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Joan Lee, Stan's Wife of 69 Years, Passed Away At Age 95 (hollywoodreporter.com)

Reader McGruber writes: The Hollywood Reporter has the sad news that Joan Lee, the wife of Marvel Comics legend Stan Lee, died Thursday in Los Angeles. She was 95. In an earlier story, Stan described meeting Joan: "When I was young, there was one girl I drew; one body and face and hair. It was my idea of what a girl should be. The perfect woman. And when I got out of the Army, somebody, a cousin of mine, knew a model, a hat model at a place called Laden Hats. He said, 'Stan, there's this really pretty girl named Betty. I think you'd like her. She might like you. Why don't you go over and ask her to lunch.' Blah, blah, blah. "So I went up to this place. Betty didn't answer the door. But Joan answered, and she was the head model. I took one look at her -- and she was the girl I had been drawing all my life. And then I heard the English accent. And I'm a nut for English accents! She said, 'May I help you?' And I took a look at her, and I think I said something crazy like, 'I love you.' I don't remember exactly. But anyway, I took her to lunch. I never met Betty, the other girl. I think I proposed to [Joan] at lunch." After marrying, the couple returned to New York, where Lee worked at Marvel Comics forerunner Timely/Atlas Comics, a job he initially landed because his cousin Martin Goodman owned the company. Comics were a middling enterprise until Lee and Jack Kirby co-created the Fantastic Four in 1961 (followed by the Hulk, Avengers, Iron Man, X-Men and other characters) and turned the company, renamed Marvel Comics, into a pop culture powerhouse. In some versions of the origin of the Fantastic Four, Lee credits Joan with inspiring him. He was depressed about his career (Lee had dreams of becoming a serious novelist) and the state of comics (the industry in the 1950s was dominated by stories of war, science fiction and romance, genres he didn't like) and contemplated leaving the business. "Before you quit," Joan told him, "why don't you write one comic you are proud of?" And thus was born the Fantastic Four.

82 comments

  1. Rumor has it... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

    Stan stole her from Jack Kirby, just like everything else.

  2. Sorry for Mr Lee by afidel · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    And also sorry that he probably won't be around very long, people who lose a longtime spouse often die in the next 3-6 months.

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    1. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thanks Debbie Downer.... but sadly I fear you aren't far off the mark.

    2. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Captain+Splendid · · Score: 1

      We thought the same thing about one of my uncle's parents. "Granny" was devoted to her husband, and we all figured she'd be gone herself fairly soon after he passed, but she was around almost a whole decade after, still being one of the sweetest grandmas ever.

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    3. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Jhon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Stan Lee has lost his wife. Of nearly 70 years.

      What am I seeing here and on social media? Way too many people posting "Stan doesn't have long, either".

      Yes -- he's old. Yes, elderly surviving spouses don't often last much beyond their departed. The *PROBLEM* I'm having with this popping up all over social media is that it's tactless. It is without taste. It's poor manners.

      It's akin to meeting someone new and saying "Wow, that's some mole you have on your nose". Some things are of so little import that they need no comment and to make one only makes others feel uncomfortable. And I'm not talking about just Stan... *I* don't want to think of a world without him in it.

    4. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      People who lose a longtime spouse are usually very old (Stan Lee is 94) and for that reason alone stand a statistically big change of dying in the next 3-6 months.

      correlation, causation, blabla

    5. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Likewise with my grandparents.
      Grandmother died. Grandfather was pretty much dependent on her.
      It was one of those real strong love-hate relationships that lasted decades.

      He had also had a stroke a few months before she died.
      We expected he wouldn't be long for this world. He is still here 4 years later.
      Mind you, his health has still deteriorated because he screwed his knee up.
      The constant sitting is a good indicator of death at old age.
      Once you reach that constant-sitting stage at old age, it's basically a 5 year count-down most times.
      My grandmother was actually one of those cases. Her arthritis grew so painful she was in a seat for long times. Got a mobility scooter. It was only a matter of time. All it took was one stomach bug to strain her body too much and poof, dead.
      This is why I have been so strict in telling people going round to his to NOT go around at all if they have even the slightest of infections. The longer time passes, the more he is going to become weaker to these simpler infections. (and this is a person who has a top immune system, in fact most of the family do)

    6. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by MangoCats · · Score: 1

      Stan Lee lives a different life than most people. I'm sure Joan was and is very important to him, but he's not lacking for any kind of company he wants - in fact, I'm rather sure he has full-time staff to regulate how much social interaction reaches him throughout each day.

    7. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Effectively people treat social media like a conversation between friends or relatives, when it is actually more like broadcast news...

    8. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's tactless. It is without taste. It's poor manners.

      Welcome to the internet!

    9. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 0

      it's tactless. It is without taste. It's poor manners.

      Welcome to the age of the internet troll.

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    10. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      We'll all be sorry to see him go but the man left his mark on the world and can leave this plane with grace.

      There are a lot of things to love (or hate) about the recent success of Marvel movies, but personally my favorite is that Mr. Lee finally gets to see those comics come to life in a truly spectacular fashion.

      There's a lot to be said about the traditional comic format but he's never been shy about wanting to bring Marvel properties to TV and Screen. In countless interviews he has ALWAYS said he loved bringing those creations to new mediums. Even the old, cheap, corny shows and movies.

      Well he's lived to see Marvel movies become top billed cinema entertainment and weather you think they're great movies or not, they do bring wonder and amazement to kids all over the globe. I think that's all he's ever wanted, and I think it's wonderful.

    11. Re: Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Granny is a confirmed cheater.

    12. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personally I look forward to the day when Marvel movies are good again. Maybe they'll stop shitting out all of these action sequel turds when Stan dies and go back to doing character-driven origin stories without all of the "superheroes are everywhere!!11, and they even fight eachother" bullshit. Please. Make. It. Stop.

    13. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh get off your high horse. Who made you the czar of how people react to such news? You don't know Stan or his family. It's none of your business. If people want to express sympathy or make trite remarks or joke about it or whatever else, that's their prerogative.

      So go cry in your beer for a man you never met. No one will stop you. But don't expect the whole world to bow to your feelings.

    14. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      its alwayz been trollz from internet preherstory, n00b here u

    15. Re: Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not really likely to matter. I think Stan Lee's main job in the movies these days is to put in a humorous cameo appearance.

    16. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a pure gossip-rag PR piece and does not belong here. We all know who Stan is, but his wife? Come on, she wasn't even a z-list celeb. But hey, virtue signalling white knights like yourself need someone to defend, eh?

    17. Re:Sorry for Mr Lee by Chris+Mattern · · Score: 1

      It's akin to meeting someone new and saying "Wow, that's some mole you have on your nose".

      What kind of clothes?

  3. Does not bode well by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've known of number of old married people with 50+ years of marriage; and if the wife passed away first, the husband maybe lived up to 2 years beyond that.

    1. Re:Does not bode well by Dunbal · · Score: 1

      Heck my grandmother is 94. My grandfather passed away 13 years ago. My mother in law is 78, my father in law died 4 years ago. Could be that OP is just full of shit, too.

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    2. Re:Does not bode well by narcc · · Score: 1

      It's not uncommon for a spouse to die shortly after their partners passing. It's been known to happen within hours or days.

      There's a bunch of studies linked in this article for you to ignore.

           

  4. start the clock by Revek · · Score: 1

    I hate to say it but Stan has been sitting down in the last few cameos. Being married to someone for that long can usually means that the one left will decline rapidly. My granddad didn't last a month after my grandmother passed and they were married for 71 years.

    1. Re: start the clock by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but just like Joan Lee, your grandparents are also burning in hell. Had they repented and been born again, they would have been saved. Jesus can forgive any sin, but you must first accept Him as your personal savior. Hope that helps.

      You know, when you really think about that it paints Jesus in a rather hypocritical light.

      All that talk of not judging others, loving thy neighbor as thyself, and turning the otehr cheek only to be so petty about who "deserves" to be saved based on whether they personally ask him for it when it's in his power to grant salvation unconditionally.
      Dick move JC. Dick move.

    2. Re:start the clock by Paterson+07514 · · Score: 1

      Stan Lee had two cameos this year. Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 and Spiderman - The Homecoming

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    3. Re:start the clock by nnet · · Score: 1

      Neo is my personal saviour. Just Say No to false prophets(R).

    4. Re: start the clock by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      -Signed the Christian who's going to bow to Allah or get his ass beat by Muslim freedom fighters

      FTFY

      And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. But rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows. Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies Me before men, him I will also deny before My Father who is in heaven.

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    5. Re:start the clock by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 2

      Actually, as I understand it, he's he's already filmed his cameos for the MCU.

    6. Re: start the clock by chipschap · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but just like Joan Lee, your grandparents are also burning in hell. Had they repented and been born again, they would have been saved. Jesus can forgive any sin, but you must first accept Him as your personal savior. Hope that helps.

      If you're going to be in heaven, I'd much rather be in the other place.

    7. Re: start the clock by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jesus Himself went to Hell. He got there with a big freaking gun and singlehandedly rescued many doomed souls, mowing down demons left and right and telling them souls "get to da choppa!"

    8. Re:start the clock by Chris+Mattern · · Score: 1
  5. Lovely Tribute by tobiah · · Score: 1

    May we all be so lucky

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  6. Death of a spouse. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My grandfather died about 15 years ago and we figured grandma would go soon after. Nope, she kept on going. Then about 2 years ago, her long-time milkman died. She dropped upon hearing the news.

    Weird.

    1. Re:Death of a spouse. by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Maybe you don't want to delve too deeply into that.

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  7. Sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I lost a grandfather (also 95) last month.
    The good ones always go too soon, no matter how we count the years.

    1. Re:Sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and the bad ones stick around for way too long. it's that way because god hates us.

  8. Re:Unpleasant truth by cunina · · Score: 0

    Thank goodness you're here to add thoughtful and worthwhile content.

  9. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Honest-to-FSM question. What kinds of responses are you hoping for from this troll?

  10. Haven't felt this sad since BSD died by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    When BSD died, I went through the five stages of grief. Ultimately I turned my will over to a higher power. I also planted a small tree to remember BSD by. Unfortunately it was killed a few years later by the pine beetle.

    I can't take any more death. I will throw some quarters into the fountain at the mall in memory of Stan's wife. They gather those coins up every Labor Day and donate them to Jerry's Kids. After I get home from the mall tonight I'm also going to watch Jerry "the spaz" Lewis in the original "Nutty Professor". He will calm me down and help assuage my grief, a grief not only for BSD, but also for the dead little pine tree that followed in BSD's footsteps. But most especially the sorrow I feel over the passing of Mrs. Stan Lee.

  11. Re:I wonder what she smelled like? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm nowhere near that age and I'm already pretty stinky. Farts in particular are much nastier than in my youth. I'm hoping that if I ever get that old, my farts will be like a dusty, dry wind without any odor.

  12. I dunno... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The way he's been cameoing around with younger buxom ladies in Marvel movies lately, he might be like the Hef and last many years past his expiry preying on the bodies of the young and buxom! :)

    1. Re:I dunno... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fuck off. I hold the patent for this plan US734-65641-ARSE.

      My legal team will be unleashed as soon as they sober up.

  13. Re: Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Where does it say the facts won't be presented at least one more time after death? Say in purgatory or something? I mean that would be in line with something Jesus would do.

  14. Re:Unpleasant truth by cunina · · Score: 0

    I will only post as AC due to the re-positioning of /. as an astro-turfing tool

    That's like, "The pizza had rat turds on it, so I only had two slices."

  15. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Get bent. The behavior you're displaying here is not Christian like at all.

  16. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No

    Refusing to lend credibility to a pizza joint that sells rat-turd infused products does not mean that I cannot write graffiti to that effect on their walls

  17. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Rat turds are o.k. They contain electrolytes.

  18. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've got some Prik Kee Noo Suan peppers growing in my garden, they are great on anything, even pizza

    fyi, literal translation from Thai is Rat Turd Pepper

  19. Much thanks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For her contributions to science and computers.

  20. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Most of us would just leave the pizza joint.

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  22. Re: who was BSD? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Who are you talking about?

    I thought maybe you meant Bob Dylan, but he's still alive, and he doesn't have a middle (stage) name.

    p.s. I also assume you're not talking about Berkeley Software Distribution or Big Swinging Dick.

  23. news for nerds? by resfilter · · Score: 0

    my condolences, but news for nerds? do nerds actually like that spandex crime fighting fantasy garbage? i thought comic book fans were more in the loser or at least the dork spectrum

    1. Re:news for nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Says a Slashdot user. The dork of Internet sites.

    2. Re:news for nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is Slashdot, not Boomerdot. Go whine about the "Young people" with their "Comics" and "TV" and "The Netflix" somewhere else.

    3. Re:news for nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Certified nerd reporting. pi memorized to way too many places. got goosebumps when reading about the proof of fermats last theorem. Read LOTR way before the films (sat through the extended credits to see all the tolkien society members) and played D&D for 3 years. I love comic books and superheroes. within reason, mind you. i dont collect any more. but i would go to a convention dressed as Vision in a heartbeat, after losing some pounds.

  24. Re:Unpleasant truth by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 0

    We're not plants.

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  25. Re: who was BSD? by guruevi · · Score: 1

    Probably NetBSD/OpenBSD?

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  26. I can only imagine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I can only imagine the hole left in Stan Lee's life. I've been with my wife for 16 years and just the thought of her passing away is incredibly depressing, to say the least. Stan, my heart goes out to you. God speed to your wife.

    1. Re: I can only imagine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Kill yourself now so you won't have to deal with the grief.

  27. Re: who was BSD? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's a sad sad day when someone on Slashdot has to ask "What's BSD?". Now get off my lawn, you whippersnappers.

  28. Stan the man will be around for another 5-10 years by OppMan29 · · Score: 1

    he still has more to offer, I know now he only does cameos but SuperHumans wasnt that long ago..

  29. Why is this in the news? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    he's a cartoonists, sure the kids love his super-heroes, but why is both him and his wife portraited and spoken of as some saviours of mankind or something? He draws cartoons of super heroes!!

  30. Wonderful times ... by Qbertino · · Score: 1

    ... those must have been when you could meet the woman of your dreams like that and be together until death thou part.

    Nigh impossible with most ladies today.

    I envy him.

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    1. Re:Wonderful times ... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      No, life wasn't better then.

      I (in this more modern day and age) have met the woman of my dreams.

      My grandparents who live in the age you're vaunting chose terribly and were thoroughly miserable until parted by severe illness, followed by death of one of them. Naturally being people of that age and generation, divorce wasn't really on the table even though it would have been of great benefit to them.

      Thing is if you weren't so clearly bitter about the ladies you want to be with, they might be more inclined to give you the time of day. When you radiate hatred of them, yeah, most people kinda notice when someone hates them and it's not a huge turn on.

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  31. Re: who was BSD? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wow. You're only the 2nd moron who missed "p.s. I also assume you're not talking about Berkeley Software Distribution."

  32. Re: who was BSD? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    BSD is another name for an operating system called Net-2 which was written by Bill Jollitz and Linda Jollitz. It went through several name changes but then it died. Hobbyists still tinker with its remnants and have various pet names for their hobby versions. Minix popularized by Andrew Tannenbaum (Bob Dylan's childhood friend) is probably the most popular BSD derived softwares. It uses a cute raccoon named Rascal for its logo. Because of BSD using a raccoon for its logo, BSD hobbyists are affectionately referred to as "coons".

  33. Re:Unpleasant truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Since we're confidently predicting afterlife here: I predict you'll be reincarnated as a bookworm, to teach you the true relevance of the printed word. Bibles will be your favourite food.

  34. Except he's not totally wrong ..... by King_TJ · · Score: 1

    In modern times, everyone feels like technology enables them to have "better options" than they really have.

    Instead of just walking up to a woman who strikes you as amazing, expressing that interest, and it potentially sparking a great relationship? Now you have to compete with all the "Hot or Not?" and Tindr type web sites that encourage you to just flip through hundreds of photos of people you might find physically attractive. You can potentially hook up with ANY of them with just the swipe of your finger.

    That causes the "kid in a candy store" syndrome, where it feels like you have so many available choices, any one individual is rather disposable and will be judged against all of those others.

  35. What!!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hot News, wife of some bloke dies.........

  36. I've heard of kinks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...but yours is one of the weirdest