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New Book Paints Different Picture of Workplace Behavior At Google and Facebook

Longtime Slashdot reader theodp writes: In Valley of Genius: The Uncensored History of Silicon Valley (As Told by the Hackers, Founders, and Freaks Who Made It Boom), Adam Fisher paints quite a different picture of life at now-workforce behavior preachers Google and Facebook, revealing that the tech giants' formative days were filled with the kind of antics that run afoul of HR protocols. Google was not a normal place, begins an excerpt in Vanity Fair that includes some juicy quotes attributed to Google executive chef Charlie Ayers about Google's founders ("Sergey's the Google playboy. He was known for getting his fingers caught in the cookie jar with employees that worked for the company in the masseuse room. He got around.") And in Sex, Beer, and Coding, Wired runs an excerpt about Facebook's wild early days, which even extended to the artwork gracing its office ("The office was on the second floor, so as you walk in you immediately have to walk up some stairs, and on the big 10-foot-high wall facing you is just this huge buxom woman with enormous breasts wearing this Mad Max-style costume riding a bulldog. It's the most intimidating, totally inappropriate thing. [...] That set a tone for us. A huge-breasted warrior woman riding a bulldog is the first thing you see as you come in the office, so like, get ready for that!" So, what changed? "When Sheryl Sandberg joined the company is when I saw a vast shift in everything in the company," said Ayers about Google. Sandberg later became Facebook's grown-up face.

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  1. Brands built by AHuxley · · Score: 2

    on ads.
    Placing ads and ensuring as many users get to see the ads.
    Working with ad customers to find out what they need to know about consumers.
    Microphones to allow consumers to ask questions....
    Not detecting the NSA and GCHQ deep in networks? Who else followed the NSA and GCHQ in?

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    1. Re:Brands built by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      I understand your sentiment, but Google has done more than probably anyone else except Snowden to stop NSA/GCHQ spying. Their push for universal use of HTTPS, encrypted email transport and encryption by default on Android shouldn't be underestimated.

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    2. Re: Brands built by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      encrypted email transport

      Worthless, because Google, like the rest of the big players, gives data at rest to the NSA. The only secure email is one that is client-side encrypted with PGP or S/MIME: those cannot be read in transit or at rest except by the sender and the intended recipient. Transport security is security theater.

    3. Re: Brands built by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Actually I put Obama in my Death Note over his use of drones.

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    4. Re: Brands built by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Get help, moron

    5. Re:Brands built by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      And at the same time, Google and Facebook have pushed hard to be at the end of that encrypted pipe. Now it's hard to spy as the middleman, so you have to buy your intel from Bob.

    6. Re:Brands built by AHuxley · · Score: 1

      Re "universal use of HTTPS" When a brand has the keys "universal use of HTTPS" and "encrypted" does not really do much.
      The "encrypted" ads still get placed. That security services still get what they want and wanted.

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    7. Re:Brands built by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not much use when any application can gain access to the camera, microphone, screen memory, file system of your device, and also automatically uploads your files so that Google Photo can create movies from your photographs and downloaded images.

    8. Re:Brands built by golgotha007 · · Score: 1

      If what you're saying is true, then why has Google been almost the very last email provider to provide email end-to-end encryption?

      Because of ads.

    9. Re: Brands built by Tuidjy · · Score: 1

      You should not say things like this.

      You just admitted that you did something that you could 'possibly' believe would kill the president. If the Secret Service wanted to make a point, they could create serious trouble for you.

      You do not know when someone in charge of trawling for 'warning signs' will have a bad day, or will have goofed off for a few hours, and will need a few 'findings'.

      People have spent weeks and even months for posting something that is an obvious joke. And this is not even going into 'this could have been considered intimidating by a reasonable reader.'

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    10. Re:Brands built by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I understand your sentiment, but Google has done more than probably anyone else except Snowden to stop NSA/GCHQ spying.

      By being far better at it then they ever could.

      Their push for universal use of HTTPS

      Translation: We can't tolerate third parties screwing with our monopoly position and getting a piece of our data haul.

      When it comes to technology with teeth like HPKP Google abandons it for a system that despite false equivalence talking points is NOT in fact functionally equivalent.

      Same with Google's refusal to support secure password authentication.

      encrypted email transport

      What the hell are you talking about? My SMTP server does not support encryption.. not even STARTTLS and I get plenty of spam from gmail users.

      What about 802.1x access to "secure wifi"? Oh right it just connects by default not even bothering to check trust chain.

      encryption by default on Android shouldn't be underestimated.

      I'll leave the silence from LEAs with problems accessing Android devices speak for itself. Google is far behind other vendors in device protection. Google is a leader when it comes to offering ambiguous piss poor privacy controls and security options (mostly in the form of take-it-or-leave-it demands) to users/slaves/stalking victims.

    11. Re: Brands built by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      People have spent weeks and even months for posting something that is an obvious joke.

      The US does not have a extradition treaty with Russia. Pretty sure he's safe.

    12. Re:Brands built by farble1670 · · Score: 2

      And at the same time, Google and Facebook have pushed hard to be at the end of that encrypted pipe. Now it's hard to spy as the middleman, so you have to buy your intel from Bob.

      Because Google and Facebook value being a police state lacky over making billions of dollars?

      These guys make sales through consumers, not the state. It's in their market interest to ensure no one thinks that they are selling data to the government because that'd make consumers go elsewhere for their devices.

      Could they be caving to government demands behind the scenes? It's possible, but common sense says they have nothing to gain and everything to lose. As far as government favor, paying off elected officials does the job. Unlocking phones for Poe-dunk sheriff #3421? Not so much.

    13. Re:Brands built by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      It must be hard going through life not understanding the technology you use.

      any application can gain access to the camera

      User must allow that explicitly.

      microphone

      User must allow that explicitly.

      file system of your device

      Not true. All apps are sandboxed and can only access their own data.

      automatically uploads your files so that Google Photo can create movies from your photographs and downloaded images.

      Yes, if you install / enable and use the Google Photos app and give that app permission to access your photos explicitly.

    14. Re: Brands built by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      My plan is to get banned from the USA so that work can never send me there for any reason.

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    15. Re:Brands built by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      Google and Facebook's business is selling people's information. They will sell it to anyone who will pay. Intelligence services are probably great customers because, like Google and Facebook, they have a vested interest in not revealing how much they know, how they found out, or what they're doing with the information.

    16. Re:Brands built by bingoUV · · Score: 0

      These guys make sales through consumers, not the state. It's in their market interest to ensure no one thinks

      No one thinks - the most important phrase you used.

      What people think, is not highly correlated with reality. So let people think that Google / Facebook etc. are independent of the government, reveal data to governments only grudgingly . But in the background - do all to earn money / favours / monopolies from governments and their agents.

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    17. Re:Brands built by bingoUV · · Score: 0

      User must allow that explicitly.

      The context is of Google and Facebook , right ? Android is most associated with Google, much more than iOS is associated with Google anyway. And if you mean this for Android - you have a weird definition of "explicitly".

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    18. Re: Brands built by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My plan is to get banned from the USA so that work can never send me there for any reason.

      Actually I put Obama in my Death Note over his use of drones.

      Well, you're shooting yourself in the foot.

      We live in the age of Trump, who hates Obama, so any display of hate and call to violence would be celebrated.

      To top it off, you made an anime reference. Anime loving weaboo demographic is one known to love conservatives.

    19. Re:Brands built by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      What people think, is not highly correlated with reality

      Does that include you? No matter how fun it is to think the rest of the world is stupid and you have some special insight, that's rarely the case.

      But in the background - do all to earn money / favours / monopolies from governments and their agents.

      That's nice speculation. If you are going to make up shit why stop there? Why not claim they are feeding babies to their employees in the lunchroom?

    20. Re:Brands built by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      you have a weird definition of "explicitly".

      My definition of explicitly is a popup dialog that asks DO YOU WANT TO ALLOW THIS APP TO USE THE CAMERA. Maybe you haven't actually used Android and get your usability information from reading thread here.

  2. In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

    a fun and successful company was built by masculine white males and it was doing great until "the adults" came in and now everything has gone to shit.

    1. Re:In other words... by blindseer · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I expect that James Damore will never see a courtroom with his case against Google. He'll get a big fat pay-off out of court, and Google will make some kind of half apology where they say they did not fire anyone over comments over hiring practices and that they'll never do it again. After that I expect Damore to find work in his own company doing whatever it is he likes to do, and make appearances on TV shows and on the speaking circuit for most anyone that asks. Any other outcome will not be near as good for Google.

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    2. Re:In other words... by Kokuyo · · Score: 2

      It heavily depends on what basis you define masculinity, now doesn't it?

      At first, only the successful hunter was an alpha male. Then somebody invented religion and suddenly scrawny people could advance to alpha status by being shaman.

      Nowadays there are a lot of options. If you can wield influence, you're halfway there. If you have the confidence to do it too, there's little stopping you.

      And James Damore has put himself out there. He has argued against the established ways. That takes courage and courage is seen as desirable too.

      A lot of people are derisive when it comes to defining masculinity by any other means than money and muscle but that is a very limited position to take.

    3. Re:In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      James Damore's case was one side of the coin. It's quite clear from all of the court cases concerning Google that it stretched but ends of the spectrum. It's possible one is more significant than the other.

      If you read those cases then between the lines what's very apparently is that Google lost control with a lot of managers running their own little tyranny.

    4. Re:In other words... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Admitting wrong-doing out of court would be a disaster for Google, as it would open them up to more lawsuits from both people who agree with Damore and people who quit or lost opportunities because of him.

      Since the Labour Board has already given its opinion that Damore was legally fired and the authors of his primary sources have disagreed with his conclusions it appears that Google has a strong case. Thing is, even if he was right it might not actually help him win, because the manner in which the memo was circulated certainly did create a problem at Google and they would argue it was his fault, so he would have to counter-argue that somehow it wasn't.

      I'm actually quite looking forward to hearing those arguments.

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    5. Re:In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      SJW thoughts don't modify the meaning of the sentence. Damore may exhibit "toxic masculinity" but he most definitely is *not* masculine. Actually, none of those three are (were).

    6. Re: In other words... by astrofurter · · Score: 1

      Looks like a normal dude. I guess you must be quite the hulking caveman yourself?

    7. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's just fire ALL the straights - amiright, amiright? Be queer or die unemployed in the gutter!

    8. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Labour board argued that objective scientific findings were sexist, and did so in response to a complaint that had already been retracted (which was necessary in order for Damore to sue). Their credibility is pretty much zero, it was just moral grandstanding for the sake of it.

      As for scientists disagreeing, the memo spawned a vigorous debate yes, but plenty of evo psychs and biologists said that Damore just verbalized the scientific consensus in their fields.

      If you're not deliberately lying, you are badly misinformed.

    9. Re:In other words... by ISayWeOnlyToBePolite · · Score: 2

      I expect that James Damore will never see a courtroom with his case against Google. He'll get a big fat pay-off out of court, and Google will make some kind of half apology where they say they did not fire anyone over comments over hiring practices and that they'll never do it again. After that I expect Damore to find work in his own company doing whatever it is he likes to do, and make appearances on TV shows and on the speaking circuit for most anyone that asks. Any other outcome will not be near as good for Google.

      I also don't think this will see a courtroom, but for different reasons:

      Damore had an at-will employment contract and the US National Labor Relations Board wouldn't take his case (he might have technically withdraw it, but there is enough documentation as to their findings) so I don't believe he has a case, at least not from the angle he's pursuing it.

      He has failed to gain enough monetary support, he's seeking $100k but have only received slightly above $50k https://www.fundedjustice.com/... that's not enough to cover his side of the trial (several others have joined his class-action lawsuit and the money is for all of them).

    10. Re:In other words... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      At first, only the successful hunter was an alpha male.

      There were never any alpha males. The whole concept is based on a book about wolves kept in captivity, the findings of which were later retracted by a later book by the same author. Wolves don't behave like that and human beings certainly don't.

      The idea of the alpha male hunter is also something of a myth. Hunting is dangerous and physically demanding - it's the sort of thing you get other people to do for you if you can possibly help it. We see this in the animal kingdom a lot, and all through human history.

      And James Damore has put himself out there.

      Didn't he give the memo only to people he trusted, until it was leaked?

      A lot of people are derisive when it comes to defining masculinity by any other means than money and muscle but that is a very limited position to take.

      Well, at least we agree on that.

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    11. Re: In other words... by drinkypoo · · Score: 0

      The Labour board argued that objective scientific findings were sexist,

      False. They argued that he drew a sexist conclusion because of his lack of understanding of scientific studies which he attempted to cite. I say "attempted" because...

      As for scientists disagreeing, the memo spawned a vigorous debate yes, but plenty of evo psychs and biologists said that Damore just verbalized the scientific consensus in their fields.

      ...in fact, the people who wrote the studies he tried to cite came out and outright said that he didn't understand them, you can't draw the conclusions he drew from their studies, and they didn't agree with his conclusions. Damore verbalized his lack of understanding of the source material and his own sexist opinion, nothing more.

      If you're not deliberately lying, you are badly misinformed.

      You are deliberately lying.

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    12. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting. Because I read several defenses of Damore's memo from the authors of the cited materials. And Damore's academic training was in that very same field of study.

      http://quillette.com/2017/08/07/google-memo-four-scientists-respond/

      I can't decide if you are misinformed or dishonest.

    13. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He's both misinformed and dishonest... and worst of all, an SJW.

    14. Re: In other words... by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Only one of the people who contributed to that article was the author of a cited paper, and he said "maybe, maybe not" about Damore's conclusion. Try the article that was published in Wired, which goes into detail about why he is wrong.

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    15. Re: In other words... by Q-Hack! · · Score: 1

      O. Try the article that was published in Wired,

      An article in Wired.com is not proof for an argument. Right up there with the Guardian or Vox. They are known for their SJW bias, keeping people like you in a little safe space bubble.

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    16. Re: In other words... by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      An article in Wired.com is not proof for an argument. Right up there with the Guardian or Vox. They are known for their SJW bias, keeping people like you in a little safe space bubble.

      Your logical fallacy is Ad Hominem. HTH, HAND, precious snowflake!

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    17. Re:In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Damore was a whiny faggot INCEL"

      If you're going to write that in all-caps, doesn't that mean it's an acronym? So what do the letters stand for?

    18. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Spoken like a true beta.

    19. Re: In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The point about wolves is correct as it turns out that wolves are actually quite collaborative.

    20. Re:In other words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      https://youtu.be/SAXwtyl0MEs

    21. Re:In other words... by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Not white.

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    22. Re:In other words... by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Shaman were not religious...they were nerds. Herb/mycilium nerds. They were concerned with harnessing and communicating with the unseen forces of nature in order to cure the litany of ailments plaguing the people.

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    23. Re:In other words... by datavirtue · · Score: 2

      He did a writeup for a mailing list that was specifically aimed at the subject.

      You are a SJW in search of a villian.

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    24. Re:In other words... by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Management elicited the comments he put forth. How is this always forgotten? They were trying to discuss these issues so that they could be confronted. No one can speak to these issues at Google any more--trust is lost.

      The cornerstone of effective diversity training hinges on letting everyone say whatever they feel/think to the group and let the group respond without calling people bigots or whatever. They shat on the principle that the discussion was supposedly founded on. Why? Because he, in a round-about and clever way, called Google management dumb communists (I would have to dig up his exact phrase but this gets the point across). He should have resisted the urge.

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    25. Re: In other words... by datavirtue · · Score: 2

      Agreed. The point of drawing such a discussion is to have someone like Damore present his thoughts in a safe environment where the group can discuss it with him. Perhaps after discussing it with people he would change his mind about some of his opinions and grow as a person. The was the whole purpose of the mailing list that got Damore to write what he did. They gained his trust and burned him at the stake for his views so they could punish him for calling Google management dumb Marxists.

      Read the memo.

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    26. Re:In other words... by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      There were never any alpha males.

      Having lived on planet Earth I can say this is false. And I'm not one of them.

    27. Re: In other words... by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      The point of drawing such a discussion is to have someone like Damore present his thoughts in a safe environment where the group can discuss it with him.

      Work is never a safe environment to discuss such things.

      They gained his trust and burned him at the stake for his views so they could punish him for calling Google management dumb Marxists.

      No doubt they did. He committed the mistake of putting his ideas down on paper, and someone seized on the opportunity to get rid of him by leaking it. But people who write screeds like that don't only write things. They also do and say things. Given his affiliations, I've no doubt that he regularly said things and acted in ways which would make people want to get rid of him.

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  3. If you get all worked up ... by Qbertino · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ... about a Picasso/Graffiti original depicting a busty comic girl and a cartoon dog, then you should probably leave.

    To me the binge drinking contests would've been more off-putting.

    I bet dollars to donuts that the stuff that brought Google or Facebook ahead wasn't built by the people who would do binge drinking contests at work. This nonsense is usually done by marketing or community management.

    The stuff that brings these companies ahead are built by people who come in, solve the problem, collect their salary and then leave again.

    Acting like an asshole is usually done by, well, assholes.

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    1. Re:If you get all worked up ... by ArchieBunker · · Score: 3, Insightful

      lol you'd be the first person complaining if there was a mural of two men embracing. Once you start hiring people you can't run a business like a frat house. Nothing new this practice has been going on for decades now.

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    2. Re:If you get all worked up ... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 2

      I bet that the binge drinkers made a lot of money though, more than the builders.

    3. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... about a Picasso/Graffiti original depicting a busty comic girl and a cartoon dog, then you should probably leave.

      To me the binge drinking contests would've been more off-putting.

      I bet dollars to donuts that the stuff that brought Google or Facebook ahead wasn't built by the people who would do binge drinking contests at work. This nonsense is usually done by marketing or community management.

      The stuff that brings these companies ahead are built by people who come in, solve the problem, collect their salary and then leave again.

      Acting like an asshole is usually done by, well, assholes.

      You must work with a very different set of devs and engineers to the ones I work with.

    4. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Funny

      Depends. Are they cute?

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    5. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They're burly.

    6. Re:If you get all worked up ... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 2

      I like telling misogynist jokes and I also insisted on our gay employees' right to put pride flags on their desk.

    7. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Nah, thanks. I got that at home.

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    8. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 2

      > Once you start hiring people you can't run a business like a frat house.

      It's worked for many businesses throughout history. There have also been slavery, child labor, embezzlement, and genocide. Whether these have been effective for a business in the long term, they've existed throughout history. It does not necessarily contribute to the long-term success of the company, or to the lives of most employees. But please, don't assume that simply because there is a business that it will automatically behave well, or in a politically sensitive way.

    9. Re:If you get all worked up ... by arglebargle_xiv · · Score: 2

      It's worked for many businesses throughout history. There have also been slavery, child labor, embezzlement, and genocide. Whether these have been effective for a business in the long term

      The UK, US, France, Spain, etc are all still around, so it seems to have worked in the long term to some degree.

    10. Re: If you get all worked up ... by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      I'd also wager that the people who really built those companies and continue to drive them are a) mostly male, b) mostly white, and c) couldn't give much of a shit about a picture of a big titted chick riding a bulldog (or heavens, they might actually like it).

      I've found that SJW claims about a company's diversity "needs" rarely have any intersection with recognizing the company's previous success track. If it's success has truly come from hiring 51% women or x% transgender, they'd already be doing it and wouldn't have to keep being told.

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    11. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're AC. For all anyone knows, you are jobless and living in mom's basement. You're very, very detail lacking assertion backs this up.

    12. Re:If you get all worked up ... by FilmedInNoir · · Score: 2

      Yeah, well, I was expecting Boris Vallejo and got "5 year old with a watercolor set".

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    13. Re:If you get all worked up ... by giggleloop · · Score: 1

      When you make fun of others, it generally helps if you don't do so using English worthy of a 5-year-old...

    14. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...please, don't assume that simply because there is a business that it will automatically behave well, or in a politically sensitive way.

      Perhaps it should have been clarified that you don't run a successful business that way.

      Misbehaved companies are mismanaged, and will eventually fall due to costly litigation. Let's be realistic for a moment; that threat is the main reason anyone actually behaves in business.

    15. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I bet if it was graffiti of an UGLY woman with no breasts, that would be fine...

      What we are dealing with are ugly women who hate beautiful women, and want all representations of them (and the women themselves) removed from the workplace, because they remind ugly women of how ugly they are. It's as simple as that.
      You'll notice that all Left wing women are ugly - or rather, that virtually all ugly women are Left wing. What a surprise.

      This is one of the reasons why Left wing women can't debate their Left wing position - the problem isn't whatever they claim it is, the problem is that they are UGLY and people (naturally) dislike them for it. And there is nothing they can do about it. THAT is the problem with the Left.

    16. Re:If you get all worked up ... by denzacar · · Score: 1

      I like telling misogynist jokes and I also insisted on our gay employees' right to put pride flags on their desk.

      Good for you.

      There was this guy though, who argued that anal rape is OK cause some other people are free to take it up the ass if they are so inclined, as far as he was concerned.
      Which is funny cause he WAS an asshole but he thought he was an saint of open-mindedness and tolerance.

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    17. Re:If you get all worked up ... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

      There was also this guy who called everybody that told a rude joke a rapist.

    18. Re:If you get all worked up ... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Are those things really comparable though? One is saying "I'm not ashamed to be LGBTQ" and the other is perpetuating harmful stereotypes.

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    19. Re:If you get all worked up ... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

      Alcohol is also harmful, are you also supporting prohibition?

      I believe that when things are minorly "harmful", prohibiting them can be even more "harmful". Btw, I actually agree with companies who would fire a worker who for telling these jokes in front of women, especially when they tell him to stop. However, if I am at lunch with a single friend and I decide to tell him this joke and there are no other people sitting near us. Well, maybe people should just learn to not stick their noses.

    20. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I believe that when things are minorly "harmful", prohibiting them can be even more "harmful".

      Minorly? Alcohol in the US kills six times as many people as gun homicides. Nearly three times as many as car accidents. 40% of all violent crime involve alcohol.

      Nothing minor about it.

    21. Re:If you get all worked up ... by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      There have also been slavery, child labor, embezzlement, and genocide

      Because those are comparable to cartoon breasts on a wall.

    22. Re:If you get all worked up ... by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1

      Heck, there's a Mexican restaurant I used to go to that has a mural with several topless women! Do a Google search for "Tarascas Chicago" and you can see inside the restaurant.

      I don't think I'll ever understand what prudish people have against exposed breasts.

    23. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're AC. For all anyone knows, you are jobless and living in mom's basement. You're very, very detail lacking assertion backs this up.

      We're going to take someone seriously who claims devs and engineers don't binge drink? How cute.

    24. Re: If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They hate women, obviously. Feminists are the real misogynists.

    25. Re:If you get all worked up ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So... you're saying his mom is a binge drinking developer?

      "Son, get up from that basement! I need you to approve my pull request!"

    26. Re:If you get all worked up ... by denzacar · · Score: 1

      I think I heard about that guy. Didn't get metaphors OR comparisons.

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    27. Re:If you get all worked up ... by cthulhu11 · · Score: 1

      If you think you're the one who decides what others are offended by ... then you should lay off the orange spray tan.

  4. So what you're saying is... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    when women join a company, everything goes to shit?

  5. Maybe its time to admit... by Jarwulf · · Score: 5, Insightful

    90% of what is now classified as 'sexually inappropriate' behavior is normal evolutionarily derived behavior. And the vast majority of mentally normal people would ultimately be happier living away from the convents decreed by nuns or their modern day equivalents, women's studies professors.

    1. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Opportunist · · Score: 0

      It is kinda weird when conservatives and liberals tell you the same thing is a nono, isn't it?

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    2. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by ArchieBunker · · Score: 1

      You going with the Quoran defense? Bold move cotton.

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    3. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I, every where I went, was oogled by all the ugly stupid women I came across, I'd be sensitive to this. But I'm not. Except for the nuns. They can't keep their hands off me for some reason. Maybe because I AM GOD! and you're not.

    4. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Most of what we call "sexually inappropriate behaviour" today has been socially inappropriate for ages. What has changed is that much of the behaviour we used to classify as a faux pas (or even just flirting) is now a capital crime, apparently. It's good that we no longer tolerate grossly inappropriate sexual behaviour, but we seem to have lost all nuance when it comes to milder transgressions, with the danger of trivializing all of it. In the old days, if you read "x% of female students have been sexually assaulted while at college", that was cause for concern. These days you're left to wonder if this includes cases where someone glanced at a woman in the elevator (hint: it does).

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    5. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by alvinrod · · Score: 5, Insightful

      While that is probably more true than some would care to admit, I don't know if work is the place for any of that. I suppose that if you have men and women working together, you're inevitably going to get office romances. Trying to prevent that may be a cure worse than the disease, and I suspect that anyone who can't keep their professional and personal lives sufficiently separate is probably not a great worker anyways. However, people should try to keep things a little more discreet. People can chase down their primal urges on their own time.

      I suppose I wouldn't want to outlaw someone running a business that way described in the summary if that's what they want. I'm just not sure that I'd care to work there.

    6. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Kokuyo · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Actually, by being in disagreement with not one but two extremist factions, I feel rather good about myself most of the time.

      Butting heads with two idiotic sides of the human spectrum doesn't completely eradicate the chance of being an idiot myself but chances are much better that I'm in at least somewhat of a healthy balance.

    7. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I suspect that anyone who can't keep their professional and personal lives sufficiently separate is probably not a great worker anyways.

      Yea, all those husband and wife ran companies are disgusting ineffectual messes.

      However, people should try to keep things a little more discreet. People can chase down their primal urges on their own time.

      If you draw a salary, what is "[your] own time"? Beyond that, I'm not sure how discreet you really need to be. At some level it seems more like people might be offended because they feel left out because they can't get a date. Or are you talking about fucking in your cubicle, on the conference table, etc? :)

      I suppose I wouldn't want to outlaw someone running a business that way described in the summary if that's what they want. I'm just not sure that I'd care to work there.

      This I'd agree with. So long as you're upfront about the work culture at a place and it isn't engaging in actual sexual harassment--you know, back in the day when it was when people were using their position to demand sexual favors, not merely that someone with no particular power and no evidence to indicate a threat asked you for a date--, I don't see why companies couldn't be ran basically however they like. My personal experience is more that companies enact protocols and rules and people don't follow them without repercussions. That's much more of a problem.

    8. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The issue really is quite simple, but fixing it is not.

      The issue:

      People (in general) develop an idealized set of conditions in their minds, and work tirelessly to attain that ideal. This is true for the religious prudes (like the afore mentioned nuns), and for the modern crop of humanists (to which the nuns were compared.)

      These people have an ideal: Women should never be objectified, EVER. (EEEVAAARR).

      This includes "OMG! He looked at me in a way that (I perceive) is lustful!" (Even though he could just be having a totally human reaction to the abnormal proportions of some part of that woman's anatomy. How knows, maybe she has a huge bedonkydonk butt that makes that "champaign" pic look tame, and his reaction is just because it is so out of the ordinary that he just cant help but notice. Could be any number of reasons in fact. Maybe he has nearsightedness, and was trying to read the teeny tiny text on the front of her shirt-- who knows.)

      Since the *PERCEPTION* of being objectified is what is taken as the standard, rather than investigating what actually is happening, or going on-- we end up with absurdities like the current blatant double standards, with "painful to listen to" rhetoric espousing how the insistence of actually getting to the bottom of a circumstance is somehow sidelining women and their complaints... or something. (No, it's called *fairness*. Taking an unfounded complaint as gospel and giving the other side no recourse is *UNFAIR*, and investigating the complaint is how you determine if actual objectification happened or not. No, insisting that due diligence be undertaken is not some code-speak for denying women their rights to being treated like human beings, or some other imagined thing. No, this is not invitation for a deluge of cherry picked anecdotes or assertions that the process has been used to subvert or oppress women. It is a statement of simple fact-- If you do not take the effort to get all the data, you are purposefully distorting your image of reality. Investigating a complaint is just assuring that all possible data is collected before making a decision, and is really the only SENSIBLE way to approach a 2 sided argument. The presence of penises or vaginas makes no important distinction. It is just as true of complaints between two men, and between two women, as between a woman and a man, or a man and a woman.)

      Fixing the problem requires wresting away the presumption that the *perception* of a slight is equivalent to having been slighted, and the restoration of the requirement that intent to harm or cause upset be demonstrated and proven.

      For the people which hold these unrealistic idealized perceptions, this is "GOING BACKWARDS!!" and "PUSHING WOMAN'S RIGHTS BACK A DECADE OR MORE!" and a host of other screaming and raving.

      There will be wild accusations that the burden of proving intent is just some evil attempt to shut down poor disenfranchised people in favor of the patriarchy, or some such. That this is the wrong direction to take. etc.

      Historically, this modality of thinking (the idealist's hardline stance) is, in general (eg, the notion that a (favored) group can make unsubstantiated claims, and that they must be taken as if they are unquestionably true, no matter what, in the general sense-- not that women must always be believed in specific, which is just a specific example of the general pattern I am mentioning here) what has enabled some of mankind's most horrific atrocities.

      For the same reasons we assert that the pope's "Infallibility" is bullshit, or that we assert that there is no "Divine right" for kings, etc--- we cannot accept that a woman's belief that she has been the target of an unwanted advance is the same thing as her having been assaulted. Again-- There can be all kinds of perfectly benign reasons for that "Lecherous, perverted stare!" etc. When you deny that those reasons can and do exist (because the woman is 100% CERTAIN that it could not possibly be that, because damnit, she FEELS victimized, an

    9. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Just to note, you seem to be asserting that "papal infallibility is bullshit". But to think that suggests that you misunderstand it.

      It means that what the pope says, becomes Catholic doctrine. IOW, the pope can't break policy, because what the pope says IS policy.

      That the pope is always "correct" (ie sinless) would be called "papal impeccibility". See here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impeccability

      I think it's all bullshit, but in the sense that I don't hold with the doctrine. But the way you're using the infallibility thing is essentially as a straw man, and it weakens your argument.

    10. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yea, all those husband and wife ran companies are disgusting ineffectual messes.

      Yep.

    11. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      That's a fair cop AC- I will accept this criticism.

      However, I would urge people that would turn off their minds because they encounter something like that, to reconsider. Poorly articulated but insightful commentary is still insightful, despite the poor articulation. Using very poor mnemonics like "He used the wrong "too", and makes run-on sentences. He must be an idiot, and so I wont listen." or "That is a poorly constructed example, he must not be very intelligent" is just intellectual laziness, and I heartily would advise against it.

      If something is true, it does not matter who says it, how they say it, or how many grammatical or spelling errors they make when saying it. It is still true. Deciding "I wont listen; does not meet my arbitrary standards!" rather than actually critically analyzing what has been said, is not a sign of a high intellect, however much some folks here may wish to assert that it is. (No, arguments about "time" are not justifiable reasons. They are excuses.)

    12. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except the second example is "divine right" for kings which can also be viewed in the same scope: that which is seemingly apparent or is stated as the truth is reality. Certainly, that seems to be the standard put forth by some in the #metoo culture. The notion that the Pope can declare Catholic doctrine seems absurd unless one believes in a living Bible and an ineffectualness in the Holy Word. Of course as a non-Christian, I can see that plainly, but that's what makes Christianity bullshit. It's not like voting someone in to try to correct things somehow really solves the problem.

    13. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Maybe he has nearsightedness, and was trying to read the teeny tiny text on the front of her shirt

      Good luck with that one at your next disciplinary hearing.

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    14. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You use words like " *fairness* ", "simple fact", "SENSIBLE".... that is SO pre-modern...

    15. Re: Maybe its time to admit... by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      ".... I'm just not sure that I'd care to work there."
      Fortunately, you don't have to. At least at these payscales, I'm pretty sure you're neither compelled to take the job nor stay at it.

      Now, if you have decided to live a lifestyle that uses every penny of that check and you can't afford to start elsewhere...well, that was your choice, wasn't it?

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      -Styopa
    16. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by umghhh · · Score: 1

      Work is just another place people live. They have a relatively clearly specified tasks (if they are lucky) and well organized workplace so that they can indeed spend most of the time working but that is not how humans function. This of course has consequences for comparative advantages of automation. But the point here is: if you force people just to show up at work, do what they are paid for and go then the pay will have to be higher if any significant mental activity is involved, But fortunately for owners the automated supervision software will eliminate first these evil, hormon induced interactions and then the humans that used to engage in them. I am already happy to witness the future.

    17. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Bongo · · Score: 1

      Being intellectually rigorous and honest does not seem to carry the same weight in the liberal humanities that it used to, it seems.

      I think social standards in general evolve, and tend towards more care and compassion, and importantly, society keeps trying to deal with men and their testosterone. So that's all good in general.

      Specifically on the humanities, though, it is worse than you think! See, it comes down to something called "structuralism" and its variants.

      This is where you begin with the observation that a person does not "create" English or German, rather, they learn English by being part of a group or society of English speakers. That language then becomes the dominant background structure of the person's thoughts. And likewise, patterns such as racism and sexism, are part of the background structure which people live in.

      So the exercise becomes, read a text by some famous person, and then interpret or reveal the embedded racisms and sexisms within the structure of the text. This is why you "deconstruct it", because you are looking at embedded structures. A point about this is that the author of the original text is not themselves aware of their own background racism, whereas you as the structuralist, are able to spot the structures and reveal them.

      Now this is all fine and well and kinda useful in some contexts. But there is unfortunately a bad tendency:

      because YOU are the one revealing the background faults within the structure of the OTHER person's text, this puts you at the immediate advantage, in that, if the other person is saying something you don't like, for example, "climate change is man-made" or "climate change is natural", YOU can just say, well that person has a sexist/imperialist/bigoted/oppressive background structure to their thinking and so you never have to take notice of their arguments.

      Rather than doing the normal thing of, well let us examine your arguments and evidence, you just say they are inherently a voice of racism or oppression or some such.

      The problem is, it is about analysing other people's shadow, instead of starting with one's own shadow, and trying to reveal one's own biases, which would have more intellectual integrity. So it becomes a witch hunt, and you can just accuse anyone of hidden witchcraft and there is nothing they can do to refute the claim, because anything they say is just more witchcraft.

      So yeah unless this stops soon, who knows what problems will develop. And unfortunately they tend to dominate the social justice issues and so people get fed up with it and just vote for people like Trump.

    18. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      Considering that all the people I work with know that I am asexual, I really dont feel threatened.

      However, that this is "A Thing(tm)" is indeed a symptom of the problem I am referring to, yes.

    19. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps our societies should take a note on Hawaiian customs, for example. The available females there have traditionally carried a flower in their hair in a certain way. Social cues should be explicit so that we shouldn't have to waste time to uncover the true commitment level of the desirable person and then at the HR being lectured about appropriate behaviour while our seeds and eggs are turning to crap as we join the increasing ranks of the infertile.

    20. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Sadly you have fallen into the same trap of perpetuating this myth that many others have. For example, the "x% of female students have been sexually assaulted while at college" claim was actually from a very well written paper (the original Campus Sexual Assault (CSA) survey). It was quite conservative, using a definition of sexual assault that was stricter than most legal ones (and definitely doesn't include "someone glanced at a woman in the elevator"), and actually breaks down the statistics even further into categories like violent and incapacitated assault.

      Despite a number of caveats given in the paper, its results have been found by subsequent studies using very robust methodology (e.g. phone interviews with explanations of terms and the definition of sexual assault, limited to the past 6 months to avoid telescoping effects etc.) to be broadly representative.

      The really sad thing is that some men are now scared to even interact with women or be in confined spaces with the, due to unfounded fears perpetuated by these myths. I'm sure someone will respond with a bunch of copy/paste links they prepared demonstrating that the threat is real, but a bunch of links isn't really in the same league as a peer reviewed study.

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    21. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm a humanist (and a feminist) and I'd like to offer a correction.

      These people have an ideal: Women should never be objectified, EVER. (EEEVAAARR).

      Humanists don't think that. Aside from anything humanism isn't really concerned with that sort of thing anyway, it's a form of existentialism that concerns itself with the agency of human beings and their ability to reason without the need for religious frameworks or morality.

      Anyway, I think this misconception, which is usually applied to feminists, comes from some misunderstandings.

      For example, enjoying the human body for it's form and sexuality is fine, when you have permission to do so. Permission is given in all sorts of ways, for example if someone decides to wear certain tight or revealing clothing. Perhaps the misunderstanding comes from the fact that that permission doesn't extend to touching, or imply availability or the desire for an approach necessarily. But when that person chooses to offer their body for your enjoyment then go right ahead.

      Another misconception might be because sometimes people wear such clothing for reasons other than enjoying their own sexuality, such as athletes who need it to perform. I think most people appreciate that it would be inappropriate for a sports commentator to start commenting on an athlete's looks, even though they might be wearing very little.

      A great example of this is tennis. Some tournaments require women to wear a skirt, so they usually just wear the lyrca they normally put on and a minimal skirt over it. Many feminists would prefer they were allowed to wear less, because the skirt is unnecessary and purely there to make them conform to a certain ideal of femininity.

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    22. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > I suspect that anyone who can't keep their professional and personal lives sufficiently separate is probably not a great worker anyways.

      That's half true. Some people just have no limits. If someone is sleeping around a lot and chasing tail all over the place that's just lecherous.

      Your office romance point relates to another problem... a lot of highly productive people are workoholics. They spend most of their time in work. In fact, even if you aren't a workaholic, you spend most of your time at work, sleeping, in transit to work and performing chores.

      Try to frame it however you like, people are going to spend the most time with other people and interacting closely with other people in the workplace. There is nothing you can do outside of work that will have you interacting with more people to the same degree. Work has all your time. It's the natural place to meet and get to know people.

      You can say "that's not what work's for" but for many people it's their only realistic opportunity. For a great many people it's not so easy to meet and hookup with people outside of work.

    23. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 2

      There is another disconnect there as well though.

      Women often wear clothing as a symbol of femininity/power over OTHER WOMEN-- EG, a woman may "overdress" for work, which sends the "I am ok with having my body's aesthetics enjoyed" message, when that message is not really intended. The intended message is "See bitches, I'm totally hotter than you, and I know it."

      Then, after doing this, they file complaints when people "stop and notice", as the"WRONG" people (EG, male co-workers, and NOT the female ones) are the ones giving the lingering looks.

      Since it is impossible to determine what the intent of such dress is (without suddenly developing telepathy), it is impossible to "enjoy" the display. Dangerous even, especially in light of how modern sexual harassment law is defined. (It really *IS* defined by the PERCEPTIONS of the person making the complaint, rather than actual circumstances--- meaning, that the person showed up to work in provocative glitter pasties with matching pumps is not a consideration; She did not want to be looked at like that by THOSE people, and they should be punished for their unwanted, lingering stares, etc.)

      As for the former, which preceded this aside--- A humanist is a person who fundamentally believes in the dignity and sanctity of "person-hood", or "humanity." Extremism is perfectly possible within this demographic, just like any other ideology. It was not intended to imply that all secular humanists are extreme secular humanists who get paradoxically combative over their extremist positions. (paradoxical, as the notion of committing violence against another human is incompatible with most forms of secular humanism.) I thought this was sufficiently implied when I brought up the logical relationship between similarly extreme religious philosophy holders, and this kind of humanist. (I apologize if this was not sufficiently lamp-lit.)

      Likewise one can be a feminist without being a raging misandrist-- This does not make the raging misandrist stop being de-facto, "A feminist."

      The opening salvo about people in general selecting an arbitrary set of ideals is exactly that as well. A general observation about what individual humans do; the specifics of the ideals selected and why they were selected are individual to the person, but this does appear to happen. Each person has a conception of what an ideal meal is like, or an ideal vacation, etc. When a person then seeks a satisfying meal, or plans a luxury vacation, they seek to get as close as possible to these idealized conceptions of what those things should be like, out of the arbitrary preferences of their ideals.

      The same is true of the modern humanist extremist-- the social justice warrior. This individual has a specific idealized form of social norm that they seek to always have when interacting with other people. What they fail to consider is that not everyone has the same idealized social interaction parameters that they do, and they react with violence (both physical and intellectual) when these ideals are not satisfied, in much the same way a person who expected a certain kind of food at the fancy restaurant my pitch a fit about it, or that a person may complain mightily to the manager of a fancy hotel for "ruining their vacation."

      The problem is that "encounter at the restaurant" and "Luxury vacation" are both very exclusive things that exclude most other people from the fallout of the consequences of their choices being mandated, where "social interaction parameters", by their nature, impacts a whole society.

      Very selfishly, they try to demand the whole society conform to their arbitrary parameters, then respond with violent outbursts when they are not satisfied, or when people engage socially in ways that best suit [i]THEM[/i] instead of the social justice warrior.

    24. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For example, enjoying the human body for it's form and sexuality is fine, when you have permission to do so.

      And this I disagree with because...

      Permission is given in all sorts of ways, for example if someone decides to wear certain tight or revealing clothing.

      Except some women will become vocally upset because others look intensely at them and effectively try to revoke permission to look at them in that way.

      Perhaps the misunderstanding comes from the fact that that permission doesn't extend to touching,

      Of course it doesn't involve touching. Touching is assault.

      or imply availability or the desire for an approach necessarily.

      "Necessarily" men can only find out if there is availability or a desire for an approach by approaching another person. Definitely certain clothes are often used precisely to signal availability and a desire for an approach, although it often attracts a lot of undesired for approach. More generally, a lot of men can appreciate many women's (or men's if so inclined) assets in clothes that are not tight or particularly revealing (cleavage, make-up, etc used to not be acceptable things, but I'm going upon some assumption here of reasonably covered). At what point do we know it's okay to look and have lust in one's heart?

      But when that person chooses to offer their body for your enjoyment then go right ahead.

      Are catcalls okay? Is the only valid approach to carry along a set of well establish contracts and do everything in a business like manner with clear approval given at every step? This is my general problem with the way in the discussion is phrased because it is absurd to have thoughts about another person requires some sort of permission. Behavior towards others being unprofessional, rude, and/or illegal? Yea, that's all in the scope of something to be considered, and we have every reason here to discuss when people cross certain lines and what effective penalties there might be (shaming/firing to arrest). It's clear though that things that are borderline actions (looking too long (ie "leering")) have become unacceptable and some want made illegal.

      I think most people appreciate that it would be inappropriate for a sports commentator to start commenting on an athlete's looks

      Because they're a sports commentator and their job is to talk about their athletic ability, not their looks? Model commentators do talk about the model's looks. Btw, models often wear tight clothes not for their own sexuality, so I guess we can't comment about them? Same with actors/actresses. Of course they are selling an image and so they "want" to have that be talked about in certain situations as it is advantageous to their career--in the same way people "want" to work overtime.

      Honestly, if your comment is an indication of how you try to judge when things are inappropriate, I think you've got a long way in solidifying a lot of edge cases which aren't very much edge cases.

    25. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by jopsen · · Score: 1

      90% of what is now classified as 'sexually inappropriate' behavior is normal evolutionarily derived behavior.

      There might be an aspect of nature at play. But don't let that convince you that women haven't been oppressed, or that gender equality isn't a concern anymore.

      Just because something is the natural order of things, doesn't mean we should accept it.

      Violence and murder is the natural order of humans, that doesn't mean we can't make laws to stop it :)

    26. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by giggleloop · · Score: 1

      I can't even work out what you're doing here. You appear to start railing against your own argument half-way through...

    27. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by giggleloop · · Score: 1

      You don't get a pass on sexual assault just because of your sexuality. You think it's okay for a man to sexually assault another man if he isn't gay? Can a gay man grab women by the p**** (while not being president) and it be fine because he's "not into chicks"?

    28. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      From the CSA survey itself:

      "The CSA Study involved conducting a Web-based survey of random samples of undergraduate students at two large public universities"

      "we relied on both recruitment e-mails and hard copy recruitment letters"

      "The Campus Sexual Assault (CSA) Study code that, when entered with their CSA Study ID# at a separate website, enabled them to obtain a $10 Amazon.com gift certificate. "

      “Another limitation of the CSA study, inherent with Web-based survey, is that the response rates were relatively low,” the researchers said.

      Yeah. No possibility of self-selection bias or fraud in the survey responses.

      Glenn Kessler of the Washington Post, who fact-checked the CSA study, pointed out that similar studies from 1997 produced different results based on how the questions were worded.

      Bureau of Justice Statistics data indicate that in 2012 the rate of rapes and sexual assaults was 1.3 per 1,000 Americans ages 12 and up. Thus, one should conclude, the 1 in 5 number is bullshit.

    29. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I acknowledged all that in my comment, pointing out that later studies using more rigorous methodology confirmed the findings. Not some random WaPo journalist, but actual peer reviewed studies.

      The BoJ stats used a different, narrower definition of sexual assault and a limited time frame (six months), as I also pointed out. Thus, the numbers are not in any way directly comparable.

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    30. Re: Maybe its time to admit... by astrofurter · · Score: 1

      A fundamentalist petty tyrant is a fundamentalist petty tyrant - the rest is just details.

    31. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Except some women will become vocally upset because others look intensely at them and effectively try to revoke permission to look at them in that way.

      There has to be some limit... For example, wearing a skirt or a kilt doesn't make it okay to look up it, even though it's open from certain angles.

      And at some rather fuzzy point in the middle there is a point at which looking at women for extended periods of time, say staring at her boobs instead of her face while talking to her, is creepy.

      I'm sure some women are over-sensitive about it, but equally some guys are creepy about it too. All we can do is keep talking about it.

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      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    32. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      A passing look is not sexual assault.

      Assault happens when there is touching. I am indeed capable of sexually assaulting somebody. However, I have no sexual motive to do so.

      Why do you think I was referring to assault, when I was clearly waxing philosophical about HARASSMENT. ??

      Do you frequently make a habit of conflating related, but different things?

    33. Re: Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Santa Claus will bring you presents if you're good.

      Fish really hate swimming.

      Dumping toxic waste in the river is a great idea.

      Feminists do not scream "raaaaaaaaape!" if someone looks at them wrong.

      At least 20 flying pigs take off at JFK each day off the week.

    34. Re: Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women haven't (usually) been oppressed. You've been mislead by your authorities.

      Consider reading a lot more history books.

    35. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Women often wear clothing as a symbol of femininity/power over OTHER WOMEN-- EG, a woman may "overdress" for work, which sends the "I am ok with having my body's aesthetics enjoyed" message, when that message is not really intended. The intended message is "See bitches, I'm totally hotter than you, and I know it."

      Yes, and it's just as toxic as guys using their physicality to intimidate. It's quite a complex problem, and the best thing men can do about it is to not engage with women who try to do that. If it doesn't work they lose their power, both over you and over the women they are trying to send a message to.

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    36. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Link to your source?

      And yes, I'm going to tear it apart.

    37. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There has to be some limit... For example, wearing a skirt or a kilt doesn't make it okay to look up it, even though it's open from certain angles.

      With a strong breeze, all angles.

      And at some rather fuzzy point in the middle there is a point at which looking at women for extended periods of time, say staring at her boobs instead of her face while talking to her, is creepy.

      Staring or simply repeatedly glancing down at cleavage? Is it creepy or does it make the guy a creep?

      I'm sure some women are over-sensitive about it, but equally some guys are creepy about it too.

      Having never really been ogled in my life (that I'm aware of), I honestly don't know how I'd react to it. I don't think most guys really expected to be looked at in that fashion, and I can definitely see it being annoying and becoming sensitive about it if it happened a lot. Of course all of it's at some level creepy, but then if you put any real thought into we're all a bunch of meat bags with blood, bones, and brains making flapping motions with our skin/tongue/larynx and pumping air in and out to talk. That any one of us can look at another with any real thought beyond that is sort of amazing.

      All we can do is keep talking about it.

      If that's all that was happening, I don't think we'd be here as a society--we'd just have a lot more actual meetings talking about things instead of people deciding and dictating out of some handbook . Beyond that, social norms can vary greatly from person to person which really makes those sorts of discussions invariably futile at some level (unless you want it to be a democracy/republic). I mean personally, at a logical level I don't care if people go nude (weather permitting). But at a practical level, I don't think that would be a functional way to run a work environment. Short of going the school route of uniforms (which I find honestly disturbing as it further promotes the mindset of unquestioning indoctrination)...and that still doesn't really answer what the uniform should be.

      So, practically, I don't think that's actually an answer. Maybe as a society as a whole? But at that level we're failing horribly.

    38. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      we seem to have lost all nuance when it comes to milder transgressions

      while we go to the other extreme with the Comet Ping Pong level of transgressions -- ignoring them completely while even killing people when they try to reveal what is really going on.

      The petty covers up the sick, apparently.

    39. Re: Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Funny I didn't read that in what you wrote.

    40. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      To be perfectly frank, when I see such interactions, I admit that my eye lingers--

      However, it is not because I am greedily taking in the view of her curves or whatever. It is because I am trying to evaluate her body language, as a coarse alternative to the otherwise needed telepathy required to interpret the display.

      EG,

      "What is this woman thinking, being the only one to wear a red 2-piece suit and red heels, amongst peers wearing grey?"

      "Is she broadcasting a power-message, or something else?"

      Considering that I am asexual, and have precisely ZERO interest in attracting a mate, I invest precisely ZERO effort into being what is considered socially attractive. That is not to say I show up for work in an unhygienic state or something-- just that I do not take extra precaution about my attire other than it being clean, and work appropriate. This means that by most people's standards, I look a bit fugly. I am down with that, and dont care.

      However, the people who broadcast for "power" take great exception to being watched by persons they consider "way below their level", and somebody fugly looking like myself has a pretty consistently high probability of inducing a negative thought when they notice being closely watched. Likewise for the "I am OK with being looked at" demographic.

      I need to ascertain what their motive is for this display; It strongly determines other kind of office interraction, and is needed to understandhow and where This person fits in.

      In more cut-throad environments, this has actually resulted in on-paper disciplinary hearinggs,

    41. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by TeknoHog · · Score: 2

      Just to note, you seem to be asserting that "papal infallibility is bullshit".

      It's only bullshit until a bull is issued.

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    42. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Take a look at the inside of the Doge's Palace in Venice sometime if you think that behavior has been inappropriate for ages. If you thought a painting of a clothed buxom woman riding a dog was inappropriate you'll positively be flabbergasted by some of the paintings in the Palace.

    43. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course as a non-Catholic, I can see that plainly, but that's what makes Catholocism bullshit.

      FTFY. Plenty of Christians don't subscribe to the idea that the Pope breathes out the modern word of God. That's been quite clearly been untrue since at least Justinian.

    44. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by pak9rabid · · Score: 1

      Very selfishly, they try to demand the whole society conform to their arbitrary parameters, then respond with violent outbursts when they are not satisfied, or when people engage socially in ways that best suit [i]THEM[/i] instead of the social justice warrior.

      This right here is the biggest issue I have with the far left.

    45. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      because the skirt is unnecessary and purely there to make them conform to a certain ideal of femininity.

      Do they make distinctions between traditions or customs and gender ideals? If not, they should really liberate us men from our formal wear as well. Not that a $600 adjusted wool suit is entirely uncomfortable and disgusting..

    46. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a humanist (and a feminist) and I'd like to offer a correction.

      My impression from your ranting on Slashdot is you are a post-humanist.

      You refuse to accept humans as humans and won't quit belching SJW bullshit until everyone is a borg drone. The idea that people are not in fact equal pisses you off. The idea that people have no desire to be the same is outrageous to you. The very notion of humanities connection to natural law and survival of the fit enough repulses you.

    47. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1

      These people have an ideal: Women should never be objectified, EVER. (EEEVAAARR).

      This kind of thinking really bugs me. The fact is that men and women _are_ objects. That's not all they are, but they are most definitely objects.

      Also, both sexes are objectified. Women do it to men just like men do it to women.

    48. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you take a look at his posting history you can clearly see that he's a massive faggot, so it shouldn't be too surprising that you can't work it out.

    49. Re:Maybe its time to admit... by packrat0x · · Score: 1

      I like how in the Doge's Palace, the map of the Middle East correctly places Mount Sinai in northern Arabia.

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  6. Back when Sergey was fucking women in the office by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    - There were no web analytics
    - Web browser standards did not include DRM
    - Front page of Google loaded from anywhere, without Javascript
    - without Javascript
    - without Javascript

  7. Godaddy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And what about GoDaddy, Carl Jr and Jack in a box? At least facebook and google dont have near naked women selling products, of course they do sell your private data

    1. Re: Godaddy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean they sell your private parts. See what i did there? Data.... parts..... get it.

    2. Re:Godaddy by giggleloop · · Score: 1

      They sell your private data because that is their business model and has been since their breakout in the business world. "If you're not paying for the product, you are the product!"

  8. Re:ho-hum by blindseer · · Score: 0

    It appears you didn't get the memo, there's no alcohol in the Trump White House. He likes diet Pepsi.

    Obama liked the marijuana. GW Bush reportedly did cocaine. Clinton liked cigars, but he didn't inhale. If Clinton didn't smoke the cigars, then why did he keep a box of them in the Oval Office?

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  9. It was happening before Facebook and Google by The+Optimizer · · Score: 2

    In the very 90s I worked for a few different tech or engineering / services companies and at more than one I learned that the early days of the company were full of similar stories.

    I think it had more to do with the nature of an early tech startup combined people with a white collar office setting and sometimes long hours that allowed for social mixing, goofing off, encounters the left people saying 'check the sofa for stains', etc. Add in some corporate success in lines of business that weren't 'mature' to the point of being cut and dry and it was easy to blur the lines, especially with younger people who were not married / didn't have families (though that didn't stop some).

  10. Re: New art of the life in prison deal book coming by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    TDS is awful.

  11. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not to go too far off topic, but Obama was worse for marijuana than any president since Nixon. Trump hasn't allowed a single federal marijuana raid in legal states since taking office - and because of the democrats' hysteria over muh Russia, he can't get rid of Sessions.

    Obama was a hypocritical cunt wrt marijuana. Trump is simply predictably vain and shallow. He wants people to like him, so appeases the marijuana lobby by not acting.

  12. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    When lying Republican faggots lie, it's best to just let them continue until they make it to Federal prison... no, Reagan's drug policy was obviously a lot more draconian than Obamas, get real tool.

  13. Re:ho-hum by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Well, there's the excitement of a roller coaster at Disney Land and the excitement of a mine cart ride a la Indy...

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  14. Grab 'em by the p*ssy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Reasonable people are against random groping.

    1. Re:Grab 'em by the p*ssy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You injected your anti-trump remark in a discussion where it has zero reason to be there. Congrats. now go away. Yes, yes, yes, he was on a recording saying that, but I'd bet every dollar I own, if you were recorded throughout your life without your knowledge, really offensive and horrible things would turn up too, even if you don't think it was.

  15. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not to go too far off topic,

    Too late for that.

    but Obama was worse for marijuana than any president since Nixon. Trump hasn't allowed a single federal marijuana raid in legal states since taking office - and because of the democrats' hysteria over muh Russia, he can't get rid of Sessions.

    Obama was a hypocritical cunt wrt marijuana. Trump is simply predictably vain and shallow. He wants people to like him, so appeases the marijuana lobby by not acting.

    Here's a guess on why both Obama and Trump act the way they do. Obama is a lawyer and politician, he has to know that nothing kills bad law faster than strict enforcement. This explains his strict enforcement in states where marijuana was illegal under state law, he's trying to get people upset on the law by putting people in prison over it. By not enforcing federal marijuana prohibitions in states where it's legal he was putting pressure on states where it was illegal and "buying" favors from elected officials and voters in those states. If he sees anti-marijuana votes from a state delegation where state law legalized marijuana then he can put leverage on them to reverse the vote, or punish the vote, by enforcing federal law there.

    Trump just generally dislikes government getting in people's face over trivial matters. Marijuana seems to be a trivial matter to him. By not enforcing federal marijuana law he's not going to force a bill to repeal the marijuana prohibition. It's unlikely anyone will push back on this non-enforcement since marijuana prohibitions are not popular nationwide. This is dangerous since it means that the executive is being allowed to not enforce law enacted by Congress. It's also problematic because it breeds the attitude among the public that federal law is subordinate to state law.

    Enforce the law or repeal the law, anything else is a mockery of law.

  16. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In terms of responsibility for only their own administrations, Obama had the most negative impact on marijuana policy affecting people's lives. His administration unleashed the DEA and allowed for rampant abuse of forfeiture laws, blazing a swathe of destruction through nascent legal pot shops, communities of medical users, and torched the lives of tens of thousands of Americans.

    In terms of total effective responsibility for the destruction of American lives via the war on drugs, it's probably ranked Nixon, Reagan, Obama, Clinton, Bush Jr, Carter, Bush Sr, Ford, Trump.

    I'm a social and fiscal liberal who believes in legalizing all drugs. Consciousness is a sovereign right, and adults have no business deciding for other adults what their state of mind should be. Fuck your Obama pedestal. The guy was rotten to the core and abused the trust of the Democratic party, and allowed Hillary to trample all over the party, and because of that, Trump won.

    Funny how by simply not doing anything, Trump is a better president than all the others, on that single metric. Hell, if he would just apply that to the rest of his dumpster fire of a term, maybe he might go down as a great president, who remained calm and silent and allowed America to get its shit together.

    Select your metrics - number of people fined, arrested, jailed, sentenced, amount of money seized, DEA budget, resources allocated for enforcement. The Obama admin ramped up everything, and floated in truckloads of military equipment, thanks to Dubya's sweet deals with the military industrial complex. He talked sweetly and powerfully, but he did a lot of damage to people's lives, for no apparently good reason, and did so in a much broader way than people are aware of.

    Just because the media didn't play it on repeat doesn't mean it didn't happen. Do your research into Obama's participation in the drug war. It's ugly.

  17. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just to be clear, Trump isn't doing good.He's just not doing the bad things his predecessors did. And his motivation is purely venal.

  18. Money and children, mix predictably. by geekmux · · Score: 1

    By comparison, these companies were founded by kids. What exactly did experienced professionals expect?

    Those who were not around for the dot-bomb history lesson now know that Entertainment 720 was more documentary than satire.

  19. Re:In other words. alternate title by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    "Before the Feminists Arrived"

    Uh, you mean before lawsuits were paid out.

    Feminists have always been there. They didn't have the attention of greedy lawyers before, backed by successful litigation. They do now.

  20. WTF does this even mean? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    From the summary's FIRST line:
    "Adam Fisher paints quite a different picture of life at now-workforce behavior preachers Google and Facebook,"

    WTF? Oh wait... this is Slashdot.

  21. Good engineers can still be jerks by sjbe · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ... about a Picasso/Graffiti original depicting a busty comic girl and a cartoon dog, then you should probably leave.

    Why? Why should someone have to leave because someone else at the company wants to behave like an unsupervised teenager on a bender? How about just taking down a picture that any sensible adult will see the problem with? Seriously, you don't get why having such a picture posted prominently is unprofessional when it has NOTHING to do with the actual business of the company? Pro tip: If your business isn't art or fashion, then pictures of busty women posted prominently is almost certainly going to be perceived badly by self respecting professional women as well as men with a sense of decency and respect for women. I have a daughter and a wife and they shouldn't have to put up with crap like that at work. A business isn't supposed to operate like a fraternity house.

    I bet dollars to donuts that the stuff that brought Google or Facebook ahead wasn't built by the people who would do binge drinking contests at work.

    Yes it was. Companies aren't built by engineers alone no matter how much we might wish it to be so nor are engineers above such behavior. 20 seconds on google can find you innumerable examples. Many of these companies were built by young 20-somethings with limited guidance on professional behavior and they behaved like young 20-somethings often do - which is to say like an unsupervised child. There is a reason these company almost always have to bring in an experienced professional to be "the adult in the room".

    This nonsense is usually done by marketing or community management.

    I'm sure you wish that were actually true. Back here in the real world, engineers party and are often sexist pigs just as often as those in any other profession. Being a talented engineer or any other type of profession is not incompatible with been a juvenile asshat and if you've been around for more than a minute you'll have met quite a few of them.

    The stuff that brings these companies ahead are built by people who come in, solve the problem, collect their salary and then leave again.

    I think you don't have a lot of experience with real world staffing or you could not possibly believe this. Talk to any HR professional and you'll quickly find out that talent for solving engineering problems has poor correlation with decent behavior. The tone for how a company behaves is set at the top and if the top management is permissive with sketchy behavior then that is what you are going to get. See Uber if you need an example. People can get a lot of quality work done and still find time to be an asshat.

    1. Re: Good engineers can still be jerks by astrofurter · · Score: 1

      -- Fainting couches are over that way

    2. Re: Good engineers can still be jerks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Honestly, why should anyone give a shit? Great, you think it's immature. Why do you matter? I'm speaking in general terms here. What's the correlation between professionalism and success, and quite frankly, who cares about that either? If someone wants big tits on the wall while they run their own company into the ground, why is that any of your fucking concern? Your wife doesn't like it? Don't work there. Why the Fuck would she even want to?

    3. Re:Good engineers can still be jerks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just because you have a daughter doesn't mean you can't be a massive faggot.

      You sound like a massive faggot getting all worked up over some artwork. You're obviously not a good "cultural fit" for the company.

  22. Diversity by sjbe · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'd also wager that the people who really built those companies and continue to drive them are a) mostly male, b) mostly white, and c) couldn't give much of a shit about a picture of a big titted chick riding a bulldog (or heavens, they might actually like it).

    Probably true. Doesn't mean it is right or that it should be condoned. It also probably means that those companies have some messed up cultural problems that they are still dealing with to this day because being talented does not also mean you aren't an asshat. Ask Harvey Weinstein.

    I've found that SJW claims about a company's diversity "needs" rarely have any intersection with recognizing the company's previous success track. If it's success has truly come from hiring 51% women or x% transgender, they'd already be doing it and wouldn't have to keep being told.

    You are effectively arguing that people won't be racists or sexists when money is on the table and that is demonstrably not true. Color me unimpressed with your reasoning. Our country has centuries of racial and gender bias which we are still dealing with and which denies opportunities daily to deserving people.

    The reason diversity matters is that talented people don't come in a particular gender or skin color. If you are actually hiring the best people, chances are that your company is going to look pretty diverse. But people routinely do not hire the best people - they hire the people they are most comfortable with and who by and large look the most like themselves. When all these people are white, male, and privileged then this tends to become a problem for society as well as for that company.

    1. Re:Diversity by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      The reason diversity matters is it provides an attack vector for some.

      What are your views on the **highly** non-diverse hiring practices of the various basket ball leagues?

    2. Re:Diversity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Our country has centuries of racial and gender bias which we are still dealing with and which denies opportunities daily to deserving people.

      As long as you're talking about government or public opportunities, sure, go with the term deserving. When it's the private sector, fuck right off. You deserve nothing.

      The reason diversity matters is that talented people don't come in a particular gender or skin color. If you are actually hiring the best people, chances are that your company is going to look pretty diverse.

      Cite? Didn't think so. I work in academia as one of the few political moderates at a state university of over 40,000. This trope ("diversity is inherently good") is paraded quite a bit with precious little hard research to back it up. Good for whom? Women? Minorities? The university's ranking? (hint, not the last one) Want go get into my school as a white person? An ACT of 25-29 thank you. If you're black? I am not making this up.. FUCKING 14-19!

      Nearly 60% of our employees are female (majority are liberal arts do-nothings); where's the hand-wringing over affirmative action for males? This kind of shit is going to come back to bite them, hard. Trump won't last, but his supreme court justices will. I wonder how Ginsburg's health is doing...

      But people routinely do not hire the best people - they hire the people they are most comfortable with and who by and large look the most like themselves. When all these people are white, male, and privileged then this tends to become a problem for society as well as for that company.

      A problem for society? Maybe. A problem for the company? Probably not. Again, you're ASSUMING that taking a largely homogeneous successful company and 'diversifying' the working population is going to make things better. Horse shit. With whom do you work well? People like yourself? There you have it.

      So, a friend of a friend owns a small privately held company that deals with a somewhat specific area of cryogenics that he purposefully keeps under fifteen people, and in fact ended up opening up two other companies under the advice of counsel to keep them unassailable as well (as well as growing his wealth). One thing that amused me was that the wife of one of his employees figured this out and was livid. She works in IT, and having blown up more than a few network infrastructures was promoted into management to keep her out of trouble (more common than you think; no technical skills but goddamn if she doesn't have a liberal arts degree and a vagina). How dare he hire only white males at HIS company!? She spoke to a lawyer (she was actually angling to go after him; how she intended to do this I don't know) and became enraged when told that the guy was pretty much unassailable.

      Bottom line is: when I'm in the trenches and 2.0 release date is approaching and we transition to sixty hour weeks, I want to be working along side people like myself: common culture, shared goals, same gender, similar sensibilities, minimal friction. I've functioned in such environments in previous lives as a private sector engineer and a military member, and it just works.

    3. Re:Diversity by swb · · Score: 2

      I'd probably go even further and suggest that the personality types associated with entrepreneurship are iconoclasts and have little respect for rules or conventional behavior.

      I'd also argue that such behavior may actually be necessary, social norms and rules are often significantly oriented towards maintaining and persisting a given order. Following the rules doesn't change history as they say.

      I don't think this excuses any specific act of sexism, harassment, etc, but it does kind of explain the types of people involved and how it starts.

    4. Re:Diversity by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

      If you are actually hiring the best people, chances are that your company is going to look pretty diverse.

      But that's just an assertion. What if it weren't true?

      Thought experiment - the job title is "Mensa Infiltrator" and the main hiring tool is an IQ test.

      Your outcomes will not pass approval by the diversity police. Now what?

    5. Re:Diversity by denzacar · · Score: 2

      The reason diversity matters is it provides an attack vector for some.

      What are your views on the **highly** non-diverse hiring practices of the various basket ball leagues?

      You completely missed the bit in the parent post about "actually hiring the best people"?
      Tinfoil will cause such issues with text comprehension once it starts seeping in the bloodstream.
      Plus on top of even the regular paranoia, you start seeing "attack vectors" everywhere.
      That's why you should always use velostat hats, not tinfoil ones.
      Tinfoil is part of a secret SJW plan to make you sterile and easily identifiable due to light reflection from your head.

      As for your dreams of not being short, fat and too old and incapable to earn a living by bouncing a ball... well... that's all your mom's fault.

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    6. Re:Diversity by DrSpock11 · · Score: 2

      "But people routinely do not hire the best people - they hire the people they are most comfortable with and who by and large look the most like themselves."

      If this statement were true tech companies wouldn't have such huge amount of ethnically Asian employees. And indeed, intentionally limit the amounts of them that they hire.

      Of course, Asians are a "minority" whose culture strongly values education and hard work and this results in their success in entering engineering fields. But of course, this reality doesn't jive with the left's fantasy storyline of "systemic oppression" so it's always ignored.

    7. Re: Diversity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And yet some here mock people from India (which is in Asia, and a culture that values education and hard work) for being poorly educated and lazy.

    8. Re: Diversity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think he was actually arguing that people will go with what they believe is most likely to work when money is on the table.

      Also, can we stop pretending that the market for labor is anywhere near efficient enough to be able to hire "The best. " Companies are obviously subject to the limitations placed upon them by real life. I.e., laws, geography, the reach of their job ads, the network that existing employees have, interest from prospective employees. It's overwhelmingly more likely that the best candidates for a particular role will never be hired due to one of these limitations. Companies can only hire the best people that they can manage to find and convince.

    9. Re:Diversity by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      "The reason diversity matters is that talented people don't come in a particular gender or skin color. "
      I fundamentally agree with you in principle, but the objective proof would seem to suggest otherwise.
      Look at most modern companies - whether they're held-over old-economy relics or new-.com-era firms: their massive successes and growth were when? When they were mostly white, mostly male.

      Show me a company whose sustained growth curve IMPROVED when they started prioritizing diversity in hiring, and I'll show you ten that didn't improve at all.

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  23. Bar brawls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I remember one project I worked on for a big well-known airline where we worked really hard and played very hard, and that included getting into all in bar brawls, usually with brokers :).

    Everyone in the company was shagging each other, at all levels, including upper management.

    We did finish the project only a bit late and only 200% over budget, but there was a lot of scope creep....

    That was the 90s when everyone smoked, drank, and cocaine wasn't for poor people.

    1. Re:Bar brawls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      cool story, bro.

      NOT!

  24. Re: ho-hum by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

    Found the mind reader.

  25. Re: ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Thank you. I am glad you received your Phd in Psychology and sharing your expert opinion one his motivation.

    I do not care what a presidents motivation's are.
    I care about what policies he is able to implement and which one's he does not.
    TRUMP so far is doing far more that I want him to than OBAMA or Hillary.
    Go Trump.

  26. "huge buxom woman with enormous breasts" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    not to be pedantic, but redundant with redundancy much?

  27. Re: ho-hum by astrofurter · · Score: 1

    "Enforce the law or repeal the law, anything else is a mockery of law." Shitty laws deserve mockery?

  28. Liberals vs. Conservatives by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    Startups are the kind of place where social liberals thrive. They're really good at generating new ideas, are open to trying new things, and generally aren't good at managing products for the long term.

    Big companies run on conservatives. They have processes in place, they get stuff done slowly and surely, and not much new happens. Increasingly, these places are dominated in HR by the neomarxists who are particularly concerned with tribal -dentity thinking.

    If you've ever wondered why startups tend to produce new products and then get acquired by big companies that don't, this is the basic explanation. Both types are necessary for the long-term, and it's important that people with the right personality structure wind up in the right work structure as well. Neither type of person will feel comfortable in the opposite work environment.

    Really, this is the sort of thing that high schools ought to be measuring, testing, and recommending. And no, we are not talking about politics here.

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    1. Re: Liberals vs. Conservatives by astrofurter · · Score: 1

      What's really funny to me is that "progressive" used to be a colloquial synonym for "liberal". But somehow in the last few years it suddenly changed meaning to "prudish, intolerant social conservative".

  29. Re:ho-hum by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    To shove up girl's fannies?

  30. Unichs programmers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And now with the new HR policies, everyone gets castrated after the pee test.

  31. Re: ho-hum by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

    "Enforce the law or repeal the law, anything else is a mockery of law." Shitty laws deserve mockery?

    They do... from The People. But it's the government's job to create laws that serve society, and not create ones which don't.

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  32. Sensitivity training by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They had to fit the rigorous "sensitivity training" in there somewhere. Then everything went to shit.

  33. Totally inappropriate thing by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

    ...on the big 10-foot-high wall facing you is just this huge buxom woman with enormous breasts wearing this Mad Max-style costume riding a bulldog. It's the most intimidating, totally inappropriate thing.

    Bulldogs are fucking ugly and that painting is even uglier.

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  34. Bro culture thrives in the valley by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Was it like that in the beginning, the 80s/90s? Nope.

    It's only of recent times, mainly wall street VCs hiring inexperienced college kids to run billion $ businesses.

    Of course it would be a frat house. That all college kids know since there's more emphasis in college life nowadays compated to the days of Hewitt, Berns Lee and Cerf.

  35. Good engineers can still be sexist. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Amen to it all. Not going to name names, but I've ran into this kind of behavior amoungst those who should have known better.

  36. Maybe its time to admit...Social isolation. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The funny thing about this whole issue is how much of it would go away if telecommuting was more popular. What are they all going to do? Ogle the dog?

  37. Google was normal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    At least normal enough to be bored shitless by TFA.

    Heather Cairns: I remember them making a rubber wheel and moving it over paper. I was like, 'What are you doing? ''Well, we want to scan every book and publication and put it on the Internet.' I''d say, Are you crazy?' And theyd say, 'The only thing that holds us back is turning pages.'

  38. Back in the olden days... by BrianMarshall · · Score: 1

    During the 1980s, I remember reading an article in InfoWorld (a magazine about IT for the enterprise - a magazine aimed at managers) in which Steve Jobs describes his first experience with acid.

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  39. Sillicon Valley is run by ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... rich, entitled frat bros? Get outta town! Who's gonna believe that?

    I thought Sillycon Valley 'leaders' were all woke to #metoo? Are you saying it's all just virtue signalling? Lies?

    My heroes have been shattered. Oh, the horrors.