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Favor Ideas for a Geeky Wedding?

Rachel Grey asks: "I'm getting married in September to a fellow geek (in the MIT chapel, no less), and we're trying to find geeky wedding favors to give at the reception. Ideally these would cost $4 or less and would provide some instant fun for the guests, so that it doesn't matter if they actually take them home. Some good ideas we've had so far are tangrams (available in bulk for a little under $1/set) and micro Hoberman spheres ($4 apiece). Any more ideas?"

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  1. How geeky? by lowtekneq · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Why not do something in the spirit of OS, such as having one big "thing" and everyone having a "piece" this would involve everyone and could be fun. I'm sure that someone out there has an idea on what this "thing could be"

    So how geeky is this going to be? Did you propose on slashdot? Is the wedding going to be webcast?

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    1. Re:How geeky? by isorox · · Score: 4, Funny

      Is the wedding going to be webcast?

      Is the wedding night going to be webcast?

    2. Re:How geeky? by Zapper · · Score: 3, Funny
      > such as having one big "thing" and everyone having a "piece"

      Ooh, ooh... I know; a wedding cake.
      :-)

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    3. Re:How geeky? by FurryFeet · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yes it will. We get to watch them play Dungeons & Dragons while monitoring Slashdot and watching an all night marathon od Dr. Who.
      Yo DO know that's how geeks orgasm, don't you? ;)

  2. Manual Dexterity Tests? If that doesn't work... by trentfoley · · Score: 3, Funny
    Try a six-pack of champagne and a funnel.

    I've been watching too much Futurama lately...

  3. How about mini Rubik's cubes... by kommakazi · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Mini 2x2x2 versions are $5 or mini original 3x3x3 keychain versions are also $5...little more than you said it should cost but they would be entertaining for sure.

  4. Piles of lego type building blocks by friedegg · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Just buy a bunch of lego type building blocks in bulk (real ones will cost more), and dump piles on each table. People can build things, and trade pieces, etc. Lots of fun.

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    1. Re:Piles of lego type building blocks by Spoing · · Score: 2
      Put a pound or two of Lego shaped candy on each table. They are a good, playful, conversation starter and double as a snack.

      At a New Years party, I brought a bowl and they were a hit. The candy stacks like regular Legos, comes in the basic block sizes (2, 4, and 8), and taste like smarties. Sugar...gooood!

      Note: If your guests start to get naked, it's not my fault. Blaim the boose.

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    2. Re:Piles of lego type building blocks by Spoing · · Score: 2, Informative
      Concord Confections makes one version of a Lego shaped candy named "Candy Blox";
      1. Candy Blox multi-pack box

        Same, different store

      Concord also makes Bubble Blox, though I don't know if these are Lego shaped or not.

      Trivia: Concord also makes Doubble Bubble.

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  5. Silly Putty by McDulay · · Score: 3, Interesting

    How about different colors of silly putty? You can buy bulk quantities of putty from Crazy Aaron's Puttyworld, http://www.puttyworld.com/index.html. You could then give everyone a portion, and they could play with color mixing and other fun uses for putty.

  6. the wedding pics by zogger · · Score: 4, Interesting

    --burn the wedding pics and small vid clips right there at the wedding / reception and give out copies on cds. You can get the blank labels printed up now in advance so they are semi pro looking.

    1. Re:the wedding pics by travail_jgd · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'd advise against having a bootable distro. While it seems like a good idea now, in a few years the distro will be dated may not be able to support the latest hardware. (Of course, that assumes the CD-Rs actually last that long:) And who will do the troubleshooting if if fails to boot properly on Uncle Fred's PC?

      Also, people will have their own software for viewing pictures and movies. Why force a slideshow on someone who'd rather view the pics in Photoshop, MS Photo Editor or Gimp?

    2. Re:the wedding pics by Van+Halen · · Score: 2, Interesting
      That's a pretty cool idea. The only real problem is getting someone to assemble the pictures, encode any video clips, and burn the CDs while people are still there. If you just dumped the files onto the CDs with no navigation help, the non-geek guests may not know what to do with them. It would certainly help if there's a delay between the ceremony and reception. Otherwise, you need someone who isn't going to mind not being a part of the festivities while attending to this. And if the wedding is fairly large, burn time could become a factor.

      We thought about this for our wedding, but ultimately decided it was too much hassle. Besides, the Mac was busy playing our hand-picked playlist of ceremony and reception music. ;-) Our favors were just nice little bags of blue and white M&Ms (our wedding colors) that everyone enjoyed. Some of the other suggestions here might have been pretty cool, but that's ok.

      Instead, we made up CDs and sent them out with the thankyou notes. That gave us time to put some polish on the CD, making them friendly to our non-geek guests too. Because music is my hobby, I wrote and recorded 5 songs that were used in the ceremony. So we actually made enhanced audio CDs, containing those 5 songs plus a data track with all of the pictures, MP3s of the reception playlist, and a 5-minute video sample from the DVD (still working on completing that). For navigation, we used a mini version of our website pointing to all the files on the CD. The CD was then setup to auto-start the web browser in either Mac or Windows, and we even included QuickTime installers for anyone who might not have it.

      We've gotten a lot of compliments, especially from the non-geek guests, so I'm glad we didn't rush something less polished to hand out at the reception.

  7. My parents got married there.. by EvanTaylor · · Score: 2, Insightful

    and had my father's memorial service there... Its a beutiful place, and I hope you have the wedding during good daylight so the light comes in through the moat nicely, its very pretty. Goodluck

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  8. Multi-meters? by human+bean · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If you look around in wholesale surplus places you can often find the little calculator-style multi-meter in black plastic folding case for less than five bucks. Have a printing shop foil stamp the plastic cover. Duct tape is good, too...

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  9. American Science and Surplus by megabulk3000 · · Score: 4, Informative

    A good browse on American Science and Surplus should find you geeky and weird things for low-cost.

    1. Re:American Science and Surplus by webmaven · · Score: 2, Informative

      Another good source is Edmund's Scientifics.

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  10. My Big Fat Geek Wedding by nano2nd · · Score: 4, Funny

    Does anyone else find it kind of telling that an article on X-Box posted at 02:47 has 106 replies whereas one about weddings posted three hours earlier only has 22?????

    We geeks need to do more procreating or we'll just die out!!!

  11. Rock! by Capt.+Mubbers · · Score: 2, Interesting

    When my friends go married a couple of years ago they had sticks of rock with their names written in it, just like "Blackpool Rock".

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  12. Kinder Eggs by mikemacd · · Score: 3, Informative

    How about the Kinder eggs. You know the chocolate egg with a small capsule inside with a toy you can build. http://www.kindersurprise.com/ Guaranteed to keep people entertained for moments.

  13. Mini Tetris by John+Harrison · · Score: 2, Informative
    I purchased a bunch of keychain Tetris games a few years ago in Portugal. They were about $3 each. I think that Bandai makes one but it might be more expensive. Less portable but also cheap are the "talking brick game" things that are slightly larger than the original gameboy. If you are lucky you will find one that speaks Spanish. I bought those in Brazil (yes I know they don't speak Spanish in Brazil) for a few bucks each. You should be able to find some Hong Kong or Taiwan based exporter on the web where you can get stuff.

    Another option is the Rubik's cube. You can buy a mini cube or a 2x2x2 cube for pretty cheap at www.hessport.com. Just remember to make a small initial purchase to get 10% off all subsequent purchases.

    Congratulations and good luck!

    1. Re:Mini Tetris by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative
      I second the Mini Tetris on keychain idea. Sounds like the geekiest idea that will provide the most fun in the long term, and it sounds like you'd spend a fortune!

      On ebay they're $8.50 each + shipping http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item =3002036744

      but I found them here for only $4 each http://www.oshealtd.com/tetrisjr.htm

  14. A Contrarian Suggestion by R2.0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I would humbly suggest that, unless your families are geeks as well, you take it easy on the geek themed stuff. Hell, my family IS geek heavy (3 civil engineers, 2 electrical, 2 mechanical, 1 ceramic, 3 nurses, 2 physical therapists, geologist, and environmental science) and we gave traditional favors - Italian, to be exact.

    Remember that favors are NOT gifts from the couple to the guests. They are tokens and remembrances. They should trigger fond memories when viewed in the future, not provide a distraction for the attention span challenged during the toast.

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    1. Re:A Contrarian Suggestion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      You gave away Italians?

      Where can I get free Italians for my wedding?

      *snicker*

  15. Bookmarks. by FroMan · · Score: 3, Interesting

    My wife and I did bookmarks. Sure, its not terribley geeky, but perhaps you could do something in theme. We had a couple bible verses. You could try doing something similar, but use something like the GPL on it or something. :-)

    Another idea is to use a love letter or something you sent him/her on the book mark. In retrospect I could have used the first email I asked my wife out on a date with. It went something like this:

    int ask_for_date(char *me, char *you) {
    if (boyfriend(you) == true)
    return APOLOGY;

    if (!free_friday(you)) {
    rain_check(me, you);
    } else {
    return wanna_head_out(me, you);
    }
    }

    But if you have anything similar to that, like a love letter or something that you both share and put it onto/into a bookmark I think its pretty cool.

    (btw, that all compiled down into the wrong byte code when it ran, she did have a boyfriend, but I still got a rain check. :-)

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    1. Re:Bookmarks. by booch · · Score: 2, Interesting

      At my brother's wedding, they gave out heart-shaped cookie cutters with a recipe attached. Something like "love cookies", probably some poem too. I still have the cookie cutter, and use it whenever I'm trying to woo a woman. Anyway, the recipe is cool, because geeks like to make things and experiment. And the cookie cutter is useful, keepable, and brings back memories when they use it.

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  16. Actually, Slinkies are looking good by badlemming · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Thanks for the comments so far. :) I'll definitely be looking into silly putty, nose flutes, and the little Kinder toys in the chocolate eggs. Lights are a nice idea but won't be very fun because the whole thing is going to be in daylight... I shoulda said that. And things that are too puzzley, like the Rubic's cubes, might just scare off the nongeek family members. Darn nongeeks.

    Anyway, sometime yesterday we also got the idea of slinkies. They provide a nice range of nerdiness depending on the user... to some they're just something fun to flip from hand to hand, but you can get as deep into the physics of the things as you want. And if people get sozzled enough they can run slinky races down the stairs at the hotel.

  17. not that much.. by bje2 · · Score: 3, Funny

    nah, the little key chain ones aren't that expensive...i've seen the 3x3x3 key chain rubik's cubes sold in dollar stores...they'd be fun...until everyone gets frustrated and starts hurling them across the room...

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  18. wedding customized... by bje2 · · Score: 4, Funny

    wedding customized condoms...you know, condom's where the package says "Dave & Rachels Wedding, January 24th, 2002", or whatever is applicable...

    Ideally these would cost $4 or less and would provide some instant fun for the guests, so that it doesn't matter if they actually take them home.

    i'm sure you could get these for under $4 a piece...and hey, the reception could definetly become "instant fun" if people start using them!

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  19. Other kinds of party favours... by checkyoulater · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How about saving money on geeky favours and buying the universal party favour: Alcohol. Lots of alcohol. It wouldn't hurt to invite as many women as possible. This will only help the chances of the other geeks at the party. What do MIT geeks really want? Drunken women or geeky flashlight keychains?

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    1. Re:Other kinds of party favours... by Tackhead · · Score: 3, Funny
      > What do MIT geeks really want? Drunken women or geeky flashlight keychains?

      This is Slashdot. The answer is "And that goes double if you're talkin' about the funky blue ultra-bright LED kind."

  20. Legos by chrysrobyn · · Score: 2, Informative

    What we did was buy some $9 2000 piece lego crates and dump them on the tables. They were colorful enough for the non-geeks to appreciate, and kept the geeks/nerds and kids busy while those who were more "sophisticated" could talk. Our reception had the fewest kids crying at it that I've ever heard of for 100 people -- and people stayed later than average, too.

    If you're sponsoring an open bar, don't do the legos.

    Hopefully, Mike will forgive me. You can see a few pics of our reception here.

  21. My Big Fat Geek Wedding? by johndiii · · Score: 2, Funny

    Sorry, couldn't resist that.

    Seriously, though, I thought of those little XXX In a Box things that they sell at the checkout registers in bookstores. Like Zen Garden in a Box, and so on. I'm not sure if you could get them for your target price, but they would make cool favors. You could pick one that you like, or get a variety. They might be cheaper if you could get them in bulk.

    You could try these:

    Desk Toys

    Mini Kits - this appears to be the original source for the kits.

    Congratulations and good luck with your wedding!

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  22. Surely you can find something wonderful at by theora55 · · Score: 2, Informative

    Archie McPhee. And if not, you'll have fun shopping.

  23. chocolate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My husband and I gave out slightly geeky favors when we got married 13 years ago. A candy-making store searched their catalogs and found a floppy disk mold (5.25 inch, and thicker than the real thing) for us. We ordered floppy disks in dark chocolate with crispies, peanuts, and plain. The candy store shrink-wrapped each one. We created labels for 5.25" floppies on a dot matrix printer - with puns about combining our last names, and cute and humorous filenames on the 'disk'. The candy store attached the labels for us, and delivered the 'favor disks' to the reception place, which put them in the fridge for us.

    We handed these out 1.5 hours into the reception, and geek and non-geek friends made lots of puns about them, and had fun with the idea.

    We made enough extra to bring to workplaces for people whom we hadn't invited to the wedding.

  24. Re:duct tape? by anticypher · · Score: 4, Funny

    Kinky!

    I'm sorry dear, I didn't realise what my geek friends would do with that much duct tape. We can try apologising to your brides maids again, can't we? I know those photos didn't make it too far on the internet, the link just got posted to a little visited site called slashdot. I'm sure those photos will never again surface to embarass your best friend. But you have to admit, they were right about being able to duct tape your father to the ceiling and the sticky would hold him in place. Honey, please tell me you are going to use that carving knife to cut me loose from all this duct tape, right? Please!

    Some day we'll all look back on this wedding, laugh nervously and change the subject.

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  25. Hershey's Kisses ... by A+nonymous+Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    ... give one to every client ... customer ... entrant ... whatever! and tell them to pelt the bride when the minister says "You may now kiss the bride".

    I myself had one in my pocket and gave it to my bride. Definitely confused her.

  26. AOL CD's by rjune · · Score: 2, Funny

    You could decorate the entire hall with them and I'm sure you could get thousands and thousands of them for free!