Are You Ready For the Digital Afterlife?
theodp writes "Dave Winer's call for Future-Safe Archives goes mainstream in Rob Walker's NY Times Magazine cover story on how the Internet can provide a certain kind of immortality to those who are prepared. To illustrate how digital afterlives might play out, Walker cites the case of 34-year-old writer Mac Tonnies, who updated his blog on Oct. 18, 2009, sent out some public tweets and private messages via Twitter, went to bed and died of cardiac arrhythmia. As word of his death spread via his own blog, Tonnies's small, but devoted audience rushed in to save his online identity. 'Finding solace in a Twitter feed may sound odd,' writes Walker, 'but the idea that Tonnies's friends would revisit and preserve such digital artifacts isn't so different from keeping postcards or other physical ephemera of a deceased friend or loved one.' Unfortunately, how long Mac Tonnies's digital afterlife will remain for his Web friends and parents is still a big question, since it's preserved in a hodge-podge of possibly gone-tomorrow online services for which no one has the passwords. Hoping to fill the need for digital-estate-planning services are companies like Legacy Locker, which are betting that people will increasingly want control over their digital afterlife. 'We're entering a world where we can all leave as much of a legacy as George Bush or Bill Clinton,' says filmmaker-and-friend-of-Tonnies Paul Kimball. 'Maybe that's the ultimate democratization. It gives all of us a chance at immortality.'"
'We're entering a world where we can all leave as much of a legacy as George Bush or Bill Clinton'
I hope not!
Is there service that erases all my porn if I die? Before my family finds it.
That's all beating around the bush. There is no afterlife, so how about the more serious question of coming to terms with someone's death? I is a frightening aspect that doesn't make it easier to cope that thanks to technology, people can still "act" (i.e. post updates) after they died, due to automation etc.
Does it make it easier or more difficult to cope when the deceased is still around somehow? There's a well-known structure for humans dealing with drastic changes like this, and it has two key parts that matter in this context: The phase where you ignore and fight the truth, i.e. the "he isn't really dead" part. Everyone who griefs has it, some get over it very quickly, some linger on it sometimes for years. The other is the "letting go and re-orienting" phase. Both are presumable more difficult the more old stuff you have around.
I personally think that our ancestors had a good formula: You were given a year to grief, and everyone would understand. But after that, you'd better be done with griefing and continue on with your own life. It at least gave people a guideline.
Assorted stuff I do sometimes: Lemuria.org
Where I used to work I wrote down all my passwords and kept them in a sealed envelope in a locked drawer that only I and my boss had keys to. It was sealed so I would know if someone opened the envelope, but it was there in case I died or became incapacitated.
Many people put their passwords in a secure location or share them with a trusted person like their spouse, or store them in a "digital keyring" and write down the access information in a secure location or tell someone they trust how to access the keyring.
My personal recommendation: Store "how to access my account" instructions with your will and estate papers but make them so cumbersome that it will take 2 people's cooperation and more than a day to get access to your accounts. For example, you might type up all your account info and passwords, ROT13 the passwords, send the account info to one relative, the "left half" of each ROT13 password to another relative, and the "right half" to your attorney, all in sealed envelopes with instructions that they not be opened unless you die or become incapacitated. Then put the how-to-reassemble instructions with your will. It's a bit complicated yes, and it requires re-sending with each password change, but with 3 people including your lawyer involved odds of compromise is very low.
Knowledge is how to play a game, intelligence is how to win, wisdom is knowing what game to play.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
His password to his encrypted stash should be his dead-man switch.
Speaking of dead-man switches:
A "close the window and dismount the encrypted drive after 10 minutes of inactivity" background task should do well if he has a fatal heart attack due to over-stimulation.
Knowledge is how to play a game, intelligence is how to win, wisdom is knowing what game to play.
If you don't know where this famous quote is from, sigh, well, I feel sorry for you.
Mr. Praline: I'll tell you what's wrong with it, my lad. 'E's dead, that's what's wrong with it!
Owner: No, no, 'e's uh,...he's resting.
Knowledge is how to play a game, intelligence is how to win, wisdom is knowing what game to play.
Eventually, I shall die but be replaced online with a small perl script and then live forever, or at least the life of the server. I wonder if anybody will notice.
There's a sucker is born every minute. Nuf said.
Enjoy life! This is not a dress rehearsal.
I hope Heaven has video games.
Knowledge is how to play a game, intelligence is how to win, wisdom is knowing what game to play.
E-ternally Yours - The case for the development of a reliable repository for the preservation of personal digital objects
http://explorer.cyberstreet.com/CET4970H-Peterson-Thesis.pdf
It is interesting that the primary concern about death in many ancient cultures was to ensure that wise and proper advice is given to the deceased for the afterlife.
The primary concern of modern culture is just the opposite: the impact the deceased person has after his death.
Why not do it the old fashioned way with a quality pen (or pencil) and some good acid free paper. Write in your journal every day, you won't be e-famous, but at least your grand kids will get a peek into your life.
First, there was word of mouth. Then there were cave wall drawings and stone carvings. Next, we had books. Then audio recordings, then video.
These days, you could wear a GPS sensor, body position sensors, body vital sensors, and cameras, and record your entire physical life, except for your inner thoughts.
Someday, we'll probably be able to record that too.
Then, people in the future could waste a lot of time just "watching" other people's lives.
Who's going to look at all of this info? I mean, besides marketing folk and other data miners? More and more people will die and all of this will accumulate. I don't know how big of a pass-time looking at dead peoples' data is going to become. Also, if this data isn't in the public domain, it won't really be that useful to build new stuff out of either. It just seems like vanity.
If you want something you created to last after you died and for it to be useful, just release it as CC or something.
Twinstiq, game news
http://gothamist.com/2011/01/08/democratic_congresswoman_gabrielle.php
http://twitter.com/Rep_Giffords/status/23785624238563331
But you're free to have your beliefs, I'll be checking out SENS instead.
Our fear and denial of death. if we accepted death, we could live our lives more fully and we wouldn't be cowering every time there was a terrorist attempt. And there wouldn't be all those people waving their flags on 9/11 and their bumper stickers saying "Never forget."
We are a weak and cowardly people.
Also many ancient cultures living people buried food, drink, tools, weapons, even slaves with the dead to ensure they had resources to help them in their afterlife.
And we do just the opposite: we divide up the dead's possessions for the living.
Something to do with how our beliefs have changed over the last few thousand years.
Plus the dying often leave wise and proper advice for the living.
I *think* you're saying that we should do more to help the dead with their afterlives, but I am not sure.
Usual problem of 'eternity' in the computing world meaning about ten years or so. I've got a professor friend who proudly shows off his PhD thesis, it's all done on punched cards. It amuses him highly that neither he nor anybody else could read it these days, the machines just don't exist any more.
Well maintained paper: 1000 year life span easily if kept in dry cool conditions.
Your data on disc, or online: couple of decades maybe?
Back to the usual issue of how to maintain long term memories. I wouldn't leave it to a couple of apple mac carrying hipsters anyway.... better off with the Library of Congress...
I pray to Allah, Krishna, Thor, "Bob" and whatever else may be listening that when I go, I don't leave behind me a steaming pile of legacy that matches the output of those two Worthy Gentlemen.
And I'm pretty sure that my friends and family have more taste than to honor my memory with a fucking Twitter feed.
Usual problem of 'eternity' in the computing world meaning about ten years or so. I've got a professor friend who proudly shows off his PhD thesis, it's all done on punched cards. It amuses him highly that neither he nor anybody else could read it these days, the machines just don't exist any more.
They can still be read. Your eyeballs or a scanner will do nicely. Or you can send them here.
More info here and here.
I wouldn't mind living on in a VR environment, as long as it's not a hell...
I suffer from attention surplus disorder.
Not a single Caprica reference?
I want some digital burn bags that destroy certain things when I die.
I for one don't worry about leaving a record of my life . The government has enough information on file of me and everyone else . So save your money for other things .
I'm sitting in my recently deceased grandfather's nearly vacant apartment, currently zero'ing out his hard drive after spending about 12 hours copying files from ZIP disks, CD's, random directories on his Windows machines, etc. Forwarding the e-mail account, setting an auto-reply, unsubscribing from dozens of 'virtual offers', etc., dumping his Firefox saved passwords (banking, etc.).
The things that make it the most painful are the age of the equipment (p4, IDE, slow USB) and that stuff is everywhere. He was a professional photographer, and collecting the first 60 years of his work was a matter of filling a box with negatives; the last 15 is taking almost a day. Computers open options, but don't make everything easier.
The best part is that he wrote his passwords on masking tape on his monitor. Appropriate choice, given his risk profile.
My God, it's Full of Source!
OUTSIDE_IP=$(dig +short my.ip @outsideip.net)
Hardly anyone gives a shit about online tweets and web pages when you're alive. No one will give a shit when you're dead. This story is about the novelty of preserving online bits and pieces for one individual. It has no bearing on what one should do in general.
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This is basically about the selfishness of the living.
First, we think of how the death of a person will affect us, not whether the person is happy after his death or not.
Second, there is fierce competition for resources; taking from the dead (who cannot protest) was always easy.
I think we may be too obsessed about "immortality" i.e. making people remember us and we are really afraid of the spiritual afterlife as described by, say, Egyptians.
When your body is dead there is no digital resurrection, just crap left on the Internet. What a stupid concept.
If you matter to the world, your legacy will be maintained for you. For the other 99.9999 percent of us, maintaining our legacy is irrelevant, because it's unlikely anyone will care after we're dead anymore than they cared while we were alive.
The fact is that the most fortunate among us matter to a few people around us while we are alive and those left alive after we die. The first generation removed from us (the first generation after we die that is not old enough to have known us while we were alive) will barely care and might know our names and a few stories about us from remaining family. Think of how much most of us know about our great grandparents. Chances are, we don't even know what their name was.
By the time that generation reaches adulthood, we'll be nothing more than a name in the family tree that some lonely elderly family member keeps in her spare time and our entire existence will have been forgotten, but for our name to the very few who care to research a family tree (and, frankly, I don't know why anyone wants to since it's hardly relevant).
Minor celebrities will be almost entirely forgotten within a century. Your most significant writers, actors, musicians, criminals, and politicians will remain a part of society for a century. Even most of them will fade away after about a hundred years and people will start to confuse what Edison and Franklin each invented. Presidents will be a meaningless name on a list. After several centuries, hardly anyone will be remembered. Outside of niche historians, we're probably talking a very fine handful. Your Hitlers. Your Mansons. Your JFKs and Churchills, perhaps. Your Edison and Franklin might still be remembered. Maybe your Agatha Christie.
The fact of the matter is that even the brightest and most significant and prevalent among us will fade with time, so why would the rest of us waste our time fooling ourselves into thinking anyone is going to give a fuck about our greatest moments, much less our ramblings and meanderings? If you matter, it'll be taken care of for you. If you don't, you'll quickly have -- for all intents and purposes -- have never existed.
But did you leave your Prodigy, Geocities and AOL password to your wife or not?
i've testamented all my passwords to /b/ they will take good care of them and do sesible post mortem posts.
The title of this article immediately reminded me of Frederik Pohl's Heechee books.
Death and the Powers impresses me. http://opera.media.mit.edu/projects/deathandthepowers/index.php
You can already leave written memoirs at the moment. The good thing about those is people who write them generally have something to say.
Could be a great thing for future historians if it doesn't vanish into the ether. Imagine being able to access period writings and the like without having to flit all over the country/world...
IANAH, but I do sleep with one.
Does anyone know of where I can get the service that cleans out the porn from my house before my relatives find my body?
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You will be remembered by some for exceptional deeds, but even 500 years later, only the most exceptional of the exceptional get remembered. They are remembered only as names, a few books, paintings, symphonies or battles.
Does this make them immortal? Hell no. They are remembered as icons but not individuals. Nothing preserves the individual in its incarnate form. 500 years after your death, no one who knew you will be alive. You will exist only as a symbol.
Regarding the afterlife, I think it's time we stop the reductionist bigotry. We can't prove that an afterlife exists or not. We do know this universe is very efficient in the conservation of patterns, that these may exist outside of time, and that these tend to involve a micro::macro mirroring. These are suggestive things.
To paraphrase X-files, "I want to believe," but most days, I'm just another physicalist here on planet earth hoping for the best neurotransmitter function a corned beef sandwich, two cups of coffee and a little hope can provide.
Futurist Traditionalism
So lets see...theres all this stuff someone wrote and then died after writing. People are looking at it, but cant figure out how to preserve it because its on a 'hodge podge of sites and nobody has the passwords'.
Cut, paste to somewhere where someone who oh-so-cares about this stuff will continue to pay for it to be preserved, done.
By the way, my technically confused wife came up with that one, not me. I'm not even sure she's ever used cut and paste in any application. She has a hard time with iTunes and any browser other than Internet Exploder. She spent 20 minutes earlier today trying to figure out how to print a 25 line phone list from Chrome, after spending 3 hours typing it up in an email. Soooo....technological immaturity doesnt seem to be much of an excuse there.
I'll just leave this here...
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/taijiren/journal
The first truth about awareness, as I have already told you, is that the world out there is not as we think it is. -DJ
We really need to find those generative algorithms that Zoe Graystone wrote.
Then afterlife is a sure thing... unless you are a poly!
To paraphrase Woody Allen -- I don't want to achieve immortality via web presence....I want to achieve it by _not dying..._
To: iwakura.lain@home.tachibana.net.jp
From: chisafree@cyberiacafe.co.jp [Yomoda, Chisa]
Subject: living on in the wired
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Lain wrote
>>What's it like, when you die?
It really hurts! :)
-Chisa
net while your suffering under the The Full Weight Of The WRATH Of The Almighty GOD.
Amazing.
Materialists have dramatic claims too. The trouble with starting out with a simplistic model of the universe is that you have to keep revising it, whereas the oriental philosophy of yin and yang has been stable throughout the millennium.
hth, hand.
Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
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If only a little bit more effort went into preserving actual lives then a little less effort would need to go into preserving remnants.
Most individuals alive today living in developed countries can have an indefinite lifespan (if they want to).
That is what cryonic suspension and nanotechnology (to reanimate frozen individuals) or nanotechnology (in the form of nanorobots) to prevent death by various causes are all about.
While preserving the information is useful. One can only hope that the same effort directed towards preventing the death in the first place or immediately upon death will result in better systems and a cultural perspective for not letting people die.
I was interested in this service until I started reading things like this in their contract agreement:
"By posting messages, uploading files, inputting data, or engaging in any form of communication on our system, you are hereby granting to the public an unrestricted license to use, copy, modify, adapt or document in any form any communications, information or any underlying work in which you may possess proprietary rights, including but not limited to copyright rights. All users of the system are therefore deemed to have disclaimed or waived all copyright ownership rights in their messages or files, even if they contain copyright notices. You shall have absolutely no recourse against us as the system provider for any alleged or actual infringement of any proprietary rights to which you may claim ownership."