My son's mother and I recently went through this decision. Of course, you're making sure that all your decisions are selfless and that $ is no object when it comes to the little one soon to arrive on the scene. But the cost . . . We figured that we're both very healthy people, no offbeat conditions, the four grandparents all lived into their 90s, no incidence of offbeat conditions in the close family . . . and didn't do it. Then, when you get some distance from the situation, it seems pretty crappy of the hospitals / drs to be pushing this on expectant parents. Wonder if there are kickbacks, etc.
You just never know what is going to happen. For me, it is quite worth the investment.
You seem to be contradicting yourself.
My son's mother and I recently went through this decision. Of course, you're making sure that all your decisions are selfless and that $ is no object when it comes to the little one soon to arrive on the scene. But the cost . . . We figured that we're both very healthy people, no offbeat conditions, the four grandparents all lived into their 90s, no incidence of offbeat conditions in the close family . . . and didn't do it. Then, when you get some distance from the situation, it seems pretty crappy of the hospitals / drs to be pushing this on expectant parents. Wonder if there are kickbacks, etc.