Yeah, the guy is creepy/ugly/smelly/whatever. But what on earth is wrong with him asking, "will you go out with me," even if he does so ineptly while looking at his shoes the whole time?
Umm, in my case, how about the fact that I am married and wearing the requisite ring? It's amazing how often I get hit on in geeky locales-sometimes with my husband only a few feet away. (It's a widespread phenomenon, afflicting most of the married female geeks I know.)
Of course, I can think of several possible explanations. #1: He didn't notice the ring because he was staring at my chest or his feet. #2: He saw it and didn't get it. (But how oblivious can you get?) #3 He saw it, understood its signifigance, and thought, "Ehh, what have I got to lose?"
Frankly, none of these leave me inclined to spend any time with the guy, even as a friend. Remember, a smile and common courtesy do not a come-on make. And guys, check for the wedding ring!
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Yeah, the guy is creepy/ugly/smelly/whatever. But what on earth is wrong with him asking, "will you go out with me," even if he does so ineptly while looking at his shoes the whole time?
Umm, in my case, how about the fact that I am married and wearing the requisite ring? It's amazing how often I get hit on in geeky locales-sometimes with my husband only a few feet away. (It's a widespread phenomenon, afflicting most of the married female geeks I know.)
Of course, I can think of several possible explanations. #1: He didn't notice the ring because he was staring at my chest or his feet. #2: He saw it and didn't get it. (But how oblivious can you get?) #3 He saw it, understood its signifigance, and thought, "Ehh, what have I got to lose?"
Frankly, none of these leave me inclined to spend any time with the guy, even as a friend. Remember, a smile and common courtesy do not a come-on make. And guys, check for the wedding ring!