I am in the process of losing about 70 pounds. I have 20 more to go. I thought I had 40, but I guess I built a lot of muscle carrying around all this weight, and weight isn't the issue, it's body fat. Anyhew, as for supporting your wives, I think that is great. My boyfriend has supported me (and tortured me at times when I fell behind) through this whole ordeal, and getting kicked in the ass really helped. I hated him for not letting me get the Bacon Double Steak Burger, but my body forgave him, and my mind would eventually follow. I realized that this was not just for him, but for myself first. If I had never met him, and if I never got serious about him, I would still be fat. I thank him for that everyday. At first it was a real motivator to know that he would find me more appealing or "hot" if I didn't have so much body fat. Now I am more into getting into shape and staying that way, to live a happy long life, and my "new hotness" will just be a nice little side effect. Isn't that convenient?:) Anyhew, if you really want to help your wives, just be supportive, and use your imagination as to what they can (and hopefully will!) look like in the future, it will help you motivate them. And don't forget about yourself! Make sure you can keep up with her!
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I am in the process of losing about 70 pounds. I have 20 more to go. I thought I had 40, but I guess I built a lot of muscle carrying around all this weight, and weight isn't the issue, it's body fat. :)
Anyhew, as for supporting your wives, I think that is great. My boyfriend has supported me (and tortured me at times when I fell behind) through this whole ordeal, and getting kicked in the ass really helped. I hated him for not letting me get the Bacon Double Steak Burger, but my body forgave him, and my mind would eventually follow.
I realized that this was not just for him, but for myself first. If I had never met him, and if I never got serious about him, I would still be fat. I thank him for that everyday.
At first it was a real motivator to know that he would find me more appealing or "hot" if I didn't have so much body fat. Now I am more into getting into shape and staying that way, to live a happy long life, and my "new hotness" will just be a nice little side effect. Isn't that convenient?
Anyhew, if you really want to help your wives, just be supportive, and use your imagination as to what they can (and hopefully will!) look like in the future, it will help you motivate them.
And don't forget about yourself! Make sure you can keep up with her!