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Game Company Receives Complaints About Bad Example Set By '%FEMALENAME' (kotaku.com)

ArenaNet narrative designer Jessica Price was fired last week after she accused a Twitter user of "mansplaining", and adding later "Don't expect me to pretend to like you here." (Her employer characterized this as "attacks on the community.")

So what happened in the week that followed? An anonymous reader writes: A Reddit user indicated he'd been speaking satirically when he posted that "We can probably fire anyone on the GW2 dev team as long we make a big enough stink," and expressed surprise later that no one had disagreed with him. But another female developer told Kotaku she saw a real call to action on 4chan, and that it was followed by angry letters to the game studio she freelances for calling for her firing too, complaining their games had declined since she was hired (along with another woman). The letters also complained her Twitter account set "a bad example for the letter-writer's children, who supposedly play this game." The company's CEO received "a three-digit number's" worth of angry letters -- though "Fifty or so of them glitched out with a lot of variables exposed, including %FEMALENAME."

"A deeper look at the names and emails associated with the letters went to Facebook bot profiles and people whose profiles indicated associations with Gamergate or 4chan," reports Kotaku -- and Brianna Wu made a similar charge on Twitter last week, citing research by a team of volunteers. "The overwhelming majority of people harassing Jessica Price today on Twitter are bots and sock puppets. These are throwaway accounts that are used as toys. Almost no one claiming to be upset is an established, normal Twitter user." The Verge reports that Wu monitored Jessica Price's account, and found harassment "as bad as she's ever seen," blocking at least 600 different accounts.

Another female narrative designer at Arkane Studios says her employer was messaged with a complaint that she'd "verbally abused" a Twitter user -- and discovered a (since-deleted) online petition calling for her firing. And an angry message was also sent to Opaque Space (collaborating with NASA on VR games and training), complaining the company should take responsibility for the "man hating ideals...spread through social media accounts" by their game design lead. "I know MANY people like me, especially women, who have frequent experience with people calling for their employers to fire them for speaking up, speaking out," she posted on Twitter.

The latest furor began with an accusation of mansplaining which a YouTube streamer defended as "my obvious attempt at creating dialogue and discussion", calling it "disheartening" that Jessica Price didn't "correct me in my false assumptions."

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  1. Progress by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1, Insightful

    At least this time it's all been well documented and understood, so that the attacks on these women seem to have ultimately failed and if anything backfired. These kinds of sloppy mistakes with mail merge apps are nothing new, but unfortunately sometimes the messages look genuine to the victim's employer.

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    1. Re:Progress by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Understood? Fucking SJW gaming press got trolled by someone claiming it was Reddit who got the rude bitch fired and then propagated that fake news out in their articles. When it became evident they got trolled (none wrote any retractions, btw), they then try and backtrack and "look into it deeper" to blame it on 4chan or gamergate. They fucking made the whole shit storm up.

    2. Re:Progress by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      well documented and understood

      According to the most biased and least trustworthy sources. Kotaku, Chapotraphouse, Brianna Wu. That's the holy trinity of liars, misrepresenters and professional victims. Throw in the Verge and Eurogamer for even more onesided bias and it becomes a big fat nothing burger.

    3. Re:Progress by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 5, Insightful

      There are two distinct parts to this story. One is that Jessica Price verbally abused and denigrated a fan, for which she was fired (and a male colleague who doubled down on that went along for the ride, which no one seems to talk about). The second part of the story is the mob reaction and ugly, sexist bullshit that was triggered in reaction to her own behavior, and unfortunately spilled over onto other targets as well. There are a lot of idiots who glom onto events like these and use them to launch personal attacks against people. Women do seem especially likely targets for them, but make no mistake - anyone can be a target.

      We have to keep in mind that it was Ms Price who was the instigator of this series of events through her own actions. Or rather, her over-reaction to a fan's innocent response to her piece. She somehow took that response and interpreted it in the worst possible way, and lashed out at him in public, multiple times. Did she deserve the overwhelming hate and bile that was spewed her way? No, of course not, but let's be clear: she absolutely fired the first shots in that nasty little exchange. She was not fired for "speaking out" on women's issues. She was fired for treating a fan like garbage in public.

      Are women exempt from the rules other professional game developers are expected to follow? Had I lambasted a game's fan with which I was professionally associated and called him a "rando asshat" in a public forum, I'd absolutely expect to be fired. I don't believe for a minute that ArenaNet simply caved to mob pressure. And the notion that game development studios are going to suddenly start listening to and acting on random hate-mail complaints because ArenaNet fired Price for inappropriate comments feels beyond absurd to me. In fact, in the examples given, the studios took clear stands to protect their female devs from harassment, but concerns were expressed about "other studios", of course.

      Let's certainly work to foster more civility between developers and fans as we can, and that includes standing up for women when they're harassed simply for being women in a public role. But this story has a bit more nuance to it than that, and I don't think it's helpful to pretend that nuance doesn't really exist and focus only on half the story.

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    4. Re:Progress by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It was equally well documented back in the day that many actions pinned on GamerGate were suspicious or even outright faked, and that didn't stop the press from taking them at face value. Best example being the Felicia Day doxing, where an address was posted by an account with a misspelled name of a notable Youtuber, which was never confirmed to even be hers, but it was spread all over the news within 24 hours that GamerGaters had doxxed her.

      These reporters are like a feminist Fox Mulder, they want to believe the misogyny is out there so badly, all you need is some cheap smoke and mirrors to lead them down whatever rabbit hole you want. Is it any surprise there are trolls eager to pull their strings for laughs? You can call them part of GamerGate too if that makes you feel better, but that doesn't change the fact that the press are being useful idiots and gullable fools.

    5. Re:Progress by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's a very long post about Price, but she lost her job and bares no responsibly for the mob that used her firing to instigate an attack on other random women.

      The real problem here is not one person who was punished for some rude tweets, it's we have a mob attacking people because of their gender. It's important to publicize it and develop countermeasures so that there are not more victims.

      It would also be great if we could understand the people behind this and their motivations. Some people want to write it off as general trolling, like it's some innate property of the internet that just happens spontaneously, but there is a years old pattern of attacks on women specifically with deeply misogynistic motivations.

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    6. Re:Progress by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      When feminists started the "mob attacking people because of their gender" bullshit with Adria Richards and various other Twitter crusades against employed people, the other side also took up the tactic against the feminists. The world is balanced, the heavens are fair, for every action there is a reaction. The heavens don't tolerate women waging war against men or men waging war against women, so they will pit the warmongers against each other - Feminists vs MRA's, while the average majority of normal people with normal lives will look at both and see a bunch of raving idiots with accelerated aging induced by constant triggerades and easy offense (turns out being easily offended means you are on the fast track towards grey hair and wrinkles). Yet again, the heavens are fair.

    7. Re:Progress by Baloroth · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It's sometimes hard to take these "threats" seriously, especially coming from someone like Brianna Wu, who has proven record of blatantly launched fake attacks against herself before to make herself look like a victim (she has a very long history of this, too). She's probably be right that these are sock puppets and bot accounts, but I wouldn't be terribly surprised if they're owned by her. And her "proof" is posts on 4chan, a site where everyone posts anonymously? Come on, son. That's some seriously weak shit right there, even by her standards.

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    8. Re:Progress by arth1 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The real problem here is not one person who was punished for some rude tweets, it's we have a mob attacking people because of their gender. It's important to publicize it and develop countermeasures so that there are not more victims.

      Both were attacks based on gender. One by a woman against men, the other by (presumably) men against women, and the second being a knee-jerk reaction due to the first.
      Are the latter developments bad? Sure, but that doesn't make the first part any better.
      You come across strongly as white-knighting here, and I don't really understand why. There is enough blame to go around, and jerks being jerks is a problem both ways.

      It would also be great if we could understand the people behind this and their motivations. Some people want to write it off as general trolling, like it's some innate property of the internet that just happens spontaneously, but there is a years old pattern of attacks on women specifically with deeply misogynistic motivations.

      Sure there is misogyny here, but there is also misandry. Always noticing and striking down on the former but never the latter doesn't strike me as helpful.

      My dream is to one day see that we ignore gender, race and other external factors, and turn our back on whoever brings it up, regardless of their gender or race.
      And that we stop being (mock) outraged on behalf of others, fuelling a fire that doesn't have to rage, just to make ourselves look better.
      Sure, I have my cultural baggage, and probably unconsciously act less than perfect with respect to other groups than those to which I belong. And I think that is true for everybody else. The shiny armor tends to cover people no less human and flawed than everybody else.
      Oppose the behaviour, and don't attack person A and defend person B. Prejudice isn't going to be solved by picking off or praising individuals, or taking someone's side.

  2. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Is anyone really surprised that identity politics only lead to more and broader generalized hatred?

    1. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1, Insightful

      What are the identity politics here? Being a woman and working in the video game industry is not a political statement.

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    2. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      When a woman uses "mansplaining" she converts it into a political statement.
      I don't care what the 4chan trolls do, she's shown to be your usual sexist feminazi.

    3. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by jon3k · · Score: 5, Insightful

      When I was a younger, in its early days, the whole reason the internet was great is because there were no gender, skin color or religion, we were all just nerds. No one knew or cared WHAT you were, just WHO you were. I remember when the idea of telling someone your real name on the internet was considered madness. I miss those days. It was just a lot simpler.

    4. Re: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by c6gunner · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I can't say that I don't like it. I am loving it.

      I'm opposed to firing people just because a mob decides to be offended, even when it happens to sexist cunts like her. It would be hypocritical for me to object to it when it happens to people I agree with, but then celebrate it when it happens to someone I disagree with.

      But yes, there is quite a bit of schadenfreude in watching the tables get turned.

    5. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Well, for what it's worth here is my take on this "debate" and people who defend mysoginists. I'm not in the tech business so maybe my experience doesn't count much. Anyway, my two cent:

      1. Where I work, at a university in Europe, there is plenty of sexual harassment of women. A lot. I've seen heads of the department literally making sexist "whiplash" jokes behind the back of female colleagues. A colleague of mine has stalked at least two women who indited him at the police but later retracted their accusations, although they where confirmed by many colleagues, at the request of officials from our institute. One of them lost her postdoc job afterwards. The guy who did it is still there. That's in Southern Europe, mind you, but I was still kind of surprised about it. Didn't expect it to be so bad.

      2. It's ridiculously simple not to harass anyone at the workplace and the majority of men have no problem with it. Never fuck colleagues and never try to, and treat them with respect. Problem solved.

      I agree that in the US there may be some overly broad definitions of sexual harassment and there is way too much prudery and silly anti-sexuality on all political sides, in fact I got into a little fight with some colleague from the US about that issue because he displayed no ability to differentiate and distinguish between assholes, immoral behavior, and crimes. Some ideas out there are also plain bad, for example the bizarre Swedish idea that you should loudly ask for permission and both partners have to loudly say "Yes" before having sex, or otherwise it counts as rape. That's just stupid.

      That being said, overall there shouldn't be much of a debate. Sex and the workplace don't mix well. Don't do it.

    6. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      People shouldn't have to hide their nature just to avoid harassment or discrimination online.

      Beyond the moral argument, many people build an online persona to further their careers or build a reputation. Most of the people contributing to Linux, for example, use their real names and are often doing it as part of their jobs. In this case these women obviously wanted their names on the credits of the games they worked on.

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    7. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by jon3k · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Your argument now is basically a fallacy of absolutism. Of course it happened, to a very small degree. Because some people, a comparatively very tiny minority compared to today, shared that information. Or you're talking about generalized discrimination, which isn't what this is about. We're talking about targeted harassment.

    8. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      They need to think about their level of sensitivity and commitment to freedom of speech.

      You are constantly berating free speech, insisting that people ought to not be allowed to speak when they say what you do not want to hear. Then choose to use free speech as a shield.

      You, AmiMoJo, are what is wrong with society. People like you got Trump elected. You are abhorrent. You ought to be banned like the speech you so aggressively denounce.

    9. Re:Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. by i286NiNJA · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Other engineers constantly over explain shit to each other, we're rehashing it in our minds so we don't forget, we're educating each other, we're puffing up our egos. Sure. It happens to me every day, I know I do it too. If I don't have time for it I'll interrupt but usually I don't mind. We're on a roll after our 12th cup of coffee and blah blah blah our mouths are moving 100mph.
      I can tell you even though I don't have problems with my co-workers I'm careful about explaining too much to any woman lest I make someone feel mansplained.
      I also notice with but a few exceptions that most of the women I work with aren't excessive explainers so I can see maybe why they might feel offended.

      Still excluding them from marathons mansplain sessions is sexist and it's the result of some of what I've seen in this supposedly feminist push.

  3. Go woke, go broke by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    She was fire for insulting the clients, she was not hire to speak garbage in twitter.

  4. Ok, so just to be clear by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    These tactics are bad and evil when used by one side, but when the forces of social justice band together to get conservatives silenced or fired, it's ok?

    Seems to me they don't like the taste of their own medicine.

    P.S. Are you really sure you want to make this woman your test case? I mean, seriously.

  5. Re:I wouldnt believe it "backfired" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    What you mean is known under the expression "false flag".

    Certainly possible, but let's not deny that there are a lot of toxic people on the internet. Misogyny is real, misandry is also real, although probably without that much supporters. In any way there's a lot of hate going around and tribalism is strongly enough ingrained in people to join in if they feel like they belong to a disenfranchised group. And since we're on the internet, it's not that difficult to find and pick nuts from an opposing group. Then act like they're a prime example of that group and let them do your job for you. Shit flinging starts and that rarely leads to a better outcome. It's usually just more shit flinging. At this point, false flag operations often don't seem to be necessary.

    From my perspective, people should perform some reality checks now and then. Distance themselves from the internet a bit and go outside. Look around and see what people around you are doing. Perhaps travel a bit to broaden your horizon. Then judge yourself if the picture your internet communities paint justify all the vitriol that they want you to spew in the actual real and tangible world.

  6. Re: It's not real life! Stop giving a fuck! by c6gunner · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Anything that is merely being said, and not experienced by my own senses, is not real life. All it does, is make you feel bad, about something that is so far out of your control, that you literally cannot even tell if it is real.

    Then I noticed, how much of it actually completely does not exist in my world.
    All those "wars"...
    raging feminist vs neckbears or whatever
    americans vs russians
    refugees vs nazis
    christians vs muslims
    you name it.
    They were just not happening in *real life*.

    This is why the US military forced German civilians to bury bodies in concentration camps after WW2. So that they could experience it with their own senses. It seems that, prior to that, they were all big fans of your philosophy.

  7. Bet they aren't liking this for of equality. by brucekeller · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean you can be a jerk without retribution.

  8. Horrid writing by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Could this thing be re-written so that it makes a bit more sense? Its like several disjointed story lines melded into an incoherent whole.

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    1. Re:Horrid writing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I am an asshole, I know and admit it.

      Does that extend to simply making shit up to "prove" a point?

      You can not find not fault in anything any female would ever do.

      Oh, looks like a yes!

      I'm surprised that you even went so far as "a bit rude."

      So you even admit he foud fault but said he didn't anyway. You're weird.

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  9. Re:Disappointing aspects by 110010001000 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    No, the answer is 0): STOP USING TWITTER

    How dumb is it to get in text based public flamefests limited to short sentences? The only thing profiting are companies like Twitter who call it "engagement", which drives up ad revenue. Just stop using Twitter for anything. If you really have to use it, use it for entertainment. So called "social media" is not a place for serious discussion - especially not Twitter! The fact that our President uses it is outrageous enough. Just stop using it. Nothing good comes out of it, unless you are a Twitter shareholder.

  10. This discussion gives me great hope for the future by remoteshell · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The topic of discussion and the depth and quality of the subsequent commentary gives me great hope for the future. My hope is that arthropods are back at the top of the food chain again. And the way this discussion and ecological changes are going, they have a good chance. I for one hail our new lobster overlords.

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  11. Same problem as always by skovnymfe · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Some idiot brings gender into a discussion on the internet. We don't hate you because you're a woman, we hate you because you're trying to get in our face about being a woman. On the internet. Where you aren't a woman. You're a collection of bytes. Bytes don't have a gender. So shut the fuck up already.

  12. Re: Deserves the firing. by aticus.finch · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Employers need to stop bending over and letting the mob fuck them in the ass

    Maybe we should tell James Damore that?

  13. The problem is that I trust no media anymore by aepervius · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Seeing how many of them were springing up to defend price, and seeing how easy it is for anybody, male, female, whichever , to set up a fake email campaign and make it look like a badly organized MRA thing, and we know that both side at some point not only boasted they were doxing the other side, but some troll also boasted he made both side fight harder... I am watching such pretend campaign with a wary eye. It could be male incel idiot trully wanting to fire female, it could be troll seeing the great way to shit everywhere and make people reacts, or it could be feminist seeing a great occasion to muck things up by pretending being MRA sending letter. Who knows ? Nobody unless you really catch the one doing it and check what was their reason for it.

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  14. Re: It's not real life! Stop giving a fuck! by c6gunner · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's great that you've managed to reduce massive numbers of humanity into broad caricatures which you can hate unreservedly. Such attitudes never turn out badly.

  15. Re:This is fake news by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Until I see a pastebin

    Fuck me, that's your standard of proof?!

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  16. SJW spin in full AmiMoJo swing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    That's a very long post about Price, but she lost her job and bares no responsibly for the mob that used her firing to instigate an attack on other random women.

    "Bears", and while she's not responsible for the mob's actions, certainly her actions (and not her being) turn out to have been the trigger for a mob of idiots to go on harassing other women. While I don't condone any of this, it's fairly clear why it happened: Someone threw oil on what turns out to have been a smoldering fire. And now it burns. Whoops.

    It's a bit like dropping a smoldering cigarette butt in a dry forest. Many times it'll just go out. Sometimes, even if you stamp it out then walk away, might still cause the entire forest to burn down. If you know the forest is dry, even lighting up a ciggie there is criminally irresponsible. (Hard to grasp concept for some. How about you?)

    The real problem here is not one person who was punished for some rude tweets,

    For some identity politics-flavoured toxic tweets. It was well beyond mere rudeness. Which explains (but doesn't justify, thanks) the counter-trolling. But I see you mostly post to make your spin stick. Again, "oh, it's AmiMoJo again. Oh well."

    it's we have a mob attacking people because of their gender.

    That's actually not quite correct. The mob is trolling to see if they can get people fired, which happens to be aimed at females because the trigger happens to be female. If she'd been male then the barrage of bot-complaints would've been against male game designers. I know it's not on your agenda to admit this, but I'll point it out to you anyway.

    It's important to publicize it and develop countermeasures so that there are not more victims.

    Knowing what's going on ought to be enough. If your employer would fire you without first talking through the complaints then you're better off not working for that employer. In an internet age employers cannot afford to let their valuable human capital up and vanish because some random troll sent a truckload of automated complaints over, well, nothing. If they succumb, the company eventually succumbs.

    It would also be great if we could understand the people behind this and their motivations. Some people want to write it off as general trolling, like it's some innate property of the internet that just happens spontaneously, but there is a years old pattern of attacks on women specifically with deeply misogynistic motivations.

    Go hang out on 4chan and report your findings, there's a good little researcher.

    To be clear: 4chan has "a years old pattern of attacks" against just about anyone, everyone, regardless of any single thing. They'll hate you just so they have an excuse to hate you, until their attention span runs out and then they'll hate something else for a while.

    Again, not on your agenda to admit it, but 4chan's history is pretty clear to just about everyone else here.

  17. Re: irony by AcidPenguin9873 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Using the #metoo hashtag without any further explanation means that you have had a personal experience. If you were just referencing the "#metoo movement", your comment was misleading.

  18. Re:What's the solution then by aticus.finch · · Score: 3, Insightful

    to address inequality? Racism and Sexism really are things. It's not like we've eliminated them completely from human thought and we can just go on our way. Just having laws against racial and sexual discrimination is technically 'identity politics'. Sure, you can take it too far (there's lots of whack jobs on the left and the right wing media spends an unhealthy amount of time reminding us of them) but when somebody's a racist or sexist you don't stop pointing out they're racist or sexist just because a few whack jobs want to cut everybody's dicks off.

    Well, we pointed out that Jessica Price was sexist. What more do you want?

  19. "the left" by i286NiNJA · · Score: 5, Insightful

    These people are "the left" as much as the kkk is "the right".
    Nobody likes these people and all her friends who also get harassment are fellow internet warriors.

  20. Re: irony by Cinnamon+Beige · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Odds are they're posting AC because people like you would ramp up the harassment if given some idea where to go.

    Honestly, I wouldn't be in the least bit surprised if a major factor in why men might have it worse is because of douchebags like you, who apparently believe that it's A-OK if men get harassed--which is the message you send when you dismiss their complaints casually, and yes, that can on its own make it worse. Harassment is bad, and if you believe your target and/or motives somehow justify it, you are part of the problem.

    Seriously, this sort of thing is part of why I'm not at all comfortable with the anti-gamergate side. What is wrong with you people, that you can't even bring yourselves to say things like "Anybody can be harassed and harassment is wrong"? That shouldn't be controversial, yet it is getting treated like it not only is controversial but is offensive.

  21. Re: irony by c6gunner · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You used the #metoo hashtag. You don't seem to have a personal experience.

    What kind of experience? Have I been harassed? Of course; who the fuck hasn't. Have I had random internet dipshits try to dox me and get me fired? They didn't succeed, but yeah, quite a few have tried. Have I been sexually assaulted? Absolutely. Only ever by women, too; the few homosexual men who have come on to me over the years were much less presumptuous and understood the word "no" much better than the entitled hetero twats that have tried it.

    In the past you have demanded that women make credible and specific accusations, but now when politely asked refuse to provide one of your own.

    Except I'm not making accusations. I have no interest in making a fucking federal case out of it. Social Justice Warriors freak out when someone grabs your ass; when it happens to men we just laugh it off. Why would I try to ruin some chicks life just because she was a bit drunk and got grabby? Or because she was horny and misread the signals? Unlike twitters Social Junkie Whales I generally care about people. I might be a dick to you in conversation here but if we happened to meet up in real life and you made an off-color joke or dropped your pants in front of me I wouldn't flip out and try to get you fired. I would either laugh or tell you I'm not interested, and we would move on with our lives. I get no benefit from trying to ruin you; on the contrary, I would be contributing to a toxic culture which insists that every faux pas is an unforgivable crime. I don't want to live in that kind of world so I try not to help create it.

    Ah the very least, you seem to be acting in bad faith and got very defensive when I tried to engage with you. Why are you acting this way?

    Look, for a Social Junkpile Wanker, you're not all that bad. I mean you're still clearly delusional, looking to be offended, completely unwilling to consider any contrary opinion, and eager to spin things to suit your needs ... but compared to the rest you're actually kinda alright. So do you think that, for once in your Slashdot career, you could stop assuming that people who are being completely honest with you are part of some grand conspiracy to deceive you into who-knows-what? Maybe apply the principle of charity? I know it's hard, but it's worth a try. You might even have a decent conversation for a change.

  22. Re:What's the solution then by fafalone · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The solution is to actually pursue equality, and accept that equality of opportunity does not guarantee equality of outcome. *That* is the problem people are having with progressives/SJWs; they clearly don't stand for equality, they want special treatment; to switch who gets the privelege. You can see that in such fantastic claims like "Why color-blind meritocracy is a tool of white supremacy", never willing to address the origins of the inequality, just claiming it's racism and sexism and trying to enforce it at the end by giving special treatment. Setting up justice systems where only what the women feels matters, evidence and elements of crime be damned-- Title IX kangaroo courts, allowing expert witnesses in real courts that literally say 'the womens lies prove she's telling the truth". Turning simple, obvious truths like "men and women may be biologically predisposed to different career preferences" into 'burn the heretics who dare say that', but only ever complaining about white collar, highly paid jobs-- never about the lack of women in waste management or oil rigging-- somehow I don't think it's sexism that's keeping them out of those fields.
    All of that is standard progressive/SJW ideology, and it's very alienating to the rest of the left who just want equality. And just watch as this comment gets modded into oblivion for daring to point it out,

  23. Re: Time to out the assholes on 4chan by Vapula · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I work as a teacher... As such, I have some restrictions on what I can do outside my work... and I never had to sign any document about that...

    1) no racist attacks (even if the people in front of me act racist, I CAN'T answer in the same terms)
    2) no talks against my school... Even if I see problems with some coworkers, I can't make random posts about it.
    3) no talks about coworkers in front of students (the big taboo)
    4) no "unrespectable behaviour"... this includes being seen drunk in the public space, unfit clothing (no SM-wear in the street or nazi costume or ...)
    and so on...

    I guess that requirements imposed on teachers are bigger than those on gaming company... but clearly, what she posted is unacceptable... She was not on the internet as "Jane Doe" but as "Jessica Price, writer at Arena.Net"... As such, she had only two choices : politely avoiding the conflict or blocking the guy and ignoring him...

    And now, we see people getting pissed off because she got fired... she deserved it... If she can't control her temper online, she should avoid posting !!!

  24. Re: irony by pots · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What is wrong with you people, that you can't even bring yourselves to say things like "Anybody can be harassed and harassment is wrong"?

    ... Well I'm not a fan of the anti-gamergaters either, but this question is pretty easy to answer: it's deflection. If someone says, "Look, this group in particular is being singled out and harassed." and you respond, "Hm, yes harassment is bad. Before we do anything else, let's all say that harassment is bad." then you are deflecting from their complaint by changing the topic to something which they hadn't really been discussing. The other person was not talking about harassment being bad, there was an implication that we all already agreed on that point, the other person was talking about this particular group being singled out.

    It's very similar to the "all lives matter" deflection that some people use against the Black Lives Matter protestors. The point of the phrase "black lives matter" is not the concept that lives should matter or that black people have lives. The phrase assumes that we all agree on those points already and so is talking about something else.