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Genetic Studies Prove Cuckolded Fathers Are Rare In Human Populations

HughPickens.com writes: A common urban myth is that many fathers are cuckolded into raising children that genetically are not their own -- a fear fueled by the paternity tests that have become a standard staple of gossip magazines, talk shows, and TV series. Now, Carl Zimmer reports at the New York Times that our obsession with cuckolded fathers is seriously overblown as a number of recent genetic studies have challenged the notion that mistaken paternity is commonplace. It wasn't until DNA sequencing emerged in the 1990s that paternity tests earned the legal system's confidence. Labs were able to compare DNA markers in children to those of their purported fathers to see if they matched. As the lab tests piled up, researchers collated the results and came to a startling conclusion: 10 percent to 30 percent of the tested men were not the biological fathers of their children. There's only one problem with these previous studies: the results didn't come from a random sample of people. The people who ordered the tests already had reason to doubt paternity.

In a 2013 study, Dr. Maarten H.D. Larmuseau used Belgium's detailed birth records to reconstruct large family genealogies reaching back four centuries. Then the scientists tracked down living male descendants and asked to sequence their Y chromosomes. Y chromosomes are passed down in almost identical form from fathers to sons. Men who are related to the same male ancestor should also share his Y chromosome, providing that some unknown father didn't introduce his own Y [chromosome] somewhere along the way. Comparing the chromosomes of living related men, Larmuseau came up with a cuckoldry rate of less than 1 percent. Similar studies have generally produced the same low results in such countries as Spain, Italy and Germany, as well as agricultural villages in Mali. "The observed low EPP rates challenge the idea that women routinely 'shop around' for good genes by engaging in extra-pair copulations," concludes Larmuseau . "The (potential) genetic benefits of extra-pair children are unlikely to be offset by the (potential) costs of being caught, particularly in such a long-lived species as humans with heavy offspring dependence and massive parental investment."

282 comments

  1. Who cares if it ain't yours? by ls671 · · Score: 0, Troll

    Who cares if it ain't yours?

    He/she might end up being easier to raise because he/she would have less chances of having the same genetic bugs than yours.

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    1. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by GeekWithAKnife · · Score: 4, Insightful


      While that is idealistic and noble you will find that the vast majority of people care very much so. The thought of raising someone else's child typically has associations of infidelity. Society in general is monogamous even if most humans do cheat on a partners at least once at some point in life.

      Perhaps all genetics have "bugs" yours might not be worse than the unknown and there is an advantage of knowing about such "bugs". Even if yours are severe the adopted might be worse. No real guarantees.

      I believe that from inception humans are born to compete. To be better. From the fertilization of an egg to achieving anything in life. Sure there is a lot of bias and corruption and some unworthy humans have a head start in a position of privilege that it seems plain unfair.

      So most humans, as vessels for our genes are often very precious about us and what is our and of our own. The way you live, where you live, who your parents and grandparents are (genetically) shapes you as a person and your offspring.

      There are particular sets of difficulties when a child is known to be of a different parent. From social stigma to tendencies to biological/genetic differences that one parent's ego can find extremely challenging.

      While many women would choose to adopt, especially if they cannot have children of their own many men will give serious consideration to changing their to one that is fertile rather than adopt or at least have a surrogate mother as they want the child's gene to be of their own.

      We are not in the group because we love the group. We are in the group because we love ourselves. The group helps protect us, has economies of scale and sense of community. We would save our children first and foremost.

      While you may not care and I applaud you for the often believed enlightened position I care. I believe the vast majority of people care.

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    2. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Karmashock · · Score: 3, Insightful

      ... your dna is broken.

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    3. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Noble713 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Who cares if it ain't yours?

      So you have no reservations about an alpha male copulating with a desirable female before you do, and then leaving you with the emotional and financial burden of his conquest (in the form of offspring)? I'm sure every guy who has ever ejaculated in a woman who wasn't his wife has at least once thought "This could cause complications.....but that's ok, some schmuck will come along and pick up the pieces." You're ok being that hypothetical schmuck?

      He/she might end up being easier to raise because he/she would have less chances of having the same genetic bugs than yours.

      Do you have such low confidence in the quality of your genetic material that you consider another man's DNA an upgrade?

    4. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I blame his parents.
      Either way, natural selection will take care of it.

    5. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who cares if it ain't yours?

      He/she might end up being easier to raise because he/she would have less chances of having the same genetic bugs than yours.

      Whether you are experienced as a parent or not, I can't recall the last time I've heard something this fucking stupid on the topic.

    6. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anyone who isn't a weak-willed cuckold.

    7. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by wonkey_monkey · · Score: 2

      Your DNA cares. You serve largely to pass it on, and if the kid isn't yours, and you pick up on the clues, you're probably hardwired to reject the little mite.

      There is more to it, of course, but that would all seem to make sense from a DNA/evolution point of view.

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    8. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your DNA cares. You serve largely to pass it on

      Actually, your DNA doesn't give a shit. It's an encoding of a bunch of molecules - don't think it cares too much about anything

    9. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you find your own genetics to be sub-par, then that's your own prerogative. Leave other people out of it and save your self-pity to yourself. Self-pity deserves no sympathy.
      I personally wouldn't mind rearing an adopted kid, because that kid was a choice. A cuckolded child from a wife is however would not be my choice, if it ever happened in my situation; and more than that, it represents a lack of loyalty from my partner. I am perfectly ready to give loyalty to my partner, but if the same isn't mutual, then fuck the relationship. There is no relationships in that case because there isn't any mutual trust. More so, fuck anyone who would have me pay alimony for being the victim of adultery, which is why marriage can go fuck itself too.

    10. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 2

      In the grand scope of things, your DNA is basically diluted to nothing after a couple of generations.

      The ideas and values you imprint on the kids you raise have a much greater chance of surviving and creating a legacy for you.

      That's not to say that you should ever accept your spouse banging other people without your consent, but the DNA argument is somewhat flawed.

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    11. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2, Informative

      Who cares if it ain't yours?

      So you have no reservations about an alpha male copulating with a desirable female before you do, and then leaving you with the emotional and financial burden of his conquest (in the form of offspring)? I'm sure every guy who has ever ejaculated in a woman who wasn't his wife has at least once thought "This could cause complications.....but that's ok, some schmuck will come along and pick up the pieces." You're ok being that hypothetical schmuck?

      That would be more accurate if you change the bolded parts to "Someone else's wife".

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    12. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by 110010001000 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Wow. I hope you have zero children in real life. You would be a disaster to society.

    13. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I blame the guy his mom was fucking on the side.

    14. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by rmdingler · · Score: 2
      GP is on the right track, if not for the right reasons. It is the genes in the offspring that must be considered.

      Adoption is a great example of a child having an upbringing that is likely superior to the one she would've had biologically, and it makes sense that a woman would seek the security of her best mating even after she was pregnant with the child of an inferior mate.

      Most importantly, there are seven billion virtual copies of you and your gene set... your genetic outcome is not as special as your psyche may need it to be.

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    15. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 2

      As is often the case, it's the coverup that tends to be the problem.

      The reward for 'successfully propagated genes, is a winner at evolution' is often pretty unimpressive from the perspective of the individual(in situations where dying horribly to save your children or other genetic kin is evolutionarily advantageous, often downright lousy); so 'yeah; but that's not an adaptive strategy!!' is largely irrelevant when choosing between plans. You'll be dead inside a century regardless of whether your genes find new hosts or not, so it just doesn't matter much.

      Adoptive parents, cases of material-mixups at fertility clinics, and cuckolds are all in exactly the same situation in terms of genetic inheritance; but the first group explicitly chose that outcome; the second didn't choose it; but didn't suffer it because of malice(much less malice from their partner, which is usually a worse problem than incompetence by some random lab tech); and the third group is in that situation because they are being lied to, on a matter usually considered important, by a partner. The genetic 'problem' is largely irrelevant; but the 'substantial probability of deliberate deception by a trusted insider' problem is usually a pretty dire sign.

    16. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by rmdingler · · Score: 2
      Humans are an interesting lot. The family unit, in particular the offspring, benefit greatly from a traditional stable, mostly monogamous, marriage.

      You and your personal DNA would seemingly benefit from disseminating that seed as often and as widely as possible. The clear winner? Children from good homes and stable situations.

      There are billions of near copies. Any individual's DNA, lost forever to humanity, is not a tragedy... no matter our inflated self-worth.

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    17. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by silentcoder · · Score: 1

      Actually, when you look at it as a probability problem - the odds of somebody having exactly your DNA is on the order of a hundred trillion to one, considering only about a hundred billion people have ever lived - I must therefore conclude that it is unlikely to impossible for you to exist. Since the same math applies to all people, they must all be products of my fevered imagination and can therefore be safely ignored.

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    18. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Wycliffe · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In the grand scope of things, your DNA is basically diluted to nothing after a couple of generations.

      The ideas and values you imprint on the kids you raise have a much greater chance of surviving and creating a legacy for you.

      In the grand scope of things your ideas and values are also diluted to nothing in a few generations as well. The ideas and values of the society you live in probably have a much greater effect than you do on your great grand children and you can forget about much beyond that. But it doesn't really matter, unless you're someone especially famous (like king tut or a president), you'll be completely forgotten in about 5 generations and even if you are someone famous, you're still stuck on this little blue dot that is going nowhere fast and everything you are will disappear into nothingness and the universe doesn't care.

    19. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by jimbolauski · · Score: 1

      Raising children costs money approximately 15k a year, why would I sacrifice 15k of my hard earned money on some random child. Then there is the physiological damage done to a kid because his dad has so little respect for the mother and child he couldn't bother raising the child. The one supposed benefit is that the child might be easier to raise because they are not the same as me. I suspect you don't have any children of your own or are in a committed relationship and can't understand the ramifications of all of this.

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    20. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      In the grand scope of things, your DNA is basically diluted to nothing after a couple of generations.

      Nope. I'm a guy. My Y chromosome is not going to get diluted to nothing after a few generations as long as those generations include males.

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    21. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, when you look at it as a probability problem - the odds of somebody having exactly your DNA is on the order of a hundred trillion to one, considering only about a hundred billion people have ever lived - I must therefore conclude that it is unlikely to impossible for you to exist. Since the same math applies to all people, they must all be products of my fevered imagination and can therefore be safely ignored.

      ...unless ls671 is a twin, triplet, etc. ;)

    22. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Kokuyo · · Score: 1

      I can only agree. We had to use donor sperm for my wife to get pregnant as my little swimmers are lazy bums. I must say there are quite a few defects in my body that I'm only too happy not to pass along.

    23. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      So you have no reservations about an alpha male copulating with a desirable female

      Humans are not chimps, gorillas or wolves (and the wolf alpha male things seems to be a myth too). Naively grafting models of behaviour from other species is more or less meaningless. Doubly so as bonobos are as closely related to us as chimps and yet don't go in for alpha males either.

      I'm sure every guy who has ever ejaculated in a woman who wasn't his wife has at least once thought "This could cause complications.....but that's ok, some schmuck will come along and pick up the pieces."

      Every couple is married. True story!

      Plus you really think people thing about everything they do that deeply?

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    24. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 0

      Plus you really think people thing about everything they do that deeply?

      No, we don't. However, my personal experience with (maybe) ten or so women who were married to someone else is that I felt *much* safer ejaculating into them than with the single women I've been with. I don't need to calculate the odds - it just felt safer than with the single women.

      It doesn't take deep thought to think "it won't be my problem".

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    25. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by rmdingler · · Score: 2
      Sure, but we are all unlikely on the order of trillions. It must then be considered if the removal of any single example of the one in a trillion outcomes is important enough to to negate the future of the general gene pool.

      The unique traits that any single individual passes on are 50% diluted each successive generation, rendering them to hereditary noise within just a few hundred years. The general pool of humanity will produce a virtual double of you at regular intervals in case the environment calls for it as a survival advantage.

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    26. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by EdgeCreeper · · Score: 1

      Ah you're knocking women up and giving the an unwanted surprise, just because you are thinking 'my genes'. How nasty.

    27. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by EdgeCreeper · · Score: 1

      You don't understand where this person is coming from. He is considering himself superior than other people, this is the quote from the same author:

      I am the alpha male you dummy. It's OK if my wife carried, out of our 7 children, say 2 or 3 from other guys because I was too busy procreating 50 or more kids with other women.

      Here is the link if you want to see his quote for yourself.

    28. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      However, my personal experience with (maybe) ten or so women who were married to someone else is that I felt *much* safer ejaculating into them than with the single women I've been with.

      Question: are these hypotheticals or are you actually bragging about your conquests on slashdot?

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    29. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Between his mom, the assumed father who he inherited these beliefs, and his biological dad: I would say his biological father bears the least responsibility for the cuck's attitude.

    30. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      for many men, part of the reward for parenting is some sense of immortality. I'll bet there's some animal instinct involved here.

    31. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Doubt your wife is optimal, there are 20-year-old models with perfect SATs who are selling their eggs. Sperm donors, on the other hand, aren't paid much, so what quality of father are you really getting? Anyway you could get much more bang for your buck supporting older kids with demonstrated talent and fitness

    32. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All DNA is broken. There is no perfectly reliable DNA cloning so therefore there cannot be any perfect DNA.

    33. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by umghhh · · Score: 1

      Actually try regularly to ignore the other 7.5b that live here currently. I try real hard - no success yet.

    34. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by slazzy · · Score: 1

      It's like getting a 20 year sentence for a crime you didn't commit.

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    35. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by umghhh · · Score: 1

      Not sure I understand the depth question - It is sometimes enough to go very shallow in vagina and still manage to produce offspring so why is depth a problem here?

    36. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by silentcoder · · Score: 1

      When you are unable to ignore the products of your imagination ... is that not delusional ?

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    37. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      because your not a human being

    38. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Kokuyo · · Score: 1

      At what price? And anyway, that's not the point. I'm not saying I want the best. I'm saying I don't have a problem with not being the biological father, especially considering my known flaws.

    39. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Kokuyo · · Score: 1

      Eh, if that's the way he thinks that's his prerogative. Personally, I look around and see a whole lot of average and only very few exceptional specimens. Without proper genetic manipulation, the mind yet triumphs over the body, value-wise.

      Teaching objectiveness and proper thought processes is valuable no matter the genes the child carries. I would have adopted as well, only my wife wanted to experience pregnancy and there actually aren't that many adoptable children in this country it seems.

    40. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      Why would I *now* brag about conquests?

      Well, that's kinda how it sounded...

      I've never done so before, regardless of the number of times I get told by people-without-an-argument that I must be a lonely virgin sitting in a basement somewhere. IOW - I've had plenty of opportunities to respond to abrasive comments questioning my sex-life before now and I've not actually done so, with one exception.

      There's better reasons. As soon as someone starts talking about how much they've said on the internet, a huge cloud of doubt descends as if by magic. It's got about the same credibility as the famous Navy Seal rant:

      What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You're fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that's just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little "clever" comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn't, you didn't, and now you're paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You're fucking dead, kiddo.

      FWIW, just look at all the responses to my comments over the past year or so from PopeRatzo - 9 out of 10 are simply insults at my masculinity.

      Well, you post some awfully silly things, so it's not unexpected that you get awfully silly replies.

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    41. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 0

      Well, you post some awfully silly things, so it's not unexpected that you get awfully silly replies.

      More insults? Really? Well Done!

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    42. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by JazzLad · · Score: 1

      Do you have slightly larger than medium size hands, too?

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    43. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by CrankyFool · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I have, so far, not rejected my adopted child.

      And if your argument is that adoption vs cuckolding is different because of consent, your DNA is far smarter and more sentient than mine.

    44. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      I was talking about thinking deeply. FYI: thinking about sex is not the same as having sex, no matter how much or deeply you think about it.

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    45. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Nehmo · · Score: 1

      Actually, your DNA doesn't give a shit. It's an encoding of a bunch of molecules - don't think it cares too much about anything

      One way to look at evolution is that we, as individuals, strive to get our DNA (actually the code on the DNA) into the next generation and so on. Another way is see the DNA as striving to get itself reproduced in the subsequent generations, and the individual is just a means to do this.

      It's irrelevant how you look at it, though. It's the same process. You're just imputing volition on different parts of the mechanism.

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    46. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Nehmo · · Score: 1

      Nope. I'm a guy. My Y chromosome is not going to get diluted to nothing after a few generations as long as those generations include males.

      A female's mitochondrial DNA gets passed on unaltered. That could be more important.

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    47. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Why the "alpha male" notion may be a bit simplistic, human groups do tend to fall into dominance hierarchies. We aren't chimps, but the way we organize our social groups isn't a hundred miles from how chimps function. Inevitably, all human organizations will follow similar patterns of leadership and deference, with one degree of competition or another from lower ranking individuals who think they deserve a spot at the big table, or even to be at the head of it.

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    48. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Ha ha ha! Jealous fag is jealous. What's wrong, Binary Boy? Can't get it up anymore?

    49. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or he/she might turn into a violent pyschopath, thanks to the genes of his or her progenitors.

    50. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by PPH · · Score: 0

      The thought of raising someone else's child typically has associations of infidelity.

      If it's infidelity that worries you, you have a problem. Infidelity happens quite frequently compared to the 'cuckhold father' rate. But it rarely results in offspring due to effective means of birth control.

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    51. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      We aren't chimps, but the way we organize our social groups isn't a hundred miles from how chimps function

      We're also not a hundred miles from how bonobos organise themselves, yet oddly people seem to draw that comparison rather rarely. The thing is, er aren't chimps OR bonobos and drawing analogies from either of those is flawed.

      Inevitably, all human organizations will follow similar patterns of leadership and deference

      There's plenty of evidence that small hunter gatherer tribes formed more or less egalitarian groupings, so such heirachies are not inevitable.

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    52. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 2

      You're right, of course. Heck, I don't even know the names of my great-great-grandparents, not to mention what they did in life or even where they lived. We pass down some information through the generations, but it gets severely diluted.

      Of course, you can either see this as reason to be the best person that you can while you live, or as a reason to be a hedonistic self-centered shitlord. In a hundred years, all will be forgotten.

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    53. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 1

      It will still be diluted and changed.

      http://genetics.thetech.org/as...

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    54. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by executioner · · Score: 1

      as long as you remember to use the "effective means" of birth control. :)

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    55. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Propaganda13 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The personal issue with being a cuckold is that child is not yours and could be taken away from you. Adoption, while not perfect, gives legal rights in the matter.

    56. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fine then asshole, *my* DNA cares. Yours can go extinct- not my fucking job. Raise another man's kid and never breed yourself, but don't try to spread that memetic poison to the actual men and not expect to get roundly mocked.

    57. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by KGIII · · Score: 1

      Well, that would be one of the parents... So, sure.

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    58. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KGIII · · Score: 1

      It's their lie, they can tell it any way they want!

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    59. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      It will still be diluted and changed.

      http://genetics.thetech.org/as...

      From the link: A bit of recombination with the X, some recombination with itself, and a few uncaught errors makes for a slightly different Y.

      My point still stands. My Y chromosome will not be diluted to nothing after a few generations.

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    60. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That depends on custody law which varies from one jurisdiction to the next. In the US, it's based on state law. Some states (Cali might be one) have laws that say that if you are a custodial guardian of the child (read: the dad) over a certain period of time, you're basically stuck with the kid even if your wife made babies with the UPS guy instead of you. So if you find out the kid is not your son/daughter and that wifey-poo was letting the parcel man nail her to the wall, the best you can do is divorce her. You'll still be on the hook for child support. The genetic parent will never have custodial privileges or responsibilities.

      But, on the plus side, the genetic father can't really sue for custody either . . . well not and expect it to be awarded automatically. There's no telling what some rogue judge might rule.

    61. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Me and my wife's son agree with this string of comments.

    62. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      While many women would choose to adopt, especially if they cannot have children of their own many men will give serious consideration to changing their to one that is fertile rather than adopt or at least have a surrogate mother as they want the child's gene to be of their own.

      Do you have any data to back up this assertion? Basically, you're implying that women are more likely to adopt regardless but men are more likely to want to pass on their genes.

      But you're comparing infertile women with fertile men. Don't you think that infertile men would "choose to adopt," assuming that they are interested in raising children, just as infertile women would?

      And do you really think that fertile women are more interested in raising other people's children than fertile men are? Women may be more likely to be willing to care for children in general, whether due to biological drives or cultural trends. But my experience with women is that they put a VERY high premium on having their own offspring where possible, which is why we see so many women today going for infertility treatments as the age of marriage goes up and more women are past the prime age to have kids.

      Not to mention that almost every other day when there's an article on Slashdot about women and careers, someone brings up that female salaries are often lower because women end up taking a few years off to raise families -- and they do so while they are young so the kids can be their own. A 45-year-old or 50-year-old woman is generally perfectly capable of caring for an adopted child, but many women are very concerned about the "biological clock" issues and want to have their own kids earlier.

      And I've personally known at least one situation where a woman broke up a marriage because of her husband's fertility issue -- only to remarry quickly and have kids with someone else. Not saying that this anecdote is proof of a trend, but I don't think there's as much truth to your sex-bias toward/away from adoption as you claim.

    63. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So long as the female actually cares to use effective birth control.

    64. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      While many women would choose to adopt, especially if they cannot have children of their own many men will give serious consideration to changing their [mate] to one that is fertile rather than adopt

      Don't project.

    65. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Noble713 · · Score: 1

      However, my personal experience with (maybe) ten or so women who were married to someone else is that I felt *much* safer ejaculating into them than with the single women I've been with.

      Question: are these hypotheticals or are you actually bragging about your conquests on slashdot?

      When commenting on an article about engineering stuff, if someone brings up their experience as an engineer to provide an additional data point, it's not considered bragging.

      When commenting on an article about military stuff, I bring up my military background and those posts are also generally well-received.

      But on an article about adultery, someone brings up their experiences with adultery, and those experiences are poorly received. Disbelief about the veracity of such statements, IMO, says more about the life experiences of the skeptics than it does about the poster making the claims.

    66. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats actually not true. They did a study a while back on two well known men. One was Jonathan Edwards, born 1703, the other was a well known criminal born around the same time (cant remember his name). They traced the lineage of each man. Jonathan Edwards had literally hundreds of doctors, lawyers and businessmen in his descendants with only one or two criminals in the lot, which was well below the per capita average over the years. On the other hand, the well known criminal had nearly half of his descendants as criminals of one type or another, astronomically above the per capita average.

      The reality is that DNA is not all that unique or special. Whether you believe that everyone descended from Adam and Eve (who was made from Adam's genetic material), and their children interbred for a thousand years, or two complex and exact duplicate mutations happened at the same time (within 30 years) and geographically the same place so that the first homosapiens could breed starting the human race who then interbred for who knows how long, the bottom line is we all started out with the same DNA, and most of the variations between then and now are minor. No one has super strength, intelligence, invulnerability, wings or anything else significantly different. Eye shape and skin color are about it, and that shit is insignificant. It is your humanity that makes you unique and special, but if you can't bring yourself to love an innocent child who has no ulterior motives and wants only your love and attention, maybe you should take yourself out of the gene pool for the good of mankind...

    67. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by cfalcon · · Score: 1

      The mind arises from the brain. The brain is part of the body.

    68. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      When commenting on an article about military stuff, I bring up my military background and those posts are also generally well-received.

      That's because being in the military isn't something braggable, it's a neutral fact. To many people, number of sexual partners is a braggable thing. For example, if you claimed to serve in the military, I'd believe you, because it's not an unreasonable thing to claim, lots of people have done it and so I'd give you the benefit of the doubt. If you claimed to be in some elite unit, I'd be rather more suspicious. If you claimed to be an F22 fighter pilot, your claims might come with a few truckloads of salt. If you wrote the navy-seal-copypasta, then I'd know you were a keyboard warrior.

      See the difference?

      I've known a lot of braggy guys who were full of shit in my years. For reasons that are pretty easy to follow, sexual conquests generally raise the bullshit flags really high.

      Disbelief about the veracity of such statements, IMO, says more about the life experiences of the skeptics than it does about the poster making the claims.

      If you believe everything you read on the internet, then you should be very worried because I can kill you in over 700 ways, and that's just with my bare hands...

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    69. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 1

      Then after a couple more generations. Probably only one or two more, since it's exponential.

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    70. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by Prune · · Score: 1
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    71. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Prune · · Score: 1

      Such bullshit. While your genetic makeup as a specific collection of genes is diluted, evolution happens on the level of individual genes -- and these are not diluted but diffused, as they exist elsewhere throughout the population. You are a reproductive vessel for each of your genes, not the particular combination that comprises you as an individual organism. This very much validates the genetic argument against being a cuckold, because your derived purpose is to propagate as much as possible the particular alleles you carry.

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    72. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by shawn2772 · · Score: 2

      most humans do cheat on a partners at least once at some point in life

      Cite?

    73. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 1

      But barely evolutionary pressure for only the best genes to live on, so it all gets randomized.

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    74. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Prune · · Score: 1

      I'll make a reply to you that's analogous to what I responded with to GP when I pointed out that there's no dilution in terms of the actual unit subject to evolution, which is not the organism but the individual gene (in the sense of Dawkins' "selfish gene"). You're both looking at things at the wrong scale, and thus your arguments are specious. You're considering ideas and values as a curated collection forming the individual's worldview/belief system/etc. But this is not what it's about. Individual ideas and values can continue to propagate far, far longer than any of the ephemeral collections thereof that comprise an individual's mind.

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    75. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Prune · · Score: 1

      As a collection encompassed in your mind, it will surely be forgotten; however, that's irrelevant, as in terms of individual ideas and values, you're but one of their multitudes of carriers, and you're doing your part in propagating them.

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    76. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Then after a couple more generations. Probably only one or two more, since it's exponential.

      It's exponentially decreasing, not exponentially increasing. Much like the graph for capacitor discharge rate. From your previous link the half-life of the Y chromosome works out to around 500 generations in the shortest case.

      Seriously, this is not contested science. The first page of googling for 'how far back does the y chromosome trace' reveals answers in the hundreds of thousands of years. It is ridiculous for you to maintain that the y chromosome will be diluted in a few generations when a quick trip to Wikipedia says otherwise.

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    77. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Wycliffe · · Score: 1

      Whether you believe that everyone descended from Adam and Eve (who was made from Adam's genetic material), and their children interbred for a thousand years, or two complex and exact duplicate mutations happened at the same time (within 30 years)

      You make it sound like those are the only two options. By studying other animals, we're pretty confident that distinct species happen when 2 groups get separated via geography or other means until there is enough genetic variations that when they meet again that they can no longer reproduce. There was likely never just 2 humans but rather a collection of non-humans that we evolved from. I think the best scientific guess is that at our lowest point there were about 10k pre-humans that make up our genetic pool.

    78. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      More insults?

      More than what?

      Really?

      Apparently so.

      Well Done!

      Thankyou!

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    79. Re: Who cares if it ain't yours? by loufoque · · Score: 1

      Survival of the fittest isn't a thing anymore, everyone survives. This will eventually be the cause for humanity's downfall.

    80. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by Noble713 · · Score: 1

      When commenting on an article about military stuff, I bring up my military background and those posts are also generally well-received.

      That's because being in the military isn't something braggable, it's a neutral fact.

      A lot of people would assert otherwise, starting with all those Stolen Valor idiots.

      To many people, number of sexual partners is a braggable thing. For example, if you claimed to serve in the military, I'd believe you, because it's not an unreasonable thing to claim, lots of people have done it and so I'd give you the benefit of the doubt. If you claimed to be in some elite unit, I'd be rather more suspicious. If you claimed to be an F22 fighter pilot, your claims might come with a few truckloads of salt. If you wrote the navy-seal-copypasta, then I'd know you were a keyboard warrior.

      See the difference?

      I've known a lot of braggy guys who were full of shit in my years. For reasons that are pretty easy to follow, sexual conquests generally raise the bullshit flags really high.

      I wouldn't call BS on an F-22 pilot or Spec Ops guy's claims until they demonstrated something factually incongruent. Depending on your own life experiences and those of your social circle, bagging ten married women can be low on the sliding scaling of potential bullshit. I can think of acquaintances who can make that claim and not get laughed out of the room, because they've demonstrated their skill as epic seducers in the past. But on the Internet, the BS flag gets thrown against sex-related life experiences almost immediately. Even for fairly low-level ones. And I find that strange.

    81. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      A lot of people would assert otherwise, starting with all those Stolen Valor idiots.

      OK, let me rephrase it. I've known a lot of military people for whom being in the military was not braggable, it was just a fact of life. I used to work at Los Alamos, so there were a LOT of ex military folk there. Also, when I was at uni, there were a small smattering of Americans in the military because that seems a good way to get an education.

      Of those, a very small fraction (only one comes to mind) who was a raging lunatic, but I can't think of anyone who actually ever bragged about it to me.

      I wouldn't call BS on an F-22 pilot or Spec Ops guy's claims until they demonstrated something factually incongruent.

      Not sure if I'd call BS on them, and I might give them the benefit of the doubt but I'd be skeptical. There are very, very few spec op/F22 pilots, yet both of those are very cool-sounding. It's much easier to claim to be something impressive, rare and cool than it is to be something impressive, rare and cool, so I tend to be suspicious of people making such claims.

      But on the Internet, the BS flag gets thrown against sex-related life experiences almost immediately. Even for fairly low-level ones. And I find that strange.

      Unlike military people, almost exclusively when I've heard people talk about their sexual conquests it's been bragging. I say almost exclusively because there are rare exceptions.

      Nonetheless when talk of sexual conquests comes up, the prior is massively on the side of "yeah right!". And ever the Bayesian, I listen to my priors.

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    82. Re:Who cares if it ain't yours? by cwsumner · · Score: 1

      In a lot of places, infertility is legal grounds for divorce.

  2. No, they have second marriages instead by eggstasy · · Score: 4, Interesting

    They have kids with the high testosterone alpha males, and then some of them go on to do menial work, turn out to be aggressive, or they simply grow tired of each other after some years. But their first choice is usually some animalistic notion of "good genes".
    And then later when they're older and wiser they marry the type of beta male they had friendzoned before, because they're more peaceful, less risk-taking and often smarter and more successul.
    Read: Shadows of Our Forgotten Ancestors, by Carl Sagan and Ann Druyan.

    1. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Sique · · Score: 1
      Who are they?

      And the general rule remains the same: In any group of people with about the same amount of sexually active males and females, the average number of heterosexual partners has to be the same for males and females. There is simply no point to play the blame game here.

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    2. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by loonycyborg · · Score: 1

      How that relates to cultures favoring polygamous marriage and concubinage?

    3. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Sique · · Score: 1
      It's a mathematical necessity. Thus cultural influences don't affect the averages.

      What can happen is that the balance between males and females itself is disturbed, for instance because of a war, where many males fighting as soldiers or warriors died, or because of a famines which seem to affect male children more than female children, or because you have a very troubled neighborhood with many males being prisoners and thus without any contact to women. And it can happen that there are a few entitled alpha males (lets call them aristocracy) who have numerous sexual contacts with many women, while there is also a large group of males without any sexual contacts to women, or with contacts to only one or two of them. But in general, every man who has a sexual contact to a new woman means that at the same time there is a woman which at the moment has her first sexual contact to this man.

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    4. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Orgasmatron · · Score: 1

      Today, kids, we are going to learn the difference between the mean and the median...

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    5. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by loonycyborg · · Score: 2

      Note that participating in reproductive activity requires totally different levels of commitment from female than from male. While one female would automatically hurt community as the whole if she desists from childbirth for whatever reason, a male can easily be a bachelor and focus on other activities because another one can always provide the DNA instead of him. So the way human reproduction works forces that more females participate than males thus leading to polygyny. In fact, current monogamous marriage only ended up possible due to advances in medicine and overall life quality, so top reproductive performance from women is no longer paramount.

    6. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The fuck?

      If one slutty female fucks 50 guys, there are 50 fucked men to one fucked female.

      You know... Africa.

    7. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by PopeRatzo · · Score: 1

      And then later when they're older and wiser they marry the type of beta male they had friendzoned before, because they're more peaceful, less risk-taking and often smarter and more successul.

      And have a much more vivid imagination.

      Ah, the fantasies of the beta male.

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    8. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The median is that thing in the middle of the road.

      All the kids must die. Now that was mean.

    9. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by Sique · · Score: 1

      Yes. But for some reason, there are not 50 men per woman in the world, the actual ratio is quite close to 1:1. So why do you ignore the 49 other women? Do you have an axe to grind with that one?

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    10. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Yes. But for some reason, there are not 50 men per woman in the world, the actual ratio is quite close to 1:1. So why do you ignore the 49 other women?

      The ratio is not 1:1 in war-torn areas, and the GP did say "Africa".

      (No axe, just saying that historically, the numbers of men:women were less than 1:1).

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    11. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, polygamy thrives in countries where its cool to send your male kids to blow up themselves in the name of islam. Lots of women left for the few surviving men.

    12. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      they had friendzoned before

      Fun fact: women don't put men in the friendzone, men put men in the friendzone[*].

      Being friends with an awesome person is not a consolation prize. If you want to be a friend then actually stick around and BE a friend[+]. If you want an relationship instead of a friendship and she doesn't, well, then tough and now you have to go elsewhere, find other people to pork and don't hang out.

      Or to rephrase (since Matrix symbology seems so popular in this sort of topic):

      Do not try to escape the friendzone, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realise... there is no friendzone. Then you will see there is not a friendzone you must escaped from, there is only yourself.

      [*] Yes it can happen the other way around and in various other combinations too, but the way round it's usually assumed to be generates approximately 3.24098709324e+38% more whining^Winternet traffic than all other combinations combined.

      [+] And that means actually being a FRIEND, not pretending to be one while you try to get enough friendship points that she'll pity-shag you while drunk.

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    13. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Today, kids, we are going to learn the difference between the mean and the median...

      The difference is only 1 (in the exponent).

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    14. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by Alomex · · Score: 1

      We were doing that merely 100 years ago during h firs World War. Asking our male kids to climb out of a trench to face certain slaughter, to the tune of millions.

    15. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Beyond_GoodandEvil · · Score: 1

      Fun fact: women don't put men in the friendzone, men put men in the friendzone[*].
      So you recommend both parties be honest about expectations and what is likely to happen in the future? Something like [dude bro]Hi, I am only being nice to you on the off chance you agree to copulation? [lady friend] I will probably never copulate with you, but will allow you to believe there's a slim chance so that you will help me move and fix my tech toys when they break. Is that what you think would be best, oh wise architect?

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    16. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      So you recommend both parties be honest about expectations and what is likely to happen in the future?

      If everyone was honest about everything then things would be great.

      On the other hand no one has a duty to explain things to you. If the answer to the question "oi love, fancy a shag?" is "no"[*], then the person saying "no" does not have a duty to explain the "no"ness in any further detail.

      Is that what you think would be best, oh wise architect?

      Well, no because the two people are being asshats. Hanging around pretending to be a friend when you have an ulterior motive is a dick move. Stringing someone on to manipulate them is a dick move.

      However, if the [lady friend] in question takes the person at their word when they say "OK, friends it is" and is happy to hang out as a friend, that's not stringing on. That's called "being a friend". And you know friends sometimes do stuff for each other like hang out, fix shit, help with moving house and so on, without any expectation of sex at the end of it.

      But Mr Spoon Boy (not the wize architect---because there was no architect in the Matrix) still thinks there is no frienzone.

      [*] "I'd rather be friends" means no, becsuse they're saying that they won't shag you.

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    17. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't say either example you give is being "honest", whether spoken out loud or not.

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    18. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by asdfman2000 · · Score: 1

      the average number of heterosexual partners has to be the same for males and females.

      The mean, yes, but not the median. In this case, the mean is worthless.
      One man can impregnate 100 women whilst 99 men remain celibate. This produces a mean of 1 sex partner for men, but it clearly is not representative.

    19. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by flink · · Score: 1

      So you recommend both parties be honest about expectations and what is likely to happen in the future? Something like [dude bro]Hi, I am only being nice to you on the off chance you agree to copulation? [lady friend] I will probably never copulate with you, but will allow you to believe there's a slim chance so that you will help me move and fix my tech toys when they break. Is that what you think would be best, oh wise architect?

      No, just don't remain friends with shitty people who try to manipulate you using sex. And for your part, don't be a jerk who uses friendship as a pretext to try to sleep with someone. Also, many adult friendships involve a component of playful flirtation with no real sexual intentions implied. Learning to tell the difference between playful banter and real sexual overtures is just part of being a social human being. If this is too hard for you, then maybe forgo friendship with the opposite sex altogether and only meet women through dates, where the social context is explicit (I'm assuming you're a straight male based on your comment).

      Friendzone is a bullshit concept that is based on the notion that a woman's only value is as a sexual objective for you.

    20. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Well, no because the two people are being asshats.

      Well, yeah. Welcome to why people lie: so they don't look (or feel) like asshats.

    21. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is why eugenics works and is proffered by all religious and political organizations to breed support of their administrations. The track record of such behavior is extinction, which is why it is a crime against humanity. Pharmaceuticals do the same thing; birth control pills change the way females choose mates. In all cases, nature protects evolution from such weaponisation, by making a small percentage of the progeny effectively sterile, i.e. homosexual.

    22. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Magnus+Pym · · Score: 1

      Average sure. Median.... not even close.

      The median # of sexual partners a woman accumulates between 18 & marriage: 7

      Median # of sexual partners for men: 2

      A small % of the men are banging most of the women.

    23. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by Prune · · Score: 1

      Yet another ignoramus who assumes a symmetric, unimodal distribution *rolleyes*

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    24. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by Sique · · Score: 1

      Yes, but the GGP had it in reverse. There are not many places in the world, where the males outnumber the females 50:1, and your hint to Africa would mean the reverse, females outnumber the males.

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    25. Re: No, they have second marriages instead by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Yes, but the GGP had it in reverse. There are not many places in the world, where the males outnumber the females 50:1, and your hint to Africa would mean the reverse, females outnumber the males.

      True - good catch :-)

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    26. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by beastofburdon · · Score: 1

      Yup. Also, the vast majority of lies you are told are the ones you tell yourself.

    27. Re:No, they have second marriages instead by crunchygranola · · Score: 1

      Average sure. Median.... not even close.

      The median # of sexual partners a woman accumulates between 18 & marriage: 7

      Median # of sexual partners for men: 2

      A small % of the men are banging most of the women.

      Citation needed. According to this CDC study the "Median number of opposite-sex partners in lifetime among men and women aged 25-44 years of age" was 6.6 for men and 4.3 for women in 2011-2013. This implies that a modest proportion of women are having sex with a lot of men, an entirely believable proposition.

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  3. Misleading story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe in some cultures, men usually don't end up raising children who aren't their own. But that's not true across the board and I suspect the study is biased and cannot be trusted. Let's be honest, most affluent men find stable relationships and don't end up raising children who aren't their own. But among men who aren't affluent, they are far more likely to have many sexual partners. It's just a cultural thing and we've all seen it. Money makes for a stable lifestyle, stable relationships, and a stable home. The truth is, if you're white, you probably are relatively affluent, probably don't have as many sexual partners, and probably aren't raising children who aren't your own. But if you're black, you're much less affluent, and are far more likely to have children with many women, not even knowing how many children you've fathered. Some other guy gets stuck raising those children. There's probably a genetic link here, that the genes that affect race also affect one's sexual promiscuity. Even among affluent blacks, such as NBA players, black men tend to father children with many women. They don't end up fathering all of those children in most cases; instead, some other guy ends up raising a child who isn't his own. Statistics and genetics provide a lot of support for these statements. I suspect the choice of populations sampled in this study greatly affected the results, and a more random sample would have resulted in the authors reaching a different conclusion.

    1. Re:Misleading story by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 1

      Aren't you missing the fact that(for the purposes of the study at least, I'm not sure if common use differs from this) 'cuckolded father' means 'man raising a child he is not the father of under the mistaken belief that he is the father'?

      Even if your promiscuous-poor-people-and-negroids theory pans out; it only implies an increase in cuckoldry if that promiscuity leads to incorrect assignments of paternity and paternal obligation. You could be so enthusiastically promiscuous that even your heterozygotic twins sometimes have different fathers; and it still wouldn't count as "cuckoldry" for the purposes of this study unless you've successfully deceived at least some of the fathers in question about which children are theirs(and, while it's obviously easier for a child to not be yours if promiscuity is the norm; knowledge of the fact that promiscuity is the norm probably makes people more skeptical about paternity, and thus trickier to mislead about it).

      If this study actually claimed that 'expected number of fathers across all children born to a given woman' were low and largely constant across cultures; then yes, the existence of situations of high promiscuity and little or no expectation of nuclear family stability would be a counterexample. It's just that it doesn't do that. it only addresses successful deceptions about paternity; which apparently are some combination of 'not something that people actually try as often as believed' and 'something that people do try; but have a lousy success record on'(with the inclusion of some populations where genetic paternity testing isn't an inexpensive and mature technology, which suggests that whatever difficulties exist in successful cuckolding aren't merely a product of DNA testing).

    2. Re:Misleading story by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      with the inclusion of some populations where genetic paternity testing isn't an inexpensive and mature technology, which suggests that whatever difficulties exist in successful cuckolding aren't merely a product of DNA testing
      Perhaps you should read the article?

      The DNA tests are done on dead persons and their families going back a few hundred years.
      In other words the "lineage" is on paper and the DNA tests test if that fits.
      And that covers times where modern contraception did not exist.

      Result of those tests: only 1 of about 100 children was not from the father on paper.

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  4. Rare in human populations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And yet remarkably common among the Republican establishment.

    1. Re:Rare in human populations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, given their penchant for serial Polygamy, (Reagan, Gingrich, Trump...), many of them were conceived as Bastards, but the majority are self-made men.

    2. Re:Rare in human populations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lyndon Johnson boasted that he'd had 1000 women in his White House bed. Kennedy had orgies in the pool. Clinton got blowjobs in the Oval office. Roosevelt had a special train car for trips to New York to visit his mistress. And you point a finger at the other side? Get a clue.

  5. Selection bias by k.a.f. · · Score: 1, Insightful

    So in other words, pretty much the entire publishing caste, as well as the majority of the population, does not understand selection bias. That is a serious problem, but it's hardly surprising. An awful lot of the scientific studies that someone trumpets around as a confirmation of their pet worldview suffer from similar problems.

    1. Re:Selection bias by Coisiche · · Score: 1

      Ah yes, selection bias: enabling people to convince themselves they are most definitely, unquestionably and unarguably right since the dawn of civilization.

  6. This must be why paternity tests are illegal by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1, Interesting

    In many European countries, paternity tests are illegal. Seriously, importing a home paternity test has the same legal status as trying to import opium poppies. Surely if cuckoldry is so rare, then there is no need for these laws.

    Recently, a French journalist was astounded by the fact that in America, paternity testing is 100% safe and 100% legal. He stated that such ideas are inconceivable in France. That puts a whole new twist on the popular American conception of French people as free-spirited and open in every way when it comes to sex and relationships.

    Left unsaid is why a woman would do this to the man she loves. Why would she go outside of her relationship and deliberately allow herself to be impregnated by another man, one she does not love? The whole thing is baffling to educated people. More research is clearly called for...but I bet it won't happen.

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    1. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by known_coward_69 · · Score: 1

      you marry a geeky pushover with good earning potential, but have kids with an alpha male

    2. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      Because after all, why would a woman prefer her children be the sons and daughters of a man with good earning potential (and thus more likely have good earning potential themselves) than the sons and daughters of a ne'er-do-well "alpha male"?

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    3. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women can't help it.
      They are genetically programmed to be physically attracted to alpha males, and mentally to beta orbiters who take care of them.

    4. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Z80a · · Score: 1

      I think this kind of laws cause a much bigger issue with alimony than cheating.
      Basically on a country where paternity test is banned, any woman can just go and claim that have a kid with some target and take the alimony with no contesting whatsoever because it's illegal to prove otherwise.

    5. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by houghi · · Score: 2

      In many European countries, paternity tests are illegal. Seriously, importing a home paternity test has the same legal status as[...]

      They are not illegal. They are not legally binding. There is a difference.
      Paternity tests are done often, but not with something you buy off the shelf. It is done mostly if there is a dispute and then the courts are involved. This can be requested by all parties involved.

      As to why people would do such a thing? Because reasons that are irrelevant to the technical discussion of the article.

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    6. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because after all, why would a woman prefer her children be the sons and daughters of a man with good earning potential (and thus more likely have good earning potential themselves) than the sons and daughters of a ne'er-do-well "alpha male"?

      The "Alpha Male" is usually tall, strong and confident. All the quality's you subconsciously want in your children.

    7. Re: This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because women can be stupid and irrational.

    8. Re: This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "...one she does not love? "

      Who says she don't love both men?

    9. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Recently, a French journalist was astounded by the fact that in America, paternity testing is 100% safe and 100% legal. He stated that such ideas are inconceivable in France....

      I wonder if the concept of a "father" being legally mandated to pay child support until adulthood is also inconceivable.

      The list of reasons to want and need to legally rely upon DNA testing is about 18 years long.

    10. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by jabuzz · · Score: 1

      Yeah I always wondered about that. I would have thought that the "right to a family" life in the ECHR would trump that French law.

      That said I think the French law is the exception rather than the rule in Europe.

    11. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 0

      Recently, a French journalist was astounded by the fact that in America, paternity testing is 100% safe and 100% legal. He stated that such ideas are inconceivable in France.

      You know, I broadly agree, but c'mon - if you want to be taken seriously at least link something in English.

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    12. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by AmiMoJo · · Score: 5, Informative

      That is incorrect. Paternity testing is legal in France. Permission must be obtained from the person being tested (or their parent in the case of a child), or it can be forced via court order. So the only real difference is that you can't legally just grab some hair follicle off your partner's hairbrush and get them tested without their knowledge or consent.

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    13. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In germany this goes even further than just 18 years. Your children have a right on a certain percentage of your legacy after you died.

    14. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And since the child can't consent until 18, that means conveniently you can't prove it's not yours until after you've paid it's way through life.

    15. Re: This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because its still ok for women to idolize the alpha male but clearly men can no longer shame women with ideals about their bodies.

    16. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      That is incorrect. Paternity testing is legal in France.

      It's legal but ignored - at birth, whichever man signs the form that says he is the father is on the hook for child support even if paternity testing later reveals he is a cuckold. So, the sane thing to do in France is to contest every birth.

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    17. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      "In many European countries, paternity tests are illegal"
      That is what is technically known as bollocks.

    18. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by digitig · · Score: 5, Informative

      The posting was misleading. Paternity testing is not illegal in France, but it's regulated and needs either the consent of both (presumed) parents or a court order (which seems to be the same as where I am, in the UK). If there's a dispute over child support payments then a court order would be the way to go.

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    19. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by digitig · · Score: 1

      It's not true. Paternity testing is legal in France, but it's regulated. What the linked article described as inconceivable in France was a mobile testing van that does the tests without either the mother's permission or a court order.

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    20. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by digitig · · Score: 1

      If they'd posted a link to something in English, more people would have realised that the article doesn't support their (incorrect) claim, and where's the fun in that?

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    21. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      The posting was misleading. Paternity testing is not illegal in France, but it's regulated and needs either the consent of both (presumed) parents or a court order (which seems to be the same as where I am, in the UK). If there's a dispute over child support payments then a court order would be the way to go.

      I might be wrong, but the info I got was that once someone signs up as the father when the child is born (in or out of wedlock), then that man is on the hook regardless of what any paternity test says.

      This sort of supports my belief - "This is partially due to the official desire to "preserve the peace" within French families, with the French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society, rather than biology. "

      So, yeah - no point in paternity testing if you're still on the hook for child-support.

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    22. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Do you have a reference for that? I couldn't find anything, but then again I don't speak much French so it's hard to search.

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    23. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Left unsaid is why a woman would do this to the man she loves.

      Well, given that the test says that on the whole women don't in fact tend to do that, why would they need to say anything about it?

      The whole thing is baffling to educated people.

      Not really. It's baffling to people who don't have that kind of sex drive perhaps, but plenty of educated people cheat. In quite a lot of ways, humans are not built to be monomagous. Many societies expect people to vully monomagous. These things clash and the results are, well, predictable.

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    24. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What the ever living fuck.

      From this page that might have been mangled by Google Translate for all I know wrt France:

      The endeavor to identify its genetic fingerprints of a person when he is not a soldier killed during an operation conducted by the armed forces or related training, for purposes who are neither medical nor scientific or outside of an investigative measure or investigation conducted during legal proceedings is punishable by one year imprisonment or a fine of 1500 Euros.

      The same penalties is the fact to disclose information relating to the identification of a person using genetic prints or to proceed with the identification of a person using genetic prints without authorization holder referred to in Article L. 1131-3 of the code of public health.

    25. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As it is, men are forced to pay child support even when proven not to be the biological father

      http://divorce.clementlaw.com/child-support/non-biological-father-liable-for-child-support/

      so the benefit of DNA testing is questionable except for purely academic purposes. If I recall correctly, several men's rights advocates were calling for child support to be link to paternity (guess who they were opposed by).

      Not to mention in several states, women can list almost anyone as the father on the birth certificate. No testing is required.

      The obvious thing to do would be to make genetic testing mandatory if for no other reason than health histories that have a genetic component (like many types of mental illness seem to have a strong genetic propensity), but I doubt that will happen either.

      I imagine this will be revisited once men get concealable birth control that is readily available, but the truth of the matter is no one really knows the extent of cuckoldry.

    26. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Jesrad · · Score: 1

      Surely if cuckoldry is so rare, then there is no need for these laws.

      Hmm, it seems you are confusing actual cuckoldry, and suspected cuckoldry. The stated point of those laws is to address complications from the latter, not the former.

      As for my country's stance on those tests, it stems more from a rejection of genetic testing in general as an invasion of privacy, than specifically paternity issues. For instance, it's widely believed in France that 23andme's services are illegal (even though they're not). The Loi n2007-1631 du 20 novembre 2007 which covers the use of genetic markers only bans the identification of someone else from their DNA without a court-issued mandate, but some people have taken to interpret it as a ban on any form of genetic testing.

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    27. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Do you have a reference for that? I couldn't find anything, but then again I don't speak much French so it's hard to search.

      It's hard to find a non-french reference, but here's a pretty detailed english explanation of *all* a child's paternal rights (not just the bit you wanted to know) - see link. Note that the link itself has a link to the original french document, but you'll have to use google translate on it.

      Wikipedia also says "This is partially due to the official desire to "preserve the peace" within French families, with the French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society, rather than biology. "

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    28. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The link doesn't support your assertion. It says something quite different.

      If marries, the husband is by default considered the father but can ask his wife to agree to a paternity test, and if she refuses get a court to order one, and absolve himself of all responsibility. The only contentious parts are that he can't simply take his wife's hairbrush and order the test himself without her permission or a court order, and that in some cases if a considerable amount of time has passed the interests of the child might take precedence.

      This is not unlike other European countries. Can you explain why it's unfair? Even the Reddit poster doesn't seem to think it's that bad.

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    29. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes. Mate selection happens in a primitive part of the brain which has adapted for a far different reality than our modern world. We are animals driven by our instincts in many insidious ways you don't even realize.

      ne'er-do-well "alpha male"

      Why do you assume an "alpha" male would be a failure?

    30. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women are not capable of love. Only perceived love. Women will blatantly lie to your face to take half of your lives earnings.
         

    31. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      The link doesn't support your assertion.

      Well, it was not a blanket assertion - see here where I hedged my bets with "I might be wrong".

      in some cases if a considerable amount of time has passed the interests of the child might take precedence.

      That bit is why I said "So, the sane thing to do in France is to contest every birth."

      Can you explain why it's unfair?

      I never said it was. I said the best (legal) option is to simply contest paternity of every child. The best (non-legal) option would be to simply order the home-test kit, do the test secretly and only contest if the home-test gives you reason to believe that you might not be the father.

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    32. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      I see. Well, that's hardly an unusual position, legally speaking. In most cases contesting something earlier gives you a better chance of prevailing. The longer after the fact the harder it is to overturn the status quo. Most civil law works that way, everything from pure business contracts to consumer law to financial rules.

      So how would you propose changing the law to make this better? Allow secret paternity testing? European lawmakers are not keen on allowing any kind of secret genetic testing.

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    33. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Well, given that the test says that on the whole women don't in fact tend to do that, why would they need to say anything about it?

      TFA didn't say that: it said that, over the last 400 years women didn't do that. TFA didn't give any numbers for the present (say, 20 years or so? Single generation?).

      In quite a lot of ways, humans are not built to be monomagous. Many societies expect people to vully monomagous. These things clash and the results are, well, predictable.

      Humans generally do serial monogamy. However it is only recently that societies stopped punishing infidelity, so who knows what the current state of cuckoldry looks like. This study certainly didn't release the numbers (if it did, I missed 'em). For the majority of the previous 400 years infidelity on the part of the female was punished.

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    34. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      So how would you propose changing the law to make this better?

      I do not propose to change it (meaning, paternity testing laws). Any replacement would probably be much worse than the current set of laws. The best option is what I stated above - secretly test, and test again, and then only when you're sure you dispute paternity and/or file for divorce (if married).

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    35. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why should it be illegal? Especially if alimony is involved. It's _fraud_ for her to make you pay to support children who aren't yours. She should go make the real father pay his share - they are his children and his responsibility.

      All that shows is those European laws are broken.

    36. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... because other women will like the alpha male with a trust fund better than the beta male version of same?

    37. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      I don't understand the entire "alpha male" thing, I spent my summers working on a farm or in a metal shop so physically I was stronger and faster than many of the so called jocks. I even played football, basketball, and ran track for a season when I was in school. I was never really considered a geek or a nerd although I certainly had the grades, and didn't enjoy sports. I'm nonviolent in general but am only a push over so far, I've been in a bar room brawl before.

      The supposed "alpha male" is usually just a jerk that will eventually get his shit messed up by a someone that is tired of putting up with it. Maybe it won't be a bar room brawl maybe it'll just be a boss that says "Alright, your fired" job after job.

      When I was a freshman the varsity football team was going to do a little hazing and one of them was supposed to send me dumpster diving, he ended up dumpster diving himself with a black eye and a bruised ego instead.

    38. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > paternity testing is 100% safe and 100% legal. He stated that such ideas are inconceivable in France.

      I see what you did there!

    39. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > The best option is what I stated above - secretly test, and test again, and then only when you're sure you dispute paternity and/or file for divorce (if married).

      From the point of view of the child you *are* the father whether or not you are the biological father. Essentially, from the point of view of the child paternity tests are never a good idea.

    40. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      Humans generally do serial monogamy.

      Not entirely clear. I mean we certainly do to some extent, but the penis is kind of shaped like a cylindrical squeegee making it somewhat effective at removing other men's sperm, so it appears that non manogamy is in our very recent evolutionary history.

      However it is only recently that societies stopped punishing infidelity

      There's a reasonably good chance that from an evoloutionary point of view that it's only recently that it started being punished.

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    41. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      earning potential
      That is not a genetic trait but education and skills.

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    42. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      In many European countries, paternity tests are illegal.
      No, they are not.

      But you need a court order to do one. It is illegal to force your child to give blood to see if you are the father for no good reason. If you can give a plausible reason to a court the court will "allow" or "demand" the test.

      Plain and simple.

      In the USA you can "steal" hair from your kids and do a gene test without anyone knowing and then get a lawyer to play your cards to your advantage.

      Left unsaid is why a woman would do this to the man she loves.
      Plenty of reasons:
      1) she does not love him anymore but is to scared about a divorce
      2) two people are needed for that, so why don't you ask the guy why he picked a woman in a relationship
      3) the sex live with the husband is ..... boooooorrrriiiing, or not existing
      4) the husband is not fertile enough or his sperms simply don't like her eggs
      5) accidents ... it is not unheard of that pregnancies happen by "accident"
      x) I guess I can find plenty of more

      allow herself to be impregnated by another man, one she does not love?
      Grow up! The desire to have child is for many woman during part of her life the main driving motivation. That is normal. If a woman can not get a child from a man she loves, what gives you the damn right to criticize her to get it from a random healthy good looking person?

      More research is clearly called for... but I bet it won't happen.
      Are you really an idiot? There is nothing more prickling than researching the sex life of other human beings ... that is a research that is guarantied to never end as long as mankind exists.

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    43. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That puts a whole new twist on the popular American conception of French people as free-spirited and open in every way when it comes to sex and relationships.

      No it doesn't. We've been calling the French feminized pussies forever, and this is just another example. The law against paternity testing is in the interest of "women", due to some non-existent hypothetical offense. If you don't stop this gynocentric garbage you'll end up like Sweden, the rape capital of the world. Women are easily manipulated by their corrupt news media "consensus" and don't think rationally about the hard facts of rampant immigrations. "Those poor people are in trouble" (they're 80% male and of fighting age, fleeing their own damn country rather than staying and fighting and fixing the problem at home, they're colonizing your country).

      In war, the women will actually take to a new set of male occupiers. So long as they themselves are not threatened. Even if, especially if, their husbands and sons are slaughtered by the invaders. This is true in other mammalian species too, like Lions or Chimps.

      Be a low-testosterone "unoffensive" country, and you get abused and raped. One look at Paris is all you need to affirm this.

    44. Re: This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is base and disgusting for a married woman to have a child with another man besides her husband. It is fraudulent and absurd for her to pretend that it is actually the son of her husband- whatever her excuse is, it is the rationalization of a moral infant.

      Paternity tests should be mandatory or very common. No woman has a right to decieve a man in such a way. If this weren't the case, then hospitals would just hand the babies out at random- who cares if the woman gets her kid, or another? But even in that retarded universe, the woman at least knows she got to reproduce.

    45. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The "alpha" male thing is often misrepresented. In the original study the alpha was a serial rapist and had a behavior that one would typically associate with what you would find in a trailer park.
      The betas in that study would woo the females with gifts and when given the choice the females would have intercourse with the betas.
      Why some people glorifies alpha behavior is beyond me but to be honest I tend to disregard anyone who uses the term to describe a human. It doesn't apply well to interhuman relationships and the one using the term doesn't seem to be aware of it being based on the original study anyway.

    46. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Europe needs to be invaded and destroyed. It is completely a woman's society.

      Once a society bans child marriage (of girls) it is in the hands of women and men should seek to cause it as much harm as possible.

    47. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      However it is only recently that societies stopped punishing infidelity

      There's a reasonably good chance that from an evoloutionary point of view that it's only recently that it started being punished.

      How do you come to that conclusion? Your suggestive comment about penis shape only implies that non-monogamy may have been more common than we might think given modern social norms. But it doesn't necessarily imply that the social norms are recent.

      Instead, it could imply that the typical evolutionary pattern was to avoid appearance of polygamy, even if it was happening in practice. In fact, that's part of the whole argument about "cuckolding" in biology -- a female gets the benefit of the public support of a "provider male" while also getting the strong genes of an "alpha male." That sort of practice could easily take place within a society that views polygamy negatively.

      In most societies, human sexual practices tend to be "private" affairs. Even among nudists, it's often taboo to be too sexual "out in the open." Thus, there's no reason why official social mores necessarily conform to actual sexual practices in human societies -- in fact, there's very strong evidence that this is often NOT the case.

      Moreover, your penis-shape argument actually contradicts your social argument. If society (usually dominated by males, in most human societies) was outwardly accepting of polygamous females, why would we have evolved a mechanism to remove other men's sperm? Shouldn't the men just have "been okay with" the polygamy and accept impregnation by others? The penis shape actually implies that men have strong genetic reasons to ensure their own paternity, which their bodies may naturally do physically and which they are probably likely to enforce by social norms once societies developed.

    48. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The cunt wouldn't give permission/

      FUCK your CUNT society Frog.

      Hope the russians steamroll you and rape muchly.

    49. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      How do you come to that conclusion?

      Not to be facetious, but by googleing a bunch and reading the links.

      If society (usually dominated by males, in most human societies)

      Those are all *modern* human societies. In the few remaining hunter-gatherer societies which have been studied, they lean heavily towards egaltarianism. They are the closest link we have to the pre-agriculture state of humans (i.e. what humans evolved into).

      In fact, that's part of the whole argument about "cuckolding" in biology -- a female gets the benefit of the public support of a "provider male" while also getting the strong genes of an "alpha male."

      That's a nice just-so story, but just-so stories don't make evidence. Cuckolding happens with some "monagamous" species, but it doesn't happen with others. For example, why do you think the "alpha male" has stronger genes? Gene fitness is not determined by how much sex you have, it's determined by how many of your offspring's offspring's offspring survive to produce offspring. That's an incredibly complex thing which is why so many incredibly varied solutions to it have evolved.

      Shouldn't the men just have "been okay with" the polygamy and accept impregnation by others?

      Huh? It's not like you choose to have a funny shaped willy. It evolved because apparently women DID have multiple sexual partners and so such a trait was beneficial.

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    50. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was similar to you in high school. The bottom line that I observed was that it is not the physically strong/type A personality, but the perception as such that gets the girls juices flowing. I was in a smallish high school and was the quiet type (I was into weight lifting and mix martial arts) who had little interaction with the opposite sex. Physically I am not that imposing, I'm only 5'8". One day at lunch in my sophomore year I came around the corner to the jock 6'2" "alpha male" beating on a scrawny freshman for some reason (I never did find out why). I got into it with the guy and he ended up out cold on the ground after trading a few punches. By this time I was surrounded by his buddies and the whole school was watching (its funny how time changes during a serious fight and some things are vivid and others just blank on recollection). It ended up with the alpha and 2 of his buddies out cold and me under a pile of bodies from the football team. We were both expelled for a couple of weeks, but when I came back lets just say I was surprised that a lot more girls were showing interest.

      It is kind of sad, but I think it is just basic biology, women want to mate with the male who is the strongest, both physically and mentally. "Bad boys" and "Alpha males" have figured out how to trick this subconscious part of women, and immature women in high school and college especially often aren't mature enough to see it for what it is. Unless there is a random event like what happened to me, the poseur "Alphas" go unchecked in our modern, peaceful society when in reality they are just assholes.

    51. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Orgasmatron · · Score: 1

      Your idea of what the alpha is, is wrong.

      In mating, it is the guy that sleeps with lots of women. It has nothing to do with his appearance, cliques, strength, etc. Your opinion of him has no bearing on his status as (mating) alpha male.

      He could be the dudebro asshole you are describing. He could also be the rich, successful guy (Trump). He could be an outlaw biker. He could be a serial rapist (Clinton). He could be some invisible average guy that has mastered game.

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    52. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by oblivionboy · · Score: 1

      No the best option is really simple. Have a mandatory paternity test at each birth, which verifies if the male partner involved is really the father. If a woman has a child and KNOWINGLY claims that anyone other than the biological father is the biological father -- then this is a clear case of fraud. I'm not sure how it could be seen any other way.

    53. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Orgasmatron · · Score: 1

      Secret paternity testing? Bah.

      Make it mandatory for all births.

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    54. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      No the best option is really simple. Have a mandatory paternity test at each birth, which verifies if the male partner involved is really the father. If a woman has a child and KNOWINGLY claims that anyone other than the biological father is the biological father -- then this is a clear case of fraud. I'm not sure how it could be seen any other way.

      Well, it's already fraud - you can file a civil suit against a women who wrongly named you as father. The only question that remains is whether or not to have mandatory testing, and I'm not sure that you will ever get support for mandatory testing.

      Taking DNA samples by force (mandatory testing) is not something a healthy society should do - the more records you have on file the greater the chance of a false positive.

      However, note that if the efforts by various LEAs to legalise grabbing the DNA of all arrestees comes into play, an unintended consequence would be setting precedence for the state to simply take your DNA without your consent, which could open the doors to mandatory testing.

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    55. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      I said I don't understand it, because it doesn't make sense. Like women that go for guys that are dangerous but are really just fuck ups that can't manage to stay out jail. I've been skying, spelunking, and rock climbing in Colorado that's dangerous. Bungee jumping terrifying and dangerous.

    56. Re:This must be why paternity tests are illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So how would you propose changing the law to make this better? Allow secret paternity testing? European lawmakers are not keen on allowing any kind of secret genetic testing.

      Isn't the solution screaming obvious? Mandatory paternity tests before parental rights and responsibilities can be claimed legally. The non-biological father could perhaps still adopt the child, but then only while knowing what happened. That also opens the question about what efforts should be made to find the biological father. The big problem is that men can't insist on paternity tests without damaging their relationship, but if it is the state imposing it, then that problem is solved - all the man is then doing is insisting on claiming parental responsibilities, which then happens to require a paternity test.

  7. Using genetic history to prove paternity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In other news only 1% of your ancestors didn't reproduce!

    Never mind that common sense will tell you 100% of the people you descend from did. :Science:

  8. Cuckolded fathers were rare by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The study only proves that cuckoldry in non-promiscuous societies without contraception was rare.

    It does not show that cuckoldry in our current promiscuous society is rare. Infidelity no longer carries any penalties for women thanks to no-fault divorce.

    1. Re: Cuckolded fathers were rare by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, the behavior and its motivation may still be there, but the consequences in the form if children are not because of contraception.

  9. Was Rare by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

    Until now...

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  10. Don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't you ever talk to me or my wife's son ever again!

  11. Tell that to Thea Queen! by tommeke100 · · Score: 1

    ...or rather Thea Merlyn :)

  12. How does this relate to Cuckservatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What I'm unclear about is how all of this relates to the Cuckservatives I've heard so much about lately.

    First of all, what is a "Cuckservative"?

    Second, why doesn't this article mention Cuckservatism and Cuckservatives?

    Third, are Cuckservatives affected by this matter?

    Fourth, what is the remedy if Cuckservatives are affected?

  13. Put it to rest by ThatBeDank · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Lets put this awkward question to rest and do a paternity test on children immediately after they're born. If the mother lies on the birth certificate saying that the father is so and so and the test says otherwise then the husband is free to leave the wife. While taking the majority of the resources (and house) if he so desires

    The crime of paternity fraud is on the same level as violent rape and should be prosecuted as such. There is no greater shame than knowing that the child you've been raising isn't yours.

    1. Re:Put it to rest by Gryle · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree with your first paragraph, in so far as men not being forced to provide for children that aren't theirs. Your second paragraph is, in a word, nuts. Paternity fraud is nowhere near the same level as violent rape, nor should it prosecuted as such. Paternity fraud is equivalent to pyramid schemes, long-term cons, or any other form of white-collar fraud, and that is the level at which it should be prosecuted. When we begin to prosecute white-collar crime with the same force we prosecute murder, assault, or robbery, you might have something approaching a point. I can think of at least three things that would bring me greater shame than knowing the child I've been raising isn't mine.

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    2. Re:Put it to rest by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      I can think of at least three things that would bring me greater shame than knowing the child I've been raising isn't mine.

      Who says it's about shame?

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    3. Re:Put it to rest by ThatBeDank · · Score: 0

      Says the poster who hasn't found his wife/gf sleeping with other men. The insult "Cuck" applies to you.

    4. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with your first paragraph, in so far as men not being forced to provide for children that aren't theirs. Your second paragraph is, in a word, nuts. Paternity fraud is nowhere near the same level as violent rape, nor should it prosecuted as such. Paternity fraud is equivalent to pyramid schemes, long-term cons, or any other form of white-collar fraud, and that is the level at which it should be prosecuted. When we begin to prosecute white-collar crime with the same force we prosecute murder, assault, or robbery, you might have something approaching a point. I can think of at least three things that would bring me greater shame than knowing the child I've been raising isn't mine.

      Nuts? How is his statement nuts?

      Imagine, you marry a women you think is honest. You two end up having a child together.

      At the beginning a baby looks like a baby. No noticeable facial traits. You as a working man pony up money to get the child clothed, housed, and sent to day care.

      You continue working to send your kid to grade school, high school, buy a car, feed the kid, and go to college. As the kid gets older you start noticing weird things it. His hair doesn't wave like yours, his face looks nothing like you, and to make matters even worse the kid ends up being significantly taller and more buff than you ever were.

      It turns out the kid is beginning to look a lot like the personal trainer you hired for your wife many years ago. You swab the kids mouth and find out the truth.

      The truth that your loving wife cheated on you and stuck you with the bill. Alpha f*cks beta bucks. Your genes weren't good enough to pass onto the next generation so your wife decided to get the genes of someone more fit and sexually satisfying than you.

      While a woman's violent rape will most likely last for 15 minutes, you have to endure a life time of embarrassment of people knowing that your kid isn't yours, that money you wasted on stuff isn't going to your genetic lineage, and finally the knowledge of looking your wife in the eyes and knowing she didn't think your genes were fit to pass onto the next generation.

      Frankly if this doesn't hit you hard, think about this: if you fail to have children you are a failure in the eyes of nature. Your genetic lineage dies with you. Survival of the fittest and you aren't the fittest.

      The word "cuck" is an insult for a reason.

    5. Re:Put it to rest by Gryle · · Score: 1

      Well, ThatBeDank did, for one, in the post I originally replied too. Is 5 sentences too much for your attention span?

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    6. Re:Put it to rest by Gryle · · Score: 1

      I would rather be violently raped than have my wife impregnated by another man and then be tricked into raising it.

      To each their own I suppose

      There's a stigma (and shame) attached with both, but being cuckolded is guaranteed to throw your life into a tailspin, while being violently raped is only mostly-like to.

      Had experience with both or do you have some data to back that assertion up?

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    7. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow - I know that we don't read the article here but dude - you didn't even read the summary.

      The actual rate of this happening is less than 1%. This question just got put to rest.

      The real question is - why are you having such an extreme, irrational response to this?

    8. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the flip side, the wife did what any ambitious female would given the opportunity to "trade up": she managed to get genes that were better for her (might not be universally better for all females, mind you) and she kept her offspring safe until maturity. That's basically what she needs to do as a female human being to keep the species healthy and alive. It would have been better if she had the kid by the personal trainer BEFORE entering the relationship with the "beta" male, so he would at least have the opportunity to choose whether or not he wanted to spend his life raising someone else's son. Those minor details aside, it's about the same thing. Relationships come and go, but DNA lasts forever.

      You can try to make the same argument about rape if you want, citing historical evidence that major genetic exchanges have happened that upset incest due to relative geographic/societal isolation, but you still have to acknowledge in a modern context where such factors are not in play that a woman who is raped is having DNA forced upon her whether or not she wants it/needs it to produce healthy offspring.

    9. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      good news.

      That's already how things work. the only departure is that the paternity test only gets you off the hook for child support not the standard rules for dissolving a marriage. For that you'd need an agreement signed by the wife that supersedes the standard 50/50 split (like a prenump, or a divorce settlement) as the child's disposition is far from the only issue concerning dissolving a shared ownership arrangment like a marriage.

      The need to treat the marriage separately from the support of the child should be obvious when you realize that generally speaking a marriage pre-child birth will include two incomes, and the full legal ownership of all assets makes determining who's job payed for the house a and who's job payed for the cars an exercise in futility.

      But back on point, you absolutely can demand a paternity test if the mother actually tries to require you to uphold any responsibility for the child.

    10. Re:Put it to rest by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      DNA lasts forever

      Yeah, no. Your first paragraph works right up until the beta snaps at the continued humiliation and snuffs her and the kid (has happened). Then everyone loses out because of her "trading up" and both lines disappear.

    11. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Wow, that is way off base manchild. First off, raising a child that is not genetically related to you is done all the time, it is called adoption, and many childless couples wait years for the opportunity. Beyond that, what fault is it of the child that their father is not you genetically. If you play with him, love him, swing him on the swings and read to him at night, that makes him your child in ways that no blob of goop ever could. Regarding the paternity test at birth, society would never go for that because you are basically guaranteeing that the child would grow up destitute in a single parent home because mommy spread her legs for some exciting guy/old boyfriend etc. Maybe if you were giving her the emotional and physical affection that she needed at home, she wouldn't have wandered off the straight and narrow. Not an excuse for her, but the reality is that these kinds of mistakes don't happen in a vacuum.

      On the other hand, you made a vow to love this woman in spite of her flaws, and, granted the consequences of her poor choices were significant, I can guarantee that you have plenty of flaws of your own that she puts up with; I am sure you have never lusted after another woman, or looked at p0rn or any number of other personal/moral flaws.

      The right thing to do is what most real men do in this situation, love your wife and your child and work things out.

      -Alpha male with a big brain and a big heart

    12. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > is so and so and the test says otherwise then the husband is free to leave the wife

      He should be free, commanded, to put her to death (as in Deuteronomy)
      And free to send any cunt away at any time you fucking feminist faggot.

    13. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >and snuffs her
      As is his right under Deuteronomy.

      Also it is his right, and duty, to kill anyone who has a problem with that.

    14. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OP

    15. Re:Put it to rest by Medievalist · · Score: 1

      There is no greater shame than knowing that the child you've been raising isn't yours.

      Really? Half my children aren't even the same ethnic group or skin color I am. If you raise 'em, they're yours.

      And I feel pretty proud of myself, thanks!

    16. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Paternity fraud is nowhere near the same level as violent rape, nor should it prosecuted as such.

      A few moments versus 18 years, both with serious psychological damage that lasts a lifetime. Even then, courts and prosecutors will go to bat for rape victims but paternity fraud cases often have the victims being legally forced to continue being victims while the criminal is unpunished. The justification is that what happens to the disposable male doesn't matter, the mother is more important to the child and thus can't go to jail. The child which isn't his has more rights over his life and earnings than he does as a victim.

      Paternity fraud is worse.

      Our ancestors understood this. The real reason why there is a double standard for cheating spouses is related. If a man successfully, secretly cheats on his wife and gets another woman pregnant, the worst thing that could happen is that woman will have a hard time raising that child. The wife is not a victim at all save for a broken trust. If a woman successfully, secretly cheats on her husband and becomes pregnant, the husband loses 18 years of his life's work and loses an opportunity to pass on his genes. The female equivalent would be for her husband to make her abort her unborn child and force her to work for free for a third of her working life.

      That is why in the ancient world men that cheat were scolded and women that cheat were stoned. One is far worse than the other.

    17. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Here's a scenario: Nazis capture me and give me two options. Get beaten and violently raped, or pay child support for some other person's offspring for two decades. I'm not going to be happy about it, but I'm choosing the rape.

    18. Re:Put it to rest by jp_832 · · Score: 0

      Being cuckolded is far more psychologically damaging to a man than even legitimate rape is to a woman.

    19. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can't believe you straight people. Isn't the point of your invention of marriage that you form an economic union where both promise to raise children together? What sense does that commitment make when the male can run away as soon as the female gives birth? Where the genes come from is completely irrelevant. If you marry a woman and she gives birth, you're the father, no matter whom else she fucked.

    20. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, honey-child, let me just point out two things:

      1) Virtue-signalling like that (especially when it can't be verified!) is one of the marks of the EVERYONE LOOK AT ME I'M A SPECIAL NON-RACIST WHITE OPRESSOR MINDSET
      2) You **chose** those children of "[not] the same ethnic group of skin [colour]." If you didn't, well... you're a cuckold and it hasn't affected your life, non-ironic and non-sarcastic congratulations! -- that wasn't sarcastic or ironic -- neither was that -- etc. I know for myself that wouldn't be an option, my heredity / social education / mindset / headcanon / meme-pool just doesn't allow me to peacefully contemplate raising another man's child UNKNOWINGLY.

    21. Re:Put it to rest by ookaze · · Score: 1

      I agree with your first paragraph, in so far as men not being forced to provide for children that aren't theirs. Your second paragraph is, in a word, nuts.

      Paternity fraud is nowhere near the same level as violent rape, nor should it prosecuted as such. Paternity fraud is equivalent to pyramid schemes, long-term cons, or any other form of white-collar fraud, and that is the level at which it should be prosecuted.

      That's your opinion, that's not mine.
      The basic purpose of mammals is passing on their genes.
      If a man rapes a woman, violently or not, he may destroy her ability to pass on the best genes she can by messing with her ability to reproduce.
      A man who raises children that aren't his own is completely denied the ability to pass on his genes, it's even worse than rape on a woman.
      If he's married, it's even worse, as the initial goal of marriage with a wirgin woman, is to assure the husband that he provides for his genes, so it destroys completely any marriage vow.

      I can think of at least three things that would bring me greater shame than knowing the child I've been raising isn't mine.

      I agree with that, especially in our times where males even marry women who already have kids and don't want any more.
      It's sad to see so many emasculated men in western societies.

    22. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hahaha, disregard that. I suck cocks!!!

      -Omega male with a big brain, big heart but with a small dick and so deluded I have fantasies of being an Alpha male.

    23. Re:Put it to rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Making paternity tests mandatory entirely solves the problem already. The crime is only a big problem in the case that it actually works, which would be impossible with a mandatory paternity test. No sense in imposing hash punishments for crimes that can't do much damage - the maximum extent of it will be 9 months. Instead, just treat it as a worse form of infidelity, which likely would be to the man's favor in any divorce proceedings, even if not to the extent that you suggest.

  14. Somebody needs to explain by silentcoder · · Score: 2

    the radical difference between these results and bloodbank studies - which have universally agreed with the results from paternity tests despite having a random sampling.
    It also does not factor in Kinsey's findings about adultery and child-conception which strongly supports the idea that most children conceived from affairs would be conceived with somebody closely related to the legal husband, that is to say, somebody likely to share his Y-chromosome.

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    1. Re:Somebody needs to explain by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      I did notice that their method would leave out hooking up his dear husband's brother. Do you have a link to any interesting bloodbank studies?

    2. Re:Somebody needs to explain by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 1

      A friend of mine had a child with her neighbour. Her husband didn't know.

      She didn't know until he was 14.

      She figured it out when she learned about pregnancy complications due to blood type. The doctors didn't say a word about it despite her complex pregnancy and its impossibility with her husband.

      Point is that it was common enough that the doctors didn't even feel the need to inform the mother.

    3. Re: Somebody needs to explain by silentcoder · · Score: 1

      There is an entire chapter devoted to them in Science of discworld but I dont have a link handy.

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    4. Re:Somebody needs to explain by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your presuming that the doctor in question
      A) had knowledge of the father's bloodtype
      B) Thought about it engouth to come to the conclusion and didn't simply treat the mother and move on.

  15. The Eiffel tower is a phallic symbol. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For your information, paternity tests are banned in France, except in criminal law cases. That's because experience had consistently shown that app. 12% of kids are from a different biological father than what their papers show and have known themselves. In order to protect the grandeur of the glorious french nation, authorities promptly banned paternity tests as soon as such study results came out.

    Now you know what french women are, they are a hare lot, without the a.
    One must wonder if islam is a more honourable system than freemasonry?

  16. Of course by argStyopa · · Score: 1

    The myth only had currency because it's "supposedly scientifically proven" result was so contrary to what one would guess at a gut level.

    That, and it speaks directly to the deep-seated fear men have (since women started concealing estrus) of being cuckolded.

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  17. Seven Hells, Ned, What Am I To Make of This? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She tells me one thing, he tells me another!

  18. Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by tal_mud · · Score: 1

    Cuckoldry is not the same as mistaken paternity. Especially not now that birth control is common, but even in the past women had substantial control on what time of month they were unfaithful. The face that the mistaken paternity rate is only around 1% does not imply that cuckoldry is not *much* higher.

    Also, the 1% result was for the average mistaken paternity rate per generation over the past 400 years or so. I wonder how it has changed over time?

    1. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by EmagGeek · · Score: 1

      Cuckoldry is also not the same as fathering a child.

      Cuckoldry is the act of having sex with another man's wife. Whether or not that act produces children has nothing to do with cuckoldry.

    2. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by Orgasmatron · · Score: 1

      Since the practice is named for the cuckoo bird, and the bird isn't having interspecies sex, but is tricking other birds into raising cuckoo offspring, I don't think we can say that children have nothing to do with it.

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    3. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Since the practice is named for the cuckoo bird, and the bird isn't having interspecies sex, but is tricking other birds into raising cuckoo offspring, I don't think we can say that children have nothing to do with it.

      A word has a different definition in biology than the lay definition. Have you never heard of such a thing before? Seriously?

    4. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You think they're completely uncorrelated? Really?

    5. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Etymology is not semantics.

    6. Re:Cuckoldry vs mistaken paternity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It doesn't matter what the practice is named for. It matters what the word means. Because, you know, words mean things, and they mean not whatever you feel they should mean, but what society has decided they mean. The definitions of words is not subject to individual whimsy.

      cuckÂold
      ËkÉ(TM)kÉ(TM)ld,-Åld/Submit
      nounarchaic
      1.
      the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.
      verb
      1.
      (of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.

  19. What's going on with these numbers? by guises · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Submitter says cuckoldry is "rare" and "Larmuseau came up with a cuckoldry rate of less than 1 percent," with a link, but if you actually on the link it says 1-2% (from the abstract).

    ::sigh:: I can answer my own question here. In the "results" section it gives, "rate of 0.91% (95% CI: 0.41–1.75%)." Note to submitter: this does not mean less than 1%. This means 1-2%, as given in the abstract. This is part of why abstracts exist - to give results in an unambiguous manner, so that they're not misinterpreted. Maybe it's not a big deal here, but it can be sometimes.

    1. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by Kjella · · Score: 2

      ::sigh:: I can answer my own question here. In the "results" section it gives, "rate of 0.91% (95% CI: 0.41-1.75%)." Note to submitter: this does not mean less than 1%. This means 1-2%, as given in the abstract. This is part of why abstracts exist - to give results in an unambiguous manner, so that they're not misinterpreted. Maybe it's not a big deal here, but it can be sometimes.

      Wow, this much hubris and you don't understand confidence intervals worth shit. The most likely value is 0.91%, that is to say it's more likely <1% than >1%. With 95% confidence it's between 0.41% and 1.75%, so it's almost certainly below 2% but it may be as low as 0.5%

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    2. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And another person correcting someone while showing that he failed elementary statistics, what fun.

      0.91% is not "The most likely" rate, it's the rate from assuming that the data present is both perfect and sufficient. 2 standard deviations away covers a span that has a 95% chance of including the real number. That's the 0.41%-1.75%. So there is a roughly 2.5% chance (based on statistical expectations) that the rate is below 0.41% and a 2.5% chance that the rate is above 1.75%

      Even all that assumes the data is representative, which is somewhere between difficult and impossible to prove in societal studies like this.

    3. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by barc0001 · · Score: 1

      Even 1% isn't exactly what I'd call rare. That would mean in the high school I went to you could fill a small classroom with the offspring of cuckoldry from the student body, presuming they held to the average.

    4. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by dcollins · · Score: 1

      "The most likely value is 0.91%..."

      Well, no -- assuming a continuous probability distribution model, then the chance of the parameter being exactly 0.91% is zero (identical to all other point estimates). However, the statistic that produced 0.91% does maximize the probability density function, that is, the chance of the parameter being in a small interval around 0.91% is greater than the chance of it being in any other equally-wide interval.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maximum_likelihood

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    5. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by xtronics · · Score: 1

      Actually - the 15% one was not doing paternity research.

      These guys are talking about "historical EPP rates" - not of interest - people want to know what is happening NOW. Things have changed.

      I don't believe the 30% number - and I don't believe the 1-2% either. The 15% rate sounds about right.

    6. Re:What's going on with these numbers? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't criticize on specifics then fudge. There is a 2.5% chance that the resultant value is higher than 1.75% all the way up to 100%. There is a 2.5% chance the resultant value is lower than 0.41% all the way down to 0.0%. There is no "may be as low as 0.5%". 0.0% is the bottom.

      0.91% is not the most likely number, but the weighted center of the confidence interval. It says nothing about what is most likely. Other factors likely produces a modal distribution as natural human behavior don't produce perfect, gentle mathematical bell curves.

  20. Who cares when Govt. sponsors cucklodery by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Who cares when Govt. sponsors cucklodery through divorce rape.

  21. Evolution in societies by DrYak · · Score: 2

    There is more to it, of course, but that would all seem to make sense from a DNA/evolution point of view.

    Yup, there IS more to this.
    The thing is, we didn't evolve as loners.
    We did evolve living in small packs/tribes of more or less related individuals. (Or extended families a little bit later in history).

    That adds a lot of complexity to the scheme.
    - That's why we evolved altruism (the individual you're helping is most likely to be from your tribe, and you're likely to be related to it. By being nice to people, you *are* actually helping passing around more copy of your genes (including the genes that shaped said altruism behaviour). You just happen not to be the actual vessel passing around the genes).
    - That's why adoption is a works very well with humans (the nearest child without parents is highly likely to be related to you. by raising the child, you increase the number of copies of your gene in the pool).
    - That's why we evolved grand-mothers (in most species, genetic defect that manifest after the end of the reproductive life aren't much selected against: by the time the age-related disease sets in, copie of the gene have already been passed. In most speice of apes to which we are closely related, senility is the normal way of things, nearly all ageing apes get senile. Not so in humans: senility are some specific diseases, but lots of individuals age nicely without getting alzheimer's, parkinson's, etc. because then these ageing individuals can help taking care of their grand-kids, and again helping more copies of their genes survive (including the beneficial gene that help in late age) even if they are not anymore biologically able to pass themselves first-hand).
    - That's saddly why we evolved "uncanny valley" (it also helps forming a genetic ground for xenophobia: if it looks almost like, but a little bit of what you've used to see while growing up, chances are that it comes from a different pack/tribe to which you aren't related to and is a competitor that you need to kill with fire).
    (NOTE: I'm not condoning xenophobia in any way. I'm just giving explanation why we did evolve such a stupid behaviour and "uncanny valley" might be the mechanism supporting it. It only explain, not justify. We must understand these mechanism and adapt to the fact that modern highly mobile and interconnect civilisation has grown to the point where "pack/tribe" covers about a dozen billion individual spread on a whole planet surface, and we must all stick together if we want to have a chance at surviving as a specie at whole)

    And countless other example of special behaviour in humans that might seem counter intuitive in the first place, but start to make sense once you look at them through the lens of small pack/tribes/extended families (situation in which we've spent most of our evolution time).

    You can find other similar behaviour in other animals that live in groups, from cats (not very social animals, but still can live in colonies) all the way up to ants and bees (all these kind of behaviours turned up to eleven. to the point where only 1 single individual - the queen - actually passes here gene around actively, and every other last one in the colony is indirectly helping more copies of their genes indirectly by helping their siblings - which makes even more sense when your do the mendelian genetics maths on their peculiar reproductive cycle)

    Your DNA cares. You serve largely to pass it on, and if the kid isn't yours, and you pick up on the clues, you're probably hardwired to reject the little mite.

    On the other hand, if the kid isn't yours, chances are high (back in the pack/tribe era of human evolution) that it comes from another individual of the pack to which you're related. By raising the kid, you're still helping passing more copies of your genes around. You just happen not to be the actual individual who inserted these specific copies of the gene into your mate.

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    1. Re:Evolution in societies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The thing is, we didn't evolve as loners.

      Umm, I did.

  22. Metaphore by DrYak · · Score: 1

    Actually, your DNA doesn't give a shit. It's an encoding of a bunch of molecules - don't think it cares too much about anything

    Look up the word "metaphore" in wikipedia, it might help.

    DNA has not high level volition on its own.

    But group of gene which produce a trait or a behaviour that is more likely to help have more copies of the DNA in the next generation are, over time, more likely to proliferate in the general population.
    (Darwinian genetics)

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  23. genes versus memes by DrYak · · Score: 1

    yup.

    it's the whole idea of Dawkins that we're slowly evolving from a situation were we animals are only vessels to help our DNA make sure there's more copy of it in the next generation,

    to a situation where life helps evolve something much larger than the individuals: culture civilisation.

    We evolved speech, we evolved passed knowledge (oral tradition and teaching).
    We evolved writing, we evolved stored knowledge (litterature and reference).
    We evolved communication, we evolved shared knowledge (internet and what some call "extelligence")

    At that point, in the long term, what matters most is science and society. Not genetic traits.

    Still in the meantime, we're animals carrying genes that evolved during million of years before the invention of the internet.
    We're bound to carry some left-over instincts.

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  24. Obligatory XKCD by Scarred+Intellect · · Score: 1
    https://xkcd.com/674/

    It's all in the mouseover text, but we (should) know that here.

  25. Research funded by by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    *** Research funded by the Maury Povich show.

  26. faithfulness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If husands and wives were faithful to each other we wouldn't be talking about this.

  27. Apples to Oranges by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

    The first study is studying modern day cuckolding.
    This new one is very clearly studying cuckolding over the past 4 centuries.

    These are not really the same thing. And the differing results are not mutually exclusive.

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    1. Re:Apples to Oranges by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True enough, given that effective birth control was only available recently. It would seem genetic studies from the 1960s onward would be the most relevant.

  28. DNA testing by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

    All these nerds fantasizing about banging the hot blonde MILF next door, and nobody points out that DNA sequencing was a labor-intensive, manual, thus *extremely* expensive process in 1970, and that technological growth reduced the human labor required per sequencing, thus making DNA paternity testing a viable option after 1990 by reducing the number of wage-labor hours paid out per sequencing (cost, thus price)?

  29. Stable relationships still an important value by Theovon · · Score: 1

    Some ultra liberal people scoff at the idea that we should stick to certain core values in society. They even go so far as to question some pretty fundamentally held beliefs about murder and paedophilia.

    I’m not one to dictate what people do. I think everything should be questioned, even if it’s “fundamentally held.” I don’t think that your values have to be “Christian.” (Christianity at large has some pretty messed up ideas.) And while I favor monogamy, in the general case, I think that stability in relationships is the basic value people would be advised to adhere to. (This is especially important among gay males who have a higher risk of sextually transmitted infection.) There are clear evolutionary and practical advantages.

    It’s nice to see that there’s at least a persisting trend in society to stick to one sexual partner, evidenced by the low rate of “mystery father” children.

    1. Re:Stable relationships still an important value by PvtVoid · · Score: 1

      Who let David Brooks in here?

    2. Re:Stable relationships still an important value by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marrying female children should be the core value, not fucking over the man to help society (read: women).

      >In the United States, as late as the 1880s most States set the minimum age at 10-12, (in Delaware it was 7 in 1895).[8] Inspired by the "Maiden Tribute" female reformers in the US initiated their own campaign[9] which petitioned legislators to raise the legal minimum age to at least 16, with the ultimate goal to raise the age to 18. The campaign was successful, with almost all states raising the minimum age to 16-18 years by 1920.

      >Also: see: Deuteronomy chapter 22 verses 28-29, hebrew allows men to rape girl children and keep them: thus man + girl is obviously fine. Feminists are commanded to be killed as anyone enticing others to follow another ruler/judge/god is to be killed as-per Deuteronomy. It is wonderful when this happens from time to time: celebrate)

    3. Re:Stable relationships still an important value by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      David Brooks is the biggest hack I've ever read. A political journalist prancing around pretending to be a scientist, while giving people advice on relationships after his failed marriage.

  30. True... by tom229 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    There's some truth to the notion that monogamous species are attracted to two types of mates: alpha, and provider. This is due to monogamy evolving only when two parents are needed to care for the offspring in order for it to survive. There's also evidence that the female in the monogamy will often attempt to be seeded by an alpha in secret. If her provider mate finds out he will abandon the nest. Yes, I'm mostly talking about birds. While humans have evolved monogamy as well, we have this pesky little thing called "a high level of consciousness". This makes it very difficult to throw around generalisations and make assumptions.

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    1. Re:True... by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      In both birds and primates, it is my understanding, that it is more that the female will try and get as many fathers as possible. Of course you want the current pack leader to believe he is the father, but if you can also mate a few times when his back is turned with some monkeys that you think are the next up and coming alphas, well them your baby's prospects will be all the better.

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    2. Re:True... by tom229 · · Score: 1

      While this may be true, it's important to realize that humans aren't pack animals in the traditional sense. Our natural progression is to a tribal society, generally with a hierarchical order including a chieftain and several subservient families. This is unique in the animal kingdom. While polygamy might be common it is not your traditional pack with an alpha male and female where mating by other members is rarely tolerated. Birds don't live in tribal societies but they often are monogamous simply because the mother can't catch enough food for herself and the offspring. The monogamous pairing usually only lasts one mating season. "Cheating" females has been observed but if the male witnesses it, the nest is abandoned and the eggs will never hatch.

      Because we have no other examples of tribal societies in nature it's really hard to make generalisations of human mating habits. This is compounded by humans very high level of consciousness. Some will tolerate polygamy for the male, some for both genders, and some not at all. Attracting factors are also extremely dynamic. The female has instinctual attractions to alpha qualities, provider qualities, and social status. Males are generally attracted to indications of high estrogen and fertility like full hair and lips and large bossoms. For both genders there are then influencing factors like family status, religion, cultural ideals, and personal taste. It's nearly impossible to develop a single theory for the mating practices of human populations. So whenever you hear someone making generalizations about "alphas and betas" it's most likely some kid with low confidence who's frustrated he can't get laid.

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  31. where did studies take place? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    EU? US? Australia? Japan?
    But more importantly, how does it account for major behavior change?
    3-4 centuries ago people may have had one partner. There was MAJOR stigma to be unfaithful. Also, punishment was really bad too. Now Female can have easily 30-40 partners in life time. Don't you think it will have effect?
    Study is not relevant to this day and age.

  32. Not new information by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I read years ago in barking up the wrong tree (when the site didn't suck) that it's both higher and lower. That is that if the "father" suspects it's not his, it more likely isn't. But if the "father" doesn't suspect it most likely is his. I guess missed the whole cuckoldry flap, but then again I guess I don't get enough of my science information from celebrity magazines.

  33. Metaphore... hmmm. by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

    Look up the word "metaphore" in wikipedia, it might help.

    "Metaphore" is not in Wikipedia. I assume it is an agent or bearer of a specified thing that has self-referential characteristics. Is that what you meant to convey?

    Inquiring minds want to know. Well, at least, one does. :)

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    1. Re:Metaphore... hmmm. by KGIII · · Score: 1

      It's okay. I suspect they're not really a yak and I'm starting to have my doubts about them being a doctor.

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    2. Re:Metaphore... hmmm. by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

      Oh ye of little faithe, sure 'an it must be true, as they are not the reviled anonymouse cowarde, forsooth!

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    3. Re:Metaphore... hmmm. by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

      I meant to say, "forsoothe." The quicknesse of my fingerse on the keyboarde was my undoinge.

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  34. Cost of kids by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

    Raising children costs money approximately 15k a year

    Well, for severely minimal standards of "raising", as in "I didn't let the kid starve or go naked", it might. Otherwise, it's absurdly optimistic. If you meant "at some time in the past", sure. But as of recently, today and into the future? No. And of course there are many indirect monetary costs as well; choices made because one has children, rather than in the direct raising of a specific child. These can range from the house you buy and where you live (for instance, to control which school district the child(ren) are educated in) to the hours you work (because someone has to be there to supervise them over large parts of their lives) to what furniture and equipment you outfit your home with, to the vehicles you choose, and so on and so forth.

    Not saying you can't raise a kid for 15k/year. Sure you can. But you almost certainly won't. Even if you think you are, it's probably just that other taxpayers are footing part of the bill for you.

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    1. Re:Cost of kids by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My finances are my business, so I am posting anon (I'm a registered user that posts fairly often).

      I live in Texas, making ~40k/yr (fortunately with good insurance, this makes a big difference) and I support a family of 6 (my wife is a stay at home mom). 2 of my kids are school-age, 1 is a toddler and 1 is a 3-month old baby. I drive a 2004 Hyundai and my wife a 2005 Kia, we own our home (mortgage) and do not buy fancy cellphones (not current-gen, anyway, I have an S5 that I picked up cheap used), have prepaid cell service ($25/mo times 2 lines), do not pay for cable TV (Netflix) and we're generally quite frugal. A special occasion eating out may be PeiWei. This happens 6-8 times a year (lately, we used to do it a lot less often). My eldest 2 children have their own laptops (Christmas last year, older core2duos that I picked up used for a song). They have $30 Freedompop cellphones (that we keep an eye on so they don't go over the 'free' plan). They don't feel they are missing out on anything and appear to have a greater general satisfaction level than most of their peers who have 2 working parents (and therefore more money coming into the home).

      I'll watch this comment for a few hours if you want to ask anything, but no, you can certainly raise children for under $15k/yr (assuming you mean each), but you can't live extravagantly (you also have to be really, really honest about what constitutes extravagance) nor in a high COL area. You have to be wise about it, but we're more comfortable than my family was when I grew up. We have savings in case of emergency (which puts us ahead of the typical person in any price bracket, unfortunately).

    2. Re:Cost of kids by jimbolauski · · Score: 1

      The cost to raise a child up to age 18 is $245k or 300k if it's adjusted for projected inflation. That's right at 15k a year.

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  35. Instinct or idiocy by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

    for many men, part of the reward for parenting is some sense of immortality. I'll bet there's some animal instinct involved here.

    To whatever extent that observation is true, instinct (or idiocy) is all it can be. Because children in no sense confer immortality. They, and their offspring, aren't you, won't act like you, and after just a couple of generations, subsequent offspring will pretty much forget you even existed, or even if they are vaguely aware of it, simply won't care.

    There are many rewards that may arise from parenting. Immortality isn't one of them. The illusion of immortality might be, though. If you are really careful not to think too clearly about it.

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    1. Re:Instinct or idiocy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is your own choice to not honor your ancestors. Not everyone is so selfish.

  36. Repeat in 10 years by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    With the latest increase in sissified men, wait until women look for other men for reproduction only

  37. *Snip* *Snip* by RogueWarrior65 · · Score: 1

    A friend of mine was dating a woman who said to him one day, "I'm pregnant and it's yours." He said, "Yeah, well, I had a vasectomy years ago." And that was all she wrote.

    1. Re:*Snip* *Snip* by LunaticTippy · · Score: 1

      Vasectomies can fail. A decent surgeon using good techniques can get 0.1% - 1% long term failure rates. Bad techniques can have higher rates. If I was presented with this situation I would probably have my sperm counted before making any judgement.

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    2. Re:*Snip* *Snip* by RogueWarrior65 · · Score: 1

      This guy had it done years before the encounter in question. It's still demonstrably better than pretty much every other method.
      http://www.vasectomy-informati...

  38. Definition of "cuckoldry rate" by thecombatwombat · · Score: 1

    The various links seem to define cuckoldry as a father raising a child that isn't his, but the study is measuring children who have a father that don't have the expected father. Common sense tells me that's not the "cuckoldry rate." Fathers can have more than one child, but children can't have more than one father. I mean if 1 in 100 children have this unexpected paternity, if a father has three children, wouldn't it seem likely that he has about a 3% chance of being a cuckold? Maybe the false paternity tends to cluster together such that if one kid isn't biologically the father's, it's likely the siblings are too, but I see no reason to think that.

    The measure would be better called a false paternity rate or something similar, not a cuckold rate. Or am I missing something obvious?

  39. All you've proven is it's the father's relative by WillAffleckUW · · Score: 1

    That said, the commentary that, in the general population, paternity is rarely an issue is correct.

    But it could be a close relative. Also, CI is the confidence interval. And clustering effects can indicate in-family adoptions of underage children in terms of "your mom is actually your older sister and your mom is your grandma" or similar things.

    Remember, the study with the lower percentage is from Belgium. Different regions of different countries have different rates. You can't really compare other countries or regions with yours, in terms of correctly identified parentage. This is well known in the community of researchers.

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  40. Coffee time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    " The people who ordered the tests already had reason to doubt paternity."

    We all have reason to doubt paternity, my friend. Every one of us.

  41. You are all so enlightened by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I love to see all you assholes talking about "cuckholding" like you even bothered to look up the definition. Spoiler alert, it isn't a catch-all term for swinging, cheating, polyamory, or even enjoying watching your partner bang other people. Ten years ago, we saw similar discussions and judgmental attitudes about homosexuality even on Slashdot. Of course, Slashdot was "far too enlightened" for that kind of bigotry, but now it's totally okay because the pendulum of public opinion hasn't fully swung for anything other than homosexuality. I'm sure all you brave souls will be rushing to talk about how enlightened you are just as soon as non-binary relationships are accepted by the majority of society in about 10 years.

  42. Fidelity itself is the actual issue. by idbeholda · · Score: 1

    If you have trouble understanding this, ask yourself why that many men who distrust their partners and have the testing done to confirm their suspicions are much higher than a random distribution. There isn't any question as to who the mother is when the child is born.

  43. Actually all it proves is by Chrisq · · Score: 1

    Actually all it proves is that around 1% were accepted into the families and lived long enough to have children themselves. Historically discovered extra marital children would have often resulted in the expulsion of the mother and the child, or worse

  44. Bad deal. Horrible deal. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We never get to marry cute young girls.

    Women decreed this.

    >In the United States, as late as the 1880s most States set the minimum age at 10-12, (in Delaware it was 7 in 1895).[8] Inspired by the "Maiden Tribute" female reformers in the US initiated their own campaign[9] which petitioned legislators to raise the legal minimum age to at least 16, with the ultimate goal to raise the age to 18. The campaign was successful, with almost all states raising the minimum age to 16-18 years by 1920.

    >Also: see: Deuteronomy chapter 22 verses 28-29, hebrew allows men to rape girl children and keep them: thus man + girl is obviously fine. Feminists are commanded to be killed as anyone enticing others to follow another ruler/judge/god is to be killed as-per Deuteronomy. It is wonderful when this happens from time to time: celebrate)

    Also getting with a grown ass woman is probably adultery as she was probably another man's woman whom she sinfully left (women cannot leave the man) or you took from.

  45. Re:Biased study by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nope, Flamebait. But close enough.

  46. My brother also has the same Y chromosome as I do by climb_no_fear · · Score: 1

    As well as my father (obviously, that's who I got it from) and my paternal uncle, etc. At the risk of offending sensibilities, how do they correct for a relative cockolding, since they only look at the Y chromosome? And in a typical little village 400 years ago, there might only have been 5-10 or so unrelated Y chromosomes floating around.

  47. Re:My brother also has the same Y chromosome as I by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

    Perhaps technically that should not really be consider cuckolding though. If they are your genes, does it matter how they got there?

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  48. moral of the story is by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    if you think your wife is a whore there is 30% chance of it being true

  49. Thr '1% study' is not random sample either by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The fact it relies on well documented family tree means this study is also not a random sample.

  50. They only tested the Y chromosome? by thisisauniqueid · · Score: 1

    Maybe adulterous women only bear daughters.