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Thought-Provoking Gifts For Young Kids?

An anonymous reader writes "Societal norms and my sibling's procreative endeavors have put me in the position of having to buy gifts twice a year for young children. What makes them happy are unremarkable bits of plastic. They already have innumerable unremarkable bits of plastic (from their parents and grandparents). My preference would be to get them gifts that challenge them to think creatively (or at least to think), which they'll be able to pick up and enjoy even after they outgrow their train/truck/homemaking fetishes. Beyond the Rubik's Cube, what thinky toys from your childhood are still in production? What new thinky toys have you discovered that work for the 5–10 age range?"

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  1. How about by Dyinobal · · Score: 5, Insightful

    How about books? I know it's not the latest high tech doodad but I would of loved to have gotten more books as a child.

    1. Re:How about by obarthelemy · · Score: 4, Interesting

      My 4yr old nephew loves books. In part because it means with spent time with him, at first it was to read to him; but last time I was tired and had him"read" it to me, I was marvelously funny to get his vaguely relevant ad-lib intermixed with lines he remembered verbatim. I'll do that again !

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    2. Re:How about by Ihmhi · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Seconded for books. Don't forget legos as well! Don't just buy the theme sets, buy the sets with tons of blocks and random pieces so they can get creative. I probably spent more time with my legos than anything else.

      As for books, some recommendations appropriate for the double-digit ages:

      • Where The Red Fern Grows
      • The Giver
      • Call of the Wild
      • Animorphs/Goosebumps series
      • Anything by Roald Dahl
      • Harry Potter series
      • Gemini Game (if they're techy sort of kids, really good story!)
      • Anything by Jerry Spinelli (Crash, Maniac McGee, There's A Girl In My Hammerlock

      You could probably pick up a few months (or years, depending on how fast they read) worth of good children's books on Amazon for less than the price of a game console. Plus books aren't laden with any of that silly DRM nonsense!

    3. Re:How about by jamesh · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Books are great, and young kids are quite happy to read the same book over and over again but as they get older they'll tend to read it once or twice and move on. It might sound corny but maybe you could take the kid(s) to the library once a month/fortnight/weekend/whatever if they live close enough to you and your schedule allows it? A bit hard if you live hours away but spending time with an attentive adult is the next best thing to cheap plastic crap :)

      My bike, books, lego, and computer are the only material things I can really remember spending a lot of time on as a kid. We got RC cars (which need charging all the time), motorbikes (which need fuel and adult supervision), and all sorts of other things but those 4 are the ones I really remember and that were always there and ready for me to play with (except maybe the computer... stupid computer hogging siblings!)

    4. Re:How about by icebraining · · Score: 3, Insightful

      What kids want isn't necessarily what they should get. Like most people, kids toy desires are mostly driven by marketing. There are tons of fun stuff they might enjoy (and actually be constructive instead of mindless entertainment) that they simply don't know about.

  2. Capsela by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative
  3. C=3P by Improv · · Score: 3, Informative

    Paper, pencil, paintbrushes.

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  4. Lego by gbjbaanb · · Score: 5, Informative

    unremarkable bits of plastic... I had Lego when I was a kid too, and it was great - helped my imagination in a constructive way - no use thinking about spaceships unless you could put one together from little blocks.

    Today, we have Lego mindstorm - robot lego with software controllers. For something that was enjoyable and improving back then, and enjoyable and improving now is pretty cool.

    1. Re:Lego by jo7hs2 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Absolutely! As long as you don't step on one, they are the best toys in the world.

    2. Re:Lego by winterphoenix · · Score: 4, Informative

      On top of Lego, K'NEX are pretty amazing pieces of construction material. As a kid, I started training with the basic sets, then got into the "master" sets. There's nothing more amazing for a child to do than to build a structure that is twice as tall as them. They are a bit expensive, but looking back they were worth every penny to me.

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    3. Re:Lego by jo7hs2 · · Score: 5, Funny

      However, standard convention when buying toys for children of siblings is to buy something as obnoxiously loud and repetitive as possible. In which case, Tickle-me-Elmo and firecrackers would be appropriate. ;)

    4. Re:Lego by swillden · · Score: 3, Informative

      Indeed.

      Although one thing I've noticed is a serious reliance on "specialty parts". Now that spaceship comes in a kit with a special cockpit, wing, and landing gear piece..

      The mindstorm stuff looks really cool though. I _really_ would have had a blast with something like that as a kid.

      Lego is shifting away from those specialty parts, partly because of the limited building possibilities and partly because their exploding unique part count was increasing their costs. It's cheaper to produce fewer unique parts.

      I'm happy to say that my kids have pretty much lost interest in the pre-designed kits. We recently stumbled over a big plastic bin full of thousands of assorted generic lego parts at a garage sale and they immediately pooled their money to buy it.

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  5. The classics by Anrego · · Score: 4, Informative

    Don't know about modern stuff (which I know is what you asked about) and may not be within the age range (I really have a hard time envisioning age) but the classics like meccano and K'nex (if you don't like picking up billions of mini nuts and bolts) were great.

    Looking back, I learnt a lot about structure (triangles, width to height ratios etc) and gear ratios just as a side effect of messing around.

    I can't be the only one who as a kid one day realized that if you hook a small gear to a large drive gear.. the small gear turns faster! Then tried to make a massive tower of alternating large/small gears.. only to discover that when you get to the top.. you have a fast spinning gear that can barely drive the weight of it's own axle.

    Nor the only one who tried to make a crane, only to realize that the second you attach a load, the whole thing crumbles .. seems pretty simple as an adult .. but learning that as much force is applied to the structure as the load was pretty neat at that age.

    AND of course, eventually everyone builds a crossbow .. those elastics that came with K'nex were pretty damn sturdy.. making something that could punch a hole in a piece of paper from across the room wasn't too difficult. Then trying to come up with a trigger mechanism was great fun.. and more lessons on the whole force/structure thing.

    Aside from "mechanical" toys.. there are also electrical.

    Not sure of the age range, but when I was a kid my dad made me what was basically a board with a power source, some lights, switches, and some other odds and ends. It had contacts (bolts) and a bunch of alligator clips for connecting the stuff. I had a lot of fun playing with it, and I've seen commercial versions of this now.. so might be a good idea. Also rates high on the "learning without realizing" category.

  6. LEGO!! by guruevi · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I actually still like the little plastic blocks. I think that's what started or at least cultivated many an engineer's interest in the trade. Just get them a box with mixed blocks and they'll keep it for their kids when they grow up. My parents gave me 1 small kit when I was young (back when they had less custom blocks - the newer series are actually going back to those roots it seems) and then whenever I got some cash or gifts for good report cards I would expand until by 16 years old I got a whole city that took up the whole attic.

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  7. 150 in one by Dan+East · · Score: 5, Informative

    Perhaps I'm atypical, but I absolutely loved my "150 in one" electronic kit. Here is a pic of the exact same kit I had when I was 8. I built every project, and came up to plenty of my own little circuits. I don't know what the modern equivalent is nowadays - perhaps heavier on the digital / logic side?

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    1. Re:150 in one by biryokumaru · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Why not skip the chintzy plastic toy stage and just get them a nice, easy solderless breadboard and actual components? Maybe a cheap-y fluke knockoff and a simple controllable DC source? Heck, I woulda loved to have gotten real electronics gadgets when I was little, instead of those crappy erector sets with their crummy plastic gears that always stripped.

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    2. Re:150 in one by MarkRose · · Score: 3, Informative

      I'm 28 and I still have mine, literally 2 feet from me. Along with a few others I picked up as a kid. They were by far my favourite toys, next to Lego. I can't get rid of them, even though I haven't built anything in years. Though my favourite of the kits was the 200-in-one model that had a few NAND gates. Building latch circuits and binary decoders was fun! I was never into the analog stuff as much... my brain hated anything imprecise.

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  8. A Fleshlight by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Thought-Provoking? Check.
    Unremarkable bit of plastic? Check.
    They'll be able to pick up and enjoy even after they outgrow their train/truck/homemaking fetishes? Check.
    Won't have to pick out gifts twice a year after this? Check.

  9. Re:erector set - newfangled plastic type by Anrego · · Score: 4, Funny

    I still remember the lovely combination of little tiny nuts and bolts.. and deep carpeting.. and the sound it made going into vacuum cleaner!

  10. Wood blocks by Moof123 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Seriously, right after Legos, a big heap of good old fashioned woods blocks were the best. Building towers, cities, etc is the best.

    Giant refrigerator sized cardboard boxes too.

    Get them a playhouse, and not a plastic one. Draw up plans, precut the pieces, and have them help you assemble it. Playhouses are a blank slate for childhood adventure to paint upon.

    1. Re:Wood blocks by swillden · · Score: 3, Funny

      Giant refrigerator sized cardboard boxes too.

      My nine year-old made himself a cardboard coffin out of a big box. He actually sleeps in it most nights.

      I'm trying to figure out if I should be impressed with his creativity, or concerned about his morbid bent.

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  11. Re:What's Wrong with Happy Kids? by Eponymous+Bastard · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Growing up is about "turning into something you're not". Otherwise you'd stay a child forever.

    While the submitter does seem like a troll with his "unremarkable bits of plastic" thing, he does have a point that if everyone is giving them the same thing then (a) they are all trying to turn them into the same thing they are not (e.g. gun wielding/fire truck driving men) and (b) the children haven't had a chance to see if they even like anything else.

    It's a risk thing too. You can give them the same thing as everyone else and they will thank you. Or you can give them a Rubik cube, a set of Lego, or something else and there's about even odds that they'll play with it for a day and forget about it, or they might start playing with it and you'll hear from their parents months later that they didn't drop it ever since.

    These are children you're talking about. Give them a great big expensive toy and they'll end up playing with the box for hours instead.

  12. Re:Gimme something fun ! by MRe_nl · · Score: 3, Funny

    Shuriken!

    What, not thought-provoking enough?

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  13. Well, the following... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    What about one of these?
    http://www.cracked.com/article_18494_15-unintentionally-perverted-toys-children_p2.html

  14. Give them the materials and the time.... by CCTalbert · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Some of the most fun I had as a child was when I had the raw materials to do something- and conversely often the biggest frustration was a lack of materials.

    Wood, rope, large cardboard boxes, tape, etc. Strangely rope seemed to always be in short supply. Hammer and nails. Much learning occurs when idle hands are armed with stuff :)

    And actually I think the best gift you can give is time. One of the best times I had with one of my young nephews was building a swing- just your simple board and two ropes off a tree limb swing. We discussed how big the seat needed to be- actually measured some assorted butts!, how big the rope needed to be, we measured and cut, learned about knots, tied the whole thing up, and it got a lot of use for years. The designing, acquiring materials, building, overall a simple but enjoyable project with an immediate return, and a template for many other projects.

    Later projects were a potato cannon, tree fort with crows nest, for-real play house (including wiring in outlets, windows, insulating, basically a small guest-house)... we spent an afternoon pulling cat5 to all the rooms in their house and putting in a router... soldered up a pong game and a couple other odd electronics kits. Next up may be firearms if I can get the parents to buy into that :)

    Time, encouragement, and patience are incredibly valuable and are remembered. Not easy if they're far away or too busy with all the distractions kids have these days. Maybe my entire comment is out of date in today's world. ?

  15. Porn by VTI9600 · · Score: 5, Funny

    Buy them porn...When I was a kid, I found it to be remarkably educational.

  16. Re:C=3P or box by icebike · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Or, for really young kids, buy something really cool and BIG for yourself and give the kids the box. They will have more fun making that into a fort/dollhouse than all the paints and paper in the world.

    Parents today often use writing/drawing as calm down methods, and the kids start looking at it as punishment. But at least these are creative devices, rather than passive entertainment devices. Kids bore quickly. Let them build the fort, then draw the fort.

    Nothing with batteries.

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  17. Re:How about an MC-board? Re:Lego by Anrego · · Score: 3, Funny

    just to see what they'll come up with

    A crippling fear of electricity and computers!

  18. K'NEX, not just for kids ... by PolygamousRanchKid+ · · Score: 4, Interesting

    On top of Lego, K'NEX are pretty amazing pieces of construction material. As a kid, I started training with the basic sets, then got into the "master" sets.

    I bought myself a K'NEX set called "The big ball factory," and some other sets of spare parts. My computer geek / engineer colleagues came over one night for a few to many beers. Everyone had a plan one how to improve the damn thing. There were four folks working in parallel on different sections at once, and showed no intention of stopping, and lost all track of time . . . just like what happens when you do hard core coding.

    My girlfriend quipped to the other girlfriends, that if the beer didn't run out, she would have to chase them all out with a broom. Most of the girlfriends found the behavior "cute", especially since with every improvement, one of the guys would run to his girlfriend, and say, "Look, Romy, at that thing that I just built!"

    When the folks were leaving, one of the chicks said, "I'm glad that these toys are in your apartment, and not in mine."

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    1. Re:K'NEX, not just for kids ... by zippthorne · · Score: 3, Informative

      All your friends have boring girlfriends.

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  19. Re:A bigger Rubik's Cube by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    Timecube. Four toys in a single toy box.

  20. Re:What's Wrong with Happy Kids? by PolygamousRanchKid+ · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Try being the "fun uncle" instead of the "odd uncle who's always trying to make them into something they're not."

    I did that "fun uncle" thing, and showed my nephew what you could make out of ammonia and iodine crystals (nitrogen triiodide, NI3) and postassium percholrate, aluminum powder and sulfur.

    How did that story end? He is applying to grad school to get his Ph.D. in chemical engineering. He got an 800 on his math GRE, so things look good.

    He lives on another continent than I, but the last time I visited for Christmas, he gave me a book titled, "Backyard Ballistics."

    I never got the chance to show him how folks at Princeton's eating clubs peppered other eating clubs with water ballons launched from funnelators (giant sling-shots, made with surgical tubing). Some folks that I don't know, and don't know me planned to launch a few at George Bush, Senior, when he visited the campus in 1984. Those folks that I didn't know changed their minds, when Secret Service folks showed up on the rooftops of the eating club.

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  21. Let me tell you a story by melted · · Score: 4, Interesting

    When I was a kid, my dad would often tell me that if I do well in school, he would pay for my college, and if I don't, he would buy me a giant shovel, the kind they use on the farm to move cow manure for my 18th birthday. He would also take me to my grandfather's farm every now and then, just so that I'd see those shovels getting used.

    I never got the shovel. I choose the path which implied a six figure income instead. So one could say that even though the shovel never materialized, it was pretty thought provoking.

  22. Re:How about an MC-board? Re:Lego by cusco · · Score: 4, Funny

    Worked at Radio Shack many winters ago, and a lady came in and said, "I want your loudest, most obnoxious guns, and a whole bunch of your longest-lasting batteries."

    I said, "This sounds like revenge. What did they do to you?"

    "My brother bought my kids the popcorn popper on a stick last year." The brother deserved it completely, IMO.

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