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Former Facebook Employee Questions the Social Media Life

stevegee58 writes "The Washington Post published an interesting article about Facebook's employee #51, Katherine Losse. As an English major from Johns Hopkins, Losse wasn't the typical Facebook employee. But after starting in customer service, she later became Mark Zuckerberg's personal ghostwriter, penning blog posts in his name. The article traces Losse's growing disillusionment with social networking in general and Facebook in particular. After cashing out some FB stock, Losse resigned and moved to a rural West Texas town to get away from technology and focus on writing."

171 comments

  1. Sounds like by Sulphur · · Score: 4, Funny

    A total Losse for the big Z.

    1. Re:Sounds like by gl4ss · · Score: 3, Insightful

      well, she cashed out and is now social networking in the "big boys" social network: the media.
      which she as a writer is going to have to do a lot...

      anyhow, her complaints about the online life are not actually facebook specific. people lived that "i'm in a car" online life long before facebook, I remember reading a bit after middle '90s on irc a from a dude "I'm bicycling". and well, that's how our irc chat life went back then but he was one of the very few who had a company paying for gsm data(and a communicator to use that).

      It's not about facebook or "social media", it's about being online and sharing what you do, for some people it's security, for some it's just about sharing, taking part. what it makes harder to do is re-inventing yourself on weekly basis, since everybodys a celebrity and the track record is there, but only sort of since there's 900 million so nobodys really a celebrity in the whole context.

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    2. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Informative

      The linked article is hidden behind a paywall. You can read 2 pages (out of 5) before you are blocked.

    3. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I read it all with no problem. Try disabling javascript.

    4. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The linked article is hidden behind a paywall. You can read 2 pages (out of 5) before you are blocked.

      Print article gives full text.

    5. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Clearing your Internet history will take care of that problem.

    6. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well, and it's easy to look down your nose at the masses when you've already made a boatload of cash and can afford a nice, remote place somewhere to just go unplug, ruminate, and write. :p

      I'd like to move to a tropical island and do heady things. But as it turns out, I'm here in my condo, bs'ing about the mars lander on facebook, waiting for monday morning.

    7. Re:Sounds like by bhcompy · · Score: 5, Interesting

      The more connected I'm forced to be, the more disconnected I wish I was. My job at a technology company forces me to be connected 24/7 for various reason. Sooner or later I'm going to retire very early and move to some small town in the Sierra Nevadas. I've come to learn that I hate the privacy walls that are being torn down by both business and government on the internet, and as it evolves past the Old West in to East Berlin, I hate the whole thing more and more.

    8. Re:Sounds like by Sulphur · · Score: 1

      Well, and it's easy to look down your nose at the masses when you've already made a boatload of cash and can afford a nice, remote place somewhere to just go unplug, ruminate, and write. :p

      I'd like to move to a tropical island and do heady things. But as it turns out, I'm here in my condo, bs'ing about the mars lander on facebook, waiting for monday morning.

      Its the Z man effect.

    9. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd like to move to a tropical island and do heady things.

      Well, it is not that you actually can't. Try Solomon Islands, Papua NG or such, that's not even expensive if you let aside the comfort of your life that you are used to...
      (as for the heady things, you can use your head to crash coconuts)

    10. Re:Sounds like by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Your post made me sad.

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    11. Re:Sounds like by datavirtue · · Score: 2

      I cleaned my browser history and was able to read the rest. Yes, I read the articles....[bows head]

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    12. Re:Sounds like by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 2

      I had a job where I had to be available on-call all the time, and I ended up opening the notebook and working at home as much as from home. Coding during the day, paperwork like responding to e-mails in the evening.

      Add in a healthy dose of berating idiots on slashdot and browsing other negligibly informational news aggregator sites, and I did maybe 9 hours of work a day. But I felt tethered.

      I switched jobs, and the expectation to be ever present is gone. We have great user sign-off and the infrastructure is relatively simple, so I don't get downtime calls like I used to. I leave work and it leaves me. You might look into a change of pace, if you have to move and you have 8 years before retirement, I'd make the change.

    13. Re:Sounds like by neyla · · Score: 1

      How does that work ? I mean, I know worker-protections are low in some jurisdictions, but unless you worked in Zimbabwe, surely there are -some- limits ?

      If there's a demand for being connected, that'd be -worktime- in my jurisdiction, sure it might be what is known as "on call" i.e. you're not actively doing any work, and probably even at home, but you are available in case something -does- happen, and such forced availability is rewarded with a minimum of 20% of your regular pay.

      Thus being available for a year would be 0.2 * 365 * 24 hours = 1752 hours of pay -- assuming you don't actually do -anything- that year.

      But the way you describe it, it sounds more like you worked a normal work-week (or more?) and *additionally* had to be available 24x7.

      That'd add up to 1800 + 1372 = 3172 hours/year, or a 175% position, which is *wildly* outside of the allowable maximum overtime.

      If you still did it, they'd owe you a *shitload* - overtime is a minimum of 150% base-pay, and 200% if it's on sundays or night-time (between 22:00 and 06:00) - do the math and the result is, they should pay you slightly more than triple your base salary - and additionally go directly to jail.

      I take it that's not how it actually works in your jurisdiction though.

    14. Re:Sounds like by Synn · · Score: 1

      If he's in the US(like me) you don't get paid anything for being on call. It's just expected of you and if you don't like it, quit.

      I've been slowly moving my way out of IT because of this.

    15. Re:Sounds like by swalve · · Score: 1

      It's just whiners who don't have the stones to stand up for themselves. No pay, no work. If that's not your personal policy, then no law is going to help you.

    16. Re:Sounds like by BVis · · Score: 2

      "Do it or you're fired." Conversely, no work, no pay. No health insurance, either. You either eat the shit you're given, die of cancer, or go bankrupt paying for treatment for same. If you don't like it, well, we're at 8%+ unemployment, there are 10 people who could do your job waiting for you to quit. If my choices are either compromising my principles, or losing my house, guess which one I'm going to pick.

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      Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups.
    17. Re:Sounds like by bhcompy · · Score: 1

      California has various exemptions from overtime pay laws. I fall under the "computer professional" exemption.

    18. Re:Sounds like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      If my choices are either compromising my principles, or losing my house, guess which one I'm going to pick.

      Unfortunately, this illustrates the growing sickness in our society. I don't blame you; you are making a rational choice. But it seems more and more we are faced with choices like this. Sticking to our principles (when they are positive) leads to a better world. But when push comes to shove and we are faced with needing money to survive or maintain our livelihood, our employers have us over a barrel. As Rush said, conform or be cast out. We see that in the end we are slaves to money and those who control it.

    19. Re:Sounds like by allo · · Score: 1

      the problem is more, that slashdot accepts submissions, which are behind a paywall, even when you can trick around it.

    20. Re:Sounds like by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      The more connected I'm forced to be, the more disconnected I wish I was.

      That urge to disconnect will only get stronger.

      Sooner or later I'm going to retire very early and move to some small town in the Sierra Nevadas.

      . If you can retire early do it. If you are anything like me you will find a richer and happier life. I have given up completely on my modern life. We(wife and I) have just about completed building our home on 60+ acres. The only connection here to the outside world is a very long private road and mobile phone/broadband. We are completely self sufficient for water, power, composting toilet(all the mod cons), and a large percentage of our food.
      The biggest concern I have at the moment is what sort of animals to stock the land with. I was thinking Dorpers as they shed their wool annually and are edible. Unfortunately, I tend to name my animals and become friends with them which could make things difficult when it comes to the dinner but we live and learn. I have enjoyed the last few years of my life more than I ever enjoyed life ever. I may not have much money but I have a quality of life now that cannot be bought.

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    21. Re:Sounds like by neyla · · Score: 1

      Actually, even then, the sensible policy is to document everything meticolously, and start searching for a new job. Then the day after you start your new job, you that the former employer pays what they owe you.

      Yes, sure, if you don't find a new job, then that doesn't work, but even then keeping this documentation around is a smart thing to do, it's useful in any situation where you no longer have anything to gain by keeping your employer happy. This could mean after you start a new job, it could mean after they fire your entire department, it could even mean the day after you retire. (though there's limitations on how old claims can be brought, stuff happening 30 years earlier won't help you in that case)

    22. Re:Sounds like by neyla · · Score: 1

      Why is that ? I mean, there's exceptions everywhere, and in some cases it makes sense, but why "computer professional", is there some particular reason computer-work has to have tons of overtime?

      I'm a "computer professional" and have been for a decade, but I've never worked unpaid overtime, and I've never been on-call without pay.

      I guess the big difference is that unemployment is 1.7% generally, and about half that among people with a degree. That, and we've got worker-protection laws which are balanced, and they sting enough that even in times of higher unemployment, things rarely get -that- bad. (healthcare is universal ofcourse, so -that- worry doesn't exist, that's true in essentially all countries on par with USA in wealth. http://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2012/06/heres-a-map-of-the-countries-that-provide-universal-health-care-americas-still-not-on-it/259153/ )

    23. Re:Sounds like by BVis · · Score: 1

      I agree with you in principle. I would only add that make DAMN SURE your employer (current or future) doesn't know you're doing this. Your current employer can fire you, and your future employer can not hire you, if it looks like you're not a 'team player' and are looking to 'start trouble'.

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      Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups.
    24. Re:Sounds like by bhcompy · · Score: 1

      Because the state says so per the qualifications for the exemption? If I had my choice I'd move, but I can't.

  2. Fakebook by roman_mir · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I knew that FB had fake accounts, but apparently it also has fake Zuckerberg and more importantly a fake market valuation and probably a fake business model.

    1. Re:Fakebook by Kittenman · · Score: 5, Funny

      Now c'mon. You didn't really expect the big "Z" to enter his own blogs? I mean, I'm not even the big "K" - I'm actually an offshore ghost writer for Kittenman who lives somewhere in South Korea.

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    2. Re:Fakebook by Trepidity · · Score: 5, Informative

      You may be dismayed to learn this, but nearly every large company has fake communications from its CEO. You don't think the Delta CEO personally pens the "from the CEO" letter at the front of each month's in-flight magazine, do you? He may read it and suggest (or even make) changes, but I am pretty sure he isn't writing the draft.

    3. Re:Fakebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You may be dismayed to learn this, but nearly every large company has fake communications from its CEO. You don't think the Delta CEO personally pens the "from the CEO" letter at the front of each month's in-flight magazine, do you? He may read it and suggest (or even make) changes, but I am pretty sure he isn't writing the draft.

      Yeah, you're right. God forbid we actually ask a CEO to actually use their MBA for more than wall art.

      Amazing how people think that just because you have three letters after your name you're suddenly far too important to wipe your own ass.

    4. Re:Fakebook by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      I think given the fake business model and the fake valuation, Zuckerberg could have at least keep something real, but then again, he may just be totally incapable of actual human communications with people and if he started writing his own journal entries, people would be even more turned off by what he has to say.

      After all, isn't that the guy who said:

      I have over 4,000 emails, pictures, addresses, SNS," he said. "People just submitted it. I don't know why. They 'trust me'. Dumb f----.

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      As to me, I am happy I don't have an FB account, but then again, governments may now consider me a 'mass murderer' for that reason.

    5. Re:Fakebook by antdude · · Score: 1

      Funny. I had a fake account, but I was kicked off after about three weeks from using it. :(

      It's scary that Facebook find suggested friends pretty good. I am trying to figure how it knows that. I assume it is tags, texts mentioning my name, my e-mail address, etc.

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    6. Re:Fakebook by tompaulco · · Score: 2

      One leading indication to me of the worthiness of a product is if the company uses it's own product. Apparently Zuckerberg doesn't use it. So I guess it is not worthwhile for me to use it either.

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    7. Re:Fakebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is a difference though. Delta's product isn't the CEO's personal letter. Facebook's product is the CEO's personal letter, along with everyone else's. So the fact that Zuckerberg doesn't write them is just as significant as the millions of other fake users.

    8. Re:Fakebook by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Yeah, and if every domicile and enclosure in their life doesn't smell like Corinthian leather they get all confused and start flailing around to find their bearings--ignoring the poor clueless fools who are trying to figure out what is wrong and help them.

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      I object to power without constructive purpose. --Spock
    9. Re:Fakebook by strength_of_10_men · · Score: 1

      Apparently, they have fake security too! From TFA:

      In her first days, she was given a master password that she said allowed her to see any information users typed into their Facebook pages. ,,, In one exchange, she noticed the man's password, "Ilovejason," and was startled by the painful irony.

    10. Re:Fakebook by fbjon · · Score: 1

      I don't think it's anything special. Make a list of people who have friends in common with you, and sort it by the number of such connections. Keep adding new ones at the top, pushing the older ones that you've ignored so far further down. Seems about the right level of accuracy from what I've seen.

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    11. Re:Fakebook by element-o.p. · · Score: 1

      I thought he was retired and living like a king in Patagonia?

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    12. Re:Fakebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fake business model alright. Bot generated ad clicks http://www.theregister.co.uk/2012/08/06/facebook_click_fraud_mystery/

    13. Re:Fakebook by boristdog · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that was the first thing that scared me. Non-hashed passwords. Eek.

    14. Re:Fakebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think given the fake business model and the fake valuation, Zuckerberg could have at least keep something real, but then again, he may just be totally incapable of actual human communications with people and if he started writing his own journal entries, people would be even more turned off by what he has to say.

      Maybe you are totally incapable of actual human communications, and basic knowledge about making business.

    15. Re:Fakebook by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      Hi Mark.

  3. Now Generation by PmanAce · · Score: 1

    Where are all the posts? I expect them noooooooooow!

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  4. What has the Internet become? by evanism · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What a horror. She saw the light, as did I.

    After 17 years of building, learning and promoting I now realise just how awful it has now become. I have left the industry entirely.

    Facebook is not a product of Zuckerberg, but a reflection of the inevitability that horrendous and highly penetrative technological processes will have on our lives.

    People haven't asked for Big Brother, they demanded him.

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    1. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It all started because people wanted to know what other people were doing

    2. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      People haven't asked for Big Brother, they demanded him.

      True, but you generalize far too much when you say "the internet".

      You can use the internet without giving away your privacy Facebook-style. There are plenty of more or less secure ways to do everything you can do on Facebook. Status updates, instanting messaging, emails, you name it. FB doesn't have to enter the picture for any of that.

      I use Pidgin and OTR's encryption to talk with amongst my friends. It works great. Ok, sure, if the NSA takes a personal interest in me it won't be enough, but that's not the real threat. The real threat is everything else - commercialization, casual "track everything that goes through" style logging by intelligence agencies, and so on. The fact that this isn't perfect doesn't mean it isn't a hell of a lot better than what most people do.

      Just because the rest of the world demands Big Brother doesn't mean you have to. You and your friends can do whatever you want. The internet just routes your packets. What you do with them is up to you.

    3. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, it's fucked seeing people i know in real life puttting up these instagram/hipstamatic photos of themselves posing and looking super cool when i know they're actually depressed and insecure and, to be perfectly honest, a bit boring. Other people see those photos and think they're missing out on some exciting shit. The fact is people who are actually exciting don't put up pictures and tweets of every thing they do every day since they're too busy out actually do interesting things.

      Although i have to say i love google books, having access to scans of rare 18th century French history books at my convenience is one of the best things ever. Sure, I live in a big city and probably Columbia or NYU has them, maybe, but it's just so much better to bring them up on my computer and search right to the section I want. So amazing.

      I've come to the conclusion the internet is best used for research not socializing. Yeah, it's a little hypocritical to say that on Slashdot but at least I don't have an account here or anything. I just drop an occasional AC post.

    4. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... which does not require Facebook or for that matter any proprietary service at all.

    5. Re:What has the Internet become? by tomhath · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No, it started because people wanted other people to know what they were doing. "Look at me, I'm important."

      It is an efficient way to communicate, basically a kiosk. But when the host becomes too intrusive the convenience is outweighted by the cost.

    6. Re:What has the Internet become? by tverbeek · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'd follow her example... if only I had company stock to turn into cash. Unfortunately I'm one of the tech people who got tired of the web without first getting rich from it.

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    7. Re:What has the Internet become? by Johann+Lau · · Score: 2

      Just because the rest of the world demands Big Brother doesn't mean you have to. You and your friends can do whatever you want. The internet just routes your packets. What you do with them is up to you.

      Nah. What others do is important. If anybody but me watched TV 24/7, or slowly unlearned to read or write sentences longer than 140 characters, how would I be able to have a decent conversation about fuck all? To me that's like saying you can swim anywhere you want, where the bucket is poured is not your concern. Sure, it seems like that, for a while, but it's not like that in the long run,, so even if it wasn't so extremely selfish to say it doesn't concern you, it would still be short-sighted.

    8. Re:What has the Internet become? by evanism · · Score: 2

      Says the Anonymous troll. QED.

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      Just bought a new quantum computer, but I'm uncertain how it works.
    9. Re:What has the Internet become? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      It is an efficient way to communicate

      No it isn't, because you cannot count on people who have subscribed to you or people on your friends list who haven't muted your posts actually seeing your content for a number of reasons which vary from censorship to incompetence. That goes for private messages too, except they're less likely to be censored, and more likely to show up very late or not at all or without a notification.

      This goes for Google+ too, except there things just show up a little bit late, or get censored.

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    10. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Meh, people will adjust. They're in the honeymoon phase now like I was back in the early 80's with BBS's. I remember back in those days spending entire days doing nothing but dialing BBS after BBS just to converse with people and check out what's new. After a few years I realized how much time I was wasting doing nothing productive.

      I mean it wasn't all wasted time. I met many friends that became friends in real life. I even met several girlfriends this way (there actually were quite a few normal girls on BBS's even in the 80's, especially the younger/teen set like I was).

      When the Internet got popular I noticed new geeks going through the same phases. Now it's being repeated with everyone else (ie. mainstream "normal" people). I think most people will figure it out eventually. They may even temporarily reject technology like this woman is doing. I firmly believe they will eventually reintegrate technology into their lives except with a more controlled attitude. Technology is too beneficial to completely reject.

    11. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey - you claim to be one of the architects of this shit. Time to look in the mirror?

    12. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      He did, idiot. That's why he left.

    13. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ditto.

    14. Re:What has the Internet become? by IANAAC · · Score: 1

      I'd follow her example... if only I had company stock to turn into cash. Unfortunately I'm one of the tech people who got tired of the web without first getting rich from it.

      She didn't leave to just go somewhere and vegetate. She's concentrating on her writing. I presume she'll be getting paid for it, too.

      You know, you can start to focus on another passion/interest of yours while still working. If it becomes important enough, you'll eventually make an exit plan and figure out a way to live off it. You don't have to be rich to do it.

    15. Re:What has the Internet become? by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Obligatory....."but what about Diaspora?"

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    16. Re:What has the Internet become? by datavirtue · · Score: 2

      In the 90's I was hitting the BBSs hard. I racked up a $400 phone bill one month calling Cincinnati and California--I lived in the countryside east of Cincinnati. I'll never forget my mom bursting through my bedroom door with the phone bill in her hand. We lost the phone for a while, and I, the fix for my new addiction. Good times.

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      I object to power without constructive purpose. --Spock
    17. Re:What has the Internet become? by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1

      You missed the point completely. "Communicate" does not mean making sure the recipient got the message. Especially in the context of gp's post.

      "I'm important, look at what I'm doing" and subsequent replies are most of what I remember from facebook. Seldom were there any messages of organization, or any time sensitive data. It's a "status" message, what you're doing now. Not ensuring your message is read.

      The closest I have ever seen is "Anyone up for [activity] tonite?" And the people who already know it's going to happen reply, even though the original poster knows they will be there.

      You are communicating, to whomever decides not to hide posts from you, that your activities and intentions should be known. It is not reliable, or error-free, or time-sensitive. But it allows people to communicate to each other in the most natural way possible - egocentically.

      Forget what you know about TCP/IP, message delivery, routing around censorship, and anything else that has a non-human aspect to it. Most users want to send a message, and a smaller subset want to live vicariously or otherwise spy on what everyone else is doing. In the truly human sense, it is the most efficient method of communication we have. Everyone who wants to hear you can, with your permission, and anyone who doesn't want to can tune in to something that *does* interest them.

    18. Re:What has the Internet become? by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 2, Interesting

      You are taking a truly long view of this - essentially an impossibility. Are you suggesting that it is possible for the entire population except you to care about the things you care about?

      I was going to leave it there and let you reply, but I rarely return to read replies, leaving my comments in the hands of moderators these days.

      It would be nice to be able to guide others to watch less television, or at least certain types of television. It would be nice to be able to encourage better communication skills in the people you meet. But it is impossible on an individual level (as in you being the lone person trying). If you concern yourself with the fate of the world, you are doomed to disappointment.

      It is far better to encourage these things in each person you meet. Someone is sure to have a similar mindset, and the conversations you get will be far more interesting than railing against the lowest common denominator.

      In the past 10 years, I have met a single person with whom I can have a truly great conversation about anything and anything. I have met two handfuls of people with whom I can discuss a subset of topics. Everyone else will remain ignorant and uninteresting regardless of whether facebook, SMS, television, or any other fad comes or goes.

      That's at least 10 people with whom you will be able to have a conversation, to answer your question in a roundabout way. And there are more I haven't met - 6 billion people don't use Facebook. Twitter's retention rate is around 40% - one use and they are gone, with an estimated half billion. Even if they don't overlap, there are 5.5 billion potentially interesting people, and a goodly percentage of the last 1.5 billion who might be conversational.

      If you want to be concerned, feel free. But if I were you, I would concentrate on influencing the people you actually meet. Otherwise, make an appointment with a very good psychiatrist. Skip the psychologist - I tried to reason with you.

    19. Re:What has the Internet become? by Johann+Lau · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Are you suggesting that it is possible for the entire population except you to care about the things you care about?

      No, and maybe that was a bad/extreme example. Say, you live under a dictatorship and don't enjoy torture. If the police thinks otherwise, and your fellow citizens don't mind or don't dare to help you, you have no choice. That's also extreme, but much more realistic.

      I know I'm dangerously close to say "we can only choose what society offers us as choice", and in a way I mean that, but of course, we all are part of that society, and we can come up with new things as individuals, thereby helping form that society. But a LOT of the ideas we examine, and keep or throw away, have been prepared by others. We are, biologically, not any different than humans 5000-10000 years ago. That means a human from back then could be born today and you might not even notice. Let them have attentive parents and a good school and they might cure cancer. Let a modern baby grow up with cavemen, and it will hunt whatever cavemen hunted. (I don't mean to say any of this as if you don't know that, I'm just rambling ^^) Yes, we can achieve a lot in a lifetime, we can cover a lot of distance, but we always start out where society is currently at.

      You see, my problem isn't so much that I'm bored "because people are boring". Only boring people get bored! But I imagine to see continuing trends I don't like, I don't accept them as given, until I know exactly why and how they come to be; that these trends exist does not automatically justify their continued existence. We all sit in little pockets and cliques and classes, feeding the same machinery *we* are building, while pretending it is some kind of anonymous force, and judge ourselves by how well we are adapted to that. I find that nuts, when I stop to think about it, and what you call concerning oneself with the fate of the world, I might also call concerning oneself with the actions of yourself and your contemporaries. Sure, it's a middle class luxury thing to ponder these things, but for me thinking/talking about this stuff is no chore; silently enduring it would be.

      And then there is power and its abuses lurking constantly. Maybe we don't get more shallow and driven because "that's just how it goes", maybe it's like hysterical laughter at the dinner table can be connected to the abuse taking place in that family. Man, I suck with analogies, but yeah. Where there is smoke, there is fire?

      It is far better to encourage these things in each person you meet.

      I don't disagree at all. But still, how much have you learned from books? I learned a big deal. I knew wise people, but the wisest ideas, or the most eloquent ways to put what I "had on the tip of my tongue", came from people I never met, or who were already dead for a long time. You can encourage people you meet AND ramble about it on the interwebs. I don't chat, I always liked forums, and thinking aloud in written form. It ain't literature, but it's what I can do. I've been influenced by others who do that, so I don't think it's presumptuous to say each of us is also having a small effect on some of the people who read it. I try to speak the same way, but of course that's so heavily limited in polite company with strangers, compared to talking to strangers on the net :O

      But yes, I'm not responsible for what others do, and of course loosing the plot and fighting windmills is silly. As easily as I forget that, as easily I remember it, it's basic hygiene of the soul I guess. Though when I regained my calm and humour, I still care. I accept that the world is as it is, but I'd still like more justice; and for that I need people to actually think, and I need doublethink and sophistry to be "uncool" - I need to have words for these things, so I can criticize them. By criticizing them, I hope to help preserving those concepts for future generations.

      Damn, that sounds quite pompous, even to me. Think o

    20. Re:What has the Internet become? by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      You know, you can start to focus on another passion/interest of yours while still working. If it becomes important enough, you'll eventually make an exit plan and figure out a way to live off it. You don't have to be rich to do it.

      This is exactly how I got my career off of the radio and onto the Internet in the 90s.(And recently I've begun thinking that I might well move it off of the Internet again in a few more years.)

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    21. Re:What has the Internet become? by geoffaus · · Score: 1

      similar happened to me too

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    22. Re:What has the Internet become? by tverbeek · · Score: 2

      Oh, I'm trying, spending time every day working on a graphic novel. But it'd be a hell of lot easier to build a creative career if I didn't have to spend 40-45 hours/week doing uninteresting crap instead, and had money to invest into it.

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    23. Re:What has the Internet become? by Synn · · Score: 1

      She didn't get rich, she just cashed in enough to live off it for a couple years in some middle of nowhere town.

      It'd not hard to follow her example. I'm living on a sailboat right now and saving up so I can take off for a year or so. Anyone can do it.

    24. Re:What has the Internet become? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      You missed the point completely. "Communicate" does not mean making sure the recipient got the message

      comÂmuÂniÂcate
      â â[kuh-myoo-ni-keyt] verb, comÂmuÂniÂcatÂed, comÂmuÂniÂcatÂing.
      verb (used with object)
      1. to impart knowledge of; make known: to communicate information; to communicate one's happiness.
      2. to give to another; impart; transmit: to communicate a disease.

      Especially in the context of gp's post.

      You mean the one filled with meaningless assertions and contradicted by his own words in the same post?

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    25. Re:What has the Internet become? by bobbutts · · Score: 1

      This is a perfect bragging elitist post, you're just too much of a pussy to take credit. Perhaps the reason you don't participate in social interaction is because you're a douche bag?

    26. Re:What has the Internet become? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She got rich. She was employee #51.

  5. A real life instead of a virtual one? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Speaking as an expert (as many of us are), I can say with a certainty that all my friends, my house, my pet, my family are all fully contained within the Matrix. Someday everyone else will realize that their lives are also part of the matrix. Only then will world peace be achieved.

    1. Re:A real life instead of a virtual one? by History's+Coming+To · · Score: 1

      There are those who believe this has already happened.

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    2. Re:A real life instead of a virtual one? by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Yes, this should help with my plans for single, homogeneous world government.

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  6. Summary: FB evil, got my $... by ztexas · · Score: 0

    ... and off production/consumption treadmill. I r writer!

    1. Re:Summary: FB evil, got my $... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >moved to a rural West Texas town to get away from technology and focus on writing.

      >moved to Marfa to hang with the hipsters.

      There fixed that for them.

  7. He doesn't even use his own crap... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    So Mark Zuckerberg doesn't even use his own site? Indeed he's smarter than I thought.

  8. It's not really social by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It sounds like she thought this was something of meaning but, imo, it's not. It's not even really social. From what I can see, it doesn't matter how many "friends" people have. They often don't chat to each other. They talk about themselves and hopefully get a lot of people telling them how awesome they are. That's probably because most people don't have real friends on facebook. It's a list of people that decided to friend them for no good reason or because they met once or twice. It's impossible to have 500 actual friends.

    So most interactions on facebook aren't really socialising. That patting each other on the back (or blowing each other depending on how far you take it) and to be honest I think the days of geocities were more social. People made websites with interesting content that would spark conversation even if were just between you and the author via email. I'd genuoinely say the vast majority of content I see people posting on FB is no interesting, it's not remotely deep or thoughtful. it's shit like announcements that someone likes amazon. Well good for you, you're like 99% of the population.

    I don't really like having an account which is reflected in the fact I don't use my own name or talk about myself. It's there basically to keep in touch with some people which unfortuantely think there is no other way to keep in contact on the internet and since they're family it's a bit more awkward to tell them to suck it up and use email like a normal person. Though I feel that day coming up pretty soon.

    1. Re:It's not really social by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      From what I can see, it doesn't matter how many "friends" people have.

      It doesn't, it matters what quality their friends are.

      I don't really like having an account which is reflected in the fact I don't use my own name or talk about myself. It's there basically to keep in touch with some people which unfortuantely think there is no other way to keep in contact on the internet and since they're family it's a bit more awkward to tell them to suck it up and use email like a normal person.

      So in summary, you use facebook as a social network, for socializing.

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    2. Re:It's not really social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sound fatuous. I feel a little sorry for you because of some of the things you say describe you as exactly the type of thing the guy was pointing out. You agree with his premise (after a personal attack) and only and that fine with it.

      Signal meets noise.

    3. Re:It's not really social by Johann+Lau · · Score: 1

      It's not even really social.

      older, but always a good read:

      http://blog.pinboard.in/2011/11/the_social_graph_is_neither/

      The social graph wants to turn us back into third graders, laboriously spelling out just who is our fifth-best-friend. But there's a reason we stopped doing that kind of thing in third grade!

      You might almost think that the whole scheme had been cooked up by a bunch of hyperintelligent but hopelessly socially naive people, and you would not be wrong. Asking computer nerds to design social software is a little bit like hiring a Mormon bartender. Our industry abounds in people for whom social interaction has always been more of a puzzle to be reverse-engineered than a good time to be had, and the result is these vaguely Martian protocols.

      But let's say an inspired mathlete proves me wrong. There's a brilliant hack that fixes all the issues I've raised and we go ahead and build the Platonic social graph. What can you actually do with it?

      Well, one thing we've seen is that machine-readable lists of friends make it much easier to launch social sites. Letting a thousand startups bloom is one of the big justifications in Fitzpatrick's essay. But is removing this friction a good thing? It is admittedly annoying to have to re-follow people every time you sign up for something, but it also forces the authors to make the site appealing enough to get us over that hurdle. We're already starting to see apps whose first act is to suction down our contact list and spam our various accounts with invites without bothering to woo us at all. I can't imagine having open API access to the social graph is going to improve that.

      In other domains, a big graph would be good for recommendations, but friendship is not transitive. There's just no way to tell if you'll get along with someone in my social circle, no matter how many friends we have in common.

      But one thing you can do is mine a huge amount of information about my friends and infer things about their interests, income, social status and tastes. And then maybe you can use that information to bring them valuable news and offers, or help them digitally engage with their favorite brands.

      Imagine the U.S. Census as conducted by direct marketers - that's the social graph.

      Social networks exist to sell you crap. The icky feeling you get when your friend starts to talk to you about Amway, or when you spot someone passing out business cards at a birthday party, is the entire driving force behind a site like Facebook.

      Because their collection methods are kind of primitive, these sites have to coax you into doing as much of your social interaction as possible while logged in, so they can see it. It's as if an ad agency built a nationwide chain of pubs and night clubs in the hopes that people would spend all their time there, rigging the place with microphones and cameras to keep abreast of the latest trends (and staffing it, of course, with that Mormon bartender).

      We're used to talking about how disturbing this in the context of privacy, but it's worth pointing out how weirdly unsocial it is, too. How are you supposed to feel at home when you know a place is full of one-way mirrors?

      We have a name for the kind of person who collects a detailed, permanent dossier on everyone they interact with, with the intent of using it to manipulate others for personal advantage - we call that person a sociopath. And both Google and Facebook have gone deep into stalker territory with their attempts to track our every action. Even if you have faith in their good intentions, you feel misgivings about stepping into the elaborate shrine they've built to document your entire online life.

      Open data advocates tell us the answer is to reclaim this obsessive dossier for ourselves, so we can decide where to store it. But this misses the point of how stifling it is to have such a permanent record in the first place. Who does that kind of thing and calls it social?

    4. Re:It's not really social by Anonymice · · Score: 1

      Feeding the trolls, but I'm bored

      Not at all. The parent (thetoadwarrior) sounds very much like many other tech associates I have, whose social reach doesn't extend much beyond "geek" circles.
      I'm afraid the majority of people simply don't hold the same views (they're unlikely to even be aware of the subject matter).

      The quality of the content on you get on the site, can be directly correlated with the type of people you add.
      If I haven't even had the minimum of a conversation with you in real life, I won't be accepting your friendship requests. If you only post inane drivel - zap, you're gone.

      As for it being "impossible" to have x number of friends, I'm afraid that's entirely subjective & dependent on your lifestyle.
      I like to travel & I've lived in several countries. At certain times in my life (alas, not currently) I've also found myself socialising in many different circles & have been heavily involved in various sports.
      By all means, if I'd spent my entire life living in the same area & my social group hadn't changed much since the days of school/university, my social reach would be far more limited.

      In short, Facebook is great for keeping in touch with friends across large distances. Email simply doesn't compare when it comes to sharing & commenting on media/photos & for having real time discussions - all in one place. When I go $home, it's as if I'd never left.

    5. Re:It's not really social by AmazingRuss · · Score: 1

      "They often don't chat to each other. They talk about themselves and hopefully get a lot of people telling them how awesome they are "

      In other words, they behave pretty much the same way they do face to face.

    6. Re:It's not really social by BeanThere · · Score: 1

      So in summary, you use facebook as a social network, for socializing.

      Yes, but you see, he's better than all the other lowly facebook users, as everyone else just made a list of 500 people they met once or twice and don't it use properly. He's the worst kind of "I don't even own a TV" snob - the type who does actually watch TV.

    7. Re:It's not really social by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      In short, Facebook is great for keeping in touch with friends across large distances. Email simply doesn't compare when it comes to sharing & commenting on media/photos & for having real time discussions - all in one place. When I go $home, it's as if I'd never left.

      Mostly I've found it's for people trying to get dates with my wife.

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    8. Re:It's not really social by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1

      I didn't bother to click the link, but i'll reply to what's there.

      • Computer nerds are not designing the social sites, they are implementing it for someone who intends to make money from it. Zuckerberg is an outlier, but he stole the idea, implementing a copy of something he was asked to develop.
      • The people reverse-engineering social interactions are not the computer nerds designing social sites (especially since computer nerds are not doing the designing)
      • Recommendations are not intended to be predictive. Match.com, Netflix, Amazon, and any number of sites are trying as hard as they can, but they can only make "recommendations", not predictions. They want to open your circle as much as possible, and that includes your wallet (directly or indirectly)
      • You most certainly can mine my data, which is the entire point of social networking providers. But they don't care about engagement - they provide the platform by which other brands can create engagement. They don't want to help, they want to get paid for.
      • Social networks exist to sell you crap. I agree with this point, but it's no exception from any other website which has to offset costs, or wants to make money. OTA television exists to sell you crap, billboards, telemarketers, direct mail... I have a hard time thinking of something that doesn't want to sell you something, other than truly free (RMS approved) contributions. Software of course, or your local halfway house or women's shelter, or any number of genuinely charitable organizations.
      • House full of one way mirrors is entirely off base. A lot of people would love that, to be the center of attention. And most social networking is a two way mirror, aka a window, where you can communicate and get responses back. Most people just don't think about other people who can see into that window.
      • In the context of privacy, it is entirely un-social to spy on people who do not wish to be spied upon. But that doesn't make social networks un-social. It just makes the providers who mine the data un-social. But they provide the infrastructure to allow communication. It is the abuse of power, or more precisely the abuse of access, which is un-social, not the network itself.
      • Creating a permanent dossier on every user is certainly a privacy concern. But I cannot accept the premise that it is un-social in some way. I volunteer my information, I want people to see it, and I can have a social connection by using the provider. As a privacy advocate, this is an abuse of power. As an ignorant user, I see advertisements which, although are increasingly relevant to my interests, I ignore. Your dossier means nothing if I don't click, and advertisers lose revenue on worthless eyeballs.
      • The article specifically misses the point of social networking games, which are designed to be simple-minded and addictive, using all of the psychology casinos have employed for ages. They are usually single-player, involve micro-transations, and punish you for being away too long. This is the sole reason for many facebook users, and the sole reason for people who make plugins designed to eliminate app invitations to mafia wars or farmville.

      In other words, the author does not seem to have a clue how to make a persuasive argument, and instead wants to flog a personal agenda's dead horse. Providers who offer their services for free actually get something in return. This is well known, redundant at this point, and poorly argued.

    9. Re:It's not really social by Johann+Lau · · Score: 1

      "In other words, the author does not seem to have a clue how to make a persuasive argument, and instead wants to flog a personal agenda's dead horse."

      In other words, you're not reypling to anything at all but your own strawman.

      "Providers who offer their services for free actually get something in return."

      No. It says what it says. You're not able to respond to it, so you say something that could be said about just about anything, to proudly state that this is nothing new.

      "In other words" my ass. Look up sophistry and how old that is. Fuck off, toy.

    10. Re:It's not really social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mostly I've found it's for seeing how my wife responds to people trying to get dates with her.

      TFTFY :D

    11. Re:It's not really social by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      When I go $home, it's as if I'd never left.

      So why bother leaving in the first place?

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    12. Re:It's not really social by phiwum · · Score: 1

      I didn't bother to click the link, but i'll reply to what's there.

      [...]

      In other words, the author does not seem to have a clue how to make a persuasive argument, and instead wants to flog a personal agenda's dead horse. Providers who offer their services for free actually get something in return. This is well known, redundant at this point, and poorly argued.

      It sure is easy to rebut an argument you haven't read.

      By the way, I'm not sure the interviewee offered an argument at all. She simply pointed out reasons to be concerned about social networks. I didn't see anything that looked like an attempt to persuade others that they should leave Facebook.

      But, never mind. You rebutted her argument brilliantly. Who needs to read the article?

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    13. Re:It's not really social by Anonymice · · Score: 1

      You seem to be under the impression that the only reason someone would want to go somewhere, is if they're running away?
      This might come as a shock to you, but I'm interested in seeing the world beyond my own front garden...

      If I'd never left the comfort of my own home, I wouldn't have my comfy career (based on the experience only achievable in a large international city), I wouldn't have anywhere close to the number & variety of friends I now have, I wouldn't have the freedom speaking multiple languages brings, I wouldn't have had the facilities or community to do the sports I enjoy, I wouldn't have experienced...so many things. I wouldn't have met my wife.
      That doesn't mean I don't miss the friends I've made throughout it all - I intend to see every one of them again one day.

    14. Re:It's not really social by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      Yep, that's what I said. For the time being. I've got it through most people's heads I don't want to and I'll eventually get the others to or ignore them.

    15. Re:It's not really social by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      Speaking of which I don't watch TV but I do own a TV. it certainly the most affordable 40 inch monitor and why would I want to game on a tiny ass 20 inch screen just to have a "true" monitor?

      I never said that socialising on the internet is a bad thing. It's one of the main things to do on the internet. So it doesn't require a site specialising in socialising. My point is if all you do is advertise shit you like or where you are then you're not really socialising which, yes, is more or less what I am doing too but the key difference is I'm chatting to people when they contact to me through it and privately. They're just feeding advertisers money and announcing when it's best to rob their house. Going to London isn't a big fucking deal if you live in the same flipping country. Though I will say it's a step up from people announcing they've ordered something from Dominos.

    16. Re:It's not really social by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      I would say your assumption is wrong and if you think you have 425 friends then you, imo, are using the term very broadly. I can live with the fact that perhaps I'm using the term too narrowly but the list of people I know or even communicate on a somewhat regular basis is much larger than the people that I would class as friends. It's not that I dislike the other people, I just think they should be classed as friends. They're acquaintances or people I'm on good terms with but not necessarily people that I would, for example, lend money to without question.

      If you're happy using it then good for you but it hasn't brought anything new to the internet and imo it's not even the best outlet for being creative. MySpace arguably was but I guess you can argue that's why so many people had butt ugly pages.

      I just don't quite trust a site that has a questionable record on privacy and who has no gone public with their stock prices sinking and reports coming out claiming their advertising business is a bit questionable in terms of money for value. I think we will see them abuse people's data more in the future. If you're happy with that then fine. I prefer to keep pretty much all my data off of there and in a place where, when I delete it, I know it's gone.

      If Facebook guaranteed that when you deleted things, including your profile, that it went away for good I think that alone would be reasonable trade-off for collecting and using user's data as they wish while they're using the product. But I've still not read or seen anything that implies that you can actually delete anything permanently.

    17. Re:It's not really social by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      I'd say you're incorrect and relying on some sort of stereotype that if people don't like Facebook they're a loser or a moron or whatever given that most people, even just in western countries, don't have a facebook account at all and I don't think the sort of people you add has much bearing on the content other than saying people who are obsessive about it probably do more sorts of communicating on Facebook than your average person. Of all the people I've friended on facebook, the vast majority are great to talk to in person and no, none of them play D&D or WoW. But on Facebook they generally have nothing of interest to say so the vast majority of my conversations with them are still via phone or in person which I'm ok with.

    18. Re:It's not really social by cupantae · · Score: 1

      I was thinking that after I wrote it - that you're using the word "friend" when I would say "close friend". But why should it matter if a facebook "friend" isn't actually the same as a "friend" in real life? Should they call them "acquaintances"? It's just a name. I think geeks, of all people, should understand that.

      It's certainly not the best place to be creative, but that's not the point. It might not be the best for anything, but the value of facebook is that most people you know are on it. I know this is slashdot, but there IS value in that, e.g. for parties.

      As for all the privacy business, I agree in principle, but I personally don't really care who sees the stuff I put on facebook.

      For the record, I meant, "you sound bitter" in the sense that what you wrote made you sound bitter. It wasn't intended as a personal attack. Otherwise, well, I've outlined my disagreement. I don't really see how it's flamebait, but whatever, I defended facebook on slashdot.

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  10. Sums up every bad 'social media expert' by Lord_of_the_nerf · · Score: 4, Funny

    An underqualified English major pretending to be a douchebag.

    1. Re:Sums up every bad 'social media expert' by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Be fair. She's a perfectly qualified douchebag.

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    2. Re:Sums up every bad 'social media expert' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      s/bad//

    3. Re:Sums up every bad 'social media expert' by CodeBuster · · Score: 2

      Excuse me, but this woman isn't a douchebag. It takes courage for someone who was so close to Mr. Zuckerberg and his inner circle at Facebook to stand up and ask some of the same serious questions that we outsiders have been shouting, mostly unheard, for years now. Frankly, having an account on Facebook, a website run by a company that's committed to ending all privacy, has always struck me as borderline crazy. Also, did you read the part about the "master password"? The one that allowed her to see everything on anyone's page regardless of their "privacy settings"? What wouldn't the Chinese government pay for such a password, even if it only worked for mere hours after it was compromised? I've always suspected that something like that "master key" existed, at least for top-level Facebook insiders, but to my knowledge this is the first time that it has been corroborated in public by someone who was, until very recently, in a position to know. If this isn't enough to scare you, then you don't know your history. If I were a foreign spy master I would be doing just about anything to recruit agents inside of Facebook. Surely there are at least a few nerds working there who, after having bedded a stunning operative of their preferred sex, could be convinced to provide useful intelligence in return for continued "service". The East Germans were notorious for their skill in this sort of operation during the Cold War and they even kept their own "Facebook". Although in that case, it was the government and their informants updating the profiles, not the "users". It's a shame how easily most people forget the lessons of the past.

    4. Re:Sums up every bad 'social media expert' by Lord_of_the_nerf · · Score: 1

      Maybe you need to read the 'pretending to be a douchebag' bit again.

  11. Registration Sucks Almost as Bad as Facebook by garcia · · Score: 5, Insightful

    But her concerns continue to grow. When Zuckerberg, apparently sensing this, said to Losse, âoeI donâ(TM)t know if I trust you,â she decided she needed to either be entirely committed to Facebook or leave. She soon sold some of her vested stock. She wonâ(TM)t say how much; they provided enough of a financial boon for her to go a couple of years without a salary, though not enough to stop working altogether, as some former colleagues have.

    And that's the end of the story because the Washington Post won't let me read the rest.

    So, if I understand this correctly, she got rich and decided working wasn't for her and she wanted to chase every writer's dream to lock themselves away in some far off locale to write their lifetime novel?

    How is this news? Because it deals with the side of Facebook everyone knows about but ignores so they can post photos of their kids and let other people tell them how cute they are or is there something I missed in the last two pages?

    1. Re:Registration Sucks Almost as Bad as Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She's getting ready to go all Unabomber on us.
      Or she's hawking a book.

    2. Re:Registration Sucks Almost as Bad as Facebook by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 2

      And that's the end of the story because the Washington Post won't let me read the rest.

      Yet, a privacy freak like my self can read the entire article (all four "pages") without a problem.

      I use firefox with these add-ons:

      RefControl - normally set to spoof, for wapo I set it to always block the referrer.
      NoScript
      CS Lite - set to block all cookies

      There are more, but I think those three are sufficient to get past the wapo paywall.

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    3. Re:Registration Sucks Almost as Bad as Facebook by manu0601 · · Score: 1

      And that's the end of the story because the Washington Post won't let me read the rest.

      It seems there is a bug. I was able to get the other pages by requesting the ready-to-print version

    4. Re:Registration Sucks Almost as Bad as Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      washington post uses cookies to count how many pages in the article you've viewed so just remove and block cookies from washingtonpost.com and you can read the rest of the article. unfortunately the rest of the article doesn't is just as empty as the first; the whole article lacks substance and could be written as a paragraph.

  12. I don't have a Facebook account by circletimessquare · · Score: 3, Insightful

    and I wish Facebook an accelerated death as is certain as people grow more wise to their feeding of personal details to an ad making machine

    but in reality, Losse's words and opinion seem to have more to do with Losse's own life trajectory than with Facebook itself

    human beings are social animals. this has powered Facebook's growth. but the Internet is still young, and you can forgive the world for not understanding the nature of the beast it was feeding. as it dawns on them what Facebook really means to their lives and their society, they will continue to be just as social, but on sites that do not exist for the goal that Facebook does

    meanwhile, humans are not universally social, or social their entire lives. some are more introspective and seek a more monklike existence in order to plumb the depths of their spirit or their mind. this is 100% fine and I myself have this tendency. but i recognize that this tendency of mine, and as it exists also in Losse, is not an enemy of human sociability, nor should it be, nor should we evangelize that everyone should tune out and drop out, just like we should not evangelize that everyone should plug in and focus in

    to each their own. Losse is making the mistake of projecting her own life's trajectory on the story of Facebook and/ or social networking in general. don't make the same mistake as Losse. unless you yourself are equally interested in tuning out and dropping out. in which case, this is fine, power to you. i hope something constructive comes out of it, for Losse, and for you. now unplug the computer

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    1. Re:I don't have a Facebook account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >>> and I wish Facebook an accelerated death as is certain as people grow more wise to their feeding of personal details to an ad making machine

      Please don't wish such horrible wishes. Facebook keeps a lot of undesirables out of public view. It is a blessing in disguise.

    2. Re:I don't have a Facebook account by tooyoung · · Score: 1

      and I wish Facebook an accelerated death as is certain as people grow more wise to their feeding of personal details to an ad making machine

      but in reality, Losse's words and opinion seem to have more to do with Losse's own life trajectory than with Facebook itself

      human beings are social animals. this has powered Facebook's growth. but the Internet is still young, and you can forgive the world for not understanding the nature of the beast it was feeding. as it dawns on them what Facebook really means to their lives and their society, they will continue to be just as social, but on sites that do not exist for the goal that Facebook does

      meanwhile, humans are not universally social, or social their entire lives. some are more introspective and seek a more monklike existence in order to plumb the depths of their spirit or their mind. this is 100% fine and I myself have this tendency. but i recognize that this tendency of mine, and as it exists also in Losse, is not an enemy of human sociability, nor should it be, nor should we evangelize that everyone should tune out and drop out, just like we should not evangelize that everyone should plug in and focus in

      to each their own. Losse is making the mistake of projecting her own life's trajectory on the story of Facebook and/ or social networking in general. don't make the same mistake as Losse. unless you yourself are equally interested in tuning out and dropping out. in which case, this is fine, power to you. i hope something constructive comes out of it, for Losse, and for you. now unplug the computer

      Posted from my Andriod phone.

      Geeze, just kidding...

    3. Re:I don't have a Facebook account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "human beings are social animals. "

      A billion omega people wanting to be an alpha one, it's surely a sad thing.

  13. Full Article here - no registration by microcars · · Score: 5, Informative

    You get the full article, rather than 4 pages that eventually require you to "sign in" or "register", if you access the PRINT option.
    Link HERE

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  14. It's easy to preach... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ....after cashing out.

  15. she wasn't kidding... by CheshireDragon · · Score: 1

    ...when she said she wanted to get away from technology. There is NOTHING in West Texas except a few tumbleweeds and reptiles.

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    "That's right...I said it."
    1. Re:she wasn't kidding... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...when she said she wanted to get away from technology. There is NOTHING in West Texas except a few tumbleweeds and reptiles.

      Sounds like my kind of place to live. ;)

    2. Re:she wasn't kidding... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    3. Re:she wasn't kidding... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She went to Marfa, it's pretty much a hipster hangout these days.

  16. big deal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    University graduate experiences growing sense of disillusionment with the corporate world. "Plastics", someone whispered to Dustin Hoffman in a movie made in the '60s. "Stepford Wives", someone noticed about corporate life a little later.

    So people don't actually have hundreds of friends they can count on, and their privacy isn't what it was in days before the Internet. A lot of time spent updating one's FB pages means that much time for other things they used to do, like read good books. Is that the big revelation?

  17. A life with no privacy is no life by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Telling the whole world when, where and what you have taken your lunch, when, where and what you did when you were with your gf/bf is a life with no privacy whatsoever

    Absolutely not the kind of life a normal, self-respecting human being would lead
     

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    1. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Telling the whole world when, where and what you have taken your lunch, when, where and what you did when you were with your gf/bf is a life with no privacy whatsoever

      Absolutely not the kind of life a normal, self-respecting human being would lead

      With apologies to Bowling for Soup:

      Four years you think for sure,
      That's all you've got to endure,
      Before your options vest,
      And then you'll have success,
      IPO went fizzle, a bubble burst...
      Then when they say "you're fired,"
      Atlas gives a little shrug and you say RETIRED!
      This was the same as where I just came from,
      I thought it was over!
      (Aw thatâ(TM)s just great.)

      CHORUS:

      And the whole damn world is just as obsessed,
      With who's options vest, and who's having sex,
      Whoâs got the money, who gets the honeys,
      Whoâs kinda cute, and whoâs just a mess.
      And you still don't have the right look.
      And you don't have thousands of friends.
      Nothing changes but the facebook, its pages, its trends...
      High School Never Ends!

      (Congratulations #51 for getting out while you were ahead. You're missing nothing! Zuck fucked everyone from his users to his employees to his investment bankers to the entire dot-com bubble 2.0.)

    2. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 5, Funny

      A difference of opinion. I agree with you, but most people I know do not. They want to be connected.

      They complain when their phone doesn't allow multiple people on a text message, and they have to copy/paste to send the same thing to different people.

      They get together and start talking about that trip they took or that thing they did. When I ask, they ask back, "It was on my facebook, didn't you see the pictures?"

      We evolved as social creatures, which allowed us to come together to form an agrarian society, as I have been told. From the users' perspectives, they are not telling the whole world, they are telling whomever they have friended. That Facebook employees can see the data, let alone analyze and make money off it, isn't even in their sphere of consideration. And when you point it out, there are two responses.

      People either don't get technology, and therefore don't care who sees the mundane details of their lives, or they see it as a free service that provides what they want, in exchange for personal details. The latter group are no different from the people who have loyalty memberships or agree to the new car insurance monitoring devices.

      There are relatively few people in the world who would agree with your statement, despite the disproportionate representation on this particular website. The fact that you have zero replies (not counting the post of someone else's lyrics) and +5 moderation suggests this site's audience is lacking in general sociology education, or has forgotten it.

      A normal human would embrace the opportunity to keep in touch with family and friends who do not live in their subdivision. A modern normal human would appreciate keeping up with someone without having to endure the sometimes stifling social conventions involved in making arrangements to meet to talk in person, or IMO the more stifling conventions of a personal phone call.

      Facebook is the ultimate social outlet, where you can post what's on your mind, and let people respond or ignore as they wish. No wondering if you are boring someone on the other end of the conversation - they can scroll past. No wondering what everyone else is doing, and if you are fitting in - it is almost telepathy, knowing what your friends are into besides what they talk about when you are together. And then seeing a stranger's comment on your friend's post - and realizing you have something in common.

      Again, I agree with you. But I also understand why the 1 billion active users, 1/7 of the world, disagree.

    3. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by Ghaoth · · Score: 2

      Sociopaths love it. Bullies love it. Socially inept people love it. Anonymous Cowards love it. The list goes on......except for thee and me and a few others

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    4. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Considering I have at least two (or more, can't remember) Facebook accounts (and at least three /. accounts, I use one for a bit, then stop using it, and create a new one), and don't use any of them, you'll have to think that maybe, just maybe, that 1 billion active users is slightly, just slightly, inflated. And that many of the people who have accounts hate Facebook, and don't use the account, or only use the account to keep in touch with one or two people who refuse to use email, or whatever.

    5. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by JasterBobaMereel · · Score: 1

      The only thing Google+ has over Facebook is Circles where you can easily communicate with different groups in different ways, which is what people do in real life

      Facebook have a way to do this, but handled badly with the default of publish to everyone ....

      Neither is anywhere near perfect, and so I use both but spend much more time on Facebook because that is where most people are....

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    6. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by DuckDodgers · · Score: 1

      Even if the real figure is a third of a billion, that's still a huge volume of people. The social value of the site is huge.

      And a lot of people that feel disconnected socially have a lack of opportunity to communicate that they cannot easily fix in their own lives. If you work two jobs, you have time to post from your phone but not actually physically meet with friends and family. If your career took you 500 miles away from your previous friends and family, keeping in touch with them through social networking is more time efficient than writing individual letters or emails. If you have kids, you may not have the time or money to go hang out with friends a few days per week - but you can always fire up Facebook after the kids are in bed. etc... etc...

      So in that respect, social networks are very valuable. The hard part is for us to help the world transition away from walled gardens where companies profit from accessing our personal information to something more distributed, where we control our own data - free software projects like Diaspora (which, last time I looked, seems decent - even if their original timeline never worked).

      What's the alternative, returning to an agrarian society where everyone you know and care about is tilling a field half a mile away? If you like that, you could always join the Amish.

    7. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by artemis67 · · Score: 1

      It's the difference between introversion and extroversion, isn't it? Introverts value privacy and solitude. Extroverts value attention and community. Everyone falls somewhere on the line between extreme introversion and extreme extroversion.

    8. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If your career took you 500 miles away from your previous friends and family, keeping in touch with them through social networking is more time efficient than writing individual letters or emails.

      They put the CC line in emails for a reason. so you can contact more than one person at a time. It acts much like a post would, and seeing as this is /. Im sure that you could set up a simple script that populates a list and personalize each email using a template and something like Access or some similar database software. The only thing that facebook does well is giving your information to advertisers so that they can make more money.

      On a some what related note, those Colman commercials that ended with the line "the original social network" were and are true. Take a weekend off with a bunch of friends and go camping, or take a in town vacation to a resort and just have a fun time with friends. Social networking should be social, face to face, not face to screen, that is what we know as anti social.

      There are always alternatives.

    9. Re:A life with no privacy is no life by Finite9 · · Score: 1

      The thing with facebook is that people throw out their pics and comments, but there is very little social obligation to reply, and many replies become sound bites written on a smart phone, whilst your friend was on the train, or just about to go to bed. It's not interacting with your friends in the same sense as interacting in person is, and there is no social requirement to listen to, and respond to, what your friend is saying in any meaningful fashion.

      It's a superficial way of interacting. It _can_ be a good complement for sharing content, like pics, videos etc, that gets discussed when you later meet up or talk on the phone, but really, it's not as great as some people would have you believe. And all the facebook proponents are just hyping the latest fad which is social networking. Hopefully, in a few years, all the hype will calm down and people will be saner about how they use this tool as a social complement and stop posting every inane thing they can think of.

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  18. blood money by slew · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Although the title of the article made it seem like she walked away from social media in general, it seems to me that she merely walked away from fakebook (oops) because she didn't drink enough the Zuck's koolaid (claims that zuck said "I don't know if I trust you" to his supposed ghost writer)...

    I was once asked to ghost write (in a quasi-technical context), and I politely refused. Didn't cost me too many points with the CEO as there was plenty of other jobs to do in the company. I understand her position was not necessarily the same, but she took that new job and then apparently didn't like it and probably considered it blood money and needed to clean her soul of it.

    I submit that the most common outcome of selling your soul for blood money is usually the same for most people. It destroys you from inside until you walk. You usually never really have to take blood money, but the opportuntiy often comes up in a seductive way and challenges you in your weakest moment. The best thing to do is say no, but not everyone does. I'll wager that she didn't have to move in the the position that left her the most disillusioned, but it was likley a most seductive opportunity (to ghost write for the Zuck)...

    Hopefully the lesson about blood money doesn't get diluted by polluting it with the equally intriguing, but overdone story about the dangers in the vitualization of real social interaction and trusting your privacy to a bunch of 20-some frat boy wannabes...

  19. Fake users? Hah! They have Facebook in heaven... by Life2Short · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It's a lot worse than you think! FTFA:

    "Celebrities had found Marfa too. The town's beloved food truck, the Food Shark, has nearly 1,700 'Likes' on its Facebook page -- including ones from luminaries such as Bob Dylan, Tammy Wynette, and Willie Nelson."

    According to Wikipedia Tammy Wynette died in 1998. Facebook was launched in February 2004.

  20. Pampered Gen Y quits something by Swampash · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Cites "disillusionment"

    Stay tuned for more breaking details of this unique event.

    1. Re:Pampered Gen Y quits something by russotto · · Score: 2

      She's 36, which makes her Generation X.

    2. Re:Pampered Gen Y quits something by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      She's 36, which makes her Generation X.

      She's a woman. That makes her Generation XX.

    3. Re:Pampered Gen Y quits something by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That girl really has no idea of how the world works for 99.999% of its population. She caught a lucky break doing an easy job and got stinking rich from it. Perhaps she should spend some time around Walmart cashiers until she realizes that most people just can't afford to be 'disillusioned' by their jobs.

  21. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That reminds me of when I tried to pay for something with my credit card instead of PayPal. It went like this:

    "Please enter your e-mail address"

    clickity-click-click....

    "Hey it looks like you have a PayPal account. Want to use it?"

    (how the f.....???) [No]

    "Ok, give us your credit card info"

    clickity-click-click....

    "You sure you don't want to pay via PayPal? Last chance!"

    [No]

    "We're pleased you decided to pay through PayPal. Here's your confirmation; you should receive an e-mail shortly."

    (multiple explitives and wishing I had simply closed the browser earlier on....but I did get the item, and no immediate harm done to my PayPal or credit card accounts)

  22. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

    I knew what irony was before Alanis was even a zygote, thanks very much.

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  23. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

    Sure thing, Son.

    BTW, I notice you're on the Internet wayyy after lights-out, so you're grounded from the computer for the next two weeks.

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  24. Dark Profiles by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 2

    Read page 2 of tfa if you have the time

    There is a mention of "Dark Profiles", and I quote:
     
     

    "... a team of Facebook engineers was developing what they called dark profiles - "pages for people who had not signed up for the service but who had been identified in posts by Facebook users. The dark profiles were not to be visible to ordinary users, Losse said, but if the person eventually signed up, Facebook would activate those latent links to other users."

     

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    Muchas Gracias, Señor Edward Snowden !
    1. Re:Dark Profiles by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Interesting
      Dark profiles indeed. Go to Yahoo. Make sure you have Noscript turned on. Let's say you for some insane reason want to leave a comment.

      Try to do it without Facebook getting and tracking it. No membership required.

      People who think that Apple, Google or Microsoft are evil ought to check out how FB is tracking everyone. It's not just Yahoo, they are just folks I am familiar with.

      --
      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    2. Re:Dark Profiles by ralphdaugherty · · Score: 2

      "... a team of Facebook engineers was developing what they called dark profiles - "pages for people who had not signed up for the service but who had been identified in posts by Facebook users. The dark profiles were not to be visible to ordinary users, Losse said, but if the person eventually signed up, Facebook would activate those latent links to other users."

      LinkedIn did a form of this, apparently just storing invites to my email address from members even though I wasn't a member. After some time, I registered with LinkedIn for other reasons and was immediately linked to those who had sent me invites in the past.

    3. Re:Dark Profiles by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 1

      It's creepy no matter who is behind it

      If I am not a member of a certain organization there are 3 possibilities:

      A. I do not know of the existence organization

      B. I knew of that organization and decided not to join

      C. I applied to join, but that organization decided not to accept me as a member

      In the case of option C, since I was the one who took the initiative in applying to join that group (but being rejected) I am in no position to complain if that group keeps a profile of me in their blacklist (or something).

      But for A and B, I have no link to that organization and I really do not like the idea people (or group, or spy agencies) keeping track of me even when I'm not even doing anything for or against them.

      What kind of world we are living in?

      Even in 1984 the Big Brother wasn't keeping such detailed information on everybody.
       

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      Muchas Gracias, Señor Edward Snowden !
    4. Re:Dark Profiles by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because it's sexy to see your armada of soft, succulent users scurrying about like little ants.

  25. Rural West Texas Town? by smcdow · · Score: 1

    Marfa is where hipsters go to be alone.

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    In the course of every project, it will become necessary to shoot the scientists and begin production.
    1. Re:Rural West Texas Town? by cellocgw · · Score: 2

      Marfa is where hipsters go to be alone.
      So... she's a hipster because she quit Facebook before it was cool to do so?

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  26. Biggest Ponzi Scheme of the '10s That's Zuck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Zuck ... Schmuck ... Crook.

    It's entomology on the internet about the FB insects.

    Well, 'At least they are not twits. But not far removed either.'

    LOL

    XD

    PS my /. passphrase is 'reactive'. How did that happen? ;)

  27. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "The only thing worse than someone referring to the readership of their post as "people,""

    What's the matter with _you_ people?

  28. Other side by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Lit major in over her head at a tech company feels the heat and comes up with the rationalization that she really didn't like it there anyway. Snore.

  29. Easy to say by Arkaic · · Score: 2

    ...after you have cashed in your stock and made a not insubstantial sum of money. I wonder how much effort, if any, she will put into combating the type of issues she is now decrying.

  30. Re:Sums up every bad Wash Post article by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 1

    Considering all of the other social media 'experts' I've heard of had majored in psychology or sociology, this sounds more to me like the usual self-important Washington Post article passing judgment on how we non-rich people from outside the East Coast live.

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  31. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by BeanThere · · Score: 1

    Sigh .. the worst thing about knee-jerk 'that's not irony' Alanis references is when they are actually irony ... how sadly ironic can you get. FYI, it is actually irony that the 'preferred method' of signing in is Facebook for an article discussing desire to stop using Facebook.

  32. I think you're mixing generations up by TheSeatOfMyPants · · Score: 2

    The pampered generation was the one born in the very early 90s onwards; she was born in the mid-70s, and kids were still having 'traditional' childhoods for a good 15 years after that point.

    Also, most of the estimates I've seen place people in their mid-30s (ages 34-37, perhaps) either in the overlap between two generations, or outside of both. The childhood technological experiences of Generation X and Generation Y are drastically different thanks to the sudden rise of home computers, microwaves, VCRs, 1st/2nd wave of video games, etc. -- and the mid-30s crowd lands in-between the two.

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  33. plaintext passwords by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In her first days, she was given a master password that she said allowed her to see any information users typed into their Facebook pages. She could go into pages to fix technical problems and police content. Losse recounted sparring with a user who created a succession of pages devoted to anti-gay messages and imagery. In one exchange, she noticed the man’s password, “Ilovejason,” and was startled by the painful irony.

    One billion... thats a lot of plaintext passwords. Just sayin'.

  34. Communicating is not Caring by BoRegardless · · Score: 1

    Electronic posts can't take the place of physical contacts and personal emotions, yet this isn't discussed, but most people recognize the need for social contacts.

  35. Fame by SlashDev · · Score: 1

    Facebook like many websites social or otherwise, became famous out of necessity. The product it delivers is outstanding no doubt, if you haven't seen the movie you should, true it has many inaccuracies but it makes you realize what people are really after, online. The fakeness is a perception, the website is really massive and will only get bigger. JMHO.

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  36. Article Demands Registration by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seemed like an interesting article but it demanded registration on page 5.

  37. Passwords in clear text? by gplus · · Score: 2
    From TFA (Page 2, 2'nd paragraph.):

    In one exchange, she noticed the man’s password, “Ilovejason,” and was startled by the painful irony.

    If she could see a users password, doesn't that mean that FB stores passwords in clear text? Or at least did so a few years ago. Is there any other explanation?

  38. "Rejecting it altogether felt, to her, extreme." by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A real rebel, this one... not. Well, what would one expect from a macbook and iphone touting woman, English major, no less.

    I never had an account and never will. Neither should you.

  39. one things for sure by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    English majors don't go into technology for interest in tech. They go into it for the money. Thatvone explaination why she has a distaste for tech (once she made her bucks).

    Another fact is rich folks (or ones that cash out) sure have their opinions.

  40. Re:"Rejecting it altogether felt, to her, extreme. by Requiem18th · · Score: 1

    I don't have an account but that doesn't mean FB isn't tracking me somehow. I have facebook's ip blocked in my hosts files, and run several tracker removing tools like privoxy, ghostery and adblock+. However people take photos of me, friends and family, and not being on facebook, I can't keep track of them. I'm sure some of them are "helpfully" tagging my face on their profiles. I tell people I don't like FB when I can, but you can't really be take the initiative without becoming the "man that's proud to not own a TV/FB/G+" etc. As a result it's hard to tell who is tagging me and who isn't. Worse yet while I ask people to stop tagging me when I can, I never ask for being untagged, because that's useless, FB won't ever forget about that.

    This doesn't mean I will stop caring and make an account already. Ghost profiles are by their very nature, sketchy and unreliable. The less information they have on me the better. And no, it's not simply privacy. For as much as I complain that I want my privacy, I do realize that FB itself isn't interested in me. I don't buy at all the bullshit that they are going to make life better for me by offering me products I'm interested in. This kind of marketing isn't about helping me. It's about finding the right market strategy to sell me things I wouldn't buy otherwise.

    The real danger are FB clients. Groups like the US government or UK police departments. Groups that would try to use FB vast database to cast a net and trap people for stepping away from control. The thing that saddens me about FB is that it's a tool for suppression of social progress. The huge hypocrisy is that we know this, and we know it's good and we even encourage it in other countries. Yet we've left our covernment build a safety wall against their own citizens...

    FB, one way or another, manages to depress me almost every day somehow.

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    But... the future refused to change.
  41. Re:Please sign in to access this article and other by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not in my opinion. It just seems to be really selective and ignores the two other options for the sake of making a joke.

    PS: That's not how you use ellipses. ;)

  42. Insights from reading the book by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Picked the book up at the library over the weekend and finished about 80 percent of it last night.

    She is a pretty good writer, very descriptive and colorful... about what I would expect from a English grad student.

    As many comments before point out she was in the right place at the right time.
    The book is really her look at the inside of FB, from an outsiders point of view. She has a very limited understanding of any technologies that were involved in building, operating or maintaining the actual site. The engineers were in a different world from her even when they were in the same room. She had difficulty fitting into the main cliches at the company.

    You will find no tech knowledge in this book, if that is your goal skip it!

    She struggles to understand that someone answering email was really only worth 30K when a developer was worth 80K.
    She refers to all of the male employees at FB as "boys" and then points out misconduct the occurs, while shocked that a small percentage of the employees are female. (Less than 10% of my Computer Science class were females so this is really not a shocker)

    The introduction chapter really puts it in perspective that she is of a very liberal mindset and it appears again through many of the chapters. As her career progresses she does take on some interesting assignments and contribute to the success of FB. I applaud her on sticking with it and using her talents in a productive manner. When she finally becomes a salaried employee, finally she gets a real taste of what IT is like(e.g. oncall, always accessible).

    Her views regarding FB, social media and how it impacts our lives is interesting and accurate. Friending someone on FB is not the same as being friends in the real world. It struck me as having a visitor to the zoo write a book about the life of the animals.

  43. Re:Fake users? Hah! They have Facebook in heaven.. by sartin · · Score: 1

    The town's beloved food truck, the Food Shark, has nearly 1,700 'Likes' [...] According to Wikipedia Tammy Wynette died in 1998. Facebook was launched in February 2004.

    The Food Shark is that good. Went there on Spring Break this year while visiting Guadalupe Mountains, Davis Mountains, and Big Bend. Best meal we had all week.

  44. Fake relationships by ToddInSF · · Score: 1

    FB serves it's purpose, if someone spends a lot of time on it, I know they're someone I want to avoid.

  45. Uninspired bitter ex-employee writes about it, wow by halcyonandon1 · · Score: 1

    This person, a so-called 'refugee' from Facebook, is full of it. I mean, she left Facebook to write a 'tell-all' about Facebook under the guise that she left the company to get away from it? Yeah, that does't resonate at all with me.

    Let me preface the rest of my comment by saying, I am not a supporter of Facebook. I am a software engineer, I have a Facebook I seldom use and keep private, I eagerly await Facebook's inevitable decline.

    Her book and perspective do not help anyone but herself and her 'career'. My takeaway is that she wasn't trusted and bitterly did what would be expected of a disgruntled writer... she wrote about her previous employer for personal gain. Its a good thing she left technology behind because no one in the industry should trust her after this.

    Her point revolves around the 'problem' with Facebook being rooted with users and not Facebook as a technology or communication method. Basically, all I hear is her calling users 'stupid'.

    The reality of the situation is this... Facebook is where the users are, so its where the money is. If history repeats itself (which it does), Facebook will inevitably meet its end the same way other communication and social platforms have historically gone (pagers, aol, Friendster, Myspace, RIM et al.), when users leave for another platform or technology.

    The problem with Facebook is that it exploits users, rather than empower them. Sure, that's a sweeping statement, but its the truth. Their features exist merely as a way to proliferate user data for the purpose of advertising. It is this trend in the industry that's the problem and Facebook isn't alone. Its also the symptom of a company with an ad-hoc business model, something investors have been critical about long before they went public and the single largest reason why they can't figure out how to make mobile profitable.

    Its easy to pick at problems with something (a product, solution, situation), but its something else entirely to find solutions. She's seems so focused on the problems with Facebook and her conclusion is "I'll use it again, but with caution".

    She had an opportunity to make a tremendous difference in the Facebook culture and platform, instead she plays the victim and proclaims (with heavy overtones of self-righteousness) that Facebook isn't the answer to... what? The human condition? Her career? (I'm honestly not sure what the question even is that she's trying to answer)

    Well no kidding, technology has a shelf-life and exists as a step, bridging the gap to the next 'thing'. Facebook is no exception. One thing I do know for certain is that whatever the next thing is, she will play no part in it with her uninspired, defeatist perspective and that's the one good thing I got from this article.

  46. If I tyhought there was anything of substance ... by RockDoctor · · Score: 1
    ... to this post, I'd say something.

    But instead, I'm off to update my Facebook page.

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