are right. There are suburbs and there are suburbs. I live in a suburb that is almost country if you will. Lots of space, 1 acre lots, and next to towns that have a lot of stuff to do. But there are also suburbs right next to me where you literally see your neighbors bathroom window from yours. And a patch of grass is your lawn. So poster below you is right too.

      Back to topic though, shame on the WSJ for this article. This isn't some BS blog. This is the WSJ, who is supposed to give great business insights. They mention NYC as a spot. However, look at the companies:

      Pinterest: BS social networking site that won't be in business in 2-3 years.
      Yelp: no growth, but won't be out of business either.
      Zynga: bankrupt in 2-3 years.

      Salesforce is the only company with any prospects, stability, or growth. The WSJ should state that yes, companies are coming to cities. But they should also state that what will employees do when their BS companies go bust and they are left with a $4000/mo apartment to pay for. And the fact that these are all startups. What happens when they realize, like the banks are doing (all moving out of NYC), that the city is fucking expensive. Like just a floor in a building is fifty-fucking-thousand dollars a month in rent! Yea, you heard me. It may be trendy, but in 3-5 years they will all say "screw it" and move out to Piscataway, NJ where the industrial parks are.

      And again, this is the WSJ. They should mention that in NO WAY will these startups pay the salaries commensurate with living in NYC. A shitty one bedroom is $3,200/mo! Not only will the the companies rent costs be insane, but the salaries will have to be MINIMUM $120k/year. The WSJ should really mention this.

      Look, I'm sure this was a fluff piece by the WSJ. But the WSJ should really know better.

    20. Re:Soul-crushing? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      Haha you're kinda right. I'm just laughing having spent almost half of my life driving in a car.

      You must live in a suburban area where everything is close. Here in NJ, to go ANYWHERE, it's a minimum 30 minute drive. With soul-crushing traffic. It's all the congestion of a city, with none of the benefits.

      But you are right, for the first 20 minutes, driving really is a pleasure. I love rolling down the windows, opening the panoramic sunroff, and listening to my music.

    21. Re:Soul-crushing? by lexman098 · · Score: 1

      It's not the drive itself that's the problem. I feel like I shouldn't drive 30 minutes for a short meal, and so options are limited. In the city there's places to walk to and you can still drive to get more options.

      Also, even if there's places to drive to, there's nothing actually around you until you drive there. That's really the soul-crushing part.

    22. Re:Soul-crushing? by Randle_Revar · · Score: 1

      Driving is one of the least pleasant things I do on a regular basis. The other being interacting with Boeing's Day One account system. Ew.

    23. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Suburbia is also where people who want some amenities without overcrowding live. My requirements are pretty basic - I want to live in an area large enough to sport decent Mexican and Chinese restaurants. I want to be able to shop for basics [read big box store or medium mall]. Much beyond that and the extra congestion isn't worth it in my mind. People complain about chain stores/restaurants in suburbia, but they are chains because the first few were successful enough to expand into large scale operations.

    24. Re:Soul-crushing? by Randle_Revar · · Score: 1

      Goddamn you are stupid. People like you arguing against useful improvements have held back Seattle's transit system (generically, including cars) for at least a decade (my history doesn't go back too far, it may be a lot longer). And the next thing in line, the boondoggle know as the tunnel, does nothing except bypass downtown, and not in a useful way even. I'd sit and argue more, but I have better things to do today.

    25. Re:Soul-crushing? by mirability · · Score: 1

      What are people talking about? Rent in cities like SF or NYC is highway robbery. You can easily rent a house in the suburbs for the cost of sharing an apartment in SF. Cities are also very diverse. Chicago has areas where people have yards. I don't have a yard, but I never have any noise problems. My neighborhood is quiet and has lots of older people and families.

    26. Re:Soul-crushing? by mirability · · Score: 1

      There is driving and there is driving. There is the suburb where I grew up where nothing can be done unless you drive, so you are dependent on your parents until you are 16 to do anything and even later if they don't let you have a car. And you don't spend so much time driving as you do sitting in traffic. And then there are well-designed places where you can have a car and use it to go to places that make sense to have to drive to like the garden store. And you drive there and it takes very little time. And you drive back. Also, there are plenty of dangerous suburbs, like Waukegan, which is not far from Evanston, and far more dangerous than parts of the city proper like Lincoln Park.

    27. Re:Soul-crushing? by PPH · · Score: 1

      Goddamn you are stupid. People like you arguing against useful improvements have held back Seattle's transit system

      There's more to the region than just Seattle. But shhhh! Don't tell the mayor's office or King County (Seattle's lap dog) that people want to go somewhere other than downtown Seattle to work or shop.

      the boondoggle know as the tunnel, does nothing except bypass downtown,

      Again. There are other places on earth than downtown Seattle. People going downtown can use surface streets. The tunnel is for the people who want to get around it.

      --
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    28. Re:Soul-crushing? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      I live in a suburb. I can drive 5 minutes for fast food and one or two small sit-down places. If I drive 15 minutes I have a choice of about 8 different restaurants.

      If you're driving 30 minutes for a short meal, then it isn't a suburb, but a rural area.

    29. Re:Soul-crushing? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      You have to sit on your ass in in a massive air conditioned box just to get anywhere.

      I think your "need" for air conditioning is a problem.

      Then when you get there, you have to circle around the massive parking lot to find a spot, possible battling it out with some asshole who decided to cut in line in front of you. Then you haul your groceries out to the car, sit down for another 20-30 minutes, get cut off by *another* asshole on the freeway. Maybe you pull over to a Starbucks, where park again, wait in line for some sugar-drenched coffee.

      Maybe you should stop living in shitholes, surrounded by assholes.

    30. Re:Soul-crushing? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      Everywhere I wanted to be and everyone I wanted to be with I couldn't reach without begging someone and potentially making them upset. So yes, I would say it crushed my soul a bit.

      A good running car can be had for $500, so maybe you should solve your own problems instead of blaming the suburbs.

    31. Re:Soul-crushing? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      I feel like I shouldn't drive 30 minutes for a short meal, and so options are limited.

      Well you could always......YOU KNOW......cook your own meal.

    32. Re:Soul-crushing? by Stiletto · · Score: 1

      Suburbia is also where people who want some amenities without overcrowding live. My requirements are pretty basic - I want to live in an area large enough to sport decent Mexican and Chinese restaurants.

      The twelve Baja Fresh and P.F. Changs restaurants all crammed into those strip malls don't count.

    33. Re:Soul-crushing? by Stiletto · · Score: 0

      I live in a suburb. I can drive 5 minutes for fast food and one or two small sit-down places. If I drive 15 minutes I have a choice of about 8 different restaurants.

      Too bad four of them are Olive Garden, and two of them are Chili's.

    34. Re:Soul-crushing? by oursland · · Score: 1

      You were a kid, things were rainbows and sunshine. The adults who work at these companies to city centers because the kids hate backyards, but because the adults want more than what the suburbs have to offer.

    35. Re:Soul-crushing? by oursland · · Score: 1

      Not everyone's parents let them have a job before age 18. Some people had to stay home and watch the younger siblings while both parents were working their second jobs.

    36. Re:Soul-crushing? by EE101 · · Score: 0

      Which Boeing location do you work at?

    37. Re:Soul-crushing? by lexman098 · · Score: 1

      cook your own meal.

      SOUL CRUSHING

    38. Re:Soul-crushing? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Uh, two olive gardens within 30 minutes? I can't imagine you'd find that anywhere in the US - they tend to space them pretty far apart. They aren't bad though. I wasn't counting the 14 different Applebees in that radius though.

    39. Re:Soul-crushing? by PrimaryConsult · · Score: 1

      In the city, I had a free school-provided transit pass at 13. After school I would go to various shopping centers, visit friends, tourist attractions, or simply explore the city after school.

      I always imagined that having to wait 3 more years for that freedom would have been hell. I think your post has confirmed that fear for me. I actually do not know what I would have done with my time without that freedom.

      I will probably move back there, I think it is a great way to raise a child to have a sense of personal responsibility at an early age, that simply isn't possible in a suburb (or smaller city).

    40. Re:Soul-crushing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      $3500 a month to spend on living would get you a freaking mansion where I am in a midwest suburb. Easily 5k sq ft, 6 beds, 5 baths, pool and 4 car garage with plenty of land. Oh, and I only drive 5 minutes to my job and 10 minutes to downtown. Granted, I wouldn't have wanted to live here 10 years ago but there is something to be said for cities in the top 50-100 population range. Cheap living but large enough population to have many of the cultural aspects of larger cities. And tech startups are all over here, some downtown (which isn't a ridiculous notion) and some spread out.

    41. Re:Soul-crushing? by Randle_Revar · · Score: 1

      Everett, WA
      I work for Labinal, usually from inside the 40-88 building, though.

      You Boeing as well?

    42. Re:Soul-crushing? by EE101 · · Score: 0

      I live up the street from the Philadelphia location where the Chinook is made. I was just was curious if that was your location.

  4. amenities = low rent? by vlm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Drawn by amenities

    Locally the only amenity offered by "the big city" over the suburbs is incredibly low rent because no one wants to work there. Crippling decaying infrastructure, one of the worst ranked school systems in the nation (no one between 25-50 wants to live here unless they're rich enough for private schools), extremely high crime, police don't respond to anyone not actively bleeding or shooting (that was weird to discover), one of the most racially segregated cities in the North (burbs are much more multicultural, weird but true), no parking so only locals are allowed, filthy, crippling tax/license/fee burdens, larger scale corruption in govt (note the burbs are almost as corrupt, just not quite as big). So why would anyone voluntarily work there? Oh, I see, rents are about a tenth the cost of equivalent rent in the burbs, assuming you can find burb space at similar level of squalor.

    Don't ague that world class cities are better than my "top 20 city". World class cities are surrounded by world class suburbs, so Again the only reason to locate in the city is low rents.

    There are exceptions where there are pretty good high rent locations squashed up against water features. They don't matter, less than 1% of the population lives and works there. For the 99% of the remaining population, the big cities suck.

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    1. Re:amenities = low rent? by superdude72 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I just have to make sure... you're talking about San Francisco, right? I lived there for more than a decade and never felt particularly unsafe, so I'm not sure what city you're talking about with this "extremely high crime."

      no parking so only locals are allowed

      This seems to be what your complaint really boils down to. Just take transit. Eventually you might find you prefer a 20-minute bus ride to an hour commute from some soul-crushing suburb, and you will start to appreciate the urban amenities that are available to you that are impossible for a car-dependent suburb to offer.

    2. Re:amenities = low rent? by fustakrakich · · Score: 1

      World class cities are surrounded by world class suburbs...

      And world class smog and traffic jams from the damn commuters. I feel very fortunate that our particular suburb had world class train service to the city, but few other places do.

      --
      “He’s not deformed, he’s just drunk!”
    3. Re:amenities = low rent? by MightyYar · · Score: 4, Informative

      San Francisco and New York are what we are talking about here, not Detroit or wherever you are referring to. Internet companies are NOT moving in droves to Detroit or Cleveland or whatever.

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    4. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You live in Baltimore too?

    5. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      we get it, there are black people there.

      get over it

    6. Re:amenities = low rent? by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      This seems to be what your complaint really boils down to. Just take transit. Eventually you might find you prefer a 20-minute bus ride to an hour commute from some soul-crushing suburb, and you will start to appreciate the urban amenities that are available to you that are impossible for a car-dependent suburb to offer.

      You had me until this nonsense. The public transportation system in SF is shit. Not only is it dirty and peopled with smelly dirtmerchants, and I say this as someone who has probably been described that way at least once (I wear Tevas, sue me) but it is also patently useless unless you are a paraplegic and the alternative is trying to roll yourself up hills. When I lived there I could drive to work including parking in fifteen minutes or take bus, light rail, and a bus for over an hour.

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    7. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Except that New York is at least mostly an awesome city (by which I mean there are lots of cool neighborhoods, and a few really nice areas i'd consider living in if I didn't have a 1 year old child). Amazing restaurants and bars, cool cultural activities, and you generally don't get accosted by homeless people with every step you take. San Francisco is mostly a shitdump by these same metrics. The peninsula (and parts of the south bay), however, are awesome suburbs. By which I mean stuff is definitely spread out and mostly requires driving from point to point, but there are tons of great parks, good restaurants, and most importantly a large number of nice, smart and really interesting people.

      I grew up in the suburbs of South Florida, and you can't say any of those nice things about that area. I found South Florida soul crushing, but other if you set your job and home up to avoid long commutes and bad traffic, there is nothing any more soul crushing about the Bay Area than lower Manhattan. Mind you, the nice areas of the Peninsula and lower Manhattan happen to be two of the most expensive areas in the country. Such is the case with any desirable place to live.

      In summary - suburbs don't all suck, and neither do all cities. I've lived in both and can say this with some confidence.

    8. Re:amenities = low rent? by tnk1 · · Score: 1

      Having been on buses and mass transit, I would very much prefer the hour commute to the 20 minute bus ride. And it seems to me that people keep saying that the commute or whatever is soul-crushing, but I don't feel particularly crushed. About the only time it is even sort of like that is rush hour traffic, and even then, that's just like mass transit in the city, except on the Interstate, I can be annoyed in my own air-conditioned car playing my own music and thinking my own thoughts, while in the city, I can be annoyed while being inadvertently felt up by the people crammed into the same bus and or subway car I'm in. I've been on mass transit in cities like SF, New York, DC and London, and I can tell you, they're useful to get around on, if you have to, but there's no way I want that to be my daily commute.

      And San Francisco is a nice place to be, for an urban area, but there are definitely places you can feel unsafe in. I remember taking a nice walk, thinking what a nice city SF was, and then very suddenly finding myself in an area where things looked broken down and bums are just sitting in clumps on the street and people in general are staring at me. It was like I had inadvertently walked through some force field or something into a penal colony. It was at that point that I realized that there had been a reason the SF cops were pulled up and just hanging out near where I was staying. They were the implied checkpoint that ensured what was on those other blocks didn't actually enter the pretty part.

    9. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You had me until this nonsense. The public transportation system in SF is shit. Not only is it dirty and peopled with smelly dirtmerchants, and I say this as someone who has probably been described that way at least once (I wear Tevas, sue me) but it is also patently useless unless you are a paraplegic and the alternative is trying to roll yourself up hills. When I lived there I could drive to work including parking in fifteen minutes or take bus, light rail, and a bus for over an hour.

      Unfortunately true. It took me 10 minutes to get to work by bicycle, 45 minutes to get to work by train, 60 minutes to get to work by bus.

      A huge portion of that time would be spent waiting for a fucking N Judah to show up, and then waiting for the next one because the fucking late N Judah was full by the time it got to my stop.

      San Francisco is a pisshole of homelessness and crappy transportation. I moved to New York a few years back, and now every time I visit SF I'm amazed at how much of a human shithole it can be. I'm not sure if it's getting worse, or if I've just gotten used to living in a place with great transportation and a low tolerance for crackheads defecating on the sidewalk.

      Reminds me of this:

      Human waste shuts down BART escalators:

      http://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/Human-waste-shuts-down-BART-escalators-3735981.php

    10. Re:amenities = low rent? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      You are right.

      To generalize some more, older suburbs tend to be less soul-crushing than newer suburbs. They often have a bit more of their infrastructure sorted, and if they are 70+ years old, they predate the highway and so probably were developed by the railroads... thus usually having sidewalks, downtowns, and possibly even still having a commuter rail. There are also "accidental" suburbs. Pre-existing villages and towns that the sprawl eventually came out to meet. Often those are walkable and have downtowns, even if they are technically now part of the suburbs.

      The tradeoff is usually that those old places have old houses, which tend to be inefficient and expensive to maintain.

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    11. Re:amenities = low rent? by MisterSquid · · Score: 1, Insightful

      When I lived there I could drive to work including parking in fifteen minutes or take bus, light rail, and a bus for over an hour.

      If you're telling the truth, your data/anecdote is of times past because there is nowhere in SF you can drive and park in 15 minutes that would take over an hour by public transit. To be honest, your story doesn't pass the smell test.

      But disregarding that, I think what many SF commuters overlook is the speed of foot power.

      I used to walk 25 minutes one-way to work. One of my co-workers was surprised I'd walk from Polk Gulch to the Financial District. He kept remarking how far that was. I could have taken public transit (MUNI) but that would mean waiting for the bus (5-10 minutes), taking the bus (10-15 minutes), and walking the rest of the way (5-7 minutes) for a boundary total of 20-32 minutes. Much faster (and fun) walking.

      But now I ride my bike. I obey the traffic signals but because I don't have to queue behind automobiles (which even motorcycles have to do) my commute is 4 minutes to work (downhill) and 6 minutes back.

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    12. Re:amenities = low rent? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Of course my anecdote is in the past. I used past tense, right?

      I think what many SF commuters overlook is the speed of foot power.

      Yes, I would have been able to walk the route in under an hour, probably, and should have done. I was in a lazy, depressed phase. Now I'm just lazy.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    13. Re:amenities = low rent? by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      Low rents? Is there truly lower rent in large cities across the US?

      That's certainly not the case in San Francisco (unless you're under rent control), and especially not for businesses. In San Francisco, you not only get filth, falsified lowered crime statistics, and a broken infrastructure, but you also get sky high rent. One could argue that the folks under rent control pay little, but it's not like anyone under rent control is ever to give up their apartments, so that just increases the scarcity and the rent for everyone else.

      The one reason people will pick San Francisco over the surrounding suburbs is because of the night life. It's not like the surrounding suburbs have no night life, or that you couldn't drive in once in a while. It's just that San Francisco has so much night life relative to the suburbs, some people just refuse to live far away from the city for that reason. And also, there is the jobs issue. People like to live where the jobs are. A one to two hour commute every day each way takes away a lot of your personal time.

    14. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So true. I visited there recently and was amazed at what a shithole it was. Can't imagine living there and constantly having to see such filth and human degradation every day. Such a big contrast with how hyped up the city is.

    15. Re:amenities = low rent? by zbobet2012 · · Score: 1

      Locally the only amenity offered by "the big city" over the suburbs is incredibly low rent because no one wants to work there.

      Google a map of real estate prices/rent for any of these "thriving" cities. You are wrong. I mean provably wrong.

    16. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "because I don't have to queue behind automobiles" - unless SF has bike lanes, you are the reason for road rage against cyclists - you are entitled to the full use of your lane, just as automobiles are, so you should not be sharing a lane with them to either pass or be passed.

    17. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Meh, I just moved to Downtown Detroit. I work as a software engineer for a banking ish company and I love it. It is much better than the Soul Crushing suburbs. Yeah, there's a lot of blown out buildings and what not, but it's still not that bad.

    18. Re:amenities = low rent? by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      The traffic jams are only a problem if you work in the city, or in some outskirts of a few huge cities like NYC. If you work in the suburbs, and live near where your work, then it isn't a big deal. Coworkers who work at a facility near NYC look at me funny when I tell them it takes me 20 mins to drive to work in traffic - they all spend an hour on the road.

      I don't really consider anywhere in North Jersey a "Suburb."

    19. Re:amenities = low rent? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, internet companies are moving in droves to Detroit. Maybe you should visit before you bash it.

    20. Re:amenities = low rent? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      In droves? Name some of these droves. Last I heard, the "internet" companies opening in Detroit were those working with Ford to get stuff installed in cars.

      Anyway, I didn't bash Detroit. I think you are overly sensitive. I just said Detroit isn't where was being discussed.

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  5. High cost of living is attractive? by oic0 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I've always wondered about that lol. Why are the tech companies almost always attracted to areas with exceptionally high cost of living? Must be something I'm missing.

    1. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Those areas have high costs of living BECAUSE they are attractive! People don't bust their ass at Stanford and MIT so they can live in North Dakota. If you want the best talent you have to be in place where the best talent wants to be. People from elite schools aren't interested in living in some hill billy backwater just so they can save 3% on sales tax or some other pissant shit low income tea party losers whine about. My guess is you've never lived in a world class city before.

    2. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by RichMeatyTaste · · Score: 1

      Raleigh, NC (RTP) being the exception, which is why a lot of tech companies move here.

      Before anyone chimes in with redneck jokes, let me assure you that Raleigh/Cary is full of transplants. I go days at a time without hearing a southern accent. Living in Raleigh/Cary is nothing like the "typical south", as people like to call it.

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    3. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      other way around.. attractive places have high cost of living, because, gosh, people want to live there and there's a limited supply.

      Compare the weather somewhere like La Jolla/UCSD to Baltimore/JHU. If you were a researcher, you'll probably spend your time in the lab, but when you do emerge, it's generally a heck of a lot nicer in La Jolla than B'more.

      Last month, they had several thousand people outside at 10PM watching MSL land. Could you reliably plan such an event anywhere else in the U.S.? In the summer: Thunderstorms and rain in the east coast would be typical. Devoured by bugs in the midwest, potentially combined with thunderstorms. Houston? N.O. pretty hot and muggy to be sitting around outside for 3 hours.

      Sure there are times of year when the mid-atlantic is gorgeous. about 4-6 weeks in the spring and 4-6 weeks in the fall. California, by and large (the expensive places to live, anyway) is *mostly* good weather, with 4-6 weeks of bad weather sprinkled in.

      OK... so that's climate. What about transportation hubs: Check.. got them in CA. What about access to universities: Check. Even with all the lame-ass things they're doing to the UC and CSU budgets in the legislature, it's still a pretty good place to go to school, and for all the whining, public schools in CA are fairly good (particularly in nicer neighborhoods.. those suburban office park locales for instance).

      What about food to eat? California produces just about any food you care to name, and unless you've lived there AND somewhere else, you don't truly appreciate how much fresh produce is around. Sure, these days, they air-freight stuff from Chile and other places just about anywhere, but that hasn't always been the case. California has a longer tradition of using it (perhaps Sicily has a similar culture, but the choice is more limited), so it's just more prevalent. At the very top income end, of course, you can get anything (I've seen strawberries from Oxnard, advertised as such, in the Harrods food hall), but the overall "quality of life" thing comes from what everyone eats. They closed the last Wonder Bread factory in California a few years ago because of lack of demand.

      What about activities, when you're not heads down coding the latest hit? How many places can you surf,bike, rock climb, and ski, all in the same day? You want music? Theater?. Sure, we don't have "Broadway" or the "West End", but just about everything else.

      No, the reason those companies are moving into inner cities is two fold: Cheap office rent (as noted above by another poster)(Short term optimization for revenue.. it will take a while before they lose employees because it's not cheap for them); Finance Envy (That 3.0 GPA loser roommate is making 10M a year as a trader on the 50th floor in a big tall building, so I'm going to put my company on the 100th floor of a bigger taller building and show that dork who's really superior); Access to capital markets. (We just hired a bunch of MBAs to make a BILLION dollars with our IPO, and they think we should be local to the bankers)

    4. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by alen · · Score: 1

      Young kids love to be packed into apartments they share with roommates and spend all their money on going out to eat and partying

    5. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Before anyone chimes in with redneck jokes, let me assure you that Raleigh/Cary is full of transplants. I go days at a time without hearing a southern accent. Living in Raleigh/Cary is nothing like the "typical south", as people like to call it.

      Which is why people in the surrounding areas wish you arrogant pricks would go back to wherever the hell you came from.

    6. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've lived in top class cities and graduated from MIT. Suburban Midwest towns definitely win.

      Cheaper, lower crime rates, easier to get around due to parking availability, better out door areas, etc.

    7. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cheaper, lower crime rates, easier to get around due to parking availability, better out door areas, etc.

      Easier to get around due to parking availability? What kind of crapass "top class city" did you live in?

    8. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by RichMeatyTaste · · Score: 1

      I'm not from one of those "arrogant" cities (Columbus, OH), but I do know a bit about what you are talking about.

      Unfortunately the area does not produce enough tech workers that the area needs so people relocate. Blame us "yankees" (or Californians) all you want but the truth is without us RTP would not have grown as much as it has. I realize the city is suffering from growing pains, but given that you have Cisco (huge campus), EMC (global datacenter, one of only 3 global manufacturing facilities, and multiple offices including sales and engineering), NetApp (huge campus), Lenovo, Epic Games, Citrix, Microsoft, countless biomedical companies, etc, etc, etc I think things have turned out rather well.

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    9. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I graduated from the school of self-study then moved halfway round the planet to work in Stockholm. My conclusion after several years in Europe is that Americans simply do not know how to build a decent city.

    10. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "People don't bust their ass at Stanford and MIT so they can live in North Dakota"

      When I was younger I don't recall thinking about where I wanted to live, only what I wanted to do. My ass-busting was out of a desire to do something that I found interesting and enjoyable, I didn't put much thought into where I would be doing it.

      These days is a different matter. Now that I'm 30 I'm busting my ass to get out of the city. That's just me, of course. But when you don't have savings your mobility is limited, and there's not many places for rent in the country. I wish I had put more thought into where I wanted to be, geographically speaking, 10 years ago, but I didn't care then at all.

      The only reason I'm living in a mid-sized city is because I grew up here. I have children so I can't just pack a bag and leave on my own. Schools were never that much of a concern for us because in our city all schools are pretty much the same. I mean, we're not like Toronto or New York. There are certain neighbourhoods we'd avoid but a middle-class neighbourhood is pretty much an exact carbon copy of all other middle-class neighbourhoods here, and the schools are exactly the same.

      Anyway my wife and I will be in our late 30's when our daughters are going to University or finding employment and venturing off on their own. By then I'd like to be somewhere where I don't have to worry about neighbours or traffic congestion. I don't hate people, but I'm an introvert and prefer the solitude. I like technology, amenities and comfort, but I don't like being around a lot of people. I get claustrophobic easily, and bumping shoulders with people trying to get to where I want to get makes me extremely uncomfortable and irritable very fast. So when the girls are on their own I'm off to somewhere where regular social interactions and encounters will occur in the doses that I'm comfortable with. I think I'd love to live somewhere like North Dakota, and I'm busting my ass off to get there.

      Granted, I'm not talking super small rural town where everyone praises jebus and knows everyone else either (*shivers*). I'm talking a farm or a country house that's a 20 - 30 minute drive to the city. As someone else pointed out, the burbs are for people who work in the city but can't afford to live in the city, or for people who want to live in the country but need to work in the city. I don't need to work in the city (though I do need fast Internet access which might be my grand plan's achilles heel) but as teenage parents we did need to be close to our family and amenities for our first few years.

    11. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by mjwalshe · · Score: 1

      Yep my younger co workers absolutely love living in Camden and Islington

    12. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      LOL. "elite" schools. You should kill yourself.

    13. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That Wonder Bread factory also made Hostess fruit pies and Twinkies, the whole neighborhood smelled like Willy Wonka for days at a time. Now it's just Anchor Brewery smell, which is... interesting, but not quite the same.

    14. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      I know. See my post elsewhere here. But this WSJ was shit. What company in their right mind would give up paying employees less, paying less rent for an office, and getting tax breaks for setting up shop at the location, for the cities. I'm from NJ, and all the banks are moving OUT of the city for that very reason. Everything is done over computers now. They don't need the locations. And tech companies don't need it AT ALL. The WSJ should really mention this. And even from the employee's perspective, why move to a city where startups are going when most of those listed are BS and are going to be bankrupt in 2-3 years. What will the person do when they're let go and have $3,500 in rent to pay every month?

      All I can say is, those companies are idiots and you should think twice about companies with so little business sense.

    15. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by Ryanrule · · Score: 1

      I went to college so I wouldnt have to live in a place like texas.

    16. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by khallow · · Score: 1

      Why are the tech companies almost always attracted to areas with exceptionally high cost of living?

      That isn't the case. Some tech companies are and some aren't. My take is that some companies are where they are, because the CEO lives there. My take is that whatever else you can say about San Fransisco, it is a nice place to be rich.

    17. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by khallow · · Score: 1

      Look, some people get off on the high stimulation that a so-called world class city provides and some people don't. The latter group just isn't going to do well in world class cities no matter how generically attractive or whatever those cities are.

      As to taxes, those few percent can make a big different in growth of wealth over many years.

    18. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by fm6 · · Score: 1

      You've got it backwards. If an area manages to develop a thriving tech sector, it becomes home to a lot of well-paid professionals. That drives up housing costs. Fifty years ago, the Santa Clara valley was a cheap place to live, and most of the land was orchards. Now it's all urban, and one of the most expensive places to live in the country,

      The big magnet for tech companies is other tech companies. People quit their jobs to start their own companies, and don't feel like moving. Plus an established tech sector means a skilled labor pool you can drawn upon. Even if you wanted to start up in the low-cost boonies, you'd have a hard time getting the people you need to move there. Some of your staff might work remotely, but with a very few exceptions (such as MySQL) companies need their core personnel in one place.

      Good networking used to be a factor too. 15 years ago, half the streets in Silicon Valley were being torn up so the telecoms could lay fiber. But nowadays network infrastructure seems to be less important. Portland, OR, where I live now, has really sucky Internet connectivity, but still manages to attract a lot of software firms to its downtown. Many seem to be cloud software companies, which is unsurprising, since these buy their server time from Amazon or Rackspace, so they don't need a lot of premises bandwidth..

    19. Re:High cost of living is attractive? by aralin · · Score: 1

      And neither did anyone from San Francisco. That thing wouldn't be even considered a real city in Europe. Manhattan, Boston, maybe Washington. That's it for citiies in US.

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  6. Cities, suburbs, or country? by EzInKy · · Score: 1

    Really the only important thing is who your neighbors are. Ideally they'll be as libertarian as yourself. Doesn't really matter whether they are social or conservative as both understand that people need to be able to live their private lives without undue government interance. You know the type I mean, the ones who don't give a shit if you smoke pot or have five spouses. The people who want to control what you do on your own time are authoritarians. A libertarian's only concern is that you both look after each other's homestead when you can't be looking after it for yourself.

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    1. Re:Cities, suburbs, or country? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Holy Mother of lol!

  7. technology is overrated by Hazel+Bergeron · · Score: 0

    Pinterest, Zynga, Yelp, Square, Twitter, and Salesforce.com are some of the more notable tech companies

    Pinterest, Zynga - please, Sir, can I have a share of the social media pie?.
    Yelp - a phone book - bravo, new world.
    Square - because it's not already too easy to get people spending money.
    Twitter - RSS for the ADHD-sufferer.
    Salesforce - because your clients' data's not worth shit.

    more than 500 new start-up companies like Kickstarter and Tumblr

    Kickstarter - taking out the middleman (hello, I'm your new middleman)
    Tumblr - absolutely no point whatsoever.

    gigantic Google satellite in the old Port Authority Building

    What represented a country which actually made things now houses the world's largest ad broker.

    Anyone who still takes capitalism seriously is an idiot.

    1. Re:technology is overrated by vlm · · Score: 1

      Pinterest, Zynga, Yelp, Square, Twitter, and Salesforce.com are some of the more notable tech companies

      Pinterest, Zynga - please, Sir, can I have a share of the social media pie?.
      Yelp - a phone book - bravo, new world.
      Square - because it's not already too easy to get people spending money.
      Twitter - RSS for the ADHD-sufferer.
      Salesforce - because your clients' data's not worth shit.

      I'd take your detailed and accurate analysis and rather than damning capitalism simply claim they're not tech companies.

      My father's first IT job was in computerizing a major class B railroad. Of course they'd had "unit record machines" and such since they were first invented but right up to today they're still adding more and more IT "stuff" to run the business. Only an idiot would call the railroad a "tech company" just because they use a lot of computers in every area of the business.

      When I was a teen he worked at a huge heavy industrial fabricator basically doing the same thing, computerizing operations. Databases of whats in stock, early CAD, early data warehousing operations, etc. Again only an idiot would call an 50 acre industrial fabrication factory complex, which happens to have a lot of computers, a "tech company"

      In the 10's now that every business is heavily computerized, it seems stylish to call a boring business in a boring field a "tech company" in order to make it look less boring, and/or if there is no viable long term business plan, just call it a "tech company" and it'll be OK.

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    2. Re:technology is overrated by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      How is making games not making something? If it was Milton Bradly pumping out Monopoly boards it would be better somehow than Zynga?

      Yelp is indeed an improvement on the Yellow Pages, which themselves were valuable. Is your issue that it's not spit out on dead trees?

      Square is at least somewhat better for small business than trying to get a merchant account. I've done that before and it is a PITA. Get just a few chargebacks and they are content to hold your money for 6 months. Sue them and they drop your account. Fun. I don't know if Square is any better (never used them), but it sure seems simpler to set up than a traditional merchant account.

      I'm not a huge Twitter fan, but can you point me to an RSS provider that lets me post an RSS from an SMS?

      I have no idea what your fear with Salesforce is. Salesmen used to leave their Rolodex sitting on their office desk. They'd carry their client info in briefcases and leave it in cars. These aren't exactly secure. I'm not aware that people's customer data was compromised by Salesforce, but naturally it could happen.

      Kickstarter is raw capitalism. Someone making money by raising money. Providing capital.

      Tumblr I have no experience with, but that's because I'm too old. Kids are remarkably devoted to it, so I'm not sure what your gripe is with it.

      Capitalism sucks, but I'd love to hear the system you think does better.

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    3. Re:technology is overrated by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The "high tech" moniker seems outdated to describe what the new generation of startups does. Social networking companies are really in the "tech media" business, and require at least as much marketing/communications savvy as facility with math/science/computers. Not saying there isn't plenty of advanced computer science (e.g. machine intelligence) going on, but for the most part that enhances rather than drives what the companies are offering.

  8. We were lucky by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    But I just don't get the hateful crusade against them. I personally enjoyed having a decent sized yard as a kid

    "Decent sized yard" is the key. Many, all too many, suburbs don't have greenspace (parks and other places to play) or if they do they are driving distance for most kids. In my suburban neighborhood, the yards are on half acre or less plots, the nearest park is 5 miles away, and the kids have really no where to play outside; so they stay indoors playing video games and getting obese.

    When developers build a subdivision in suburbia, they put as many homes in the development as they can to maximize their profits - to state the obvious. Any amenities are an after thought and poorly designed - usually it's just a "clubhouse" and a shitty pool that's too small to do laps in; such as some kidney shaped thing to lounge around to work on one's melanoma. We have tennis courts but they were built in an area that the developer couldn't put a house so he put tennis courts there - which are constantly being vandalized by the little shits who have nothing better to do.

    Why do folks live there? Schools. To have their kids go to a better school.

    Decent sized yards are usually found in areas where the zoning boards force developers to a minimum sized plot that allows for the decent sized yard - like my parent's house where I grew up. The minimum building lot was an acre and as a result I also grew up with a decent sized yard.

    1. Re:We were lucky by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why do folks live there? Schools. To have their kids go to a better school.

      Otherwise stated as "schools without any blacks or hispanics".

    2. Re:We were lucky by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So?

    3. Re:We were lucky by Glarimore · · Score: 1

      Why do folks live there? Schools. To have their kids go to a better school.

      Otherwise stated as "schools without any blacks or hispanics".

      No, otherwise stated as "schools located in areas that have a large [property tax]:[population] ratio. You can try to make this a racial thing, but in reality it's a monetary thing. It just so happens that in the US if you are poor you are more likely to be non-white. Many of he problems people associate with non-white people in the US are actually problems associated with poverty.

      Money for schools comes primarily from property taxes. If you have big, expensive houses with big yards, and a relatively low population, the schools in the area are going to have plenty of funding. If you pack tons of people on welfare into the same area, guess what? There isn't going to be money to adequately fund schools in the area.

    4. Re:We were lucky by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can try to make this a racial thing, but in reality it's a monetary thing. It just so happens that in the US if you are poor you are more likely to be non-white. Many of he problems people associate with non-white people in the US are actually problems associated with poverty.

      Hmmm... it just so happens... and it just so happens the same racial groups just so happen to be more likely to be poor all over the world, and it just so happens they have the same problems associated with them, even outside of the US. It just so happens.

    5. Re:We were lucky by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      Why do folks live there? Schools. To have their kids go to a better school.

      Otherwise stated as "schools without any blacks or hispanics".

      Bullshit. Though there is the type that actually thinks that way, most people who can afford living near a better school, middle and upper middle class families, they only care to live among people of the same economic class (because they typically share the same views on education, and coupled with their income, THAT'S what make their public schools better.)

      Now, there is some truth that African-Americans, Haitians and Hispanics do not fare as well, economically, in the same proportions as Whites, Asians and other Black populations (like Jamaicans). And what we have is a segregation of educational quality based on income, independently of race.

      One can argue (both ways) that one (race/culture) begets the other (income or lack thereof). But it is not accurate to equate "wanting a better school" to "wanting a school w/o blacks or hispanics." That's just race baiting with no useful purpose, a vicious (and highly inaccurate) oversimplification of a complex social problem.

    6. Re:We were lucky by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's magical about having blacks and Hispanics in your school?

    7. Re:We were lucky by Stiletto · · Score: 1

      When developers build a subdivision in suburbia, they put as many homes in the development as they can to maximize their profits - to state the obvious. Any amenities are an after thought and poorly designed - usually it's just a "clubhouse" and a shitty pool that's too small to do laps in; such as some kidney shaped thing to lounge around to work on one's melanoma. We have tennis courts but they were built in an area that the developer couldn't put a house so he put tennis courts there - which are constantly being vandalized by the little shits who have nothing better to do.

      Why do folks live there? Schools. To have their kids go to a better school.

      You have written my pain. The lots out here are measured in square feet, not acres, and we're going to be moving to one of these hell holes because......... Ding Ding Ding! It's where the good schools are.

      I'd much rather live in the city.. or way WAY out in the foothills, but alas, the only affordable places WITH good schools are all in McSuburbia.

    8. Re:We were lucky by khallow · · Score: 1

      and it just so happens the same racial groups just so happen to be more likely to be poor all over the world, and it just so happens they have the same problems associated with them, even outside of the US. It just so happens.

      Counterexamples: Irish and Italians.

  9. Urban crime, panhandlers, etc. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I used to work in a downtown area, but no more. I don't miss having my car broken into.

    Panhandlers and bums are a mixed bag. I sort of miss it for nostalgic reasons, but didn't like it when I was down there with them.

    Our city is short on musicians, street mimes and preachers, so it wasn't the full urban experience. YMMV.

    1. Re:Urban crime, panhandlers, etc. by Joe_Dragon · · Score: 1

      you can find the musicians in the subway stations.

  10. Krugman y2k essay on the topic by Kergan · · Score: 3, Informative

    Krugman wrote a similar prediction back in the y2k special issue of the NYT:

    Here again, there were straws in the wind. At the beginning of the 1990s, there was much speculation about which region would become the center of the burgeoning multimedia industry. Would it be Silicon Valley? Los Angeles? By 1996 the answer was clear; the winner was ... Manhattan, whose urban density favored the kind of close, face-to-face interaction that turned out to be essential.

    http://mit.edu/krugman/www/BACKWRD2.html

  11. Different strokes for different folks by RoverDaddy · · Score: 1

    Just skimming the comments here I can see that there are all kinds of opinion on this. Some folks are city people, some are not. Personally, I have never lived or worked in a city. I live and work in the Boston suburbs. The suburbs here are not exactly as 'sprawling' as those around larger cities in warmer climates. Office parks with high tech jobs follow all the ring roads around Boston. You can easily find a place to live near them, so that any supposed sprawl doesn't have to affect your daily life at all.

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    1. Re:Different strokes for different folks by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

      [Boston suburbs] are not exactly as 'sprawling' as those around larger cities in warmer climates. Office parks with high tech jobs follow all the ring roads around Boston. You can easily find a place to live near them, so that any supposed sprawl doesn't have to affect your daily life at all.

      I think that the real sprawl is actually in the MidWest, and maybe the parts of California that are a long way from the ocean or bay. I'm in one of the many "small city" suburbs along the coast, and we're a lot like what you describe -- there are large business parks at either end of our town, so I'd be surprised if anybody is more than a 5-10 minute drive from one at most.

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  12. Sprawl? by jamesl · · Score: 1

    Define "Sprawl."

    Is it perhaps the commute or the schools or the restaurants or the parks or the entertainment or the museums or the cost of housing or the type of housing or the transportation or the opportunities or the je ne sais qua that determines where one wants to work?

    1. Re:Sprawl? by MightyYar · · Score: 2

      "Sprawl" to me means largely unplanned ad-hoc development. No through-streets, so all the developments dump onto congested main roads. Poor conditions for pedestrians, and terrible public transit, so you have to drive everywhere. Little or no public space, and when it does exist it is just as ad-hoc as the other development.

      Older suburbs are a bit less sprawly, if only because they were originally developed by railroad companies and so have sidewalks, small downtowns, and often still have an operating commuter rail line.

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    2. Re:Sprawl? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry, did you mean, "Je ne sais quoi?"

    3. Re:Sprawl? by jamesl · · Score: 1

      The incorrect spelling of "je ne sais quoi", which in French literally translates to "I know not what". It is often used to describe something of an unknown yet appealing quality.

      http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=je%20ne%20sais%20qua

    4. Re:Sprawl? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's an astonishingly stupid way of saying "yes".

  13. While at the same time by Vinegar+Joe · · Score: 2
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  14. My Soul Is Crushed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    My soul is crushed after being subjected to this article.

    I hate people that want to impose their preferred development style on everyone else. If you don't like the suburbs, live in the city. If you don't like the city, live in the burbs or country. Why does it have to be only one development model? Variety and choice is good.

    I'll bet that this trend, created by small startups, will quickly reverse. The driving factor for Silicon Valley's sprawl was the need for inexpensive space. Space for lots of people and lots of warehouses and lots of parking. Once the city startups need the space and see the cost, they'll move into the soul crushing zone again.

    1. Re:My Soul Is Crushed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They've made a choice and they're insecure about that choice so they must rationalize it. Part of that rationalization is if this is the right choice for me, then it must be the right choice for all people, and so those who prefer differently are wrong and must be corrected.

      Personally, I think cities are crowded and filthy, and the supposed advantage of not needing a car is ruined by the fact that there are still plenty of cars everywhere, making noise and stinking up the place.

  15. founders by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The companies listed are located where their founders live. They personally don't want to commute or live too far away from their friends. I don't think the founders care so much about the workers who generally aren't paid enough to purchase homes where the company is located. Lots of companies are founded by people that live in Palo Alto and they don't end up commuting to SF.

    1. Re:founders by Stiletto · · Score: 1

      The companies listed are located where their founders live. They personally don't want to commute or live too far away from their friends. I don't think the founders care so much about the workers who generally aren't paid enough to purchase homes where the company is located. Lots of companies are founded by people that live in Palo Alto and they don't end up commuting to SF.

      Purchase homes? Who the hell even does this anymore? If you work anywhere up the peninsula between Sunnyvale and the city, I bet you aren't paid enough to purchase a home near work.

  16. foghat by slick7 · · Score: 1

    Cool.

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  17. Women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    One of the biggest issues with Silicon Valley is that it is all tech nerds. If you work in a big city you can run into the opposite sex from time to time.

    1. Re:Women by Kergan · · Score: 1

      One of the biggest issues with Silicon Valley is that it is all tech nerds. If you work in a big city you can run into the opposite sex from time to time.

      Especially in NYC, where single females outnumber single males by around 200k:

      http://www.politicsdaily.com/2010/04/20/worlds-best-city-for-men-new-york-city-no-1-in-survey/

    2. Re:Women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Posted as anon for obvious reasons.

      That stat is irrelevant. The women in NYC for the most part all suck. Stuck up, snotty, not friendly, superficial. If you're not in fantastic shape, tall, or great looking, forget it. You'll have millions of hot women around you, but no way to date them. You'll be a kid in a candy store with no money. If you think about it, it makes sense tho. If you're a decently good-looking woman, and you live in the city, you're probably being asked out by 10-20 guys per day. Why settle for anything less than the best?

      Not only that, but good luck having any kind of relationship. A good looking girl in NYC is probably simultaneously seeing 5 guys at once, and gets about 20 guys/day asking for her #. Good luck getting her to commit. SPOILER: they don't commit in NYC.

    3. Re:Women by Kergan · · Score: 1

      Oh come on. As much as I agree that girls don't commit in NYC, they sure get laid. :-P

      Or then you're only asking out girls that are totally outside of your league in the most upscale clubs in manhattan, in case you're indeed wasting your time.

      I mean, seriously... A 20-something male going out in the meat packer's district or tribeca cannot possibly go back home alone on a WE evening. It's just not possible, unless he hopelessly tried to hit on girls talking D&D and the arcades of optimizing brainf*ck programs -- in which case he deserves to go home alone irrespective of where he lives.

  18. Frank talk about Cities/Suburbs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Places like Pinterest, Yelp, Twitter, might as well be call "Hipster" because moving to the cities is as noted above, a way to get cheap and short-term young workers. It is not a sustainable strategy.

    Cities have higher rents than suburbs (duh, land is more expensive there, and decent districts are in short supply). By contrast there is far greater square footage of safe places to work in suburbs.

    Cities draw young unmarried workers seeking the opposite sex. Suburbs draw married/cohabitating couples seeking decent places for their children. As the workforce ages it demands suburbs. Particularly for women who find cities threatening after they've found a mate.

    Cities are filled with Black, and Hispanic populations who are MUCH MUCH MUCH higher in criminality than White middle class suburb populations. And not all cities are the same. Portland, Seattle, and other Whitopia Cities are far safer (this includes San Francisco) than 90% Black Detroit, or Cleveland, or Birmingham Alabama, or much of metro Atlanta. Inner-ring suburbs that are mostly Black, filled with over 90% illegitimate kids, no adult male presence in their lives, gangs ruling everything, massive dysfunction, can be far more violent (look at murder rates) than places like San Francisco, which has a low murder rate (the result of Blacks in particular being ethnically cleansed out of the place by rising property prices). Oakland across the bay is the mirror image of San Francisco -- poor, Black, Hyper-violent.

    And a good deal of the Silicon Valley is being over-run by the Mexodus, transforming a great deal of it into Tijuana Norte. With all the gang and drug violence. That makes retaining skilled workers difficult. No one wants to risk getting mugged or shot just walking to their car. Mexicans leaving places like Michoacan or Chiapas retain the characteristics: gang violence, corruption, drug trafficking, of their homeland (where recently two bloggers were butchered and hung upside down as corpses from a bridge).

    A lot of what is driving this move to cities, and lets be honest, no one is moving to Oakland, is a desire to avoid the Mexicanization of much of the inner-ring suburbs which has transformed them into a variation of Tijuana. No one wants to work in Tijuana. An expensive, mostly White, and thus safer city like Portland beats a place like East Palo Alto. But for a company to thrive long term it must have long-term employees who can stay and keep their expertise, and that means a safe suburb with a reasonable commute. No one can afford to live in San Francisco who has not inherited a trust fund, places like Portland or Seattle are little better. And Chicago is sliding into Detroit-like decay before our eyes. Two people were shot just blocks from Obama's mansion in less than two weeks.

    1. Re:Frank talk about Cities/Suburbs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are absolutely correct, and therefore will likely be moded down to the Seventh Circle of Hell. Good job you posted AC.

    2. Re:Frank talk about Cities/Suburbs by Animats · · Score: 2

      no one is moving to Oakland

      The hip stuff in the SF Bay Area is in Oakland now. NIMBY, Art Murmur, warehouse parties, etc. Space in SF is too expensive. Big art projects are moving up to the Richmond shipyard area. SOMA in SF hasn't had an art scene since the 1990s, before the dot-com boom moved in and took over.

      (It's working out well for some friends of mine. One bought a loft in a bad neighborhood across from the Maritime Hall in SOMA before the dot-com boom. The tallest building in SF is now across the street from her. She's going to be able to retire from the value of that loft.)

  19. all about money by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    In general, younger people live in cities. Older, married with kids people live in the suburbs. The younger folks are simply less expensive. Companies move to the city to get younger workers and get rid of older workers without having a layoff.

  20. I wish they'd cut it out by russotto · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I work at the Port of New York Authority building, and I'd much rather my job were in some soul-less office park in the suburbs. The choices for housing in the NYC area are to rent in a shoebox in Manhattan for insanely high prices, rent a slightly larger place in Hoboken, Jersey City, Queens or Brooklyn for also insanely high prices (and have a relatively long subway commute), or to buy in the suburbs (also insanely costly) and have a ridiculously long commute (1hr+, whether Long Island or New Jersey). I'm not a city person, I need some space. My wife is an artist, she needs some space to work. I'm not so interested in "nightlife" (#1, I'm married, so the payoff isn't there. #2, I'm a geek, so it never was)

    I think there's two main reasons the tech companies are mostly going to cities. One is an ideological attraction to cities and antipathy to suburbs on the part of management. The other is an attraction to cities (particularly including New York and San Francisco) on the part of new grads; when you're competing for Ivy League CS grads, an office in Putnam County, NY or Eureka, IN just isn't going to cut it.

    1. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think there's two main reasons the tech companies are mostly going to cities. One is an ideological attraction to cities and antipathy to suburbs on the part of management. The other is an attraction to cities (particularly including New York and San Francisco) on the part of new grads; when you're competing for Ivy League CS grads, an office in Putnam County, NY or Eureka, IN just isn't going to cut it.

      In Boston there's been a recent surge in tech companies starting up or relocating to a newly developed stretch of the downtown waterfront. It's certainly not cheaper than the suburbs per square foot and parking is a hassle, so I can think of the following reasons why companies do it:

      - attractive for recent grads from MIT (especially), Harvard, Northeastern, and other colleges who may still live in town

      - *not* attractive for older workers who tend to have settled down in the suburbs

      - fine restaurants, water views, historical buildings, etc. might produce a creative edge, or at least be attractive to people who consider themselves "creative types"

      - the cache of being in the district

      Note in particular the second point - although it is quite possible for workers with homes in the suburbs to commute to the waterfront, it's a pain and would probably result in a commute of an hour or more each way. So there's a bit of an age bias without having to staff up HR and deal with the threat of lawsuits.

    2. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by ornil · · Score: 1

      I live in the Silicon Valley, and I had a choice of moving to NYC, and chose not to. Basically for the same reason - not a great place to raise a family. In the valley, your huge companies aren't all on top of each other and their employees aren't always competing over the same one-mile-radius from the center. You have Google in Mountain View, Apple in Cupertino, Yahoo in Santa Clara, Facebook in Menlo Park, etc. That makes commutes saner and housing cheaper. And each of these cities has its own little "cultural" thing, and you can go to one of the larger cities for bigger events and places.

    3. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by Supercooldude · · Score: 1

      The problem is that even the suburbs around any large city with lots of tech jobs are still insanely expensive. A detached house in the burbs in the greater Toronto area is still 700k, and try buying one on a property big enough so that you can't hear your neighbor fart in his living room from your living room, it'll cost you well over a million. What I would like to see is companies relocate to other smaller cities where the cost of living is reasonable. Or at least become more tolerant of telecommuting.

    4. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Yup, I'd love to work at Google or one of the big tech companies, but they're all in lousy locations. I want to live/work somewhere that I can get a decent detached home for $200k, drive to work in 15-20min of light traffic, and have a nice selection of places to eat/shop within 20 min of home. That means a moderately-distant suburb of a moderate city, not somewhere within 75 miles of NYC, and certainly not downtown NYC or Southern California, or even inside the limits of a smaller city.

      So, I work at a smaller company that isn't as promising, but where I can be near family and generally live a peaceful life. I could care less if the place I eat has a Michelin Star, and chains are just fine by me as long as they're reasonably good.

    5. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by blackraven14250 · · Score: 1

      There's another reason management is attracted to cities that you're missing - proximity to capital.

    6. Re:I wish they'd cut it out by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, want to trade? You can come over to my part of Silicon Valley where you can rent a double-sized shoebox for the same insanely high prices, keep 80% of your commute, and drop 80% of the capability to get anywhere walking or on public transit. Gas is $0.50/gallon more expensive than the rest of the country, the freeway moves at 15 miles per hour, and there's never anywhere to park when you get where you're going. I'll take New York. I don't have a family to buy space for, but until I do, I'll take it.

  21. The best candidate city ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    ... try Vancouver, B.C.
    Liberal? Check.
    Some big universities? Check. (Are they good enough? You can debate that, but they're hardly unknown)
    No urban sprawl and thriving city center? Check. The best in North America
    An added bonus, it's much easier to get workers to set up shop here from other parts of the world than USA. It's in the same time zone as Silicon Valley and intermediate between Europe & Asia. (That is critical when you need to hold meetings)
    VC Money? Hmm....that might be the only catch

    Yes, I worked in Silicon Valley before and yes, it is sunny and it is a bit of a soul crushing urban sprawl.

    1. Re:The best candidate city ... by Supercooldude · · Score: 1

      And an average house price of $961,000, or about 12x the average income. No thanks.

    2. Re:The best candidate city ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It sounds like a great candidate for being nuked.

    3. Re:The best candidate city ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Vancouver sucks. The developers have taken over city hall with payola to the tune of millions of dollars in election funds to their sock puppets.

      The result is unbridled development in the real estate market. And they aren't bothering making any parks or public space. They have us crammed together so tightly into teeny tiny apartments and condos that I no longer view my neighbours as my friends. They are competition for space when I park. They are competition for time when I shop. They are competition for amenities when I relax on the weekends.

      Quit cramming people into small boxes. We are not rats.

    4. Re:The best candidate city ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You forgot one point in your list:

      Real Estate bubble? Check.

      http://www.crackshackormansion.com/

  22. A few things for SF... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's because it's where the young talent largely is. The change is that companies are now actually locating in SF, partly because the city is trying to actively attract and keep businesses, partly because the valley is becoming a lot more expensive. A decade ago as soon as a startup hit a certain size and needed larger space it left the city - now it can actually afford to stay. You still see shuttle busses for the larger valley companies picking up folks in the city to ferry south. The Google Bus is always packed with folks to make to the 40 mile trip down to Mountain View...

    And It isn't so much that the valley is soul-sucking suburban sprawl, though there are many places like that - strip malls and Chili's and Walmarts - it's that it's just not a great place to be a young renter. The downtowns of the some of the communities in the heart of the valley - Palo Alto, Mountain View, Los Altos, etc. - are quite nice, with art house theaters, swanky shops and restaurants. But they're geared more towards rich folks and single family homes than young folks, and not only is trying to find a place to rent around there hard it's going to as or more expensive than living in SF...

    Traditionally, many of the tech startups came out of the nexus of Stanford and all the VC groups along Sand Hill Road right across from the campus and as such settled around the area. But now Palo Alto has some of the most expensive office space in the world because of that demand and startups are looking elsewhere, particularly ones founded by transplants who have no connection to the area. They'd much rather live in SF, and there's still chunks of SF yet to be gentrified where companies can find good deals (i.e. Twitter's new campus).

  23. cities are great by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Until you get a life. Wives want kids. Get kids, need more space to accommodate them and a car. Kids get few years old, need decent school to send them to.

    City hobbies: stepping over drunks, hosing piss out of doorways, replacing broken car windows and the stuff that was stolen, hunting for parking, carrying tear gas.

    Tech businesses moving to cities is a TV sitcom induced fad that will Pass as quickly as it arrived.

    1. Re:cities are great by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just wait and see when gas becomes as expensive as it is in Europe.

      On this side of the pond, it's cheaper to live downtown and to rent a car when you need one, than it is to live in a suburb and to own and maintain two cars.

    2. Re:cities are great by PPH · · Score: 1

      Until you get a life.

      In other words: Cities are great for younger people. Cheap younger people. Once your employees start to get some experience and demand higher wages, they'll leave own their own for jobs in better environments. And you won't get sued for age discrimination by firing them.

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  24. Yeah and I'll bet all you City-Gushers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    talk a good game about "diversity" and "inclusion" during those times you're not hating on your suburban neighbors.

  25. hipsta please! by plurgid · · Score: 2

    everyone I work with is a telecommuter.
    everyone. for the past 7 years or so.
    some of them are in Europe, some of them are in America, some of them are in Australia, and some of them are in India.
    they are all in their homes, which may or may not be in a city, I don't really know because it doesn't matter in the slightest.

    and no, I don't work for some spiky hair'd startup hipster magnet.
    I work at one of the biggest companies in the world.

    this is how the future will be.

    1. Re:hipsta please! by downhole · · Score: 2

      It might work in some cases, but I'm just a bit skeptical that telecommuting is the future for all jobs. Anything involving hardware, for one. Even if it's all software and documents, between time zones, poor quality conference calls, and text-based communications, there are some things that are just hopelessly inefficient if you can't actually get all of the people together in the same physical room.

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    2. Re:hipsta please! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For hardware, you just need a handful of people per data center to rack and cable the equipment. Actual management is done by remote through iLO/DRAC for the OS install, and then SSH/RDP for day to day operations.

  26. Ghost town by Animats · · Score: 1

    Around 2009, right after the big recession crash, it really was like that. I was walking near Union Square at "rush hour", and seeing empty streets. The first time I saw that, I asked a cop if there was some emergency or street blockage, and he said no, it's been like this for a few weeks now.

    San Jose was even deader. Very convenient, though; drive downtown, park in empty space in front of building, go in.

    For sheer city deadness, it's hard to beat Cleveland at night.

    1. Re:Ghost town by phaggood · · Score: 1

      >For sheer city deadness, it's hard to beat Cleveland at night.

      Then you haven't been to downtown Los Angeles at 6:05pm.

      And I mean downtown LA proper, not Hollywood.

    2. Re:Ghost town by sunspot42 · · Score: 1

      Downtown LA is positively jumping after hours now compared to about a decade ago.

      I lived in downtown LA in 2003-2004, and it was d-e-a-d dead after about 7:00PM every night. But I stayed there last summer for a week and its changed dramatically. A bunch of new apartment complexes have gone up on the edge of downtown, and a bunch of old office buildings have been converted into trendy (and surprisingly affordable, post real-estate meltdown) lofts. There are now pedestrians out wandering the sidewalks after 9:00PM and a slew of busy (in fact packed) restaurants like the vast Bottega Louie and Mas Malo draw in patrons from the entire metro area.

      New bars, restaurants and clubs are opening all the time. At this pace within a decade Downtown LA could become the next Sunset Strip. All Los Angeles really needs to do now is attract a few hot tech firms to downtown. I wouldn't have thought that possible in 2004, but I could certainly see it happening now.

    3. Re:Ghost town by captainkoloth · · Score: 1

      They have some awesome bars though.
      The real problems most older cities have is they are trapped in a cycle of gentrification and decay. The one redeeming quality about Cuyahoga county is they have bitchin Public transportation system. Unless they figure out a way to get the poor/ criminal element out of the city, it's all for naught.

  27. FTFY by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I walk outside, down the block, stop at Whole Foods, pick out what I want and check out and pay twice as much. They set up a delivery for me later that day because I really don't want to get my shit stolen on the walk home. While I'm out I walk by my favorite bakery and pick up some scones so I can feel like a hip classy urban socialite, and then stop by my favorite coffee place (there are about 10 to choose from in a 4 block radius) to sit and have some coffee and read while trying to block out the sound of honking taxis and angry Italians. I decide that it's such a nice day out that I'd like to go to central park, so I hope I don't get mugged as I hop on the uptown subway that's around the corner, and 10 minutes later, I escape the compacted mass of bodies that is the NYC subway system and I'm there. I stroll through the park -- not having had to find somewhere to park my car which would cost me a small fortune if I even owned a car -- and then get yelled at by some crazy hobo pooping in the bushes, and then realize that it's getting to be about time for my delivery from Whole Foods. I pop back on the subway where I am randomly accosted on the train by some tough guy who doesn't like my shirt and am back home to my cramped $2000/month studio apartment in 10 minutes.

  28. err... Holborn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Else I don't know which part of London you live in.

  29. The 1970's Called by DaKong · · Score: 1

    and they want their stereotypes of cities back. Dirty, filled with crime, derelict neighborhoods, etc. etc. Thanks to the meth epidemic I'd say that suburbs and rural America have inherited that rap.

    I live in Brooklyn. Yesterday I took a break from programming and went for a casual walk through the neighborhood, swung past the cafe on the corner where there was a full-fledged ceilidh going on, then went up the street through a block party where the kids were drawing with chalk on the street and playing in the fire hydrant they had opened a bit as a sprinkler. Through Prospect Park where people were playing cricket and eating tandoori BBQ. Then around through the Brooklyn Botanic Gardens where they were having a bonsai exhibition. Out the north entrance and sat and watched the mathematically patterned dancing fountain in front of the Brooklyn Museum of Art for a bit. Then swung back through the green market at the top of Grand Army Plaza where I picked up some of the finest organic veggies on the Eastern seaboard for dinner. There was a bluegrass/folk trio jamming just inside the GAP entrance to Prospect Park, so sat and listened to them for a while. Then walked back home past artists selling works that would be hanging in a museum in the rest of America.

    That wasn't a special festival day, just an average summer day in New York. Didn't have to plan to see any of those things. Just did, because they're just there and they're just happening like that all the time, everywhere here. Had I walked in a different direction I'd have seen plenty of similar things that way.

    None of any of that sounds anything like the weird, dystopian picture you painted of the big, bad city.

    For me, being around that degree of refined creativity and passion is incredibly inspiring as a human being and as a technologist. So, yeah, because the suburbs are the opposite of that sort of density and complexity, they are soul-crushing.

    But I'm glad you like it there. Please stay.

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  30. Do Better Research by DaKong · · Score: 1

    You didn't try very hard to get the lay of the land, if you're saying those things about NY. NY is a great place to raise kids. Lots for them to see and do and be stimulated by. The neighborhood I live in is bursting at the seams with young families. They have phenomenal playgrounds to play at, like the sort of stuff I used to dream about as a kid. They have massive parks to play in, classes to take, activities to do. If you prefer lower-density neighborhoods, there's always Staten Island, Far Rockaway in Queens, Riverdale in the Bronx, or NJ.

    And for adult interests like art, culture, and cuisine I can walk to world class cuisine, any kind of cuisine, in less than 5 minutes from my house and pay less than you would at McDonald's. And the art and culture you can usually get for free, especially in the summertime when they have free concerts and performances galore.

    I grew up out West in the 70's and I know all the stereotypes about the big, bad city, and I can tell you that not one of them is true.

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    1. Re:Do Better Research by MogNuts · · Score: 1

      Sorry gotta call you out on this one. NY is quite possible the worse place ever. I've lived in the NY/NJ area for all my life pretty much, so I can vouch from experience. You mention:

      Staten Island: yea, if you want to live in "The Jersey Shore." Every single person in SI is a ultra-tanned lip-smooching-in-pictures guido/guidette. Watch the "Jersey Shore." This *really* is how Staten Island is.

      NJ: Shitty people, superficial, nothing to do (only exists as a resting place for those who commute into NYC), a place where everyone wants to get out but doesn't because "all my family lives here", no woman wants to talk/date you unless you are on steroids or look like you are on "the Jersey Shore" (see above). Commute takes 1.5 hours each way into NYC, and a 2 hour drive into the city on a fri/sat night. And to do anything around the area, it's a minimum 30 minute drive in soul-crushing traffic. NJ, short of southern NJ, is the worst place in the world to live. AVOID.

      Bronx and Queens: really? No really? Quite possibly the dumpiest places ever, and you're saying they're great? And there are "suburbs" in these places. And they're even more dumpy. At least the urban areas of queen and bronx have things to do. The dumpy queens suburbs are just dirty and shitty with NOTHING to offer

    2. Re:Do Better Research by mirability · · Score: 1

      I loved living in Queens and I loved living in Brooklyn. Both places have a lot of culture and interesting things to do. I really miss the cocktails at Dutch Kills, seeing music at BAM, the 24-Korean grocery stores, the Brooklyn Flea, incredible Thai food whenever I wanted it, Little Tibet, my garden, the farmer's markets, PS1, The Secret Theater, and lots and lots of other enjoyable things. I probably would have been perfectly happy in each place if I didn't have to commute to Manhattan. But housing costs there were also rising and rising. I left Queens and have a two bedroom apartment where I can walk to work in Chicago for the same price.

  31. Respect the burbs, man by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I find the phrase 'soul crushing sprawl' offensive, because it's not as described.

    I grew up in Silicon Valley and it's a wonderful place to live with a lot of amenities. Some people have no idea how good they have it. Not everyone wants to overpay for a tiny apartment surrounded by cement. San Francisco is crowded, dirty and has terrible traffic and high crime. The only place in the valley that comes even close to this description is in East San Jose.

    Silicon Valley lives in a bit of a bubble. The tech industry keeps the real estate market from experiencing the real estate and job boom and bust cycle nearly as much as the rest of the country. As a result the area continues to remain firmly middle, upper middle class and affluent with a lot of amenities. If you're a family person, not a scenester and enjoy green trees, wide open avenues, spacious housing, easy access to open space preserves and the coast, great restaurants, safe neighborhoods and comparatively low crime, the Valley is a great place to live.

    1. Re:Respect the burbs, man by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

      Same thought here. I'm from the area that used to be known as Telecom Valley in the 90s, and it's a great place to have grown up or live as an adult. It's nice to jaunt down to SF to see a play/concert, visit relatives on a holiday, or "play tourist" for a day -- but I'm always happy to see the North Bay's forested hillsides & open meadows and wake up to a decently-sized backyard with trees the next morning.

      What's strange about the anti-suburban attitude is that of the many people living in major cities that I've known, once they were over 25, they'd just go home after work or do something that I can easily do here in the North Bay. They periodically would go to a concert, musical or play, but it was only about as frequent as it is for people to drive 30-70 minutes to a city for a similar event.

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  32. San Fran? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I grew up in San Fran

    I'm having trouble believing that anyone who grew up in SF calls it "San Fran".

    1. Re:San Fran? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Caught my eye too. Made me cringe a little.

    2. Re:San Fran? by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

      I cringed, but I've heard it before from non-Bay natives; at least he didn't call it "Frisco"!

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  33. its a great way to discriminate by age by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    if you're older, you most likely have a family and can't live in the city

  34. Diamond Age? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Neal Stephenson wrote about the quasi-warehousing of lower income people who took up residence in storage facilities as a result of overpopulation and technological de-industrialization, leaving an ever greater percentage of the expanding population to scrap for diminishing benefits from the promise of capitalism in a resource limited, efficiency oriented world.

    Does the exodus of high tech, high dollar employment from business parks during a period of industrial employment stagnation in high wage countries signal the beginning of such a transmogrification?

    An alternative exists in the resurgence of communities that reinvigorate themselves based on the arts, crafts and self-contained wealth of their own making. It's out there, but in smaller communities where people that eschew the bustle of overcrowded interdependence develop the skills necessary to provide unique products and skills that mass production can't supply.

  35. Heavy industry has all the good stuff by Animats · · Score: 1

    Again only an idiot would call an 50 acre industrial fabrication factory complex, which happens to have a lot of computers, a "tech company"

    A modern US manufacturing plant looks a lot more like a "tech company" than Yelp. There will be industrial robots, driverless vehicles, and CNC machine tools. Probably not too many people. If it's a plant that makes some low-cost consumer product, the machinery will be pumping product through at very high speeds, far faster than humans can work. That's "tech".

    Many "tech companies" do less tech and more sales than is generally realized. Yelp is a straight-up sales operation. Google is a large advertising direct sales force backed by a much smaller technical staff. Google's New York operation is mostly sales reps. Most Apple employees are on the retail side and make, GlassDoor says, $11.80/hour.

  36. Sure wasn't/isn't soul-crushing to me... by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

    I've known a lot of people from major cities, and after age 25, they virtually all would go home after a day at work, occasionally do things that are replicable in a decent suburb, and only did "big city" stuff as often as someone in driving distance would. People are welcome to adore cities, but they're not intrinsically superior -- any more than it's "better" to prefer cats over dogs, blue over green, chocolate ice cream over cherry, or other things.

    My brother and I are from the North Bay (Sonoma County), but have tried living in major cities only to find we were miserable there. When we were growing up here in SoCo, as long as a kid had a bike and non-paranoid parents, we could ride to a friend's place, the skateboarding park (once it was created), library, movies, bookstores, playgrounds, arcade, Boys & Girls club, run around with other kids in the area (building bike ramps for jumping, video games, etc.), join a sports team, go to game nights at a local hobby store -- plus take a bus to a major mall (fun place to hang out back then), ice arena, miniature golf, arcade, or waterslide park. Folks that figure they were "bored" as suburban kids should keep in mind that kids with enough free time living *anywhere* get bored; the lack of boredom as a kid is now believed to be harmful for their ability to solve problems creatively later in life.

    Teens/adults can additionally hang out downtown shopping/socializing/eating, visit wineries or breweries, see plays, tale college classes or go to seminars (there's a state university & a great community college), golf, go surfing or explore the rock formations at the beach, attend all kinds of concerts, kayak, hike in the wilderness, ride a horse competitively (any discipline), trail ride horseback, go camping, mountain bike, bike on paths in state parks (something I loved as a kid), eat at top-notch restaurants, etc. or take a quick 40-min highway drive to SF for everything they have there. Tons of stuff to do regardless of whether one has money or not, basically.

    Those aspects seem pretty standard for the East Bay, North Bay, and the SF Peninsula regions.

    Oh, in addition for the North Bay, *most* people up here love to drive on our highways (other than 101/37 at commute time), as traffic goes full-speed, we're surrounded by nature and can pick between long straightaways, curvy, hilly, or a mix of all 3. Personally, I don't mind being in highway traffic as long as I can comfortably have my window open, as I just put the radio on and enjoy the scenery, and driving is easy/brief enough to be no big deal. It's just when I have to drive in a major city that I tend to stress out; I could easily see how someone from a place like that would hate driving.

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  37. A lot of women are childfree by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

    There are plenty of childfree women these days, but we don't walk around proclaiming it because a lot of people still react by either insisting we don't know what we want & will change our minds or by becoming nasty towards us. Likewise, plenty of men (including geeks) *do* want kids if you ask them about it, and if they marry a woman that's on the fence, many of the guys will pester her until she gives in or the marriage fails.

    That said, I'm a (childfree) woman that prefers living in a somewhat-rural suburb because I love driving my own car, living in a single-family home, and being near nature, and I really don't enjoy the crowds, noise, or problems of big cities. The cities are fine for folks that do love them, but it's just not for me.

    Regarding tech industries being in cities, I think it's very similar to what it was like 14 years ago, when all of the tech companies last flooded into San Francisco... They'll stay there while the social networking & social-gaming boom is going on, then a lot of them will return to the business parks, hopefully including up here in the North Bay/Telecom Valley region.

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  38. I just read 1 out of 2 workers in SF have degrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only three other American cities have that high of an educated workforce. 'Nuff said.

  39. Richard Florida answered this by Randym · · Score: 1

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Creative_class#Places_of_high_Creative_Class_populations:

    In Cities and the Creative Class, Florida devotes several chapters to discussion of the three main prerequisites of creative cities (though there are many additional qualities which distinguish creative magnets). For a city to attract the Creative Class, he argues, it must possess "the three 'T's": Talent (a highly talented/educated/skilled population), Tolerance (a diverse community, which has a 'live and let live' ethos), and Technology (the technological infrastructure necessary to fuel an entrepreneurial culture).

    I would add that the increased possibility of serendipitous interactivity with other Creatives in an urban environment may be one of the underlying factors that leads to the selection of certain cities and not others.

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  40. Waking up to a 69 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I want to wake up to woman sucking my dick with her shaved pussy in my face.

  41. SF: Nice to Visit; SV: Great to Live There by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I just moved to Silicon Valley at the beginning of the year, so YMMV. Still, we found a house to rent only 5 miles away from work, the weather is relentlessly awesome, the schools are great, and everyone is friendly.

    San Francisco is cold every time we visit. It's tough to get past that.