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Too Much Tech Diminishes Work Relationships?

Lansdowne writes "The Seattle Times has an article today on Tim Sanders, a Yahoo exec who claims too much technology may be bad for your health. According to Sanders, small groups of engineers who went to completely electronic communication in their workgroups became 'very lonely, depressed, negative, anti-social, brilliant people.'"

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  1. uhh by TapTapTheChisler · · Score: 5, Funny

    'very lonely, depressed, negative, anti-social, brilliant people.' in other words, nothing changed

    1. Re:uhh by m_chan · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well, they _are_ in engineering. If they were self-actualized, happy, positive, gregarious, blustering idiots they would be in marketing.

    2. Re:uhh by red+floyd · · Score: 5, Funny

      No, they're lonely, depressed, negative because they had to deal with marketing!

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    3. Re:uhh by bluesangria · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I disagree. That's a typical and often incorrect stereotype. Being analytical and logical has nothing to do with being anti-social. As human beings, we ALL need some kind of human contact to keep us content. An extrovert may desire human contact more often than an introvert, but both still require some.

      Further, isolating yourself from people will actually make you are *worse* IT employee or engineer. Why? Because you forget how to put yourself in other people's shoes. By not doing that, you end up designing tools, devices, or software that are counter-intuitive and difficult for people to use. Raise your hand if you've never asked yourself "WHY did they design this gizmo/software this way? It's stupid!"

      I'm currently struggling with similar burn-out at work as mentioned in the article. Everyone is so in love with the idea of technology, they've lost sight of whether or not adopting a new technology would actually be beneficial in the longterm. They believe that everything would be "so much better" if it ran on computers, and that's just not the case. I spend hours taking care of servers, networks, software, etc. that I forget why I'm even doing this in the first place and stop caring about the users. After all, I never see any of them.

      just my $.02 blue

  2. Everything I need to know... by PakProtector · · Score: 5, Funny

    ...I learned from Maxis' The Sims. If your or your Sim's social bar drops too low, bad things happen.

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  3. perhaps thge other way around? by ethelred · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Perhaps the "very lonely, depressed, negative, anti-social, brilliant people" are simply attracted to technology, and not necessary a product of it...?

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    1. Re:perhaps thge other way around? by NetworkDweebs · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I agree, too many people out there who are technology whores, and most of their technology never really accomplishes anything useful for them. That is the reason I've given away about 6 PDA's, my talking billy mouth bass, and plenty of stuff from ThinkGeek. I'm much more productive with just my laptop and a wireless connection than an arsenal of useless gear to babysit.

      Call me old fashioned, but I still thrive on human interaction regardless of how obsolete it may be these days. Really, given if we all had the money, I'm willing to bet there are more people like me who would get rid of all of their technology and live a more simple, fulfilling life.

    2. Re:perhaps thge other way around? by Bluetrust25 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Your post reminds me a little of one of my clients who always calls with huge lists of changes instead of just laying them out in email as bullet points and sending them over.

      "Okay, here's the next one, are you ready? Okay. Bold and italicise the words 'previously used' on paragraph two of question three."

      Drives me absolutely batty. I get the impression that he read on the MSN home page ten tips to increase his career and tip #8 was something like, "Call, don't email. A personal touch is always appreciated..."

      Bah. Just email it to me and I'll take care of it at my earliest convenience, don't call, interrupt me from what I'm doing, and make me transcribe your directions. Not all of us enjoy being interrupted from our work to take notes.

      I really like email. It makes my business a lot easier. I just go down the list, taking care of email after email from clients. When I'm done, I can stretch and do something different. Calls interrupt that natural checklist-like flow by forcing me to break off what I'm doing and take care of their issues first. In email I can even be polite and cordial even when I don't feel like it!

      You do use email when it's appropriate, right?

      The worst ever is when someone calls AND emails. "Hi, I just sent you an email containing a list of changes!"

      (You fucking loser!) "Sure. I'll be looking for that shortly. Thanks!"

      (click)

  4. Flawed experiment (and conclusion!) by JeffTL · · Score: 5, Insightful

    First off, the experiment involves the fast reduction of quantity of several social relationships. Socialization is habit-forming. You could get the same effect from taking a small group of pot smokers and switching them to tobacco. Second off, the conclusion is fallacious. The problem supposedly demonstrated is not so much too much technology as too little socialization, though for my money, the problem is the sudden removal of habit-forming face-to-face interpersonal communcication.

  5. Attitude by Godeke · · Score: 5, Funny

    I have noticed that as I have done most of my work remote this last year (remote desktop technologies instead of onsite visits, IM and e-mail instead of phone discussions) that I have become a surly bugger.

    It has started to carry into my regular life: people are interruptions not whatever they used to be...

    And here I am posting to slash.

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  6. Limits... by Woxbert · · Score: 5, Interesting

    "He began to have relationship difficulties at work because he used e-mail, at one point, to communicate everything to his employees, be it good or bad."

    This quote from the article makes me wonder whether we're reading too much into it. This is someone who replaced face to face communication with his employees. That's not a problem with technology: that's him being irrespsonsible.

    I think (hope) that we all know there's a time and place for technology. Things like employee appraisals and agreeing big pieces of work should really be done face to face.

    The question that we thought was being answered was whether having more technological gadgets would create problems for people in themselves?

    I'm in the camp who believe that technology actually improves relationships when used appropriately, rather than damages him.

    Friends overseas? It's a shame they're not here, but I can use ICQ to keep in touch with them.

    Feel like a drink? I can call around my friends to see who's around.

    Really want the obnoxious sex-mad guy to come? Just snap a photo/video of the cute girl next to you and he'll be along in a jiffy.

    People can do more, in less time, with more people.

    Everyone wins. Especially the communications companies.

    1. Re:Limits... by rainwalker · · Score: 5, Funny

      This quote from the article makes me wonder whether we're reading too much into it. This is someone who replaced face to face communication with his employees. That's not a problem with technology: that's him being irrespsonsible.

      FOOL!! Don't you realize that it is impossible for him to be responsible for his own actions?! No one can exert any control over their own lives! We all dance to the music played by forces beyond our control! Have you already forgotten that fast food makes people fat by forcing them to overeat? Personal responsibility is a myth perpetuated by those who want to limit your personal litigation, er, freedom!

  7. Balance by Snake_Plisken · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I work at a large web hosting company. We got a lot of bright people working for us that most of soceity would see as introverted. We got people locked away in secure rooms for most of their shift, etc - the human part is what makes working there a good thing. We are a very social company in the hallways, meeting areas, etc. Most people (including myself) say that they have very good friends at work, but few outside its walls. To a varying degree, we are a big 400 person family where I work - I think people (ok, myself) need to have the human interaction in order to maintain themselves. Technology roxxors, but there needs to be people to talk to, even if it is anime or what level your 3rd edition Ranger is.

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  8. Near-Miss by Penguinshit · · Score: 5, Interesting


    You know, when I started my career in IT, I was the happy helpful SysAdmin. I would cheerfully respond to request after request because I loved helping my fellow employees have a positive computing experience.

    I never understood why people always thought SysAdmins were grumpy and belligerent.

    However, now after a decade of thankless shit-catching, I am that grumpy and belligerent SysAdmin who believes that users are a fucking plague of idiots set loose in Biblical proportions upon my otherwise Utopian computer networks.

    Comments such as "your message titled 'Virus Warning - Happy New Year' had the word 'Virus' in it, so I deleted it to be safe, but then I opened the next one that had an attachment called 'Happy New Year'. Now my computer doesn't work right..." (honest-to-God true story) have made me tend to side with the machines while watching such movies as "Terminator" and "Matrix", and to create tools named for the Borg which enforce draconian administration of my networks.

    Are we anti-social because of the machines, or because people are morons?

  9. Correlation != Cause and Effect by kakos · · Score: 5, Informative

    As many people have already pointed out, there is simply a correlation between technology and unhappy, depressed, anti-social geniuses. This is the easiest mistake a person can make when looking at correlations.

    As any beginning psychology student can (should) tell you is that a correlation does not indicate a cause and effect. So, from this, we see that unhappy, depressed, anti-social geniuses use a lot of technology. We have a strong positive correlation between technology and depressed geniuses. It could be that technology causes it, or it could be that depressed geniuses like technology, or it could just be a coincidence.

    In order figure out which it is, experiments need to be performed. Observation alone cannot figure this out.

  10. Nothing Changes by Gonoff · · Score: 5, Interesting

    People have been criticising new technology for a long time.
    For example, about 150 years ago, someone said how young women should not ride bicycles because it made them less attractive, had bad effects on their health & fertility and gave them grumpy looking faces.
    More recently, it was forecast that telephones would cause people to loose touch with their friends and family. ffs Many people here only contact their family on the phone.
    Up to the present, they said that children who played with their PC and consoles would be less able and mentally active than children who didn't. Then they realised that the kids who "didn't" were all on the couch watching TV. Any kid who was online or playing games was actually using their brain.

    Conclusion?
    People have been moaning about new ideas, music and technology for a very long time. I'm sure Aristotle had something to say on the matter and if his statement was put into a modern paper, nobody would notice. (if it was translated first!)

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  11. Odd by Piquan · · Score: 5, Funny

    I work from home. My coworker just IM'd me this link. You think they're trying to tell me something?

  12. Working alone makes you lonely, not computers by neglige · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I think the problem here is that workers who work alone (with the help of a computer) become lonely. Makes sense. But that is a problem with the surroundings, not with the computer.

    I work at the university, couple of hours per day at a computer. Still, the co-workes and I have lunch together, take the time off to grab a coffee, or just wander over into the room next door to have a chat.

    So if you feel lonely/depressed, try to work with a group of people (you like - that, of course, is a prerequisite), close to them, maybe in the same room.

    And... maybe... don't reload the Slashdot page every minute! (SCNR)

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  13. From Personal Experience by Kirin3 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I'm certainly not going to be one of those folks who says an immediate 'yes' or 'no' to the question of technology turning us into things that we all know we're perfectly capable of without technology, but here is a different spin from some of the comments I've been reading:

    (Keep in mind this is based on personal experiences)

    - Many people do not own a landline phone unless they have ADSL.
    - Many people do not use email anymore due to spam.
    - Many people do not use IMs as they are far too many in number, and again have the spam issue.


    This means they are often unavailable to a real-time communications, potentially emergency communications.

    Some people take it to extremes, avoiding people by not using the methods they know their friends or family use, or by leaving everything to voicemail/email/IMs and simply ignoring messages. It's amazingly easy to ignore people when you have caller ID on your phones too.

    Of those who do stay connected (often via every means possible), here are some behaviors I've noticed:

    - Many people are getting obsessive about checking email, how much they're getting, and how they can get more without subscribing to mailing lists.
    - Talking on the cellphone during obviously inappropriate and/or plain dangerous activities.
    - Leaving their status as 'online' on all IMs to maybe increase the chance somebody wants to talk.
    - Gotta have a landline, cellphone, PDA, MP3-man, [insert nifty new devices here].


    I think more than anything, the current state of technology and communication is forcing the shy folks into hiding, and giving an amazing opportunity for all the people (worthy or not) of all that extra exposure to expose whatever it is they want to.

    You're going to get morons. You're going to get brilliant individuals. And their profession really doesn't matter any more than it used to, the pace of life and the introduction of technology is simply accelerating people's reactions too.

  14. It's a dominance issue. by Population · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If I want you to drop everything and service me, I am superior.

    If I am talking and you are writing, I am superior. Think old time boss and secretary. Boss talks, secretary takes dictation.

    Dominance games are usually the worst means of communicating anything other than who is dominant.

    Suppose a person who has an emotional need
    to establish dominance over others also likes tech toys? There are lots of these people. They buy the latest toy just because it is the latest toy. They have an emotional need to have something before other people have it.

    But those toys don't give them the dominance feedback that they also need. They play with their toys and the discover there is something missing that the toys aren't providing.

    Get therapy. Find out why you want the newest toys. Find out why using them makes you feel "isolated" and "alone".

    I'll send email to someone sitting right next to me. But only if I think he's busy on a project and wouldn't like to be interrupted or if I can more clearly express myself in an email (or to cover my ass by having a digital record).

    This isn't about technology. This is about people interacting with other people.