Marriage is something unique to the people involved. There is no amount of reading that will prepare you for dealing with each other's personal quirks and problems. It's an adventure, on par with learning a new raid boss in WoW when you haven't read any strategies. It's just something you have to work out for yourself and do what you are comfortable with. Don't let social expectations force you or keep you from doing what you want.
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Marriage is something unique to the people involved. There is no amount of reading that will prepare you for dealing with each other's personal quirks and problems. It's an adventure, on par with learning a new raid boss in WoW when you haven't read any strategies. It's just something you have to work out for yourself and do what you are comfortable with. Don't let social expectations force you or keep you from doing what you want.