With a Computer Science Degree, an Old Man At 35?

GrApHiX42 writes "I pissed away my 20s and now I want to go to school and get a bachelor's degree in computer science. The thing is, I'll be 35 when I get out of school, and I've read on numerous sites that there seems to be some ageism going on in the IT industry when it comes to older geeks. What have some of the 'older' Slashdot readers experienced as far as being replaced or just plain not getting hired because IT is a 'young man's game'?"

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Just go for it

[Lysol]

I'm pushing 40 this year. Been programming most of my life. Never completed my CS degree. Worked on some fairly high profile projects in NYC, Chicago, San Francisco. I would say tho, at this point in my life, I'm definitely at the Sr. level and if I was to apply for a 'real' job it would be a Director or VP/CTO position - probably in a small startup.

I know of friends consulting companies that have guys in their 20's-40's. Other friends work for big software companies and have similar age groups. In the end, if you're a good programmer and not over 50 ;) then you shouldn't have a problem. But at some point, you're going to probably start your own company or be at a level above 'straight out of schoole 20-something coder'.

I wouldn't worry about the ageism thing at 35.

Re:Yes, go for it.

[TapeCutter]

"If you love it do it"

I dropped out of HS at 16, after more than a decade in labouring/factory jobs I went to university and graduated at 31 with a BSc with majors in CS and OR. I had a family at the time and still managed to make a few bucks driving cabs. I picked that course to get into the industry but I loved programming my AppleII well before I thought I could make money by programming.

I am now 50 and still "in demand". Not one year since graduating in 1991 have I failed to exceed the average national take home pay by a respectable margin.

Re:Yes, go for it.

[scoove]

Outstanding advice. I went back ~35 after a career up until then in network engineering and information security, though I went back and picked up a finance degree. gw0ntum makes a valuable addition. You're going to find it awkward, especially when you have some profs your age or even younger. Some suggestions I'd make:

1. BE HUMBLE: even if you're an alpha, don't play one. set it aside and adopt an alternate persona. your classmates not only don't want to hear about your experience but they're ready to reject you if you show any signs of it. instead, humility is your friend. when you kick ass in assignments and show you're naturally good at some things, your younger classmates will likely respect you then for it. but always keep the humility as your persona. they're going to be intimidated by the age difference and when they find that 15-20 years of age difference really doesn't mean jack u-know-what, they'll be cool with you.

2. HANDLE PROFS CAREFULLY: show your creativity, innovativness, eagerness, etc. by DOING, not by saying. this screws so many nontraditional students up. yes, its important to let the prof know you're eager to learn/succeed. but do it by doing, not by showing off. understand that you're an outlier, so every subtle action you make in the classroom will have 10x the effect. this pisses off your classmates and makes your prof uncomfortable.

3. FIND YOUR PERSONA AND STICK TO IT: my dad's long-time faculty at a university that has a good amount of nontraditional students. i've learned that even the faculty has stereotypes of the nontrads. eager beavers (over-eager volunteer for everything desperate to show their worth low self esteem types), suck-ups (total poseurs that will flunk out but will suck up at first and try to play the 'hey prof, i'm a grown-up like you, give me preference'), one-class-ponys (typically 60+ gals who take one class and blow the damn curve cuz they have no freaking life outside of that one class), over-committers (usually the nontrads who have just come back to academic world and are so clingy and over-committing trying to prove their worth to self and prof), and dominators (nontrads that want to give input to everything, dominate the discussion, share their "worldly" experience on everything and embarrass everyone in the room except themselves). Those are not good choices. Find something subtle, quiet and driven. Sit in the front row, kick ass and let your work show your drive. Let the prof call you out because you get stuff right. They will balance the dialog and keep you from being seen as a show-off - hey, when your work is good, that's the game.

4. FRIENDSHIPS: Be open, kind and friendly to all. I ended up with friends spanning the total range - from girl jocks to geeks to poet-thinkers to hard core achievers. All I had to do was smile, be relaxed, be damn good, and be a team player.

It's a weird situation but if you handle it right, it'll be very rewarding, and that degree does open up tons of doors. Good luck!

Re:Yes, go for it.

[tomhudson]

Recent research actually shows that mental faculties begin to decline as early in life as the 20's. Kids don't seem sharper, they ARE sharper. That isn't to say that there isn't more to being a good employee or that older individuals don't have their own advantages but there is a basis for IT discrimination based on age.

ecent research actually shows that some people's mental faculties begin to decline as early in life as the 20's.

There - fixed that for you.

The truth is a lot simpler - most people put their brains in neutral after they get out of school.

The brain is like any other tissue - use it or it atrophies. Even BONE will leach its' calcium if it's not subjected to regular stress from such ordinary things as walking around.

The average person doesn't read books any more. They get their information from the echo chamber of the internet - in short, ephemeral snippets that register on the eyeballs but not the brain, because 2 seconds later, they're onto the next "oh shiny!"

Then thare are those people for which life is a continuous learning experience - not just because we have to keep learning to stay current, but because our curiosity leads us to continue learning, continue integrating new facts and attitudes into our knowledge of ourselves and the world around us. BTW - there are also studies that show that most "genius" is probably the result of a combination of that curiosity, plus persistence.

Staying up to date will never restore your cognitive abilities to the level they were at when you were 22 and they peaked or 27 when they begin to show a measurable decline.

You can have my cognitive abilities when you pry them from my cold, dead brain!

Re:Yes, go for it.

[laughing_badger]

When the ball goes under the coffee table, and the kid goes under to get it - you know exactly what is going to happen next. The kid is going to stand up, full speed, and bang the hell out of his head on the underside of the table.

I spotted my 2-yr old do this the other day, hard but not so hard as to provoke screaming. He spent the next minute carefully proving that it was hitting his head on the table that had caused the pain, and then hitting it again a couple of times very gently and then a bit harder to see when it hurt. I was astounded at the level of reasoning going on as he worked out what had happened to his head and how it had been caused.