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Some Geek Guides for Dating

Posted by ryuzaki0 on from the words-to-live-by dept.

An anonymous reader sends in this: "In honor of upcoming V-day, here are some geek guides for help in finding your geeky match: Guy's Guide to Geek Girls, Girl's Guide to Geek Guys, advice from a she-geek, Engineer Your Love Life and Bart's Dating Guide for Geeks. And for those of you who are absolutely hopeless, well, there is always Coincidence Designs... It's not too late, so good luck!" Another reader has some good news: "An article in Discover magazine reports on research done by scientists at the University of Toronto about how males attract mates. The cited article claims that when males are young, the show offs are actually the ones who are least likely to succeed later on. This causes a "revenge of the nerds effect:" the football players burn out but the nerds become sexy!" And if all else fails, you can try a Valentine's Day Form Letter.

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  1. Games for your Valentine by Reedo · · Score: 5, Informative

    Here's another article in honor of Valentine's Day - A guide on how to get your Valentine hooked on gaming!

    http://www.gametab.com/features/valentines.1/

  2. Girl's Guide Different Version Link by RobTheJedi · · Score: 5, Informative

    http://www.neystadt.org/john/humor/Girls-Guide-To- Geek-Guys.htm"

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  3. Re:www.fastseduction.com by drsquare · · Score: 5, Informative
    No, that's bullshit. That site is great. It tells you how to get laid quickly and often with whatever women you want. The main problem with it is that it shatters people's illusions about what they currently believe. For instance, if you want to succeed with it, you'll have to drop the idealistic bullshit beliefs that women are innocent, delicate creatures who like caring, sensitive men who fawn over them and buy them flowers.

    Also, it means you have to actually be prepared to go and talk to women you've never met, out of the blue. That scares a lot of men off.

    If you want a long, drawn-out romantic relationship with a women where you might get a whiff of her snatch after 6 months of present-buying and supplication, or you want to stand about and hope a woman seduces you every few years or so (i.e. you get 'lucky' ever so often), or you want to die a sad loser who was too scared to take control of his own life, then there's nothing for you here.

    However, if you want to turn yourself from a shag-less loser into someone who can shag any woman, anywhere. (And before someone comes in to say that you'll only be able to get sluts, that's bullshit. Any woman can be seduced by these methods, intelligent, decent, attractive women. All women like sex, all women like being seduced.)

    If you're a complete seduction newbie, I'd recomment reading this: http://fastseduction.com/guide/. It tells you the basics of getting laid, including the following main ideas:
    • Have balls of steel. When you see an attractive women, approach her, immediately. Don't sit there and drool over her for months in the hope that one day she'll realise what a caring, sensitive intellingent bloke you are and fall into your arms. If you see a woman you want, and you don't have the balls to even talk to her, you don't deserve her, and you won't get her.
    • Don't listen to what women say: watch what they do. Women say what they're supposed to say, not what they want. They say that you're such a nice bloke, but she doesn't want you, and she goes off to shag some bastard who treats her like shit. Actions speak, words are meaningless.
    • Don't be desperate, don't fawn over her. Don't buy her things every day, and do everything she says. Make yourself unavailable, make her think you've got more exciting things to do than be with her, or even better, make her think you've got more exciting women. Success breeds success, the more women you shag, the more other women want you. If other women have shagged you, you're pre-approved to her.
    • It's not what's on the inside that counts, it's what's on the outside. You may be a decent bloke who's good in bed etc, but if all you do is stand about feeling sorry for yourself, the women won't know that, they'll just think you're a loser. Sure, if you're fat and ugly, you could blame your lack of success on your lucks, and you could comfort yourself with the thought that your failure is due to women being shallow, but that won't get you results. If you're good in bed, if you think you can satisfy them in ways few other men can, make them know it.
    • Don't be ashamed of your desires and your needs. When women sleep with bastard men, it's not because they're stupid, it's because they're not scared of their sexuality, they don't blush and hide away when talking about sex, as if it were bad mannered. Don't apologise for being a sexual being. So-called 'nice guys' turn off their sexuality, and come accross as dull and asexual. Good for a friend, but not for a fuck.
    • Don't be their friend. Women don't fuck their friends.
    • Don't be scared of failure. When you try it on with a women and fail, don't go and hide in your basement for 5 years in disgrace, go and find another women. Eventually, you will lose the fear of rejection (which is what holds most men back), and you will become successful.


    Of course, most of this is just basic common sense and psychology, but this site puts it into words. The hardest parts are a) Having the balls, b) Shattering your illusions.

    So instead of sitting behind your computer whining on a Friday night, go out. Approach a hundred women, get rejected a hundred times, and enjoy it. Go back and do it the next night. Don't be the loser who stands in the corner all shy, hoping a woman will come to him. Be the man who goes and talks to the women, who seduces them. Be the man who has whichever women he wants lying naked on his bed. It's not too late, you CAN change. Do it.