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FL Court Rules Against Spouse-Installed Spyware

idobi writes "A Florida court ruled that it was illegal for a wife to install spyware on her husband's computer, in order to catch him in an extramarital affair. The three judge panel barred the woman from using the chat records from being introduced as evidence in the divorce proceedings. The court ruled that the software, Spector, violated Florida's wiretapping law - which states that it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.'"

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  1. On the Upside by ackthpt · · Score: 5, Funny
    The Florida Appeals Court, Fifth District said that Beverly Ann O'Brien "illegally obtained" records of husband James' online conversations with another woman as the two played Yahoo Dominoes together.

    The woman, tech-savvy enough to install spyware and obtain the results, should have no problem finding a new husband on Slashdot, where doubtlessly her activities have gained her a certain cred and mystique and a following.

    in today's news Beverly Ann O'Brien sought a mass restraining order against a poster on slashdot.org who has been stalking her and sending poems, such as 'r05e r r3d, v1o13t r b1u3, a11 my ba53 r b310ng t0 y0u'

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    1. Re:On the Upside by babokd · · Score: 0

      haha, that's a cute poem

    2. Re:On the Upside by Oxy+the+moron · · Score: 3, Funny

      r0535 R R3d
      5ug4r i5 5w337
      If U'd b3 m1n3
      I'd f33l pr377y 1337.

      Yes... it is shamelessly stolen from a web game... *sigh*
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    3. Re:On the Upside by DrEldarion · · Score: 1

      On the flipside, searching google for a keylogger (or just clicking a pop-up she saw) is not that hard, and being quite willing to spy on you will probably not be too attractive a quality to go over well with the typical slashdotter.

    4. Re:On the Upside by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      ..somehow that looked like 'all my balls'. somehow.

    5. Re:On the Upside by ackthpt · · Score: 1

      i originally penned it back when r0b proposed to kat4l33n. i see someone has borrowed it to sell on shirts.

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    6. Re:On the Upside by HAKdragon · · Score: 1

      Obligatory thinkgeek link

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    7. Re:On the Upside by hankwang · · Score: 1
      being quite willing to spy on you will probably not be too attractive a quality to go over well with the typical slashdotter.

      You're talking as if the typical slashdotter would be capable of seducing other women and cheat on his wife... :)

    8. Re:On the Upside by ikkonoishi · · Score: 4, Funny

      I think that roses are #FF0000 violets are #0000FF would be more geeky.

    9. Re:On the Upside by myov · · Score: 1

      Shouldn't that be something like
      Roses are #FF0000?

      (stolen from ThinkGeek...)

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    10. Re:On the Upside by Mr+Guy · · Score: 2, Funny

      Roses are red
      My desktop's a sphere
      If you think we're cute,
      You must be new here.

    11. Re:On the Upside by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This has always bothered me. Roses are red. Violets are... violet aren't they? If they aren't then they should be.

    12. Re:On the Upside by zcat_NZ · · Score: 1

      roses are #FF0000 violets are #0000FF

      That was on a Thinkgeek banner about a month ago...

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    13. Re:On the Upside by ikkonoishi · · Score: 1

      Depends on the type of violet, but the important thing here is for it to rhyme with you.

    14. Re:On the Upside by serutan · · Score: 1
      ...should have no problem finding a new husband on Slashdot...
      Sh3 is teh ro><><or!!1
  2. See, honey, I told you that was illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Now please put down that gun.

  3. Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    So are logs now illegal in Florida? After all, logs are (usually) records of some form of communication which happens electronically.

    1. Re:Are logs illegal? by UWC · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I know in some states the recording has to be known by at least one involved party, and some states require that both are made aware. In this case, it seems that neither party involved in the communications was aware of what was functionally a wiretap. The ruling, while good for privacy, seems extremely frustrating for those hoping to use the logs as evidence.

    2. Re:Are logs illegal? by LukaFox · · Score: 1
      I don't think that logs count as an interception of electronic communication. Usually, either party's software would be generating a log, thus not intercepting it but receiving it normally and making a record of it.

      If an ISP logs the traffic through its servers, I don't know if that would count either because that's an expected kind of mediation that has to occur. Packets go through plenty of other machines besides the end points, but that has to be expected.

    3. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, with Gaim you can set it to log conversations. Though I'm not sure what program the "family" was using. This is an interesting case.

    4. Re:Are logs illegal? by ScooterMcGoo · · Score: 1

      There goes my planned defense against the MPAA. Back to the drawing board.

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    5. Re:Are logs illegal? by tibike77 · · Score: 1

      Apparently, LOGS are not illegal, but INSTALLING a software that does make logs of (let's say) IRC chats or typed e-mail is illegal.

      All that the wife should have done to "be legit" is make sure she enables logging in all chat programs the husband uses, then provide the regular (possibly "undeleted") logs as evidence.

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    6. Re:Are logs illegal? by einhverfr · · Score: 1

      IANAL but I thought that logs were generally suspect because they are easily forged. Sort of the equivalent of hearsay.

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    7. Re:Are logs illegal? by 3terrabyte · · Score: 2, Funny

      You know, all she needs to do is have a EULA pop up when the application starts saying that he agrees to the extra logs. No one reads the EULA's anyway

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    8. Re:Are logs illegal? by AviLazar · · Score: 1

      Even if this was the case, when the FBI come a knockin' they won't really care too much about FL wire-tapping laws. FBI supsersedes state law when it is a federal investigation.

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    9. Re:Are logs illegal? by Lumpy · · Score: 5, Interesting

      it simply means she had a shitty lawyer.

      my divorce in 1996 I owned an ISP. my Ex was having an online affair and the court was happy to look at all her email logs, captured chat sessions and detailed logs of websites and captures of the images and the like.

      her lawyer tried the same tricks, the judge threw out the request stating "privately owned computer equipment is not under the jurisdiction of the wiretapping laws."

      granted I hired the best lawers in the state but it's still fishy that a judge would accept such a defense tactic.

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    10. Re:Are logs illegal? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      Sometimes its required to record a message, SEC I believe requires a record of all communications with a stockbroker and client for example. I'm sure that is way Gaim allows a convesation to be logged.

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    11. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Did you live in the state of Florida at the time? If so, have there been any changes to pertinent state law since then? Any other slight differences in the two cases (such as you being an ISP with justifiable access to such logs and data while this woman apparently just installed a keylogger or similar program)?

      Sorry to be blunt about it. I just wanted to point out that there are several reasons that might explain why this would have worked for you in 1996 but not for this Florida woman in 2005. I think that's why the state of Florida is such a critical piece of the issue, as suggested by the title of this /. article.

    12. Re:Are logs illegal? by lamber45 · · Score: 1

      I think you can still use routine logs as evidence. It helps if your AUPs or the login banner says something like "all connections are logged"; then you can at least say in court that "so-and-so tried to connect on such-and-such a date". If you're an ISP under a DOS attack, you are obviously a party to the communication; but you aren't expected to read the e-mail that comes through to decide whether your customers are cheating on their spouses.

    13. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My attorney found case law that stated even illegally obtained evidence may legally be used to impeach the testimony of a witness at trial. Note the emphasis on Impeach the Testimony.

    14. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      does not matter, a GOOD lawyer will get it admitted and accepted.

      she got a shitty lawyer.

      anyone that has had to deal with the legal system knows this. the laws on the books mean nothing. the quality and cost of your lawyer is the biggest thing you can do to insure a win. (that and have lots of money to stay in the game.)

    15. Re:Are logs illegal? by commodoresloat · · Score: 4, Insightful
      The ruling, while good for privacy, seems extremely frustrating for those hoping to use the logs as evidence.

      Which is precisely why the ruling is good for privacy. You should not be allowed to use logs of private conversations as evidence if the logs are obtained illegally.

    16. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

      my divorce in 1996 I owned an ISP. my Ex was having an online affair and the court was happy to look at all her email logs, captured chat sessions and detailed logs of websites and captures of the images and the like.

      her lawyer tried the same tricks, the judge threw out the request stating "privately owned computer equipment is not under the jurisdiction of the wiretapping laws."


      Sorry, that's no longer true.

      If you read the decision, you'll see that the Security of Communications Act was passed in 2003, well after your court case.

      The act was "a policy decision by the Florida legislature to allow each party to a conversation to have an expectation of privacy from interception by another party to the conversation."

    17. Re:Are logs illegal? by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      Not logs - software. Logs are passively generated, not secret, and exist to be read. The software she was using intercepts and records communication stealthily. Different things.

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    18. Re:Are logs illegal? by UWC · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Agreed. If the judge had allowed it as evidence, the precedent it set and the implications thereof would be downright frightening. I guess that's the sticky wicket of the justice system. Even if it was a murder trial with illegally obtained but incontrovertible proof of guilt, allowing the evidence would still be a precedent that should not be set.

    19. Re:Are logs illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean if the logs were created electronically.

      Florida law doesn't make logs illegal. It makes using the electronically-originating logs as evidence in court illegal. And, yes, it is good for privacy. Except when some courts choose to ignore the fruit-of-the-poisonous-tree principle (generally at the behest of a prosecutor in a criminal proceeding).

    20. Re:Are logs illegal? by Broiler · · Score: 1

      I have pulled data (Logs, Images, Movies, E-mails, Quicken) off of computers for divorce cases in the past. The judge ordered it some of the time...of course that was in Texas...

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    21. Re:Are logs illegal? by oirtemed · · Score: 1

      You got away with it. Thats like saying privately owned phones are not under jurisdiction. The judge was wrong, you were wrong and your lawyer was wrong.

  4. Interesting by Vordak · · Score: 5, Funny

    You would think, in a marriage, the wife owns half of everything, so maybe she was just spying on her half of the pc.

    1. Re:Interesting by eggoeater · · Score: 1

      Yeah... if it's MY computer, I should be able to log any activity on it. I have a keylogger on my work computer so I can tell if anyone else uses it any what they're doing. I don't plan on spying on my wife but I'm also pretty sure she isn't having an affair.

      But if, for instance, she used my work laptop with the keylogger and I had evidence of an affair, would that be acceptable in court? After all I didn't install it to spy on her and it's not HER computer.

    2. Re:Interesting by Neil+Watson · · Score: 1

      Generally what's yours is her's and what's her's is her's

    3. Re:Interesting by Broiler · · Score: 1

      Is Florida a community property state?

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  5. On one hand, that's cool by drinkypoo · · Score: 3, Insightful
    On the other hand, if the PC belongs to both of them, shouldn't either one of them legally be able to tap communications on it? And since they are married, doesn't it belong to both of them?

    I have a serious problem being told what I can do with my computer when others do not have a reasonable expectation of privacy. If I'm giving people shell accounts, I'm not going to sniff their traffic. On the other hand, I am very likely to install a keylogger on my console.

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    1. Re:On one hand, that's cool by Crazy+Man+on+Fire · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't think it is an issue of who owns the PC. It is an issue of the legality of "wire tapping" the computer, regardless of ownership. They jointly own the phone line coming to the house, too. It would also be illegal for her to secretly record his telephone conversations, even though they share "ownership" of the phone line.

    2. Re:On one hand, that's cool by Paul+Slocum · · Score: 1

      I tend to doubt that the courts would uphold the law as strictly if charges were actually brought against her for wiretapping. In this case, they just ruled that evidence obtained that way was not admissible.

    3. Re:On one hand, that's cool by MasterOfUniverse · · Score: 2, Informative

      No thats not the point. You are invading thier data. It does not matter who owns the pc. Same way, if your friend uses your phone to make a call, that does not mean you can wiretap that phone, since its your phone..

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    4. Re:On one hand, that's cool by Curien · · Score: 1

      I doubt it. If that were the case, it would be illegal for an employer to, say, record logs of where employees surf, keep e-mail logs, and possibly even block sites with a proxy.

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    5. Re:On one hand, that's cool by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Logs and proxies are different from recording entire conversations.

      Now, where that leaves recording the contents of E-Mail messages is probably up to a separate law that gives companies the power to do that separately from wiretapping. (Actually, most wiretap laws define "wiretapping" to be secret recording of a conversation, meaning that if the company tells the people that their phonecalls and emails may be recorded, its ok.)

    6. Re:On one hand, that's cool by not-real-sure · · Score: 1

      Actually... It doesn't matter who owns the property what matters is the husband in this case was being "recored" with out his permission. It is illegal to be recoreded with out your permission. Linda Tripp found this out the hard way when she recorded phone calls she had with Monica (stained dress) Lewinski. If memory serves me correctly Linda was brought up on criminal charges and she was sued civially for her illegal deed.

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    7. Re:On one hand, that's cool by lactose99 · · Score: 1

      Not if its in your "employee handbook" or whatever stipulations of employment you agree to when you take the job. My employer has this, as does many employers of people I know in technical and non-technical industries. My employer has a policy that they may monitor any employee communications conducted on their premesis or transmitted through their network.

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    8. Re:On one hand, that's cool by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      that was only due to it being illegal in that state she recorded it.

      Wisconsin and most other states for instance: as long as one party knows it is being recorded it is legal.

      she chose one of the few states where both had to know :P

  6. Now what about... by Tuxedo+Jack · · Score: 4, Interesting

    How about text-sensitive software like Claria and WhenU that track certain websites using URLs through the IE address bar and pop up competitor's ads? Couldn't that be termed wiretapping as well, since it's actively monitoring addresses visited and keystrokes typed into a field?

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    1. Re:Now what about... by UWC · · Score: 1

      When you don't click through the EULA, yeah, that should be illegal. But the ones that piggyback on other programs generally present their functions but are just clicked through without a second thought. While shady and arguably immoral, I think those are probably legal.

    2. Re:Now what about... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Dunno. But I'm willing to bet that programs like those are probably covered by yet-more catch-all EULAs that allow non-savvy users to sacrifice their rights unknowingly if they don't bother to read through these things. Like, "we have to intercept your input in order for the program to work, and by agreeing to this license to install this software, you agree to let us do that."

      [rant type="off-topic"] I swear, EULAs are almost like those puny squished-to-the-side credits that flash by in triple speed at the end of TV movies nowadays. They're required to show them, but they are designed so that people can't really make any use of them (like EULAs for spyware that are presented in ridiculously complex lawyeresque language, or those TV movie credits that are unreadable given the native resolution of the format in which they're being broadcast in the first place - even at normal speed instead of the quick flashes that they really use - just to make more visual room and time for ads). Both are cases where the producer wants you to be paying attention to something else, as is the case with all fine print. [/rant]

    3. Re:Now what about... by true_majik · · Score: 1

      so basically if we ever plan to "wire tap" a PC is to make some sort of extensively long legal mumbo jumbo EULA to make it legal?

    4. Re:Now what about... by UWC · · Score: 1
      As long as you can prove in court that the person being monitored indicated that he had read and agreed to said EULA and that the EULA's language unarguably describes the monitoring that would happen. Or so I would think.

      And now for my first Slashdot declaration that IANAL.

    5. Re:Now what about... by Cheese+Grits · · Score: 1

      Actually, I think that the software you are describing would be considered a trap and trace as opposed to a wiretap. A wiretap captures the contents of a communication, while a trap and trace device merely logs the addresses (or phone number in the telephone context) to and from which the information was sent.

      There are some differences in the egregiousness of the offenses of tapping a person's communication as opposed to traping and tracing it.

      I'm not sure what the practical difference would be under the Florida statute, however. I confess that I haven't read it.

    6. Re:Now what about... by Billly+Gates · · Score: 1

      Out of curiousity I installed aim which included weatherbug that installs spyware.

      I read the EULA carefully and no mention of spyware or monitoring internet usage was present.

      I seriously doubt spyware like freescreensavers or commit curses even include an EULA mentioning what they do.

      They are not an American company but based in Bulgaria if I remember so they are above the law.

    7. Re:Now what about... by mark-t · · Score: 1

      If you want to bring EULA's into the situation, I think the marriage vows he made when they got married probably qualify.

  7. way to go! by opposume · · Score: 1, Troll

    I'm glad they ruled against her... Granted, I would be tempted to do the same. However, what ever happened to being human and TALKING about it? If it came down to it. Do it, but don't try to use it in court. It's a very hard thing to deal with, but invading anyones privacy is against any ethical code there possiby is... But that's just my opinion

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    1. Re:way to go! by elasticwings · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Personally, I've always stuck with the rule that if I think somebody is cheating on me. It doesn't matter whether or not they are. When you start to think that somebody is cheating on you, just call it quits. It doesn't matter if they were or not. You have already lost your trust in them. You will either find out your right and get upset and leave. Or you will press them until they get upset and leave you because you do not trust them. Why bother with the investigation? Just cut out the middle man and quit while you're ahead.

    2. Re:way to go! by SirFartsAlot · · Score: 1

      You clearly have never been stuck in the middle of a bad relationship. You still naively believe that both these people are still rational. Not likely.

    3. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sometimes it's hard to talk about things in bad relationships. One party can be dominating or just shut the other party out.

      Anyways, I use gaim and log all my chats in the first place. She should have tried to convince her hubby that free software is better (or trillian is better).

    4. Re:way to go! by Altus · · Score: 1



      I'm not familiar with florida divorce law... but if he is contesting the divorce then she has to prove that he wronged her in some way in order to get a divorce.

      at least that is how I understand things to work in most states. you cant just get a divorce without reason unless it is consensual.

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    5. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think that she should have shot him in the face with a .45 and then pleaded insanity with those records to "prove" that she was emotionally distrought (pardon my spelling) over the affair.

      he would have gotten what he deserved and she would gotten everything.

      betrayal deserves no quarter........Fuck em.

    6. Re:way to go! by elasticwings · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure general that isn't the case. You can get a divorce regardless of reason. If it's not consensual then it just costs more money and takes more time.

    7. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Clearly because evidence of cheating would get her more money.

    8. Re:way to go! by Richard_at_work · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think its more of a case that if she can prove that the divorce is his fault, she gets a better financial settlement from the court. Without that proof, she has to settle for less. Now the court has taken away her (only?) evidence, she may have to settle for less, and her husband could potentially use this ruling against her in the divorce.

    9. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry your husband left you for another woman.

    10. Re:way to go! by Bonhamme+Richard · · Score: 1
      invading anyones privacy is against any ethical code there possiby is...

      So is having an affair. Keep your pants zipped, and then don't worry about having your wife spy on you.

    11. Re:way to go! by kill+-9+$$ · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This is so true. My relationship to my long-time girlfriend turned fiancee, fell to pieces last year. She did lots of stuff to violate my trust in her, etc. so I got suspicious about other stuff, like her cheating on me, etc. Evenutually those thoughts consumed me, I started doing electronic monitoring, following her, checking cell phone records, etc and turned up empty (and I don't think I'm underestimating her tech savvy to avoid these things, she was never too sharp on just how much information one could gather from various places). At the same time though, I felt that I in turn had violated her trust by doing that. After a while we both conceeded that stuff was shot and called it off.

      So case in point, the relationship was screwed regardless. If she was cheating it was done. In this case she wasn't but the trust eroded on both ends and it was done anyway. Had we ended it when it first popped up, we would have saved ourselves a bit of time, and several thousand dollars (i.e. wedding deposits that don't get returned).

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    12. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      people like you get STEAMROLLERED in court.

      good luck buddy, in a court all talking has deteriorated into war. the courtroom is where you use your weapons of mass destruction... AKA lawyers.

      the best and most expensive lawyer wins.

      do not EVER forget that. right and just does not have a place in court.

    13. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think that she should have shot him in the face with a .45

      You've got an account so if you're going to post then log in as yourself.

    14. Re:way to go! by budgenator · · Score: 1

      Additionaly if someones thinks your doing something your not doing, you wonder what put the idea in their head in the first place, the idea that they are doing it to you usually pops up first in mine.

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    15. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Next time just talk to her.... Tell her how you feel and why.

    16. Re:way to go! by grammar+fascist · · Score: 1

      So case in point, the relationship was screwed regardless. If she was cheating it was done. In this case she wasn't but the trust eroded on both ends and it was done anyway.

      That's great if there aren't any children involved. If there are, I'd expect a responsible person to try to save the relationship.

      "I don't know why, really, but I didn't feel like I could trust her anymore" doesn't fly when you've got a five-year-old son wondering why he doesn't get to live with his daddy anymore.

      Had we ended it when it first popped up, we would have saved ourselves a bit of time, and several thousand dollars (i.e. wedding deposits that don't get returned).

      Or, maybe, had you dealt with it.

      This "I'm gonna give up now because it just got difficult" attitude really worries me. How do we, your fellow members of society, trust that you're going to put any effort into saving your marriage when something like this happens to it? And yes, we do have a vested interest in the answer to that question.

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    17. Re:way to go! by poofyhairguy82 · · Score: 1
      This "I'm gonna give up now because it just got difficult" attitude really worries me. How do we, your fellow members of society, trust that you're going to put any effort into saving your marriage when something like this happens to it?

      You can't. Why should you? Its THIS GUY's marriage. If there were kids involved than thats another thing, but without the kids the only person that guy is responsible to is himself. He didn't want to fix it, and maybe he knew that such effort would waste his time and energy anyway. This isn't the 1940s, people don't stay in a bad marriage because of social pressure anymore.

      And yes, we do have a vested interest in the answer to that question.

      Why? Its that guys life, that guys marriage. Society invested jack crap in his marriage that is tangible. If its over, then you go back to status quo beforehand. A big deal for him, but not for us as part of his "society."

      You sound like a very much dead a Pope telling Henry 8th what to do when you have no power over him.

    18. Re:way to go! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fuck off, busybody.

    19. Re:way to go! by kill+-9+$$ · · Score: 1

      Well, I won't get into all the business of what went on, but I did try on numerous occassions to "save" my relationship.

      I did do my best to "convey" to her my feelings, but in typical man->woman communications what I said was never what she heard.

      And to my own defense, almost everybody who knows both me and her says that I did everything in my power to "fix" the situation and many think I did too much in terms of trying to save the relationship. That "everybody", includes her entire family, mutual friends, etc. And also, this isn't them talking to me directly, it them talking to somebody else, who in turn said, hey you know what her mom/brother/sister/dad said... So its not like somebody telling me one thing but really feeling something else.

      I agree, most people don't put enough effort into keeping their relationships alive. Its way to easy these days to get a divorce, etc. All I'm saying, is that once the trust thing errodes, its a difficult road to ever try and rebuild it.

      And yes, luckily in my case, no kids. If there were I'd have possibly approached it differently. If I were married, I would have approached it differently. But neither was the case here. In which case, I walked, which by the way, is no easier of a solution than trying to stick it out in my opinion, and I knew that when I made the decision.

      So anyway, I have no regrets with my decisions and no care of your opinion of my choices. Just figured I'd point out that, I did try to save it and contrary to the fairy tale goggles that lots of folks wear (including myself prior to this experience), it can't always be talked/worked out. If you have somebody you feel you can do that with, great. And good luck, hopefully it stays that way, cause guess what, I felt I could talk out anything with her prior to our split-up.

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  8. the USA PATRIOT act by drunken+dash · · Score: 0, Troll

    violated Florida's wiretapping law - which states that it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.

    hang on, doesnt the USA PATRIOT act allow the government to do exactly this? inspect your electronic communications? i'm no expert on US law, so somebody correct me if I'm wrong...

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    1. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by sfjoe · · Score: 1, Insightful


      Laws rarely apply to the government. For example, the USA government is allowed to murder people and spy on them while citizens are not. Humorous if you only knew where to laugh.

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    2. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only if she's an FBI agent...

    3. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Tackhead · · Score: 1, Redundant
      > > violated Florida's wiretapping law - which states that it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.
      >
      >hang on, doesnt the USA PATRIOT act allow the government to do exactly this? inspect your electronic communications? i'm no expert on US law, so somebody correct me if I'm wrong...

      Well, yes. But the Patriot Act governs the relationship between government and taxpayer, not husband and wife. You're making a circular argument -- it's criminal to do things that the laws don't allow. Because the Patriot act is a law, whatever it permits is legal, by definition, at least until/unless the Supremes overturn the overreaching sections thereof.

      To recap:

      No matter how much you think citizens own the government, it's legal for the government to spy on its property (you).

      Conversely, no matter how much you realize your wife owns you (her husband), it's still not legal for her to spy on her property.

      But either way, you're 0wn3d.

    4. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While European nations have no Armies to kill and no intelligence agencies to spy.

      Oh wait.

    5. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by 3terrabyte · · Score: 1
      I don't know whether to post this here, or the grandparent's posts.

      "hang on, doesnt the USA PATRIOT act allow the government to do exactly this? inspect your electronic communications?"

      The FBI/Police can already do this long before the USA PATRIOT Act. They had to get a warrant from a judge to allow wiretapping.

      What the USA PATRIOT Act now allows is allow the government agencies to do the same thing WITHOUT warrants. Or having to let the victim every know they were spied upon.

      And it's not just limited to terrorism.

      "PATRIOT authorizes the use of "sneak and peek" search warrants in connection with any federal crime, including misdemeanors. "

      "PATRIOT is not limited to terrorism. The Government can add samples to DNA databases for individuals convicted of "any crime of violence." Government spying on suspected computer trespassers (not just terrorist suspects) requires no court order. Wiretaps are now allowed for any suspected violation of the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act".

      Copied from eff.org

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    6. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Michael Moore! Is that you, fat boy?

      Lose some weight, lardass.

    7. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      I think he was referring to capital punishment and not war , although both apply here.

    8. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Capital punishment is not "murder", just as killing during time of war is not "murder".

      I guess you're thinking about the Ten Commandments, but correctly translated they don't say "Thou shalt not kill", but "Thou shalt not do murder".

      Humans have known the difference between justified killing and murder for thousands of years. Why haven't you figured it out yet?

    9. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      PATRIOT is not limited to terrorism.

      Of course not. The idea of the Patriot Act was to give law enforcement dealing with terrorism the same tools that had been used for years against organised crime and drug dealers. And terrorists DO use computers, too.

      You can't blame everything on the Patriot Act.

    10. Re:the USA PATRIOT act by 3terrabyte · · Score: 1
      Wrong. Your sentence doesn't make any sense.

      The "tools" that law enforcement uses against organized crime & drug dealers is the same tool they use against anyone. Terrorists included.

      There are no "extra tools" the FBI has just because someone is a drug dealer. The only thing I can even think of that might support your thought is that there are defined laws being broken (RICO, etc)

      The Patriot Act was supposedly to go above and beyond these tools (in the name of terrorism only).

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  9. Ha by tehshen · · Score: 5, Funny

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  10. This sounds the same as a spousal wiretap to me by davidwr · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I'm sure there are numerous cases in the last 20 years where spouses recorded their home telephone calls in the hopes of catching a cheating spouse.

    If this judge's ruling is in line with prior court ruling since the most recent changes in the law, then I don't see the problem.

    On the other hand, if he broke with precedent, he could be overturned.

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    1. Re:This sounds the same as a spousal wiretap to me by chill · · Score: 1

      I'm sure there are numerous cases in the last 20 years where spouses recorded their home telephone calls in the hopes of catching a cheating spouse.

      Don't be so sure. Audio recording of telephone conversations without consent is a felony. In Florida, ALL PARTIES must give consent. Federal law states (last I checked) that only ONE party needs give consent. Other States vary. Also, the law (Federal) requires a notification tone (that beeping you hear) unless you have a court ordered wiretap.

      This is why a lot of "nanny cams" designed to be hidden and spy on the babysitter don't record audio -- only video. It is an old law.

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  11. Wow! by gstoddart · · Score: 4, Funny

    How long before every kid in Florida gets an injunction on their parents from installing any monitoring software?

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    1. Re:Wow! by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      " How long before every kid in Florida gets an injunction on their parents from installing any monitoring software?"

      Actually....it HAS happened. I don't remember the details, but, was watching the news the other night, and recently, a judgement AGAINST a parent was declared in conjunction with the mother listening in on her daughter's phone calls. The mother was worried about drug use or something with the boy the girl was talking to.

      I was shocked...I didn't think a kid had any expectation to privacy. Does that mean that parents now cannot legally search their kids rooms looking for drugs or other contraband...for their own protection?

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    2. Re:Wow! by Vellmont · · Score: 1

      Privacy laws are based on a reasonable expectation. Kids don't have the same expectations of privacy from their parents that adults do from other adults.

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    3. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Hell no they can't!

      Or did you just never read that 'Constitution' thing?

      Brown v. Board of Education?

      Conversely, if parents could search their kids' rooms, then the kids could search their parents' rooms.

      You know what parents can do, though? They can try to talk to their kids. Like adults. Like frickin' human beings. And not, you know, wail at them like banshees.

      Amazing what a little civility and respect can accomplish. Not that you'd know it when apparently people would rather ransack people's rooms like gestapo. Way to set an example for America's youth there, Einstein.

    4. Re:Wow! by Dasein · · Score: 2, Informative

      Yes, it happened but it was in the context of the boy's drug trial. The evidence obtained from the mother's evesdropping was ruled inadmissable. So the court didn't say she couldn't do it but rather said that the information couldn't be used to convict someone else.

      At least that's my recollection.

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    5. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is this not the same state that allowed a 12-year-old boy to divorce his mother in the early 90's?

    6. Re:Wow! by einhverfr · · Score: 1

      IANAL, but I think there are *some* expectations of privacy. This is particularly the case when you are not dealing with the child's parents. In this case, if the mother was testifying against hte boy, then the fact that she is NOT the boy's parents will add further weight against admissibility.

      I don't know what the legal traditions of the right to privacy between people. The Constitution seems to say nothing about it as long as the government is not a party to the invasion of privacy. Maybe a lawyer can provide some more information.

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    7. Re:Wow! by Hentai · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Privacy laws are based on a reasonable expectation. Kids don't have the same expectations of privacy from their parents that adults do from other adults.

      I'd like everyone to think long and hard about this one, please. Privacy laws are based on a *reasonable expectation* of privacy. So if OTHER people stop expecting a certain level of privacy, that level of privacy ceases to be 'reasonable', and YOU can no longer expect it. Your level of allowed privacy is dependent on how much your fellow Americans care about privacy.

      Sleep well, kids.

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    8. Re:Wow! by Schnapple · · Score: 1
      IANAL, but I think there are *some* expectations of privacy.
      Yeah, because by the "kids have no privacy" argument, a father could require his 16-year-old daughter to allow him into her room when she's getting dressed. I think we'd all agree that was unreasonable. But, say, requiring that your son allow you to go through his room to make sure there are no drugs (which I had happen to me growing up), while frustrating for the kid, is acceptable to most.
    9. Re:Wow! by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 1
      How long before every kid in Florida gets an injunction on their parents from installing any monitoring software?

      According to the law, they don't need it - it's automatic.

    10. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      If it's the Washington State case, the 16-yo daughter was talking to her 20-something boyfriend. The boyfriend was telling her about how he mugged a woman the day before, and where he hid the evidence "where the cops will never find it".

      Mother overheard the convo on the downstairs phone, and called the cops. They found the purse and stuff hidden right where the guy put it, and busted him for assault.

      Judge threw the evidence out.

    11. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They shouldn't have been married in the first place.

    12. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, in fact, they can, and the Constitution doesn't say a thing about it. The courts have held that the Constitutional prohibition of "unreasonable searches and seizures" means searches by law enforcement without a warrant. Parents are entirely within their legal rights to search their kids' rooms, whenever they want, for any reason or for no reason at all. Some people would hold that it's not only the parents' right, it's their obligation.

      Whether that's a good thing or not might be a subject of some debate, but the legality of the matter is not in question.

    13. Re:Wow! by bigpat · · Score: 1

      " How long before every kid in Florida gets an injunction on their parents from installing any monitoring software?"

      Well, this ruling only applies to secret recordings, so just tell your kids you are recording their activities and you are all set.

    14. Re:Wow! by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Which is why if kids want to keep things secret, they should just mail it. It's illegal to tamper with the mail at all. (And before anyone gets any clever ideas, it's impossible to legally block mail getting delivered to someone living on your property.)

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    15. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    16. Re:Wow! by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      You know, that's crazy circular logic, and I don't think it holds up at all. Kids think they have a hell of a lot more privacy than they do, and they think it is utterly unreasonable when their rooms are searched.

      If 'legal level of privacy' had anything to do with 'expected level of privacy', kids would have an incredibly high level.

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    17. Re:Wow! by lucifer_666 · · Score: 1
      Yes, and after that say, you don't like it, you don't agree? Then you can't use my computer!

      Jeez it's simple isn't it! If the kid can't agree to being monitored online, no access. Same with anything for kids really, if they won't compromise, don't give in and let them have it their way. After all, the real world doesn't work like that...

    18. Re:Wow! by Hentai · · Score: 1

      Except it's not just the level of privacy that the children collectively expect themselves to have; it's also the level of privacy that their parents collectively expect the children to have, and the level of privacy that everyone else collectively expects the children to have. And unfortunately, most adults believe that kids have no right to privacy ANYWHERE, and kids don't vote, and so the law tends to reflect that.

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    19. Re:Wow! by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      >> it's impossible to legally block mail getting delivered to someone living on your property

      It's not impossible. Granting power of attorney for finances to someone, for example, can allow someone to open and process your mail for you. If you are deemed to be in a dimished mental state and thus unable to manage your own finances, they can continue to open your mail through their power and wouldn't necessarily need to tell you about every piece of mail they opened.

      The question, then, is who has such powers over a child. Without being a lawyer, I would postulate that a parent or guardian could in many situations argue that they had such rights, depending on the age and mental state of their kids. And I suspect that in many cases the courts would agree with them.

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    20. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hopefully the next week somebody found the boyfriend's badly beaten carcass in the bushes somewhere.

    21. Re:Wow! by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      But that makes no sense. Logically, if it's how much privacy the person invading your privacy things you have, than a rather sound argument can be made that the police think you have no privacy and thus they can invade your privacy all you want.

      No, I'm forced to conclude 'expectation of privacy' has nothing to do with kids. They have no privacy because they are kids.

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    22. Re:Wow! by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      Actually, what I meant by that second statement was that it was impossible for a landlord to turn off mail delivery.

      Even for minors. Although parents can individually reject each piece of mail. Although that would be pointless, as they can receive them and open them on behalf of their kid.

      However, all that means is that the minor has to get to the letters first, or have them delivered elsewhere. Like General Delivery. The parent would have to constantly go down there and refuse each letter, at least in theory.

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  12. Spying on someone is illegal? by kiwidefunkt · · Score: 0, Troll

    Yes, even if it's your spouse. Nothing new. Next story.

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  13. Spouse vs. Work by Concern · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Many states have different laws regarding what is legal in terms of wiretapping; some allow one party to record a phone call only if all parties consent, and others, famously D.C., for instance, do not.

    Most all of them recognize that, outside of law enforcement activity a 3rd party isn't permitted to eavesdrop.

    One thing that occurs to me is that there have been a spate of decisions in a law enforcement context to the effect that electronic communications like email lack the same "expectation of privacy" that phone calls and postal mail do. Whereas this seems to acknowledge that chat serves a similar function to the phone, just with distinct technology, and thus extends the same protection.

    The article briefly mentioned that while this wife wasn't allowed to wiretap her husband, her husband's employer is (while he's at work, anyway). I thought this was funny, the different standards between the workplace and the home. There are a variety of justifications for wiretapping your employees - something that, as far as I know in most states, employers have carte blanche to do - but the interesting thing is that when you start thinking about them, most of them apply to the spouse as well.

    At work, you use your employer's computer, in your employer's building (their machine, their house), but the wife jointly owns both. At work, you may make the argument that wiretapping is necessary to insure reliability and integrity of your business, but the spouse can argue the same is necessary to insure the integrity of the marriage. Both will claim: "What's their privacy for anyway? Do they have something to hide?"

    The only strong argument I can think of for surveillance by employers is that the employee "consents." I suppose spouses don't have the same leverage to compel "consent" to eavesdropping as employers do.

    Ugly business, trying to get a job that will promise to respect your privacy. You can always "just work somewhere else," but there are quite a few things we already prevent employers from doing because "somewhere else" is nowhere if we don't.

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    1. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The reason there are seperate laws for the work and the house is because this is a Capitalist country. If something impedes businesses then it should rightfully be illegal. Spouses are only tangentally related to businesses because spouses generate future consumers and increase consumption by the spouses. This is only indirect so the laws concerning the home are different. I'm sure this will be modded as flamebait simple because of disagreement, but what I have said is the truth and no amount of censorship will change it.

    2. Re:Spouse vs. Work by vondo · · Score: 1

      At work your employer "owns" your time, not just the equipment you are using.

    3. Re:Spouse vs. Work by jargoone · · Score: 2, Interesting

      When you start employment with a company, you agree to a policy manual that spells these things out. In there somewhere is probably a usage policy that says that they can monitor you. In order for your analogy to apply, the husband would have had to sign an agreement giving his wife permission to log his activity. If he had, this story wouldn't be here, would it?

    4. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In many states a husband can give consent for the wife, and vice versa.

    5. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But since most of those pages you have to sign at the end of the manual aren't notarized, are they legally binding?

    6. Re:Spouse vs. Work by JSBiff · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Hello,
      Yes it is an interesting discussion, why spouses don't have the same rights as employers lol. One of the reasons that employers are allowed to eavesdrop, is because while you work for them, everything you do is considered something done by the company, so they need the ability (at least they claim) to monitor you in order to 1) ensure you are doing your job, in a manner consistent with company standards, and 2) to have control over what employees are saying on behalf of the company, because the company can be sued over something done by it's employees (and, honestly, it wouldn't be fair to make companies liable for employee actions if you take away the companies' ability to monitor and enforce discipline on their employees.

      While the situations aren't identical, I do think the argument that anyone (spouse or otherwise) has a right to monitor communications on equipment they (co)own. I could potentially be sued, even jailed, because of any traffic that can be shown to have originated from my internet connection and computer. If I am held liable for what is done with my electronic communications equipment, I should have the legal right to ensure that it is being properly used. Granted, if you need to resort to this in marriage, there is already something seriously wrong with your marriage.

    7. Re:Spouse vs. Work by jargoone · · Score: 1

      Yes. A notary seal isn't a necessary for a signature to be legally binding.

    8. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Concern · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I could potentially be sued, even jailed, because of any traffic that can be shown to have originated from my internet connection and computer. If I am held liable for what is done with my electronic communications equipment, I should have the legal right to ensure that it is being properly used.

      Oh yeah. That's a really good point. Didn't even think of that.

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    9. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Vellmont · · Score: 1


      I could potentially be sued, even jailed, because of any traffic that can be shown to have originated from my internet connection and computer.

      I'd still bet the person responsible for transmitting the information would be liable, not the person paying the bills. If your spouse makes threatening phone calls using your home phone no one would dream of holding you liable because you pay half (or even all of) the bill.

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    10. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I could potentially be sued, even jailed, because of any traffic that can be shown to have originated from my internet connection and computer.

      Not if I make it happen. Via port 31337.

    11. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      • If something impedes businesses then it should rightfully be illegal.
      You're an idiot.

      So it should be illegal to save money in a bag under my bed? I'm not spending it, and I'm not paying a bank to store it, so there's two ways that this single action 'impedes business'.

      Asshole corporatist shill. Go to hell.
    12. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Billly+Gates · · Score: 1

      I agree with the employer on this.

      If you owned a business and your employees could do things like hold your company and yourself liable for things like sexual harrasement, your mind may change.

      Its the same as someone having an inappropriate conversation at work and just happen to be overhear it.

      I do think though any reputable employer should mention to all the employees outright that "yes, we will monitor YOU. Be responsible on our time". I think many states require employers to do this.

      Perfectly fair for both parties. Since an employer is not a monstor but just someone who wants to maximize shareholder value and prevent liability.

      I think some states allow employers to secretly wiretap conversations without the employees notice and use it to make up a reason to fire someone for political reasons. A case like that happened a month ago in a Canadian bank where a few employees wanted to start a competitor. They were fired.

      But if your employer is paying you money it is his watch and not yours. You do not own your time and yes no other job will expect you to do nothing all day.

      After all employees have nothing to hide and blue collar workers at walmart already are monitored by gumshoe agencies for possible union activity so why should white collar workers be treated any different? I heard money companies require those making up to 100k to punch in to make sure they arrive in time.

      BUt start your own business if you do not like it. From an owners perspective this makes sense.

    13. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Billly+Gates · · Score: 1

      Actually that is debatable.

      I personally believe no and until very recently an EULA for example is not considered legally binding for that reason.

      A court case in california changed this but it was from someone who did a huge illegal activity. The case has been appealed.

      But legal agreements would go out of hand without a notary present and I think its important for all EULA's to be invalidated unless a notary is present to stop this spyware.

    14. Re:Spouse vs. Work by Kaosaur · · Score: 1

      Actually, the legality of it is even more interesting. There's something called "spousal privledge", which entitles a person not to say something damaging against their spouse, even under oath. There is an implied confidentiality there, just as there is with attorney-client privledge. To be able to collect evidence against your spouse and sue them based on it gets into a bit of a grey area, because it is somewhat expected that these actions break that confidentiality in the marriage, even though one party is clearly deceiving the other. The best reasoning I can figure for this is that the law is in place to keep marital issues out of the courts and within the marriage. The court probably deemed that this issue wasn't serious enough to need judicial intervention. It's an issue that has to be settled within the marriage. I'm no lawyer though.

  14. So..... by Jailbrekr · · Score: 2, Insightful

    what is the difference between intercepting and storing chat room conversations, and taking photos of him smooching his mistress? Neither are methods which the target has consented to.

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    1. Re:So..... by Altus · · Score: 1



      smooching pictures are generally in public... if she had bugged the motel room where he was banging her that would probably be inadmissible as well.

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  15. In Washington, I wonder if this would be the case. by NaruVonWilkins · · Score: 2, Interesting

    We have community property laws, it seems to me that any data stored on the computer would be property of both parties. The spyware issue seems more straightforward, but what if she had only made copies of logs?

  16. Built in logging? by ScislaC · · Score: 1, Interesting

    What if she used built in logging of the IM software (if it has it)? Would that be considered "interception"?

    1. Re:Built in logging? by jav1231 · · Score: 1

      We do this now for our kids. Turn on logging and grep for naughty words.

    2. Re:Built in logging? by tomstdenis · · Score: 0, Troll

      In that case "fuck fuck fuck fuck cunt pussy licker shit!"...

      Cuz there are ZERO mean things you can say without using the carlin-seven....

      Fascist.

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    3. Re:Built in logging? by bubba_the_mermaid · · Score: 1

      I think that built in logging can be used, but only if it is "on" by default. If the default settings for the messaging software are to maintain logs, then this isn't considered wiretapping, since this is the default behaviour for the software.

  17. wire tapping by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I thought there had to be voices for wire tapping to considered. Video with out audio has been thrown out from wire tapping. So she could have put a camera up to record him on the computer.

  18. Good! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Spyware must not exist. This might help.

    Seriously, this is snooping with electronic communication. Maybe the case is not so bad, but this is not excusable. The judge did right in forbidding the logs as evidence.

    1. Re:Good! by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And husbands across the nations breathe a sigh of relief....

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    2. Re:Good! by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      And husbands across the nations breathe a sigh of relief....

      Not yet... There's still video cameras, tape recorders, GPS locaters, the Bobbit Procedure, and various in-laws with military experience in Iraq. Chat logs are nothing in comparison.

      Besides, if you're going to screw around behind the wife's back, at least do it outside of the home. Just because Bill Clinton got away with it, doesn't mean everyone else can. :)

    3. Re:Good! by COMON$ · · Score: 1

      So is it illegal to run a sniffer on my network, or a keylogger on my PC to track people using my equipment? Sometimes I think court ignorance is killing this country.

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    4. Re:Good! by CastrTroy · · Score: 1

      So, should it be legal for the ISPs to monitor your information travelling over their networks, or for the phone companies to monitor calls travelling over their networks?

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    5. Re:Good! by karnal · · Score: 2, Informative

      I would say that this would mean a few things:

      1. Yes, you could run a keylogger etc.
      2. No, you cannot use it as evidence.

      Therefore, if you suspect your significant other doing things with other people, you could use the keylogger etc to confirm those suspicions. Then do the traditional thing - get pictures in public places. Or hire someone to "follow" the significant other.

      That kind of stuff is legal, and as long as you don't rely on the keylogger for ANY evidence, I don't think you'll run into a problem... of course you could always be asked how you found out about the affairs; you could always respond that you didn't feel right about something....

      Of course, this is close to lying, but it just depends on your internal ethics. I firmly believe if there's something wrong in the relationship, you have a right to know -- and to be honest, if you're resorting to sniffing packets or keylogging, there probably IS something wrong.

      If you can't trust, you may as well be single; that's where you'll end up.

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    6. Re:Good! by Omniscientist · · Score: 2, Interesting

      What if your keylogger happened to log what an intruder was doing on your system? If you were trying to prove to a court perhaps that this attacker was responsible for deleting all your documents or something...would that still not be allowed in court?

    7. Re:Good! by karnal · · Score: 1

      Obviously that is a scenario that I didn't cover... there are a lot of things that would start to become "questionable", but I just wanted to touch on the options available to you if you suspect your significant other of foul play.

      Yes, I have had to go this route before. Thank God I wasn't married to the person!

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    8. Re:Good! by bcattwoo · · Score: 1
      What if your keylogger happened to log what an intruder was doing on your system?...would that still not be allowed in court?

      But in that case you are not recording electronic communications but rather the intruders actions on your computer.

      I would be interested in what constitutes communications though. If someone were to log his or her spouse visting a porn site, singles site, or booking hotel reservations for a "business trip", would that be allowed?

  19. Doesn't this mean... by zev1983 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    that remotely installed spyware that takes advantage of security holes is also illegal? If so why aren't people in jail?

    1. Re:Doesn't this mean... by serutan · · Score: 1

      Spyware companies hide behind EULAs. When you (or more likely your 11-year-old) download Bonzi-Buddy and click "Accept" on the terms, you agree to let the software do whatever it wants on your machine, which is like giving somebody permission to tap your phone.

    2. Re:Doesn't this mean... by zev1983 · · Score: 1

      But I was talking about when spyware installs itself without your consent through a browser exploit just by visiting a site or though a popup add.

  20. Didn't FL courts also rule... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    ...a wife couldn't give her husband a blowjob?

    1. Re:Didn't FL courts also rule... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Down with those activist judges! (but do wives really need a court ruling for this?)

  21. What about hardware? by GillBates0 · · Score: 3, Funny

    Is it now illegal for a husband to insert his hardware into the wife's plug'n'play ports?

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    1. Re:What about hardware? by Tackhead · · Score: 5, Funny
      > Is it now illegal for a husband to insert his hardware into the wife's plug'n'play ports?

      Legal or not, if he's plugging into a box that's running in promiscuous mode, he deserves what he gets.

    2. Re:What about hardware? by DrEldarion · · Score: 1

      You're talking about this I presume?

    3. Re:What about hardware? by SpongeBobLinuxPants · · Score: 1

      It sounds like a software issue to me, otherwise she wouldn't be asking for a divorce :)

    4. Re:What about hardware? by ThousandStars · · Score: 1

      That's right. He should install good hardware and software firewalls that only allow local access.

    5. Re:What about hardware? by hyfe · · Score: 1
      Legal or not, if he's plugging into a box that's running in promiscuous mode, he deserves what he gets.

      Hereby nominated for post-of-the-year :)

      That comment works on so many levels it scary.

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  22. Yer Busted, Dude by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    All is fair in love and war. Florida's law doesn't change this.

  23. Can't wiretap yourself? by Alan+Livingston · · Score: 1

    I'm not a lawyer (nor do I like abbreviations) but I kind of remember from when we bought a house, that once married, you are considered a single legal entity. That one person can give consent for both.

    I'm expect this changes from state to state so I don't know that I'd rely on this decision to hold true in all 50 states...

    1. Re:Can't wiretap yourself? by servognome · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm not a lawyer (nor do I like abbreviations) but I kind of remember from when we bought a house, that once married, you are considered a single legal entity.
      It typically applies to monetary arrangements (ie taxes, house, debt, etc). Each person in a marriage still retains their personal legal rights. For example you can punch yourself, but not your spouse.

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    2. Re:Can't wiretap yourself? by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      once married, you are considered a single legal entity. That one person can give consent for both.

      Thats obviously wrong...otherwise a husband could go to jail for his wife killing someone (well, they both would). Even if he had no knowledge and couldn't stop it.

    3. Re:Can't wiretap yourself? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      NO!

      In Canada, anyway, not since the "persons" case in the 1920s when women were *gasp* declared persons under our law and I sincerely doubt there's a difference these days with the USA. Husbands and wives cannot consent for each other without powers of attorney. They cannot make contracts that bind the other or take out loans that bind the other (though they may offer up collateral which both may think they own but only one has name to)

      Good grief, the ignorance!

    4. Re:Can't wiretap yourself? by Carrot007 · · Score: 1

      > For example you can punch yourself

      I Can?

      (BIFF)

      Ow, hey that hurt.

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  24. Was she nuts? by SirFartsAlot · · Score: 1

    She must have gathered more information before going at the courts with web chat info. Pictures of the guy with his girlfriend, taped confession from him or her. (tape is sometimes difficult to admit as evidence but as long as you participate in the conversation it is legal to do because it is not intercepting) I have to believe she was not that stupid. SFA

  25. What if they have satellite internet!? by solafide · · Score: 2, Funny
    That's not electrical!

    On her next pre-nup, it is obviously essential that it include a clause that allows either of them to install spyware and security cameras clandestinely!

    And what if he has his internet connection through a infrared connection to another computer? Or a WiFi network? So many non-electrical means of connecting to the internet!

    1. Re:What if they have satellite internet!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's not electrical!

      And how does the signal get to the satellite dish? Magic pixie dust? It runs over a coax wire.

  26. What about an email filter? by bwindle2 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    At my job (in Florida) we maintain an email filter, which isolates in-bound and out-bound emails if they contain certain qualities (either spam-like, or have big attachements, etc).

    I wonder if that would mean we are violating that law, since we are clearly intercepting electronic communications?

    1. Re:What about an email filter? by Vellmont · · Score: 1

      Most courts have ruled (like it or not) that employees have few expectations of privacy in the workplace. (with the exception of obvious places like bathrooms). This means employers can monitor just about anything an employee does in the workplace.

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    2. Re:What about an email filter? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean, it's okay for an employer to "monitor" the activies on a computer but the same isn't applied for a spouce?

    3. Re:What about an email filter? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would say no if the parties involved agreed to you doing so. An employee working there has agreed to the company policy just by being employed there. In the idea of company email is used for company business. If there is no stated policy, CYA and make one today. Companies can get away with most anything in the idea of privacy and using thier equipment.

    4. Re:What about an email filter? by gstoddart · · Score: 1
      I wonder if that would mean we are violating that law, since we are clearly intercepting electronic communications?


      Unlikely, Sorbanes Oxeley requires that companies be able to record messages for legal purposes since e-mails count as corporate records in court.

      I suspect it's somehow in a different category.

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    5. Re:What about an email filter? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      WTF! It bastard dirtbags like you
      that should be strung up by their genitals
      and stomped on by a bull.

      Work weekends? I'd slice twenty throats first!

  27. Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by zoomba · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So, if I think someone is gaining illegal access to my computer while I'm not around, I can't install a keylogger to figure out who it is?

    This case is the equivalent of a woman hiding a camera in her own bedroom to catch her husband in the act, only to be told it's inadmissable because they didn't know they were being taped.

    There need to be reasonable limits to this sort of stuff. Soon we won't be able to submit any evidence at all that was gathered without the permission of the accused...

    "I'm sorry sir, I did not allow you to take that bloody knife covered in my finger prints"

    1. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by Vellmont · · Score: 2, Insightful


      This case is the equivalent of a woman hiding a camera in her own bedroom to catch her husband in the act, only to be told it's inadmissable because they didn't know they were being taped.


      Except for the fact that the husband doesn't have a reasonable expectation of privacy from his wife in their bedroom. A phone conversation, or an email chat is obviously different.

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    2. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by Mage+Powers · · Score: 1

      So, if I think someone is gaining illegal access to my computer while I'm not around, I can't install a keylogger to figure out who it is?

      Husband isn't exactly illegally using his own computer, if you're putting a keylogger on your computer, you're putting a keylogger on your computer. If you're putting a keylogger on your wifes computer, you're putting a keylogger on your wifes computer. Unless of course you two share a computer, but you'd still talk to the other user (her) before putting the key logger to detect illegal use, right?

      Personally I think a personal computer, is personal, regardless of marriage rights etc etc, just like its possible to go into someone elses room WITHOUT looking in their underwear drawer, its possible to share a computer without spying.

    3. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The idea behind "inadmissable evidence" is that allowing evidence obtained via illegal means encourages police and prosecutors to break the law to get their evidence.

      Frankly it's a good idea. As if we need more lawbreakers.

      What law, exactly, was the husband breaking by chatting online with his girlfriend? What we have here is a case in which only ONE party broke any laws -- the wife. The husband is legally in the clear, although not morally in the clear.

      Yet another reminder that "what is legal" and "what is moral" are not necessarily the same things--and this is a good thing!

    4. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by SpecBear · · Score: 2, Insightful

      IANAL, etc.

      Part of the problem is that it's his bedroom as well. In his own bedroom he has a reasonable expectation of privacy. And that privacy shouldn't be violated without due process of law.

      How about if she taped her husband masturbating without his knowledge, and then distributed the tapes after their divorce to embarass him. Is that OK? At the time it was her house after all.

    5. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by Houkster · · Score: 1

      Now if she had installed a hidden camera over his shoulder to watch the screen, the court wouldn't have ruled against her.

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    6. Re:Coming Soon: No actual evidence permitted, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If he was flogging his dog while married, the marriage obviously had problems greater than a little bit of spyware.

  28. Community Property State? by darthmundt · · Score: 5, Informative
    According to this site, "Florida is an "equitable distribution" state. Each spouse can retain their non-marital property. Non-marital property is all property acquired prior to the marriage, or acquired by gift or inheritance, or any property that the spouses agree is non-marital property in a written agreement."

    Unless the PC was his before the marraige, the whole PC is 'theirs' and she can install whatever she wants on it.

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    1. Re:Community Property State? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The issue isn't who owns the PC as you own the phone that law enforcement can wiretap -- with the proper paperwork of course.

      Or, am I missing something here?

    2. Re:Community Property State? by AaronStJ · · Score: 1

      > Unless the PC was his before the marraige, the whole PC is 'theirs' and she can install whatever she wants on it.

      This is clearly not true, even if the computer was all hers. Their is clearly some software which it is illegal to install or use (e.g., commercial somftware that you don't have a license for, or software whose only purpose is illegal (not sure what would fall into that category). And even if it was legal for her to install the software, it would still be illegal to use it to break the law (a bittorrent client is clearly legal, using it to download a movie you don't own is not).

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    3. Re:Community Property State? by Curien · · Score: 1

      You don't own the phone *lines*.

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    4. Re:Community Property State? by I8TheWorm · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Maybe she can install anything. However, that doesn't mean she can use it to tap into otherwise private conversation. I'll have to duck and run after I type this, but it would be similar to installing LimeWire on your pc. LimeWire, by itself, isn't illegal. However, using it to download copyrighted material might be.

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    5. Re:Community Property State? by v01d · · Score: 1

      That argument still applies to this case since you don't own the entire network. Regardless of ownership though, this is a case about electronic wiretapping being illegal.

    6. Re:Community Property State? by Richard_at_work · · Score: 3, Informative
      I think that the courts ruling has more to do with the interception of the spouses communications than the act of the wife installing the spyware on the PC.

      From the article:

      "It is illegal and punishable as a crime under (state law) to intercept electronic communications," wrote Judge Donald Grincewicz on behalf of a three-judge panel.

      ...and...

      But Grincewicz concluded that "because the spyware installed by the wife intercepted the electronic communication contemporaneously with transmission, copied it and routed the copy to a file in the computer's hard drive, the electronic communications were intercepted in violation of the Florida Act."

      The act of the wife installing the software was not ruled on and thus the question of what she can and cant do with marital property is not at issue, but the actual interception of the husbands communcations is what the court ruled on, and found to be unlawful. You dont have carte blanche over your partner.

    7. Re:Community Property State? by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

      Sure, the PC may or may not be her's. But she still can't break the laws saying 'thou shalt not eavesdrop on other people's private communications.'

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    8. Re:Community Property State? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In my Province, anyway, marital property is really the value of property and the value of debts paid since marriage (ie. not actual items) and it's the value that is split on divorce. I still own things and my wife owns things. But on divorce, we look at the value of everything (ie. from our economic partnership which is what the law sees marriage as) and items may be allocated to one person or another to make up the half/half value split.

      The matrimonial home is an exception.

    9. Re:Community Property State? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe she should have hired him first. I'll wager dollars to donuts the state law permits employers to clandestinely keylog employees. Showing once again who has the legislative ear.

    10. Re:Community Property State? by damian+cosmas · · Score: 1

      "Unless the PC was his before the marraige, the whole PC is 'theirs' and she can install whatever she wants on it."

      So presumably, if the telephone is "theirs" instead of his, she can also freely record all his phone conversations, since it would be "her" phone, too.

    11. Re:Community Property State? by darthmundt · · Score: 1
      Well, reguardless if the act was illegal or not, she will be getting half of his stuff (minus the items in the parent post) and most likely a divorce.

      I hope the online girl was worth it.

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    12. Re:Community Property State? by swillden · · Score: 1

      And even if it was legal for her to install the software, it would still be illegal to use it to break the law (a bittorrent client is clearly legal, using it to download a movie you don't own is not).

      The use wasn't illegal, either. She's not being prosecuted for wiretapping, she's just not being allowed to use the evidence she gathered in court. Thre are many cases in which collecting data is legal, but the data is not usable in court. Hearsay, for one.

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    13. Re:Community Property State? by Aeiri · · Score: 1

      Well, reguardless if the act was illegal or not, she will be getting half of his stuff

      Wife: I'll take the power supply and motherboard, you take the RAM, processor, and hard drive. I'll take the CD burner, you take the DVD drive. I'll take the AGP graphics card, you can have all the PCI cards and we'll split the IDE cables and fans 50/50.

    14. Re:Community Property State? by Ahnteis · · Score: 1

      So the question is--can she get the husband's half of the converstaion admitted since that was input on the computer (to later be transmitted, but ignoring what was transmitted)?

    15. Re:Community Property State? by AaronStJ · · Score: 1
      > The use wasn't illegal, either.

      Wrong

      > She's not being prosecuted for wiretapping, she's just not being allowed to use the evidence she gathered in court. Thre are many cases in which collecting data is legal, but the data is not usable in court.

      I was going to point this out too, but didn't since it's not the case here:
      "It is illegal and punishable as a crime under (state law) to intercept electronic communications," wrote Judge Donald Grincewicz on behalf of a three-judge panel.
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    16. Re:Community Property State? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Then he'd have a fairly obvious sexual harrassment case against her.

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    17. Re:Community Property State? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, it is a case about the admissibility of evidence obtained by electronic wiretapping.

    18. Re:Community Property State? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds good to me! I doubt most wives would know how to put their half back together anyway.

    19. Re:Community Property State? by NaveNosnave · · Score: 1

      She can install anything she wants to - they didn't arrest her for illegally installing a program. They just said she couldn't use the logs as evidence in the case.

    20. Re:Community Property State? by swillden · · Score: 1

      So there was a state law against it? Okay. I didn't realize any states had passed such laws. The Federal government has not.

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    21. Re:Community Property State? by netwench · · Score: 1

      ok, here's where i'm confused. why did the woman install any sort of spyware at all- florida has the distinction of being a "no cause" state- you do not need a reason for a divorce, and only one party needs to request it. there is no mandatory waiting period (unless you haven't been a resident of the state of fl for 6 months or if you have children). a couple with no children can have the woman go to the court, request a divorce, the hubby would be informed, he doesn't even have to agree/reply/appear, and the judge can stamp it as soon as the petitioner gets a date in court.
      how do i know this? because i would be a female geek who's husband did all this just last year. yes, i found his emails with his girlfriends in his yahoo account, his chats with friends talking about his exploits (msn w/automatic logging- been on OUR computer for 3 years, so it was known). browser history of foreign countries, plane tickets, etc. i, of course, do all the system maintenance on our server. when i went to go do regular "cleaning out", i noticed he tried to dump his cache and delete his emails, something he had never done before and obviously not very well. since he wouldn't know cache from cash, i knew someone had to have told him how to try to hide his steps...

      anyway, it doesn't matter since none of this is inadmissable in court. the court doesn't care.

      she did this not for legal reasons but for her own self-preservation/self-worth issues.

  29. Makes some sense by dotslashdot · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Actually the law makes sense--you cannot wiretap your own phone or record conversations in many states without disclosing it to the third party (the no good cheatin' mistress, NOT the husband). I believe (because I don't really KNOW anything here, but it's slashdot, so I can post without knowledge but with authority) the wife would have to notify the mistress before recording their conversation (and possibly the husband, too.)

    1. Re:Makes some sense by MrNovember · · Score: 1

      Of course a keystroke logger would only record the husband's keystrokes so the other party possibly would not have to be informed.

      I really don't understand why I can't tap my own computer and log keystrokes. It's MINE.

  30. Other spyware? by DrEldarion · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The court ruled that the software, Spector, violated Florida's wiretapping law - which states that it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.'"

    So, does this apply to other, more illegitimate spyware as well, then?

    1. Re:Other spyware? by aztektum · · Score: 1

      not if its installed because a user was to lazy to read an EULA and just clicked Ok. if it's installed because of a whole in the OS/Browser that a person/company exploits with the intent to snoop on your computing habits, in Florida at least, it sounds like it would.

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  31. What age does this become illegal? by Gadgetfreak · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is it illegal to have that software on there to monitor your kid's use of the internet? Or do you have to tell them ahead of time?

    Also, "not admissible as evidence" doesn't necessarily imply illegal, so it may be legal to monitor, but not to use against someone.

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    1. Re:What age does this become illegal? by SmokeHalo · · Score: 1

      I wonder if ownership of the computer has anything to do with it. Our family computer was purchased with a credit card in my name, hence it technically belongs to me. If I want to install a keylogger or whatever, that should be perfectly acceptable.

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    2. Re:What age does this become illegal? by renderhead · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Personally, I would deliberately tell my kid (if I had one) that I was spying on their computer use. The purpose of monitoring your kids' internet use is not to "catch them in the act," it's to provide motivation for them to stay on their best behavior.

      Proving that my [hypthetical] son has been surfing porn sites would bring me no satisfaction. I'd rather have him not looking at porn in the first place because he knew I would probably catch him.

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    3. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Also, "not admissible as evidence" doesn't necessarily imply illegal, so it may be legal to monitor, but not to use against someone.

      Right, but if you read the article you'll see that,

      "It is illegal and punishable as a crime under (state law) to intercept electronic communications," wrote Judge Donald Grincewicz on behalf of a three-judge panel.

    4. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Gadgetfreak · · Score: 1

      That's definitely true. But I'm curious if it's the kind of thing where the law has stepped in to the home, and parents need to be careful.

      And I think my reaction would vary... from relief to concern... if I found my hypothetical son looking at porn. It just depends on *what kind* of porn.

      Which reminds me of a time when I told my Dad I had a girlfriend. Like most geeks, I wasn't particularly popular in school, especially with the ladies, so I guess he had some concerns. Not that he wouldn't support me or love me any less if I was gay, but he actually mentioned at one point in my late teen years that it's a relief knowing that it wasn't something the family would have to deal with. It's just easier if everything's normal.

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    5. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Gadgetfreak · · Score: 1

      Right, but I meant in the issue of parents monitoring children. Is it an instance where a parent will have to stop and say "I know this is in-house, and for the family's own good... but am I breaking any federal or state laws here?"

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    6. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Same here. When my kids are old enough to use the Internet alone, I plan to tell them "look at whatever you want, but I'll be randomly checking logs on the proxy server I'm forcing you to go through". I expect they'll only visit sites they're willing to talk to me about.

      My wife, on the other hand, deserves privacy.

    7. Re:What age does this become illegal? by CatsCradle · · Score: 1

      You:
      Also, "not admissible as evidence" doesn't necessarily imply illegal, so it may be legal to monitor, but not to use against someone.

      The Article:
      "It is illegal and punishable as a crime under (state law) to intercept electronic communications," wrote Judge Donald Grincewicz on behalf of a three-judge panel.

      I think the proper term is RTFA ...

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    8. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Galvatron · · Score: 1

      Children usually do not have the same kinds of legal protection from their parents as adults. In this case, even if they do, all you need is consent, and it should be pretty easy to obtain consent simply by making it a condition of allowing them to use the computer (the same way employers obtain consent for monitoring various forms of employee communication at work).

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    9. Re:What age does this become illegal? by multimed · · Score: 1
      That's a good logical next question about monitoring kid's usage.

      It's also a very good point you make about the difference between illegal and inadmissable. As far as admissability, I would think it should be highly questionable as well--if there were some way to provide indisputable evidence that it was the person doing it that might be different. Otherwise, it's just too easy for one person to do it & frame the other.

      That being said, I have absolutely no sympathy for anyone who is cheating on their spouse. Get a divorce if you don't want to be with your spouse anymore but don't cheat.

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    10. Re:What age does this become illegal? by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      As a moral issue, I think you should tell them ahead of time that their internet use is being tracked. What you want is to discourage them from going to potentially harmful sites in the first place, not catch them by suprise and punish them after the fact!

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  32. mod parent up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The only rights the government cares about are the rights of big businesses and the rich.

  33. IM Program Chat Logs by eseiat · · Score: 2, Interesting
    What about the IM programs that conversation logs as a default option of the program itself. In theory, both parties could unknowingly be recording their conversation.

    Does anyone know if these laws apply in any other states?

  34. FBI keylogging factoid by mveloso · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I just finished reading a computer forensics book, and found out something interesting.

    Apparently the FBI can't keylog you while a modem is in operation because of some bizarre issue with phone tapping (something like you can't tap modem communication without a separate warrant). The FBI keylogger actually turns off when a modem is active. How about that?

    I guess this sort of the same, but on a local level (and with a broader reach).

    1. Re:FBI keylogging factoid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I knew I kept my 14.4 modem around for something. Now for a quick script to keep the modem 'active' without knocking out the broadband.

  35. Sign of the times... by elrick_the_brave · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I hate how sometimes this comes up to near something personal. It shows how screwed up people are. My wife was searching sex search sites recently and I only discovered after some recent oddities when trying to fix her computer. It definitely woke up the relationship. Trust is so hard to rebuild though.

    I spoke to a lawyer and in courts.. it ends up being next to useless. You may as well just leave the relationship... that being said.. it's not easy.

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    1. Re:Sign of the times... by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 1

      You're leaving your wife because she's into porn?

      Please tell me there's more to it than that?

    2. Re:Sign of the times... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Warning, unsolicited advise follows:

      Try browsing the sites with her, you enjoy having fun with your wife, she enjoys those sites, so maybe you will enjoy them together. Hiding intimcy is not a good idea.

    3. Re:Sign of the times... by elrick_the_brave · · Score: 1

      No no, not leaving her. And it's not porn.. it was "sex search".. looking for sex partners. Adultery... but not quite.

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    4. Re:Sign of the times... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ugh.

      This is dumb. Where do you need to prove adultery to get a divorce? In most places you separate for a year and that's it. Oh, you mean division of property? Well, in civilized places, the marriage is an economic partnership and both members are entitled to share equally in the results regardless of behaviour.

      Choose your partners wisely!

    5. Re:Sign of the times... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

      that's rough...what is your wife's name and telephone number by the way?

    6. Re:Sign of the times... by fuzzybunny · · Score: 1

      Dude. My sympathies.

      Unless of course she was looking for "sex partners" on barely legal buxom teen slut sites.

      In which case, *high five*, get a camera!

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    7. Re:Sign of the times... by balloonhead · · Score: 1

      Have you ever looked at a sex site? The problem is that there are a variety of things that could lead to you viewing them - and not all of them mean you are planning on an extramarital affair.

      Maybe she was bored. Maybe she followed the wrong link and her curiosity was piqued. Maybe she got off on it.

      The point is, it doesn't necessarily reflect on your relationship - that being said I don't know the details. Who knows, maybe it could spice up your relationship if you actually discuss it - she could have some unmet desire which she feels unable to express to you because of whatever reason.

      Just as long as it wasn't goatse.

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    8. Re:Sign of the times... by Carrot007 · · Score: 0

      > No no, not leaving her. And it's not porn.. it was "sex search".. looking for sex partners. Adultery... but not quite.

      So you've never ben window shopping?

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    9. Re:Sign of the times... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Recently read a good article on the issue of... well, people not being content with relationships, having unreasonable expectations etc.

      http://cms.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-200403 01-000002.html/

    10. Re:Sign of the times... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So what was it? Kama Sutra? Woooooooo!

      Guh!
      Buh-zing!
      Heyo!

  36. astonishing by rich42 · · Score: 1

    the implications for porn surfing are mind numbing.

    1. Re:astonishing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now after you posted that in triplicate I diagnose a problem.

      Sic!

  37. Cell Phone Instant Messaging Logs by billwie · · Score: 2, Interesting

    How do you think this would apply to Cell phone instant messaging logs? I've heard from some people that cell phones save even the drafts of SMS messages. Would intentionally searching someone's Cell Phone logs be wire tapping since the logger is already present by default?

  38. spousal spyware by de1orean · · Score: 2, Funny

    so ... wait.

    what does the spyware do in Soviet Russia? does it still spy on YOU?

    1. Re:spousal spyware by fgb · · Score: 1

      No, it forces you to spy on yourself.

  39. a little twist. by theNetImp · · Score: 3, Interesting

    IANL but... The judges ruled that she didn't have the right to install the software on his computer, but I am pretty sure that once you are married what's his is hers and what's hers is his. Doesn't that also make his computer her computer and wouldn't that also give her the right to install said software on her computer?

    1. Re:a little twist. by ArmchairGenius · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I don't think it was the act of installing it that was the issue. She was capturing his conversations electronically. That is what violated the law, and that was the reason the conversations were not usable in court.
      It shouldn't matter whose computer he was using, you aren't allowed to electronically intercept communications under Florida law. The how isn't important I don't think.

    2. Re:a little twist. by v01d · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No, to quote the article:

      But Grincewicz concluded that "because the spyware installed by the wife intercepted the electronic communication contemporaneously with transmission, copied it and routed the copy to a file in the computer's hard drive, the electronic communications were intercepted in violation of the Florida Act."

      It sounds like even if it had been a complete stranger using the woman's computer, it would have been illegal to record the conversation.

    3. Re:a little twist. by theNetImp · · Score: 1

      Yeah, seeing how the law is read, I agree as to why it was illegal, but you would think that their would have been a provision in the law allowing some one who owns the computer to monitor how it is utilized. Seems kind of stupid to me.

    4. Re:a little twist. by n6kuy · · Score: 0

      > but I am pretty sure that once you are married what's his is hers and what's hers is his.

      Wrong. Once you are married, what's his is hers, and what's hers is hers....

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    5. Re:a little twist. by fcolari · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, then in another situation a person could say "I let him in my house which I own, therefore I can record the coversation which occurs therein." Which wouldn't fly either.

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    6. Re:a little twist. by fraggirl13 · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Who's the one doing the wrong here? Her husband's the one cheating. His business is her business(and vice versa) and she has every right to snoop on him if she feels something is up.

      There, I've said my peace.

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    7. Re:a little twist. by pekkak · · Score: 1

      Well, IMO if this was true, you should at least warn any person using that computer that anything they do on that computer may be monitored. Of course telling your husband that "you may be monitored" is not the best way to continue your marriage =)

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    8. Re:a little twist. by giantsfan89 · · Score: 4, Funny

      I am pretty sure that once you are married what's his is hers and what's hers is his.

      No no no... You've obviously never been married. What's his is her's, and what's her's is her's.

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    9. Re:a little twist. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Cheating is legal. Immoral, maybe, but legal.

      wiretapping is illegal. Moral in some instances, maybe, but illegal.

    10. Re:a little twist. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The brain is an electronic device. So in Florida it is illegal to remember a conversation you overhear. So much for stopping terrorism.

    11. Re:a little twist. by anagama · · Score: 4, Interesting

      • "No no no... You've obviously never been married. What's his is her's, and what's her's is her's."

      Truer words were never spoken. I actually used Spector about 5 years ago. Caught my wife in the middle of an online romance (the $600 phone bills were the real give away) and planning on cheating. Anyway, we got divorced shortly thereafter.

      I don't really think Spector and similar programs are "bad" (illegal perhaps), but at the same time, I don't think they are that helpful. Think of it this way: if you use the program and find evidence, most likely the relationship is over. If you do not use the program but the trust issues are so severe you feel like you need to, the relationship is also over. Why not save the trouble and spend the $50 on a new shirt - you'll be dating again soon whether you install it or not. The only purpose Spector serves is fueling a sense of self-righteous indignation -- a new shirt looks a lot nicer on.

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    12. Re:a little twist. by dnoyeb · · Score: 1

      Probably she was hoping that if it was declared he was cheating, then she could get a more favorable settlement. I think Michigan has similar consideration.

    13. Re:a little twist. by ZB+Mowrey · · Score: 1
      No, the real issue is whether or not he can now take advantage of the fact that she acted criminally against him without introducing the fruit of the crime as evidence, and whether or not she will do any jail time for having violated the law. ;)

      Personally, I'm torn on the issue. She violated his privacy, but she was his wife, and he was cheating on her. Still, in the words of so many cops, the law is the law whether or not you like it. (it made me shudder to say that, if it helps any.)

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    14. Re:a little twist. by Kjella · · Score: 1

      Think of it this way: if you use the program and find evidence, most likely the relationship is over. If you do not use the program but the trust issues are so severe you feel like you need to, the relationship is also over.

      That is assuming that the problem is in fact with your relationship. Maybe it was any number of other issues, from a support group for [insert something], some kind of addiction (often gambling in men) or something else. If you are in a serious relationship, you should go to some effort to find out what it is. Maybe she's going through something and is too ashamed or too proud to involve you, while what she actually needs is your love more than ever.

      Or maybe she's a lying cheating bitch. Finding out is the only way to know. Of course, it depends on how deeply involved you are. Last months girlfriend is completely different than married with children. But make sure that you leave for the right reasons when you do. You found out, and you did, good for you.

      Kjella

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    15. Re:a little twist. by JadeNB · · Score: 1
      No no no... You've obviously never been married. What's his is her's, and what's her's is her's.

      Please be more careful with your spelling. Of course you meant `What's hi's is her's, and what's her's is her's.'

  40. DWF seeks WM by MillionthMonkey · · Score: 4, Funny

    who isn't afraid to post anonymously and knows how to use his CAPS LOCK key...

    should have no problem finding a new husband on Slashdot

    I felt a great disturbance in the Force when I read this, as if millions of socially inept voices suddenly cried out at the opportunity to get laid.

    1. Re:DWF seeks WM by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Using a Star Wars reference to make fun of geeks?

    2. Re:DWF seeks WM by gstoddart · · Score: 1, Funny
      I felt a great disturbance in the Force when I read this, as if millions of socially inept voices suddenly cried out at the opportunity to get laid.

      Allow me to clarify this for the nookie challenged .... a woman entering the room or speaking to you is NOT an opportunity to get laid.

      Go back to your pr0n and video games now. :-P
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    3. Re:DWF seeks WM by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Using a Star Wars reference to make fun of geeks?

      Hokey free licenses and ancient operating systems are no match for a good bitch at your side, kid.

    4. Re:DWF seeks WM by Spodlink05 · · Score: 0

      Allow me to clarify this for the nookie challenged .... a woman entering the room or speaking to you is NOT an opportunity to get laid. Especially if it's your mom.

    5. Re:DWF seeks WM by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      "Come upstairs, Billy, your dinner is getting co... Aaargh what are you doing! Stop that! That's my girdle!"

  41. Florida cheaters by Lord+Kano · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I'm in Pennsylvania, several years ago a lawyer that I won't name hired me to search a client's computer for proof that it was used to communicate with the person that s/he was cheating with during a family vacation to Florida.

    It took me a few hours, but I located copies of all of the email sent between them that wasn't properly deleted.

    It's been like 8 years since then, so I don't remember exactly how many there were, but I think it was something like 80 in a week.

    They happily paid about $500 for the proof.

    LK

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  42. how far by LuxFX · · Score: 5, Insightful

    So I guess the question in how far can you take this? Does this automatically mean that any spyware is wiretapping? After all, most adware does observe and report a person's internet browsing activity. But I'm sure some people would argue it's a gray line, because is sending URLs really a form of electronic communication? Does spyware 'listen' to enough human-inteprettable language to be considered a wiretap?

    In a phone analogy, it's more like listening in on which phone number is being dialed, not the conversation. But in a lot of instances there is more information, thanks to the query string. A URL can tell an adware program what books someone is looking at on Amazon, or what they are searching for at Google.

    Just thinking out loud....

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    1. Re:how far by Galvatron · · Score: 1

      IANAL, but it seems to me that it probably would be illegal if there is no consent. Spyware programs only occasionally force themselves onto computers, 99% of the time they DID ask the user, it was just done in such a manner that they clicked "Yes" without paying attention. In the remaining 1% of cases, yeah, they might have a problem.

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    2. Re:how far by Duck1123 · · Score: 1

      In that case, it's like recording the number dialed plus all the buttons pushed while going through automated prompts. If you were to dial that number, and then push the same buttons, you'd get an idea of what that person called for.

  43. A question. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is it also illegal, under Florida law, for an employer to monitor all computer activities on their employees' machines? If not, I really think that her evidence should be allowed.

  44. ok, that's funny by SirFartsAlot · · Score: 1

    It's not often I read a worthwhile first post but you did it on that one. Good Work! SFA

  45. Homeland Insecurity by Baldrson · · Score: 5, Interesting
    it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.'

    So we can conclude that so-called "Homeland Security" -- which routinely intercepts electronic communication without a warrant -- is a criminal organization.

    1. Re:Homeland Insecurity by syrinx · · Score: 1, Insightful

      "Homeland Security" -- which routinely intercepts electronic communication without a warrant

      Either you're confusing the Dept. of Homeland Security with the NSA or the FBI, or else the Coast Guard and Transportation Safety Administration are branching way out from their original purposes.

      Besides, anything the government does, by definition, isn't illegal. Look at Social Security... if a private citizen tried to run a Ponzi scheme, they'd be charged with fraud and thrown in jail. And if they then made people join at gunpoint, it'd be even worse.

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    2. Re:Homeland Insecurity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, because it's sanctioned by the government.

    3. Re:Homeland Insecurity by null+etc. · · Score: 1
      So we can conclude that so-called "Homeland Security" -- which routinely intercepts electronic communication without a warrant -- is a criminal organization.

      No - it is an organization outside the scope of criminal laws.

    4. Re:Homeland Insecurity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, the Department of Homeland Paranoia is to protect YOU! Don't you ever forget that.

    5. Re:Homeland Insecurity by hcob$ · · Score: 1

      Oh, contraire mon frere.(sorry for the butchered french guys) The FEDERAL Government outweighs the State Government in interstate activities. Therefore unless the woman(we assume) he was chatting with had a direct connection to him or only passed through server located entirely within Florida(which is HIGHLY unlikely since these were chat rooms), Federal Wiretapping laws would apply here instead of State Wiretapping laws. A simply convoluted case of jurisdiction.

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    6. Re:Homeland Insecurity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope, NOONE is outside the scope of criminal law. Sure, there are certain exceptions, such as those that allow police to store otherwise-illegal contraband, but for the most part, laws apply to ALL.

    7. Re:Homeland Insecurity by null+etc. · · Score: 1
      Nope, NOONE is outside the scope of criminal law. Sure, there are certain exceptions, such as those that allow police to store otherwise-illegal contraband, but for the most part, laws apply to ALL.

      Hehe that's funny. Just remember that laws were created by people, not God.

    8. Re:Homeland Insecurity by Baldrson · · Score: 1
      you're confusing the Dept. of Homeland Security with the NSA or the FBI

      Didn't they give Homeland Security the charter to cohere all branches of government regarding data gathered?

      If so, there's no point quibbling -- they're one big happy government.

    9. Re:Homeland Insecurity by Netssansfrontieres · · Score: 1

      US Government wiretap authorities are governed by rules known in the telecom racket as CALEA. (Communications Access for Law Enforcement Agencies). Shorthand: ISPs, telcos, etc., have to give access to your communications when they receive an order to do so. Those orders are not (at least in theory!) given willy-nilly, but require (under most circumstances) court orders. Insofar as most of the feds follow these guidelines, the Separation of Powers works: the administration (police) can't spy without permission from a separate area (Judiciary).
      rant/
      The bad news is that the fed gov't has -- surprise! -- given itself expanded authority to use wiretaps of various kinds using an internal judge. The reasoning is that the fed gov't needs judges on tap who've got security clearances, etc., and are on hand 7/24. Insofar as the feds ACTUALLY stick to this, that'd be ok, kind of, also. Patriot Act expands the number of kinds of offenses that can get a court order from a pet judge inside the Dept of Homeland Security. At some point, they're likely to mess up, badly, ruin some poor bugger's life and end up in front of the Supreme Court. /rant
      BUT: for the most part, CALEA...

  46. It's all the same. by merdaccia · · Score: 1

    What bothers me the most is that the judge claims it's wiretapping because it logged data contemporaneously. Since you have to log something contemporaneously by definition, doesn't this render logs illegal, or better yet, inadmissabile?

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    1. Re:It's all the same. by merdaccia · · Score: 1

      Hell, it might even render them inadmissable!

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  47. Erm... by Skalizar · · Score: 1

    Reguardless of whatever laws may or may no have been broken, these are electronic logs, and the source just might have an interest in tampering with them. What else was she trying to use as evidence, a drawing of them having sex?

  48. Electronic. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

    Electronic. Electronic. Electronic.

    Electrical communication is when you use a cattle prod to let your spouse know you're upset about the affair.

    1. Re:Electronic. by base3 · · Score: 1

      Or when you use a cattle prod to keep things interesting to prevent one :).

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  49. On the downside by sulli · · Score: 2, Insightful

    anyone who would partner with this woman would have to keep his PC under lock and key. Probably not a tradeoff most slashdotters would accept.

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    1. Re:On the downside by Hyecee · · Score: 1

      Not that I agree with her actions, but perhaps if he hadn't given her reason to suspect an affair (or even better, didn't have an affair) then she wouldn't resort to logging his activity.

      So maybe with a better partner, she would be a better, or at least less tempted, woman.

    2. Re:On the downside by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess you don't read many of the security related stories then....

      The real question is could she endure the body odor paranoia, and envying her husbands enourmous breasts.

  50. it makes sense to me by nashy-nunu · · Score: 1, Funny

    I think if he cheats on her. She talk to him. If it is over is over. I don't think trying to catch him and then sue him for more than 1/2 of his state is the reason they got married on the first place. I don't get that now marriage is the union between a pig and a bitch. It is supposed based on love not money.

    1. Re:it makes sense to me by Bonhamme+Richard · · Score: 1
      I think that it's only fair that the cheater pays. You make a promise that you are going to love someone for the rest of your life, if you break that promise, you pay for it, because the other person has invested (time, money, and affection) in you, and you haven't held up your end of the deal.

      Would you have a 50/50 split of assets in every divorce? What is she is independently wealthy, and he cheats on her. When they divorce she loses a fortune because he is a pig. THAT wouldn't make sense to me.

    2. Re:it makes sense to me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, "cheater pays" is stupid.

      Civil marriage is an economic partnership. All the love shit and romance is beside the point in the eyes of the law. You split the gains of the marriage at the time you get divorced (and a gain includes having your pre-marriage debts paid off). Your poor achey brakey heart is irrelevant. You still each contributed whatever it was you did. You still each chose each other and the form of your relationship (marriage). You are still entitled to your half.

      Your "cheater pays" thinking is about fifty years behind and focuses on your personal morality rather than law. The law is concerned with divvying up the gains and sending you on your way.

      Oh, your spouse didn't contribute equally? Well, you chose wrong didn't you? Or you didn't get out as soon as you should have. The law thinks you're grown up. Are you?

    3. Re:it makes sense to me by Bonhamme+Richard · · Score: 1
      Two people enter in to a contract (marriage)

      One individual breaks the agreement (cheats)

      That individual is fined (lose of personal property)

      This is based on my "personal morality" how? It sounds like a law issue to me... Just because you're scum and I call you on it doesn't mean I'm 50 years behind.

  51. This will likely be overturned by WidescreenFreak · · Score: 1

    I am not a lawyer, but I was under the impression that such wiretape laws were regarding installation of such software on hardware that *does not belong to you*. Most if not all States, as has been specified already, acknowledge a single individual in a marriage to speak for the whole except on matters, usually financial, that do not require dual signatures, such as the husband getting a credit card for himself.

    In that case the PC is owned by both individuals; therefore, she did not install software on someone else's PC. She installed it on her own, so I don't see why that would be considered a violation.

    Maybe I'm wrong, although I hope that I'm not. Personally, I wonder if this would have a different turn if she caught him doing something illegal as opposed to immoral.

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    1. Re:This will likely be overturned by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >> Most if not all States, as has been specified already, acknowledge a single individual in a marriage to speak for the whole >>

      If this is true, the USA is soooo backward it's scary. My local (Canada) library branch won't even tell a spouse what his wife checked out (ie. if they call to say a reserved book is ready), won't even let a spouse pick up his wife's reserved books.

  52. Oldie but goodie by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Roses are red,
    Violets are blue,
    IN SOVIET RUSSIA
    poems write YOU!

    1. Re: Oldie but goodie by halivar · · Score: 4, Funny

      Yakov Smirnov, may you burn in a thousand fiery hells.

    2. Re: Oldie but goodie by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In Soviet Russia, a thousand fiery hells burn in Yakov Smirnov!

    3. Re: Oldie but goodie by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In Soviet Russia... ... Yakov Smirnov gets annoyed by YOU?

    4. Re:Oldie but goodie by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      bah
      in Korea, this Poems bussiness is Only for Old People

  53. But in LA its ok? by Evil+W1zard · · Score: 3, Informative

    This is what I find amusing about states and their differences in laws. LA recently had a similar case where a man used a keylogger to keep tabs on his employer. This was ruled as not breaking wiretap laws. http://www.securityfocus.com/news/9978

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    1. Re:But in LA its ok? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is what I find amusing about states and their differences in laws.

      One of the many "very good things" about federalism is that the states retain such powers.

    2. Re:But in LA its ok? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, don't the employers always say there is no expectation of privacy in the workplace? Then they bitch when it turns out to be a two-way street!

  54. I'm curious by StringBlade · · Score: 1
    So your wife was looking at sex sites, and from your post I take it you were offended by this and it has been the cause of some turmoil in your relationship?

    Firstly, you are clearly not the typical slashdot poster who only dreams of having a girlfriend/wife who would watch porn with them.

    Stereotypes aside I understand that pornography is completely offensive to many people so I'm not judging. But doesn't this suggest that perhaps you and she need to communicate more about what each desires sexually from the other so she doesn't have to go looking other places (or you for that matter in other female acquaintences -- companionship, not necessarily sex)?

    I am certainly not any sort of authority on relationships, but your post made it sound like after the first offense you were ready to throw in the towel and divorce this woman without evaluating what brought you both to this point.

    Just an innocent question. I don't mean to pry, accuse, or otherwise offend you - perhaps just get you to elaborate and/or reflect on the situation.

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    1. Re:I'm curious by elrick_the_brave · · Score: 1

      My first post is just a gut reaction to the situation. It's far more complex. We've talked and develed into each other's personalities. The incident lead us to learn more about each other. I have no objection to most material that a normal healthy person observes. What I objected to was the fact that we both did not notice what was happening and talk. From what I know about myself, I have to talk to an objective person about my personality and my wife's (councilling) as I didn't get that touchy-feely good feeling when I found out the reality. At any rate.. it's just something we have to work out.

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    2. Re:I'm curious by StringBlade · · Score: 1

      Thanks for the candid response. Sounds like you've got an even head on your shoulders. My best wishes to you guys to work it out amicably.

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    3. Re:I'm curious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      I was in a similar situation a few years back.

      I had seen so many damned ads for Yahoo Personals while on a fuel injection group that I clicked into it for shits and giggles. My search criteria: women seeking women withing a five mile radius of my house (I'm male). Lesbian personal ads can be a hoot (for that matter, so are hetero ads), and it would have been a kick if some of my neighbors were not all they appeared to be. Logged in twice - it got boring really quickly.

      Then... the wife was snooping and saw it. Not only did she start looking at ads, she placed her own and started having some correspondence (I'm a better snoop). When I asked why, the basic answer was "revenge." To which my reaction was "For what? Laughing at lonely lesbians?" This turned into just part of a serious crisis in our marriage, which hasn't completely been resolved, and it's been years.

      About therapy; we went, and did I get a good happy feeling by the end? Not really, but I definitely felt that our relationship was on more solid footing. That is, until some of the things I said in therapy got lobbed back at me years later; she still has a lot of unresolved issues that didn't come out in therapy.

      Hang tough; you aren't alone in your situation (althought it may feel like it).

    4. Re:I'm curious by poofyhairguy82 · · Score: 1
      Hang tough; you aren't alone in your situation (althought it may feel like it).

      Slashdot:A group for men and golems who have lost touch with their precious.

  55. other admissable infidelity evidence? by emil · · Score: 1

    The couple must have discussed this after her discovery. Are those discussions admissable?

    Could the wife simply subponea the mistress? While the chatlog isn't admissable, would any significant deviation from its content open the mistress up to perjury?

    What does the woman gain by having extensive documentation of infidelity in a divorce proceeding?

    1. Re:other admissable infidelity evidence? by Br00se · · Score: 0

      Fruit from the posion tree.

      Don't you watch Law and Order?

    2. Re:other admissable infidelity evidence? by strelitsa · · Score: 1

      Actually, I first heard that phrase uttered by Veronica Hamel on Hill Street Blues. Except she pronounced it "Fruit of the poisonous tree".

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    3. Re:other admissable infidelity evidence? by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      Which is why she shouldn't have tried to submit it. She should have recorded logs, figured out where they were meeting, and documented it.

      Fruit from the posion tree only goes so far for non-cops. If I break into your house and find dead bodies, you can't throw out the dead bodies as evidence, like could happen if it was the police illegally breaking in.

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  56. Should have by garyday · · Score: 1

    Should have installed M$oft (or should that be Giant) anti-spyware :) would have picked up on the fact that his wife was spying on him through some dodgy keystroke logger.. Imagine she found he had millons stashed in some dodgy accounts somewhere, she could have nicked his stash before filing for divoce. Mind, then he'd have freaked and probably kicked her ass and then been locked up.. To quote RAW "if i ever get married, i have to goto the woods of africa and get me a naked-zebra bitch, with a bone and a plate and a big f***ed up afro".. G

  57. Florida Fark tag by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know that this took place in Florida, where anything insane can and will happen, but aren't most wiretapping laws aimed at law enforcement to protect the individuals against tyrannical governemt actions? It seems to me that a private citizen would not be violating a law such as that. But hey, I didn't read the actual text of the law.

    Another valid point: It's her computer, too, so she can do with it what she wants. At least, that's how property and marriage is viewed. If I bought something, regardless of whose paycheck the money actually came from, my wife could sell it when I wasn't looking. I would have no recourse under the law since the property is considered mutually owned. At least, in most states. We are talking about the Florida Fark tag here.

  58. Conversations?! by Ced_Ex · · Score: 2, Funny

    That wasn't a conversation they were having over Yahoo! They were merely "trash talking" over a game of Domninoes.

    Come on, where's the common sense? Who's never played a head to head competitive game without yelling out "You can't touch this, Biatch!!", "Who's your daddy? WHO'S your daddy!!!" Illicit affair... bah!

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  59. Cracking Spectorsoft- Phasmatis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Acidus (of Blackboard and Magstripe Fame) has a cool (but rather primitive) project called Phasmatis which reads and writes Spector Data capture files. There is a SF project page, but for some reason all his stuff is still on his personal webpage. It doesn't work with the most recent versions, but provides a good foundation for cracking the files. http://www.yak.net/acidus/software/phasmatis/index .html There are also some pretty detailed lecture slides about the Spector File Format, and how he decoded it. http://www.yak.net/acidus/talks/index.html Enjoy

  60. Parental monitor programs by John3 · · Score: 1

    Even more important, what about IM logging programs like Parent Tools used to monitor children's conversations in chat rooms? Does the parent have to notify their children that they are being recorded?

    And how about sites like Perverted Justice that post recorded IM conversations between two adults? I guess they should avoid child predators in Florida. Even if the police get involved, a judge would likely toss the case since the initial investigation was done illegally.

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    1. Re:Parental monitor programs by eseiat · · Score: 1
      Your expansion upon my post is definitely insightful. I was not aware of sites like Perverted Justice, but this case certainly does make one have to think about the future of such sites. As for parents monitoring children's conversations on the internet, I can't help but be worried about how treacherous that would be in court, as it could infringe on a parent's right to protect their children as well as infringing upon a child's rights to not be monitored constantly (if this is infact a "right" is debateable in itself).

      Thanks for the insights.

  61. Does this apply to cable modems as well? by emil · · Score: 1

    Or does it require a connection to POTS/PSTN?

    What if you have VoIP?

  62. Wahhh wahhhh wahhh by tilleyrw · · Score: 1

    Postings which I have read have all discussed spying on each other and learning the sex habits of your partner.

    We all have personal quirks and fantasies but such a thing would have to be extreme (i.e. necrophilia) to even warrant interest by others.

    Unless your partner(s) share these things, there is no reason to be concerned. Except in the necrophilia case ... Lock up those crazy corpse-fuckers.

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  63. A way forward by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    Considering then how most marriages are, would not an argument for her case be that indeed a hsuband is an "employee" of the wife?

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  64. nope by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

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  65. Similar Parental Rights Case by Chokai · · Score: 5, Informative

    There was recently a case in Washington State where a suspicious mother had picked up the phone to listen to her daughter's conversation with one of her friends. Well it turns out the friend was a suspect in a robbery and the mother was called to testify. Now the testemony has been ruled inadmissible for similar reasons.

    1. Re:Similar Parental Rights Case by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The guidelines for what hearsay testimony is admissible in court are pretty fleshed out. In general, testimony from a person overhearing a normal conversation they are not party to is not admissible evidence.

      The reason for the dismissal was nothing new and had nothing to do with wiretapping or phones or anything new.

    2. Re:Similar Parental Rights Case by John3 · · Score: 1

      This sounds correct...the courts didn't have a problem with the mother monitoring her daughter's phone call, just with the police using the conversation as evidence.

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  66. Re:In Washington, I wonder if this would be the ca by RmanB17499 · · Score: 1

    Only that Florida is not a community property state. Very few states use that system.

  67. could be innocent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There are some innocent explanations as to why she may have been visiting these sights. It could simply be morbid fascination that people would put themselves on display like that. For example, my roommate and I used to read the Russian bride type sitess just to laugh at some of the foolishness posted there. We would create demented back stories for the poor women. Perhaps your wife is doing something similar.

    It could also be an idicator of a more serious problem. She could get a thrill out of visiting these sites and imagining what could be, but with no intention of following through. It is very similar to looking at porn if you think about it.

    Obvioulsy you and she need to talk.

  68. Re:Community Property State? Deleted data? by redelm · · Score: 2, Interesting
    If I read the judgement correctly, had she recovered the emails from cache/deleted sectors (without contemporaneous intercept), she'd be OK.

  69. Actually by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    WE own the government. You seem to be confused.

    1. Re:Actually by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      > WE own the government. You seem to be confused.

      Wow, I didn't know you read /. too! How's things, Karl?

  70. consider everything logged by trufflemage · · Score: 3, Insightful

    This story, posted on the same day as the story about the thief who was caught by a web cam that uploaded its photos to an external server, brings home to me the changing nature of today's world. Electronic activity is inherently insecure and I'm beginning to think my baseline assumption ought to be this: someone is eavesdropping on everything I do.

    My job allows a certain amount of free time at a PC with high-speed internet access and I make use of it. My employer certainly has the legal right and means to log every key I strike. Have I ever accessed my paypal account from work? Probably...so my employer (or my employer's IT guy) can probably purchase things on my credit card. How about my ebay account? Again, yes. Yahoo? Yes. Other accounts (like slashdot) and forums and blogs? These may all be open books to him/her/them/Big Brother. Fortunately I'm not a spy and not even particularly daring in my Googling ("office-appropriate websites" is my motto) so I expect I'm flying below the radar. But suppose someone really was interested? They could literally read my mail, and some of my personal email is...well...personal. Scarier still is the fact that I've used (I know, I oughtn't, but I'm human and it's embarassing to always be forgetting) certain short-cuts to help me remember which password belongs to which accounts and sometimes my screen name is the same from site to site. So someone could conceivably hack my yahoo account and use data learned there to access other accounts and basically domino-effect their way through my whole schizophrenic tree of online personas. Okay, I've mixed paranoia in there, but I really want to examine the worst-case scenario.

    Proposed new worldview: every computer I use logs everything. Can I retain my privacy nevertheless?

    For now, if I'm careful, yes. One key is staying below the radar, as it were. If I attract a lot of attention, I may become a target, but if I mind my own business, I'm not likely to be bothered. We're not yet at the point where everyone is considered a criminal. The man whose wife was suspicious wouldn't have gotten caught if he had not aroused her suspicions in the first place. (The method I recommend for avoiding arousing suspicions is to be scrupulously innocent; not a fail-safe, but a big help.)

    If I pretend my employer is reading over my shoulder 100% of the time at work, I'm unlikely to type anything compromising.

    If I pretend the other people in my household are reading over my shoulder at home, I'm likely to stay out of trouble too.

    But where do I go if I want to be particularly clandestine, for example buy my wife a present without her knowing about it? Someplace anonymous. Anonymity is the great bastion of protection in the digital age. There are some freely available web-based email systems that do not even require a real name to register; with a working email address, one can open all sorts of online accounts. If I'm paranoid, I may open a unique account for the sole purpose of registering for a specific online activity, and never let the account mix with any other activity of mine.

    In other words, if I'm careful, I can avoid linking myself to anything I do online. Say I use a public computer, perhaps at a library or an internet cafe, to open an anonymous free email account, and I use that email address to open a slashdot account. As long as I never access that email address again and never access the slashdot account at home or at work, I can avoid leaving a thread from it to me--even assuming every keystroke was logged on every computer I used.

    That kind of covering my tracks is a pain, and not really necessary because I'm not up to villainy, but if I were paranoid, and I'm beginning to think I should be, it would offer protection.

    But wait...anonymous public internet access is rapidly disappearing, even from libraries. One frequently must have a library account to use the library computer, and many libraries now use software that logs on a specific user f

    1. Re:consider everything logged by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This makes it even more dangerous when you're sending credit card information or passwords out. I'd use something like safeserf if I were doing something even remotely sensitive on an untrusted machine (which includes my work machine).

    2. Re:consider everything logged by manifoldronin · · Score: 1
      One key is staying below the radar.

      You were, until this post.

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  71. Simple solution to illegally obtained evidence by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Allow illegally-obtained evidence as evidence IF and ONLY IF they prosecute the person that illegally obtained that evidence.

    So if a private investigator illegally obtains evidence that can put away a murderer, then use it to hang that murderer and charge the PI for breakin-and-enterin or wire-tappin.

  72. This actually worries me... by araemo · · Score: 1

    I have most chat programs on my PC set up to log my chats. If someone else sits down at my PC without my knowledge and has a private conversation that gets recorded.. am I breaking federal wiretapping legislation?(Or even just state legislation?) I certainly hope it's not the kind of thing that would stand up in court, but geeze, it makes one worry.

    1. Re:This actually worries me... by PacketScan · · Score: 1

      nope it's your machine..
      If anything you would argue that they acessed with out knowledge or permission.

  73. Another plus(?) for the Linux column by kbielefe · · Score: 2, Funny
    Now, I don't condone doing stupid things like cyber-cheating on your wife, but you have to admit that this is the perfect application for a Knoppix CD. Not a trace on your hard drive and you get a clean system on every boot.

    Let's drop the tired TCO argument and put that on the brochure.

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    1. Re:Another plus(?) for the Linux column by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 2, Funny

      The all new Knaughtix distro! Doing something naughty, like surfing porn or cheating on your spouse? With the Knaughtix CD, and an optional floppy disk or USB key with your network settings, you can surf or cheat in safety! Just reboot the machine, and all evidence is gone gone gone!

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  74. MOD PARENT UP--interesting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is true, isn't it? You have to be warned about voice recording and transcripts of what you say/type, but hidden camera video generally *can* be used as evidence, can't it?

    1. Re:MOD PARENT UP--interesting by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      If it's a video tape of a converstation on the screen, no, that won't work.

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  75. IINAL, however by BayBlade · · Score: 1
    Not so, in many places.

    In much corporate law, an employee acts on behalf of their corportation and in doing so, the corporation assumes responsibility for its employee's decisions and actions (while at work).

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    1. Re:IINAL, however by Vellmont · · Score: 1

      Except we're talking about a husband and wife, not a corporation. A husband or wife doesn't act on behalf of the family, so your analogy is irrelevant.

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    2. Re:IINAL, however by BayBlade · · Score: 1
      Except the we ARE/b> talking about corporations and how our relationships with them are different than our marital ones, from a legal standpoint.

      or are you just ignoring half of what you read?

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  76. Or... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Just a minute, honey! I'm installing this new OS called Linux!"

  77. It's got one more twist left, too by ianscot · · Score: 1
    If I am held liable for what is done with my electronic communications equipment, I should have the legal right to ensure that it is being properly used.

    And let's imagine that wife catches husband doing something actually illegal because she's installed this spyware, which maybe was meant to keep an eye on her kids. Apparently this precedent would mean that a) the evidence of his wrongdoing isn't admissible in court (or at least not civil court?) because it's been collected by electronic eavesdropping; but b) she's potentially liable for his behavior on her computer, so reporting it may get her in trouble, both for the spyware and for the crimes he's committing?

    This is one of those items where every post should use "IANAL" as the sig line. I hope we're all just mistaken about the basics, here.

    Granted, if you need to resort to this in marriage, there is already something seriously wrong with your marriage.

    People who advocate the end of "no fault" divorces because it'd help marriage (cue heavenly choir) might want to think about how whacked out situations like this are. In a world without no fault, every split would take on this logic. She caught him, they both know it -- but is the evidence admissible? Lawyers debate the evidentiary precedents... That's kind of nuts.

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    1. Re:It's got one more twist left, too by Jboy_24 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There was a case where a man in California thought that a woman was harassing him and thought she was entraping him into a sexual harrasement suit. So he recorded all their conversations and just as he expected, she filed suit alleging sexual harrassment on 6 occasions.
      "A ha!", he thought, "i've got her". So he provided tapes of those exact 6 occassions showing no harrassement took place. ....

      HE was tried and convicted on 6 counts of missdemenour Invasion of Privacy. .....

      I read this awhile ago so I don't have exact information. Never less, in my IANAL view, for your case where:

      The logs of a keylogger show your wife is doing something illegal.

      a) If you installed the logging software to spy on your kids, and you wife knew this, then its probably perfectly legal to provide those logs to the police.

      b) If you installed the logging software just to test it and by accident your wife used the computer and it recorded her conversation. You still broke the law in California (and elsewhere).

      For case b, the solution is obvious. Call a lawyer, have the lawyer guide you into what kind of evidence is legal. Maybe you can provide the activity log from a firewall. Have the lawyer talk to the police, maybe they can set up their own logging software. Maybe you can work out a deal with the prosecutor. If you broke into your neighbour's house and discovered a half made nuclear device, they'll grant you immunity in a second. If you found they were taking the law tags off of their furniture, then you're going to jail.

      There is no way you are liable for the actions of your wife if you act to correct the problem when you first learn of the illegal acts. If you cover it up for her, then your screwed. But be warned, the act of recording key strokes without the parties consent is an illegal act of its own.

  78. Re:Sign of the times... SSN by redelm · · Score: 1

    If I read between the lines correctly, you might want to look into the Straight Spouse Network.

  79. Damn courts by null+etc. · · Score: 1
    I really love it when new technology meets outdated laws and terminology.

    Next time, I hope the wife installs a spy camera that's pointed at the keyboard. This way, she can capture a transcript of his fingers pressing keys, which is a physical activity and is not electronic.

    Granted, she'll only get his side of the story, but often, that's enough.

  80. Wait..WTF.. dominos?! by EvilStein · · Score: 1

    "The Florida Appeals Court, Fifth District said that Beverly Ann O'Brien "illegally obtained" records of husband James' online conversations with another woman as the two played Yahoo Dominoes together."

    Good lord, she must have been a controlling bitch. Now playing online games of DOMINOS is cheating too? I swear, women need to quit redefining "cheating" because it's getting kinda crazy here..... :P

  81. This Judge is On something! by PacketScan · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Ok where to begin..
    First off they are married. Last I checked married couples own everything 50 / 50 or so in a perfect world. So how is installing software on "his" computer. It's His fault for getting caught, err doing it in the first place. I mean seriously. And it's not like she was watching a neighbor. They are married there is a legal requirement there, if not why have to get divorced in court?.
    Preposterous

  82. Missing the point by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It may be their joint PC, but it's not joint privacy. They can install whatever they want, yes, but using it to invade someone's privacy and betray their trust is a different matter. What's more, it's morally wrong, no matter what any local law says.

  83. That's crap by Lathi- · · Score: 1

    Nice talk from an anonymous coward.

  84. So he didn't cheat, after all... by n6kuy · · Score: 0

    Oh, wow! The wife installed the spyware to see if her husband was cheating on her. But the judge says that was illegal. I guess the wife can rest easy now, since she didn't (legally) catch him cheating... ..and why does she need to present this evidence in court anyway? These days, you can get divorced for any reason or no reason. Court is just to figure out who gets what...

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  85. Criminal = 1337 by angedinoir · · Score: 1

    It's a sign of the times, like being a nerd. I'm criminal and a thief in so many ways that it hurts.

    Hah, just turned down the volume on the radio during a commercial, that makes me even more of a thief.

  86. Individual rights by pclminion · · Score: 1
    I'm all for individual rights, but in my opinion, if you aren't willing to completely blend yourselves into a single "composite person" with joint rights and responsibility over each others' lives, you should not be getting married.

    It is legal to hire a private investigator to follow your spouse around, why should it not also be legal for a wife to keep track of her husband's activities herself? If you do not want to give up your rights as an individual to your spouse, don't get married.

  87. Re:"Wiretapping" by symbolic · · Score: 2, Insightful


    I seem to recall something not too long ago that discussed the issue as it pertained to parents and their kids. I can't remember if it was a local story, or on one of the national broadcasts. In any event, they basically stated that it may be against the law in certain states to spy on your kids, by listening to phone calls, intercepting internet communications, etc. I'm sure this can be extrapolated to include other adults.

    Just the same, as far is it pertains to kids, I find this quite disturbing. It's easy to rail on parents who don't do their job, but it's completely insane with the law makes it illegal.

  88. Good going by Orion+Blastar · · Score: 1

    now if they can just extend that to employers, we finally can get some privacy back.

    Spyware should be against the law anyway. It just is a legal virus anyway and it should be made illegal.

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  89. So no computer-based evidence can be used at trial by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What if I introduce the contents of /var/adm/syslog at trial? After all, the data present in syslog were captured "contemporaneously with transmission, copied and routed . . . to a file in the computer's hard drive". Are all computer logs to be inadmissible, as all of them represent essentially the same thing the output of the Spector program -- real-time data captured from an electronic data-processing device and stored electronically for later retrieval?

  90. Wife forgot one thing by Naito · · Score: 1

    she should've made him agree to an EULA first

  91. Not the only case... by Major+Lame+Brain · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You *can* do this in Kansas. I visited a client who wanted someone to interpret what Specter had caught her husband at. He'd secretly videotaped the two of them having sex and wanted to know if he'd posted it anywhere. Also, had he been surfing child p0rn? Had he taken any illicit pics of their children?

    Her attorney told her it was legal in Kansas.

    (All I could see him doing was saving a bunch of free p0rn videos. He'd set the date on the PC back a couple of years so he could say it was all old stuff if he ever got caught -- and he changed the file extensions so nobody could accidently run the movies.)

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  92. Legality by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

    > Yeah, because by the "kids have no privacy" argument, a father could require his 16-year-old daughter to allow him into her room when she's getting dressed. I think we'd all agree that was unreasonable.

    Unreasonable but not illegal due to privacy issues. If a father did this to his daughter, he'd likely face an investigation pursuant to incest charges, but he wouldn't face any charges based on violation of privacy.

    Virg

  93. Validity of Monitoring by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

    > How long before every kid in Florida gets an injunction on their parents from installing any monitoring software?

    Such an injunction is powerless. A parent is not required by any law to allow a child access to or use of a computer. The parent needs only state that he told the child that use of the computer is contingent on allowing monitoring. Notification and consent to monitoring eliminates the ability of injunction.

    Virg

  94. Actually, no by phorm · · Score: 1

    We run a proxy here at work. It could easily record everything that passes through the wire, including chat conversations (if we didn't block most chat services in the first place anyhow).

  95. Technically....... by acoustix · · Score: 1

    The word "intercept" means: " To stop, deflect, or interrupt the progress or intended course of"
    (http://www.answers.com/intercept&r=67)

    If the messages were truly "intercepted" then the intended receiver of the message would not have received the message. Therefore, that law would not apply.

    That may be nitpicking, but lawmakers purposefully use elaborate wording in the laws, trying to look intelligent but actually end up leaving loopholes.

    -Nick

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  96. I'm confused... by hyfe · · Score: 3, Informative
    This is one part of American society that has always dumbfounded me, why do you guys need to prove all this cheating? Could somebody be nice enough to explain it?

    Over here, I think it goes something like 'you keep any property you can conclusivly prove you took into the marriage, everything else is split 50/50'. No judge would give a rats ass for the reasons you want a divorce.. you agreed the share everything, and if you now want to stop sharing everything that's your deal.

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    1. Re:I'm confused... by demonlapin · · Score: 2, Funny
      Are you actually telling me that wherever you are there is no distinction between a no-fault divorce ("we just want out") and an at-fault divorce?

      If he can prove she cheated, she's at fault. Ergo, she'll probably get what she came into the marriage with (emphasis on probably; if a man cheats on his wife he'll be unlikely to keep more than the worse of the two cars), and much much less than half of what the couple made during the marriage, because he's been wronged.

  97. Re:"Wiretapping" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you think spying is parenting, well, you have a lot of counselling ahead of you. (Shudder. I hate to think of the damage you do to your kids.)

  98. Re:"Wiretapping" by symbolic · · Score: 1


    If you think parenting doesn't involve keeping an eye on what your kids are doing, you have a very ill-conceived notion of what parenting really is.

  99. Re:"Wiretapping" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hmm... I never thought "keeping an eye" on your kids meant with a hidden video camera and recorder. I thought it meant paying attention to what they say and do, while respecting their privacy.

  100. Re:"Wiretapping" by symbolic · · Score: 1


    With kids, there are unfortunately many circumstances which might necessitate "violating" their privacy. We might have 13 innocent people still alive today if the parents of Harris and Klebold had any idea what their kids were up to.

  101. ANY electronic communication. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "...it is criminal to 'intentionally intercept' any 'electronic communication.'"

    Just imagine, intercepting your own mail for analysis, that would be illegal in Florida!

  102. Good job, gov't. by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 1

    > The court ruled that the software, Spector,
    > violated Florida's wiretapping law - which
    > states that it is criminal to 'intentionally
    > intercept' any 'electronic communication.'"

    And children surfing for porn everywhere rejoiced. Said one 10 year old to his dad, "You can't spyware where I'm going, ass! The government overrules you! Ass."

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  103. Hack Florida Computers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If anyone wants to have some fun hacking, make sure to target computers in Florida. Apparently, it is illegal for ISPs or anyone else to log your attempts at destroying their property. Even if you get caught red handed, all that evidence is not submitable.

  104. The flip side by funkify · · Score: 1

    I have a paranoid wife. She admits she is, and she will see me typing this. To keep peace in our marriage, I installed a similar package to this, called Spy Anywhere and allowed her to control it and the password.

    I have nothing to hide, and it keeps her happy. Some of you may think I'm nuts, but if you are in a relationship that depends on a high level of trust, this is a great way to earn it. At least it has been for me.

    1. Re:The flip side by Kurt+Wall · · Score: 1

      Good grief, man. Relationships depend on high level of trust, there's no argument about that. But you're not in a relationship that involves any level of trust whatsoever. You might trust her, but just from what you've written here, she doesn't trust you one bit.

  105. Concern at the Quads by Concern+Is+A+Faggot · · Score: 0

    With apologies to Ernest Lawrence Thayer

    The outlook wasn't brilliant for the student march that night;
    The quads were filled with rent-a-cops and not a picket sign in sight;
    With Cooney busted for possestion, and Barrows, the riot laws;
    A sickly silence fell upon the supporters of The Cause.

    A straggling few got up to go, in deep despair. The rest
    Clung to that hope which "springs eternal in the human breast;"
    They thought, If only Gay Concern could be rallying that mob,
    We'd put up even money now, with Concern at the quads.

    But Flynn preceded Concern, as did also Jimmy Blake,
    And the former was a no-good and the latter was a fake;
    Forlorn, that stricken multitude discouraged by the odds,
    For there seemed but little chance of Concern's getting to the quads.

    But Flynn let fly a bottle, to the wonderment of all,
    And Blake, the much despised, set a bomb off in the hall,
    And when the dust had lifted and men saw what had occurred,
    Jimmy beaned the Dean of Students, while the bombed out library burned.

    Then from five thousand throats and more there rose a lusty yell,
    It rumbled through the valley, it rattled in the dell,
    A Harley roared up from the street, and was tearing up the sod,
    And Concern, Gay Concern, was advancing through the quads.

    There was ease in Concern's manner as he wheeled into his place;
    There was pride in Concern's bearing and a smile on Concern's face,
    And when, responding to the cheers, he lightly gave a nod,
    No stranger in the crowd could doubt `twas Gay Concern at the quads.

    Ten thousand eyes were on him as he gunned the throttle loud;
    Five thousand tongues applauded as he signaled to the crowd.
    And while the nervous officers grabbed the night sticks from their hips,
    Defiance gleamed in Concern's eye, a sneer curled Concern's lip.

    And now a can of tear gas came hurtling through the air,
    And Concern stood a-watching it in haughty grandeur there,
    Close by the haughty Concern, the can unheeded sped --
    "That ain't my style," said Concern. "Break it up!" the coppers said.

    From the streets, black with people, there went up a muffled roar,
    Like the beating of the storm waves on a stern and distant shore.
    "Kill them; kill the pigs!" shouted someone from the mob;--
    And Concern guns his engine, and wipes-out on the lawn.

    With a fist of protest shaking, Concern's visage shone;
    He jumped back on his Harley; he bade the march go on;
    The Harley takes off through the quads, 'till it hits a vicious bump;
    And Concern sails through the air, landing smack upon his rump.

    "Fascists!" he screeched, "Capitalist, Imperialist, Racist, Sexist pigs!"
    "If I must I'll ride a tricycle, but we'll have this march - you dig?"
    They saw his face grow stern and cold; they saw his muscles strain,
    And they knew that Gay Concern wouldn't lose that bike again!

    The sneer is gone from Concern's lip; his teeth are clenched in hate;
    He sniffs with cruel derision as he lets go of the brake.
    And now he throws it into first, the clutch he now he lets go,
    And now the air is shattered as the bike takes off - alone.

    Oh! somewhere there's a campus town where they drum and chant all night.
    They protest for the rain forest, and demand the wart-hog's rights.
    And somewhere bongs are being passed, and somewhere radicals shout;
    But there is no joy at Old State U -- Gay Concern has Wiped Out!

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  106. Isn't it pretty sexist wording? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    "A Florida court ruled that it was illegal for a wife to install spyware on her husband's computer, in order to catch him in an extramarital affair."

    Shouldn't it just read "A Florida court ruled that it was illegal for one to install software on their spouse's computer in order to catch them in an extramarital affair." ?

  107. Sadly Disturbing by serutan · · Score: 1

    The article calls it "her husband's computer," but in most marriages that would be a euphemism for "their computer, which her husband mostly uses but is just as much hers." It doesn't make it clear whether it was truly "his" computer in this case, but that probably doesn't matter. In today's law-bound world there are all kinds of things you can't do on your own computer without somebody's permission, so I'm not totally surprised.

  108. Don't let cops be smarter than you! by ShagratTheTitleless · · Score: 1

    No. No. No! You use illegally obtained evidence to lead you to legally obtainable evidence, just like the police do! Keystroke log his ass to find out when they are meeting then show up and videotape it!

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  109. This is the only part of American society by lorcha · · Score: 1
    that has always dumbfounded you? Clearly you haven't studied us hard enough.

    Anyhow, divorce law varies wildly by state. For instance (and I am no expert in divorce so this could be old info now) in New York, there is no such thing as a no-fault divorce. You you get the absurd situation of a couple agreeing to make up a story about who was at fault just to get a divorce.

    Pretty much everywhere else you can get a no-fault divorce for "irreconcilable differences". If one spouse sues the other for a no-fault divorce, it is impossible to lose because even if the other spouse claims that there are no irreconcilable differences, that in itself constitutes an irreconcilable difference. So the divorce will be granted.

    If the couple agrees that they should split and can agree on how to divide up all their shit, divorces can happen real quick. Even if they can't agree, if all their assets are liquid, it's easy to split their shit in half and send them on their merry way. The problem is if there are kids and/or property, disputes can arise and that is where things tend to get ugly. Also, if the couple is pissed at each other, they can try to "win" and get more out of the settlement. This, unfortunately, happens frequently.

    Fact of the matter is divorce sucks, and I would not wish divorce on anyone.

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  110. Solution to the problem: by earthforce_1 · · Score: 1

    When any user logs into your PC, pop up a brief dialog box warning that all use is being monitored.

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    My rights don't need management.
  111. Use of Company equipment... by lysium · · Score: 1
    The only strong argument I can think of for surveillance by employers is that the employee "consents."

    That is why most major companies that perform monitoring will display disclaimers on company PCs, perhaps as a login message, as a proxied web start page, or as a signature appended to email. There will probably be a page in the employee handbook as well.

    Failure to notify might put the companies in a delicate situation if action is taken over the content of transmissions. They do not necessarily have carte blance just yet.

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  112. Concern Is DYING by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Netcraft now confirms: Concern is dying

    Yet another crippling bombshell hit the beleaguered Concern community when recently IDC confirmed that Concern accounts for less than a fraction of 1 percent of all servers. Coming on the heels of the latest Netcraft survey which plainly states that Concern has lost more market share, this news serves to reinforce what we've known all along. Concern is collapsing in complete disarray, as further exemplified by failing dead last [samag.com] in the recent Sys Admin comprehensive networking test.

    You don't need to be a Kreskin [amdest.com] to predict Concern's future. The hand writing is on the wall: Concern faces a bleak future. In fact there won't be any future at all for Concern because Concern is dying. Things are looking very bad for Concern. As many of us are already aware, Concern continues to lose market share. Red ink flows like a river of blood. FreeConcern is the most endangered of them all, having lost 93% of its core developers.

    Let's keep to the facts and look at the numbers.

    OpenConcern leader Theo states that there are 7000 users of OpenConcern. How many users of NetConcern are there? Let's see. The number of OpenConcern versus NetConcern posts on Usenet is roughly in ratio of 5 to 1. Therefore there are about 7000/5 = 1400 NetConcern users. Concern/OS posts on Usenet are about half of the volume of NetConcern posts. Therefore there are about 700 users of Concern/OS. A recent article put FreeConcern at about 80 percent of the Concern market. Therefore there are (7000+1400+700)*4 = 36400 FreeConcern users. This is consistent with the number of FreeConcern Usenet posts.

    Due to the troubles of Walnut Creek, abysmal sales and so on, FreeConcern went out of business and was taken over by ConcernI who sell another troubled OS. Now ConcernI is also dead, its corpse turned over to yet another charnel house.

    All major surveys show that Concern has steadily declined in market share. Concern is very sick and its long term survival prospects are very dim. If Concern is to survive at all it will be among OS hobbyist dabblers. Concern continues to decay. Nothing short of a miracle could save it at this point in time. For all practical purposes, Concern is dead.

    Fact: Concern is dead

  113. Not so good by serutan · · Score: 1

    If this stands up to appeal, it seems to me that if you use a network packet sniffer to gather evidence against spyware/virus writers, it will be inadmissable unless you got a court order before doing it. Can't intercept their communications without their permission. Ridiculous!

    Clearly the law was not intentionally written to restrict individuals in this way. Maybe our legislators will think about fine tuning it a bit, before it becomes a factor in something like a serial child-murder case.

  114. Idea Shot Down Before It Got Going! by core+plexus · · Score: 1

    Dang! I just gave someone advise about setting up just such a thing. Hope they didn't install it on very many systems. Their ad was targeted at spouses and parents.

  115. Re:"Wiretapping" by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

    We might have 13 innocent people still alive today if the parents of Harris and Klebold had any idea what their kids were up to.

    They'd be alive if the parents simply paid attention - they left gun parts and crap lying around for months. Hell, what about the cops? They got a tip off a month in advance and blew it off.

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    "We returned the General to El Salvador, or maybe Guatemala, it's difficult to tell from 10,000 feet"
  116. Oh.... alright... by Baldrson · · Score: 1
    So they're fine upstanding citizens who are just doing their best under tought circumstances ... circumstances like:
    Let's open the borders to all kinds of nasties so that we can protect the citizens from them in exchange for their rights.
    Sounds like just what the founding fathers thought government should do ------- about the time it becomes the duty of every law-abiding citizen to create a new one.
  117. at which point, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You run afoul of the other point there--if the kids have no defense, the parents have no defense either. So enjoy having no right to privacy, sucker!

  118. No, it means the laws changed. by aug24 · · Score: 1
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  119. Depends on the state by lorcha · · Score: 1
    Florida permits 'irreconcilable differences' no-fault divorces. Contesting one is a Catch-22 because if the respondant claims a lack of irreconcilable differences, that in and of itself constitutes an irreconcilable difference.

    Most states' divorce laws recognize the basic fact that no court is going to be able to preserve a doomed marriage with the stroke of a gavel.

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    "Avoid employing unlucky people - throw half of the pile of CVs in the bin without reading them." -- David Brent