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Internet Porn More Addictive Than Crack, Senate Told

applemasker writes "Wired says that the Senate heard testimony today that internet porn is 'worse than crack.' Senator Sam Brownback (R-KS) called it the most disturbing hearing he'd ever heard in the Senate, saying that porn is ubiquitous now but compared to when he was growing up and 'some guy would sneak a magazine in somewhere and show some of us, but you had to find him at the right time.' Can someone submit a FOIA request for his browser history or cache?"

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  1. And in other Congressional news... by daveschroeder · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...a bill passed into law extending the ban on taxing internet access, a move that is very good for consumers.

    Of course, this being slashdot, we'll post a story about it before the vote, not update it when the desired vote actually occurs, not post a new story about it passing, and instead post a story about a lone Senator's response to a University of Pennsylvania scientist's valid research opinions[1] (just as valid as, say, some sociology students alleging studying shaky, unprovable statistical anomalies in Florida voting, even as the MIT/Caltech Voting Project says there was no widespread fraud, tampering, or errors).

    Surprisingly, a person who works at a sex toy shop called Good Vibrations doesn't agree with the researcher's conclusions!

    Let's just face the facts that some people are more prone to addictive behaviors, and it can happen with anything: drugs, shopping, gambling, sex, and yes, pornography. The putative argument is that with the abundance of free porn on the internet, a porn addiction has the potential to be much more damaging, since it doesn't require the resources that other common addictions might. This is perfectly valid; it doesn't imply that everyone will be addicted to porn (or anything else), nor does it mean that internet porn will be "banned". It simply says an addiction with a free neverending supply can be harmful.

    Is anyone the least bit surprised or concerned that a conservative Christian Republican senator from Kansas found the testimony "disturbing". How is this news?

    (And as for the crack in the summary, believe it or not, there are some people who probably haven't had occasion to view porn on their computers. No. Really.)

    [1]Mary Anne Layden, co-director of the Sexual Trauma and Psychopathology Program at the University of Pennsylvania's Center for Cognitive Therapy, called porn the "most concerning thing to psychological health that I know of existing today."

    "The internet is a perfect drug delivery system because you are anonymous, aroused and have role models for these behaviors," Layden said. "To have drug pumped into your house 24/7, free, and children know how to use it better than grown-ups know how to use it -- it's a perfect delivery system if we want to have a whole generation of young addicts who will never have the drug out of their mind."

    Pornography addicts have a more difficult time recovering from their addiction than cocaine addicts, since coke users can get the drug out of their system, but pornographic images stay in the brain forever, Layden said.

    1. Re:And in other Congressional news... by DAldredge · · Score: 5, Insightful

      They do not want to solve the problem, if they did they wound not pass fucked up laws that said if the person in the porn LOOKED like they where under the age of 18 it was child porn. IOW, if you took a picture of your wife and the judge thought she looked under 18, you would go to jail...

      They just want to keep bringing this up every 16-18 months so they will look like they are doing something.

    2. Re:And in other Congressional news... by frankthechicken · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Protecting children from porn is no different in my eyes than protecting them from cigarettes.

      And, in a similar vein, let's face it, protecting childern from porn is no different from protecting them from forms of violence. And what is more natural?

      What leads to greater worries? What is more damaging? Hell, what is more informative?

      Personally, I'd rather teach my kids through visual media sex than how to kill, maim, torute people.

      Why do we perceive a natural act to be less suitable for our kids to view?

      We let our kids see caricatures of violence, but shield them from perceptions of sex, personally I see that as being a little bit strange.

    3. Re:And in other Congressional news... by SnapShot · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Welcome to four more years of life under the rule of the Red States. Just remember the following and you'll be okay.

      Breasts bad! Guns good!

      Books bad! FOX good!

      Facts bad! Faith good!

      Environment bad! SUV good!

      Freedom bad! Patriotism good!

      Endangered Species Act bad! USAPAT RIOT act good!

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    4. Re:And in other Congressional news... by h4rm0ny · · Score: 5, Insightful


      Why do we perceive a natural act to be less suitable for our kids to view?

      It's about power. Sex is freedom, sex with who you want is more freedom. Sex is the purpose of everything - if you're having sex then you're winning the game. If you're having sex with more people than the president is, then in evolutionary terms, you're beating him. Wealth? For men it's a means to attract a mate. Power? For men it's a way to drive off rivals. Sex is what it all comes down to. If you want control over other people. If you want real control over them, you need to control their sex lives. Without that, you've got no hold over them that they wont break.

      Violence? Violence is just a nasty little game that the powerful can beat you at everytime.

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    5. Re:And in other Congressional news... by h4rm0ny · · Score: 4, Insightful


      Oh and I'm sorry to reply to my own post, but one last thing to add to that list....

      Women. Women are the key, they give or withold sex, they choose or reject the mate. At least that's the way it was in evolutionary terms. If you want an explanation about why the powerful subjugate and repress women so violently, reject female sexuality so utterly, that is why.

      A woman who is sexually free determines the success or failure of the males around her by her choice and that takes away from the alpha male's power over his lessors.

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      Aide-toi, le Ciel t'aidera - Jeanne D'Arc.
    6. Re:And in other Congressional news... by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 5, Insightful
      You mention killing, maiming, and torturing. BDSM is common in pornography

      BDSM is not killing, maiming, or torturing. A pro football game is closer to killing, maiming, and torturing than what goes on in most BDSM scenes.

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    7. Re:And in other Congressional news... by aiken_d · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Children exposed to porn without any understanding of its falseness could well develop misunderstandings and bad attitudes that screw up their sex life when they grow up.

      ...as opposed to the way it's just fine for children to be exposed to Star Wars, the Lion King, or the Love Boat without any understanding of their falseness?

      And I'm not sure there's any more value to making generalizations about "most" porn than there is in making generalizations about "most" men, "most" blacks, or "most" Ukranians. If most of the porn you've seen is misogynistic, maybe you're largely watching misogynistic porn for some reason?

      I hate this whole "I'm so smart that I can deal with porn, but the poor children are so stupid and impressionable that we need to protect them" argument. It's arrogant, condescending, and intellectually cheap, all at the same time.

      And listen to this last sentence: you think porn is more harmful to children than violence. Now, either you think that seeing a Playboy centerfold is worse for a kid's health than being, oh, say, shot (!), or you that images of sexual activity are more harmful than images of brutality. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume the latter, but even that's a totally ridiculous position. If media images and bad parenting can turn a good kid into a raving misogynist who has "bad attitudes" about sex, surely those same images can turn him into a brutal killer who has "bad attitudes" about conflict resolution. Either kids are morons who ape what they see in the media or they're not. Pick one, and stick with it.

      Cheers
      -b

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    8. Re:And in other Congressional news... by killjoe · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Porn is fantasy, fantasy is by definition that which is very hard for you to obtain.

      Porn is full of horny women who want nothing more then to have sex with you and who enjoy it immensely during the process.

      You may think that's ugly but it's simply the thing males want because they don't have it. If your wife/girlfriend/randomgirl desparately wanted you and enjoyed sex with you immensely then you probably would not be watching so much porn.

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    9. Re:And in other Congressional news... by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Let's just face the facts that some people are more prone to addictive behaviors

      Sometimes I yearn for the good old days, when "addiction" was a meaningful concept.

      Used to be addiction was a definite syndrome of drug use marked by tolerance, withdrawl, continued use in the face of health problems, and repeated failed attempts to quit.

      Then the drug warriors noticed that this pattern doesn't occur with some of the drugs they wanted to demonize and ban. So the concept of "psychological addiction" - i.e., you really like to do something we don't want you to do - was born.

      Then the pseudo-moralists and control freaks (a group with a larger overlap with the drug warriors) noticed that this vague new definition of addiction could also be applied to gambling, porn, and other behaviors they called "sinful". Bam! Now we all get to be addicts.

      Yes, there are people who engage in stupid and unhealthy patterns of behavior involving porn, gambling, love, sex, TV, music, friendships, religion, computers, the net, fandom, and pretty much anything else. But lumping these all under the label "addiction" is not helpful, except to authoritarians, the burgeoning "treatment" industry, and "twelve step" cults.

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  2. Crime? by Tablizer · · Score: 5, Insightful

    When was the last time somebody was arested for busting into a house to steal e-porn from a harddrive?

  3. Sex is not a drug. by h4rm0ny · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Internet pornography is the new crack cocaine, leading to addiction, misogyny, pedophilia, boob jobs and erectile dysfunction, according to clinicians and researchers testifying before a Senate committee Thursday.

    Pornography leads to boob jobs? May I ask why this is being presented to the Senate Committee on Science, Technology and Space Subcommittee? Now I'm not an advocate of pornography but if I were going to argue against it, I'd try to base my arguments on less personal-value laden arguments than this. And that's leaving aside dodgy use of science. Example:
    "That is, it causes masturbation,
    Suggesting that boys and girls don't masturbate without pornography? Children masturbate before they even understand sexual attraction, let alone requiring pornography post-puberty.

    But here's another highlight,

    Judith Reisman of the California Protective Parents Association suggested that more study of "erototoxins" could show how pornography is not speech-protected under the First Amendment.
    Erototoxins? Is this an attempt to re-brand a need for sexual stimulationas a medical condition again? You know that way they could overturn any constitutional protections under the guise of medical treatment, much like drug companies are pushing their drugs that render people resistant to illegal drugs. Why do I get the feeling that these people would like to be able to prevent sexual desire wherever they deem it innappropriate.

    The whole basis of this article seems to be that somebody has shown correlation in the brain between pleasure from drugs and pleasure from sex... as far as I understand the article, the correlation appears to be something called, um... pleasure.

    I think if you watch a lot of pornography, then that can distance you from other people and perhaps interfere with forming a healthy relationship with your parter, but who knows - it's just my feeling. I don't think anyone with a brain whichever side of the argument they fall on could see this article being anything other than bollocks.
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    1. Re:Sex is not a drug. by Lord+Kano · · Score: 5, Insightful
      • Erototoxins? Is this an attempt to re-brand a need for sexual stimulationas a medical condition again? You know that way they could overturn any constitutional protections under the guise of medical treatment, much like drug companies are pushing their drugs that render people resistant to illegal drugs. Why do I get the feeling that these people would like to be able to prevent sexual desire wherever they deem it innappropriate./UL


      • You have just nailed it. These people seek to exert control of all behavior by controlling access to pain relief and pleasure.

        All drugs that are really worth anything are strictly controlled. They now wish to control sexuality. It's a ploy, and a weak one at that.

        LK
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    2. Re:Sex is not a drug. by Bastian · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I think if you watch a lot of pornography, then that can distance you from other people and perhaps interfere with forming a healthy relationship with your parter

      I've had more problems with books doing this to me, let alone Civ III.

    3. Re:Sex is not a drug. by BWJones · · Score: 4, Insightful

      What you need to realize is that there has been a movement in the last few years to roll back the scientific method in favor of a new dark age much like what happened to the United States back during prohibition. Then, like now, there was a large religiously based movement toward a definition of "morality" in opposition to science and progress. Back then, a significant portion of the American people were told what and how to believe and they lined up like sheep to follow a few who promulgated their beliefs onto those who wished to be led by the nose. All you have to do is look at what is being proposed as science in this Senate Committee, in the hearings that led up to the current Iraqi conflict, and many other areas of law like the proposals to roll back evolution education in favor of "intelligent design" (which sounds an awful like the marketing geniuses that came up with "compassionate conservative").

      There is a most distressing lack of scientific knowledge amongst our law makers and it is showing in everything from decisions on technology issues to the often fraudulent supplement industry, to censorship and others.

      I am not supporting pornography as it is most decidedly not victimless, however, these folks on Capitol Hill are clueless about science, how science is performed and how one acts on scientific hypothesis and testimony like this only serves to weaken positions and make a mockery of the political process.

      Erotoxins.......oh jeez. You have got to be kidding me. This is right up there with covering up the breasts on statues of Lady Liberty. Only perverts are this obsessed with issues like this and are more disturbing to me than people obsessed with pornography, perhaps simply because they are obsessed with what others are doing.

      These folks need to read some of the basic science behind addiction and understand that anything can be addictive. Yes, some things are more addictive because of their pharmacology or biological implications, but to say pornography is more addictive that crack cocaine is a farce.

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    4. Re:Sex is not a drug. by h4rm0ny · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In my case, however ... my partner likes to watch it as much as I do.

      That's your privilege (and your partner's). It's a big world with room for lots of views. My reasoning is something like this:
      • Sex is best with someone you love.
      • Pornography tends not to show this as part of sex, or even a possibility. Perhaps it would just distress many of the intended audience for a variety of reasons.
      • If pornography is a regular part of someone's life, or comes along at an important time in someone's life, say when they're still ignorant of what sex is, then perhaps they'll idealise this less emotional and purely physical sort of sex. They'll be missing out on so much.

      Other people may disagree with any of those three steps, and they're quite welcome to dispute with me here, but first acknowledge that unlike the people in this "news" story, I'm not trying to ram my views down anyone's throat.

      Most people probably can't aspire to the sort of physical qualities displayed in porn films. Nor do I think they should want to. But if this is all they see, if they don't become aware of the tremendous potential in the emotional side of sex, then maybe they'll always be less satisfied than they would be if they realized they can trump the porn stars every time with just a modicum of tenderness.

      imho ;)
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    5. Re:Sex is not a drug. by Mycroft_VIII · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A ploy perhaps, but certainly NOT a week one.
      Controlling a societies sexual outlets is one the major tools for controlling a society.
      Just look at the TWO major things almost all religeons do(especially those that wield significant power in the world), tell you you need thier permision to have sex and tell you as long as you follow thier rules that you'll live forever (or equivilant) with rewards. They also tend to tell you that all that is wrong (painfull physically or emotionaly) in your life comes from NOT following thier rules. Governments tend to do the same.
      Look at how some of the best advertising works.
      Once you have a group of people by the gonads they'll do whatever you say, and probably praise you to sky in the process.
      Weak? It one of the shurest roads to power for any group.

      Mycroft

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  4. FTFA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful
    "Marriage really does, unlike other addictions, biologically cause direct release of the most perfect addictive substance," Satinover said. "That is, it causes intercourse, which causes release of the naturally occurring opioids. It does what heroin can't do, in effect."

    Speed dating is dangerous because it removes the inefficiency in the delivery of future partners, making sex much more ubiquitous than in the days when guys in trench coats would sell nudie postcards, Satinover said.


    OK, maybe that broke down a little at the end there. But the point is, porn isn't addictive - sex is.
  5. Here it comes... by TempusMagus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This going to get worse and worse now that the Republicans (notice I don't say conservatives) have control and the Christian Right feel like they are owed something for shutting up and not scaring the moderates away like they did during the Clinton era elections.

    There is a lot of porn on the net and if you arent some by-product of the very culture that is so freaked-out about it in the first place you'd probably find it as boring and silly as it truly is.

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  6. What is wrong in being addictive? by u19925 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Coffee is addictive and so is tea and so are many other things in life. Some people are addicted to books. I have never seen senate debating library addiction PROBLEM? Before they should discuss internet porn addiction, they should show clearly that it is a problem which needs immediate addressing. Americans access more internet porn then many other nations in middle east, africa etc, but I don't think those countries have any less sexual crimes than USA.

  7. I Fucking Hate When They Do This by oobob · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Addiction is a reification, and that's where the problem comes in. We've blurred the use of addiction in society until the abstract definition of addiction - the need to perform some behavior compulsively - determines the connotation of the word. The only meaning of the word addiction that applies to physical reality is that version that arises from biological adaptation to the ingestion of substances, which some people (alcoholics, for one) are much more prone to. Continued use develops continued need, and soon, their bodies (literally) depend on the substances for normal functioning, as they have stopped producing sufficient amounts of affected neurotransmitters on their own.

    The other connotation of addiction is the one we refer to in common speech - when a person repeats behaviors, regardless of the consequences or his/her own inclination to do so. So we speak of those addicted to shopping, grooming, sex, or any other behavior a person focuses on for what others would deem an unhealthy period of time (this behavior is almost always a vice, or capable of becoming one in excess). This is where our definitions overlap and the problem first appears. Any thought or behavior is necessarily biological. What's more, for all of human history, people have tried to resist pleasure, such as eating or sex, that is innately tied with both biological reward and negative consequences. And in this way, the reward and the strong drive to perform the behaviors that bring about this reward are abstracted on the basis of their biological similarity (the same brain rewards both behaviors) and the strikingly similar behaviors of those deemed addicted (when you want to do something, you do it). But when we do this, we overstep the bounds of the word addiction, and soon we start regulating all human behavior associated with pleasure, negative consequences, and an obsessive quality into the category of addiction. Now, if you think that a reasonable definition of addiction is one that can apply to any pleasure-deriving activity, including every vice, that's your opinion. It just happens to be a very wrong one.

    It's hard not to do the things we like. They make us feel the same (happy) as heroin makes heroin addicts feel (happy). And for all of human history, we've been trying to figure out how to suppress the human tendencies toward pleasure that can hurt and destroy us. But when we speak like this, we replace a deeper understanding of human action with the shallow descriptions of behavior we read in magazines. I used to smoke cigarettes, and I occasionally smoke pot. When I quit smoking, I felt nuts, like I was losing something that my body depended upon. When you're a smoker, you can't remember what it was like to be a non-smoker - to go a day without thinking of a cigarette. It was the hardest thing I've ever done, and if you non-smokers could imagine that suffering, you'd know what we mean we when talk about addiction. When I stop smoking pot, I feel upset that I'm not doing what I like to do, and I want to smoke. But I when I stopped smoking cigarettes, I couldn't think, my head felt like it was being smashed, and I wasn't able to register anything other than my shaking and desire for a cigarette.

    There is a biological reality to real addiction. The rest is human behavior and the same attraction to vice that we've lived with for years. While this is necessarily biology, it arises naturally from human behavior, and is not caused by physical adaption to external agents and chemicals that act upon the body. This is a critical distinction, and not one easily understood by half-rate thinkers, people who read magazines, and those who've never wanted a cigarette.

    This shit gets so old. First comes convincing people that others aren't in control of their actions. That's the only way a person can say "stop doing this action, even though it doesn't affect me, because I don't like it" without getting laughed at. Listen to this quote from the article: "Pornography really does, unlike other addictions, biolog

  8. Please don't by DAldredge · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Please do not group all Christians into the same category as these people. Not all Christians believe that the government should be used to force our values down others throats. Besides, this isn't really about Christianity or religion, it is about power and the ability to control people.

    Hell, if these people in congress really believed what they say they believe they would act and vote differently.

  9. Sex ed causes brain damage by jamie · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Judith Reisman's full testimony is here...

    Pornography triggers myriad kinds of internal, natural drugs that mimic the "high" from a street drug. Addiction to pornography is addiction to what I dub erototoxins -- mind-altering drugs produced by the viewer's own brain.

    How does this 'brain sabotage' occur? Brain scientists tell us that "in 3/10 of a second a visual image passes from the eye through the brain, and whether or not one wants to, the brain is structurally changed and memories are created - we literally 'grow new brain' with each visual experience."

    [...] Any highly excitatory stimuli (whether sexually explicit sex education or X-Rated films) say neurologists, "which lasts half a second within five to ten minutes has produced a structural change that is in some ways as profound as the structural changes one sees in [brain] damage...[and] can...leave a trace that will last for years."

    Pornography psychopharmacologically imprints young brains - thereby invalidating notions of informed consent. [...]

    A basic science research team employing a cautiously protective methodology should study erototoxins and the brain/body.

    This is mumbo-jumbo as far as I can tell. Note how quickly Dr. Reisman -- her Ph.D. is in Communications, and she has no education in medicine -- goes from coining a brand new word to describe something she cannot prove exists ("what I dub erototoxins") to using that word as if the substance is real ("study erototoxins"). Along the way she uses partial quotes out of context, and prepends her views on pornography to a quote that matter-of-factly describes an obvious fact about the brain.

    And if you missed it -- yes -- she is railing against "sexually explicit sex education." She is saying that sex ed causes brain damage.

    This is the same woman who thinks the Catholic Church should sue because priests molested children.

    1. Re:Sex ed causes brain damage by Bodrius · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Also, a minor nitpick, but what IS a "Brain Scientist"?

      Is that like an Eye Doctor? Or a Budget Man?

      If you're going to bother to invent technical words (erototoxins) to replace real, existing, technical words (hormones, neurotransmitters et al), or to go ahead and talk about psychopharmacological implants... it would be sensible to name the specialty whose findings you're quoting (neurologists, psychiatrists, cognitive scientists, whatever).

      Particularly if you're making the case that memory is brain-damaging sexual abuse (the informed consent bit).

      By that logic, to avoid leaving traces in the brain of highly excitatory stimuli, all minors should be stored in sensorial deprivation tanks to be fed approved stimuli by their parents.

      It's the only way to avoid brain damage!

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  10. "Bus signs stopped me from fucking children" by andy@petdance.com · · Score: 5, Insightful
    From http://www.wired.com/news/technology/0,1282,65772, 00.html
    The panelists all agreed that the government should fund health campaigns to educate the public about the dangers of pornography. The campaign should combat the messages of pornography by putting signs on buses saying sex with children is not OK, said Layden.

    "I was gonna go fuck the neighbor boy, but the bus sign reminded me not to," testified recovering child fucker N.Curable-Sicko. "Until now, nothing had been able to stop me from having my way with them, not even the prospect of being sent to prison where I'd be raped constantly. Now, with the bus signs, I'm able to control my urges."

  11. I think what they really mean to say is... by Howard+Roark · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Internet porn is more addictive than Christ.

    And it has them worried.

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    I believe in a Man's right to exist for his own sake.
  12. Re:porn better than crack by bhsurfer · · Score: 5, Insightful
    what about it? my belief is that the people who have marriage problems as a result of porn are highly likely to have marriage problems ANYWAY, likely due to lack of the ability to communicate honestly with each other about their sexual needs.

    and, no pun intended, i say "fuck them". go get some therapy or something and leave the internet alone for the others who either know how to incorporate porn into a healthy lifestyle, aren't interested in it, or aren't interested in other people and rely solely on porn. this desire to legislate "morality" is much more evil and harmful to a truly free society than pornography.

    people always have and always will have emotional problems, but that's not my problem (or most other peoples either) so why should the rest of the world be penalized for someone's lack of ability to handle their own life? these bible-thumping right wingers sure don't mind forgetting all about personal accountability and responsibility when it's a topic they disagree with, but hey, say it loud & say it proud - sex is here to stay! put that in your communion wafer and smoke it, mr sexually repressed government tool.

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  13. Re:porn better than crack by dourk · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If I couldn't look at net porn and rub one off every so often, I sure wouldn't be able to deal with the stress my wife lays on me.

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  14. Re:porn better than crack by NoMercy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You know, some people use porn as part of keeping a marage alive and interesting...

    Though it takes two to tango, and normally one or the other probably objects to porn.

  15. reality... by MadAhab · · Score: 4, Insightful
    I worked in a video store... It's not a safe assumption that one or the other objects. It was very common, for instance, to see a guy rent a porn flick and a girl to return it the next morning.

    A difference of willingness is a fair bet with, say introducing a third party into the sex relationship (jealousy is very common), but I can't possibly tell you how many couples enjoy porn together, based on what I've personally observed. Models, Ivy leaguers, union members, women's college grads, Christians, Jews, blue collar workers, Midwesterners, Europeans, Asians, gay men, African-Americans, lesbians, nerds, virgins; outside of religious fundamentalists, I can't think of a single group I haven't personally observed to show enthusiam for porn (well, maybe Arabs, but I'm not ready to lump them in with their fundamentalist brethren just because I lack sufficient cultural exposure). Except for Canadians; they might just be Satan's squeaky clean naughty milkmaids. Come here, Canada; you need a spanking.

    People like to alter their consciousness (with drugs or otherwise). People like porn. Get used to it, and try to minimize harm. And frankly, that is 10,000 times more important than any particular moral bugaboo (and if you think otherwise, clearly you favor societal harm over disrupting your personal mental illnesses).

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  16. Re:Wait. by Dyolf+Knip · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Crack, heroin, gambling, the big three right now--they all have the very real potential to take every dime a person owns without ever looking back, and for this reason they are legislated against.

    Lemme see here. Someone doesn't like XYZ, so we'll make it illegal, thus driving it onto the black market, where the cost will rise by a factor of 100 and quality control will drop to null, and trade in the product will fall entirely into the domain of criminals. And when all that's done, and we're arresting 800,000 people a year for being caught holding a plant, then we'll pat ourselves on the back on what a kindly service we're doing making these expensive, dangerous, criminal drugs illegal. Do you really think heroin is illegal because it's expensive, or is it perhaps the other way around? May I remind you that hemp and marijuana at one time could be found growing in road-side ditches along half of all US roads? it's not called 'weed' for nothing.

    Have you ever read some of the claims early proponents of prohibition made about drugs? They are farcical beyond the limits of credulity. The sort of things that only someone who was out to ban a product no matter what the reality would say. In fact, it sounds a lot like the outrageous claims the Kansas senator is spouting. How wonderful, Ashcroft kicks off the War on Copying, followed closely by the War on Porn. Give these guys a few more years, I'm sure they'll work their way through the entire dictionary of things to declare war on.

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  17. Re:No, that's how it is in human society by gold23 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I can't believe no one else has responded to this.

    Here's a reason why a man might stay with a wife and kids: love. Do you really believe our ancestors were so fundamentally different in their emotions that they valued "ownership" above love?

    I dispute your assertion that in "most" cases in the wild, "the strongest male has all the women and no responsibility for the children". Certainly in some cases the former is true, but not most. And the males of any species will have "biological" responsibilities; that is, they will seek to increase the survivability of their offspring.

    Finally, I think your math is wrong if you believe 90% of women marry up. Where is that figure from? How many generations do you think that figure could hold?

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    Trust not a man who's rich in flax / His morals may be sadly lax
  18. Re:No, that's how it is in human society by Dominic_Mazzoni · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Now that this sense of ownership is gone (and has been replaced by a new breed of woman who have all the privileges and none of the responsiblites of marriage), men are leaving in droves. Hence the high devorice rate and number of fathers who won't support their children.

    I call bullshit, since most divorces are initiated by women

  19. It does suck, it does. by Grendel+Drago · · Score: 4, Insightful

    As True Porn Clerk Stories put it...

    I get sort of conflicted about throwing kids and teenagers out of the porn section. I really don't want them down there, not because I think sex is dirty or bad, but because I don't want them to think that that's what sex is about. The stuff on our boxes is sex in the basest, sometimes most brutal terms - naked women spreading their relevant orifices and making that Porn Face. Unless you're talking about the Max Hardcore series, which involves women with "SLUT" and "WHORE" written across their foreheads in lipstick. And besides - do we really need to raise another generation of men who can't deal with pubic hair?

    So I don't feel bad about getting them out of there, except that I'm very conscious of the fact that I'm a woman while I'm doing it. I worry that I'm either setting up or reinforcing the idea that there are fun, bad women who like sex and good, boring women who restrict access to sex.

    I always want to debrief them. "Hey, guys, it's cool that you're curious, but this isn't the way to find out. Porn is fine, but it's not real sex. Real sex is great, and even good girls love it, but it has to be a two-way street..." But I always just end up with "Sorry, guys - come back when you're 21." Perhaps I should write a children's book. Porn Is Healthy and Fine, but Only as a Temporary Physical Release.


    It's true. Most of it is just incompetent, but some of it is actively... repulsive. Well, to me at least. The "Bangbus" stuff that was so, so popular on the campus network just left me kinda icked out. Where's the fun in degrading someone like that?

    Now, compare that with Buttman: The Fashionistas, in which everyone's having a grand old time beating the heck out of each other. Because the participants wear wackier clothing and hit each other, it's supposedly more perverse... but I find it a lot more wholesome than "Bangbus" or anything in a similar mold.

    'Course, given that I get all my porn from the internet, or make it myself, I probably don't have a representative sample.

    Perhaps I'm missing something. Is there something terribly alluring about bullying women? It's like being in high school again.

    I'd like to hear uplifting and affirming stories about good porn, if anyone has 'em.

    --grendel drago

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    Laws do not persuade just because they threaten. --Seneca