I think you're missing a bit too; who are we to say what's right. Is it really right for your grandmother to stay here if it's possible that her most loved husband is waiting for her? Is it always better for people to stay? How are we to know? Maybe God misses his children anyone ever consider that? And what if the prayers aren't just "get well soon," but "please help my loved one be happy?"
Point is just because you pray for somehting, especially when your heart is probably most concerned with their well being, doesn't mean that that's what God wants.
I think you're missing a bit too; who are we to say what's right. Is it really right for your grandmother to stay here if it's possible that her most loved husband is waiting for her? Is it always better for people to stay? How are we to know? Maybe God misses his children anyone ever consider that? And what if the prayers aren't just "get well soon," but "please help my loved one be happy?" Point is just because you pray for somehting, especially when your heart is probably most concerned with their well being, doesn't mean that that's what God wants.