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Firm Pays 6.5 Million for Fax Spamming
Geopoliticus writes "This article over at the Chicago Tribune tells of a car dealership in St. Louis that will pay up to 6.5 million to people it sent junk faxes to. Now, if we could just get this kind of settlement for all the crap in my inbox I could stay unemployed forever." If I got a quarter for each piece of junkmail
in my inbox, it would cover having a pizza delivered to my house every day,
and still have enough left over to get a few comics to read each day while I
ate!
FP?
First icy beak rape post!
i think there's not enough sex on TV these days.
screw the CLiT! this is gonna be a war... AC's rule forever
Anyone have a registration username/password? Evidently, the NY Times strategy has paid off, and major newspapers all require logins now. I'm aware of the NY Times Random Login Generator but I don't think it can be modified to keep up with every Tom, Dick, and Harry newspaper. Just think, slashdot encouraged it, with constant barrages of links on the front page.
Shutting down free speech with violence isn't fighting fascism. It IS fascism!
Information wants to be free, so why should we have to give our personal details to view the article?
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crapfloods and trolling and raping small kittens
nice wider pages and wanking with mittens
turd report packages tied up with strings
these are a few of my favorite things
grits covered portman and ASCII art doodles
ACs and CLITers and Katz sex with poodles
wild trolls that fly with plus five mod scoring
these are a few of my favorite things
when the ban hits, when I can't post, when I'm feeling sad
i simply remember my favorite things
then i don't feel so bad
Rob Malda chugs penis in fan fiction slashes
taco snot over my nose and eyelashes
BSD dying and that goatse ring
these are a few of my favorite things
grits covered portman and ASCII art doodles
ACs and CLITers and Katz sex with poodles
wild trolls that fly with plus five mod scoring
these are a few of my favorite things
when the ban hits, when I can't post when, I'm feeling sad
i simply remember my favorite things
then i don't feel so bad
- poopbot: because even your grandmother can use lunix
The logon does not work after I changed the passsord on you. You should be greatful, afterall I could have had you charged under the DCMA.
la de da!
Congratulations on your appointment. Does the board of executives plan to blame the delisting on you because you are an arab? Open sourcers are ardent racists so I wouldn't put it past them.
Cunning linguists
The special night with mommy Kate;
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.She dried me off and laid me down on the bed and to my surprise she told me babies don't have any hair on there bottoms and she proceeded to shave my hair off! By now I was very excited! She then she told me to roll over and to my surprise she started to shave my bottom. I felt like a small child again! I laid there while she cleaned up the shaving stuff and when she came back she had a thermometer and said babies get there temperature taken in there bottom she pushed the thermometer into my rectum and made me hold it in there until she was ready to remove it. She said that I did not have a fever and that there was no excuse for wetting my diaper. With that statement she started spanking me with the paddle! I started to cry and she pushed the pacifier into my mouth. But she was not done punishing me yet. She started spanking me with a doubled over belt! Boy, was my bottom sore! She did not stop until I started jumping all around the bed! When she finally stopped spanking me she started to rub lotion all over my tender bottom until I stopped crying. Then to my surprise she pushed two suppositories into my rectum and told me to roll over on my clean diaper then she put lotion on my front and it sure felt good especially since there was no hair there! After spreading on some baby powder she fixed the tabs on the disposable diaper and pulled on the plastic pants . Mommy then tucked me into bed and gave me a big kiss goodbye she left saying I would be a very messy baby by morning!
The evening began with the call to inform her where to meet. While I was waiting I put on a diaper, plastic pants , and a pair of sweat pants. While I waited for her to arrive I wet my diaper twice! Boy is she going to be mad at me! Mommy warned me the last time I wet my diaper that if it happened again I would be punished and that I was to old to still wear diapers
Then came the knock on the door. I started to get butterflies in my stomach. When mommy came in she looked me right in the eyes and asked me if I wet my diaper. I was so scared I could not even answer her. She started to pull down my sweat pants and scolded me for wetting my diaper again. She removed my diaper and gave me a couple of good swats on my bare behind then she told me she would have to give the dirty baby a bath! She started to bathe me cleaning every part, especially my privates I was really embarrassed to have to be bathed by mommy
But that another story.
Thank you Mommy Kate
Love Baby Georgie.
million, dude, millions. they dont call him Commander of the Tacos for nothing.
I just changed the password, you suck. All is well.
Flamebait? How did you arrive at that conclusion?It's funny!
what are you now, 14?
Abuse in Same-Sex Relationships [reprinted with no permission from the authors] Nature of Abuse: Abuse in relationships is any behavior or pattern of behavior used to coerce, dominate or isolate the other partner. It is the use of any form of power that is imposed by one partner over the other to maintain control within the relationship. Abuse includes but is not limited to: Physical Abuse - hitting; choking; slapping; burning; shoving; using a weapon; physically restraining; intentional interference with basic needs (e.g. food, medicine, sleep) Isolation: Restricting Freedom - controlling contacts with friends and family, access to information and participation in groups or organizations; locking up in a room / restricting mobility; monitoring telephone calls Psychological & Emotional Abuse - constantly criticizing, ridiculing (self, family, friends, past); trying to humiliate or degrade; lying; undermining self-esteem; misleading someone about the norms and values of the gay/lesbian communities in order to control or exploit them Stalking / Harassing Behavior - following; turning up at workplace or house; parking outside; repeated phone calls or mail to victim and/or family, friends, colleagues Threats & Intimidation - threatening to harm partner, self or others (children, family, friends, pets); threatening to make reports to authorities that jeopardize child custody, immigration or legal status; threatening to disclose HIV status, threatening to reveal sexual orientation to family, friends, neighbors, and/or employers Economic Abuse - controlling or stealing money; fostering dependency; making financial decisions without asking or telling partner Sexual Abuse/Harassment - forcing sex or specific acts, pressuring into unwanted sexual behavior, criticizing performance Property Destruction - destroying mementos, breaking furniture or windows, throwing or smashing objects, trashing clothes or other possessions Common Myths About Abuse in Lesbian Relationships: "Women are not abusive - only men are." Anyone can choose to be abusive or not. "Lesbians are always equal in relationships. It is not abuse, it is a relationship struggle." Two women in a relationship do not automatically guarantee equality. Relationship struggles are never equal if abuse is involved. "Abusive lesbians are more "butch," larger, apolitical or have social lives that revolve around the bar culture." Abuse occurs regardless of race, class, religion, age, political affiliation, lifestyle, or physical attributes. "Lesbian violence is caused by drugs, alcohol, stress, childhood abuse." While these factors can be important, they do not excuse the abuse. "Lesbian abusers have been abused/oppressed by men are therefore not as responsible for what they do." This is an excuse; abuse will only stop when responsibility is taken for the abuse. "It is easier for a lesbian to leave her abusive partner that it is for a heterosexual woman to leave her abusive partner." It is never easy to leave an abusive relationship. Common Myths About Abuse in Gay Male Relationships: "Gay men are rarely victims of abuse by their partners." Men can be and are abused. This myth makes it particularly hard for men to come forward for help. "When violence occurs between gay men in a relationship, it's a fight, it's normal, it's 'boys will be boys.'" Using violence or 'taking it' is not normal; it is an unhealthy way to relate to others. "Abuse in gay male relationships primarily involves apolitical gay men, or gay men who are part of the bar culture." Abuse occurs regardless of race, class, religion, age, political affiliation or life style. "Abuse in gay male relationships is sexual behavior: it's a version of sadomasochism and the victims actually like it." In s/m there are mutually agreed upon verbal contracts between the involved parties. No such contract exists between an abuser and his victim.* "It is easier for a gay man to leave his abusive partner that it is for a heterosexual woman to leave her abusive partner." It is never easy to leave an abusive relationship. *This applies to lesbian relationships as well. Abuse in Same-Sex Relationships Versus Abuse in Opposite-Sex Relationships: What is the Same: Abuse is always the responsibility of the abuser and is always a choice. Victims are often blamed for the abuse by partners, and sometimes even family, friends and professionals can excuse or minimize the abusive behavior. It is difficult for victims to leave abusive relationships. Abuse is not an acceptable or healthy way to solve difficulties in relationships, regardless of orientation. Victims feels responsible for their partner's violence and their partner's emotional state, hoping to prevent further violence. Abuse usually worsens over time. The abuser is often apologetic after abusing, giving false hope that the abuse will stop. Some or all of the following effects of abuse may be present: shame, self-blame, physical injuries, short and long-term health problems, sleep disturbances, constantly on guard, social withdrawal, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, feelings of hopelessness, shock, and dissociative states. What is Different: Very limited services exist specifically for abused and abusive lesbians and gay men. Lesbians and gay men often experience a lack of understanding of the seriousness of the abuse when reporting incidences of violence to a therapist, police officer or medical personnel. Homophobia in society denies the reality of lesbian and gay men's lives, including the existence of lesbian and gay male relationships, let alone abusive ones. When abuse exists, attitudes often range from 'who cares' to 'these relationships are generally unstable or unhealthy.' Shelters for abused women may not be sensitive to same-sex abuse (theoretically, shelters are open to all women and therefore, a same-sex victim may not feel safe as her abuser may also have access to the shelter). Abused gay men have even fewer places to turn for help in that there are no agency-sponsored safe places to stay. In lesbian and gay male relationships, there may be additional fears of losing the relationship which confirms one's sexual orientation; fears of not being believed about the abuse and fears of losing friends and support within the lesbian/gay communities. What To Do If You're Being Abused: Recognize that you are not responsible for the abuse. Recognize that violence/abuse is not likely to stop on its own - episodes of violence usually become more frequent and more severe. It is important to break the silence. Try to tell someone who will believe you. Seek professional help from a qualified counselor who is knowledgeable about partner abuse and is lesbian/gay positive. A lesbian or gay male counselor with the above qualities may help you address the pertinent issues of abuse with more comfort and focus. Only you can decide what to do about your relationship - whether to stay or leave is your decision. However, it is important to develop a safety plan in case your safety and/or your children's safety is in jeopardy such as: a safe place to stay; emergency phone numbers; some money; your own bank account; post office box; and bag of essentials. What To Do If You're Being Abusive: Stop being abusive. Stop using abuse of any form (physical, sexual, verbal or emotional), including threats and intimidation. Accept responsibility for your behavior. Remember that the use of violence in any form is always a choice that you make. Do not make excuses for your violence or blame your partner for your abusive behavior. Recognize that assaultive behavior is unacceptable and is a criminal act. Seek professional help from a qualified counselor who is knowledgeable about partner abuse and is lesbian/gay positive. A lesbian or gay male counselor may help you address the pertinent issues of abuse with more comfort and focus. Alcohol, drug use or mental health problems are not excuses for abusive behavior. Seek appropriate help for these problems. How Can Friends/Relatives Help? If someone discloses or you suspect that he/she is being abused, don't be afraid to privately express your concern and offer to help. Possible ways to help include locating resources, encouraging safety planning, respecting confidentiality and being there to listen. Believe their experience - don't minimize it. Don't give up or criticize them. If a friend doesn't leave an abusive partner, understand it is not easy. Let your friend know that you will be there regardless. If someone you know is being abusive, tell them that violence and abuse are unacceptable. Encourage and support them in getting help to stop the violent behavior. Hold them accountable for their actions and the need to change. What Lesbian and Gay Male Communities Can Do: The lesbian and gay male communities must begin to break down the silences and defensiveness around the issue of abuse in same-sex relationships. The more it is talked about the easier it will be for individuals to identify and change their own behavior and to expect relationships that are mutually respectful and free from fear and any form of abuse. Get educated and help educate; work to include this issue in community papers and public forums. Advocate for treatment and services on the part of medical, legal, police and social services that is equal, accessible and sensitive to the needs of people who are in abusive same-sex relationships. How Professionals Can Help: All professionals need to examine their own attitudes and feelings and how these have been influenced by homophobia and heterosexism. Become aware of the silence and prevailing myths about partner abuse in lesbian and gay male relationships. Do not assume with either males or females that their partner is of the opposite sex. Respect your client's anxieties about disclosure of sexual orientation, which may be based on real fears of discrimination and its effects on child custody, family support, job security, and/or deportation. Choices about disclosure of orientation and same-sex relationships are those of your clients and theirs alone. It is important to impart acceptance of your client's sexual orientation. Clients who have been abused by a same-sex partner may initially have issues of trust with a professional of the same sex. Learn about and encourage the use of supportive social networks within and outside the lesbian and gay male communities. Community Resources in Metropolitan Toronto: Assaulted Women's Helpline (416) 863-0511 Free 24 hour hotline provides confidential crisis counseling, emotional support, information and referrals to assaulted or abused women. The David Kelley Lesbian and Gay Community Counseling Program - Family Service Association of Metropolitan Toronto (416) 595-9618 Day and evening hours, by appointment 355 Church St., Toronto, M5B 1Z8 Victim Assistance Program (416) 392-6877 519 Church St. Community Center Provides support, information and advocacy for people who have experienced any hate motivated violence, based on sexual orientation or same-sex partner abuse Two Spirited People of the First Nations (416) 944-9300 Has partner abuse program, by appointment These agencies have expertise in same-sex partner abuse and can provide assistance and counseling. They can also provide referrals to other agencies as needed e.g. addictions, counseling, child protection, medical and legal help. This list of resources will change as new programs develop in the area of partner abuse. Consumers and professionals alike can find current listings of services and therapists through directories (such as The Rainbow Book, which can be purchased at the 519 Church St. Community Center) and through these phone lines: TAGL (Toronto Area Gays and Lesbians) (416) 964-6600 Lesbian/Gay/Bi Youth Line (416) 962-9688 Further Reading: Chesley, Laurie C et al. Abuse in Lesbian Relationships: A Handbook of Information and Resources. Republished as a chapter in "Lesbian Health Guide," edited by Regan McClure and Annie Vespry. Toronto: Queer Press, 1994 Island, D and Letellier, P. Men Who Beat the Men Who Love Them: Battered Gay Men and Domestic Violence. New York: Haworth Press Inc., 1991 Pharr, S. Homophobia: A Weapon of Sexism. Little Rock: Chardon Press, 1988 Lobel, K. Naming the Violence. Seattle: Seal Press, 1986. Sonkin, D.J. and Durphy, M. Learning to Live Without Violence: A Handbook for Men. California: Volcano Press, 1989. Web Resources: Gay and Lesbian Domestic Violence Bibliography Advocates for Abused and Battered Lesbians Rainbow Classroom Network GALE - Gay and Lesbian Educators of BC List of other links Acknowledgments: This handbook was authored and produced by the Violence in Same-Sex Relationship Information Project, which consists of: Bernie Finnigan, MSW, CSW, Donna MacAulay, MSW, CSW, Nick Mule, MSW, CSW This project was funded by a grant from the Lesbian and Gay Community Appeal of Toronto and a grant from the City of Toronto "Breaking the Cycle of Violence" Grants Program 1996. To Contact CASSPA: Write To: Coalition Against Same-Sex Partner Abuse c/o David Kelley Lesbian/Gay and HIV/AIDS Services 355 Church St. Toronto, Ontario M5B 1Z8 Or Phone: (416) 925-XTRA, ext. 2141 Copyright 1997 Home | What's New | Events | About Us | Custody & Access | Abuse Signs | Friends & Family | Communities | Professionals | About Abuse | FAQs | Emotional Abuse | Same-Sex Abuse | Deaf & Disability | Disability Directory | Publications | Links | Donations | Français | Need Help Now | Safety & Privacy Contact info@womanabuseprevention.com with questions or comments © Copyright 1997-2000, Education Wife Assault Site updated Sunday, November 25, 2001.