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What You'll Wish You'd Known

sheck writes "Eminent computer scientist, author, painter, and dot-com millionaire, Paul Graham has written down the things he wishes somebody had told him when he was in high school in What You'll Wish You'd Known, suggesting, among other things, that students treat school like a day job, working on interesting projects to avoid what he has found to be the most common regret among adults of their high school days: wasting time."

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  1. Okay... by The+Ultimate+Fartkno · · Score: 5, Funny


    I think that when the *very first word* in your story is misspelled, you should probably hand in your "Lil' Editors' Fun Club" membership card.

  2. What I Wish by Deinhard · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It sounds funny, but it isn't. I wish I'd known that my math teachers through High School were PE majors and math minors. Going to a small private school in the mid-south, they were all coach/teachers (sometimes in that order).

    After I got an A in College Algebra my senior year, I was sure I was ready for the CS curriculum in college. That first week of Calculus proved me wrong. What I learned later was that, despite my grades, I really didn't know math all that well.

    That was 22 years ago. I've since picked up higher-level math on my own, but it would have been a lot easier if I'd been given the groundwork ahead of time.

    --
    Successfully condensing fact from the vapor of nuance since 1998.
  3. More 'You Must Love Your Work' Brainwashing by Cryofan · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The author writes:
    What you need to do is discover what you like. You have to work on stuff you like if you want to be good at what you do.

    Why do our lives have to center around friggin' work? I would rather not work at all. And most people feel the same way, if they would just admit it. If we had the adequate resources, wouldn't we choose NOT to work at all, or just work a little bit?

    So what is wrong with just admitting the truth?

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    eat shiat and bark at the moon
  4. "wasting time" by Saeger · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Repeat after me: It's not "wasting time" if you're having fun.

    It's only those obsessed with status & material wealth who get wrapped up in the notion that every worthwhile waking hour should be spent working on advancing careers and whatnot.

    --
    Power to the Peaceful
  5. "youth is wasted on the young" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    By the time you are old enough to want to make a list of things to tell young people they need to do to be happy, you are too old to relate to any young person in a meaningful or influential way. But inevitably, generation after generation, the old people are compelled to spew advice which the young will absorb, but ignore, until they themselves are old and ready to acknowledge its correctness (and then to futilely victimize that generation with advice).

    I think the biggest cause of regret in young people is mixed messages being sent from all directions from know-it-all nannys who all regret their own youth and so want to live vicariously through others still in possession of it. Laissez faire.

    1. Re:"youth is wasted on the young" by Basehart · · Score: 5, Interesting

      "Speaking of wasting time, I think my Slashdot break has gone on long enough."

      Not as long as mine...I own my own business so I get to read the whole thing. Which brings me to my pet "Wish I'd Know This In School" peeve, which is why didn't anyone, not even my parents, tell me that I could actually start my own business and not have to necessarily go and get a job working for someone else.

      During the last year of the English equivalent of high school, me and my classmates would go to the career counselling officer for lessons on how to get a job. We'd also take day trips local businesses and watch people we'd seen in the year above ours working at their little desks or operating machinery. We even took a few trips to local coal mines which really freaked me out (Anyone seen Kes? that was me).

      Luckily I was interested in playing music - joined a couple of local bands - moved to London - joined a band that toured the World - moved to the Pacific NW - got a life - and managed get the hell out of the cycle of horrible, depressing life I was faced with, but it really needn't have been that way.

      How about one single hour a week about how to start your own business. Or how to handle money that your business will generate, or marketing your business, Etc Etc Etc. instead there was nothing. It was ALL about how to get a job.

      Needless to say we all knew that the rich kids at the private school down the road were being taught how to hire losers, or how to stay rich, so there was never any real mystery as to why things were the way they were, but I still feel sorry for my classmates.

  6. Re:get a Roth IRA by John+Harrison · · Score: 5, Insightful
    ran some quick numbers, very simplistic. YMMV.

    I assumed 10% return under two scenarios:
    In the first $3000 is invested each year as a 15, 16, and 17 year-old, for a total of $9k put in. Then no more investing is done. At 65 you have $963,381.

    Second scenario is starting to invest at 30 and putting in $3k per year until 65. A total of $108,000 is invested. At 65 you have $897,380.

    The moral of the story? You can't afford not to put money away when you are young. Sacrifice early for long term gains.

    Note that I am not suggesting that you stop after high school. I am suggesting that you start right now and not stop.

  7. When I was young... by stephend · · Score: 5, Funny

    Arthur: You know, it's at times like this, when I'm trapped in a Vogon airlock with a man from Betelgeuse, and about to die of asphyxiation in deep space, that I really wish I'd listened to what my mother told me when I was young.

    Ford: Why, what did she tell you?

    Arthur: I don't know, I didn't listen.

  8. Re:get a Roth IRA by Pendersempai · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Yes, except...

    how the fuck does a 15 year old acquire $3,000?

    And how the fuck does he acquire another $3,000 the next year, and the next?

    If you're in debt because of college, it's a fool's errand to invest unless you can get a much better interest rate than the one you're paying on your loans. Otherwise you'd be better off paying off the loans.

    Oh -- and how the hell do you find a consistent 10% return on investment? The stock market historically returns 7%, and that's about as risky as anyone should get for the long-term.

    Yes, compounding interest can be very impressive, and your numbers are very pretty. But they're also very unrealistic.