ok, here's where i'm confused. why did the woman install any sort of spyware at all- florida has the distinction of being a "no cause" state- you do not need a reason for a divorce, and only one party needs to request it. there is no mandatory waiting period (unless you haven't been a resident of the state of fl for 6 months or if you have children). a couple with no children can have the woman go to the court, request a divorce, the hubby would be informed, he doesn't even have to agree/reply/appear, and the judge can stamp it as soon as the petitioner gets a date in court. how do i know this? because i would be a female geek who's husband did all this just last year. yes, i found his emails with his girlfriends in his yahoo account, his chats with friends talking about his exploits (msn w/automatic logging- been on OUR computer for 3 years, so it was known). browser history of foreign countries, plane tickets, etc. i, of course, do all the system maintenance on our server. when i went to go do regular "cleaning out", i noticed he tried to dump his cache and delete his emails, something he had never done before and obviously not very well. since he wouldn't know cache from cash, i knew someone had to have told him how to try to hide his steps...
anyway, it doesn't matter since none of this is inadmissable in court. the court doesn't care.
she did this not for legal reasons but for her own self-preservation/self-worth issues.
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ok, here's where i'm confused. why did the woman install any sort of spyware at all- florida has the distinction of being a "no cause" state- you do not need a reason for a divorce, and only one party needs to request it. there is no mandatory waiting period (unless you haven't been a resident of the state of fl for 6 months or if you have children). a couple with no children can have the woman go to the court, request a divorce, the hubby would be informed, he doesn't even have to agree/reply/appear, and the judge can stamp it as soon as the petitioner gets a date in court.
how do i know this? because i would be a female geek who's husband did all this just last year. yes, i found his emails with his girlfriends in his yahoo account, his chats with friends talking about his exploits (msn w/automatic logging- been on OUR computer for 3 years, so it was known). browser history of foreign countries, plane tickets, etc. i, of course, do all the system maintenance on our server. when i went to go do regular "cleaning out", i noticed he tried to dump his cache and delete his emails, something he had never done before and obviously not very well. since he wouldn't know cache from cash, i knew someone had to have told him how to try to hide his steps...
anyway, it doesn't matter since none of this is inadmissable in court. the court doesn't care.
she did this not for legal reasons but for her own self-preservation/self-worth issues.