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A Pay Cut for Personal Growth?

As as follow-up to an Ask Slashdot from earlier this week hatch815 asks: "I have recently been extended an offer to come work as an engineer for one of the internet search companies. In responsibility, this will be a step back, as I am currently in a management role, but as a career direction, it will provide me with unlimited exposure, learning, and advancement. The place where I work now is a small non-IT centric shop. Although I am management, I am at the top of the ladder. The tough decision is the pay decrease I would take if I did take this new position. Is the prestige and exposure worth giving up responsibility? I am too stuck in the big fish small pond mentality? Is going back to the forefront better than the psuedo-management I do now?"

89 comments

  1. Go with what will make you happy by Morgalyn · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If you are happy with your current position, I'd say stay. If you are yearning to be more hands-on and less managementy, and your lifestyle won't take a major hit by the move, then totally go for it. If you have family to consider, make sure you talk to them about it first, especially if you will have to move / make major spending changes (depending on the difference in pay).

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    1. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Atlantic+Wall · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I agree. I left a high paying management Job, for an IT job that i love. In the end i am happier because i am learning more and growing as well. Being at the same job, postion, and state everyday gets boring and eventually the money will not matter, Take the chance now. Eventually your new job will pay you more in money and peace of mind. Make a mistake now is better than making one later

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    2. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Fuzzle · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Best advice. Don't worry about career or money, unless those are what make you happy. Just do what you enjoy, and the rest will fall into place.

    3. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Seumas · · Score: 1

      Best advice: Take whatever pays the most. Houses, cars, vacations, dates, wives, children, food and hobbies are not free. If you're concerned about "prestige", what is more prestigious than money? Geek prestige only counts in certain circles. Money prestige counts everywhere. Plus, if you make a lot of money, you can afford to have fun rather than trying to pretend to be humble and enjoy things that aren't really all that fun.

    4. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Morgalyn · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Whoa dude slow down. All the money in the world isn't worth it if you don't enjoy your job. As long as you make enough to support yourself, you should always try and do what is going to make you happiest at the end of the day. If you are utterly shallow and can only focus on the 'prestige' that money can bring, then fine, whore yourself away at whatever job pays the most. That way you can become a bitter old person who never focused on what was important in the real world, and instead just focused on the bottom line. It's attitudes like this that make all these large corporations we all seem to love to hate.

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    5. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful
      > Whoa dude slow down. All the money in the world isn't worth it if you don't enjoy your job.

      If I have all the money in the world, and I don't enjoy my job, I can quit.

      > As long as you make enough to support yourself, you should always try and do what is going to make you happiest at the end of the day.

      I'm not a genius. Someday, my present skill set will be obsolete. Someday after that, there'll be more stuff to learn than I can pick up before it too becomes obsolete. When that happens, I will be obsolete. Because I'm aware of this, what makes me happiest at the end of the day is knowing that if I make enough money between now and then, I will no longer need a job to support yourself.

      > If you are utterly shallow and can only focus on the 'prestige' that money can bring, then fine, whore yourself away at whatever job pays the most. That way you can become a bitter old person who never focused on what was important in the real world, and instead just focused on the bottom line.

      Except for a few s00per-geniuses, most of us are probably going to be unemployable at around age 45.

      Given that, you've got a choice: be bitter from 20-45, and end up unemployable, but with a million bucks in the bank with which to find an un-bitter way of spending your years from 45-80. Or be happy from 20-45, only to yourself unemployable and broke, which means that years 45-80 are going to be spent eating microwaved roach shit.

      It ain't about pride. As they said in Pulp Fiction, "fuck pride."

    6. Re:Go with what will make you happy by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      Except for a few s00per-geniuses, most of us are probably going to be unemployable at around age 45.

      Have you told Bill Gates he needs to retire? If employment ends at age 45 then being 43 and disabled I might as well drop out of college and roll over and die.

      Falcon
    7. Re:Go with what will make you happy by manifoldronin · · Score: 1

      Give me all the money in the world and a job, I'll enjoy it.

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    8. Re:Go with what will make you happy by cbryant · · Score: 1
      Up to my most recent job, I was trying to balance both the expectation of a family in the near future, and the desire to learn more about my industry. I too worked in a job where there was little advancement opportunity, but where my salary was a little higher due to its management nature than I could get as an engineer. When an opportunity came along that would move me from a management path to an engineering path, I had to consider the long-term possibilties. And, I discussed it in depth with my fiance. The key was that opportunities may exist later on that would offer better money than I'd ever made because I had both extensive management experience and technical experience on top of that. Luckily these opportunities exist within my new job, too. For me, it really came down to agreeing with my family. I hate to sound like a softy, but there's a lot of experience in my family and what they feel is best is generally (OK, in my case always) right. The long-term is the key. What choices best support that...

      Cheers.

    9. Re:Go with what will make you happy by YrWrstNtmr · · Score: 1
      Except for a few s00per-geniuses, most of us are probably going to be unemployable at around age 45.

      BWAHAHAHAHAHA

      BWAHAHAHAHAHA

      Allow me to laugh my ass off.
      Sorry....couldn't help myself. Seeing as I just started a new job at age 48, that is just too damn funny.

      My dad, computer geek from WAY back, who was teaching computer classes for MicroCenter, quit his job just shy of his 81st birthday.

      My old shop, average age was around 40. New, bigger, shop, average age around 45 or so.

      Again....BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    10. Re:Go with what will make you happy by NateTech · · Score: 1

      Isn't the pursuit of total happiness even more shallow than the pursuit of money?

      Thinking that you're always going to be happy is retarded. No matter what job you have, you'll always have both good and BAD days, no matter how much you "love" it.

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    11. Re:Go with what will make you happy by Morgalyn · · Score: 1

      No no no no. I am not talking about some sort of crazy zen 'total happiness'. I'm talking about baseline happy. Like, the absence of unhappy - that is, you don't have to force yourself out of bed just to go to work. Have you ever had work that was so unfulfilling, so obnoxious, so whatever, that you didn't even want to leave the house, dreaded going in to work? It happens to some people with some jobs. They are unhappy, and not just 'oh I had a bad day' but UNHAPPY. This fellow in the article is not UNHAPPY, but he might be HAPPIER in general with one type of job over another. Engineering might be a better 'fit' for him, or management might. Do you understand?

      As far as the 'shallowness' of pursuing happiness - at least happiness is something that can be experienced without outside definition. Money (paper or electronic) is intrinsically worthless - it only has value because our society gives it value. Happiness is something you can value with or without outside definition - it is personal.

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    12. Re:Go with what will make you happy by NateTech · · Score: 1

      So maybe the guy ought to figure out why he's unhappy and forget about changing jobs? (GRIN)

      That's all I'm basically saying. Happiness doesn't (usually) come from jobs.

      I think we generally agree.

      I was just taking that further to the extreme and saying that chasing jobs for happiness is silly.

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  2. The risk. by JVert · · Score: 1

    Whatever. I wrote a big paragraph on the risk of staying vs leaving.

    It comes down to this. You have kids? Stay where you are at. As long as the company is not going to go under anytime soon its not worth putting your family through the stress of you working the ladder again.

    This is not a rule just an opion, responses to this can state their own opinion but cannot prove me wrong.

    1. Re:The risk. by killmenow · · Score: 3, Interesting
      It comes down to this. You have kids? Stay where you are at. As long as the company is not going to go under anytime soon its not worth putting your family through the stress of you working the ladder again.
      Well, I'll add my two cents. I do not necessarily agree. I have four children. I quit my job last year to start my own business. On a wing and a prayer. I have told my children more times than I can count: the only thing you can gamble on in this world is yourself. it's the only thing you have any control over. I thought it better to teach my children to follow their dreams, take risks, and try, try again to succeed...rather than to keep the safe job and work 30+ years taking orders from somebody else.

      Now, to be fair, had that job had any of a number of certain qualities...I might not've taken that risk even though running my own business has always been a personal dream of sorts. Anyway, I'm happier this way. Even if I fail and lose everything. It may make for some difficult times for my family, but it will not kill us and the risk is worth it, imho.
      This is not a rule just an opion, responses to this can state their own opinion but cannot prove me wrong.
      My head asplode.
    2. Re:The risk. by (A)*(B)!0_- · · Score: 1
      "the only thing you can gamble on in this world is yourself."
      That's simply not true. You CAN gamble on many things. I think what you mean to say is that you should only gamble on yourself.

      Let's hope someone else is teaching your children how to communicate and use the language.

      ZING!

    3. Re:The risk. by JVert · · Score: 1

      I'll agree with that. I have more respect for striking out your own dream buisness then working for the worship of a large corporation.

    4. Re:The risk. by symbolic · · Score: 1

      Kudos - if doing your own thing ethically and honestly is every bit as important to you as doing your own thing, I wish you success.

  3. What's Your BATNA? by Doug+Dante · · Score: 1

    BATNA = Best Alternative To Negotiated Agreement

    Can you take your extra salary and go get an advanced degree somewhere?

    Or max out your 401K and retire 5 years earlier, at which time you can choose to work for yourself?

    Or can you work out an arrangement where you take 75%-80% salary for 4 days of work a week? How about EVERY Friday off?

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  4. Grow up and grow a pair by IainHere · · Score: 1
    Seriously, no-one here can offer you any useful advise. It's up to you.

    • Do you enjoy your current job?
    • Do you need the extra money?
    • Do you think you'll enjoy the other job more?

    I'm currently working out my notice at a software development and management job, and I'm taking a university research post. It pays less, but I don't really need the money, and I know I'll enjoy the research job more. It really is as simple as that. That doesn't make the decision any easier if there are complications - in my case, I have three young children, one of them only a month old, and the new job is a long way away. But stuff like that no stranger can help you with.

    That said, TAKE THE INTERESTING JOB AND GET OUT OF MANAGEMENT NOW!

  5. Depends what gives you greater satisfaction by Ridgelift · · Score: 1

    I took a cut to escape management and be on the front lines. At the end of the day, I was more interested in doing the tech role and gaining the approval of technicians and not "suits". Bottom line: what do you love, working with technology or having technology work for you. The former would be the techs, the latter sales & management.

    It's all about personal choice. I'm happy with the choice I've made.

  6. Google! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny


    Why don't you stop being lazy and just type "Pay cut for personal growth in Google"
    Damn, people just don't know how to research their proble...

    <embarassment>
    oh, wait...

    (come on, you know someone did this ;)

    1. Re:Google! by c0bw3b · · Score: 1

      hahaha

      Your search - "Pay cut for personal growth" - did not match any documents.

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  7. Your valuation methods is flawed. by hackwrench · · Score: 1

    Responsibility:
    Top manager at a small shop.
    Engineer for one of the internet search companies
    To value this situation, first you have to decide how much responsibility both businesses have in the overall scheme of things, then your responsibility in the business.

    You are overlooking the potential for pay raises and promotion.
    Look at your choice of words: pseudo-management? Is the company you are working for now going to be around much longer? Do you really want it to be around for much longer?
    Does the word bureaucrat appeal to you?
    How do you relate toHermes Conrad? You have been given a job offer. The terms should be negotiable. If you can't negotiate terms that are acceptable to you, then don't take it.
    This is also an opportunity to look at other jobs.
    If your current position doesn't make you highly marketable, you'd better find out why not.

  8. I did this twice, never again by gruntvald · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I thought I was getting some excellent experience, and I was, but I could have achieved the same result if I'd spent my extra income on some targetted certification. The pay cut just wears at you. I'd recommend confirming this by making an accurate cash flow for yourself. Once you've got your bottom line "I must make this much to operate my household" dollar figure, see if the offer covers that. Then think about how much excess cash is left over for "fun". If there isn't any, it's unlikely to work out.

  9. Personal Satisfaction by bleaknik · · Score: 3, Informative
    My personal advice: Money is not everything. Ask yourself these questions:
    • Does this new job pay your bills?
    • Does your current job offer you a greater sense of self-satisfaction when the day is over?
    • Do you like Psuedo Management roles? I personally, do, but it may not be for you.
    • Is there room for growth? If you don't like your new job title as well as you could, are there promotion opportunities?
    I guess the biggest thing you have to worry about is your bills. Sure everyone likes a fatter paycheck, but all in all more money doesn't make you happy. Money only keeps you happy for a short while, after that happiness expires it becomes a question of personal satisfaction. Without personal satisfaction in your career choice, you're always going to dislike going into work. You're always going to dislike your job.

    What do I know, though?
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    1. Re:Personal Satisfaction by innosent · · Score: 1

      Along the pseudo-management line, what exactly do you mean by this? If you mean you manage less than five people, but have complete or near-complete control the direction of the company's IT business, then I'd say stay where you are until you run out of new ideas. Think about things like increasing productivity, automation, VoIP, and B2B e-commerce. If you have an interest in things like that, you can still grow in the position you are in, and will have an easier time quantifying your value to the company when it comes time for raises, spin-off companies/divisions, or moving on to the next job. I work in the healthcare segment as a CIO/CTO, and personally get much greater joy out of cutting costs by 20%, increasing business, and integrating diverse components of the company through technology than I would out of being a code monkey for Google. Getting your hands dirty integrating everything but the snack machine is supremely satisfying, especially when the end result is that both you and the company profit from it.

      Keep in mind, though, that an engineer at a search company might be worse than where you are now. You may find yourself bored to tears, working on a project you think is useless, and lacking the power to do anything about it. In other words, power is sometimes more important than money, and in a lot of cases, both are more important than working for a specific company. Take a good look at what you will be doing on a daily basis if you switch. There are a few exciting areas in search, but a lot more that could be considered "programmer hell". As a side note, as a management type, I would be far more impressed with what assets you brought to your previous employer than who your previous employer was. I'd hire a programmer who made 10 people redundant at his previous job with Waste Management before I'd hire the one who wrote the code to display a different picture each day for Google/Yahoo/whatever. There are a lot of good people at search companies, but more than half of them are nothing more than programmer drones that code up the latest design from management.

      Of course, that's just me. I can't stand working on the exact same piece of code for more than about 2 days. A low to mid-level programmer position at Google would be tedious to me in a week (except for the days for personal projects, of course, I think that part is absolutely brilliant of them). I like being able to work on different subjects in IT and choose the next subject on a continual basis, it keeps things from being monotonous. Monday I'll install new servers, Tuesday I'll do some web services, Wednesday is management, maybe accounts receivable for Thursday, and VoIP for Friday, whatever. I keep a list of things that have to be done, and areas I want to look into, and just mix it up a bit. Some things you will like, some you won't, but being in control of your career makes it a lot more enjoyable overall.

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    2. Re:Personal Satisfaction by bleaknik · · Score: 1

      You raise some excellent points!

      Once your bills are paid, it doesn't matter if you make $5,000 more at one job than the next. What does matter if you're happy with what you do.

      Some people, as you've pointed out, enjoy working on several different projects and being able to manage a wide array of resources.

      Other people prefer to work the "Code Slave" jobs for all eternity.

      When it comes down to it, do you enjoy what you'll be doing? Forget any office, title, or salary--those don't give you satisfaction with your job.

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    3. Re:Personal Satisfaction by eraserewind · · Score: 1

      What you say about money is true to a certain extent, but most jobs in the same industry are not *that* much different. It'd have to be a special job indeed for the magnitude of the "greater sense of self-satisfaction" from doing your work to outweigh the "greater sense of self-satisfaction" from being well rewarded for doing your work. I am dubious whether there are many jobs in the sw industry that are that much special. They all seem pretty similar to me once you get past the superficial differences.

    4. Re:Personal Satisfaction by bleaknik · · Score: 1

      You're very right. A programming job is a programming job, and it doesn't matter where you're working. I would like to point out, though, that corporate values also play a role into this equation. There are places that the environment is a wonderful place to work thanks to great management or great corporate philosophies. There are also places that the environment is generally negative. When you are looking for a new job, it's generally a good idea to ask questions about the corporate culture, the work environment, and try to get to know the people you're going to be working with/for as best as you can.

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  10. Dear Slashdot by bcrowell · · Score: 5, Funny
    Dear Slashdot,

    I've been going out with this one woman, Sara, and I really like her, but recently I met this other women, Gina, and she's really cool too. Which one should I pick?

    1. Re:Dear Slashdot by SwimsWithTheFishes · · Score: 4, Funny

      I you are posting on Slashdot, then both those women are blow-up dolls. Keep them both.

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    2. Re:Dear Slashdot by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 1

      I don't know the answer to your question, but I can tell you that you should keep them both for now, and try to have sex with each one of them in a single day. If you don't, you'll always regret not being able to say that you scored with two different chicks in one day.

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    3. Re:Dear Slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      > I've been going out with this one woman, Sara, and I really like her, but recently I met this other women, Gina, and she's really cool too. Which one should I pick?

      Slashdot poll:

      1) Sara
      2) Gina
      3) Breasts!
      4) CmdrTaco

    4. Re:Dear Slashdot by killmenow · · Score: 4, Funny

      This reminds me of an old joke about men:

      A man had been dating three different women, all of whom he enjoyed very much. He actually felt he was in love with each of them, but he realized he could not keep up seeing all of them and he needed to pick just one to marry. The problem was: he couldn't decide. After a great deal of thought, he finally came up with an idea. He would give each of them $1000 and see what they did with it.

      So, he gave each the money and waited. The first woman spent the money on herself, bought new clothes, had her nails and hair done, etc., and said she wanted to look good for him. The second woman spent the money on him, bought him gifts, etc., and said she just wanted to show him how much he meant to her. The third woman took the money and invested it, tripling it to $3000 in a week.

      After he saw what each woman did with the money, he thought for a while, then disregarded the whole thing and married the one with the biggest tits.

    5. Re:Dear Slashdot by gstoddart · · Score: 1
      Dear Slashdot,

      I've been going out with this one woman, Sara, and I really like her, but recently I met this other women, Gina, and she's really cool too. Which one should I pick?

      Ideally ... ply them both with alcohol and suggest a threesome. Then stand back until it all goes to shit and you're left with neither. It's a self-correcting problem.
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    6. Re:Dear Slashdot by robomalo · · Score: 1

      Well said.

    7. Re:Dear Slashdot by billcopc · · Score: 1

      Thank you for saving my day! :D

      I hadn't heard that one in ages! cracked me right up

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    8. Re:Dear Slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The one with the bigger tits of course

  11. Do what you want. by kabocox · · Score: 1

    I'd tend to think that if you are 30-40 go ahead and job hop. It'll be your last move. If you are 38+ with a wife and kids just out of college or entering college, I'd stick with your current job with more money.

    If you are 20-30, unmarried without kids, go ahead and switch jobs. You are free at the moment anyway. If you are 18-23 and some how got into the top job, I'd stay there if I were you. But that's me. It's your life; it's your decision; we slashdot posters have our own lifes to play out. Go ahead and just live yours.

  12. Obligations? by musicon · · Score: 1
    I'm assuming from your post that you're single, and don't have a family to support or other obligations. Therefore, it essentially comes down to whether you're happy with your current job, and whether you are happy staying in your current position. Do you foresee moving to the new job, learning the ropes, and then climbing the ladder to the same place you are now?

    Also, don't forget to look at things like benefits (ie, vacation, insurance, 401k, etc.)

  13. Do what you love.... by SwimsWithTheFishes · · Score: 1

    ...the money will follow.

    Two years ago had almost this same decision to make.

    I switched. I love it. Now as just a nerd, I make more than I did as the "big fish in the little pond" manager.

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    1. Re:Do what you love.... by Colonel+Panic · · Score: 1

      ...the money will follow.

      Unfortuneately, the money seems to have lost the scent. Maybe if I sit still for a while it'll catch up to me? I'm over here!

      Serioulsy, though, I think this tired old platitude should either be retired or modified:

      "Do what you love and you'll be happy even without much money"

      That seems a lot more realistic. Why is it that people want a lot of money? Because they think it'll make them happy. Better to learn to be happy in any situation whether you have no money or a lot of it.

  14. Managerial vs Engineering responsibility by Morgaine · · Score: 4, Insightful

    In responsibility, this will be a step back, as I am currently in a management role

    That is a stunning statement from my perspective, stunning in the worst possible way. It presupposes that a technical role carries less responsibility than a managerial one, which is a terrible indictment of how you perceive relationships in the workplace. It certainly doesn't reflect my approach to responsibility in software and systems engineering in any place where I have worked professionally.

    Perhaps it reflects the outlook of some hypothetical 9-5 techie who couldn't care less what he does in the office, but it's not an outlook that is at all common. Quite the opposite: it is usually the middle management that is 9-5, and the technical people slug their guts out around the clock. While hours beyond the call of duty do not mean everything, nevertheless they do imply dedication and responsibility.

    Of course, management always thinks that it is at the top of the pyramid of responsibility and authority, even in a company whose business is entirely technical and where the actual wealth creators are the technical people. Well, it's up to every professional technical person to disabuse them of that. It can be tough and confrontational, but it is also rewarding in the long run to be recognized for carrying out a key and indispensible engineering role.

    My answer to your question is simple: do the job that you find most rewarding and fulfilling. If you were a bum-on-seat tech laborer with zero authority and no responsibility in a company run by managers who treat their techies as menial labor, then not only should you flee the technical positions, but abandon the company in its entirety.

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    1. Re:Managerial vs Engineering responsibility by NutscrapeSucks · · Score: 1

      It's more about the glass celings and invisible lines between management and 'labor'. Obviously management can have a very high upside in terms of "pre$tige", as well as open up a much broader range of possibilities for you, as well as making you less prone to skill obsolesence. That's not to say technical work can't be rewarding, but he enjoys an management role going to be a lot harder for him to go back if his last position was "network engineer" or something.

      Anyway, you seem bitter about something ... trapped in a dead-end technical job? Anyway, it's presumptuous to think that the poster got to be the Big Fish by punching the clock 9-5.

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    2. Re:Managerial vs Engineering responsibility by lobsterGun · · Score: 1

      A _good_ manager takes responsability for not only his own job, but the jobs of the people he manages. In effect, their responsabilities become his responsabilities.

      It's an easy mistake to make. Most people never get to experience what it is to work for a good manger.

    3. Re:Managerial vs Engineering responsibility by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 1

      Management and Technical are real forks in the engineering field. While it is quite possible to be a well-paid and respected "senior engineer", it is not a lateral move between senior engineering and senior management. From a career standpoint, a good engineer that can manage people, projects, and clients should focus on the management side. It does not belittle the technical side, but it respects the fact that a renaissance person skilled in several areas makes the most effective manager for a technical organization.

    4. Re:Managerial vs Engineering responsibility by bergeron76 · · Score: 1

      I'm going to have to disagree with you - somewhat. Let me preface by saying that I enjoy working at medium sized, non-tech companies. That may be a core element of my point.

      I've been a professional software engineer and and electrical engineer. I've been a one-man-do-it-all IT guy, and I've been a help desk employee. I'm currently an IT Director (management), and I thoroughly enjoy it. I get to help my team in a hands-on way, and I get to use _all_ of the skills that I've acquired. I'm not a typical PHB, I'm an experienced worked-my-way-up manager. I think that because I can be empathetic to my employees, there is a level of respect among us.

      I think that's an important distinction that should be made here.

      I thought I'd love working for a technology company, until I was pigeonholed and creatively destroyed. I think that's an inherent part of working for a tech company. By definition, your peer group will have big Ego's, are also wildly creative, and stubborn - (in general).

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  15. A bad Haiku by Vodak · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Asks help from strangers,
    For answers allready there,
    Look into one's soul

  16. Is that search engine Google? by qualico · · Score: 1

    "I have recently been extended an offer to come work as an engineer for one of the internet search companies"

    If that search company is Google, go for it.

    Although, with all the cash they continue to harvest, you certainly could go back to the bargaining table and request more. :->

    Seriously though, I'd be interested in hearing what qualifications you have, the details of how you were approached, and what pay differences were talking about.

    Otherwise, you might as well be asking a technical question without posting the necessary details about your hardware and software.

    "I've been going out with this one woman, Sara, ..."

  17. Tom Scholz says by waynegoode · · Score: 1
    From Boston's "Peace of Mind"

    Now you're climbin' to the top of the company ladder
    Hope it doesn't take too long
    Can'tcha you see there'll come a day when it won't matter
    Come a day when you'll be gone

    Now everybody's got advice they just keep on givin'
    Doesn't mean too much to me
    Lot's of people out to make-believe they're livin'
    Can't decide who they should be.

    I understand about indecision
    But I don't care if I get behind
    People livin' in competition
    All I want is to have my peace of mind.

  18. The defect in this story is bleach. by one9nine · · Score: 1

    Pedro, just listen to your heart. That's what I'd do.

  19. Do what you like by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 1

    The money is the easy part. Do what you like and you will be good at it. From there you should be able to figure out how to get paid for it.

  20. Allow me to be blunt... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you are asking Slashdot what you should do because you don't know what your personal goals in life are then you need to get the hell out of management. How you made it up that far is baffling to me. Above all else, managers have to have vision. You are supposed to be a leader. You don't have to be the smartest or the best at thinking on his/her feet. You don't have to have a winning smile or a natural gift for influencing people. What you absolutely must know, however, is where the fuck you are going because everyone else is following you.

    I'm not saying that you are a worthless person and you need to die as soon as possible. I'm saying that you are not cut out for management. Find something else that suits your personality better.

  21. To me, it's the wrong question by mrami · · Score: 1
    Not to sound too corny (probably impossible given what I'm about to say), but to me, it sounds like you don't know how you want to help your fellow man. At some point I decided that my life was about helping put a smile on people's faces when they sit down in front of a computer. At a job I was working in the past, my next step up the rung was to go into management. I decided there to become a trainer, and I have never looked back. Maybe it was a step down, but for me it was also a step forward.


    If you knew what you wanted to accomplish in this lifetime, your "decision" would probably be a no-brainer.

  22. why is this here? by yagu · · Score: 1

    I'm probably heading for a troll here, but does the angst and hand wringing of some manager considering taking a job in programming have that much import? Be glad you got a job buddy, be blessed you have opportunity in abundance. And be a bit humble about it.

  23. Wow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think this is the first time I've actually seen an Ask Slashdot that is completely and utterly impossible to come close to answering if you are not the person asking Slashdot.

    Seriously, it all depends on what's important to you, where you are in life and where you want to be in life. Nobody can make this decision for you, or even offer any meaningful input because it's a completely personal matter.

  24. Money, the subject of many a decision. by t-maxx+cowboy · · Score: 1

    We live in a world where you need money to do pretty much anything. In North America it is next to impossible to survive with out money. As much as money is needed it is not everything. Anyone's decision about taking a pay cut or a pay increase for varying responsibilities should take the time to consider:
    1) Is this something that will make me happy?
    2) Can I continue my current lifestyle? (If the current lifestyle is important.)
    3) Can I pay my bills?
    The most important one of those I think is, will it make me happy. Regardless of other possible changes if you won't be happy it won't matter if you were in a position to make hordes more money than before. If you are looking at a pay cut as the original post says, well, you want to be happy.
    Money is not everything. It can sustain our life if spent on the right things, it can make us happy with a new toy/gizmo/etc, but I have never seen money bring to happiness/joy to anyone. Work/Life balance is important, and less money is not always a bad thing.

    --
    Regards,

    Ryan Pritchard
    Fun Extends All Basic Life Expectancies
  25. Money isn't everything by Salus+Victus · · Score: 1

    I'd say you need to take a step back, and really think about your life. What do you want to accomplish with your life? What do you enjoy?

    If continuing in your current position (you can't go up unless the company expands) gives you the professional satisfaction you need, and sufficient pay to afford to do the things you enjoy, then there's no reason to change.

    If you feel like your current position is just work, and it intrudes on your ability to do things that you find personally rewarding ... take the new position.

    Really, you're making this decision harder than it is. Are you going to starve if you take the pay cut? Will the one, true love of your life leave you? If either of the companies goes under ... will you suddenly find yourself unable to ever find a computer (or management) job again?

    Live a little. That's what you're here for.

    --
    In theory, there's no difference between theory and practice. In practice, there's a big difference.
  26. Apply the Doug Lang Formula by zenbanana · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Why do people stay at jobs, or choose to switch to another job? I asked a colleague, Doug Lang, this question in 1994 when he chose to quit rather than start commuting 20 miles instead of 1 mile despite being the second highest paid employee (after the company president). He said "There are three things you get from working: money, learning and fun. Everyone decides for themselves what ratio between those three variables they want to have at any given time by either staying or leaving. If you're making a lot of money but not having fun or learning anything, maybe it's time to make less money and learn something."

    Ever since, I've applied those three variables to every job I've had, and it's helped me leave boring, plateaued jobs that paid well.

    --
    In theory, theory is better than practice, but in practice, it isn't.
  27. Is IT your future? by duffbeer703 · · Score: 1

    Ask yourself - do you want to be mucking with computers in a few years, or do you want to use IT as a springboard for something else?

    If you know the IT systems at a non-IT centric shop, your knowledge of how things work could help you as a manager of some other part of the organization. It all depends on what you want.

    I have friends who are/were talented engineers who transitioned to other roles because they became sick and tired of the work. One guy is the Director of a non-profit and another is a muckety-muck for a small company.

    --
    Conformity is the jailer of freedom and enemy of growth. -JFK
  28. In the words of Al Bundy: by mckwant · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It doesn't matter. Eventually, whichever one you pick will have her flaws exposed. At that point, you will find yourself thinking wistfully back to the one you didn't pick, and the ideal, if totally fictional, life you and she would be leading.

    As such, which one you pick makes no difference whatsoever.

    --
    ceci n'est pas un sig.
    1. Re:In the words of Al Bundy: by c0bw3b · · Score: 1

      So in that case, pick them both. Don't tell them about each other. Hope they never meet. Good luck.

      --
      ||:|::
  29. A Pay Cut for Personal Growth? by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    Are you happy and content, and believe your job will still exist in 1, 2, or 5 years? If so then stay, but if you're not really happy, are restless, or are concerned about job security then if you can still get by on the lower pay go for it. It may be that job satisfaction may make up for lower pay, or the offered position may lead to a higher paying position later. Basically it boils down to whether or not you are happy with your job.

    Falcon
  30. Hit the ceiling in management? by (H)elix1 · · Score: 1

    You must not be looking very hard at the numbers... From my perspective, the management track will probably be more profitable. Once you hit the director level and up, options, bonus programs, and other perks are more or less standard fare. You may be top of your food chain at the current company, but there are other companies out there. It is much harder for a technologist with 'business' skills to become management than it is for management to be savvy in the craft. If it is a technology based company, both skills are a major boon if you end up in the leadership role.

    As learning - it does not matter what track you pick - you should always be learning.

  31. Re:Happiness Myth by mpapet · · Score: 3, Insightful

    What happens if everyone in America suddenly decided to follows this advice?

    Some of the more immediate impacts would be:
    -Would anyone work at a retail chain?
    -How may garbage collectors find driving a truck around the city their eternal source of happiness?
    -Do you think postal workers get their happiness needs met at work? I believe the term "go postal" pretty much makes my point.
    -What about air traffic controllers? Managing airspace would have to be another eternal spring of happiness.
    -In a serious blow to most /.'ers the pool of available talent for pornography would likely get a great deal smaller. Because, every woman I've met *really* wants to be in porn for the artistic value rather than the money.

    The vast majority of jobs are just that, jobs. Do your work, get your pay and go home. Now, if you have the financial resources to wait until your perfect job comes, then you are indeed part of a small group of luxury workers.

    I'm not saying don't seek happines and fulfillment. But just casually throwing out feel-good statements in this context is potentially damaging.

    Please STOP spreading this myth.

    --
    http://www.maxineudall.com/2010/02/should-economists-be-sued-for-malpractice.html
  32. Re:Happiness and Work are Conflicting Terms by mpapet · · Score: 1

    From dictionary.com, the meaning of work:
    # Physical or mental effort or activity directed toward the production or accomplishment of something.
          1. A job; employment: looking for work.
          2. A trade, profession, or other means of livelihood.


    Hmmm, there is NO mention of happiness or pleasure in that definition. But there is something about livelihood though. Another common description "Exchange labor for money." No, no happiness mentioned there either.

    Maybe then, you have the resources to become what I officially declare today on /. for the first time a "Luxury Worker." The term's official meaning: Any person who can wait as long as needed to choose the job that most pleases you. That truly is rare and far from the modal (as in most frequent number) American's income and working capacity.

    Casually throwing out feel-good statements like "just do what makes you happy and the rest will come" is potentially very damaging because it doesn't work out like that sometimes.

    Furthermore, it flies in the face of many of the unspoken rules, status and career path expectations that are a part of today's working world.

    --
    http://www.maxineudall.com/2010/02/should-economists-be-sued-for-malpractice.html
  33. eh by wikinerd · · Score: 1

    If you want to gain technical experience and prestige, work in free/libre open-source software projects.

  34. Re:Happiness Myth by hackwrench · · Score: 1

    Society will adjust. Maybe we can automate some of the tasks or maybe we will do without. Anything is "potentially" damaging. Your own post is "potentially" damaging. so I'm curious to know why you aren't taking your own advice?

  35. three thinks you get from work by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    "There are three things you get from working: money, learning and fun. Everyone decides for themselves what ratio between those three variables they want to have at any given time by either staying or leaving. If you're making a lot of money but not having fun or learning anything, maybe it's time to make less money and learn something."

    That's about the best way I've heard it put, and will try to recall it. Thanks.

    Falcon
  36. Pay sets employer expectations. by Jason+Pollock · · Score: 1

    I took a job at a substantial pay cut (30+%) in order to get onto a cool project with a cool team with good growth prospects. The problem? I found that the salary you're paid sets management's expectations of your performance. I found that since my experience wasn't acknowledged when I was hired (they couldn't), it was very hard to move up afterwards. You not only have to prove yourself in your existing position, you have to prove yourself in all of the internening ones.

    I could have very easily slowed down, relaxed and slacked off for 20 years. Not something that I wanted to do, so I went looking elsewhere. :)

    Jason

  37. Re:Happiness Myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    What happens if everyone in America suddenly decided to follows this advice?

    Nothing. Many people enjoy money more than doing a specific task. They will still carry out the jobs that most would not enjoy doing.

  38. Don't by Alomex · · Score: 1

    I generally would recommend against a pay cut unless one of following expections hold:

      (a) you are currently overpaid

      (b) you are moving to academia or

      (c) you are given extremely juicy and promising stock options

  39. go with your gut by rnd() · · Score: 1

    The fact that you're even considering the switch means that the extra money you're earning doesn't mean all that much to you.

    You only live once, if you learned anything in your management role you may quickly rise through the ranks at the new company and be better off than before. Don't play it safe.

    --

    Amazing magic tricks

  40. take a look ahead ;^) by slew · · Score: 1

    You forgot the best part of the boston lyrics (and probably the most relavent part of this discussion)...

    TAKE A LOOK AHEAD!

    Making a decision based on current money or current position is a sure sign of premature-optimization...

  41. Happiness by mbadolato · · Score: 1

    A couple of years ago I was in a very well paying job but was absolutely miserable. Hated it. Hated going.

    I decided to leave and go with a smaller company. Took about a 10% hit in pay. But, I couldn't be happier with the decision to switch jobs. Absoluelty love the new gig.

  42. Re:Happiness Myth by Jjeff1 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I've read comments like this twice this week. Am I as an IT person unfulfilled because I'm not a concert pianist? No, I don't have the desire or ability.

    A lot of people just don't have the IQ to do anything more than sling burgers. They do what they can. Maybe they think their job sucks and want to do something else, but that kind of thinking isn't limited to just janitors. Frankly a job I don't ever need to think about unless I'm punched in doesn't sound so bad.

    Garbage collector - decent pay, paid overtime, drive to/from work not during rush-hour, no on-call pager, no hair-thinning level of responsibilty. I wear gloves and take a shower end of the day. It's just trash, it won't kill me.

    To each their own.

  43. Re:Happiness Myth by mpapet · · Score: 2, Insightful

    What if your source of happiness was playing the piano? According to the original post, it's recommended you quit your IT job and immediately try to find work playing the piano because as he states, "do what you enjoy and the rest will follow."

    Based on my experience living in Los Angeles and working with countless musicians/actors that did and didn't make it in entertainment, The most likely turnout of "The rest" in this case would be debt, hunger and homelessness because you'll be in a very long line of unemployed musicians.

    Therefore, the "do what you enjoy" is more greeting card platitude that gets one into dire straits than anything else.

    --
    http://www.maxineudall.com/2010/02/should-economists-be-sued-for-malpractice.html
  44. Re:Happiness Myth by Zerth · · Score: 1

    I agree in general, but:

    -Would anyone work at a retail chain?
    I know several (single) people who are perfectly happy at their retail jobs

    -How may garbage collectors find driving a truck around the city
    -their eternal source of happiness?
    I know one man who does, but mainly because he loves fixing all the still useful things we throw away and makes sculptures of those he can't.

    -Do you think postal workers get their happiness needs met at
    -work? I believe the term "go postal" pretty much makes my point.
    No contest here:)

    -What about air traffic controllers? Managing airspace would have
    -to be another eternal spring of happiness.
    Considering the skill it takes to do so, I imagine there are some who do love it.

    -In a serious blow to most /.'ers the pool of available talent
    -for pornography would likely get a great deal smaller. Because,
    -every woman I've met *really* wants to be in porn for the
    -artistic value rather than the money.
    I imagine there are enough attention whores(forgive the pun) that it wouldn't hurt it too much(consider all the amateur porn). They'd just be a bit uglier until the scars fade and the braces come off:)

  45. Re:Happiness Myth by Fuzzle · · Score: 1

    Contrary to popular belief, some people enjoy doing things that you don't like. I have good friends that love their retail jobs. I personally love doing residential construction. I also happen to enjoy technology management, teaching, and volunteer supervision. I think your outlook is damaging to people, and by extension, horrible for society.

    My statement is not a feelgood statement. It's a truth of fact of what has worked for me, my family, and those people who are around me and happy. Deal with the fact that others choose different paths than you. I said that if making lots of money, etc etc makes you happy, then by all means, do the jobs that the rest of us don't want to do, for more money. I think the inherent problem with you argument is that the "undesirable" jobs like garbageman and air traffic controllers should be paid more, so that people who are interested in being happy via money do them. There's an incentive system both ways, and if that means I have to take a paycut so that others can enjoy themselves as well, I'm more than willing to do so. Your view of society is based on a static, unchanging view of the present, rather than looking at the way society and economy adapts to changes in its' structure all the time.

  46. Follow the money by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Assuming that your present company will be viable for the foreseeable future, take the money and run.

    Work is work, spend the extra money on your retirement, personal toys, charity or whatever. Don't get caught up in the ego of working for Google or MS or Sun or whoever. Don't get caught up in believing that if you're not working at the bleeding edge of technology, you're a loser.

    Cash is king baby!

  47. Re:Happy Times Are Here! by mpapet · · Score: 1

    I have good friends that love their retail jobs
    Married? Most likey not. Living at home? Possible. Working more than 1 job? Likely because retail doesn't pay well. Health Insurance with $100 deductable? I'd say impossible. Now it is possible that they live some place with low cost of living, but it's only a matter of time before they are priced out. Wait, don't tell me, they'll get by on Love right?

    I personally love doing residential construction. I also happen to enjoy technology management, teaching, and volunteer supervision.
    There's little money or prestige in swinging a hammer. Unless it's the family business... So you get into tech management.

    You certainly were chosen for management over others and you didn't turn down the position. So, you are disguising the crassness of capitalism and your own drive to succeed at the expense of others, not to mention your greed. Your sanctimonious position is the eqivalent of putting frosting on a sh*t cake. You won't eat it, so you feed it to others.

    if that means I have to take a paycut so that others can enjoy themselves as well, I'm more than willing to do so.
    Where's all your money coming from? Better yet, I'll hire you for 5.50 an hour no benefits here in L.A. doing residential construction. Your kids can go to one of the many public schools that are losing their certification and watch TV in their classes all day. Meanwhile you and your family can sleep 5 to a room because you won't be able to afford an apartment on $5.50 /hr. And I'm not sure how you're going to pay for a car either. According to everything you've said, you'll still be in shang-gri-la.

    Your post reeks of bourgeois (Marxist def.) sympathy and quickie-mart self-actualization that has no connection to the crassness of capitalism and little basis in economic reality. I suspect the attitude generally comes from some kind of benefactor funding you at your beckon call.

    We're all greedy competitive individuals who are totally willing to gain at someone else's expense. Some people have more opportunity to do that than others too. Wrapping that up in feel-good phrases is an odd choice, but an individual can't get far in life without a whole lot of denial.

    Show me the money!

    --
    http://www.maxineudall.com/2010/02/should-economists-be-sued-for-malpractice.html
  48. The ladder analogy by johansalk · · Score: 1

    It's better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb than halfway up another you don't.

  49. Re:Happiness Myth by JkaB · · Score: 1

    If that gets one into the Dire Straits, I'd say one was pretty succesful in creating a career in music...

  50. Get out of management while you still can by Colonel+Panic · · Score: 1

    If you have any inclination at all to get back into development you should jump at this chance. The longer you stay in management, the less likely you will ever get back to development/design work.

    Besides, it sounds like you've reached the local maxima of income where you currently are anyway.

  51. Re:Happiness and Work are Conflicting Terms by Morgalyn · · Score: 1

    There is no reason for a skilled person (as this guy obviously is) to not make a choice that also includes his own happiness. There's no requirement for utter ecstatic joy in the workplace, but it is MUCH easier to go to work and not feel like a cog in a system if you enjoy what you are doing. He is being faced with two very diverse choices, that is, he has a choice. He can choose which work environment will make him happier. That was the point I was trying to make.

    As far as unspoken rules, they are only rules if you decide to follow them. I'm highly skeptical of traditional 'career paths' these days, since it seems most companies are just hiring and letting go as needed, putting in your 10 years no longer translates. You practically have to skip around companies just to get a 'promotion'. Anyone who cares more about status than their own happiness needs to evaluate themselves.

    --
    You say you got a real solution
    Well, you know
    We'd all love to see the plan
    (The Beatles)
  52. do it and tell us how it went by justdev · · Score: 1

    sometimes we stick to something just because we are comfortable and do not want to disturb anything that is going just fine. but as it goes, highest dividents are paid for highest risks. it doesn't mean we have to gamble with life, but if every instinct tells you to take that job and only money is pulling you back, probably you should take it. in my experience, psuedo-managerial jobs will only dumb you down.
    every cliche in this world will ask you to go for happiness when faced with such choices. so that is a natural choice. but remember that always grass looks greener on the other side. life on the other side may not be as rewarding as it made out to be, but you will not know unless you try it out. so, try it out and tell us how it went.

  53. Re:Happiness Myth by NateTech · · Score: 1

    Air Traffic Controllers are VERY well compensated. Bad example.

    I looked into doing that for a living, I actually enjoy stuff like that, but I was slightly too late in life.

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    +++OK ATH