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RexDart writes "Tom's Hardware has posted an interview with the founders of PMS Clan, the high-profile, international female gaming group with the mission of 'providing a fun and competitive environment for female gamers in a wide variety of first person shooter' games. They speak out on topics from how to get started and what to play, clan organization, censorship, online harrassment, and the role of female characters in games. Plus, why and how they allow males in their group as well."

83 comments

  1. I'm sorry sweetheart by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    I've been hogging the computer. I'll let you play as soon as you do the dishes and iron my shirt hun.

    1. Re:I'm sorry sweetheart by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hear all this talk about girls not wanting guys to make a ruckus because they are girls. But stop and think about that for a minute ladies. Men get worked up, do and say stupid stuff because we want to have sex with you. The day any women can get on a game server which consists primarily of hormonal teenage boys and not be objectified is the day men stop needing women for the only thing they needed them for in the first place.

      Ok, that's alittle harsh, but you get my point. Women don't want to be objectified or treated like a sex object but at the same time they create websites containing avatars with heaving breasts and tight rubber outfits.

      Really, what are we men to do? Please tell me causee I don't know. If we aren't suppose to get worked up and crazy over women, we might as well just date our male best friends who won't give us shit when we leave the toilet seat up.

  2. Interesting article, but... by Cerberus7 · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Somehow, putting a giant picture of blonde twins in that particular pose contributes to taking them seriously? The name is wrong, too. PMS clan? Really. And they want to be taken seriously as gamers and not have men objectify them as women sex objects or point and stare mumbling "wuh-man"? I'm all for women gamers getting into the mix, but for a particular group to jump up and down yelling "I am woman, hear me roar!" makes me take them less seriously.

    A clan of women makes sense. They are a significant minority in online games, and with the way males online tend to act with women, I can see how this kind of supportive group can work. This clan is giving a conflicting image, though. "We're women, we game, don't objectify us" gets a little fuzzy when you're posting Gen13-style art and Charlie's Angels silhouettes as representations of who you are.

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    I don't know about you, but my servers run on the power of cotton candy and happy thoughts. -Anonymous Coward
    1. Re:Interesting article, but... by Meagermanx · · Score: 5, Informative

      Could it be because they're not actually that great when it comes to gaming? Could it be that, *gasp*, like some other gaming groups and clans of females, they're really just hired models, funded by a corporation, designed to invoke the "oh, HOT!" response in the male crowd?
      Nah. Must be that woman gamers actually DO look like porn stars, that women DO like to cuddle, kiss,and have naked pillow fights with each other, and that, although they discuss how much they hate Lara Croft for being a sex symbol, and want more realistic women in games, they, like all women, love being objectified and wearing tight pink shirts.

      Aaaah. Corporate-sponsored feminism.

    2. Re:Interesting article, but... by Henry+V+.009 · · Score: 1

      It makes me think, though. Are female gamers like female golfers, highly lesbian? Normal women just don't act like this too often.(Compare Sailer's chart in Why Lesbians aren't Gay [Men].)

      To add more worthless anecdotally supported stereotypes, I have to mention that maybe 1/3rd of the time that I come across a female CS wonk on the web or on Slashdot, that person is actually transgender. (Read through the journal here for my latest find.) I read an interesting book by Bailey a while back, in which he postulates two main categories of transgendered male-to-female individuals. The first tend to be very effeminate gay males who get the surgery done early and are much more successful with it than the second group. The second group tend to get the surgery done later, are often heterosexual and married beforehand, often have stereotypically male careers (like CS), are very bad at "walking like a woman," etc., and are lesbians or asexual afterward. There is also one unifying factor present in 100% of this second group: they like to wear female clothing and masturbate. Bailey calls them autogynephiles.

      I wouldn't mention it, but they pop up again and again in news stories covering female CS advocacy (Lynn Conway is a notorious offender), or in lists of famous CS women. Maybe there is no connection to gaming, but then again...

    3. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It seems like you have a bit more invested in this, and do a bit more research than the typical person would do. Something you want to get off your chest?

    4. Re:Interesting article, but... by Henry+V+.009 · · Score: 1
      Something you want to get off your chest?
      Or get *on* my chest, maybe? Heh, no. I research everything more than normal people. I happen to be disgustingly normal in my sexual inclinations. I'm sure that everyone else has much more fun.
    5. Re:Interesting article, but... by atomic-penguin · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "We're women, we game, don't objectify us"

      I read the article, and looked at their webpage. I do not recall anything about them not wanting to be desirable or objectified. Perhaps you came up with that feminist stereotype on your own or I just missed that part. If men can't take women seriously when they (women) look good that is the man's hangup not the woman's.

      Do you take a man more seriously if he is wearing tattered jeans and wrinkled tee-shirt or a business suit?

      I agree that PMS is a corny name for a clan. But gaming isn't all that serious of an endeavor. It is no sillier than a FART clan or . It reminded me of the bumper sticker quote, "I have PMS and a handgun, any questions?". So hey, I think it's funny in an off color way.

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    6. Re:Interesting article, but... by spx · · Score: 1

      If you mean every female that games, your wrong. If you mean just a good % I can agree with that. If you can gather up all the females you know that game to game and not game to be 'Ima chick playing the boys games', then I will happiley put up a page on my domain and add myself first. :D Good luck hunting, their are not that many of us (that are good) willing to broadcast it w/o a idiot man assuming we cant back up our skillz.

    7. Re:Interesting article, but... by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      Yo, I don't mean every female that games. See This post.
      If you're willing to just game, not because it's trendy, not because it makes you cool, but because you like to game, hell, plug in a controller and hit start.

    8. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Could it be because they're not actually that great when it comes to gaming? Could it be that, *gasp*, like some other gaming groups and clans of females, they're really just hired models, funded by a corporation, designed to invoke the "oh, HOT!" response in the male crowd?

      if those are hired models, someone overpaid them.

    9. Re:Interesting article, but... by The+Evil+Couch · · Score: 1

      True, they do look more like normal girls than professional models.

    10. Re:Interesting article, but... by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      I love that term. Corporate-sponsored feminism. As for the hired models, well, I can't entirely deny that. GASP. SHOCK HORROR. Because some of our members are Frag Dolls, and we know how the gaming community feels about them... But man, if I were a model, it would have to be for some pretty specialist magazines.

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    11. Re:Interesting article, but... by Cerberus7 · · Score: 1
      Good to see a PMS member contribute to this thread!

      So now I wonder, is there a division in your ranks between the gamers and the "Frag Dolls"? (btw, this is great, I have two new phrases to use thanks to this thread)

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      I don't know about you, but my servers run on the power of cotton candy and happy thoughts. -Anonymous Coward
    12. Re:Interesting article, but... by Cerberus7 · · Score: 1
      They never explicity said they don't want to be objectified, but part of women's lib, treating women the same as men, being equal and evaluated for ability, is not to be objectified as a sex object.

      I have no problem with a good-looking female gamer. The problem I have is the imagery they use to depict themselves is the same kind of stuff some women rail against as objectifying them. Hence the conflicting message.

      The name is pretty funny, but if their goal is to have women taken seriously in the gaming world and to not have people point and stare at them because they're women, drawing attention to the fact that they're women in so many ways isn't helping.

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      I don't know about you, but my servers run on the power of cotton candy and happy thoughts. -Anonymous Coward
    13. Re:Interesting article, but... by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The Frag Dolls are a small, high-profile, sponsored clan. I wasn't using it as a derogatory remark towards the sort of girls so disparaged in these threads -- for example, the girls who apparently only say they like games to get guys. (Not that I've ever met any girls like that!)

      Some of our members are also Frag Dolls, and they're the scariest, craziest, most hardcore gaming ladies you'll ever meet. Just make sure you're not the wrong end of their SMGs...

      As for any division in our ranks, well; we all love games, and we all spend a lot of our time playing them. Obviously, as with any large number of women with common interests, you'll find all sorts of different types of people. But we're all gamers first, girls second, despite whatever angles the press might try to take. It seems the gaming press can't get enough of the whole girl gamer thing.

      I'm personally off to the Women's Game Conference in a couple of weeks to see what all the fuss is about...

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      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    14. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      Could it be because they're not actually that great when it comes to gaming? Could it be that, *gasp*, like some other gaming groups and clans of females, they're really just hired models, funded by a corporation, designed to invoke the "oh, HOT!" response in the male crowd?

      Find yourself a chance to play with some of the top girls in our clan, and say that again. After you've been seriously pwn3d, that is.

      While being great at gaming is not a requirement to get into PMS (though a good attitude and sportsmanship IS), there are plenty of gals in PMS that seriously can kick some ass. And even those of us who aren't quite as amazingly good are still serious hard-core gamers. We're in the clan because we love gaming, and love having a bunch of other girls to play with instead of having to deal with masses of braindead idiots out there.

      And BTW, if you're suggesting that the Frag Dolls are just hired models, think again - 3 of them are PMS members (one is the other founder of PMS), and they are far from hired models. I watched them win the GR2 tourney at PAX, for instance.

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    15. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      I know a bunch of girls that game just because they like games.

      There's a whole group of us.

      We even have a website.

      Imagine that.

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    16. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      No division at all.

      As Mistletoe said, there is overlap between PMS and the Frag Dolls.

      And I've been gaming since I was like 6, I have about a dozen consoles at home, and am playing something just about every single day. And the Dolls and some of the PMS girls make me look like a casual gamer in comparison. It's almost scary how hardcore they are.

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    17. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That book has been wholly discredited as being written by someone with a clear grudge or problem toward such people, presenting little to no real insight.

      For example, the ENTIRE group of people he interviewed were people he found at bars and the like. And then he extrapolated everything to fit everyone else in the category. It's as valid as judging all men by the attitudes and actions of a small group of men that hang around and get drunk regularly in bars. In other words, entirely invalid.

      Read a few other books on the topic, and you'll soon realize that Bailey is a complete and utter idiot.

    18. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He also quotes Steve Sailer.

    19. Re:Interesting article, but... by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      Here we go with the name-calling.
      Yes, us 'braindead idiots' sure are a pain in the ass to play with. Boy, men sure suck.
      I'm not trying to get any feminists mad or anything, but your clan is sexist.
      Maybe you have some good gamers. I don't know, I've never played anything against you. I do know, however, that this positive media attention is undeserved, as, according to one of the PMS founders in TFA, they usually finish near the middle of most tournaments. That's mediocrity.
      We don't need any of this "Boys VS Girls" shit in this day and age. It's you who are alienating yourselves from the culture with this 'I am woman, hear me roar!' stuff.

    20. Re:Interesting article, but... by Surt · · Score: 1

      Funny story related to this: back in the Quake 1 timeframe our clan played vs PMS as a sort of publicity stunt. We had arranged a phone call between the two rooms our teams were playing from to enable some trash talking. At one point we overhear (man's voice): John, what the hell are you doing, defend the base!

      Followed by woman's voice: shut up, the phones!

      I leave it to you what conclusion to draw.

      --
      "Who is the Journal of Quantum Physics going to believe?" --Stephen Hawking
    21. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      I never referred to you as a brain-dead idiot... Just that there are a lot of them out there that we have to deal with. So chill out when assuming that everything said is about you personally.

      And considering the amount of people that I've played with after joining PMS, large numbers of people with overall positive attitudes and good personalities, I'd say we're hardly alienating ourselves from gaming culture. Just the opposite - we're a definite part of it, just a part that excludes the "gaming is guys' territory" crowd.

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    22. Re:Interesting article, but... by C0rinthian · · Score: 1
      Must be that woman gamers actually DO look like porn stars
      *cough* Asia Carrera */cough*
    23. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's funny since PMS was founded in 1996 and not by them.

      http://www.gamegirlz.com/articles/femclan/femclan1 .htm

      Go look up Aurora, Anna, two of the earlier members.

      Give some credit where credit is due.

      - Mutilator

    24. Re:Interesting article, but... by M.C.+Hampster · · Score: 1

      And BTW, if you're suggesting that the Frag Dolls are just hired models, think again - 3 of them are PMS members (one is the other founder of PMS), and they are far from hired models. I watched them win the GR2 tourney at PAX, for instance.

      Why is it then that you have to submit a picture of yourself as part of an application into the Frag Dolls? I've never seen that requirement for a non-all female clan.

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    25. Re:Interesting article, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are even some integrated gaming groups. Some even have married couples and moms. A few have been around far longer than the PMS clan. And at least one has a website, too. :)

    26. Re:Interesting article, but... by spx · · Score: 1

      I know, I can read, I seen the post (unsure if you posted on main page or where unaware of it). I had the 'will make a page on domain' as a joke, sorry you didnt catch that. As for your sarcasm, it was not needed. I think I can manage to > google > girl gamers > find your pms site IMHO, I did look at the site for about 30 minutes, I have no issues with any said member, but personal preference, would not join a clam with PMS in the title, I need not reminded of the crimson, nor need to define myself by it. Like I said before, I game to game, not to game and go 'O hey Im a chick'. Good luck, the website design is nice too.

    27. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      The Frag Dolls are also paid representatives of UbiSoft - they are about making appearances and being gaming "personalities". I don't find it surprising that they'd have some level of expectation about appearance, as would many jobs that require regular media exposure/public appearances.

      However, just because Ubi decided to consider appearance, doesn't mean that's ALL they considered. If you dig up old blog entries on the Frag Dolls site, you'll see some descriptions of the process they went through. Demonstrating that they were skilled gamers was a big part of the process. A much bigger part than deciding if they were attractive enough - I'm sure there were some very pretty faces that were dumped during the application process cause they couldn't play well enough to keep up.

      So remember, while PMS is a real clan, the Frag Dolls are actually employees of Ubisoft in a manner. Enough that when one of them took a job at another gaming company, she had to leave the Dolls. And if I didn't work at MS, I'd apply for the open spot - a couple of the dolls encouraged me to do so at PAX before I told them...

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    28. Re:Interesting article, but... by M.C.+Hampster · · Score: 1

      Fair enough, I guess my initial skepticism of the Frag Dolls was somewhat unfounded. If Ubi were to do an all male clan, I could see them making the same requirement.

      Thanks for the insight!

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      Forget the whales - save the babies.
    29. Re:Interesting article, but... by Saige · · Score: 1

      I understand the skepticism. I felt the same way back when I first heard about them - I figured they were just pretty faces to sucker in male gamers. That was before I joined PMS and found out more about the FD in the process.

      And in the meantime, I'm rooting for a friend of mine to be chosen to fill the open spot on the Frag Dolls. :) I figure the fact that she already knows them all and plays with them regularly (and often can beat them) might help her get in, too. :)

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    30. Re:Interesting article, but... by Guppy06 · · Score: 1

      "Women" isn't a single political group.

  3. History Tidbit by shoptroll · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I seem to recall an article in PCGamer well before 2002 about game sites on the net, featuring News Site (Blue's News), MMOs (Ultima Online, Meridian 59), and clan pages. I recall there being a female Quake clan called "Clan PMS" in that article but I don't think these are the same people.

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    1. Re:History Tidbit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Taking you back to the old school, Clan PMS-style:

      http://wired-vig.wired.com/news/culture/0,1284,188 5,00.html

      (1997, even!)

  4. Corporate-sponsored feminism by Cerberus7 · · Score: 1

    Nice phrase, I like it! I've suspected such things in the past, as I'm sure many others have. I'm trying to remember the name of the group that first made me say, "WTF is going on, here?!" but it escapes me at the moment. Anyhow, has anybody ever been able to tie them together? Proof of this "corporate-sponsored feminism?"

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    I don't know about you, but my servers run on the power of cotton candy and happy thoughts. -Anonymous Coward
    1. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Meagermanx · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I think I know who you'e talking about. It was a group of gorgeous, scantily clad, groping each other 'gamer girls'?
      Now, I'm all for the diversification of my chosen sport, but come on, this is just ridiculous.

      I think there are two kinds of female gamers:
      First you have your 'girl gamers'. These are gamers who happen to be women. They like to play games. That's why they're gamers.
      The other kind of female gamer is the 'gamer girl'. These are girls first, gamers second. Nothing wrong with that, but it's the same as macho gamers. They're frat boys, wrestling fans, and football junkees first, gamers second.
      There's nothing wrong with either one, I would just rather play with the women who are more interested in shooting people in the head than discussing how they're objectified and downtrodden by males.

      One last thing: The cliche 'OMG I'm a woman!' article in every gaming magazine and on every gaming site.
      Can you just discuss things like normal people? We get it. You're women. OMG. Stop discussing how dumb women are in games. Stop discussing the 'female point of view'. Just talk about the games like other columnists.
      It's women like this that are alienating themselves from the culture, not the other way around.

    2. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Macgrrl · · Score: 1

      Personally I refer to myself as a Gamer Grrl - I design and play all sorts of games, have been paid to design games and have edited published games. I don't see why the order of the words are particularly significant.

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      Sara
      Designer, Gamer, Macgrrl in an XP World
    3. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying the order of the words is important.
      What I'm saying is that some women are gamers, and some women are girls who enjoy playing games, just like some guys are gamers, and some guys just enjoy playing games.
      I'm saying these are women first, gamers second.
      Some girls, like you, probably, are more hardcore gamers, and are really just interested in the games. Other girls like the "gamer girl" title, but really aren't hardcore.
      Also, these women seem to want to differentiate themselves from the other gamers. You go by the title "Macgrrl", and identify as a "gamer grrl". If these women so obsessed with being treated equally, why do they so deliberately differentiate themselves from the pack, and still expect to be treated just like one of the guys?
       
      Another thing that bothers me is the sexism. If I started an all-male gaming clan, and said the women who wanted to join could be cheerleaders (instead of waterboys), I would be called a sexist and catch a lot of flak. Is this a case of women wanting to be more than equal?

    4. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by spx · · Score: 1

      hehe I cant not game on the 60" tv here, I might die if something happened to that tv... Yea, most females that are all *whatevernickherenad grll at the end* they just ruin it for the good ones no doubt. Im sure alot of them just want to be seen as a girl but are going about it the naive 16 year old way......without thinking before acting when choosing their handles. Well if you really wanted a cheerleader, I would probaly tell you to go find one, Im not her, I would rather rack up some kills than play with pompoms. And no, thats a case of a wannabe girl gamer that just wants to hate on people and be an attention *****. I prefer to avoid most all sites/ircds/games/etc that have any type of attention'rs around......I was just recently ban from a site for stating that females like that give females like me a bad rep.......then again it (by all members including in the thread fight out) went over the line, I apologized for not taking it to a pm, no others were ban, and now I still receive email updates from them, stupid attention'rs :D

    5. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by spx · · Score: 1

      Yes I am evil for my double negatives too.

    6. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      I like the people I play with to at least have an inkling that I'm female, because eventually they would find out anyway, and I'd rather get the abuse over and done with. People can put whatever they want in their names, surely?

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      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    7. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Macgrrl · · Score: 1

      Macgrrl is a nick I've had for over a decade now - and come from the fact that I was the only 'Girl' working in the service department of a Mac Dealer from some years. I was at the Mac workshop, was the only girl - hence, the Mac Girl. The nick stuck.

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      Sara
      Designer, Gamer, Macgrrl in an XP World
    8. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      No, I'm not saying I want cheerleaders.
      All I'm saying is that these women are a little bit sexist. If I started a male-only club, called the Mach Men, and I had ad banners with big freaking hulking dudes, and I had a decidedly blue color scheme on my site, and I told women they could be my cheerleaders, or whatever, I would catch a lot of grief.
      Equality doesn't mean superiority.

    9. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Saige · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If these women so obsessed with being treated equally, why do they so deliberately differentiate themselves from the pack, and still expect to be treated just like one of the guys?

      Mistake #1 - we don't WANT to be "one of the guys". To suggest that implies that gaming is your territory, and that we need your "permission" to be allowed to play. And that's total bullshit.

      I want to make it clear I'm a girl so that guys can be aware that we do play. Some guys are fine with it, and it quickly becomes just my gamertag, and they don't even see it as an issue. And the ones that make a big deal about it, well, I'm happy to know they'll remember they were beaten by a girl, cause surely their ego needs such a beating.

      Is this a case of women wanting to be more than equal?

      Let's wait until we're at least equal before wondering about things like this, please.

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    10. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      So you don't want to be treated 'like one of the guys'?
      Then you want to be treated, in an online world, like women are treated in our society?
      Help me clarify here.
      I'm using 'one of the guys' as it is normally used: To signify equal treatment in a primarily male-dominated activity. Like gaming. No, you don't need anyone's permission to play.
      Now, you don't want to go into a server and have everybody think "buh-buh-buh-boobies?!? I better A/S/L her.", do you?
      You want to go into a server and receive the standard 'Yo', 'sup?', and 'Hey's that a male would recieve, right?
      Thus, you want to be treated 'like one of the guys'.

    11. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Saige · · Score: 1

      What I want is to join a game and not be immediately singled out for negative treatment. Comments like "Are you really a girl?", "That's gotta be a guy cause girls don't play games", and "Get back in the kitchen, b$#(!" are not unusual, nor is being teamkilled just because of being female. I realize some of these come from guys who normally pull that crap on other guys, so that I am recieving equal treatment from the antisocial fuckhead camp. But I get guys who are fine with other guys that start that crap too, and that's what pisses many of us girls off.

      If that's what you mean by "one of the guys", then I appreciate the sentiment. The phrasing leaves something to be desired though, because of the inherent sexism prevalent from people thinking of online gaming as a guy's world.

      (and before someone goes off on me for being "one of those women" who complain about sexism inherent in everything, I've long rolled my eyes at such women and am totally aware of the irony in me making the statements I have...)

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      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    12. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by spx · · Score: 1

      Thats cool I can see that happen, but if I only knew you had that title as the server name, I would popin and ask if you meant it for this http://www.car-art.net/70mach1_mustang.jpg :) Many female sites I have been across are sexist, its a good reason I prefer to not join in on the bs. We just need a "WE NEED TO KILL SOMETIME" server, and all just go plugin like you said.

    13. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      [i]I want to make it clear I'm a girl so that guys can be aware that we do play.[/i]

      WE DON'T CARE. Just play the damned game.

    14. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Saige · · Score: 1

      If you don't care, then congrats! You're not one of the people we're targetting by being obvious about being female gamers.

      But then again, I have to wonder - if you really don't care, they why do you care if we're making it a point to let people know we're female?

      For example, I'm also gay - and I've seen enough of the "I don't care if you're gay, just do it in private" attitude to realize that what's being said doesn't fit the person's actual attitude. If someone didn't care if I was gay, they also wouldn't care if I held my partner's hand in public. The fact that it bothers such people means that they AREN'T ok with it, since they don't make the big deal about straight people doing the same thing.

      So I wonder if there's some of that here - people pretending they're not sexist and saying it's ok to be a gaming girl, just as long as we aren't visible about it.

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    15. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      It's exactly that, but not quite for the reasons you cite.

      "Look at me! I'm gay! You must respect me! You must accept me!"
      "Look at me! I'm a gamer girl! Take me seriously! I'm not a girly girl!"

      It's all pretty much the same thing. People don't go around flaunting their straightness, much like guys in game don't go around flaunting their maleness (not to be confused with macho men/pricks).

      Some people will care if you're gay. In which case it doesn't help any to be in their face about it. Some won't. In which case they're wondering why you need to make a big deal about it and why you think it's so special. Likewise for being a girl gamer. If someone has something against that, advertising it only antagonizes them. If they don't, they'll wonder why you think you deserve special attention for it and resent you for thinking you deserve any.

    16. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by Saige · · Score: 1

      People don't go around flaunting their straightness

      Bull-fucking-shit.

      People do it ALL THE TIME. Just that unless you're specifically looking for it and thinking about it, you don't even see it, it's so normal and accepted.

      The couple walking down the street holding hands. The girl showing off her engagement ring. The teenage boy with the "bikini inspector" shirt. The photograph of the wife and kids on some guy's desk at work. And countless other things.

      Relationships are a BIG part of life. You can't do much to get away from them in some manner, and it's all constant displays of people being straight. Now it's not flaunting like someone standing in the mall yelling, "look at me everyone, I'm straight", but it sure as hell is making peoples' sexualities clear.

      Yet if I do any of the same things as a gay woman, I risk people complaining about me flaunting my sexuality. And I've realized anyone that does so and claims they're fine with people being gay, well, they're lying.

      Now, as far as why girl gamers deserve "special attention"? Right now, I think a little extra attention is good for gamers in general. It will educate some of the guys a bit to realize we're out there, and that the one they run across isn't a fluke. More importantly, it might help more gaming girls to be a bit more open about their choice of entertainment, that there are others, and that they don't need to be embarassed that they play games. And this really does happen - there have been girls that have come to the clan forums and told us how shocked they were to find out about us, and how they look forward to having other girls to play with.

      And anyone that has issues with me having "girl" in my gamertag has issues with girl gamers. The ones that say it's because "it shouldn't matter" are just the ones that are being dishonest with themselves/others about it. The ones that don't care and don't bother to tell everyone in the world they don't care are the ones that are really fine about it.

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    17. Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      The couple walking down the street holding hands. The girl showing off her engagement ring. The teenage boy with the "bikini inspector" shirt. The photograph of the wife and kids on some guy's desk at work. And countless other things.

      Surely you meant to say the straight couple? Or should the rest of us assume that a "couple" implies 2 straight people?
      Gay girls can't get engaged? Or even wear rings symbolizing their commitment?
      Teenage boy? Oh, come on. He might just be gay and in denial.
      Which way is that photo facing? Towards the man so he can see it or out toward his co-workers?

      Now, as far as why girl gamers deserve "special attention"? Right now, I think a little extra attention is good for gamers in general. It will educate some of the guys a bit to realize we're out there, and that the one they run across isn't a fluke.

      The second sentence doesn't fit with the first and third.

  5. A/S/L by Associate · · Score: 2, Interesting

    There are a handfull of girl gamers on the server I play on. Some are even hot. But they don't try to exploit the fact that they are female. And I wouldn't have that much respect for them if they did. I have found that they prefer not to be treated different. They want to shoot things up, not answer asl's. Conversely, I've seen male players with seemingly female names greatly disappoint their teammates.

    This is not insightful, it's obvious. Is there a mod for that?

    --
    Someone hates these cans.
  6. Does gender matter online? by bradbeattie · · Score: 1

    Really, how often do you know the gender of the person you're playing with or against?

    1. Re:Does gender matter online? by secolactico · · Score: 1

      Really, how often do you know the gender of the person you're playing with or against?

      I can only speak for myself, of course, but the gaming stats being the way they are, I assume that everyone I come across online is male, until something tells me otherwise. It doesn't actually make a difference, tho, I don't "hit" on other people online, I don't usually roleplay, and I'll be damned if I'm going to "cyber".

      If you are a guildmate, I'll lend you a hand/quest with you if I can, regardless of your RL gender.

      --
      No sig
    2. Re:Does gender matter online? by Ksisanth · · Score: 2, Funny

      Since I have yet to see any controls that require a male member to manipulate, I'd say no.

    3. Re:Does gender matter online? by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      Most of the time, because of the Xbox Live microphone functionality, and the propensity of most gamers to use it.

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    4. Re:Does gender matter online? by cluke · · Score: 1

      Just you wait to see what Nintendo have in store next!

  7. Female players by spx · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Whoever said: Can you just discuss things like normal people? We get it. You're women. OMG. Stop discussing how dumb women are in games. Stop discussing the 'female point of view'. Just talk about the games like other columnists. It's women like this that are alienating themselves from the culture, not the other way around. I dont think it could have been put much better, and I would never join a clan called PMS anything. Those women also make it *so* much harder for ones like me that just want recognized as a female gamer. No, I dont think most female gamers are lesbians, or transgender, a good % yes, more than 50% I doubt it. I am neither, but when I am online, I hardly use the talk feature, I dont specify Im female b/c thats not the point of the game. And yes, the girlie girls that are all 'ooo look at me' do ruin it for the rest of us. I still am female, I just dont broadcast it (and most never know the differance), I dont go 'O look I killed it' or 'eww thats nasty'. I dont flirt or expect a game area to be a chatroom base. I dont get freaked out if I break a nail when playing, and I dont just say I game to get points with the male gender. I game to game, to kill, & win. Said best: The player with the most frags wins. For the visual learners: http://www.jinx.com/scripts/details.asp?affid=-1&p roductID=201

    1. Re:Female players by Lehk228 · · Score: 1

      i love that shirt

      as a guy i NEVER use the talk feature it breaks the mood of the game for me to hear random background noise as people talk to family members and stuff. UT 2004 TTS is a good tool though, lets you hear what others are typing rather than look down and read.

      --
      Snowden and Manning are heroes.
    2. Re:Female players by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      I have that shirt! I imported it specially, because to me it sums up exactly what PMS is all about, and all the comments you make about the people who give female gamers a bad name, well, none of those apply to PMS. I'm entirely serious about this. We don't have the girly-girls who scream whenever they get shot and we don't have women who complain that their hair is being mussed up by the Xbox headset. Well, we might have a couple, but with over 200 members we have representatives of every type of female gamer. The clan founders are pretty, yeah, but they don't leverage it the way the Frag Dolls do (now there's a whole other can of worms!). To prove this you can look at the success we've been having in the UK (where I'm from) recently as a clan; none of us are supermodels, we just like to shoot things dead.

      Come frag with us and you'll find out what I mean -- do you have Xbox Live or are you a PC gamer?

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    3. Re:Female players by Zalminen · · Score: 1

      Yep, the true moment of equality between sexes doesn't come when a player gets treated equally despite the fact that she's female - it comes when she can say she's female and nobody really cares. That moment is still far...

    4. Re:Female players by phxbadash · · Score: 1

      Damn I wish I had mod points.

      Someone mod this up.

    5. Re:Female players by spx · · Score: 1

      It looks like someone did phx (btw what part phx?) And Zalminen, when that day happens I will come back and let you know.....lol

    6. Re:Female players by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      No, you have a clan called PMS. So it doesn't surprise me you struggle to be taken seriously.

    7. Re:Female players by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      Wow, that's a delayed reply and a half, and entirely unrelated to what I posted... Care to elucidate?

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    8. Re:Female players by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      I'm entirely serious about this. We don't have the girly-girls who scream whenever they get shot and we don't have women who complain that their hair is being mussed up by the Xbox headset.

      You're supposed to be a serious clan? That why'd you name yourself over the subject of so much joking? Isn't the quintessential male dismissal of an upset female simply blaming it on PMS?

    9. Re:Female players by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      Ah, I see what you mean now. I wasn't quite talking in that context (I meant I was personally serious about what I was writing, rather than meaning to emphasise that we are a serious clan, but hey)... If you can think of a better name then please go ahead. It has to be suitable for a clantag and also mean something useful, it has to reflect the clan's credo and raison d'être, and not be sickly sweet or girly-girlish. Not easy, is it? It stands for Pandora's Maiden Soldiers, by the way, we're not actually a clan called "Pre-Menstrual Syndrome" :)

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    10. Re:Female players by tuxedobob · · Score: 1

      Regardless of whatever it officially stands for, you can't seriously tell me that when you thought the clan up, it didn't occur to you that PMS already had a meaning.

      And no, it's not easy to think up something better. For starters, it depends on what's suitable for a clantag.

      Are you limited to 3 or 4 letters? (GRLZ)
      Can the reference be subtle? (Gamers In Real Life)
      Presumptuous? (Goddesses of Game)
      Edgy? (Motherfraggers)

    11. Re:Female players by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      I didn't personally think up the clan name, I'm just a lowly division leader ;) I think like so many things it was a good name for a group of friends who came together, and the name has now stuck. I don't think we could actively change it now due to force of habit and reputation, but who knows..

      As for suitability: Ideally 3 letters long as either an acronym or word, that makes it easy to register consistent gamer tags, gamer names and clan names across games. Subtle is good, though something like "Gamers In Real Life" would mean members would have to put "GIRL" in their gamertags, which ruins the subtlety :)

      If I were to create a new girl clan, today, I'd probably take some gaming acronym with G in, and replace that with the word "Girls" -- e.g. SMG, gg, etc etc. But some people think that's even worse than an acronym which is related to femininity -- you can't please them all, so I think we're going to have to work with what we've got.

      (My branch of the clan, iPMS -- international PMS -- is possibly an exception to the "PMS" thing because it doesn't instantly scream out "GIRLZ" but makes people wonder if we're something to do with Apple. Oh well!)

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    12. Re:Female players by Saige · · Score: 1

      They decided on "Pandora's Maiden Soldiers"??

      Please, tell me you're kidding!

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
    13. Re:Female players by -pms-mistletoe · · Score: 1

      Think so. I get confused over the specifics of the M, though.

      --
      "Frag the weak, hurdle the dead, and assassinate those cursed snipers."
    14. Re:Female players by Saige · · Score: 1

      I was always a fan of "PMS Means Skills", going the recursive route. :)

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
  8. Online games have gender? by nakedsushi · · Score: 1

    I agree with most of the comments made that women should stop making a big deal about, "OMG, I'm a girl and I play games, so I should be treated equally. BTW, I'm a girl. Don't treat me like one. I'm a girl." I don't understand how making an all girl clan is supposed to level the playing field. It only calls more attention to the fact that the players are female. I've played many online games, mainly FPS, and I've never encountered any type of harassment for being a girl and I've never been excluded an invitation to a clan. Most clans aren't exclusively men, so why the necessity to make an all-women one? It makes me think of real-life sports. Most sports teams separate men from women because men are usually physically stronger than women. By creating a clan separate from men in the gaming world, isn't that what these women are implying? That brings me to the question of why does there need to be gender in online games? Most FPS games only have male models, so I just assume there's only one gender in the online world. It's not like gender affects gameplay, so why is it even an issue? The only time gender comes up is when I'm using voice-chat and usually it's someone commenting, "Wow, you sound like an 10 year old boy" and I just laugh at it and continue the game.

    1. Re:Online games have gender? by Meagermanx · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I pretty much agree with everything you're saying.
      I don't see why Clan PMS is turning everything into Boys VS Girls. It doesn't have to be like that. I just wish we could all settle down about this whole thing.

  9. double standard, hypocrites by argStyopa · · Score: 1
    ...one of the most popular questions they ask is, "can I join your clan?" One time, after MANY times saying no, I said to one of my friends, "No, but you can be my waterboy!" Imagine my shock when he came back minutes later with a tag that said PMS Waterboy! Next thing I know, every guy was asking to be a "waterboy" and we couldn't keep up.


    Why is this blatant sexism any less disgusting because a female does it. Novelty? Because (some) men *like* the idea of being sexploited?

    Hi, I'm going to have a l33t kl4n. Every time a grrl asks to join I'm going to say "No way baby, but you can be my stroke-kitten!"

    Yeah, I thought it would sound just as stupid from a guy. I was right.

    How about this? How about we all enjoy the fact that we're males and females, and we all just play the freaking games? I mean, if you want to make a HUGE deal out of your vagina, go for it, but don't expect special treatment.

    You make an issue out of your being a chick, and I may just objectify you since you brought it up. Otherwise, I'm just going to play the game, m'kay?
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    -Styopa
    1. Re:double standard, hypocrites by C0rinthian · · Score: 1

      Agreed. I'm just trying to figure out why a male organization is accused of ebil gender discrimination, while a female organization is commended for the same thing.

      I don't consider myself a 'guy gamer' and I don't consider my female gaming friends 'girl gamers'. I'm a gamer, and they're gamers. We are people who play games.

      Key word: People.

      As long as you're advertising that you're a female gaming clan, full of 'girl gamers' then you're not interested in any kind of equality. You're just attention whores.

  10. Makes you want to have your own! by Xarius · · Score: 1

    I'm starting an all-male clan called Clan TESTICLE. What? You don't like that? All males?! How unbelievably SEXIST!

    </double standards>

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    C17H21NO4
    1. Re:Makes you want to have your own! by Saige · · Score: 1

      Nobody's going to notice your all-male clan... why? Because there are already a ton of them out there. Perhaps that wasn't the out-and-out goal when they were made, but there they are.

      --
      "You know your god is man-made when he hates all the same people you do."
  11. brings back memories by clarkc3 · · Score: 1

    Wow, that is old. I remember playing Quake against a few of those girls way back then, one of them even went to my school

  12. Wow by Groove_rocks · · Score: 1

    I can't say i'm suprised at some of the comments on here because i've been around in the gaming world long enough to see this many times before. First of all, there is nothing wrong with having an all-female clan. Get over it. Yes, I thought some of the art on the site was a bit questionable at first too but that is just the style of this specific team and after spending some time on the forums I think it fits the team. And to the person who said this: "Could it be because they're not actually that great when it comes to gaming?" I'd be careful about throwing around comments like that if you have never even watched them play. I've never seen PMS in-game but i've had people make comments like that about me and I beat both of them.