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IT and Divorce?

frank_tudor asks: "I am graduate student and work as a web developer. I am also getting a divorce and I have a son caught in the middle. I believe my profession had a part in it. For my graduate thesis I am writing a paper about Dads who work in the computer industry, divorce and custody. I think our industry causes a high rate of divorce but I need some help from the Slashdot community. My questions are: How many of you computer Dads have also gone through divorce and have retained either half or full custody of your children? Do you think your job had something to do with it? What were some of your hardest challenges and are your kids happy?"

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  1. Re:my divorce- by pikine · · Score: 0, Troll

    You probably married your wife for a wrong reason. At least, when compared to the option that you could help her rehabilitate from alcoholic problems and violent tendencies, it does not weigh enough. Isn't unconditional help and love what a family is for?

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  2. The problem is the women by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 0, Troll
    The problem really is the women.

    They want their prince charming to bring them money so they can spend, but in order to earn, you have to work.

    Ladies, you can't have your cake and eat it at the same time, so if what you want is a warm body, get yourself a gigolo. But just make sure he's out of the way when hubby comes home and wants to pork you or wants a blowjob, and, by all means, give him the blowjob. After all, he's the one who pays the bills.

  3. Re:Oh please by aunticrist · · Score: 0, Troll

    Yeah, and Dahmer had a great home life growing up. He turned out wonderfully... :/