Making Yourself Miserable to Succeed?
PeterAitch writes "Nature is reporting that expecting the worst - emotional cushioning - does not usually make you feel any better when you flunk or flop. The reported study indicates that you are just making yourself miserable. On the flip-side, people who are anxious are more likely to motivate themselves better to prepare for the forthcoming ordeal - defensive pessimists. Those with a generally sunny outlook on life expect to succeed and tend to deny responsibility when they perform badly."
I'm not going to click on that link. The article's going to suck anyway.
Breakfast served all day!
tend to deny responsibility when they perform badly
Ah yes, "blamestorming".
Dostoyevsky was right all along.
I'm going for first post! And if I don't make it, then, well, it's not my fault.
I fucking knew it!
Sadly, this means there is no simple advice about whether we ought to expect the worst.
So keep doing whatever you usually do, seems to be the advice here.
Unless, of course, you're a pessimist. In that case, you probably think you're wrong and you'll change to thinking positively, but the positive thinkers already thought they were right, so they'll keep thinking positive... So, I predict, everyone will soon be optimists, if this study gets around.
I'm pretty confident that I'm correct... See, it's already begun!
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An australian bartender I know always says, "cheer up, mate. It's just gonna get worse". Words of wisdom.
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When I was in college, there was an Optimist Club that met in our cafeteria once a month or so. I always talked about starting a pessimist club to make fun of their club, but I never got enough motivation to do it because I figured I'd never be able to get anyone to join.
I'm not going to click on that link. The article's going to suck anyway.
I clicked it. And it sucked.
Somehow I think this is all your fault.
"Christ, what a load of crap."
Careful, you will start a holy war with talk like that... next it'll be a cartoon featuring a depiction of Jesus Christ making disparaging remarks about Joni Mitchell then there will be flag burning and embassies being assaulted...
In the free world the media isn't government run; the government is media run.
They clap their hands.