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DeathToBill writes: I spend a lot of time away from my kids (think months at a time) who are aged 3-8. I keep in touch with them by Skype, but the young ones are not really old enough to concentrate on it and we're often in quite different timezones, so it's not often it can be very spontaneous. We'd like to have some way that we can record short video messages of things we're doing and send them to each other. It needs to have an iPad app that is simple enough for a three-year-old to use with help and for a five-year-old to use without help; it needs to have an Android or web client, preferably one that doesn't require an Apple ID; it needs to be able to record a short video and send it to someone. As far as I can tell, iMessage requires Apple kit (there is an Android app but it sends all your messages through a server in China...) and Whatsapp works on iPhone but not iPad. What can you suggest?

115 comments

  1. Facebook? by jfdavis668 · · Score: 1

    You can post them on Facebook and share them with your family.

    1. Re:Facebook? by jpiratefish · · Score: 1

      https://www.facebook.com/help/... How old do you have to be to sign up for Facebook? To be eligible to sign up for Facebook, you must be at least 13 years old.

    2. Re:Facebook? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can post them on Facebook and share them with your family.

      You should have your geek card revoked for even suggesting such a thing. Some folks want their messaging to be private, not shared with everyone they know on social media and monetized by someone.

    3. Re:Facebook? by jfdavis668 · · Score: 1

      And some of us couldn't care less.

  2. Practical, not technical solution by SethJohnson · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What can you suggest?

    If you get divorced, make it a top priority over career to stay in same town as the children. Phone and video is no substitution for your presence in their lives.

    1. Re:Practical, not technical solution by caballew · · Score: 1

      If you get divorced, make it a top priority over career to stay in same town as the children. Phone and video is no substitution for your presence in their lives.

      Not always an option especially when the ex moves with children 800 miles away to a town without even a red light much less no jobs

    2. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You jumped to "divorced", I jumped to "deployed". People don't always have the choice of being with their kids.

    3. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "when", not "if".

    4. Re:Practical, not technical solution by DutchUncle · · Score: 2

      Military. Maritime. Oil drilling. Film-making. Scientific research. Not everyone works in the same comfy chair in the same office every day, and some of them make excellent money - a cousin worked support staff on the Alaska pipeline, spent a 3-month stint each construction season and made a year's worth of money each time. The difference is, it used to mean being out of touch for the whole time you were away, and now you can have *some* contact.

    5. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...the ex moves with children 800 miles away to a town without even a red light much less no jobs

      That's pitiful. The ex probably has a shitty job too or is just living on child support which is also a shitty life unless they're getting awesome child support payments.

      The only reason to do that is to hurt the other parent.

      I see these acrimonious divorces where the parents use the kids as ammunition. It's one thing if one spouse is an addict and puts the kids in harms way or neglects them - there are better ways to handle that than move to some shitty little town. It's another when both are well functioning and and use the kids to hurt the other.

      Now, well adjusted people make sure the other spouse is involved in the kids' life.

    6. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There are plenty of reasons. Best not to project your personal biases onto things that you know nothing about.

    7. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've never seen a town that did not have any jobs.

      I live in a town without even a red light. It has many, many jobs.

      The original suggestion was to prioritize proximity to your children over your career.

      If there are children in the town, there is probably a school. Which means that people are employed as teachers, administrators, and staff. Those are jobs.
      People in town have to eat, so there is probably a grocery store within a reasonable distances. it probably employs several people.
      If there is a gas station, there are jobs there.
      Then there are standard trades like plumber and painter.
      Law enforcement. Animal control.
      Even ISP.

      So, the question is: Are you willing to sacrifice your current career to stay involved in your children's lives?

      Don't make it sound like it isn't an option. If you reject the option, be honest. You prefer the lifestyle you live over involvement in your children's lives.

    8. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Andy+Dodd · · Score: 1

      He didn't state anything about being divorced, and the situation described sounded more like military deployment than divorce.

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    9. Re:Practical, not technical solution by dhasenan · · Score: 0

      It baffles me why you would wait until divorce to take an interest in your kids' lives. Are they just a point to score over your ex-wife and useless until then? Do you expect your wife to tell them you're an utter bastard the second you're divorced but sing your praises beforehand?

    10. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Roblimo · · Score: 1

      I've been divorced and I've been in the army.To me it sounds more like military or job absences. But we're just guessing....

    11. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if there _is_ a red light, the mom probably can find work, too.

    12. Re:Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Many people _in_ jobs perhaps but how many vacancies?

    13. Re:Practical, not technical solution by caballew · · Score: 1

      Teaching requires aptitude, certification and specialized educational requirements. Very rural area, so no ISP. Jobs at Dairy Queen or convenience store don't pay enough to even cover child support much less living expenses plus impossible to do with disabilities.

    14. Re:Practical, not technical solution by caballew · · Score: 1

      It baffles me why you would wait until divorce to take an interest in your kids' lives. Are they just a point to score over your ex-wife and useless until then? Do you expect your wife to tell them you're an utter bastard the second you're divorced but sing your praises beforehand?

      Who said anything about waiting until divorce to take interest in kids' lives? Who said anything about degrading spouse?

      Sometimes, life does not give you a choice in the matter in being separated from your kids.

    15. Re: Practical, not technical solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Isn't child support adjusted to income?

  3. Skype by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

    I believe Skype has the capability to leave video messages if the recipient doesn't pick up. I've never used it, but I've seen the option pop up before.

    1. Re:Skype by nwf · · Score: 1

      It does indeed have that option, but I've never used it either.

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  4. record + email by danbob999 · · Score: 1

    Seems the obvious solution.
    Or upload to youtube + share the link over email or whatever chat client you are using.

    1. Re:record + email by TWX · · Score: 1

      I was thinking Youtube too, but I've never played with the permissions to attempt to limit who can view a video.

      Youtube's main advantage is that it runs through a web browser, so local applications are not necessary to watch. If the children or the current guardian are not technically savvy it's a lot easier to explaining logging-in to Youtube and then clicking on a link in an e-mail than it is to explain downloading and installing third party software.

      Never thought I'd see my self typing that as usually I like using applications rather than "the web" for things, but in this case "the web" is probably the easiest solution.

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    2. Re:record + email by unencode200x · · Score: 2

      OP could create a YouTube channel. If you make the videos private (i.e. only your login to YouTube can see them) and then have your kids use the same login you'll be the only ones that can see the videos. You can also publish the video but make them "unlisted" which anyone could technically find but they'd need to figure out the link.

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  5. email by kelemvor4 · · Score: 1

    Just email video clips back and forth? Or upload them to youtube, and send links via email. You can make videos private on there.

    1. Re:email by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just email video clips back and forth? Or upload them to youtube, and send links via email. You can make videos private on there.

      Email usually has too strict of size limits. It would have to be links to something else (google drive, dropbox, youtube, etc.)

    2. Re:Email by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Idiot. SMTP is NOT a file transfer protocol. Don't ever, EVER breed.

  6. Snapchat by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sounds like a perfect scenario for Snapchat.

    1. Re:Snapchat by SQLGuru · · Score: 2

      This was my thought......SnapChat has a video mode and is more like an IM than a broadcast.

  7. Snapchat? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sounds like a perfect snapchat scenario.

    1. Re:Snapchat? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This sounds exactly like the primary use mode for SnapChat.

    2. Re:Snapchat? by Kid+CUDA · · Score: 1

      This is exactly what I was going to say! If you can live with the "visible once and gone forever" concept of course...

  8. have you tried telegram messenger? by unami · · Score: 1

    just like whatsapp, et al but does work on multiple devices (inclusive ipad) per account.

    1. Re:have you tried telegram messenger? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I second the recommendation. Telegram is awesome and is light years ahead of other services.

    2. Re:have you tried telegram messenger? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Telegram has no video feature which the OP requires.

    3. Re: have you tried telegram messenger? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      are you sure?

    4. Re: have you tried telegram messenger? by kerubi · · Score: 1

      Incorrect

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    5. Re: have you tried telegram messenger? by kerubi · · Score: 1

      Winner. Cross-platform, free, respects privacy, text, audio, video, photos. Oh, and stickers. Kids love stickers.

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    6. Re: have you tried telegram messenger? by Khyber · · Score: 1

      I have it installed on both iPhone and desktop. There is no video.

      Try reading their own FAQ:

      "Q: Can I make calls or video calls via Telegram?

      We specialize in sending messages, large media and files — and we do this better than anyone out there.

      We may enable voice calls if we see significant demand in the future. The technology necessary for encrypted calls has indeed been created in our R&D dungeons.

      But for now we see many things that could still be revolutionized in messaging. And messaging is obviously trending at the moment, so our focus remains in that area for now."

      No, they do not do video.

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    7. Re: have you tried telegram messenger? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He doesn't want video calls. Skype already takes care of that. He needs video messages. Telegram can do that just fine. Any kind of file, really, not just video.

  9. Vine, Hangouts by hawkeey · · Score: 1

    Vine works for short videos: https://vine.co/

    Otherwise, I thought Google Hangouts partially supported this feature for short videos.

    1. Re:Vine, Hangouts by hawkeey · · Score: 2

      Specifically, note
      Vine Messages: http://blog.vine.co/post/81606...
      Vine Kids: http://blog.vine.co/post/10959...

  10. WeChat by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wechat does all this - it's actually better than WhatsApps from what I have used.

  11. If it's not broken..... by wkwilley2 · · Score: 3, Informative

    If you already use Skype, you might as well take advantage of the video message feature it has.

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  12. Use the INTERNET by spire3661 · · Score: 1

    Seriously, there are a billion ways to solve this and none of them involves using an 'app'. Take the videos and just straight email them. Set up an FTP server. Setup rsync between two sites, use HTTP, use SCP, use sneakernet (mail SD cards). The point is the tools are all out there waiting for you to pick them up, they simply dont always come in a shiny wrapper called an 'app'.

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    1. Re:Use the INTERNET by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yea, FTP, rsync and SCP are all great fucking suggestions, and clearly things than can easily be taught to a 5 year old. They all work great on an iPad too. "Use HTTP" is probably the best suggestion, and definitely a complete solution to his problem. Just other day my mom wanted to send a video file to my nephew, and she asked me how to do it and I said "Hey mom, use HTTP" and she was like "Oh, great, thank you, all my problems are solved now".

    2. Re: Use the INTERNET by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh do fuck off. A script that runs at the client end, that checks a remote server for new content , downloads and even provides a pretty web page for display, would be trivial to implement and package so there's a big red 'check for videos' button. Your snark is unwarranted.

    3. Re:Use the INTERNET by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      All the power, none of the responsibility.....

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    4. Re:Use the INTERNET by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Why did you stop reading after the first sentence in the summary?

      He wants a solutoin useable by his 3 and 5 year old kids!!!

      So, you volunteer to teach the 3 year old how to make a Video of himself and attach it to an email and sent that to his father?

      I could likely make him an easy to start AppleScript that does that all :D but can you "script" Windows or Linux good enough to give the kid a simple Icon to click to do that?

      Btw: sneakernet this is note "mail" this is carrying a medium from one desk to another, preferable wearing Sneakers ;D
      What you mean is snakemail (versus email), mailing stuff per ordinary mail ;D

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    5. Re:Use the INTERNET by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      You set it up. I use all those techs to feed video to my family's houses. They all have standard consumer (Apple TV, Fire Tv etc) stuff, and i feed services to them using the basic tools we have been using for DECADES. Stop looking for all in one solutions and build one out of the vast and rich toolset we have. Its not rocket science to set up an HTTP site and throw files on it or put it on an SD card and add it to their itunes library.

      I use sneakernet as a catchall for loading data onto physical media and passing it off by hand vs over the wire. I find no references to snakemail, got a link?

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    6. Re:Use the INTERNET by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Sorry, my bad english got me ;)
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...
      Snail, not Snake, Snake is similar to the german Schnecke, which is actually a Snail :)

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  13. WhatsApp? Facebook? by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 1

    DropBox? GoogleDocs? It is just a file to be saved in some saved location right?

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  14. Ick! by s.petry · · Score: 1

    The person sounds like they are security concerned (Military?) so not Facebook. Record videos, rsync, and build a web page which reloads and has a big button for the kid to play new and old messages. The HTML should take a few minutes, and a script to sort videos a bit longer.

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    1. Re:Ick! by mspohr · · Score: 1

      Here's a script to get started:
      http://sye.dk/sfpg/

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  15. Youtube by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Learn to use a Youtube channel. You can't always be sure they will have an iPad or thier own computer, and you can't always be sure where they will be.. or that they can't even get your email. Posting it to a Youtube channel "privately" is your best option.

    Facebook has some sort of video channel chat.. uber.. we're complicated and anoy the "hell" out of you and your friends thing.. but really all its good for is throwing pictures at people in meaningless ways. Facebook is plain mean spirited and vicious.

  16. Simple by JustAnotherOldGuy · · Score: 2

    Step 1: Create a private Youtube channel and post your videos there.

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  17. GroupMe by SirMasterboy · · Score: 1

    GroupMe checks every box you listed.

  18. Skype... by FingerDemon · · Score: 5, Informative

    I think someone else already mentioned it, but Skype allows you to record a video message. Why not use that? Read a book to your kids, tell a joke, etc.

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    1. Re:Skype... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, and then there are cloud drive services like DropBox and Google Drive where you can easily upload (share) a video made with the iPad or any other computer, tablet or smartphone. I would think a 3-year old would be able to handle that with a little bit of initial coaching. This isn't rocket surgery.

  19. Re:Oovoo by Mr+D+from+63 · · Score: 1

    I've found Oovoo to be simple to use and easy to get my un-tech family members to use. I think they have apps for everything except maybe Linux. You can store and send video messages, chat, or video chat. You can also invite non-oovoo callers to a video call via a web app. Quality is pretty good as well.

  20. Three words by harshath.jr · · Score: 1

    Virtual Presence Robot

    1. Re:Three words by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yup, nothing like tucking the kids in with shiny metal hands. As a bonus, they do tend to finish their veggies if you can make the robot spin and shout "ExterminATE!" at the dinner table.

  21. Basic cell phone technology? by DaveQat · · Score: 1

    Wouldn't video messages recorded with whatever your phone's MMS client take care of this?

  22. NAS with Cloud storage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Setup a NAS at home that has cloud storage (think personal dropbox). Then set up you phones/ipads to automatically backup your photos and videos.

    You could also probably use an app like IFTT and program some rules around it. (you could probably use that app without the NAS)

  23. Lower your expectations by enjar · · Score: 2

    My kids are 7 and 10 now. We have tried video calls with them over the years, as well as trying to use video conferencing with the grandparents.

    It was a shit show every time. Besides the inevitable delays, jumps, crappy audio, etc, the kid was just more fascinated with seeing themselves on the video and then trying to out-compete the sibling for attention, then we had to shush them, then they got mad, would hit the other one, then the devolved into a giant mess. Then the video would get broken up and we'd just revert to using the phone because the audio had dropped out again.

    My suggestion would be to have the responsible adult on the other end living with the kids record something, then email it to you, put it in Dropbox, etc. Expecting a three or five year old to do this is asking too much, even with the best UI imaginable. My ten year old could certainly handle something like this, the seven year old would be iffy at best. But if their mother was holding the phone it would definitely be OK.

  24. Adobe FLASH by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Naturally.

  25. Ask the state! by MMC+Monster · · Score: 4, Funny

    It needs to have an iPad app that is simple enough for a three-year-old to use with help and for a five-year-old to use without help;

    Ask the state to help. After all, if you're leaving a three year old with a five year old, the state will get involved at some point soon.

    Or, if I misinterpreted and there's some sort of adult supervision, have the adult press the damn icon on your iPad.

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  26. Vimeo by nwf · · Score: 1

    I believe video sites like Vimeo let you have a private area where you can post videos. I get Kickstarter projects doing that all the time. Then the kids can view the video after you pass away, potentially, to remember you.

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  27. Email by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Record video and email it. Done.

  28. Telegram by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I use an application called Telegram for this. It has Linux, Mac, and Windows
    applications as well as Android and iOS. It also has a fully capable web version.

    It is a very simple to use and (as I understand it) very secure application. You
    can create group chats with it as well and send pre-recorded videos, pictures,
    locations, and files of any kind to the group chats or any specific user.

    See https://telegram.org for more info.

  29. Hostile ex-spouses -- blame thyselves by mi · · Score: 3, Insightful

    There are plenty of reasons.

    If you once felt good enough about a person to not merely have sex, but to have a child together, he can not be a complete asshole in your opinion.

    Remember this rule (it applies equally to mothers despite my use of male pronouns). The affection you once had may have disappeared, but, if you suddenly think much worse about him, then your own opinion of what constitutes an asshole is changing — your partner remains the same person as before.

    You may no longer be friends, but watch yourself and don't let your friends/parents make you two into enemies. If that helps, think of yourselves as co-workers working on the same project for the next 15-20 years — and stay professional.

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    1. Re:Hostile ex-spouses -- blame thyselves by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. Remember when you were a kid and how it made you feel if your parents had weakness exposed. You are a product of your parents and intuitively take on some of the burden of your own parents reputation. As a child, you want your parents to be awesome, not losers.

      So even if your X is a loser, try to build them up for your children's sake. Once they get older and realize you were a rock for them and the other parent a loser, they will thank you for being strong for both parents.

  30. Re:Oovoo by viperidaenz · · Score: 5, Informative

    No Linux app? That's short slighted of them, 2016 will be the Year of the Linux Desktop.

  31. Jitsi by higuita · · Score: 1

    Jitsi is just like skype, but XMPP based. Choose some server to create accounts (many of the big emails account also have XMPP support). As it build with java, works in all systems and it supports very well video and voice.
    Android jitsi version is still under developement, but it should work already

    for simply saving video messages, use the http://www.videomessageonline.... (webviewer) or the http://mailvu.com/ (via email), but you can always save one locally, using guvcview, cheese or other webcam tools and send the video via email or a shared dropbox or similar

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  32. Satellite ISP by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sure the lag is large enough to match the difference in timezones :) Use Firefox "Hello" or Jitsi's WebRTC over a satellite connection.

  33. Paternity test first by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I spend a lot of time away from my kids (think months at a time)

    Get a paternity test. There is no way your wife staying faithful if you are away this long.

    1. Re: Paternity test first by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How blinkered are you?! Your assuming that OP is submitting is a paternal father?!
      So you think all IT people are male too; and all mums are home dwellers greeting husband at the door with a pink ribbon in their hair....
      Unbelievable... Don't breed.... EVER!

  34. Dropbox? by ashpool7 · · Score: 1

    Share a folder Read Only, drop your recordings in it?

    1. Re:Dropbox? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Share a folder Read Only, drop your recordings in it?

      You can also have the same account tied to the iPad and not have to actually share a damn thing. You can have the account log in from different devices, even at the same time.

    2. Re:Dropbox? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You could, but then the child could twiddle with the master account settings.

  35. Read with them - readeo.com by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've used http://www.readeo.com/ to connect my children with their grandparents. It allows you to share a book and a webcam with each other. It keeps the kids more engaged than a simple Skype conversation. They have some great books, too. You'd probably recognize some of them. It does cost some money, but I think it's reasonable and you can try it before committing money to it. It's browser-based so it's already cross-platform.

    Work hard to keep connected to them. It's worth it and may be one of the most important things you do.

  36. Firefox Hello by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously. I know we all hate Mozilla and Firefox, but Hello actually threatens to be a useful little app when you're not intentionally drowning yourself in cynicism. Just install Firefox, create a link to a video call, and share a link with someone who has a decent browser, and you're set. They don't even have to use Firefox, just a decent browser, which they'll almost certainly already have.

  37. Voxer by nnet · · Score: 1

    Voxer is a phone/tablet app that does audio/text/photo mesages, now does short video.

  38. Hangouts by MikeBabcock · · Score: 1

    Hangouts works on every platform I've tried it on, has Chrome apps on many platforms, native on others. It supports group video/voice chat as well.

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  39. Re: Oovoo by pev · · Score: 2

    I think people have been saying that every year since i can remember on slashdot. Not entirely convinced that this one is any different!

  40. Travel as a Daddy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have recently been to a two day workshop via a short flight in near enough the same time zone. It was time away from my wonderful wife and kids (1y & 3y) which is always saddening.

    We use Skype, which is fantastic. I have it setup on my locked down work laptop (skype web) and my personal mobile (android) phone. My wife and kids have it on their tablet (android), phone (android) and laptop (windows). We used to use the xbox 360 msn messenger kinect thing to, but that got discontinued.

    When away, I skype in at breakfast time, dinner time and bed time. One morning my wife sets up the phone to talk to my 3 year old over breakfast... the phone fell over and he had great concern that daddy was stuck upside down... a little explanation required! On the way back home I had dinner in the airport with my wife and kids via skype. Every one stared and thought I was very odd, but every second with them is important to me, so I'll take the video moments!

    The kids are very used to talking on skype with the grandparents on a weekly basis. The problem is trying to get them to sit still as it's quite dull for them. So we leave the camera setup in the distance and just let them get on and play. The grand parents can chat and watch them play, or have dinner etc, rather than force them into a phone call style situation which is unnatural for them. This works really well and means they have lots of opportunity to really spend time with each other without watching the call costs.

    Years ago, before kids, my wife and I would msn messenger together and leave both laptops with cameras open in our living rooms for the day. We used to watch TV side by side. I know it sounds a little weird, but it make a marked difference in our lives as we kept up our quality time.

    So in summary, skype is great, but I find trying and do it while you do normal family time things works best, especially with little ones.

    An yes, my 1 year old was running around the house with the phone yelling daddy at the top of her voice with mummy running after her, and the phone getting covered in dribble and snot.

    Yes, skype can send delayed video messages, I just tried it. I don't use it as I prefer to talk in real time, but that might be really useful when I am out of timezone.

    Being away from your family can be hard, so I hope you find a good solution. /me offers empathy

  41. BBM does this really well by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    While it may be out of vogue, it does it very well and in a secure fashion for both live streaming video and video attachments. It's available on android, iOS, and of course blackberry. No windows or mac though.

  42. Ily Family Phone by TomBeckman · · Score: 1

    Take a look at the Ily Family Phone. They say that three-year-olds can learn to use it. Coming in 2016 from around $200. See http://www.ily.co/

  43. Tox by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Tox is a free and open-source, peer-to-peer, encrypted instant messaging and video calling protocol. The stated goal of the project is to provide secure yet easily accessible communication for everyone.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tox_%28protocol%29

    https://tox.chat/

    https://github.com/tux3/qTox

    http://utox.org/

  44. Re: Oovoo by viperidaenz · · Score: 2, Funny

    I was trying to get a +5 Funny

  45. Re:Comment on the muslim invasion of Europe by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

    Ever consider the notion that the ones coming to Europe are just possibly the ones who don't want to live in a war zone and/or theocracy?

    Pretty sure I already know the answer, but I thought I'd ask anyhow.

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    Il n'y a pas de Planet B.
  46. Re: Oovoo by bigfinger76 · · Score: 0, Redundant

    You should've posted something funny.

  47. Re: Oovoo by viperidaenz · · Score: 2

    I realise that now.

    I'll try better next time.

  48. Threema by bigchrissd · · Score: 1

    Easy as iMessage to use, works on the devices you mentioned (though no web client), and has good security.

  49. Plex Media Server by The+High+Druid · · Score: 1

    If you're wanting to create an archive of messages that the kids can play back whenever they want Plex may be a good solution. You have playback apps for almost any platform, remote access with a plex pass account. The downside is the kids will struggle to leave messages for dad, but for Dad it should be easy to record messages and remotely drop them in the library folder.

  50. Tango by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    www.tango.me

  51. RealTime from RealNetworks (yes really) by seawall · · Score: 1

    RealNetworks has a service, "RealTime", that works across most platforms for doing just this kind of thing. The use case explained to me was a family sharing video where much of the family is Windows but also there is a Unix person, a few Apple-or-nothing, and another few "Android All the Way".

    Since this indeed describes my extended family, it was helpful.

  52. Re: Oovoo by CaptQuark · · Score: 1

    I laughed when I first read it. I thought the same thing. [insert year here] will be the year of the linux desktop. :-)

  53. IceComm: serverless video conferencing, very easy. by torpor · · Score: 1

    Set up IceComm on a web site that only you and your kids can access, and give them the Chrome browser with a bookmark to go there at scheduled times .. https://icecomm.io/

    Very easy to set up server less video conferencing. Add a bit of TogetherJS to the mix and you've got realtime chat as well - without needing to install anything on any local computers besides the Chrome browser.

    I use IceComm on my main server as the 'front door' to my business - I have a browser sitting on my front door all day, and whenever clients visit I'm ready for them. Its just like having a virtual front door to the business .. very handy and very care-free for the customers.

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    ; -- the corruption of government starts with its secrets. a truly free people keep no secrets. --
  54. iCloud? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Automatic, secure, android device compatible, etc...

  55. Make one yourself? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You could just find time to make one yourself. Make it browser based, have calls be done through WebRTC, include video recording that instead pushes the captured images into a video with ffmpeg and stores it somewhere like Dropbox, design the UI easy enough for your children to use it exactly for what they need to use it...

    So keep the UI as simple as possible, some visible sidebar to show recorded and sent videos. Big buttons to open recording or call views.

    Since you'd have a very limited user base you could forget about user registeration, you could just keep everyone able to see everything. Just have it press the user name (or icon, if too young to read) at start to identify who's using it this session. And of course allow access only from trusted machines perhaps with a Single Sign-On solution using a single password shared by the whole family.

    Could make a nice long time project to work on during off-times to make it prettier to look at too. Server space doesn't cost much either these days.

  56. Re: Oovoo by SB2020 · · Score: 1

    See, that's actually funny. Someone mod parent up.

  57. Glide was built for this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Glide (www.glide.me) is a messaging app for both iOS and Android smartphones and tablets that was built specifically to quickly and easily send video messages (up to 5 mins in length) to your closest friends and family. Messages can even be emailed, sent via SMS or shared via Twitter or Facebook and viewed by someone without the app in their Web browser. With just a single tap (so it's super simple for a child to use), your message is streamed live to the recipient(s) and, if they're there, they can watch it while it is being recorded. If they're not, it is stored to the cloud for viewing later. I definitely recommend giving Glide a try.

  58. Skype by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You can record video messages in Skype. Use it. Nothing beats Skype in cross-platform compatibility and video quality. Also, everyone is already using it.

  59. Toymail by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.toymail.co/ it may not be exactly what you are looking for it is audio only but allows you to send messages via your phone and they can reply back. It was a kickstarter awhile ago. My sister used it while her daughter and family were stationed in a different state, worked well until her granddaughter figured out skpye/facetime

  60. Appear.in by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Appear.in works on the linux desktop using Chrome. If you want the full feature set to work (desktop sharing), chrome is the way to go. However, FF and Opera also work. IE sadly doesn't have WebRTC support (not that I'm sad though).

  61. Re: Oovoo by bigfinger76 · · Score: 1

    You mean it was funny. Years ago.

  62. WeChat by ExecutorElassus · · Score: 1

    I cannot believe nobody here has brought up WeChat. The app is free, is super easy to use, can send both short audio and video messages, as well as text chat, and make audio or video calls. It's far superior to Whatsapp; once you use it, Skype and Whatsapp look like button-mashing clickbait for imbeciles in comparison.

    Seriously, people, get your shit sorted out. WeChat fills all his listed requirements. Everyone should be using it for Internet comms.

  63. We Developed a Product Just for This: The Egg by eggcyte · · Score: 1

    Literally. Check us out at http://www.eggcyte.com/ We had your usage in mind when we developed The Egg - families. We wanted to give people a private, EASY way to share photos, videos and other stuff with their families without using social media or cloud services. You can put videos, photos, whatever you like on The Egg and share them with your kids. They can use our iOS/Android app (or even a web browser) to view it. Please check us out! Thanks.

  64. We Developed a Solution for This: The Egg by eggcyte · · Score: 1

    Check out The Egg (http://www.eggcyte.com ). We specifically had this usage in mind when we developed it: a way for families to PRIVATELY share photos, videos, that is EASY for all to use. You can put your stuff on your Egg (a handheld personal cloud device with up to 256GB of storage) and your kids will be able to access it using iOS or Android apps we've developed. Contact me if you'd like more information - we've got 'chat' on our website. Or info@eggcyte.com.

  65. Isn't this what vine is for? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    #downwiththeteens