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Journalists Can't Hide News From the Internet

Hugh Pickens writes "Robert Niles at the Online Journalism Review discusses the issues surrounding the recent tragedy involving a MySpace user. A newspaper reporting on the story didn't name the woman, citing concerns for her teen daughter. Bloggers went nuts, and soon uncovered the woman's personal information. Niles writes: 'The lessons for journalists? First, we can't restrict access to information anymore. The crowd will work together to find whatever we withhold ... Second, I wonder if that the decision to withhold the other mother's name didn't help enflame the audience, by frustrating it and provoking it to do the work of discovering her identity.'"

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  1. There should be a law against people who do this by Travoltus · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Whether this was a real story or not, that woman did no one any harm; if she did Megan any harm, that's for law enforcement to deal with, not the rest of us.

    By digging up her personal information - for which no one had any real, legitimate use - much less posting it online - these bloggers have negligently put this entire family's safety at serious risk.

    Yes, information wants to be free blah blah blah - wait until the media puts the unwanted spotlight on you for some minor b.s. (that most of us don't even care to read about) and some Jezebel-esque nutball digs up your personal information - including where you live - and puts it out there for any unbalanced, easily enraged headcase to come dot your forehead with a 9mm shell. Or maybe they'll stalk and kidnap your kid instead.

    These bloggers ought to have their information put out there by law enforcement - as convicted criminals. Aiding and abetting, for starters, then implied terroristic threats.

    Here's the kicker, folks: when you put up the personal information of one person in the house, you put everyone ELSE there, at risk. Even their neighbors.

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  2. No sympathy by XNine · · Score: 4, Insightful

    There should be no sympathy for those who pose as fictitious characters only to create malice and havoc in others lives, whether it's online or in real life. I'm unsure if this woman will have charges brought upon her, but it wouldn't be unreasonable, imo. The simple fact she even did this shows that she's not even mature enough to have kids. Unfortunately, she'll probably plead "insanity" and get away with it.

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    1. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Are you kidding? The girl died because she committed suicide. She chose to end her life. Basically, she was mentally ill. She could've killed herself for a thousand reasons. This family's only crime is being a bunch of hateful jerks.

      If new any new laws come out of this, you be SCARED SHITLESS.

      You want to be guilty for murder because, for example, you break up with your psycho girlfriend and she kills herself?

      Yeesh. I don't really like the idea of a society where I'm held responsible for other people's feelings.

    2. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And in the meantime she deserves to be harassed and have her safety threatened by millions of idiots on the internet? Millions of idiots who've heard one side of the story.

      What do you do if we later find out the Myspace guy really did exist, and it wasn't the neighbor lady?

      Besides that, there's really no way they could've known the little girl would commit suicide. Yeah, if the lady did it she's a douchebag, but the little girl couldn't have been very mentally stable either.

    3. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You might have a point if the perpetrators were unaware of her mental illness. However, according to all reliable sources, they were well aware of her fragile mental state.

      You are not responsible for the feelings of others. However, you ARE responsible for your actions, and the consequences of those actions on the people around you. And if those actions were those of hateful jerks who manipulated the emotions of someone they KNEW to be mentally unstable, then yes, they are responsible for the death of that person.

    4. Re:No sympathy by Seumas · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You are an idiot.

      The family that took advantage of a thirteen year old girl and manipulated and emotionally tortured her and even suggested suicide to her should be held civilly liable for their actions. I don't want a bunch of stupid internet laws to come out of this, because the internet wasn't the problem here. But to suggest that the problem is just a fucked up little girl is flat out stupid.

      Just like an adult must be held accountable if they manipulate a child into a sexual encounter, an adult must also be held accountable for using their advantages to manipulate (and more or less torture) a little kid into killing themselves.

      Just because she didn't physically wrap the noose around the girls neck doesn't mean she isn't liable for a significant percentage of the outcome.

      I don't like the idea of a society where I'm responsible for other people's feelings, either. And nobody is going to hold you accountable because your ex girlfriend flips out and goes nuts. HOWEVER, you should be held accountable if you are a full grown adult taking advantage of a little kid by exploiting their known weaknesses and presenting yourself as a fellow child to gain their confidence, build them up and then tear them down overnight and suggest to them that the world would be better off if they were dead and then a few hours later, they kill themselves.

    5. Re:No sympathy by NMerriam · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm the parent of a special needs child who gets far more verbal abuse than this stupid girl ever would yet she's not trying to kill herself.

      That's probably because special needs have nothing whatsofuckever to do with depression and mental health. Indeed, suicide rates for mentally and physically challenged youths are far below those of normal youths. Congratulations on having a child who doesn't suffer from problems she doesn't have -- that's a real accomplishment in oppositeland. My child who has asthma never had problem with blood sugar levels, so obviously those diabetic kids just have shitty parents! And of course having bad parents means you deserve to die at 13 and never get a chance to remake yourself as an adult.

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    6. Re:No sympathy by cyphercell · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The woman stalked and harassed a mentally unstable child, the mentally unstable child killed herself. I don't think the woman is guilty of murder but I hardly think she's innocent. She's a real piece of fucking shit, murderer no, guilty fuck yes. Now unless your a 30 something mother down the street using all of your worldly knowledge to abuse some mentally unstable child, it's not going to affect you. This case isn't going off on some strange new ground, it's systematic, deliberate, psychological abuse that is often difficult to prove. Well not very difficult in this case.

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  3. More like.... by Kjella · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ...that in a big enough group, there'll always be some asshats to publish anything. Even if you can't stop them, why help them?

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  4. People love solving a mystery by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    And hiding information that can be found just makes people want to discover it. What right does another person have to this information that I don't? I doubt people were angry, just curious.

  5. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What about "outing" alleged criminals? Long before a person is convicted of cleared of robbery/rape/murder/etc. charges, their name and picture (from which the rest of their personal information can be easily found) are in the public eye for all to see and judge, whether they are in any way guilty or not. A public record is as good as a criminal one.

    IMO all arrest records should be sealed until a conviction is reached, and should be erased and destroyed upon acquittal.

  6. Whatever, stalking mods by Travoltus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    When someone posts your address online over an alleged crime or slight, and you're the one whose tires are slashed or who has to confront a crazed gunman breaking down your door, you'll understand.

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    1. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by Zarhan · · Score: 5, Informative

      When someone posts your address online over an alleged crime or slight, and you're the one whose tires are slashed or who has to confront a crazed gunman breaking down your door, you'll understand.

      Has this happened to you or anyone you know? If not, stop the fearmongering.


      There were several cases in Britain where The Sun or other quality magazines started to publish pictures of pedophiles. Too bad if you happened to look like the guy. Chances were you were soon hurting.

      But of course, the lynch mob can also be just a tad stupid - but what can you do if you're the one running from it: British vigilantes mistake a pediatrician for a pedophile.

    2. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by S.O.B. · · Score: 3, Informative

      Has this happened to you or anyone you know? If not, stop the fearmongering.


      How about Richard Jewell? And this was the responsible media that did this to an innocent man. Imagine if that happened today with the virtual lynch mob of bloggers that are out there.
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    3. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by pallmall1 · · Score: 2, Informative

      When someone posts your address online over an alleged crime or slight...
      When Curt and Lori Drew filed charges against the Meiers (the victim's parents) for destroying the foosball table that they had asked (after their sick "prank" had driven the Meiers' daughter to suicide) the Meiers to store in their house, they put their own names out in public. Read the story. When the Meiers learned of the Drews' direct involvement in causing the death of their daughter, they busted up the foosball table and dumped it on the Drews' lawn. The Drews then had the gall to file charges for property damage against the Meiers. In the police report, Lori Drew said she kind of felt bad until she found out at Megan's funeral that Megan was unstable and may have attempted suicide in the past. That made her feel better. Holy cow! That's lower than snake shit.

      Again, if the Drews hadn't filed charges against the Meiers for destroying the foosball table, it would have been harder to find out who they were. The Drews put themselves on the official public record.

      That must have been one killer foosball table, because the Sheriff, the DA, and the Drews all think it's worth more than Megan Meiers life.
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    4. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by thej1nx · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You're providing to me an example that you saw on the internet? Reread what I wrote: Has this happened to you or anyone you know?

      As a matter of fact, yes. A family friend was named as a suspect in a well-publicized political murder case, by the media. Despite his being cleared of any possible links to the case, he was still ostracized by his neighbors as a "criminal with mafia connections". Now, do tell... what exactly was your point? You have asked me if it has happened with anyone I know, and I have given an example. So what will you do now besides calling me a "liar" and going back to your belief that is more or less "Lions don't exist because I have never seen one in real life myself"?

      What was exactly your point when you asked this silly question? That it happened to "someone else", so it was not your problem? How apathetic or shallow can you get?!!

      Was your brilliant argument that, it can "never happen to you"? I am pretty sure, that is what all those people thought as well, *till* it actually happened to them.

    5. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by mdwh2 · · Score: 2, Funny

      You're providing to me an example that you saw on the internet? Reread what I wrote: Has this happened to you or anyone you know?

      What, you'd rather have an anecdote from a random anonymous Internet person, than verifiable published factual evidence?

      Okay, my mate's ex-girlfriend's tennis partner's hairdresser once knew someone this happened to.

      But I'd prefer the evidence.

    6. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by haeger · · Score: 5, Interesting
      It happened to me.
      I was a witness, my personal info got to the criminals (probably through their attorney) and soon thereafter the threats started. I armed myself for a few months after that and was very careful where I went and I was very detailed on where I was going, how, and when I was expected to show up (or get back home) to my friends and family.

      Now I'll think twice before volunteering to be a witness again.

      .haeger
       

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    7. Re:Whatever, stalking mods by Blkdeath · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I am highly skeptical of any claims that a disappearing online friend could drive someone to suicide unless there were already some very, very major issues where just about anything else could also have that result.

      It wasn't a "disapearing online friend" at all. It was a contrived effort by a small group of adults and other teenagers, combining their intellects and talents to ruin a young girl. Mental instability or otherwise, that's horribly dispicable.

      Take a pair of adults. They form a profile for a "hot" young male. They make the now deceased fall in love with him; the first boy to find her physically attractive, as it was told. This is a significant moment in any young person's life - especially someone outside of the norm. People on this site should understand that better than most.

      Now these adults make the boy very convincingly friendly, the girl practically lives to see what he'll say next; it's pure infatuation for her. Hell, she's in love (or so her hormone filled brain would have her believe) and she's happier than she's ever been in her life.

      From there, you get the involvement of several of her peers. Vindictive, mean teenaged girls who know every detail about this girl and her life. Now they're not only posting this vitriol from her love interest, they're also posting public polls, surveys and notes bringing to light everything that this girl is self conscious about. Bringing to light personal, intimite things she's shared with this "boy" for all her school peers to see. Mocking her every word. Now she's not only heartbroken and unable to cope with it, but she knows that she'll be mocked and insulted and stared at by her entire neighborhood and school. She doesn't understand why this boy would turn on her and bring all her peers with him. She's gone from a girl with a love interest and something to live for to a girl nobody likes who will never fit in. Nobody will love her again.

      Teenage boys tend to take out their angst on one another with physical violence. Teenage girls tend towards crushing, emotionally crippling forms of psychological attack. This isn't the first time this has happened and certainly won't be the last.

      The most disgusting element to all this is the parents who started this in the first place. It's one thing to create a profile and befriend your daughter's former friend in order to dig up dirt, but it's another entirely to involve several teenage girls in the neighborhood (a clique, if you will) and not only allow, but encourage them to have their way with this girl's emotions.

      This goes beyond a stranger pretending to be something they're not. This was a contrived, deliberate attack on somebody by someone who had the ammunition to cause real harm. These adults should be tried and convicted of contributing to the girl's death. What they did was repugnant and should not be socially acceptable. The fact that their details leaked, largely due to their filing charges against the parents of the daughter they killed over something as trivial as a toy - a toy they had asked them to store for them?!? How low can you get? You kill peoples' daughter than ask them for favours like that? These people are sick and twisted and for what they've done to destroy another family I hope their lives are ruined. I feel no compassion for them and anybody who does is sorely misguided.

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  7. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Travoltus · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Outing alleged criminals is downright crazy. I've had to rethink my views on outing spammers because of that.

    You're right, of course - arrest records should be sealed until a verdict is reached, and then destroyed upon acquittal. I wonder what religious rightist or corporate statist argument that runs up against?

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  8. Simple problem by stox · · Score: 4, Funny

    Tie a rock to them and toss them in the water. If they float, they're a witch. If they sink, they're not a witch. Repeat as necessary.

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  9. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Achromatic1978 · · Score: 5, Insightful
    I gotta go with the first comment on the linked article:

    In reference to the first example, does information excluded by journalists for ethical reasons and then found by bloggers suggest that ethics should change? I hope not.

    I find very little credulity in the "You can't hide the truth from us" self-righteousness espoused by many of the bloggers involved in this. They merely saw what they could gain from the situation, not what was ethically or morally right.

    Cringeworthy. But sadly, amongst many niceties, what I've come to expect from the "blogosphere" (cringeworthy name, in itself). Self-righteous vitriol and hyperbole seem far too common. "We're the new journalists, your ways are outdated." Bleh. In the rush to try to be the next big thing, seems "stopping and thinking" is an impediment to "first to publish/be pinged/trackbacked/make the Top 100 on Technorati/get on as many blogrolls as possible".

  10. jokes on them by timmarhy · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Don't worry, in 10 years time when the blogging generation is attempting to climb the ladder, we will have untold piles of dirt on them from their emo highschool years.

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    1. Re:jokes on them by Zibblsnrt · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Presidential elections in twenty or thirty years are going to be hilarious.

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    2. Re:jokes on them by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And some folks wonder why Slashdot posters do so anonymously, or use aliases.

    3. Re:jokes on them by Kjella · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Presidential elections in twenty or thirty years are going to be hilarious In twenty or thirty years, we'll see people like that hillbilly in the RIAA case who had never used the Internet as president, since they're the only ones with no videos on YouTube. I'm not sure hilarious is the word I'm looking for...
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    4. Re:jokes on them by Colin+Smith · · Score: 2, Informative

      And some folks wonder why Slashdot posters do so anonymously, or use aliases. Not everyone.

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  11. there wasn't going to be a trial by circletimessquare · · Score: 3, Informative

    and there is fuzziness about guilt here, the perpetrator is known and fixed

    the local da was not going to press charges

    with all the heat, they say now they are going to review the case

    given that, the victim's parents decided to go public, against the advice of their lawyers, for exactly this effect: wide public knowledge and shaming of the perpetrator, and to warn people about what kind of mainpulations can go on

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    1. Re:there wasn't going to be a trial by insomnyuk · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Good for the parents in at least taken this public, if there is one redeeming factor out of all of this.

      The fact is, there is no FUZZY issue of guilt here - the fucking shit is clear as crystal - these adults were abusive towards a 13 yr old child w/ severe mental problems.

    2. Re:there wasn't going to be a trial by Kjella · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Guilty of not being very nice, sure. Guilty of much criminal? I don't know, depends on what was really said and done. You can say a lot of mean and hurtful things without it being criminal at all, or at most a misdemeanor. She may have had severe mental problems, but were they publicly known? From the sound of it, even her mother didn't realize the seriousness of her condition. Were they being really mean to her or would she have gone equally off the cliff when her first boyfriend broke up? One thing is to pass moral judgement on them for the deception, but you also need to take a reality check on how much they truly contributed to her suicide. If all it took was a fake profile and someone she'd never met in real life, it sounds to me like she was ready to jump already. Or maybe I'm just a cynic because I had worse and got through. It's just that if I think of all the people in my class and how much some of them was hurt at times, we'd have several suicide victims at that rate. Yes, punish those that make other people's lives hell, but don't punish them for other people's inability to cope with normal live. I've seen some of both...

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    3. Re:there wasn't going to be a trial by californication · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "If all it took was a fake profile and someone she'd never met in real life, it sounds to me like she was ready to jump already."

      You make what they did seem pretty harmless, but this fake profile was broadcasting "Megan Meier is cruel to her friends, Megan Meier is a slut" and other such remarks not just to the little girl, but to all her friends too. Try to remember what being a teenager was like, when our worlds were as small as our high schools. Know that suffering from clinical depression makes such situations even worse. The kicker is that it was a parent of a friend of the girl that started all this, a full grown adult who should know better.

      I'm not completely convinced if the neighbor should be charged with anything. I don't think they should server prison time, but having to fork over some money to the family of the deceased girl sounds like a fair reparation to me. I do feel that the unmasking of the neighboring parent's identity and the resulting national public shame they will have to deal with is definitely karmic. After all, if it isn't illegal to send someone messages over the internet calling them a cruel person and a slut, then it shouldn't be illegal for someone to send someone messages over the phone, via mail, etc, calling them murderers, evil people, neglectful parents or a shame to all of humanity.

  12. A novel idea... by dotancohen · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Here's a more novel idea... Don't even print the things that don't need to be printed. Anytime Myspace in particular or the Internet in general can be connected to a crime || suicide || nuclear war the press goes nuts with the idea. There is no story here other than a girl committed suicide, like hundreds of other troubled teens. Yes, it's a horrible phenomenon, but it's no story in itself. The journalist could have written about the suicide phenomenon (which goes back as far as history does) but that's not interesting. Myspace-assisted suicide apparently is.

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  13. The story isn't cut and dried. RTFA! by renbear · · Score: 5, Informative

    More information from a less hysterical view (compared to the bloggers' accounts) is available at http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/11/17/internet.suicide.ap/index.html. There's also a video clip including an interview with Megan's parents.

    This is a pretty messed up situation. The woman mentioned in the article summary is the mother of an ex-friend of Megan (the girl that committed suicide), and posed as a boy ("Josh") on MySpace trying to keep tabs on what Megan was saying about her daughter (Megan's ex-friend).

    Whether the woman created the "Josh" account is not up for debate-- it's from the police report*. Likewise, whether she pretended to be interested in the 14-year-old girl is not debatable. What is debatable is whether she was the person logged in to the "Josh" account when the taunting messages were sent, especially given three people from her family posed as "Josh", and were complicit in the deceit. Complicating matters, Megan's mother said the Wrong Thing At The Wrong Time to Megan, by the mother's account, minutes before the suicide. (It's abundantly clear she will never forgive herself for this.)

    As I said, it's pretty messed up. Were the mainstream media right in concealing the identity of the woman? I'm not so sure. It seems to me that too many times identities have been concealed, preventing true community backlash against perpetrators. It's clear the woman was at least partially culpable-- she didn't accidentally make the Josh character fall in love with Megan. On the other hand, the local community is already shunning the woman and her family, so is Internet Outrage really accomplishing any more?

    * Unintentionally leaked by CNN, and transcribed by a blogger using frame capture.

    1. Re:The story isn't cut and dried. RTFA! by DerekLyons · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It seems to me that too many times identities have been concealed, preventing true community backlash against perpetrators.

      Identities are concealed, as in this case, to protect the accused from community backlash. Folks often forget that the accused have rights as well. Forgeting to protect those rights, and encouraging a community backlash before they've had their day in court... Well that's headed back to bad old days of lynching and vigilante justice.
    2. Re:The story isn't cut and dried. RTFA! by renbear · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Identities are concealed, as in this case, to protect the accused from community backlash. Folks often forget that the accused have rights as well. Forgeting to protect those rights, and encouraging a community backlash before they've had their day in court... Well that's headed back to bad old days of lynching and vigilante justice. I can understand that, certainly. However, in this case, there wasn't going to be a day in court. The DA originally decided not to pursue charges. Only after the recent attention have they decided to review the case. What does the community do then? I'm not surprised the outrage built as far as it did.

      Personally, I suspect no charges were filed because of the fact most of the shenanigans were online only, and poorly understood by the officials involved. That's only speculation on my part, though.
    3. Re:The story isn't cut and dried. RTFA! by Score+Whore · · Score: 5, Funny

      I don't think you understand how the system really works. There are only two situations where "innocent until proven guilty" applies: 1) if you are illegally downloading copyrighted content(*), 2) you are smoking pot to stick it to the man. Then, even though what you are doing is against the law, you're innocent even though they caught you with a lit bong in one hand and adjusting your stylish pirate eye patch with the other while waiting for the latest Britney Spears album to upload(**). In all other cases the masses, I mean the self righteous, uber-sleuthing, information freedom fighters have a god given natural right to be entertained and proclaim guilt ignoring the processes of the courts.

      * - and then the claim that the bits on the wire spontaneously arranged themselves into a valid TCP/IP bit stream due to a quantum interaction of the large hadron collider and the heliosphereic current sheet, is considered a rock solid defense beyond both reasonable doubt and the preponderance of the evidence.

      ** - yes, Britney Spears, even though everybody on the entire planet realizes it's the same shit they record companies continue to put out and nobody wants to download it let alone buy it. Other than you and your hundred million best friends that is.

  14. Depression by king-manic · · Score: 4, Insightful

    That is a serious depressing story. Playing with someone like that is awful. I feel the fact the Drews were not going to be punished in any way to be sort of unjust but I'm sort of uncertain of this mob mentality is really how to go about it. Sure public shamming and the economic and social ruin of their lives seems about right but what happens when someone takes it a step further? It's so mixed up.

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  15. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Yaztromo · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What about "outing" alleged criminals? Long before a person is convicted of cleared of robbery/rape/murder/etc. charges, their name and picture (from which the rest of their personal information can be easily found) are in the public eye for all to see and judge, whether they are in any way guilty or not. A public record is as good as a criminal one.

    IMO all arrest records should be sealed until a conviction is reached, and should be erased and destroyed upon acquittal.

    What a brilliant idea -- let's give the police the power to arrest people, throw them into jail pending trial, and not tell anybody.

    The justice system needs transparency in a free and democratic society. What you're proposing has been done by all of the most oppressive regeimes in history as a way of making people "disappear". And while publishing an innocent persons arrest in a public manner may damage their public image, it's also a way to ensure that said person gets the best possible opportunity to defend themselves within the community. People who are secretly jailed never do.

    Yaz.

  16. Its a mad, mad, mad, mad world. by xPsi · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What disturbs me the most isn't that there are random assholes on MySpace (or the Internet, for that matter) taunting people (I don't like it, but assume this -- 30 milliseconds on any FPS multiplayer server desensitizes you to that). Nor that a girl committed suicide (which is sad). Nor is it that some wacko blogger decided to post public information in an act of vigilante blog-justice (which is indeed very strange and unsettling). It's the implications of the comments on the jezebel blog. The comments on the other linked sites in the article are similar. It is clear these people (do they represent a typical American cross section?), have this attitude like: "if its on the internet it must be true exactly how it is printed. I want blood NOW!" No critical thinking. No common sense. No reality testing. Just pure reactionary tooth-and-claw emotion. It is the worst sort of groupthink one can imagine (wait, sounds a little like another popular internet forum I know about...oh, nevermind). A couple examples. One blogger writes "I'm not a vengeful person when it comes to my own life, so it always surprises me that my first instinct when I hear of these things happening to others is to plot murder." Oh really? Good to know. How about "If there was a loving God, so many people would be sterile. The parents playing 'Josh' [the fake MySpace account] are a good example." It actually makes slashdot seem like a pretty reasonable, organized, dare I say, civil place. Its a mad, mad, mad, mad world.

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  17. Innocent until proven quilty by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 2, Insightful

    My my, you sure seem eager to convict and sentence this woman, and not just the woman but her entire family.

    Odd that if the RIAA wants to publish the names of people downloading, naming and shaming, people are against it, but in this case naming and shaming is a good thing. Why not bring out the tar and feathers. Hell why even bother with police at all, I got a rope right here and that tree looks sturdy enough.

    This woman is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Mob mentality is a serious issue, say this womans daughter now commits suicide, and come after YOU. Do you want all your personal info out there, to be judged by the mob?

    The reason the police and the press don't always publish everything is bloody simple.

    First off, it is to keep a bad situation from becoming even worse.

    But even more important, it is to keep information from becoming common knowledge to aid the investigation. The less details of the case are known to the general public the more likely a suspect can be pinned down on having knowledge they couldn't have unless they were involved.

    By publishing for instance what was said right before the suicide, the woman in question can no longer be indentified as the person who sent it if she shows knowledge of what had been said. Before she could only have known what was in the messages if she had seen them, when they were sent. Now, she can just claim she read it somewhere.

    But the most important thing here is, innocent until proven guilty. It is frightening how soon this is forgotten on slashdot just because this is a story about bloggers. IF a blogger was similarly convicted by the mob slashdot would be in a uproar.

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  18. This is a scary story by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Not for the details involved but for the slashdot reaction. a lot seem to be in support of the naming and shaming.

    That is nice, would they be just as supportive when the RIAA deciced to publish their names for illegal filesharing and they get expelled from their schools, told to leave their jobs, asked to resign from their clubs?

    There is a reason we put the law into the hands of the legal system and have deciced that lynchings are wrong. The simple problem is that of where does it end.

    Say that this woman's daughter now commits suicide, is it then right for her family to publish the bloggers personal details? Publicly try them on the internet?

    Innocent until proven guilty, presumption of innocence, trial by jury. My how quickly these ideals seem to be forgotten when blogging is involved. Note that when it is the other way around and some blogger gets exposed "slashdot" has shown an almost fanatical support for the sancitiy of privacy.

    A few months ago slashdot had a story about internet driven vigilantism in South-Korea where this kind of naming and shaming is claimed to be far more common, the odd thing was that then the general attitude seemed to be that this was an extremely bad idea.

    So how come that some slashdotters now support it? Is it the magic of the word blog? The idea that the MAN was outwitted, freedom by all means and damn the consequences?

    Should the dutch teens who stole items from an online game be named and shamed? Should the blogger who published this info have every part of his private life put on the web for all to see?

    Since this is a suicide where the whole community failed, why aren't they all being named and shamed. Why not print a list of all the people involved, everyone that could have talked to the girl, made friends with her, and publish them under the headline, "where were you!".

    Some people seem to think that blogs are a magical something, they are not. They used to exist before, they were called pamphlets and people with enough motivation would write them and print and distribute them and say in them what they wanted in the name of "The truth".

    They were back then the perfect tool to incite the mob. It is on paper, therefore it must be true, lets lynch them.

    A few years ago in england a woman's house was attacked because the mob thought she was a pedofile. The evidence was clear as day, she had a sign on her door that said so "Pediatrician".

    Consider this, if this woman is guilty of the suicide, then is any suicide that follows the publishing by the blogger the guilt of the blogger? What if the blogger is outed and kills himself? Where does it end?

    The community taking the law in their own hand, it sounds tempting and sometimes seems to be the only solution but it never works. The law often fails us, but we should then change the law, not simply ignore it.

    But think of this, do you really want there to be law that puts people to blaim if they said the wrong thing to a person who commits suicide? Better not mod me down, it might make me commit suicide.

    Should society decide who needs to be punished? I would dearly love to name and shame every drunk driver out there, everyone who ever hurt someone in an "accident" that could easily have been avoided.

    Before you support naming and shaming, ask yourselve wether someone else might not have you on their list.

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  19. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by vidarh · · Score: 2, Insightful
    Law enforcement REFUSED to deal with it. And let's face it, laws and how they are enforced is very political. It's not unexpected for a vacuum to be filled.

    That law enforcement didn't do anything is no excuse for vigilantism. If law enforcement doesn't do their job, you protest about law enforcement, not about someone you suspect of having done something wrong.

    The US government puts people at risk all the time by publishing the names and addresses of people deemed to be "sex offenders" (I use this term lightly for the US, because of all the FUD and extremist politics).

    Ahh... The old "someone else does it too" defense. I suppose this means you think it's ok to murder too, since some states have the death penalty.

    Yes crowds can be dangerous. People can be dangerous, but keeping something that obviously has a large public interest a secret is wrong (and unrealistic). Sometimes you just got to let the chips fall where they may and find out what type of society we live in.

    Lynch mobs rarely do research. There's plenty of examples where media has been directly responsible in causing attacks on people by publishing names and addresses or pictures which people could have easily found for themselves, but the kind of people who go out and do that kind of crap are not usually the same kind of people that put in the effort to find out their identities.

    There IS a huge difference between making information available and making it easily accessible or pushing it in peoples faces.

    Personally I don't want a society where people do the equivalent of shaking a red cloth in front of a bull regularly in the name of "public interest" - it's at best tasteless, and at worst dangerous. I strongly believe that anyone doing this should be equally responsible for any illegal act carried out as a result - hopefully that would be a deterrent.

  20. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by vidarh · · Score: 2, Insightful
    None of the points you have listed make ANY difference. AT ALL. Or have YOU forgotten "innocent until proven guilty"?

    There's a large difference between the name being possible to find by going to the right places, and having it plastered all over the place. What is the purpose? The only purpose I can see of posting their identity is that people hope that "someone" is going to do something with that information.

    That's at best disgusting and makes people who does it scum in my eyes.

    If law enforcement isn't doing their job, then you protest against law enforcement, you don't take enforcement into your own hands.

  21. These people weren't outed. by pallmall1 · · Score: 2, Informative

    Read the story, and note who filed a police report. They put themselves on the public record a long time ago.

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  22. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by NMerriam · · Score: 3, Interesting

    If law enforcement isn't doing their job, then you protest against law enforcement, you don't take enforcement into your own hands.

    how do you protest against law enforcement? Yhe whole purpose of this recent publicity was precisely to push law enforcement into action by stoking public outrage.

    the world is not a court of law. "Innocent until proven guilty" is a legal standard, not a moral one. There is no question about this woman's actions, or her identity. There are no significant facts in dispute, only legal and moral culpability. And yes, individuals and communities do have the right to judge moral culpability for themselves, with or without your permission.

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  23. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 2, Insightful

    What a brilliant idea -- let's give the police the power to arrest people, throw them into jail pending trial, and not tell anybody. Good job on totally misunderstanding the original poster's point.

    He was not proposing that the police "not tell anybody" -- only that the decision to release the information about an arrest be up to the accused at least as long as the accused had not been found guilty.

    The NCIC, as just one example, is full of partial records that indicate arrest and even indictment but not acquittal.
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  24. Re:if only there were charges by Opportunist · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Explain to me where the crime is.

    Because that glove fits the other way around too. If someone doesn't break the law but "wrongs" you somehow, just go and blow the horn until everyone and their dog talks about it and cries bloody murder, so the police has to dig up something to create some trial.

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  25. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by Eivind+Eklund · · Score: 4, Informative
    In Norway, we have that limitation: The media is not allowed to divulge the identity of an accused, unless the person is already a public person or there is another compelling reason (suspicion of false arrest would likely be counted as one).

    We do not seem to have much of a problem with false arrests; the only problems I know of are the usual ones of the prosecution sometimes going "gung ho" (wanting to convict SOMEBODY no matter what, to save face) and occasional abuse of the "Police can put somebody in detention for 24 hour before pressing charges". Overall, it seems to work fine, and the hiding of identity from media publication seems to only be positive.

    Eivind.

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  26. No, you're confusing two different things by JavaRob · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not an "either/or" situation. We aren't choosing between complete transparency vs. no transparency whatsoever.

    The goal is a fair and structured hearing, and punishment or acquittal based on the laws, decided by a jury & judge as impartial as possible.

    With no transparency, the police can ignore the laws, and you might never see a jury at all.

    With complete transparency, any "interesting" crime will be first judged by the public, based on third and fourth-hand information with no legal repercussions for errors (it's not *perjury* when the local rag prints gossip and rumors that are dead wrong), and the jury will be tainted by exposure to this mess, and the accused will be punished by the public even if acquitted by the legal system.

    Think the public has no real power to exact punishment? You don't even need vigilante gunmen, though that can happen. No laws need be broken, though they might be. But "the public" includes your boss (soon-to-be former boss?), your neighbors (and their kids), the checkout person at the grocery store, your mailman, the guys at the bar, the technician from the phone company, the plumber, the teenagers at the mall, the pizza delivery guy, everyone. If your face is all over the web, if your home address and home phone are all over the web... well, first of all, they'll be all over the web for the rest of your life, because this stuff doesn't go away. Secondly, most people won't even say anything (they'll just stare after you as you leave), but you come into contact with hundreds of people... some of them will probably do something. Some people will actively seek you out to punish you, because vigilante justice is awfully tempting... I'll bet that's already happening with this family.

    With the "power of the internet", now they don't just need to worry about getting snubbed by the people on their street. They have to worry what percentage of the, say, 2 million people who've seen their address and phone number will actively contact them. 0.01 percent? Mom, there's 200 people at the door. They want to talk to you and dad. Are my numbers too low?

    So yeah, we need a balance.

    This story is horrible and sad, and I want everyone to read it and realize that the online world is real, and in some ways it's more dangerous than the offline world. You can do things you'd never be cruel enough to do to someone's face, and cruelty has real consequences.

    But I don't want to know where this family lives.

  27. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by ta+bu+shi+da+yu · · Score: 5, Insightful

    A number of Wikipedia users were "outed" by the website Perverted Justice (PEEJ). Not one of the users was what they said it was, and it named a few users (including myself) as supporters of child molesters. Eventually, PEEJ retracted the statements, but only very reluctantly.

    The problems here are that:

    a. What happens when the bloggers get it wrong? Let's say they accidentally type in the neighbour's address. Some poor bastard who had nothing do with the issue gets targeted.
    b. The bloggers are by and large anonymous also. It's sheer hypocrisy for them to hide behind a blog pseudonym and publish someone else's details.
    c. There is a reason we don't have martial law. Vigilantism is never a good move, mistakes are made, it bypasses due process and the right to a fair trial, innocent people are hurt. That's why Western democracies have the legal system they do: sure, it ain't perfect, but I'd rather us have a legal system that let uninformed bloggers pass judgement and mete out punishment.

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  28. Blame Darwin or Megan's Parents by DeanFox · · Score: 3, Interesting


    My thinking is less focused on the idiot "adult" who did this scam as it is on her parents.

    Megan did not survive long enough to reproduce. Fault? Blame Darwin or Megan's parents. Take your pick. Or, perhaps parents in general nowadays.

    Let me explain. Megan had problems and felt bad about herself? Why? (actual question, not a setup) She was beautiful. Where were her parents? How in the fcuk could a beautiful girl like that grow up not believing, *knowing* she has value.

    I tell you waht (sic), when I felt bad about myself going through puberty, and kids do, I was *corrected* by my parents. Corrected as in almost short of discipline in a way. I was corrected for not thinking. That was followed by a very understanding and thoughtful teaching by my parents. They did what they were supposed too do and taught me self respect, correct body image (with what I had to work with) with proportional value in what a pimple actually means in the grand scheme of things. What an adult should be thinking.

    It is unfathomable to me that what someone said could bring a person to suicide. And, I blame Megan's parents. Megan, at 13, was on psychotic drugs? WTF!? Sure, the "adult" who perpetrated this scam needs psychiatric help but the suicide I put on her parents.

    My son was only on loan to me. And I took my parenting job very seriously. It was the most important achievement I was tasked with as a human being. On a scale of 10 with parenting on top, even paying the mortgage falls in at about 2. Nothing comes before raising a child. At least for me. (Thank you Mom and Dad).

    What I returned was a happy, well adjusted, contributing member of society. Someone who thankfully doesn't understand the need for plastic surgery. I guarantee there's nothing, not one thing you could say, even as a teenager, that would even bring him close to suicide. Knowing my son, I suspect you're more likely to get a polite and understanding "thank you" after rejecting him than any other response. He understands that rejection, in the long run, is a blessing. Why didn't Megan understand this? Their little snowflake is gone. And I blame them; they can blame Darwin and you can think whatever you want too. As far as I'm concerned, they fcuked up IM,NOH,O.

    -[d]-

  29. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by RodgerDodger · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Ummm... you want arrest records sealed?

    "Officer, my husband never came home from work yesterday - I want to lodge a missing person's report"
    "Sorry ma'am, he's not missing."
    "Then where is he?"
    "Sorry ma'am, I'm not allowed to say. That information has been restricted for privacy reasons. Oh, and it looks like he never got around to consenting that you could access his private information in regards to dealing with local law enforcement."

    Yeah, like that would bloody work.

    Arrests are public for the good of society - so that the government can't just lock people up and not admit to it. The individual's private need is outweighed by the need to see that the government isn't abusing its authority.

    Oh, wait... you're American, right?

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  30. Re:There should be a law against people who do thi by hedwards · · Score: 3, Informative

    The public's right to know what government is up to and free speech. Except the public doesn't have the right to know everything that happens. That is often times cited when a journalist wants to go on a fishing expedition for embarrassing things that celebrities may have done. Which usually is that a couple are sleeping around or may be getting married really isn't something that the public has a right to know about.

    The essence of the publics' right to know is about public issues and the portion of private ones which would enable them to be better informed on the way that public policy should be formed or how to avoid somebody else's tragic mistake. Neither of those are served by finding the name of those that weren't already named in the article.

    Its soft news journalism that reports on things which wouldn't be interesting had it been done by normal every day people.

    In this case, I think that the bloggers in this case ought to feel really badly about having engaged in this sort of shenanigans. At this point, the woman had been reported to the sheriff's office, and there is a possible suit in the future. What they've done is managed to harm everybody involved in this that isn't already dead. Even then, I get the feeling that they would have pissed on her grave if they thought that could make a better story.
  31. Re:Does nobody see the delightful irony? by ph4s3 · · Score: 2, Funny

    Fantastic take on this. I agree whole heartedly. Except that I'd throw her on the mercy of the fiery internet. Don't you hate how /. doesn't have an edit button? :- )

    Regardless, whether she burns in this life or the next I have no doubt that she's a witch.

  32. Just because we *can* do something... by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ...that doesn't mean we should.

    It's an old saying, but no less truthful for it. Modern technology makes communication, data storage and research into effectively free commodities. These things can be used for many constructive purposes, but a natural side effect is a loss of privacy.

    The thing is, society has adopted privacy as an accepted cultural value for good reasons. Society also typically frowns on vigilantism for good reasons. No-one is perfect, and if you tend towards a system where there is some dirt to dig up on everyone and if you choose to share it then you can bring down disproportionate consequences on anyone you don't like, then no-one is ever safe from the screwed up people.

    In a way, this is no different to any other criminal behaviour. You can't systematically prevent it, any more than you can systematically prevent someone from driving their car at reckless speeds and causing an accident, or from betraying the confidence of an ex-partner they no longer get on with to her friends or new partner, or from beating up a smaller kid in school when the teachers aren't looking. But these things are all the actions of someone deeply unpleasant, and society frowns on them, tries to prevent them as much as possible, and punishes them when it can.

    What is different is simply that this whole context is new. A lot of people — particularly, it must be said, a lot of young people — are enjoying a kind of freedom and collective power that previous generations have not, but they don't yet understand the responsibility that comes with that freedom. Because it's so new, it's an alien concept to the adults responsible for teaching them, and mistakes are made. (There is an obvious parallel here with big businesses getting away with things because privacy laws haven't yet caught up.)

    In time, I hope this will pass, and society will come to frown on invasion of privacy and sharing information without due respect in the same way that we frown on violence or blackmail today. But I'm afraid we're going to take a few years learning some hard lessons, and there are likely to be an unfortunately large number of relatively innocent victims along the way. As with any form of growing up, the road to maturity is sometimes a painful one. At least when you get there, you usually find others have walked the same path and can forgive youthful indiscretions.

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  33. there should be a trial by sanman2 · · Score: 2

    They were guilty of playing with her fucking head man -- in a despicably malicious way. She was vulnerable, and they drove her over the edge. She's now DEAD. She's lost her life, for fuck's sakes. That family is destroyed and without a daughter.

    This is worse than that attempted Texas teenage cheerleader murdering mom thing.

    How about if your daughter were stabbed with a knife? Would you merely call that "not nice"? They killed her, man.