I'm a geek chick and found my current boyfriend via Craigslist. Note: I am bipolar and said so in my ad (some of you might prefer to call me "crazy" or even "one of those crazy bitches"). However, I am not a worthless person, and I treat people with respect, kindness, and fairness. I am good friends with several ex-boyfriends as well. So I'm not one of those psycho hose beasts.
It wasn't the first ad I'd posted, nor the first I'd posted on Craigslist. I have had mixed success finding potential boyfriends online. A *lot* of guys are just looking for a quick fuck. It's a bit daunting, as a female, to weed these guys out and find the ones who are really looking for a relationship (because let me tell ya, the guys looking for a quick fuck know they have to say they're looking for a relationship to be taken seriously).
Anyway, I posted a long rambling ad, talking about myself and my interests, being totally up-front about my bipolarity and my meds, etc. I even talked about my kid which for some is a deal-breaker. And I met a great geek guy, who is also bipolar. We have been together about 4 months and things are just peachy.
Some of us crazy chicks are actually all right. And we need love too, ya know.
It wasn't the first ad I'd posted, nor the first I'd posted on Craigslist. I have had mixed success finding potential boyfriends online. A *lot* of guys are just looking for a quick fuck. It's a bit daunting, as a female, to weed these guys out and find the ones who are really looking for a relationship (because let me tell ya, the guys looking for a quick fuck know they have to say they're looking for a relationship to be taken seriously).
Anyway, I posted a long rambling ad, talking about myself and my interests, being totally up-front about my bipolarity and my meds, etc. I even talked about my kid which for some is a deal-breaker. And I met a great geek guy, who is also bipolar. We have been together about 4 months and things are just peachy.
Some of us crazy chicks are actually all right. And we need love too, ya know.