At least you received the emails. Registerfly had my email wrong in my WHOIS information (even though it was correct on my account) so I never got the email. My hosting was through RegisterFly too and it went down for a few days. It was when I was looking into that issue that I found out about the Enom stuff. After calling both companies and finding I could push my domain to eNom for free. I called eNom and they did the whole processes while I was on the phone. RegisterFly tried to charge me transfer my domain back to them. Once I got it pushed to eNom I then proceeded to transfer my domain and hosting to GoDaddy.
I have a full write-up of my account here: http://preview.tinyurl.com/352bwj
At least you received the emails. Registerfly had my email wrong in my WHOIS information (even though it was correct on my account) so I never got the email. My hosting was through RegisterFly too and it went down for a few days. It was when I was looking into that issue that I found out about the Enom stuff. After calling both companies and finding I could push my domain to eNom for free. I called eNom and they did the whole processes while I was on the phone. RegisterFly tried to charge me transfer my domain back to them. Once I got it pushed to eNom I then proceeded to transfer my domain and hosting to GoDaddy. I have a full write-up of my account here: http://preview.tinyurl.com/352bwj