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How To Convince My Boss Not To Spam?

An anonymous reader writes "The small travel agent that I work for recently received an email from one of our competitors with several thousand of their potential customers in the 'To:' and 'Cc:' fields. My boss now wants to use these addresses to send unsolicited advertisements. I would like to convince him not to do this, as I believe that this practice is morally wrong and legally dubious. However, morals don't go very far in the business world, so I'm asking Slashdot: what business-oriented arguments can I use to dissuade my boss from spamming?"

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  1. my $0.02 by tomalpha · · Score: 5, Informative

    I reckon you've got a few options:

    1. point him towards your country's relevant legislation: UK (and in non-legalese) or US
    2. explain why spam is so annoying because it's intrusive and it makes it harder to read wanted messages in your inbox
    3. explain that spamming 1000 people may get him 1 extra sale, but it will piss off the other 999 to the extent that some of them will go out of their way to avoid trading with you

    Ok, so you're dealing with a sales-focussed person here, the only one likely to carry any weight is going to be last one and even then, you may be onto a losing streak. Assuming this person controls your pay packet, you're either going to have to put up a token resistance and then keep your mouth shut; or perhaps if you have the option, consider whether you want to be working for someone like that...

    1. Re:my $0.02 by bhima · · Score: 5, Funny

      I think you left out the most obvious. Post his private mail address here and the Slashdot mob will tell him.

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    2. Re:my $0.02 by tomalpha · · Score: 5, Funny

      I was trying to be as constructive as possible. That said - I do like your style.

    3. Re:my $0.02 by shri · · Score: 5, Funny

      Given the number of dumbarse "reply all" mails I get, I doubt there is any legislation which prevents you from doing a reply all. "Dear Competitor, Not sure why you sent us an email. We happen to be a similar business as you and offer far better services and cheaper rates than your business. Please unsubscribe us from your mailing list, as the specials that you've offered had us rolling in the aisles. Signed, Pointy Haired Boss"

    4. Re:my $0.02 by aproposofwhat · · Score: 5, Interesting
      My option?

      Email all the customers on the list, telling them that the competitor has exposed their email address by their actions, and proposing that you supply their travel needs while guaranteeing that every email communication will be sent individually.

      Ethical (you're exposing bad practice on the part of your competitor) and good business.

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    5. Re:my $0.02 by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I think the bottom line really is what has to be addressed as well, but explain it in other terms.
      1. The legal risk is nothing to sneeze at. Explain patiently that there are liability issues involved in sending unsolicited mail, that it is rapidly becoming illegal and that he ought to run it past his legal advisor first. (As a small travel agency, this will cost money as the lawyer/solicitor is not in-house).
      2. Many spam filters also subscribe to blacklists, and sending unsolicited mail will get him on one of these lists. This will make it harder to perform normal correspondence, as regular customers and business contacts will have problems receiving mail. It will cost time and money to undo that.
      3. If he doesn't have a mailing list set up yet with options to unsubscribe or other functions, it will take time (and money) to set it up.

      I would argue that for his business, the effort and risk involved makes sending unsolicited mail a losing proposition, that the hidden costs of setting up and maintaining the mailing list makes it non-profitable. Sending unwanted mails is not like distributing flyers, not even like unsolicited telephone calls, as there is less chance of getting past filters.

      If you're the computer guy, I would tell him that it's an idea that the agency should only explore after Projects X, Y, and Z are done, as they have a better chance of generating new business at less cost. Then let it die from neglect.
    6. Re:my $0.02 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      I do believe you meant '//./'

      also, get out

    7. Re:my $0.02 by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 5, Informative
      That might look like fun, but in reality it has two things going against it:
      1. It's work setting it up. Who wants to spend time making it so that it isn't an obvious spoof?
      2. Spoofing your competitor is a really bad idea, legally. We are talking opening yourself up to lawsuits here that could drive you bankrupt, never mind criminal law.

      I realise you probably were trying to be humorous, but you never know who might get the wrong idea reading these threads. Best to state the obvious anyway...
    8. Re:my $0.02 by Chapter80 · · Score: 5, Interesting
      As others have said, this technique works great. But the way it worked well for me was to reply as if you are doing a personal reply to the original sender, and accidentally pressed reply all. This is best done if it's immediate. Like:

      Bob- Thanks for the info.

      On another note, I wanted to let you know that we released Rev 2 of our software package for lawyers, and just finished three successful implementations. All three are thrilled with the productivity gains and want to act as reference accounts.

      If you know of anyone legal firms looking to improve their productivity, let me know. And we're still interested in the partnership idea that you guys mentioned. Let me know where that stands.

      For best results, change the address of the original sender (your competitor) slightly, so he doesn't even get it. But to all his customers, it looks like he did.

      This technique is proven!

    9. Re:my $0.02 by zeromorph · · Score: 5, Funny

      Aren't we the personal swiss army knife of social engineered DoS attacks? (Post it, we slash it down.)

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      "Hannibal's plans never work right. They just work." Amy/A-Team
    10. Re:my $0.02 by gmack · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I had this problem as well. At a place I used to work the girl came into my office with a CD labeled "opt in email addresses" that she bought on ebay that looked like it had been harvested by a web scraper and then not even filtered for postmaster/root/abuse accounts. My objections were overruled even after I found my friend on the list and asked him if he had opted in to anything.

      Best I could do was send the email in smaller batches (10 000) that would limit the fallout and just pretend I'd sent the full 500 000 emails in the batch that would be just enough to piss the ISP off and get them to threaten to shut the connection and scare them into not doing it again but not enough to force an immediate termination.

      Bosses can be stupid.

    11. Re:my $0.02 by smilindog2000 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Back in the early '90s, I worked at QuickLogic when Lattice was trying to buy us. The deal went pretty far. We had a letter of intent, and had even shared our customer list with them. I like to believe that Lattice's CEO believed me when I told him most of us would rather fail completely than give up the dream of independent success, all the way to an IPO. The next day, the deal was scrapped.

      Lattice e-mailed our customer list to every one of their regional sales managers. Let's face it... business is war. It's not pretty out there.

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    12. Re:my $0.02 by mysticgoat · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Oh, definitely do something like the "accidental 'reply all'" strategy:

      Hi George! I see that you decided to go ahead with the spam advertising approach despite the risks. More power to you. We've definitely dropped that idea... it is too likely to piss off our core of loyal clients.

      We're still doing the 'traditional quality' thing: trying to arrange the best possible tour packages for each price point. It is not a 'get rich quick' approach, but we're all making a good living at doing what we like to do, and that counts for a lot.

      Our company has decided to back off on those talks about some kind of partnership with your company. We think that our corporate values are too different from yours for that to work out, at least for now.

      Looking forward to seeing you again at next year's trade show! If they have it in the same place, we could share lunch again at that italian restaurant with the excellent menu.

      [Sign with title, company name, etc]

      Also definitely move the mailing list into a database of some kind, so you can cross reference it with your client lists. If a significant portion of your clients are on their mailing list, then you might have a problem of some kind. You might also use this as one source for building targeted mailing lists, but it wouldn't be wise to use it directly. See next point.

      Tell your boss that the people on this list have already seen junk email from the competitor and are likely to regard anything you send out as just more junk email, so normal spamming would actually be counter productive. This is especially true since undoubtedly other businesses are harvesting these addresses, and will be pumping out spam to these people.

  2. Spamhaus by j_sp_r · · Score: 5, Informative

    Explain that sending spam might put your email server on the Spamhaus blacklist, OR pissing of your provider, so you cannot send email again to existing clients.

  3. Spam is filtered by apetrelli · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Simply tell him that, usually, spam is filtered and deleted automatically. Once he sent a sufficiently large amount of spam, the filter will filter away the legitimate e-mails too.

  4. Teach him by Hal_Porter · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Get his home email address

    Enter it here (don't visit from work, do it from a web cafe and behind 7 proxies)

    http://www.spamyourenemies.com/

    After a while he'll go off the idea. You might want to recommend Thunderbird to him.

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    1. Re:Teach him by erikina · · Score: 5, Funny
      Hey, cool site. I added a few addresses. Then after some consideration, I added my email address (to see how much spam, and how good my filtering is), and got this message:

      That email address has already been submitted!

      I guess I'm not too popular.. (Luckily I use gmail for my domain, and out of ~2000 monthly spam, only 2 hit my inbox. And only 1 false positive to date)
  5. Point out the negative effects by julesh · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Here's some of the stuff that's likely to happen to your company if it sends those messages:

    * Your mail server will be added to blacklists. Legitimate messages you send later may disappear with no indication that they have done so, causing endless frustration and possibly lost money.
    * Complaints may reach your web site's hosting provider, who may take it offline. Seriously: this happened to one of my clients once. This does happen.
    * Some recipients are likely to be annoyed and may decide to never do business with your company. The long-term costs of this could be significant.
    * Depending on where you're based, this could be illegal under either protection of privacy laws (e.g. the UK's Data Protection Act) or anti-spam laws (e.g. several state laws in the U.S.). Your company may receive a hefty fine because of it.

    1. Re:Point out the negative effects by Gordonjcp · · Score: 5, Funny

      Let him send the spam, and then:

      * Your mail server will be added to blacklists.

      Make sure this happens

      * Complaints may reach your web site's hosting provider, who may take it offline.

      Make sure this happens

      * Some recipients are likely to be annoyed and may decide to never do business with your company.

      Make sure he receives some email telling him why customers are upset

      * Depending on where you're based, this could be illegal under either protection of privacy laws (e.g. the UK's Data Protection Act) or anti-spam laws (e.g. several state laws in the U.S.). Your company may receive a hefty fine because of it.


      Make sure someone grasses him up to the appropriate authorities.

      Oh, and make sure your CV is up to date.

  6. Business is war,weakling ! The business Gods RAGE by assemblerex · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Stealing your competitor's customers is what capitalism is.

    You need to separate your hate of spam from the realities of business:

    Ethical, kind people go bankrupt.

    I have my own company, and if this happened to me I would be working this gift from God HARD.

  7. this will go completely against the grain here by jacquesm · · Score: 5, Insightful

    So, at the risk of blowing my karma for the next 200 years:

    Either do the job or quit.

    Seriously. You got hired to do his bidding, if he wants to spam let him reap the consequences, make careful note of your objections. Then also admit you're a tool.

    And if you can't live with that then grow some backbone and quit. There has to be other employment for someone with your skills.

    1. Re:this will go completely against the grain here by Opportunist · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'd quit if I notice my boss doesn't want my input but only my work force. The latter will sooner or later be replaced by some kind of script.

      I usually get hired to do exactly what the OP wants to do: Tell my boss why some of his ideas ain't so bright. A boss who wants his employees to "do his biddings", without objection or at least suggestion, hopefully has some large corporation around him to fend off his bloopers or he'll face bankrupcy soon (another reason to go look for a new job if he does). Managers rarely care or even know about the subtle social problems technical solutions create, and the smart ones are quite thankful when you keep them from putting their foot into it. Most do care about their "face" with their peers, or do you think he wants to hear "oh, so that was the tard that flooded our mailserver" next time his superior grants him the favor of inviting him to a golf game with his buddies?

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    2. Re:this will go completely against the grain here by vidarh · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I'd never hire anyone who exhibited your attitudes. I don't hire people to "do my bidding". I hire people to do a job, and that job includes providing advice on areas where they know better (or thing they do ;) ), and being able to argue for why they think I'm wrong when they disagree with me.

      Someone who doesn't stand up for their principles and raise their objections and put up a fight when it's something they really care about isn't a worthwhile employee. And someone who runs off like a little hurt puppy and quits without trying to change my mind first when I want to do something they think is wrong definitively isn't a worthwhile employee.

      If I wanted "yes men", then the job ads would say so.

      And so far that's an attitude I've shared with every manager I've had.

      I've had heated arguments with every single one of them over things I thought were idiotic ideas. None of them have had a problem with that, because I've always kept it strictly about the issues at hand. If any of them HAD given me a hard time about standing up to them, then I probably would have left, as it would be a sure sign they're idiots.

      If you seriously feel you were "hired to do his bidding", then I'm certainly glad you're not working for me; I don't want minions, I want professionals.

  8. Re:Business is war,weakling ! The business Gods RA by assemblerex · · Score: 5, Funny

    So, ehmm, would you tell us a little more about your business so we all know who to avoid? You'll figure it out when you get the email.
  9. Obvious really by optilude · · Score: 5, Insightful

    1. It's an abuse of personal data, since the owner of that data (the individual) did not opt in. In many countries (particularly the UK) this is illegal and can land you in a lot of trouble.

    2. If you're a small company, your reputation is going to be worth a lot more than one or two customers who may answer your email. Doing something that's at worst illegal and and at best irritating is hardly going to help your reputation.

    3. Business ethos and ethics matter. As a consumer, I often know that dealing with a small company could cost slightly more than buying from a large one with economies of scale. However, I may feel it is worth it if the service is better or if I identify positively with the company. I have broken off relations in the past with companies that marketed too aggressively. This is entirely rational behaviour and not something limited to techies who "get" spam and are over-protective of their inboxes.

    Cheers,
    Martin

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  10. Re:You can't. Spamming them will make the company by drmerope · · Score: 5, Informative

    And is the right choice, if done smoothly. Don't mass email. Investigate each contact send a personalized note targeted at them and their business.

    Use the information, just don't abuse it. Spam is quick and dirty, but a poor substitute for the elbow grease of real salesmanship.

  11. Tell him tt's a trap by DCFC · · Score: 5, Interesting

    My company has a variety of contact lists, and if any of them were to "leak", by CC etc, I'd start getting emails on addresses that *look* like real people but are in fact aliases for me.

    If you boss spams like this, there exists the possibility that the other firm have taken this elementary precaution, which may be anything from seriously embarrassing to legally expensive.

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    Dominic Connor,Quant Headhunter
    1. Re:Tell him tt's a trap by InfoHighwayRoadkill · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Many companies who sell lists of addresses either postal or email add in seed addresses. In theory you only "rent" the list not own it. So if they see mail coming to their dummy addresses x years in the future they will know who kept the data after the rental limit.

      There are even dummy addresses in the white and yellow pages to prevent unscrupulous businesses sending the phone books to somewhere cheap to get them copy typed into a database. If you ring the number no one answers but your caller ID is recorded. If you send them mail thats checked too. How do I know this. A company I used to work for got caught doing just this.

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  12. Problems with "advertising" by 91degrees · · Score: 5, Informative

    The response rate to this sort of advertising is extremely low. He'll be lucky to get a single response, thus making it not worth the time to compose an email.

    Most people react badly to unsolicited emailed advertisements. It is likely that some of these people are already customers or potential customers. This will dissuade them from choosing your company in the future.

    If any customers are in the EU, you may have a data protection liability. Even if you don't, at least some people will respond requesting to be removed from the mailing list, which is something that will have to be dealt with.

    It's very likely to be against the terms and conditions of your ISP.

    It is possible that you will be blacklisted by the recipients ISPs (unlikely if he does this once)

    There may be some legal ramifications for taking advantage of an obvious mistake by the other company. Even just a baseless legal threat would take time and money to deal with.

  13. Re:You can't. Spamming them will make the company by mlush · · Score: 5, Insightful

    And is the right choice, if done smoothly. Don't mass email. Investigate each contact send a personalized note targeted at them and their business. Use the information, just don't abuse it. Spam is quick and dirty, but a poor substitute for the elbow grease of real salesmanship.

    The things you see when you don't have any mod points :-(

    Anyway Absolutely spot on, a competitors mailing list is marketing golddust, you could probably get a lot of sales data without too much hassle, emails going to the same company would be a good target indicator. Google API searching with the email domain could winnow out the people with websites (

  14. You're modded "Funny"... by Doctor+O · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...but actually I think it's insightful. We keep getting such stupid mail, too, and I've done exactly what you suggest, with good results. ;)

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  15. Point him at Seth Godin's books by cliffski · · Score: 5, Informative

    point him at this:

    http://www.sethgodin.com/permission/

    Seth Godin is the marketing guru who advised google on how to succeed in business. he knows his stuff, and he is MASSIVELY anti spam.
    Tell your boss he needs to read the guys book before he does something that could wreck his business.

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  16. Re:Subscribe him by thermian · · Score: 5, Funny

    better still, post your question to slashdot with enough information that anyone with half a brain could know you were talking about them, and get fired.

    Problem solved....

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  17. Re:Use a sex / romance analogy by thermian · · Score: 5, Funny

    In the rare event of success the result is more likely to be ... a less than satisfactory arrangement (e.g. ugly woman, one night stand, STDs, etc.)

    So you're saying there's a chance it might work?

    Hmmm..

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  18. The power of information by Mathinker · · Score: 5, Insightful

    > gmail's spam filtering beats Thunderbird's handily

    And in this, we see an faint echo of the enormous power in the information that Google collects:

    1) They have a lot more training data

    2) They can make a comparative analysis to catch large batches of largely identical messages which arrive at their servers within short time periods