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Apple Planning New, 'Robust' Parental Controls To Help Protect Children, Teens (arstechnica.com)

An anonymous reader quotes a report from Ars Technica: An open letter to Apple from some investors sparked the tech giant to respond by promising new software tools for parents to restrict and monitor their kids' smartphone use. In a report by The Wall Street Journal, Apple states it has plans to create new software features that will make its current parental controls on iPhone and other devices "even more robust." "We think deeply about how our products are used and the impact they have on users and the people around them," Apple said in its statement to The Wall Street Journal. "We take this responsibility very seriously and we are committed to meeting and exceeding our customers' expectations, especially when it comes to protecting kids."

Apple didn't provide details on its planned, improved parental control features, but it did point back to the controls its software has had in place since 2008. The Settings app on every iPhone has a parental control section that allows adults to restrict website access, control in-app purchases, and install or delete apps, among other things. But those existing settings haven't been enough to quell the worries of the investors who wrote an open letter to Apple last week, expressing concern about the effect smartphones can have on kids who are glued to those devices.

62 comments

  1. iParent coming after all by nospam007 · · Score: 1

    I knew it!

  2. Cyborgs by hackwrench · · Score: 3, Funny

    Looking at this the wrong way. Those children are proto-cyborgs and those smartphones are prosthesis.

  3. Am I missing something? by TigerPlish · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm not a parent, and when I was growing up things such as iphones didn't exist, so I have to ask..

    Why seek a technical solution to the problem? Why not simply take the device away from the child after x time elapses?

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    The "Civilized World" jumped the shark ca. 1973.
    1. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because this is for the inattentive parents of iFaglets.

    2. Re: Am I missing something? by chill · · Score: 2

      Because there is some functionality that I would really like my child to have always available.

      Some things I want to limit more than others. Summer I want to encourage. Tools to help me do that as a parent are valuable.

      --
      Learning HOW to think is more important than learning WHAT to think.
    3. Re:Am I missing something? by nospam007 · · Score: 1

      "Why seek a technical solution to the problem? Why not simply take the device away from the child after x time elapses?"

      Because they are cheap nannies and so the parent can do their thing instead.
      Additionally they always know where the brats are.

    4. Re:Am I missing something? by mark-t · · Score: 1

      Because a parent can only take so much of a child not calling home and using the lack of a cell phone as an excuse when he doesn't come straight home from school and leaves parents worried sick about him, before they decide to take the easier path.

      Oh, you can try grounding them.... but all they'll do then is make your life a living hell as they constantly bitch about being bored, and start breaking shit they shouldn't be touching in the first place (although not actually maliciously) just because they have nothing better to do.

    5. Re:Am I missing something? by tsqr · · Score: 1

      I'm not a parent, and when I was growing up things such as iphones didn't exist, so I have to ask..

      Why seek a technical solution to the problem? Why not simply take the device away from the child after x time elapses?

      These two snippets from TFA jumped out at me:

      94% of parents have taken some action to manage their child’s technology use.

      According to an American Psychological Association (APA) survey of over 3,500 U.S. parents, 58% say they worry about the influence of social media on their child’s physical and mental health, 48% say that regulating their child’s screen time is a “constant battle,” and 58% say they feel like their child is “attached” to their phone or tablet.

      In other words, the overwhelming majority of parents are trying (or think they're trying) to manage their kids' phone use, but roughly half of them are failing.

    6. Re:Am I missing something? by fluffernutter · · Score: 1

      Because I bought them a phone so they would have a phone to contact me. It was a gift and I want them to enjoy it as a full-fledged smart device when they're allowed, but I'd like it still be a phone when they're not.

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      Laws are rules for the court, but merely a bottom bar to hit for life. Think beyond laws in your actions always.
    7. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My child's iPhone reports her blood sugare to me regularly, especially when it goes below safe limits. She may have difficulty reaching out for help when her blood sugar drops too low, this has been really helpful.

    8. Re:Am I missing something? by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      Yes, I don't get the whining about "nanny state" technology when it's an optional tool to add to the tools parents have to raise their children in the modern age.

      Moreover, as a libertarian, this is EXACTLY how libertarianism is supposed to work... not the government intervening, but the stockholders making a request that some optional tool be made available to parents. Then you, as a consumer, can complain that $2 out of the $1000 you're paying for your phone went to create these controls you won't ever use, and you're free to buy something else.

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      Stupid sexy Flanders.
    9. Re:Am I missing something? by AHuxley · · Score: 1

      Re "Why seek a technical solution to the problem?"
      The problem is the digital files that exist on a computer and cloud that are all interesting to law enforcement globally.
      Checksums to every file discovered, recovered, found, investigated, copied over by law enforcement around the world.
      Thats great to scan the cloud, ISP, web sites and free net services for the same files but what about the files only a users OS can see? The direct-attached storage, HD only and OS and files the user can see.
      If only some way existed to run such file details against every other file on existing brands internet connected desktop computers?
      Like a powerful reverse version of anti virus software pushed down by an OS maker to look at all files on that OS.
      Not to find existing malware but to discover all images, text files, video clips on an OS. Both to compare to existing databases and to checksum all files found at the OS level. Create/copy over a digital image on the OS and the networked OS uploads a new checksum in real time, everytime, all the time.
      Camera details in the original file, GPS, image checksum, checksum of the coveted image, user edited compressed video.
      Not just files moving in free big brand email systems, the free cloud but every file at the OS level. Every file user created and downloaded.
      If the file ever turns up for law enforcement in the wild, the very first computer to have/create that file can be reconstructed. Every computer that has the same file can be discovered. The first users to then get the same file. No more just using checksums on networks. Down to an OS level of file indexing.

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    10. Re:Am I missing something? by sl3xd · · Score: 2

      Why not simply take the device away from the child after x time elapses?

      The old "take the toy away, give them a textbook to do homework" model doesn't work with computers.

      Unlike a toy, computers have many, many abilities. By taking away the device, you may take away the unapproved toy, but also approved things you want your child to be doing -- reading books, news, maybe even textbooks, educational programming, or using tools to create art and music, and so on.

      So, parental controls can be used to to limit functionality for reading, instead of gaming, which seems perfectly valid to me.

      And I can walk over and look at what my child is doing on the device, but it only takes a fraction of a second to close the offending app and appear compliant. They can hide the evidence while I'm walking over.

      Honestly... "My toddler's too quiet" is a meme for a reason: even the youngest toddlers know when they're sneaking behind their parent's back. Even the best parents have an extremely limited capacity to pay attention, and aren't capable of paying attention all the time. That little child-safety latch over the cupboard with drain cleaner may be a "technological gimmick", but I have yet to meet anybody who considers it bad parenting.

      So parental controls can also be part of a "defense in depth" kind of thing -- yes, you monitor what your kids are doing. Eventually, you're going to be human and slip up, and that's where ever-watchful automation can help.

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      -- Sometimes you have to turn the lights off in order to see.
    11. Re:Am I missing something? by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 1

      Because the world is populated by absolutely helpless idiots.

    12. Re:Am I missing something? by Shogun37 · · Score: 0

      Because Special Snowflakes never learned how to parent, and Taking Mah Phones!!!! mmmmiiiight be seen as child abuse by other Special Snowflakes.

    13. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why not? What's wrong with technical solutions? Why do you equate "technical" with "bad"?

    14. Re: Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey fuck stick, maybe itâ(TM)s because even as techie parents who limit their kids, itâ(TM)s nice to have additional controls to automatically condition kids that 30 minutes is all they are going to get regardless of the fucking device. Or is 30 minutes too much time for your perfect parenting ass?

    15. Re:Am I missing something? by Logger · · Score: 1

      I use the parental controls to limit my kids usage of Xbox, but there is no equivalent for my kids' iDevice usage.

      There is some strange psychological difference that goes on. When the Xbox tells them their time is up, they shrug and turn it off. If instead they are watching an iDevice and I tell them to stop, they lose their ever f'ing minds.

    16. Re: Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Inattentive iFag parent spotted.

    17. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Unlike a toy, computers have many, many abilities. "

      This is an Apple product so that doesn't apply.

    18. Re: Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jackass basement nerd who does not have, nor ever will have, children spotted.

    19. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      94% of 3500 people in a country of THREE HUNDRED MILLION.

    20. Re:Am I missing something? by Plumpaquatsch · · Score: 1

      I'm not a parent, and when I was growing up things such as iphones didn't exist, so I have to ask..

      Why seek a technical solution to the problem? Why not simply take the device away from the child after x time elapses?

      Because that is the device you want them to contact you with if something is up? Or would you buy two phones, one to play with for 30 minutes a day, and one dumb phone without even Snake! on it?

      Why is it that some people here on Slashdot are so averse to technology that they will do anything to find an "easy" but more expensive and/or complicated solution not to use it? Neo-Luddites, why don't you go to some nice C64 focused chat site, where you will never be forced to hear about technology too advanced for your liking?

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      Of course news about a fake are Fake News.
    21. Re:Am I missing something? by tlhIngan · · Score: 1

      I use the parental controls to limit my kids usage of Xbox, but there is no equivalent for my kids' iDevice usage.

      There is some strange psychological difference that goes on. When the Xbox tells them their time is up, they shrug and turn it off. If instead they are watching an iDevice and I tell them to stop, they lose their ever f'ing minds.

      Well, parental controls exists on iOS, but they're rather crude. (And they're better than Android, even, but still crude). The thing with Xbox is it's easy - after X minutes, it shuts down. The only reason for the Xbox is entertainment, and if you say you can play an hour and then do homework, they can play games, watch Netflix, etc for an hour, it shuts down, they need to do homework. Barring some exceptional circumstances, there is no reason to have the Xbox on while doing homework.

      On iOS, the parental controls basically amount to age restrictions - you can block a lot of social media and web usage by setting the age restriction lower than 18+ (default setting). This is because Apple mandates that if you cannot control the content people are viewing on your system, you must set your app's age to 18+, and iOS can restrict the running of apps that are rated higher than the current age restriction. (Safari will do the same for websites as well - apparently there's some standard webmasters can use to rate their websites).

      In addition, a smartphone has many uses that go beyond entertainment. It's all well and good to say to turn off the phone after half an hour to do homework, but there are valid uses for the phone during homework - calculators, notepads, even calling up a friend and asking for help.

      So parental controls need to be way more robust and finer grained than on say the Xbox. You may disallow the use of Netflix during homework time, but allow the use of Skype or WhatsApp to allow your child to communicate with others, disallow facebook usage for more than 3 minutes at a time (so you can use messenger, but not read people's updates, etc).

      And yes, your kinds will lose their minds because Xbox is easy - you don't need it during homework or other activity. But a smartphone can be quite useful for a lot of activities.

      Of course, there's also FOMO symptoms to look out for

    22. Re: Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Get them a flipphone/dumbphone and disable internet access.

  4. Really? by ArtemaOne · · Score: 2

    My daughter's 5S just doesn't have a credit card attached and the result is a pretty awesome lockdown. I don't see what they could improve.

    1. Re:Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My daughter's 5S just doesn't have a credit card attached and the result is a pretty awesome lockdown. I don't see what they could improve.

      ... but you did buy her her own phone. I guess you at least stopped the monetary bleeding after that point.

    2. Re:Really? by jonwil · · Score: 1

      Its possible the 5S is a hand-me-down where one of the parents upgraded to a newer model and then gave the 5S to the daughter...

    3. Re:Really? by Lunix+Nutcase · · Score: 1

      Or they gave her an old phone as the 5S hasn’t even been for sale for more than 2 years?

    4. Re:Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wait until you found her watching porn or other M rated materials, or sexting using her phone.

      Money isn’t the only thing most parents are concerned about.

  5. Courage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We take this responsibility very seriously and we are committed to meeting and exceeding our customers' expectations, especially when it comes to protecting kids.

    That's why we make sure our products are produced only with genuine conflict minerals. They are hand-purified by the most supple child laborers using a mercury solution. Our planned obsolescence program ensures that we are able to provide the maximum amount of conflict minerals to our customers, as well as the landfills in their neighborhoods.

  6. If only there were some way by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We need something to prevent kids from staying on their phones all the time. What could that be? /sarc

    Good lord, has it come to this that parents and teachers are looking to Apple to raise and educate their goddamn kids?

    1. Re:If only there were some way by gfxguy · · Score: 4, Informative

      No, it hasn't. Some shareholders - you know, part owners of the company - made a request and Apple acquiesced. Nobody suggested it replaces parenting, but it's just another tool in the modern age to help parents. Make fun all you want, but many modern parents want their kids to be able to stay in contact and ALSO want to be able to limit time on social media, games, and other apps. My kids are past the age where I would use this, but I had a good set of rules about phone usage and hours they could use it, and I can still see how it could have been another useful, OPTIONAL, tool being made available to HELP parents (not replace them), and you certainly aren't required to use it - so I just don't get the backlash.

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      Stupid sexy Flanders.
  7. Seems unlikely... by StevenMaurer · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Given the disparity of tech-savvy between generations, it seems more likely that this technology will result in the kids locking out the parents, rather than the reverse.

  8. watch where the fuck you're going by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I trip or otherwise bang into stupid fucks that think they can be in public and not pay attention to their surroundings because they zomg MUST see every bullying text or post by fellow fucktards at their schools on social media or otherwise. then I tell them if they'd been watching where they were goong, this wouldn't have happened. Its not my responsibility to pay EXTRA attention for THEM.

  9. Automated outages seem hazardous by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    I have nothing against parental controls, except from that standpoint that they are largely ineffectual since MOST kids will know more about technology than the parents (not true obv of most Slashdot parents).

    However I think a generic "device not usable for X hours a day" is a super bad idea. Why would you give a kid a fantastic way to communicate easily and then disable it ever? if I had kids I would try to make sure they had smartphones asap, both so I could track them (yes I would absolutely track the hell out of kids), but also os if they got into real trouble they could contact me any time for help. If the device is in a disabled phase, you could really be screwing them over in an emergency.

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    1. Re:Automated outages seem hazardous by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      > Why would you give a kid a fantastic way to communicate easily and then disable it ever?

      Because it tends not to be used for effective communication. "Like" on a Facebook page is not effective. Playing "Pokemon Go" is not visiting a neighborhood and experiencing life it. The ability to write or read a thoughtful message is profoundly hindered by cell phones with their small screens and resulting shortened sentence structure, especially when the screen is cluttered with extraneous graphics.

    2. Re:Automated outages seem hazardous by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      But is that how it works?

      It would be better to limit access to social media to X hours a day (or games or whatever). Maybe restrict network usage to that time, but always have voice available.

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      Stupid sexy Flanders.
    3. Re:Automated outages seem hazardous by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      maybe also have that voice usage limited to a whitelist of numbers?

  10. Canâ(TM)t people tell their kids no???? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know the 90s were different but we had one pc in a central area of the house. When I wanted stuff in my room beyond a radio and a CD player the answer was never. No tv, video game, pc, etc in places the parents canâ(TM)t see.

    I see my friends letting their grade schoolers run around with tablets and smart phones and cringe. I donâ(TM)t have kids but I donâ(TM)t get why parents canâ(TM)t say no? Itâ(TM)s a powerful word that works.

  11. How about nude content? by jeti · · Score: 2

    It would be nice if, with the improved controls, they would allow to publish nude content instead of forcing US prudery on the rest of the world.

    1. Re:How about nude content? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... forcing US prudery ...

      I've seen porn sites banning viewers under 21 years. Every Tv show in the USA claims the age of consent is 18 years, when in truth, only 5 states have that.

      When the USA forced the world-wide ban of teen nudity (a good thing), the UK destroyed its legitimate back-catalog; the only country to do so.

      Then there's mature films: Sure they've got nudity, coitus and orgasm; how many have tits being groped (The last picture show, 1971) or, a woman saying "fuck" as an imperative (Shampoo, 1975 [RIP Carrie Fisher])?

    2. Re:How about nude content? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Considering how sue-happy americans are, I can see someone deliberately looking for a show that says the age of consent is 16, having sex with a 16 year old in a state where it's 18, and suing the producers when they get done for statutory.

    3. Re:How about nude content? by Plumpaquatsch · · Score: 1

      It would be nice if, with the improved controls, they would allow to publish nude content instead of forcing US prudery on the rest of the world.

      Are you actually claiming there's no nudity on Apple's version of Game of Thrones? Wanna bet?

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      Of course news about a fake are Fake News.
  12. Saying "no" is hard to do by dunnomattic · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I am in my late 30's with 3 kids between 9 and 14. I honestly can't tell if I'm doing the right thing anymore on this front, but I have outright refused to let my kids have smartphones. I'm not looking to this crowd for affirmation or vindication, but I hope to share my experience for those who find themselves in similar circumstance. Maybe you can give me some perspective.

    I know the nonsense I got up to when I was a teen...and I was a "good" kid who barely had a healthy dose of trouble. The mistakes that accompanied learning were unavoidable...but the repercussions were likely temporary and surviveable. And you had to kinda seek out the truly permanent or mortally dangerous risks.

    I'm not a prude. I stopped forcing my kids to wear helmets once they had ridden their bikes for a year. The only hovering I do around my kids is making sure the boys don't bloody each other.

    The one thing I am adamant about is them not having the internet in their pockets. The thought of them plowing through 4chan or sending/receiving nude texts...or unwittimgly talking to paedophiles...nightmares.

    Kids are supposed to disobey and get into trouble. But for Pete'ssake make them work for it! Don't hand them all the gory details on an iPlatter in never-ending full motion HD! There's no effort to type in a search term or click a link compared to procuring and hiding a skin mag. Even in the early internet days on a desktop, you still had a fair risk of getting caught since you were in the living room in plain view!

    The whole sexting thing is pretty much a given...if the first MMS ever wasn't someone's ass, then the 2nd or 3rd probably was. It was inevitable from there. And then to blindly whitelist all senders by default...terribly risky to give to a child.

    And don't get me started on addiction. I don't do Facebook, and my wife gave it up 8 years ago. She doesn't want a smartphone after breaking 3 of them in a year back in 2014. I have 1, but pretty much use it for email and news feeds only.

    I love my kids, and they tell me I'm the best Dad ever. They still ask every few months about iPhones, even though I've largely explained my reasoning to them. They're pretty much the only ones in their public schools without the latest iPhone. I bought all 3 of them simple durable flip phones and disabled all MMS.

    For context, I've been a programmer since '97 and started tooling around on BBS's in the early 90s. It gets harder and harder every time they ask to say "no", but I think they are truly better individuals without smartphones...at least not this young. And honestly, even if the parental controls are improved to a point where I could limit everything I wanted to limit, I'd spend so much time administering the controls, I'd burn out and get lazy.

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    ...when everything is a crime, everyone is a criminal.
    1. Re:Saying "no" is hard to do by tungnv1996 · · Score: 1

      I am in my late 30's with 3 kids between 9 and 14. I honestly can't tell if I'm doing the right thing anymore on this front, but I have outright refused to let my kids have smartphones. I'm not looking to this crowd for affirmation or vindication, but I hope to share my experience for those who find themselves in similar circumstance. Maybe you can give me some perspective.

      I know the nonsense I got up to when I was a teen...and I was a "good" kid who barely had a healthy dose of trouble. The mistakes that accompanied learning were unavoidable...but the repercussions were likely temporary and surviveable. And you had to kinda seek out the truly permanent or mortally dangerous risks.

      I'm not a prude. I stopped forcing my kids to wear helmets once they had ridden their bikes for a year. The only hovering I do around my kids is making sure the boys don't bloody each other.

      The one thing I am adamant about is them not having the internet in their pockets. The thought of them plowing through 4chan or sending/receiving nude texts...or unwittimgly talking to paedophiles...nightmares.

      Kids are supposed to disobey and get into trouble. But for Pete'ssake make them work for it! Don't hand them all the gory details on an iPlatter in never-ending full motion HD! There's no effort to type in a search term or click a link compared to procuring and hiding a skin mag. Even in the early internet days on a desktop, you still had a fair risk of getting caught since you were in the living room in plain view!

      The whole sexting thing is pretty much a given...if the first MMS ever wasn't someone's ass, then the 2nd or 3rd probably was. It was inevitable from there. And then to blindly whitelist all senders by default...terribly risky to give to a child.

      And don't get me started on addiction. I don't do Facebook, and my wife gave it up 8 years ago. She doesn't want a smartphone after breaking 3 of them in a year back in 2014. I have 1, but pretty much use it for email and news feeds only.

      I love my kids, and they tell me I'm the best Dad ever. They still ask every few months about iPhones, even though I've largely explained my reasoning to them. They're pretty much the only ones in their public schools without the latest iPhone. I bought all 3 of them simple durable flip phones and disabled all MMS.

      For context, I've been a programmer since '97 and started tooling around on BBS's in the early 90s. It gets harder and harder every time they ask to say "no", but I think they are truly better individuals without smartphones...at least not this young. And honestly, even if the parental controls are improved to a point where I could limit everything I wanted to limit, I'd spend so much time administering the controls, I'd burn out and get lazy.

      I am in my late 30's with 3 kids between 9 and 14. I honestly can't tell if I'm doing the right thing anymore on this front, but I have outright refused to let my kids have smartphones. I'm not looking to this crowd for affirmation or vindication, but I hope to share my experience for those who find themselves in similar circumstance. Maybe you can give me some perspective.

      I know the nonsense I got up to when I was a teen...and I was a "good" kid who barely had a healthy dose of trouble. The mistakes that accompanied learning were unavoidable...but the repercussions were likely temporary and surviveable. And you had to kinda seek out the truly permanent or mortally dangerous risks.

      I'm not a prude. I stopped forcing my kids to wear helmets once they had ridden their bikes for a year. The only hovering I do around my kids is making sure the boys don't bloody each other.

      The one thing I am adamant about is them not having the internet in their pockets. The thought of them plowing through 4chan or sending/receiving nude texts...or unwittimgly talking to paedophiles...nightmares.

      Kids are supposed to disobey and get into trouble. But for Pete'ssake make t

    2. Re:Saying "no" is hard to do by cc1984_ · · Score: 1

      I would say upfront this isn't my children's experience but my own. I was frustrated with the amount of time I spent on social media and quit a few years ago and am current using a feature phone. For the most part I'm happy with my decision. I'm not a particularly gregarious or extrovert person, but even I noticed a significant drop in invitations to parties and social events sent out via Facebook and the like. If you're not on Facebook, people don't take the time to send you a special message via other channels unless it's a very special occasion or you're really close. You could argue that's better, but the feeling you're missing out on something is undeniable.

      Could it be that your children are missing out on things because of the lack of a smartphone and instant messaging like iMessage? Sure they can use a desktop, but WhatsApp and iMessage don't work there, the two most prevalent IM services, and their social group in their year most likely are conversing via that. Have they broached the subject with you?

      My children are between 2 and 5 and these are questions I'm grappling with at the moment. I'd love to know other's experiences, particularly yours, because I honestly don't know whether smartphones are a good idea or not.

    3. Re:Saying "no" is hard to do by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      I have six kids and our policy is you get a phone at age 13. Old enough to be mature, but young enough that we can still control them. It's a great tool for the kids and gives us leverage for punishments.
      Our school system requires ipads for the kids, which has made it difficult to enforce a blanket ban. They always claim to be working on school work and the fight is not worth it.

      Instead, I watch the bandwidth per device, although I don't generally snoop on actual content. The kids know I can if I want to, they have to unlock their phones at our request.
      I also turn off the network on a schedule, if the kids can't listen, and I've considered and discussed pairing the phone to a kdeconnect machine and logging all alerts and sms. Not necessary yet, but kids know they are being trusted and watched.

    4. Re:Saying "no" is hard to do by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      My kids have access to school issued Ipads, we also use a kindle with "Free time" which gives you access to alot of kids apps for younger kids. Phones are issued at age 13, and we watch usage and help the kids adjust. I find it helpful for my kids to stay connected with friends and keep in touch with us when we are out.

  13. Yes, you're missing several things by jensend · · Score: 1

    Every "take the device away after X time" will be a new battle of wills and of wits and a new opportunity for the child to take umbrage if the parent succeeds.

    If the boundaries are clearly set before the device is given, and if as many of those boundaries as possible can be enforced consistently without the parent's repeated intervention, it reduces household friction and allows family interactions to focus on more positive things.

    Plus, helicopter parenting is harmful, and there ought to be plenty of times when the parents aren't hovering over the child ready to take away the device after precisely X time elapses.

    For most things - including almost everything invented before the Internet except, perhaps, deadly weapons - you should be able to trust that unsupervised kids, if they've been taught well, will uphold reasonable boundaries most of the time in their parents' absence, and that when they violate those boundaries they will usually learn valuable but not-too-damaging lessons about why the boundaries were there in the first place.

    But the variety of damaging things and deranged people kids can encounter over the Internet is too broad and deep to leave it at that. Also, the ways that social media and app designers have focused on "slot machine psychology" etc to retain eyeballs for ads &c by fostering addiction are too much to expect kids to avoid on their own. Even just the "source of endless novelty without creativity or effort" aspect is dangerous for kids to have continual access to. So there are good reasons to have boundaries set when the parent isn't there to enforce them.

  14. Yes, let Apple be the parent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So glade Apple is finally going to be the parents kids don't have. But don't you think kids are smart enough to get around these controls. I'll bet they can.

  15. iPhone has no parental controls. by Neo-Rio-101 · · Score: 1

    MacOS has had parentally managed user accounts for quite a while which can do all the application, website, and time-based lockdowns.
    These are the sorts of things that parents want control over (until little Johnny gets savvy and decides to explore the mac recovery partition because nobody's put in a firmware password)
    The thing is, most parents don't know about these features - much less make use of them.
    It's easy to implement - when you know about them. The issue is that nobody knows, and don't have time/inclination to learn

    The iPhone has none of the parental controls - and if they ARE there and I'm actually mistaken - I can't easily find them.
    Honestly - it makes a lot of sense that Apple should put these features into the iPhone for worried parents. They want their kids to be contactable with their phones, but not using them every hour of the day.

    For example, Apple could make it so the parent's iCloud account can lock the phone down before giving it to their kid. Apple could put a time lock on the smartphone features, and only enable phone calls from people known in the contacts list - or only accept calls from parents when it's out of hours. That's in addition to the website and application locking you see on MacOS.

    Data usage limits and application purchases can be managed easily enough.

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  16. A great idea by mwecksell · · Score: 1

    Iâ(TM)ve been using appleâ(TM)s enterprise mobile device management software to set limits on my kids phones. JAMF is great for a slashdotter (and free for two devices if you read daring fireball) but the average iPhone parent could use something with a bit more âoeit just worksâ in it. This is a good idea if apple implements it well, though it will kill any 3rd parties that already sell such services.

  17. Robust Parental Controls = Clever Child Run Around by charliemerritt03 · · Score: 1

    Oh come on. Apple: Didn't you have parents? Oh no, you didn't. Let me tell you - as a former child....

  18. Kids don't need Smart Phones by DatbeDank · · Score: 1

    Children do not need phones, let alone smartphones.

    I commonly see this weak excuse from parents claiming they, "want to know where their children are."

      Seriously? You're that bad of a parent that you haven't the foggiest idea where your kids are? Here was what my childhood was like back in the 2000s.

    Wake up - take bus to school - school - sports practice - ride home with family friends - home.

    Here's what a non busy day looked like: wake up - bus- school - bus- home.

    Wow! It's like somehow I was in the immediate vacinity of a responsible adult at all times and my parents knew my safety was ok. Mind blowing isn't it?

    And to think, flip phones were a thing too during this time. I didn't get my first phone until I got my first driver's license which at that time makes intelligent sense.

    Phones cost excessive amounts of money too on top of a monthly contract. Why should I pay extra cash each month to have my kid dick around on social media at my expense?

    Parents these days are weak. Tell little Timmy and Tia no you're not getting a phone. It's that easy! If you really want to know where they are, (and using this as a lame excuse when in reality you spoil your kids with expensive electronics) buy them a crappy flip phone. Yes, they still make news ones.

    When my kid is old enough to ask for a smartphone before the age of 16, my answer will be, "Ok, how are you paying for the cell service?"

  19. just get what Andoidlost does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My kid is about to switch from android phone to iphone, but what blocks me from giving it a go is inadequate software.
    What I need is essentially a functionality of "androidlost".
    - command and control by push notification AND/OR by sms from set up phone numbers
    - ability to remotely turn the sound on and activate arbitrarily long alarm (also by sms), ie. in some places 1 second alarm is a max, in other cases I may need 5s or 20s to find the phone.
    - send camera picture to parent's email on unlock error
    - send gps location to parents's email on some low battery threshold
    - ability to get gps location seems to be present in most solutions

    Blocking apps or websites has little meaning to me (sites can be blocked with opendns); blocking apps can be achieved by not providing password to app store.

    1. Re:just get what Andoidlost does by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      What software do you use for this on Android?

  20. Husband control, too by computational+super · · Score: 1

    ... I predict.

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  21. So the reason why so many here complain is obvious by Plumpaquatsch · · Score: 1

    They are afraid there parents turn on parental controls and lock them out.

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  22. Re:So the reason why so many here complain is obvi by Plumpaquatsch · · Score: 1

    They are afraid there parents turn on parental controls and lock them out.

    Yeah, i know, "their". It's a fucking typo, you toddler.

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