I can speak from the other (female) side of things!
Working out and "buffness" isn't the only factor. Find the right weight class!
I dated a really skinny guy (~115 compared to my 130, both about the same height) for a couple years. After being broken up with, I found somebody whose ribs and hips were not very visibly outlined at the surface level. Both guys worked out often enough to have muscle and tone. The second (and current) guy is *far* better for cuddling and sex.
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I can speak from the other (female) side of things!
Working out and "buffness" isn't the only factor. Find the right weight class!
I dated a really skinny guy (~115 compared to my 130, both about the same height) for a couple years. After being broken up with, I found somebody whose ribs and hips were not very visibly outlined at the surface level. Both guys worked out often enough to have muscle and tone. The second (and current) guy is *far* better for cuddling and sex.