Some women do use sex as a tool. This is especially true in relationships, where loyalty counts. But that is always a stupid move, because if both partners are loyal & one decides not to "give the other any" then two people end up not having sex. But of course some people are more like sex camels, able to comfortably survive long periods without.
As for sending messages, women are usually direct when they are agressive. As for geeks, well geeks, nerds, dorks, idiots, fat people, smart people, carpenters, cripples, blind people, bus drivers, well...just about anyone and everyone eventually has sex. Some of course have sex due to having more luck than charm.
As for me, seeing is though this was directed at me personally, you do not know me, but I am glad you have taken an intrest in my personal life, so thank you.
Yes, having a huge cock is very important. It helps men who have inferiority complexes and such.
But I believe the genitals of the sexes do not have as much to do with sex as the notion of it. After all, if a persn believes they are having the best time ever, then that is what they are having. With or without the inferiority complex induced penis enlargement.
Men have a tendency to solve problems & women have a tendency to relate their feelings.
When a woman relates her being 'sad' to a man, the man will attempt to solve the 'problem' so that the woman does not feel 'sad'. But the woman did not want to solve the problem, because it was not a problem to begin with. She was merely expressing her feelings. If the woman told the man that she is happy, it will usually provoke a shallow response of 'that's nice' etc. Because men do not communicate their feelings much.
On the other hand, when a man tells a woman that he has solved a problem, the woman will try to be happy for the man and encourage him, much like it is done with children. If the man tells the woman he did not solve the problem, she will once again apply sympathy/empathy to the matter.
Both scenarios are over simplistic, but they do hold some truth. Men need/want technical help or appreciation for not solving or solving a problem, that gives them a sense of achievement or failure. Once a woman applies sympathy/empathy she compound's the man's dilemma. If he cannot solve a problem, he feels belittled by the sympathy shown. If he can solve the problem, he feels his achievement is not appreciated by the emotional approach of encouragement.
Women need men to listen & relate to their feelings. A man might feel as though a woman is discussing trivialities with him, as the subject holds not importance or problems to solve. But the importance is listening and by way of listening, communicating with the woman. Women will get frustrated by this reaction as they are simply puzzled by why men are not listening to them. This of course being due to men's natural tendency to solve problems.
Of course women can solve problems as good as any man, and men can be sympathetic and empathic as emotionally as any woman. But out natural tendencies are based on averages. The average man is not sympathetic or empathic to a refined degree as a woman, simply put, in cave man times (and we still carry those genes) men hunted, fought, killed. It is hard to be very sympathetic and empathic when you must kill or be ruthless. Times have changed though. Mass communication in the form of the internet has now put communication at a higher priority.
Many men feel lost with all this social networking going around. Because their brains are not meant for such intensive communication. After all, men interpret female voices with their musical centers in the brain rather than centers designed for speech!
As there are more females than males, the number of men raised by women is higher, this is also because of court rulings favoring the mother in early ages. (and rightly so)
In fact I recall an article in scientific american by a female psychiatrist that has deduced that women are unrealistically expecting men to essentially behave in a more female friendly fashion. Men are not women, they never will be, nor will women be men...it is simply unreasonable to expect them to behave in a 100% compatible way.
Men and women do not have any defects in their brains, they are simply different.
Perhaps men and women were never meant to live together for extended periods of time. Perhaps the reason we have so many problems is that our approach is completely wrong. Maybe men and women should meet briefly when needed & generally stay the f*** away from each other.
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Some women do use sex as a tool. This is especially true in relationships, where loyalty counts. But that is always a stupid move, because if both partners are loyal & one decides not to "give the other any" then two people end up not having sex. But of course some people are more like sex camels, able to comfortably survive long periods without. As for sending messages, women are usually direct when they are agressive. As for geeks, well geeks, nerds, dorks, idiots, fat people, smart people, carpenters, cripples, blind people, bus drivers, well...just about anyone and everyone eventually has sex. Some of course have sex due to having more luck than charm. As for me, seeing is though this was directed at me personally, you do not know me, but I am glad you have taken an intrest in my personal life, so thank you.
Yes, having a huge cock is very important. It helps men who have inferiority complexes and such. But I believe the genitals of the sexes do not have as much to do with sex as the notion of it. After all, if a persn believes they are having the best time ever, then that is what they are having. With or without the inferiority complex induced penis enlargement.
Men have a tendency to solve problems & women have a tendency to relate their feelings. When a woman relates her being 'sad' to a man, the man will attempt to solve the 'problem' so that the woman does not feel 'sad'. But the woman did not want to solve the problem, because it was not a problem to begin with. She was merely expressing her feelings. If the woman told the man that she is happy, it will usually provoke a shallow response of 'that's nice' etc. Because men do not communicate their feelings much. On the other hand, when a man tells a woman that he has solved a problem, the woman will try to be happy for the man and encourage him, much like it is done with children. If the man tells the woman he did not solve the problem, she will once again apply sympathy/empathy to the matter. Both scenarios are over simplistic, but they do hold some truth. Men need/want technical help or appreciation for not solving or solving a problem, that gives them a sense of achievement or failure. Once a woman applies sympathy/empathy she compound's the man's dilemma. If he cannot solve a problem, he feels belittled by the sympathy shown. If he can solve the problem, he feels his achievement is not appreciated by the emotional approach of encouragement. Women need men to listen & relate to their feelings. A man might feel as though a woman is discussing trivialities with him, as the subject holds not importance or problems to solve. But the importance is listening and by way of listening, communicating with the woman. Women will get frustrated by this reaction as they are simply puzzled by why men are not listening to them. This of course being due to men's natural tendency to solve problems. Of course women can solve problems as good as any man, and men can be sympathetic and empathic as emotionally as any woman. But out natural tendencies are based on averages. The average man is not sympathetic or empathic to a refined degree as a woman, simply put, in cave man times (and we still carry those genes) men hunted, fought, killed. It is hard to be very sympathetic and empathic when you must kill or be ruthless. Times have changed though. Mass communication in the form of the internet has now put communication at a higher priority. Many men feel lost with all this social networking going around. Because their brains are not meant for such intensive communication. After all, men interpret female voices with their musical centers in the brain rather than centers designed for speech! As there are more females than males, the number of men raised by women is higher, this is also because of court rulings favoring the mother in early ages. (and rightly so) In fact I recall an article in scientific american by a female psychiatrist that has deduced that women are unrealistically expecting men to essentially behave in a more female friendly fashion. Men are not women, they never will be, nor will women be men...it is simply unreasonable to expect them to behave in a 100% compatible way. Men and women do not have any defects in their brains, they are simply different. Perhaps men and women were never meant to live together for extended periods of time. Perhaps the reason we have so many problems is that our approach is completely wrong. Maybe men and women should meet briefly when needed & generally stay the f*** away from each other.