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Of Science and Choice In Online Dating

Must be summertime, as online publications turn to the contemplation of Internet dating. The NY Times's piece (registration may be required) takes a not particularly deep look at the reality behind the "science" claims of chemistry.com, eHarmony.com, and others. "The question is how much it really matters to users if the methods have any scientific basis. A friend of mine... said she looked at several dating sites and chose the ones that looked like they had 'the least riffraff.'" Technology Review focuses on studies showing that the overwhelming number of choices presented by many dating sites can be counterproductive: "...more search options lead to less selective processing by reducing users' cognitive resources, distracting them with irrelevant information, and reducing their ability to screen out inferior options." The article concludes with a look at the startup Omnidate, which offers technology for 3D virtual dating. The site has had twice as many women (by percentage) sign up as the other dating sites typically see.

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  1. The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    ...are the women.

    Anyone who can solve that problem deserves a Nobel.

    1. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Maybe you should give men a try.

    2. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Maybe you should give men a try.

      Wait, that's an option? You mean to tell me that I can date someone who likes sports, video games, fast cars, and drinking beer? That sounds so awesome. It almost sounds too good to be true. What are the downsides?

    3. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      No one to be in the kitchen :(

    4. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      The downside will be the inside of your backside, if you're ever expected to be the bottom side.

    5. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Going gay sounds like a great idea, but take it from someone who's tried it: it starts out great, but in the end it's just a huge pain in the ass.

    6. Re:The biggest problem with dating... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      It can be a pain in the ass from time to time.

  2. Re:Virtual dating by Zarlan · · Score: 4, Funny

    Are you suggesting people should get a SECOND Life?

  3. I found the perfect site by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    ArrangedMarriage.com. They skip the whole dating thing and set you up to marry the woman/man of your possible dreams. The only bad thing is that the woman's family sometimes has to provide a hefty dowry.

  4. "twice as many women....." until now! by whoever57 · · Score: 4, Funny

    The site has had twice as many women (by percentage) sign up as the other dating sites typically see.

    A new meaning was given to the term "slashdot effect" today, as hordes of /. readers register on the site, changing its demographics to be similar to other dating sites.

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  5. twice as many women signed up? by nurb432 · · Score: 3, Funny

    Sure they did. You go on believing that.

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  6. Online dating sounds like a good idea but it's not by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 2, Funny

    I've considered using it because time-wise, it would be ideal. The problem is everyone more or less says the same cliche crap and, more so with the advent of MySpace, people clearly spend ages taking pictures that make them looking better than they really do which wouldn't matter if the profiles were honest but they're not.

    Meeting drunk women is the best way. Their guard is down so they're honest and as a bonus you may just get laid after the first meeting. The only catch is remembering if she's a keeper or not the next day.

  7. Re:Online dating sounds like a good idea but it's by bertoelcon · · Score: 2, Funny

    Meeting drunk women is the best way. Their guard is down so they're honest and as a bonus you may just get laid after the first meeting. The only catch is remembering if she's a keeper or not the next day.

    The trick there is to not be to drunk enough to forget come morning, but you give the illusion that you are.

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  8. and the land rush begins. by NoPantsJim · · Score: 2, Funny

    the startup Omnidate, which offers technology for 3D virtual dating. The site has had twice as many women (by percentage) sign up as the other dating sites typically see.

    Not after Slashdot gets done with it.

  9. Re:Science, lol? by drinkypoo · · Score: 5, Funny

    Luckily, two dear lady friends helped me to understand what I needed to know and I'm now very happily married.

    Shit, where is that legal? I'm packing now...

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  10. Meeting drunk women is the best way. by falconwolf · · Score: 2, Funny

    Their guard is down so they're honest and as a bonus you may just get laid after the first meeting. The only catch is remembering if she's a keeper or not the next day.

    It's not a problem if you have to chew your arm off in the morning.

    Falcon

  11. Re:Why online "dating" is useful by BiggerIsBetter · · Score: 4, Funny

    If you have anything resembling standards, dating is really, really fucking hard.

    Especially if she has standards too.

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  12. Re:Plenty of Fish by jjohnson · · Score: 2, Funny

    I also used a local dating service for $1200.

    You didn't get married, but you sure got raped!

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  13. am I the only one who skipped the story by Rick+Bentley · · Score: 2, Funny

    and went straight to Omnidate's website to sign up?

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  14. Re:Us introverts need to stick together by fractoid · · Score: 2, Funny

    Us introverts need to stick together.

    The irony of this statement made me at once laugh and cry a little.

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  15. No, that just means you're a crazy too. by Colin+Smith · · Score: 3, Funny

    When I used OKCupid regularly, I encountered a large number of women I would classify as crazy.

    Because they use regression analysis to match people, that means you must correlate with the crazies.

     

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