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65% of Americans Spend More Time With Their PC Than SO
Ant writes "PR Newswire reports that 65 percent of consumers are spending more time with a computer than with their significant other (SO). The "Cyber Stress" study confirmed consumers' growing relationship with technology in their everyday lives. In fact, more than 8 out of 10 Americans (84%) say they are more dependent on their home computer now than they were just three years ago."
Everybody has to have the psycho bitch experience so that we know what to look out for next time. Just like spending years and years in front of a computer enables you to deal with the most off the wall random errors, spending years and years dealing with women enables you to quickly put their psycho bitch behaviors in check and/or kick their asses to the curb at the appropriate time.
most folks aren't prepared for marriage. i sure wasn't, and neither was my wife. looking at the dazed and confused looks of nearly everyone i know, neither were they. here are some notable facts you need to consider:
1. the vast majority of women consider sex a tool to use to get what they want. that's their excitement. for example, most women will be sexually available during dating, but will all of a suden get annoyed at sex once the marriage is over. in my case, 100% availability and sexy turned into 90% unavailability and sex was mostly annoying within months of marriage. we dated 5 years, so 5 years went one way, got married and everything changed almost immediately.
2. women tend to see absolutely nothign wrong with #1, above. they did what they had to had to do to get what they wanted - and what else is there? this is quite narcissistic, but, well... it is what it is...
3. women don't want to be "sex slaves" (what a freaking bad attitude!) to their husbands... but neither to do husbands want to be celibate slaves to their wife. you've never heard the latter b/c, well, that concept probably has never entered into the mind of a woman b/c they don't really think about anything other themselves when it comes to sexuality.
4. the average woman *really* wants a eunuch to 1. make her look good in front of her friends, 2. isnpire others to be jealous of her, 3. buy her lots of crap, 4. if you don't buy her crap, at least pay for the mortgage and all expenses so she can direct all her money to buy herself crap, oh, and did mention make others jalous of her?
5. the average woman is very emotional, but not very intimate, while the guy is very intimate, but not so emotional.
6. all that sexual energy she used to trick you to marry her - it now all goes into eating. well, not always, just 90% of the time.
now, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman not too interested in sex (and 90% are not interested in sex beyond using it to get what they want - and when they get married, they already have what they want, monetary security (a mule to pull their cart, so to speak)).
but there is something *really* immoral, wrong, dishonest and downright EVIL about pretending to be some kind of sexy when one is really the ice queen. make no mistake, 90% will freeze out their husbands and shed no tears about the all but celibate life they trick their provider to enter.
so, do i sound a bit cynical? want to know something scary? i married a pretty good woman and she pulled this crap on me too. i don't think it is b/c she's evil, rather, i think it is b/c the wiring is different. just like guys can't help their sexual desire, neither do women have to think about manipulating guys with sex and then freezing them out FOR LIFE.
most guys would much prefer to be in bed with their sexy, hot wife who is into them... but that person only existed PRIOR TO MARRIAGE. she's long gone, now.
anyway, i recommend that every single guy read the "proper care and feeding of marriage" and make sure their fiance reads it. then toss in the "proper care and feeding of husbands." if she can't make a commitment - assume at you own peril, b/c there is a 90%+ chance you end up devastated FOR LIFE - to the precepts in that book, run away as fast as you can.
i also recommend listening to her radio show. hearing women call up and complain about their husbands wanting sex and men complain about their woan throwing them under the bus will give you some perspective beyond the LIE that is a woman dating.
fortunately, my the message of how CRUEL my wife has slowly sunk into her and now she makes more of an effort to not just suck me dry (in every way but the way i want, right) and she is beginning to realize that marriage wasn't just a "free security (money, protection, guidance, etc...)" kind of deal, rather, she had some responsibilities, too. it wasn't just get, get, get, but she has to give some back.
my guess is not more than 10% of the women who deceive their boyfri