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How Well Did You Fare on "Black Friday"?
Quixote asks: "''Black Friday' is about over now. Though I wasn't among the faithful
who queued up to get into the stores, I could see massive traffic jams in the local Best Buy, Target, etc. on my drive in to work. But it looks like the online offerings of some of the retailers are also pretty much slashdotted (I'm downloading a 500KB rebate form from CompUSA rebate center at the blazing speed of 800bytes/sec as I submit this story). So, how many of you avoided the long checkout lines and used the 'net instead? What are your experiences? What 'killer' deals did you get online, that you wouldn't have gotten in the store? And what are your thoughts on this whole phenomenon: why shouldn't the stores just get rid of this 'lets open the store at an unearthly hour' practice, and just move all of the 'Black Friday' sales online?"
Peri-rectal abscess
Also known as: Anal Abscess, Ischio-Rectal Abscess
One gay man - who feared being outed - was too afraid to see a doctor for the severe pain and swelling he felt in his lower rectum. He waited until the infection ruptured up into his abdomen and he collapsed at home with peritonitis.
Intro
A perirectal abscess is an infection that most often begins in your anal or rectal canal and spreads to the fatty tissue surrounding it. The abscess can burrow toward your skin where - if untreated - it can rupture.
What is it?
A perirectal abscess is a bacterial infection that most often begins in the small glands inside your anus. Your pain worsens as the infection grows and spreads to the area around your rectum. A cavity filled with pus (yuck) develops and the skin over it becomes red and swollen. The infection can become so severe that you develop high fevers and other signs of infection.
Diagnosis
Your doctor can usually diagnose the infection just by seeing the swollen, red skin beside your anus. If the abscess is early or burrowing away from your skin (up along your rectum toward your abdomen) your doctor may need to get a CT scan to see the infection.
Symptoms
Early on you may only notice a feeling of pressure in your rectum. As the infection progresses, you will probably feel a tender, hot to the touch, lump under the skin beside your anus.
How is it acquired?
Although it can develop from an injury during sex, this is very rare. By far, the most common cause is a piece of stool that gets caught in your anal glands and starts a small infection that grows and grows. The infection is caused by bacteria in your stool.
How to treat it?
If the infection is caught very early (before a true cavity filled with pus develops), antibiotics and warm soaks might do the trick. But when an abscess has fully developed, you need to have the pus drained. This usually requires surgery to fully eradicate the infection. Antibiotics alone are not sufficient.
If your abscess is large, your doctor may suggest that you have the surgery in an operating room with full anesthesia. This is a good suggestion because draining a large abscess can be quite painful.
If your abscess bursts on its own, you might think that you don't have to go to a doctor because it is already drained. WRONG! When an abscess ruptures on its own, it does not drain enough to heal the infection. A surgeon needs to open the skin wide enough to get out all of the pus.
Once the abscess is drained, you will need to keep it clean and open. This often requires soaking in sitz baths. If the skin closes before the abscess heals from the inside out, another infection will develop. Occassionaly, an abscess does not fully heal after it is drained and a fistula-in-ano develops. You will then need another operation to cure the fistula.
Myths dispelled
Here are some facts to clear up some common misconceptions.
A perirectal abscess is rarely (and I mean rarely) caused by rough sex or toys. And even if a perirectal abscess bursts on its own, it still needs to be evaluated by a doctor.
Prevention
There is no way to prevent it. If you have severe pain in your anus or rectum, your doctor might give you antibiotics to cure the infection before the abscess has a chance to develop. It is, however, very rare to catch the infection at this early stage.
Incubation period
An abscess begins as a tiny infection that gradually grows. Most patients experience increasing pain and swelling for almost a week before going to the doctor.
Sex
A peri-rectal abscess is rarely caused by an injury during sex or an STD.
by Stephen E. Goldstone, M.D., F.A.C.S.
...why the heck they do this, too. Crowds make me itch. But a lot of people *love* it -- I read about people who dropped $1000 or more on Christmas gifts, and I sure many spent more than they intended because they were spend-saving or "spaving" -- and there's probably a race to the bottom among retailers to out-do each other and pack the people in.
:)
I think the kind of shopper who gets an adrenaline rush from this kind of shopping -- and if they do, fine, so long as they don't blow apart their credit rating -- likes to touch the merchandise, and likes the shopping experience. It's entertaining. Hey, I still go to bookstores even though I can get most things cheaper at home. There's the power to browse, and the opportunity to impulse buy; the sharpest discount and greatest convenience aren't the whole thing.
Now, the whole holiday going down the materialism tube, that's a whole 'nuther debate.
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and got a really great deal on a rear-projection wide-screen television courtesy of a "hot deal" listed on fatwallet.com by crossing the border into the 'states. However, Black Friday won't hold a candle to the awesome deals I'll get on Boxing Day in Montréal. Muah ha ha ha.
I don't know about you guys, but I was at work all day. We made more money at the box office at my science center last Friday than we did all of Feburary. Everyone turned out for a day of family fun and learning after their shopping adventures.
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I don't live in the States you insensitive clod!
What the hell is this 'Black Friday'? The end of negro appreciation week?
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I spent the day in my jammies wrapped in a warm blanket in front of my computer. Nothing beats getting all your shopping done in one day without dealing with rude people and terrible traffic. God bless online shopping!
My husband and I were married for 5 years, and as for me, I considered our sex together as "great." I did many things for my husband to make our sex interesting and not boring, like role playing, dressing up as a whore, and rape skits and on a few occasions have even taken part in 3 somes with my husband and another man.
I got home from work this one Friday, feeling somewhat kinky and in the mood for something wild and crazy. I went to the bedroom and stripped out of my work clothes, then to the bathroom for a relaxing bath. I began to wash myself, sliding my soapy hand over my neck to my breasts, down my stomach then down between my legs, and began playing with myself thinking about the first time I had an orgasm by another man. Don't get me wrong, I've had men bring me to orgasm before, before I was married, but, for some reason this time was different, maybe because my husband was present. Anyway, the next thing I knew, he was making love to me and I was cumming off whispering to myself over and over, fuck me, fuck me, almost feeling as the warmth his own climax enter my body, filling every inch inside of me. Then I came. I laid in the hot tub for several minutes as the vision faded along with my orgasm, then stepped out of the tub and dryed myself.
I remember walking to the dresser saying to myself, so, he want's me to fuck other men huh, ok, I'll fuck'em, I'll fuck every man in sight! I'll give him one night he'll never forget! and picked out a black skirt, black see thru blouse, bra and a very very sexy black lace teddy with attached garters and last, a pair of sheer black stocking. I want back to the bathroom and shaved my legs then my pussy, which I've kept nice and smoothe for years. I then dressed and put on my make-up, red lipstick with gloss and bright red nail polish. I met my husband at the door telling him to hurry and get changed because we were going out!
He was thinking the outfit was for him asked what was the occasion. I told him, I decided to give him what he always wanted, and to get ready before I changed my mind. Needless to say he was ready in a half an hour, and at the club in 15 minutes.
On the way to the club, I told my husband that we should sit at different tables and I'd "try" to come on to another guy and get something going. Of course, he said, with the way your dressed, count on it? We both walked into the club about 8:30 PM and went our separate ways, I at a table by the dance floor and my husband at the bar. The night seemed long, as I wondered just how I was to come on to these guys. I danced with a few, trying different approches towards them, none which seemed to work, then dancing with this one guy, I decided to try something direct, while dancing a slow dance I slid my hand down to his ass, pulling him very close to me I whispered to him, I'm very very wet.
The guy said in return well mabye I can do something about that. I said, somewhat turned on, lets go. Well, we walked out of the club to his car and got in the back seat and began kissing and kissing and feeling and feeling, his hand up my dress fingering me, my hand on his cock feeling him getting harder and harder, finally breaking our kissing I opened his pants and lowered my lips on his cock. His finger continued playing with my clit while my lips worked on him when suddenly I began to cum, and cum, and cum. Not long after, he began to moan then I felt my mouth being filled with his hot sperm, swallowing it all, thinking to myself, this isn't any different than doing it with my husband.
I reached under my skirt and pulled open the snapps from my teddy and layed back on the seat pulling him on me, rubbing his cock on my pussy putting him inside of me. He fucked and fucked and fucked me, finally pulling out saying, he could'nt do it anymore. Understanding, I sat up and snapped my teddy and said to him, maybe next time, and returned to the club. While slow dancing with my husband, I filled him in step by step on everything I did, then returned again to my table and ordered a drink. Sometime later, I was asked to dance by a not so bad looking guy, he looked younger than I, but I thought, what the hell and asked him back to my table. His name was Bob and was 22, (about 10 years younger than me) blond hair and blue eyes and a not so bad looking body. Bob didn't seem the least bit intimidated what so ever by the age difference, and didn't try to come off older than he was, in fact he looked older than he was.
I almost felt a little guilty of my intentions, but, on the other hand, he was still a man, all men are alike probably even as we talked was thinking of a way he could get into my panties. The funny thing was, I was thinking of a way of getting to get "him" into my panties, so to speak. As we talked, my mind skipped to the back seat of that guys car, still not beleiving that I did WHAT I did. Sucking this guy was one thing, but what really turned me on for some reason was him cumming in my mouth and swallowing it.
The more I thought about it the more turned on I seemed to get. I then fantasized sex with this guy. By this time, I was so hot, I actually felt a tingle between my legs, I had to excuse myself and go to the ladies room and cool off before I came right there. I sat on the seat in the stall and felt myself, I could'ent beleive how wet I was, I totaly soaked my teddy, then began fingering myself, I was on my way towards the big O, my body at its highest erotic peek, almost lost in my own pleasures, when all of a sudden pulled my hand away, thinking, no, I want to save this, I want to be totally out of control, I want this guy. As hard as it was, I wiped myself and buttoned up then stood in front of the mirror and applied lipstick to my lips, then returned to the table and Bob.
I thought to myself, it's either now or never and said, trying not to come on to strong, but to the point and yet still be some what of a ladie, "wanta' go somewhere else?" the guy reaction was, where? Almost as he knew what I had in mind, I coyly replied, how about someplace a little more private. Bob looked at me and I looked at Bob, waiting for his answer, running my tongue over the edge of my glass. As Bob finally began to speak, I felt little flutters in my stomach, not sure what he might say, wanting him so much to say lets go...
They don't care, hence, the articles about the metric system etc.
Wal Mart was still mostly deserted at 3AM.
Cheaply made electronics beat each other half to death to get a better deal on YOU!
Hey Taco! Looks like you're using the "infinite monkeys and typewriters" scheme to generate Ask Slashdots again...
I didn't buy a single thing except for groceries all four days.
... and all I got were these lousy USB adapters!
Actually, I got stocking stuffers -- "safety hammers." These are the orange, weighted hammers for smashing auto glass, with a notch protecting a blade for slicing seatbelts etc. They were on sale for $5 apiece, so I bought out the store (they only had 6 left).
However, what I *wish* I had gotten is about 20 of those stupid remote control cars, and put them all on eBay. Then I could have bought some real presents.
timothy
jrnl: http://tinyurl.com/c2l8yr / foes: http://tinyurl.com/ckjno5
And the *reason* I didn't get 20 of the stupid little cars is that they were completely sold out, because other people smarter than me already did the ebay hoarding first.
timothy
jrnl: http://tinyurl.com/c2l8yr / foes: http://tinyurl.com/ckjno5
One of the reasons, as proven in social psychology research: crowding acts as an arousing agent. Crowding has been shown to heighten a situational reaction, i.e., if you're going to the store to go buy things, you're more likely to do so if everyone around you is bustling about doing the same thing.
Not only that, but the crowds in the stores make customers fall for their gimmicks (buy one, get one free; buy one, get a free silver platter). They also subject the customer to huge amounts of other kinds of marketing.
Crowds HELP stores, not hurt customers.
I was perplexed, since it's only Tuesday, until I collated this with buy nothing day (more) and realized that November 29th was, in fact, on Friday. (I was out of town for Thanksgiving and wasn't going to buy anything that day anyway).
So, uh, yeah.
Robert.
[1] (Yes, every editor is Taco -- esp. the ones who go by Ed.)
How did ebay hoarders make a living before the existence of the internet? I guess if you've got the foresight to do it, more power to you. It's always fun to hear the groans from collectors on a Toys R Us shipment day when some guy grabs 20 of the new hot Star Wars figure and goes through the checkout line with dollar signs in his eyes...
I thought in this new age of new-speak and all it would be African-American Friday.
Let's not forget all those melanin impoverished people from South Africa and Egypt.
Boring, I know, but cheap, *and* I could self-righteously claim to be supporting "Buy Nothing" day, completely by accident, thereby gaining kudos with my radical friends.
;-)
Yay for me.
Believe it or not -- people enjoy shoving through crowds of fellow shoppers on the ordained "buy something" day.
I mean, you couldn't pay me to set foot in a mall on that day and I've been wondering if I can put off buying some desperately needed new socks until the holidays end, but everyone isn't like that. (Although, don't people have jobs to go to on the day after Thanksgiving? Do most people really get 4 day weekends?)
No, I'm not quite ready to buy my socks online...
What I'm listening to now on Pandora...
A model train would be nice, but not until I'm old and settled. Until then, I think a train would take up too much space and time.
timothy
jrnl: http://tinyurl.com/c2l8yr / foes: http://tinyurl.com/ckjno5
yes, let's move everything online. never mind the fact that on that one friday morning my net connection is actually fast (or something approaching fast anyway) because everyone is at the mall.
in all honesty, i suspect most people take one of two positions on the event: 1) they enjoy going out with the masses. 2) they enjoy making fun of everyone who goes out. i suspect most of the /. crowd falls in the latter.
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Thank you for that input. I could see, and talk of, butt puss with no propensity to laugh, or feel uncomfortable with the terminology.
However, when Commanderette-Taco, Homos, PigGirlNeil and others here want to felch a puss ridden rancid anus, lick butt puss, and fuck a butt puss-ridden ass after picking the scabs off and letting the puss run to lube up is where I draw the line.
And a fine troll it is. I wouldn't even be doing this if they would stop the 2 posts a day limit on troll accounts. The mass moderation system has turned into a groupthink mobocratic sledgehammer that gets wielded recklessly by a roving herd of mediocritomatons.
Death to the opressors!
dunno who else saw this, but in related news fatwallet 'protector of price and purveyor of outstanding offers' is fighting back at the same stores that went after then. especially walmart. got this newsbit over at arstechnica.
Large print giveth, and the small print taketh away
When Black Friday comes
I'm gonna dig myself a hole
Gonna lay down in it 'til
I satisfy my soul
There are places where the networks are not touching,and there are places where they are-Boeing's Lori Gunter
I work for a major retailer, and our boss cautioned us that morning, before the doors opened to the customers: if we didn't sell additional items with the "doorbusters" -- those incredible discounts -- then we wouldn't make any money.
That's the truth in retail, anyway. Often things are sold at deep discounts, knowing the add-on sales will bring in the bucks. That cheap digital camera? Let me sell you some batteries and photo paper and an additional memory card. A free-after-rebate printer? Cable and ink and paper.
This is true, for retailers like mine, ESPECIALLY on a day like black Friday. We wouldn't have gotten our bonuses if we hadn't gotten those attachments... and people are going to need them anyway, aren't they?
(for the record: I would never suggestion an add-on sale that was pointless, or continue to push if the customer said no)
I now work the day after Thanksgiving (the fed doesn't sleep) and completely skip the crowds. Online, however, buy early and ignore the hype.
...we are from the government - we are here to help...
Black Friday has been over for over 72 hours. You must be new to Slashdot, stories rarely are posted the same day they happen.
http://adbusters.org/campaigns/bnd/
It was BUY NOTHING DAY, you fools!!
Why stick up for big business?
I tried to buy something on Best Buy.com and my credit card got billed, but the order didn't get placed... "Unusually high network traffic" they said.. Interesting how they have enough bandwith to bill me, but not enough to place the order..
And today, 4 business days later, they're still "researching" the charge (aka. I haven't gotten my money back yet!)
I work at an independant Piano store. I worked all 3 days of the weekend, and let me tell you, it was interesting. People playing pianos, having to sort thru music, convincing customers that we have JUST the right gift for their piano teacher, even tho I know that 3 of said teachers other students have all gotten her the same thing...
It was as bad as it has been in the past, nor as bad as I suspect Christmas Eve will be when I'm moving pianos. ~Donald
~Donald / Just RTFM
Why, do you ask? Because not everyone has or uses a computer; regardless of the statistics. I have a couple for work and play but my neighbors? None. Well, maybe one person up the street has one. Some people like to browse; and other people make lists of specifics, get them, and go. I sometimes browse but other days I get the list from my wife and get done (that's what I loaded shopping list software on my Palm for!)
I think with the interesting people, their lives can't possibly be wrapped up into a nice little package.
http://www.adbusters.org/campaigns/bnd/
I spent friday in a lovely little town in Canada, sitting by a roaring fire with friends and family, eating a modest homecooked meal.
I read a book (Stanislaw Lem's, "The Futurological Congress), went out for a walk in the snow with my wife.
Did you enjoy your shopping?
What were you expecting?
So, out of curiousity, do the sales of said additions/attachments go up on "Black Friday" on correspondance to the sale items which go down?
Sounds like a good way to wring a few bucks out of the simpleminder. Hey, this printer is only $45, oh, but don't forget you'll need this USB cable (at $25), and maybe some extra ink (at $30)...
the store i work at did over 6 times normal sales. our store based most of our deals on rebates too. most people for some odd reason arnt capable of completing rebates properly or in a timely manner, so while they all think they're getting a deal at the time we actualy dont lose much money at all.
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My wife had planned to go out on Black Friday and spend somewhere in the ballpark of $400-500 all said and done. I wasn't pleased. I know that she's saving lots and lots of money--but I just can't afford to save any more! We've been living off my grad-student's income and her unemployment since her layoff a couple months back.
Anyway, she ended up not going (thankfully); but she instead blessed me with our first child being born. Now--don't get me wrong... I love this little guy and I'm incredibly happy he's finally here. I'm just starting to think that a few hundred dollars and coping with insane crowds was getting off easy ;)
Long, cute, or funny Sigs are just another form of over compensation, used by geeks, nerdz, etc.
It's nice that this year, rather than the traditional "Thanksgiving" facade, the TV chans went straight to making it the Black Friday holiday, otherwise known as "Shameless Capitolism Day".
Mom thought it'd be a great idea if she and her "girls" went shopping all day on Black Friday. So Mom, my sisters (ages 23 and 20), my niece (age 2 mo) and I bundled into the car at 7:30 am, trucked it 2 hours to the outlet mall, and went Shopping.
;-)
:-)
First we had to stop at the bank, though, for Mom to get money. The ATM was broken so she had to go use a teller. She came back to the car chuckling. The teller had asked Mom if she was going shopping, so Mom said, "Yep, just me and my girls!" The teller told her that it was going to be really crowded out, so my mom really ought to think about getting some of those "straps" for us.
We enjoyed the image of the three of us straining against our toddler leashes.
So anyway, the mall was in fact insanely crowded, but it was sort of fun anyway. I mean, I love Christmas so it was cool to get into the spirit a little. But one day of it was plenty. I can guarantee you that the rest of my shopping will be online!
Sarah
tools are neutral :)
:)
I hope never to be in an accident where it will be really important that I be able to reach my little orange handled window smasher, but I don't plan to go around randomly breaking windows with it
timothy
jrnl: http://tinyurl.com/c2l8yr / foes: http://tinyurl.com/ckjno5
Purchased a GeForce 4 128 4200 from best buy, and the rest of the stuff for a rocker of a machine from net 'net - thats just the way to go. Fedex is on its way to delivery even as I type.
I got some sweet wallpaper and two pinwheels in Grab Bag's from Nookington's on Sale Day. I sold most of it back, but the pinwheels are fun to run around with.
The only thing I hate more than hypocrites are people who hate hypocrites.
I went to CompUSA and got everything I set out to get:
ATI AIW 7500 for $100 after rebates
150 CD-R's free after rebates
Asylum Geforce2 for $30 after rebates
I bought this Imation mini CD-R burner/player ($30), but returned it the next day because it seemed kinda useless, it couldn't do CD-RW. I also picked up the rebate forms the next day because their website was soooo slow I couldn't get anything off of it. Also picked up a can of compressed air free after rebates the next day.
Personally I love "Black Friday" I got even better deals last year. CompUSA isn't too crowded and a lot of their sales you can go later in the week and they'll still have it. I also went to Circuit City, Staples, and Best Buy but was way too late for any of the free stuff and didn't buy anything at those stores.
I don't particularly like online shopping all that much. I hate having to wait for my stuff to arrive. If I can get it local, I'd rather do that. With online shopping sometimes you have to wait longer because they didn't bother to tell you they don't have it in stock and other times you get the product (say a hard drive) and you find they did an absolute horrible job of packaging it and the thing must've bounced around the entire time. And then shipping costs on top of it all. Not to mention if you're not home you have to go drive somewhere to pick it up anyways (or risk having it stolen).
I got to Best Buy around 6:30 AM, saw the parking lot, and people parking across the street, turned right around and went back home.
Went back later in the day, all the "good" stuff was gone. Then I went to Circuit City and picked up a 256MB stick of PC133 for free after rebate. Had the rebate in the mail on Saturday.
Bought a new parka online from REI Outlet on Sunday, using a 20% off coupon I found at FatWallet. I had been shopping for one for a few weeks and really couldn't find anything locally that I really liked.
I don't see this mania for shopping. I buy stuff in bulk, and when it runs out, I order some more. Shopping occupies a few hours a month, tops. Life is too short to be wasted in retail outlets.
Hey, that's not funny. What the hell do you think you're doing? If you want to say something slimey and racist like that, take it somewhere else.
First of all, most people in my life who work in retail LOVE the first day after Thanksgiving. (The workaholics, at least-- including my dad. It's his favorite day to work... it's really fun to be swamped at work if you're not a whiner...)
But I digress... my first reaction to this Ask Slashdot is, "What's the big draw of consumerism?"
I mean... seriously. Why? Why do people care about stuff like this? I don't. I don't think that material wealth is all that interesting, actually. Most Slashdot readers are American, and most Americans are greedy little capitalists. Why? What's the draw?
I mean, I like computers and everything... it's fun to buy a new tech-toy. But why make such a big deal about MONEY? It's just money, after all. I understand why people like it... but still. What's the point? Shit like this appearing on slashdot... ach... I just wish people would wake up and get a clue.
Life has a lot of amazing things in it, besides stores. Discover some of them, won't you?
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by the whole phenomenon. What is the appeal of shopping on this particular day? I understand there are sales, but they will continue until well past Christmas.
This day is about nothing more than spending money. Blatent consumerism at its worst. It's a shame there isn't a universally recognised day of the year in which people strive to help someone in need, or do their part to reduce pollution (walk or ride with someone else). If there was, we would certainly be better off.
FWIW, I didn't spend a dime on black friday.
I'd rather be a conservative nutjob than a liberal with no nuts and no job.
I work at good ol' Circuit City, and I worked from 6AM to 6PM with 20 minutes for lunch. People were waiting outside at 5:30 when I actually got there and the first things they went for were the cheap stuff that was free post rebate- CD label kit, 20 dollar binoculars, cd player cases, etc. I mean, none of this stuff was worth more than 20 bucks to start off with, but people felt the need to sit in the FREEZING cold for almost 2 hours to get it. Probably JUST because it's free. Weird, huh? I honestly can't see getting up at 4 in the morning to get a free CD label kit. Can you? :)
(BTW, employees of course were not allowed access to the free stuff. I've heard a lot of other stores allow the employees to grab stuff first. That's probably why '18 minimum per store' actually ends up being more like 6. We had at least 60 of each free item, over a hundred of most, and over a hundred of each sale item less than $300, and that's just my {low volume} store. That's because Circuit City RULES!