"I have the enormouse burden of being so very self-consciousness of the fact that I am a 23 year old Virgin who has never been on a date or even kissed a girl. Won't most girls see that as just incredibly pathetic? Thats my fear."
They won't know if you don't tell them. You're 23, the women you will go out with are (most likely)not looking to get married. You will (most likely) not have a serious/long relationship with any woman until you are closer to 30. You don't need to tell them the truth because they will be gone in a year or less anyway. Don't go looking for a wife just yet.
Start dating and having sex. You say you are in good shape, your only problem with getting laid will come from you. The women will want to go out with you and f*k you.
If you are still too insecure about being a virgin go grab the paper for the nearest large city. Pay for an escort and pay her extra to teach you how to please her. She will probably get off on the idea that she is teaching you how to please and she will definitely like the extra $$$. There is no need to fear telling an escort that you are a virgin. She f*ks people for a living. She doesn't care if you are good in bed, all she cares about is the money. You will never see this person again in your life so who cares if she thinks you are looser. Would you really care what a hooker thinks of you anyway?
There is nothing wrong with being a loner if that is what you prefer. There is nothing wrong with prefering to only socialize with people you find interesting.
Can you tell that this kid is unhappy with his life? Have you asked him if he wants to change? If the kid is happy with his life then you should let him be.
It is annoying that introversion has been targted as a problem. The only time it should be considered a problem is when it causes the introvert to be unhappy.
Stupid people outnumber smart people. If you are smart you will most likely end up living an introverted life because there just aren't that many smart people out there. It's hard to be an "outgoing person" when every social event is filled with idiots.
To a "normal" person TV and sports are about the most interesting thing you can talk about. To a smart person TV and sports are about the most boring thing you can talk about.
To a "normal" person science and philosophy are about the most boring thing you can talk about. To a smart person science and philosophy are about the most interesting thing you can talk about.
Why is one prefrence considered normal and the other abnormal? It's a numbers game.
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"I have the enormouse burden of being so very self-consciousness of the fact that I am a 23 year old Virgin who has never been on a date or even kissed a girl. Won't most girls see that as just incredibly pathetic? Thats my fear."
They won't know if you don't tell them. You're 23, the women you will go out with are (most likely)not looking to get married. You will (most likely) not have a serious/long relationship with any woman until you are closer to 30. You don't need to tell them the truth because they will be gone in a year or less anyway. Don't go looking for a wife just yet.
Start dating and having sex. You say you are in good shape, your only problem with getting laid will come from you. The women will want to go out with you and f*k you.
If you are still too insecure about being a virgin go grab the paper for the nearest large city. Pay for an escort and pay her extra to teach you how to please her. She will probably get off on the idea that she is teaching you how to please and she will definitely like the extra $$$. There is no need to fear telling an escort that you are a virgin. She f*ks people for a living. She doesn't care if you are good in bed, all she cares about is the money. You will never see this person again in your life so who cares if she thinks you are looser. Would you really care what a hooker thinks of you anyway?
There is nothing wrong with being a loner if that is what you prefer. There is nothing wrong with prefering to only socialize with people you find interesting.
Can you tell that this kid is unhappy with his life? Have you asked him if he wants to change? If the kid is happy with his life then you should let him be.
It is annoying that introversion has been targted as a problem. The only time it should be considered a problem is when it causes the introvert to be unhappy.
Stupid people outnumber smart people. If you are smart you will most likely end up living an introverted life because there just aren't that many smart people out there. It's hard to be an "outgoing person" when every social event is filled with idiots.
To a "normal" person TV and sports are about the most interesting thing you can talk about. To a smart person TV and sports are about the most boring thing you can talk about.
To a "normal" person science and philosophy are about the most boring thing you can talk about. To a smart person science and philosophy are about the most interesting thing you can talk about.
Why is one prefrence considered normal and the other abnormal? It's a numbers game.