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Social Networks At A Crossroads

mateuscb writes "A few years ago, social networking Web sites were just some newfangled technology that college students loved. But over time, they have metamorphosed into an unavoidable Internet phenomenon that is changing the way people of all ages keep in touch with friends, find long-lost acquaintances, explore new hobbies and even look for employment."

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  1. unavoidable? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    still haven't joined one. facebook, myspace, hi5... who cares. I know who my friends are.

    1. Re:unavoidable? by AndyChrist · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I might use social networking sites if they had less glittery animated text gifs, music that makes me want to stab my ears out, and mongoloid spelling and grammar.

      I have nothing against the concept, it's just that the vast majority of social networking site users (especially Myspace) are people I do not want to have any contact with whatsoever.

    2. Re:unavoidable? by Bluesman · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'd rather the "no" instead of the "maybe". You can't plan anything on "maybes."

      You're assuming that my whole world revolves around providing entertainment for people with cell phones. It does not, as much as they like to think it does.

      And I find the implicit "Well, sure, unless something better comes along" that goes along with the "maybe" to be insulting. There's something to be said for making a committment and keeping it, especially among friends.

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  2. Linked In? by lottameez · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm surprised linkedin wasn't mentioned. It's getting a lot of use by the professional social networking crowd.

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    1. Re:Linked In? by stephanruby · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What the hell does that mean?
      Professional social networking? Prostitutes? Drug dealers?

      Yes, if your 'massage therapist' or your 'herb specialist' check their email often, they would be included too.

      Basically, it's anyone with work experience that has regular email access. I guess you could use your friendster account or your facebook account to network professionally, but most people (I believe) prefer to keep their personal lives separate from their professional ones (even if the separation is only one short url away).

      In other words, you could leave comments about the product quality and the customer service you've enjoyed from your local herbal specialist. And his boss could leave comments about his employee's strong work ethics and his dedication to the product.
  3. Grrrr... paid journalism... by friend.ac · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I don't mean to sound like a Troll.. but gotta love those press junkies! That article smacks of a public relations exercise by YUNiTi. I've been approached many many times by people 'offering' to manage our public exposure.. by releasing various stories, even negative ones, to increase the sites exposure. We've even had stories sent to us 'about our site' and placed into comparison with myspace and facebook, that pitched in exactly the same way as this story - and for us to have it released to the major publications / sites would ONLY cost $X per release. Give us back proper journalism!

  4. Fine Grained Privacy Is Not New by illectro · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I remember when imeem launched its peer to peer social networking gizmo they made a great deal about the fine grained privacy settings that could be applied to everything that you were connected to, but over time they've reduced the ability of users to protect things, shifted everything from the software client to a website only, and morphed into something like 'Youtube for music'

    The new imeem is way cooler.

  5. In other news, green is the new black! by pla · · Score: 3, Insightful

    A few years ago, social networking Web sites were just some newfangled technology that college students loved

    ...Whereas now, the first round of those original college kids have graduated and some haven't yet moved on; additionally, their younger siblings have started using these services to get a head start on the Cool New Thing(tm). Woo-woo.



    But over time, they have metamorphosed into an unavoidable Internet phenomenon

    I'd call this a sad commentary on the steadily advancing age-of-first-real-job, not an "internet phenomenon". YMMV. In any case, I've managed to avoid them quite well, thankyouverymuch.



    changing the way people of all ages keep in touch with friends

    No, not really. The afforementioned "college kids who haven't moved on yet" use it to keep in touch. The rest of us still use the phone or email or, wonder-of-wonders, physically meeting one another.



    and even look for employment.

    "Look". Not "find".

    These folks have a rather rude awakening to look forward to... The rest of the world really doesn't give two shakes of a rat's ass about their pathetic little ego-pages. It doesn't care about their blogs, their favorite bands, their pictures of their cat/dog/iguana/fish-named-bob.

    Your future employer doesn't care about Bob-the-fish. He cares that you have the ability to work, in person, with others, and get the job done. The fact that you can't differentiate between "friends" and "people you've never met but add to a counter on your website" doesn't really help with that.

    1. Re:In other news, green is the new black! by sleight82 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No, not really. The afforementioned "college kids who haven't moved on yet" use it to keep in touch. The rest of us still use the phone or email or, wonder-of-wonders, physically meeting one another.

      I'd disagree...the fact that I have moved on (2000 miles from where 90% of my friends live) is precisely the reason I use it to keep in touch. It's not a substitute for phone calls, emails, and personal visits, but I can't afford a $300 trip to meet up for coffee with a friend, and time zone differences often makes phone convos difficult with more than immediate family. I think each form of medium has a place along a spectrum of options - personal visits -> video calls -> phone calls -> emails -> social networking blogs -> twitter -> shouting from a mountaintop.

      These folks have a rather rude awakening to look forward to... The rest of the world really doesn't give two shakes of a rat's ass about their pathetic little ego-pages. It doesn't care about their blogs, their favorite bands, their pictures of their cat/dog/iguana/fish-named-bob.

      But that's the great/worst thing about the Internet - you can put up anything, and whether anyone really cares is a moot point. But undeniably, there is someone is crazy enough to care.

  6. Re:it makes sense by phantomlord · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Had a girlfriend/boyfriend in high school whom you lost? Find him/her online. Precisely why I don't use social networking sites. I prefer to be out of sight/out of mind for my stalker ex. She already suckered me in and wasted an extra year of my life once. I'd rather not let her have any way to get interested in my life again. Even if all she can see is my last login date, I prefer to let her wonder whether or not I'm still alive.
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  7. Re:it makes sense by putch · · Score: 3, Insightful

    what about just sending an email? why send the message using the stupid facebook message system. unless you want to leave a comment for others to see. just write a goddamn email.

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  8. Re:"Unavoidable phenomenon" by WrongHeaded · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The real benefit of facebook, at least as far as I'm concerned, is not the ability to poke or post or message or whatever facebook communication you like best. I use it effectively like a huge address book.

    When I'm heading home for the summer, and I think to myself, "Hey, it would be cool to hang out with my old HS buddies. I wonder what they're up to." I can start up facebook, search for them by name, friend them, and get their phone numbers.

    I don't have a little address book like my parents did until recently (I know that now they have an excel spreadsheet doing the same job, and I don't have that either.) I have facebook, which is like an address book that I can access from anywhere with the web.

    That's my 2 cents.

  9. Everything old is new again by IGnatius+T+Foobar · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Through a decade of technological "progress" the Internet self-important-erati have slowly been inventing the equivalent of the venerable BBS. What's worse, those who arrived to the party late actually think they've created something new that hasn't been done before.

    It's both amusing and frustrating to see the BBS spoken of as a technology of yesteryear, while mainstream Internet culture gets closer and closer to being an exact duplicate of BBS culture. Strip away all of the fancy buzzwords and you've basically got the same thing: people connecting to each other online.

    As a BBS sysop of nearly 20 years (please visit us online!) I can say with certainty that nothing has changed. Everything old is new again. And may I say to the "Web 2.0" and "social network" people: you didn't invent it.

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