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The Text Message Typo That Landed a Man In Jail

Barence writes "A British man was jailed for 18 months for accidentally sending an explicit text message to his entire address book. 24-year-old swimming coach Craig Evans intended to send a text message to his girlfriend asking her for sex. Instead, the message was accidentally sent to his entire BlackBerry address book, including two girls, aged 13 and 14, from his swimming class. He was subsequently arrested and charged with 'causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity,' and – incredibly – jailed for 18 months at Birmingham Crown Court in July. Yesterday, an appeal's court freed Evans, although he wasn't cleared — the sentence was merely reduced to a nine-month suspended jail term."

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  1. I can only assume by second_coming · · Score: 4, Funny

    that it must have been a jury made up of 12 Daily Mail readers.

    1. Re:I can only assume by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      Piece (of ass) be upon him.

    2. Re:I can only assume by nibbles2004 · · Score: 5, Funny

      hmmm, the religious fundamentalists went to America, and the convicts to Oz, all we got left with was Charles Darwin and Alan Turing

    3. Re:I can only assume by TheCRAIGGERS · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Rather cool excuse if it had worked though.

      If only there was some way of verifying his story... like looking through the texting logs from his carrier.

    4. Re:I can only assume by flaming+error · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Your plausible deniability story sounds possible.

      For use as a bizarre story plot in a tv crime drama.

      But this is reality, where simpler explanations are more likely explanations. Where people are generally decent and compliant with social norms, and those rare few who aren't try not to broadcast it to everyone they know.

    5. Re:I can only assume by Xest · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Neither of those things are strange to be fair. He was their coach and it's not unusual here for the coach to do that sort of thing to tell them when lessons will be or to let them know he wont make it or whatever.

      As for having a phone, well, this is the UK, most kids now seem to have a mobile phone by about the age of 5.

    6. Re:I can only assume by Antipater · · Score: 4, Funny

      Keep in mind that the best and brightest of England left to make their fortunes in the colonies long ago. The ones that stayed behind were, well, the "special" types.

      Hey, someone had to sanitize the telephones and look at moodily-lit photos of toothpaste.

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    7. Re:I can only assume by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Alan Turing. Who you chemically castrated for being gay. You really want to go down ths road?

    8. Re:I can only assume by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      We don't have any pedophiles, all of ours are spelt correctly.

    9. Re:I can only assume by Flytrap · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Given that nearly every member of his family also received the message, it is very unlikely that he had intended to solicit sex from all the recipients, “skin on skin”. Remember, if the prosecution accuses him of “causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity,” they have to prove their case, not the other way around. That is what "innocent until proven guilty" means.

      Clearly he did send the message, which is why he could not be exonerated from the crime that he was accused of... However proving intent was always going to be an uphill battle given how indiscriminately wide his message went.

      I think that Judge Elias' conclusion that “it is difficult to conclude that he was targeting anyone” is the only reasonable conclusion (unless you have evidence that the prosecutors did not have).

    10. Re:I can only assume by Nadaka · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Or the jury were raging retards.

    11. Re:I can only assume by tmosley · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I would bet if he had accidentally killed those two girls with his car, he would have gotten less jail time.

    12. Re:I can only assume by X0563511 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Leaving the question hanging in the air: why was he convicted at all? This should have been thrown out and laughed at the moment someone tried to press charges.

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    13. Re:I can only assume by Chrisq · · Score: 4, Funny

      Given that nearly every member of his family also received the message, it is very unlikely that he had intended to solicit sex from all the recipients,

      Unless he was a real motherfucker

    14. Re:I can only assume by ZeroSumHappiness · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Cop 1 to Cop 2: "So, uh, do you think this should be prosecuted?"
      Cop 1, thinking: "Damn, I hope Joe doesn't think I'm a pedo for suggesting this might not be worthy of prosecution."
      Cop 2, thinking: "Damn, Pete will think I'm a pedo if I don't say yes."
      Cop 1 and Cop 2 in nervous unison, "Uh, yeah."

      CPS agent being passed the case from Pete and Joe, thinking: "Well, this must be an honest mistake, right? But I'll lose my job if it's not."

      Prosecutor to jury, "You're a pedophile lover if you don't think that sending gross text messages to children is wrong."

      Juror 1 to others, "Uh, yeah, I'm not a pedo, so I can't condone this behavior."
      Juror 4, thinking: "If I say no they'll all think I'm a pedo. Gotta vote guilty. Maybe someone else will stand up for him."

      Judge, thinking: "If I don't throw the book at a convicted pedo I'll look like an asshole..."

      Appeals judge, thinking: "Well, Judge Green and a jury found him guilty. I'll look like a pedo asshole if I don't uphold. At least I can give him a break and suspend the sentence, right?"

      Slashdot: "How the hell could this possibly happen? Obviously an honest mistake, right?"

    15. Re:I can only assume by atriusofbricia · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yet he was found guilty meaning the jury obviously felt there was enough evidence to convict.

      You can't suggest there is a more simple explanation when it suits you and ignore it where it doesn't.

      The most simple explanation in this situation was that he was in fact trying to groom the kids and that the jury felt there was enough evidence to that fact to convict, hence why he was convicted for it.

      So you're really suggesting that someone came up with the bizarre plan of texting every single person they know to attempt to "groom the kids" on a mere hope that it would work? Seriously? What's the best case (for him) scenario here? It works, the gets the girls but then has to explain the mistake over and over again to everyone he knows and likely hearing about it for years after?

      That's simpler to believe than he accidentally sent it to everyone when meaning to send it to one person? Really?!

      While admittedly not knowing if they do this in UK courts, a far simpler explanation is that the judge explained the law to the jury in such a manner that it invalidated the explanation of the accused (sending such a message to a sub-legal girl is illegal no matter what for instance) and they convicted on that alone.

      Either that or this guy just came up with the most complicated method to attempt to contact young girls for sex ever. Since they were in his swimming class, wouldn't it be a million times easier to just talk to them in private sometime there? With no evidence laying around?

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    16. Re:I can only assume by scot4875 · · Score: 5, Informative

      When were gays ever lynched in America?

      Seriously? I lived in a small college town of about 30k and while I was growing up, there were *two* openly gay guys that ended up either dead or just disappeared.

      Perhaps you're just trying to nit-pick that technically, most gays don't get lynched -- they just get murdered by one person, a la Matthew Shepard -- but the end result is about the same. And no, it's nowhere as prevalent as the lynchings of black people in the south ... but just because it isn't as bad or as visible, doesn't mean it should be ignored.

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    17. Re:I can only assume by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Then there's the question of why he had 13 and 14 year old girls' in his blackberry.

      Why not? I have more than a dozen phone numbers for 13-14 year old girls in my cellphone. They are my daughter's friends, and I occasionally carpool them home from school, or need to find them at a mall, or whatever.

      Then there's the question of why a 13 or 14 year old even has a phone

      So they can call people. My daughter has had her own cell phone since she was eight. In addition to the convenience, it is a matter of safety. If she is ever lost or in an uncomfortable situation, Dad is just a button push away. She is not allowed to leave the house without it. Why would any 13 or 14 year old not have a cell phone?

    18. Re:I can only assume by scot4875 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      What the people in positions of power do have very little correspondence with what they *should* do.

      We have kids here in the US getting put on the sex offender registry for creation and distribution of child pornography because their boy/girlfriends sent them naked pictures of each other. And the judges and prosecuting attorneys feel that this is a perfectly rational, reasonable thing to do -- to destroy these kids' lives before they're even out of high school to so that they can be protected from themselves.

      An appeal to the authority of the judge isn't a terribly convincing argument.

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    19. Re:I can only assume by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 5, Funny

      You obviously read Kafka as fiction, yes?

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    20. Re:I can only assume by Belial6 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Exactly. More kids need phones than adults. I got my kid his first cell phone at 4. It's a good thing too since on a trip to Disneyland, he found an exit from the Tom Sawyer's caves that my wife and I didn't know about. The fact that I was able to receive a call from him saying "I'm outside and I don't see you." made the difference between a fun family vacation with a memorable story and a horrific trip where we spent a good portion of the time with park security hoping that we will see our child again. Asking what a kid needs a cell phone for makes about as much sense as asking what they need seat belts for.

  2. I just tried to do this on my Blackberrry by Arab · · Score: 5, Funny

    I can't even figure out how to send a message to all my Blackberry contacts...

    How does one make a mistake like that?

    1. Re:I just tried to do this on my Blackberrry by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      When you accidently want sex from everyone on your contact list... that is how it happens.

    2. Re:I just tried to do this on my Blackberrry by Big+Hairy+Ian · · Score: 5, Insightful
      To quote the bard

      A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely fool-proof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools.

      — Douglas Adams

      The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy

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    3. Re:I just tried to do this on my Blackberrry by Inda · · Score: 5, Funny

      I don't know about Blackberry but it's too easy on Android.

      Message recipients > Group > My Contacts > Select all.

      It would be too easy to select the "My Contacts" group or "My Swimming contacts" group, instead of the "My shagging partners" group.

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  3. Project seX? by Razgorov+Prikazka · · Score: 5, Informative

    Sounds a little like the ProjetX we had here in Holland. A girl accidentally asked the whole FB community to join her on her birthday-party. She forgot to mention that it was for her friends and family only.
    Thousands gathered in a small village (pop. 20.000), rioted, plundered stores, burned cars, damage ~ 1 million total.
    A quick search on "projectX Haren" should suffice for more info.

    On the guy... that is well inconvenient mate!

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  4. Hrm by IamTheRealMike · · Score: 5, Informative

    Only source for this appears to be the Daily Mail, not a publication noted for its accurate reporting. How easy is it to accidentally send a text message to an entire contact list on Blackberries? I've never used a phone that made such a thing possible.

    1. Re:Hrm by hairyfish · · Score: 5, Interesting

      My Bullshit detector went off as soon I read the summary. You can't send a text to all contacts with BB (just checked mine now). The only way to do this is to create a group, add all your contacts, then send a txt to the group. Hardly the sort of thing you would do accidently. Also the Daily Mail is one of those "President Kidnapped by Aliens!" publications. Why we keep getting Daily Mail stories on Slashdot is beyond me. Wake up Slashdot Editors.

    2. Re:Hrm by Vintermann · · Score: 4, Informative

      It's much more likely that the Daily Mail made up some details (such as it being a Blackberry, or the guy being a swimming instructor, or the guy having a girlfriend etc.) than that they made up a case like this out of whole cloth and attached it to a picture of a real person.

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    3. Re:Hrm by Otter+Popinski · · Score: 5, Funny

      Maybe his girlfriend's name is Swimantha.

  5. Re:Wait, what? by The+Dancing+Panda · · Score: 5, Informative

    He's the swim coach. That's fairly common, for quick updates about practices and meets.

  6. Re:FTA... by Rooked_One · · Score: 5, Funny

    i agree... fucking mormons...

  7. From blackberry website by nten · · Score: 4, Informative

    You can send a broadcast message to all contacts in a folder or to individual contacts. Recipients cannot reply to broadcast messages.

            On the Contact list screen, press the Menu key.
            Click Broadcast Message.
            Complete the Announcement field.
            If you have administrator permissions and want to send the broadcast message to all of the users on the server, select the System message check box. Click OK.
            Click Recipients.
            Click a folder.
            Perform one of the following actions:
                    To send the broadcast message to all of the contacts in the folder, select the Select All check box.
                    To send the broadcast message to individual contacts in the folder, select the check box beside the contacts.
            Click OK.
            Click OK.

    That seems hard to do by accident, but at least slightly possible.

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  8. Re:Something is fishy by CodeArtisan · · Score: 4, Insightful

    How do you even send a text message to your entire address book? This sounds more like the guy used some very poor judgement, but I doubt it was accidental.

    The guy sent the same message to his family members:

    Agreeing and allowing the appeal, Lord Justice Elias said: "The facts of this case are rather unusual...messages reading 'Would you f**k me? Fast or slow? Skin on skin' were sent to every single contact in his phone, including members of his own family."

    So it does seem like a genuine screw up.

  9. Re:Why did he have them in his address book? by artfulshrapnel · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Maybe it's because he was their swimming instructor, and gave them a ride somewhere or something? It's not like he had dozens of minors' contacts lying around and a string of lewd messages to them in his contact history (believe me, the police will have checked with the phone company by now).

    Christ, panic mongers like yourself are the reason children are increasingly living in padded isolation boxes to protect them from big scary reality, and men are terrified to so much as speak to a child lest they be accused of molesting them. It's at the point now where, out of self-preservation, I would drive right by a child alone on the side of the road in the middle of winter. I would not stop to help. Why? Because if god forbid something happened to them later, or they decided to say something about me, the world would ruin my life for the greater good.

    Ask yourself if that's really the best thing for children. For every pedophile you've cowed into hiding (they don't go away mind you, and when they think nobody is looking they're still going to do horrible things) you scare away hundreds or thousands of decent human beings who would help a child in need. Your child is far more likely to be hurt by tripping and falling, getting lost, or eating something dangerous; and if you're not around, you'd best hope there's a woman nearby to help because with this attitude the men will stay the fuck away.

  10. Again, the cure is worse than the disease by Damouze · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Obviously (at least if the Daily Mail is to be believed, and I do have some doubts about this), the guy does not belong in jail, nor does he belong on the sex offenders list. The worst that should have happened to him was that he had to apologize to everyone he sent this message to, nothing more, nothing less.

    Negligent? Maybe, but to err is human. All too often these days a simple mistake (whether it be sending the message or buying a Blackberry in the first place) is twisted into something that it simply is not: a crime.

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  11. Re:Wait, what? by silentcoder · · Score: 5, Insightful

    >No, they go to the parents who transport their children to the meetings. So I'll ask again; Why did he have the phone numbers of 13 and 14 year olds on his phone?

    Because they were 13 and 14 year old's NOT 6 and 7 year olds. That means they were high-school aged. Now I know in America you treat highschool teenagers that age as if they were babies but in the rest of the world they are allowed and indeed EXPECTED to take a modicum of responsibility for their own actions.

    Including almost CERTAINLY having to get to practise THEMSELVES using available public transport, bycicles and the like.

    My parents would have found the idea of "taking a high school kid to a sports practise" stupid beyond measure. They bought me a bike instead.

    Even aside from that - there IS such a thing as non-sexual friendships between adults and teenagers. Teens seeking advice, role models and the like - and adults who are willing to play that role, often ones in positions like coaches, guidance councillors and such who are able and willing to give good advice to difficult questions that those kids may not be as comfortable discussing with their parents.
    That's not just innocent, it's a NORMAL part of growing up and depriving kids of that thinking you're protecting them is a very good way to make them less likely to grow up into responsible adults.

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  12. Re:Wait, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    "No, they go to the parents who transport their children to the meetings."

    Kids use public transports outside the US, we're not backwards morons.

  13. Re:Daily Mail fail by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Second, he did send a sexual text to underaged children. That it was by accident makes it alright?

    Mens rea is sort of a thing in common law jurisdictions... It isn't an absolute/binary matter; but it has long been the case that both act and intent are what make the crime. This is why, for instance, 'negligent homicide' is different than '1st degree murder'. If you were to kill me by accident it obviously wouldn't be 'alright', I'd still be pretty dead, and depending on the circumstances you might be on the civil and/or criminal hook for some sort of negligence, recklessness, or indifference; but, yeah, you certainly wouldn't be going down on Murder 1 charges...

    Having, thankfully, not dealt with a Blackberry user interface in a while, I have no idea where on the continuum from 'freak accident, could have happened to anyone' to 'epic negligence' sending a given message to your entire address book is; but none of those places are the same as intentionally sending the message to the legally problematic recipients.

  14. Re:Wait, what? by artfulshrapnel · · Score: 4, Interesting

    This. Even as an American I had contact with my several of my teachers outside of school. They were role models and sources of advice when I was in school, and friends now that I am an adult. Heck, last time I was in town I had a beer with my old art teacher and we bitched about clients together.

  15. Re:Where are they? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    There must usually be a guilty mind (mens rea) but - and you'll need to check the offence for exactly what's required -

    1. Not always. There are strict or near-strict liability offences, e.g. carrying a knife where the only mindful aspect is knowing that you're carrying it;

    2. Even then, there are loads of other forms of guilty mind: recklessness, knowledge, belief, (criminal) negligence, etc. Recklessness is particularly interesting: as of 2003 this is by default subjective, i.e. you have to show that the defendant knew that there would be a risk of a particular outcome but that he went to take that risk anyway. I might try as follows:

    i) Firstly, show that he knew that it was easy to accidentally send messages to everyone - perhaps easier if he'd set up an "everyone including the kids" contact group.

    i) Secondly, show the guy was in the habit of sending explicit messages to his partner.

    It's like chucking stones around and accidentally hitting a greenhouse. Sure, every young guy thinks he is hot shit and will never fuck anything up, but if he is aware of the risk which comes from fucking up and breaking the greenhouse yet still chucks stones around, he has a guilty mind.

    A 9 month suspended sentence is OK. What is far worse for him is the effect of his criminal record on esp. employment prospects. The law on spent convictions is completely fucked (e.g. sex offender register, enhanced CRB disclosure) and essentially condemns all but the least of criminals for life - coincidentally making them desperate and likely to commit more crime.

  16. Re:Daily Mail fail by silentcoder · · Score: 5, Insightful

    >If I kill you by accident, that is alright then?
    Maybe. You won't be charged with murder. You MAY be charged with manslaughter. The legal test for manslaughter is: 'caused a death where a reasonable person would not'.

    So if reasonable precautions on your part would have prevented the death - and you didn't take them - then you're guilty, otherwise you are indeed innocent.
    To make up a random example. You're a forklift driver. Your forklift runs downhil while you stop for lunch, runs over a car and kills the driver. Are you guilty ? Well if you had left the handbrake off - then you are. If you had pulled it up but the brake FAILED while you were gone, then you're innocent.

    See how it works ?

    So we can apply a similar test to this accident if it helps you feel better.
    We know (and an appeals court judge has declared) based on the available evidence that there was no intent here. But was the accident excusable ? Well it depends - was it an accident a reasonable person would have been able to avoid ?
    For that one would have to look at the interface of the specific phone, the methods that led to this happening and the particular circumstances of the case. You cannot just universally make a declaration about it. There is even the possibility that this was caused by an obscure or sporadic bug in that version of the blackberry OS - that even RIM may not know about yet and NO action of his would have prevented it. Such bugs can and do happen - this site is full of programmer's we've all seen bugs like that. If that is the case (and we - and likely HE doesn't know that) then he would be completely innocent by the "reasonable person" measure.

    I sincerely doubt the Jury ever really tried to question how reasonable his actions were since they never even asked the intent question despite the strong evidence showing there wasn't any.
    Now the fact is that this question quite academic - the question of whether he had acted in a reasonable manner hasn't been answered and we don't have enough information to answer it. The appeals judge may have, and may have decided on those grounds that he did NOT take reasonable precautions to keep his sexual message away from the minors and this is why he remains guilty - but the judge DID agree the actions were without INTENT and this is why his sentence was so significantly mitigated.
    But that is just a guess - I haven't read the actual court reports so don't take this as a claim of fact, just a likely explanation of the outcome.

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  17. Re:Wait, what? by Dr_Barnowl · · Score: 5, Insightful

    See a poster above - outside the USA it's very normal for children of all ages to transport themselves to places. I was catching a bus home from school by the time I was 9.

    If this guy was their swimming coach, then he had a perfectly justifiable reason for having their numbers in his phone, even if it was just so he knew which one of his team was texting him to say that she couldn't come to a training session.

    Yes, he screwed up. But it doesn't justify the offence he was convicted of, which will place him on the offenders register for a minimum of 10 years, and has therefore completely destroyed his chosen career.

    The ruination of a man's life is a hard price to pay for a social faux-pas.

  18. Re:Wait, what? by artfulshrapnel · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The way I see it you're actually making life more dangerous for children.

    I pose this question to males out there: You're driving down the road and see a young child, maybe 12 years old, on the side of the road. It's cold, too cold to be safely outside, and they're trying to wave you down. You don't recognize them, but they're obviously distressed. Would you stop to help?

    I, for one, would not. If it's some attention-seeking disturbed child, or just the child of some overzealous protective parents, I could wind up in jail with my life ruined for my efforts. Safer thing to do for me is pretend I never saw anything, and hope someone finds them. I'd even be nervous to call 911, because then it's "Why didn't you stop to help?" which makes me suspicious. Good luck kid, blame your parents' attitudes.

  19. Re:Why did he have them in his address book? by Shadow99_1 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    People like that just don't want to look at the facts. The facts are that the vast majority of pedophiles know the victim by being a family member or a friend of the family aunt or uncle). And while men are slightly more often found to be doing this sort of thing 1/3rd of pedophiles are actually women most are never convicted though and boys are far less likely to come forward if I woman makes a sexual advance).

    Yet men and more so 'strange' men who are not family friends or relatives are the targets of the publics outrage over these things. It just goes to prove how irrational most people are and how sensationalist most of the media is.

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  20. Re:Wait, what? by dkleinsc · · Score: 4, Funny

    As far as teaching kids responsibility, one of my favorites from my sister's swim team coach:
    Kid: "My mom forgot to pack a bathing suit."
    Coach: "Is your mom on the swim team?"

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  21. Re:Wait, what? by Kahlandad · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I've been in a situation just as you describe.

    A month or so ago my neighbor's daughter knocked on my door. It was raining and cold and she had been locked out of her house. I have a daughter who does not live with me full time, so I let the neighbor girl in and sent her to my daughter's room to change into dry clothes and hang out until her mom to got home.

    An hour or so later her mom arrives home and was very grateful... until she learned that my daughter wasn't living with me that week. My thanks? She called the police. I wasn't arrested or charged with anything, but an officer did arrive to take statements.

    Next time her kid gets locked out, she can catch pneumonia.

  22. Re:Why did he have them in his address book? by tilante · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm the father of a 13-year-old girl, and I have several of her friends' numbers in my phone. Why? Here's a few reasons:

    While my daughter has her own phone, she often forgets it or forgets to charge it. Also, she's often on restriction at her Mom's house and not allowed to have a phone there, and when she is, she simply leaves it at my house. (I have her every other week.) Thus, her friends often call me looking for her. I don't have a good memory for phone numbers, so I've saved the numbers of those who call looking for her often, along with their names, so the caller ID on my phone will show me the name instead of the number. That way, I can often answer with a simple, "Hi. She's not here, she's at her mom's" or simply hand the phone over to her to answer.

    Secondly, and relating to number one, sometimes she needs to call her friends, and doesn't have her phone. Having their numbers in my phone allows me to hand it over to her and let her call them, without having to go through the hoops of calling their parents. (Some of whom are divorced, and thus it can be a guessing game as to which parent one needs to call to reach the child.)

    (And parenthetically here, that's part of what led me to start saving the kids' numbers in the first place. After having done the game of "Oh, you need to talk to Jenny? Okay, I'll call her mom... hi, Angie, Margie needs to talk to Jenny... oh, she's with Mark? Okay, I don't have Mark's number, can you give it to me? Thanks. Hi, Mark, this is Margie's dad. Margie Andrews. She's a friend of Jenny, and she wants to ask her about... oh, she's over at Alicia's? Do you have the number there? No? Oh, Alicia has a phone? Okay, let me write that down...." two or three times a month for several months, I found it was much easier when she wanted to contact one of the other kids to just have her call that kid directly.)

    Third, when she's out with friends and has forgotten her own phone (or it's out of charge), it makes it easy for me to call and get her, since I know who she's with. Even if they've gone out walking, or have walked over to another friend's house in the neighborhood, I can still get her, since I have the numbers of people she's actually physically with.

    Now, I don't go around asking for these kids' phone numbers -- I just tag them with their names after they've called me, or save them after I've been given their number and had to call them. (I'd hope by now that in a world of Caller ID, all parents are teaching their children that if you don't want someone to have your number, you shouldn't call them directly.)

    I also have the phone numbers of a few older teens who are in my weekly D&D group that meets at a gaming store. I'm the GM, so people have given me their numbers so I can let them know if I'm not going to be able to make it for some reason, or if I'm going to be late, or for similar things. Some of their parents I know; some of them I don't, since these are high school kids who have their own cars and get around on their own. I'd actually prefer to use email for that, since I usually know well in advance, but one of them especially checks her email very rarely, but always gets texts -- and, of course, sometimes I don't know I'm going to be running late until only an hour or so before the game, and many people don't check their email that often. (Usually in that case I actually just text two of the people, and ask them to text everyone else... but one of those is the girl who's the social hub of the teen group.)

  23. Well known English legal principle by Kupfernigk · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Try to go before a judge if you're innocent, a jury if you're guilty. And if you didn't do it and go before magistrates, try and get the trial committed to go before a judge.

    British juries are about as intelligent as American juries, however British judges are not political appointments and so don't have to grandstand to keep their jobs.

    --
    From scarped cliff or quarried stone she cries "A thousand types are gone, I care for nothing, no not one."
  24. Re:Wait, what? by sumdumass · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Are you sure about that? Sentencing someone to 18 months in prison for a mistakenly sent text?

    I think I would temper the condescending tone a bit. The reason why kids get driven to events in the US is largely because they are far away and too close together to school or other obligations to make it on public transportation and/or a bike in time. There is also the problem of early sunsets in the winter time (when school is in session) where a lot of sports events are held after dark making riding a bike a bit dangerous. We also aren't crammed into boxes living assholes to elbows from each other like a lot of people are in Europe..

      Besides, this is all pointless because the coach probably asked for a contact number and the kids gave him their cell numbers instead of the home phone or their parent's cell number. At least with the kid's number, they didn't have to worry about if Dad or Mom was taking them or if they were riding with someone else or whatever could happen when you can't contact someone directly.

  25. Re:Daily Mail fail by badfish99 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    IANAL, but: intent may be irrelevant in this case. The current fashion is to make so-called "strict liability" laws, especially in the area of "child protection". For example, in the UK, if there are child-porn pictures on your computer, then you are guily of an offence, regardless of how they got there. I don't know, but the same may apply in this case.

    The beauty of this is that it allows the police to arrest people like this unfortunate person and put them in jail without all the tedious arguments about whether they intended do harm or whether it was an accident. A jury will be told "if he sent the message then he is guilty, even if it was a mistake".

    Indeed, it is even possible for a policeman to force someone to do something against their will, and then arrest them for it. Google the case of "Winzar (1983)" if you don't believe me.

  26. The relevant law is the sexual offences act 2003. by queazocotal · · Score: 4, Informative

    http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/contents
    The relevant section is http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/section/10
    "Causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity

    (1)A person aged 18 or over (A) commits an offence if—
    (a)he intentionally causes or incites another person (B) to engage in an activity,
    (b)the activity is sexual, and
    (c)either—
    (i)B is under 16 and A does not reasonably believe that B is 16 or over, or
    (ii)B is under 13.
    (2)A person guilty of an offence under this section, if the activity caused or incited involved—
    (a)penetration of B’s anus or vagina,
    (b)penetration of B’s mouth with a person’s penis,
    (c)penetration of a person’s anus or vagina with a part of B’s body or by B with anything else, or
    (d)penetration of a person’s mouth with B’s penis,is liable, on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 14 years.
    (3)Unless subsection (2) applies, a person guilty of an offence under this section is liable—
    (a)on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 6 months or to a fine not exceeding the statutory maximum or both;
    (b)on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 14 years."

    "would you fuck me" - is clearly inciting penetration, so you can do up to 14 years for this.

    This is _NOT_ a strict liability offence.
    The jury must have had reason to believe that he intended to do this.
    Doing it by accident _CANNOT_ lead to a conviction, unless the judge misdirects them.
    For example - if he'd directed that because he intended to send it to one person on the list, that intent carried over to the unintended recipients.

    Indeed, I can't seem to see any 'strict liability' offences in the act.
    I may have missed some.
    At a minimum you need to have intended the action and not known the other party was underage.

  27. Re:Daily Mail fail by Chrisq · · Score: 4, Funny

    If I'm driving down a 2-lane highway and have a catastrophic failure in a tire that causes my car to spin out, cross the center line, hit your car killing you... is that really my fault? What if it was a piece of debris in the road that caused the tire to fail?

    No you would get off with that. If at the same time a notebook on your passenger seat with an intimate letter to your wife flew out of the window and landed on my teenage daughter's lap then you'd end up doing time.

  28. Re:Wait, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Next time the kid gets locked out call the cops about a neglected child locked out of her home.

  29. Re:Why did he have them in his address book? by nightfire-unique · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'm the father of a 13-year-old girl, and I have several of her friends' numbers in my phone. Why? Here's a few reasons:

    Thanks for taking the time to post an explanation, but throughout reading it all I could think of is:

    It is precisely no one's business but your own.

    The sexual-psychosis-fueled witch hunt has reached new levels when people feel they need to justify the presence of phone numbers in their contact list. Have the Western taliban really made this much progress towards paranoid dystopia?

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    A government is a body of people notably ungoverned - AC
  30. Re:Daily Mail fail by gutnor · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I did google - ended up here. This is scary beyond belief. I don't even know how that can be called justice. I know that is not at the same scale but that certainly put our outrage against some aspect of justice in other countries in perspective.