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  1. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Legally, yes... but that isn't always a practical solution. Humans may go thropugh a legal separation and still experience emotions. Would you deny someone what is possibly love simply because of bad timing?

  2. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Unfortunately for you, comments about the uselessness of Twitter are more useful than Twitter itself.

  3. Re:Evidence, how? on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Blizzard has caved to plenty of warrants Here's an article from www.wow.com that explains at least 4 separate occasions that Blizzard has either volunteered legal information or bowed to warrants and supplied information to the authorities.

  4. Re:Oh, come ON! on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    *the* threat, you grammar Na** WARNING:Godwin's Law invoked

  5. Re:Just think before you share on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Newsflash: Some /.ers can't take a joke.

  6. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    But what if your word is "We will have an open marriage" and your spouses is "I'll agree to that while it is convenient to me"?

  7. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1
    And as per usual in divorce cases, there is 4 stories (at least) involved:

    Their story, your story, the judges idea of a story... and the "truth".

  8. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1
    *Doh*

    I'm at home, that's the sad part.

  9. Re:Just think before you share on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 0

    Newsflash: Old meme is getting older.

  10. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    In court? Yes. Lawyers and infuriated ex-spouses will use *anything* to hurt you.

  11. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 3, Insightful

    OK, so *your* definition of marriage is the only one? Monogamy is an implied principle of *most marriages, but I do have a fair number of friends that play the field while married, under various rules. Don't try to restrict everyone else to your definition of a societal norm.

  12. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Tell that to Germaine Greer.

  13. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    No lie, I'm drunk. Have a look at my horrendous spelling in some of my other posts on this topic to confirm. (Yes, I spell checked this before posting)

  14. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    He did say "vows" not "bible".

  15. Re:How about better balance? on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Heian, I'm guessing that you've been through a similar legal wringer to me... you have my sympathies and my understanding if so. The pendulum has swung from pro-male in the early part of this century to pro-female ever since. I'm hoping that eventually we land on a system that favours neither party and is balanced and neutral.

  16. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1
    Legally mandated (in some jurisdictions) separation in certain legal frameworks. You're not *with* someone except in the legal sense... so technically you're cheating. i've been in this situation, and it was used extremely effectively against me in a court of law. There was no emotional/"spiritual"/relational connection except under a legal framework, but I was still technically responsible for the woman who had already broken my heart and screwed me over in every legal way possible.

    I admit I was stupid pursuing another relationship at that time, but the one I was legally in was empty and soul destroying.

  17. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Thank you BUTU, you've restored (some) of my (completely non-denominational) faith in /.

  18. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    As I've stated above, you are technically cheating when you sleep with someone during a legally mandated separation. Are you saying that people should put their emotional/sexual lives on hold for a dead relationship?

  19. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    My apologies, I work odd hours/days and this is my weekend. I read your post number as your user ID, alcohol is to blame... as with most human mistakes.

  20. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I'm saying that while you are "separated" and no longer in a sexual relationship with your legal spouse, you can still be accused of cheating in a court of law.

  21. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    I blame the alcohol... Irish whiskey is to blame for many things, like the poetry of Byron, the music of The Rolling Stones, my liver, multiple teen pregnancies...

  22. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm guessing that you've never been through the potentially multiple years long and extremely expensive process.

  23. Re:From the article on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    I would gues that you're not as old as that, by the fact that you're posting on a 7 digit UID.

  24. Re:I just want to see who's quit... on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 1

    Actually, I've found the "re-connecting" feature the best thing about FB. I've managed to catch up with a few people who I'd lost contact with and enjoyed it immensely. Mind you, I don't play the data gathering games that have chronicled every aspect of a persons life to generate marketing data. Farmville, Mafiawars etc may as well be labeled spyware, except that people DELIBERATELY let them in to their lives.

  25. Re:People who cheat should blame themselves, not F on Facebook, Friend of Divorce Lawyers · · Score: 3, Insightful
    This may earn me some negaitve karma, but so be it.

    Oh yes, because people who cheat are ALWAYS bad, and it has nothing to do with the fact that their partner might be completely unsuitable for them and/or positively damaging to them. I *love* black and white morality. I thought we had some people that appreciate shades of grey on /.