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Teens Prosecuted For Racy Photos

An anonymous reader writes with a story on CNet about two teens who were prosecuted under anti-child-porn laws in Florida for having made and emailed racy photos of each other. Both were under 18 years old, so the resulting pictures are clearly illegal; but the teens' intent was not to share the pictures with anyone else. An appeals court majority opinion found that emailing the photos from one of the kids to the other was a careless act that should, it seems, bring down the full weight of the law. A minority opinion argued that the laws were intended to protect children from exploitative adults, not from other children.

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  1. Strupod.. by IdleTime · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Utterly stupid. 18 year is way too high. Where I come from it's 15. When I was that age in the early 70's we fucked like rabbits.

    IMNSHO, this is not an issue for the legal system at all.

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    1. Re:Strupod.. by Doc+Ruby · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There is a real difference between the damage caused to a person when pictures of them in private situations, expecially sexual, are published. It's worse for kids.

      And there is a difference between the damage done by showing the pictures, if any, and the damage done by being photographed, if any, and the damage done, if any, by being in the situation itself.

      America's hypocritical (is there any other kind?) puritanism prevents its laws from recognizing these distinctions. With children increasingly able to photograph and publish, like anyone else, we will have increasing damage done by the laws that don't reflect what's right and how wrong.

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    2. Re:Strupod.. by rbochan · · Score: 4, Insightful

      But you see, here in The Land Of The Free (TM)*, the majority of the population see boobies and even sucks on nipples frequently for the first few months of their lives. Then they aren't allowed to see them again for 18 years.

      *Void where prohibited by law.

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    3. Re:Strupod.. by HTH+NE1 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The damage done to them by the law (branded as sex offenders for life, having to register their whereabouts on a public database, unable to freely choose where they live, work, and be free of harassment, barred from ever adopting or probably even raising their own children if they ever plan to have any) is far more devastating to their lives than if the pictures ever got out.

      Don't think that just because they're minors now that their records will remain sealed. I wouldn't be surprised if there were already sex-crime exceptions to that.

      IANAL.

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    4. Re:Strupod.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If the lifelong effects you suggest are true, then the situation is insane. It's puritanism gone mad.

    5. Re:Strupod.. by daveb · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >It's puritanism gone mad.

      that's a redundancy.

    6. Re:Strupod.. by sparkz · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I assume that the poster is a USAian.

      Your country was founded* by Puritans.

      Feel free to emigrate.

      Better still, vote for a President in ownership of his (or her) own brain. Go on, take a chance on it!

      *well, invaded by, but - after all - that is the American Way

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  2. Think of the children! by dsanfte · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So now even children are victims of ill-thought out, inane "OMG THINK OF THE CHILDREN!!~1~!" type laws?

    My head asplode.

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    1. Re:Think of the children! by TheMeuge · · Score: 5, Insightful

      This is clearly a case of not just prosecutorial misconduct, but malicious prosecution of the worst kind. The majority brief actually included a part where they justified continuing this charade because these pictures MIGHT harm this couple in the future. The gall of the two judges who wrote this opinion is incomprehensible, and their hypocrisy borders on sadism. I mean, it seems as if they view the mere possibility of this picture surfacing as being more damaging to these kids than being labeled as sex offenders for the rest of their lives?

      I don't know what these kids did to piss the prosecution and the court off, but there is clearly malicious intent here.

    2. Re:Think of the children! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You know, there is such a thing as "Public interest" when it comes to state prosecution. Do you believe was the public interest was served by prosecuting these kids?

    3. Re:Think of the children! by TheMeuge · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I blame the judges and the prosecution for the same reason I blame every member of the SS for the atrocities they committed upon the Jewish population during WWII.

      Just because the law exists, doesn't mean those who execute it are absolved of the responsibility. Ultimately, the responsibility for any action rests with the person who engages in it.

    4. Re:Think of the children! by vidarh · · Score: 5, Insightful
      One of the three judges apparently did not think they broke the law, so it's not nearly as black and white as you try to portray it. Furthermore, the majority opinion is using arguments that focus not on what they did, but about what they might do - it's certainly not clear that the majority of two judges have applied the law correctly.

      Also, even if what they did violated laws on child pornography, there is the separate issue of expectation of privacy.

      Regardless of that, the reason there is a system where people don't automatically get charged but one where district attorneys decide whether to press charges, is to attempt to ensure that justice is done - charges are dropped or not raised in the first place all the time when prosecuting a case isn't in the public interest.

      In this case there is a law ostensibly intended to protect children, that have now instead been used to harm children. Whether or not it's the law, it's still malicious and spineless of both the prosecution and the judges not to stand up for these children instead of harming them by letting this case get this far.

      That the judges who wrote the majority decision even went as far as claim that these children "could have" caused the pictures to be spread and cause harm to themselves that way is just plain disgusting - those two judges have done far more harm to these children than a few pictures would.

    5. Re:Think of the children! by ultranova · · Score: 1, Insightful

      It seems so, but TFA was lacking in details on one area (but perhaps it is my lack of knowledge) - weren't they first convicted by a jury of their peers? If so, then shouldn't we be wondering why they did so? Very odd.

      The cynic in me says that the jury was really not made of their peers but of middle-aged people who wanted to make examples of these two to send a message to their own kids. That, or religious fundamentalists. In either case, what's a few innocent lives destroyed if it prevents someone from having sex, eh ? Another victory for the forces of purity, right ?

      And in any case, merely being accused of this is enough to get them marked sex offenders for life no matter what the judge or the jury says, isn't it ? So can as well go all the way, they are as good as dead anyway...

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    6. Re:Think of the children! by toriver · · Score: 3, Insightful

      uhhh.. what they did was break the law.

      They broke the letter of the law, not the intent of the law. Laws are interpreted by courts. Using a law designed to protect children to punish children instead is just bizarre.

    7. Re:Think of the children! by dorsey · · Score: 2, Insightful
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    8. Re:Think of the children! by AK+Marc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I blame the judges and the prosecution for the same reason I blame every member of the SS for the atrocities they committed upon the Jewish population during WWII.

      And I blame the jury the same as I blame the guards in concentration camps. The jury could have easily prevented a conviction. Why would 12 people agree that a self-pic is child porn? I think the Fully Informed Jury Association is a pile of nuts, but there are times when jury nullification should be used.

    9. Re:Think of the children! by dgatwood · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Charging kids with sex crimes to prevent exploitation of minors is like f*cking for virginity.... There are three problems here:

      1. The law fails to take into account the relative age of the two parties (the one who was photographed and the one possessing it).
      2. The law fails to take into account that anyone who can be tried as an adult should also be competent to make decisions of a sexual nature.
      3. The law fails to take into account whether the minor was in any way coerced (or even asked) to take the photos.

      #1 is bad because the stated purpose for these laws is to prevent an authority figure (including any older person to some degree) from using that position of authority to coerce a minor into doing something damaging. A person of the same age, assuming neither party is mentally handicapped, just doesn't have the same effect. Now if peer pressure from a group of people were involved... well, that gets a little tricky, but there's no reason to believe that this was the case.

      #2 is bad because it is a direct abrogation of the "equal protection" clause of the 14th Amendment. In effect, it says that the laws that protect you as a minor only apply when it is convenient for the state to apply them.

      But by far, the worst one is #3. Based on that, if a kid sends someone nude photos, even if the recipient did not ask for them, the recipient could be charged with a sex crime. WTF? That's the most absurd thing I've ever heard. Want to get that law changed in five minutes flat? Every high school boy or girl out there should send semi-nude photographs of themselves to their congressmen, then turn them in. I guarantee that such a flawed law will get corrected in a hurry.... :-)

      I'm sure this case will get overturned on appeal, but I'm firmly of the opinion that the prosecution and the judge in this case should be the subject of a public flogging for gross misconduct. There's no excuse for ruining the life of a minor based on what amounts to a technicality in the law. For once, "think of the children" is exactly what we should be doing, and the only way to do that is to change this broken law.

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    10. Re:Think of the children! by RESPAWN · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Probably depends on the state and the laws involved. I remember reading an article in a paper in GA last year, about a local Atlanta woman who is still registered as a sex offender because she gave some other kid a blow job in a high school classroom when they were both minors. She was now being forced to move due to a new GA law which prohibited registered sex offenders from living within 15 miles of a school bus stop. I don't remember the details, but apparently her case was complicated by the fact that she was technically performing an act of sodomy. IIRC, More recent ammendments to the sodomy law would allow future offenders to drop their registration after a time period, but her case was not grandfathered in.

      So, getting back to the point, hopefully these two teens will be allowed to stop registering at some point in their lives.

      (On a personal note, I don't feel that we should punish women for giving blow jobs. In fact, I feel quite the opposite. Any woman who routinely gives blow jobs deserves to be rewarded! :-P)

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    11. Re:Think of the children! by jamstar7 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You know, there is such a thing as "Public interest" when it comes to state prosecution. Do you believe was the public interest was served by prosecuting these kids?

      Yup. If your view of children is rights-less chattels emancipated by the age of consent, absolutely. If your intent is to get legal sanction to brainwash your under-18 citizens with whatever viewpoint the State sees as desirable in order to maintain control of said under-18 citizens for life, you bet. If you have the money to influence your government to legitimise whatever Puritanical viewpoint you happen to be carrying, without a doubt.

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    12. Re:Think of the children! by edschurr · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If a job is absolutely going to be done whether you do it or not, then why not take advantage of it and make some money? Pragmatism at its finest! Responsibility then would fundamentally rest on the society that created such an atmosphere, and not on the individual.

      There are possible confounding factors but they can be contrived away to keep possible the evaluation of this idea.

      Thinking out loud here.

    13. Re:Think of the children! by oopsdude · · Score: 2, Insightful
      The DA is granted the right to select which cases are prosecuted and which are not.

      Yes, he/she can. But only when it's a matter of whether or not they have a case or not; whether the law is just as it applies to a particular case is not up to a DA to decide. It's up to a judge or jury to decide if the law should be changed. (Or the lawmakers, but I'll be damned if they won't cry, "Think of the children!" and drown out the cries of reason.)

      Here's a list of the various court officers' functions:
      • Defense attorney - represents the defendant to the best of his/her ability. Does not decide for him/herself whether or not the defendant is actually guilty.
      • District attorney - represents the state (the law, as it currently stands) to the best of his/her ability. Also does not decide for him/herself whether or not the defendant is actually guilty. They represent THE LAW, even if they personally don't believe in it. They chose their own career. (I know I switched pronouns.)
      • Judge/Jury - decides whether or not the defendant is guilty.


      The DA does not get to decide who to prosecute based on his/her interpretation of the law, just as a defense attorney doesn't get to decide who to defend. (I understand that in our system, private attorneys do get to decide, but if all we had were public defenders, they would be two sides of the same coin.)

      Selective enforcement is worse than full enforcement or zero enforcement. It opens the door to racism, sexism, all sorts of other -isms on the part of the state, and turns DAs into the judge and jury. (Extortion, too. Think about it.)

      Think the law is unjust? Change it! Take it to the Supreme Court, or petition your lawmakers. I know that it's a very imperfect system, but it's better than the alternative. I'm not cynical yet.
    14. Re:Think of the children! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So in the vein of "Who Guards the Guards?" What recourse do we as the public have against these people who twist the intention of the law into a worse crime?

      Well, there are only a few things to do. You can petition the legislature to impeach the judges. You can not re-elect the prosecutor and/or the local level judges who permitted this case to proceed. Of course, the legislature and the judges are all lawyers who watch each others' backs for the most part, and too many of your fellow citizens will be well-pleased to watch two teens who omigod HAD SEX get their lives ruined.

      So if you really want things to change, you'll have to get with several people who agree with you, track down the people you consider responsible for all this, and kill them. This is called revolution -- and bloody revolution is the only way in history that people with authority who blatantly abuse that authority ever give up that power.

      Oh, you're not really ready to revolt yet? For the most part, neither is anyone else. I'm not either, actually. Which is why nothing will change, and these two kids will suffer. But don't worry, just scroll on down to the next /. article, and try to forget.

  3. This shouldn't be prosecuted. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    It should be encouraged.

  4. The prisons by iminplaya · · Score: 2, Insightful

    are hungry for more bodies. The system works.

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  5. Not children by therpham · · Score: 4, Insightful

    1) 16- and 17-year-olds are by no means "children." 2) These laws were made to protect minors from older perverts, not from themselves. 3) This is stupid.

    1. Re:Not children by YrWrstNtmr · · Score: 4, Insightful

      1) 16- and 17-year-olds are by no means "children."

      Some aren't. Most, maybe. But by no means all. And that is the problem. The law has to put a line somewhere. Not all kids develop at the same rate. So some are mature enough, and some aren't, at the arbitrary dividing line.

      2) These laws were made to protect minors from older perverts, not from themselves.

      Very true. But the letter of the law says "Anyone convicted of sending pictures of naked children..." Key word 'anyone'.

      3) This is stupid.

      Get the laws changed. (So that a very mature 17 year old can coerce his very immature 16 year old friend to pose nude) Problems, problems.

    2. Re:Not children by Rob+Kaper · · Score: 3, Insightful

      In my opinion, there should be a third legal status in between "child" and "adult" for teens so shit like this doesn't explode.


      Although I agree with that because there's a major difference between actual children and adolescents, that's not going to solve the problem. The problem here is not legal status but legal interpretation. A lot of freedom has been taken away from people this way because in the world of lawyers it matters not whether your actions harm anyone else or put anyone else at risk of harm. No, it solely matters whether they go against what has been written down.

      Sure, technically this is child pornography and technically there's a risk these pictures made it to the public. In reality however this prosecution alone did more harm than the bit of candid photography ever could.
    3. Re:Not children by honkycat · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Literal readings of the laws (e.g., your "anyone" keyword) are utterly impractical. The intention of laws is (supposed to be) upholding justice, not simply ensuring that everyone jumps through the right hoop at the right time. You don't have to have an arbitrary dividing line. There are sentient beings involved in the legal process and it's quite possible to determine whether a nominal crime (i.e., a broken law) is one that should be prosecuted.

      Here, this is clearly a case that should not be prosecuted. How is justice served by throwing the book at two minors who consensually broke a law designed to protect them from exploitation by adults? If, as in your last example, one had demonstrably coerced the other, then it would be sensible to prosecute the case. Note that it would ONLY make sense to prosecute one of them -- there's NO way it's sensible to prosecute them both just because the letter of the law allows it.

    4. Re:Not children by delirium+of+disorder · · Score: 5, Insightful

      1) 16- and 17-year-olds are by no means "children." 2) These laws were made to protect minors from older perverts, not from themselves.

      I think that all human beings should have human rights, regardless of their age. One of these rights is the right to free speech and freedom of association. Anyone should be able to share any information and anyone should be able to have any consensual contact with another.

      People think that it's uncommon to prosecute minors for sexually abusing themselves under statutory rape or child porn laws. This actually happens all the time. Child porn laws are not designed to protect minors at all. Most images and videos of minors having sex are made by teens in consensual relationships. Anyone who has been in high school in the age of digital cameras knows this. These laws are made by extreme religious fundamentalists who think that any sex outside of marriage is wrong. Since adults can vote, they have largely been unsuccessful in restricting adult sex (at least in the past few decades), however (even mature) minors have no say in government, so they can freely be subjected to to one of the sickest, most twisted sexual fetishes: abstinence.

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    5. Re:Not children by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      This is the problem - laws are too arbitrary to have any meaning these days. People who are old enough to engage in certain activities are clearly not mature enough, but we say its OK because of a mere law. People who don't meet the age requirement are punished for no good reason other than "the law".

      These laws serve no purpose except to further the careers of politicians and prosecutors while making a small vocal segment of the population feel good about imposing their moral will upon everybody else.

      We need the kind of law where a judge or even an intelligent jury can take a look at this and say "No harm was done, Not Guilty", instead of having our hands tied to arbitrary limits that serve anybody.

      There is no concept of justice in this country anymore.

  6. So.... by EGSonikku · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Now if I try to commit suicide will I be charged with Attempted Murder?

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    1. Re:So.... by TheCreeep · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Along that line of thought, If a 17 year old masturbates, is it a form of child molestation?

  7. Re:So then... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Just the boys. The charges against the girls magically get dropped.

  8. The real reason for these stupid prosecutions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Prosecuting teenagers for taking pictures of themselves naked and sharing strikes many as absolutely stupid. This is a victimless crime. Now, prosecuting others for sharing someone elses picture I can understand.

    So why are these laws being applied when the photographer is the subject?

    It's quite simple. If the uptight authorities don't do this, why, then you'd have teenagers all over the place taking naked pictures of themselves and passing them along. The whole world would be flooded with naked pics of teens!

    Can you possible imagine what such a world would be like? Why, why, ahhh, oh nevermind.

    Anyway, the religious authorities don't like this. That's what it boils down to.

    Oh my. Now we're starting to sound like Iran.

    1. Re:The real reason for these stupid prosecutions by OctaviusIII · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Religious authorities should also be appalled at such a miscarriage of justice. When Christians embrace legalism rather than care you get crap like this. In my mind they've lost their faith in God and put it in the courts. I'm a Christian myself, and this sort of BS sickens me. I hope they can appeal.

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  9. The DA should be ashamed by Kaboom13 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I can understand how these charges could be upheld, after all, a judges job is to uphold the law as it is written, not as they would like it to be. The person who should be ashamed of himself is the district attorney who is pressing charges on what obviously is an unintended consequence of a poorly written law. Is he so desperate for work, he has nothing better to do then go after two teens who are only guilty of being young and stupid? His job is to serve the public and see that justice is done, not waste their time and money on witch hunts. I wonder how many criminal cases got ignored or plea bargained so 2 dumb kids who took pictures of themselves could learn their lesson.

    I can only assume he wants to pad the numbers, so he can claim he busted another "kiddie-porn ring" and kept our children safe. It really scares me that in the article, the judges use a lot of reasoning along the line of the pictures "may have" been shown to others later, or the computers "may have" been hacked laster, or something, somehow "may have" gone wrong. When did abstract possibilities becomes illegal? I believe people should be held accountable for the consequences of their actions, but I don't see how they can be held accountable for what happens only in the wild speculation of some judge.

    1. Re:The DA should be ashamed by kharchenko · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I usually sympathetic to the judges that are bound by the letter of the law, but quotes from the judges opinion in this case left me fuming:

      "Wolf speculated that Amber and Jeremy could have ended up selling the photos to child pornographers ("one motive for revealing the photos is profit") or showing the images to their friends. He claimed that Amber had neither the "foresight or maturity" to make a reasonable estimation of the risks on her own."

      They could've ended up selling photos ? Well for that matter this judge could've ended up buying them! Since when have we started punishing people for things they could potentially do (but clearly have not attempted to)?

      Or how about lacking "maturity" - the whole case is built on the fact that they are minors ... how hypocritical it is to punish them for lack of maturity!

  10. I love this part of the majority opinion: by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Further, if these pictures are ultimately released, future damage may be done to these minors' careers or personal lives.


    Yes, let's protect potential future damage to their lives or careers by ending them early! What the fuck???? I can't believe that this was an actual reasoning.

    This is unbelievable on so many levels. As the monitory opinion states, it's ok to have sex, as long as you don't document it. Protection from hypothetical damage allows for doing actual damage. Consensual, legimitate and accepted practices can lead to association with scum of the earth practices.

    The more I see, the less I think I'll raise kids in the US.
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  11. Insane... by flajann · · Score: 5, Insightful
    This is yet another example of how insane the laws are. In reading the article, the opinions read like "could have sold them" or "could have caused trauma/harm to the 'minors'".

    Of course, prosecuting the minors in this way for what was an innocent act on their parts, throwing them in jail for years, sticking them on sex offenders lists, and marring them for live will cause no harm to them at all.

    This is just beyond crazy. A sheer sign that our country has gone way down hill. And you know what? These prosecutors will probably get a pat on the back, promotions, and the like. It's nothing to them to destroy the lives of these two teenagers just to forward their own careers.

  12. Time to worry by Realistic_Dragon · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What happens when some smart ones start emailing photos to their teachers along with a message saying "here are the photos you demanded not to tank my grades" and BCCing the FBI?

    That's the kind of scary crap you get when you don't consider intent when deciding on guilt.

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  13. Re:Out of date by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    That's fine and dandy, except no one got raped or killed. This was consensual.

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  14. Just Wait Until Your District Attorney Gets Home by Doc+Ruby · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The laws are to protect children from exploitation, whether by adults, other children, other children acting for adults, or whoever. It's not a "gotcha" for adults, it's protection of children.

    However, parents are to protect children. Disciplining children by the law is a total failure of the parents. While that happens, it must always be the last resort. And always include legal charges against the parents.

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  15. Re:Wrong tag, should be Politics not YRO by Orozco · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Also, the majority opinion makes a big deal about the ease with which the pictures could have been obtained by a third party because they were emailed. The judge who wrote the opinion talks about how the teens' computers could have been hacked, their ISPs could have retained copies of the email, the email could have been intercepted by hackers, and also that "Computers also allow for long-term storage of information which may then be disseminated at some later date." The majority opinion seems to have decided that since computers were involved, this is somehow more serious than using traditional photography. The minority opinion says that this rationale is stupid (paraphrased :).

  16. Why is this on Slashdot again? by alan_dershowitz · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is "this news for nerds" because they used email? Or because of racy nude teen photos? The density of posts designed to whip up righteous nerd frenzy is getting old.

    Yes yes, the law can affect nerds too. I can also get that news anywhere.

  17. Re:Out of date by b1scuit · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Good thing rape and murder are quite illegal regardless of how old the rapist/murderer are. I don't know what world you live in where rape and murder aren't adequately addressed in the letter of the law, but perhaps they should redirect a little effort away from prosecuting things that don't really hurt anyone to handling those things that do. If anyone is guilty of harm here, it's the people responsible for dragging those two poor kids through all this shit. But hey, protecting these two kids by ostracizing them with the sex offender label for the rest of their lives might well be a part of your world. Lotta different worlds out there.

    I hope I never wander into yours though.

  18. Jesus by static0verdrive · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I started getting it on at 15 as well. If I wanted to send a picture of myself back then, that would have been my business. "Land of the free" my ass.

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    1. Re:Jesus by Ranger96 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Speaking as a parent of 7 and 5 year olds, when they are 15 and want to send naked pictures of themselves to their 'friends', it will be MY business. Especially since law enforcement has decided (wrongly) that it is their business as well.

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    2. Re:Jesus by ResidntGeek · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Parents are notoriously bad at knowing what's their business.

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    3. Re:Jesus by BakaHoushi · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Is it just me, or have people forgotten that being young is ABOUT making stupid mistakes, and parents should just be there to help when need be? At 16, is it really that big a deal if two people saw each other naked? Even if it is a "mistake," I think I put it somewhere on the list around "dropping can of fruit on foot" and "forgetting wallet at home before driving." Humans are sexual creatures. Denying people under 18 the right to express this in any way other than masturbating to a Victoria's Secret/Sports Illustrated/Whatever magazine seems too cruel to me (because if someone 17 sees a Playboy magazine, he might just blow up his school, amirite?).

      What we have here is a clear example of a law punishing two teens for being human teens. These laws were passed, supposedly, to prevent some rapist from having his way with a little girl, and posting it for all to see (See my use of pathos there?). Not to arresst teens for being horny. (Here's a protip: I'm guessing before the magical Internet came about, some kids might have even developed their own naked photos and later handed them to someone in PERSON! Or, how about this. Some teens actually get naked in the SAME ROOM! And they might even DO things!)

      I don't know. I'm just angry that we, as a people, are being treated this way. Where's the good old fashioned yell, "I'm as mad as Hell, and I'm not going to take it anymore?" Where are the judges who take a look at this case, say, "Well, this case is fucking stupid, and so is the law. *gavel* You're free to go, and here's $10,000 from every senator, for making you sit through this bullshit?"

    4. Re:Jesus by phulegart · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It might be just you. But I seriously doubt it.

      There are other considerations. Let's look at the numbers of teen pregnancies right now, shall we? It is the other side of the equasion you are presenting, after all. In 2002, for example, the teen birth rate was 43 out of every 1000 women aged 15-19. Now, for those 18 and 19, who are legally considered to be responsible for themselves (in the eyes of the law), it's not nearly as much of an issue for those teens under the age of 18. When an underage teen gets pregnant, the state has to get involved for SUPPORT issues. inordinate numbers of teen moms go on welfare programs. Yes, there are moms of all ages on welfare. But are the new grandparents of this little baby supposed to now support this family, just because the mom is still a child herself?

      Unfortunately, that legal cut-off age is 18. Not 17, not 16, not 15. Yes, it is an arbitrary age, but it carries a whole host of baggage with it. Parents can be held liable for the actions of their underage children. Should some precocious 15 year old girl be allowed to legally decide that she wants to get into porn, just because SHE thinks she is old enough? Didn't Tracy Lords already show us the error of this kind of thinking? Ok, so she was 16 when she started.

      These teens are just another example of kids who had no clue, thinking they knew what was best for themselves, without having any idea of what acting responsibly is all about. That's what that arbitrary age of 18 was set for. Because they SHOULD have gained enough experience to be responsible for themselves by then, and they are now held legally accountable for their own actions. So if "someone else" is held accountable for the actions of a 17 year old, that "someone else" gets to dictate the rules.

      So what happens if teens are allowed to make their own decisions? Why shouldn't parents be allowed to kick them out of the house to go and make their own way in the world at that time? Why should parent's have to pay for the teens mistakes, if the teens are allowed to just do whatever pops into their little undeveloped minds? Just how many grandparents are raising their grandchildren, because the moms and dads are not remotely mature or old enough to raise their own kids?

      This is what allowing unfettered exploration of sexuality leads to. it isn;t about keeping kids down and not allowing them to do fun things. It is an attempt to teach them some measure of being responsbile. These kids got caught breaking the law. They knew it was against the law. They should face the consequences.

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    5. Re:Jesus by lukas84 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The teenage pregnancy problem is because of lack of sex education. You'd need to talk plain text to these kids at an appropriate age (12 or so), about what sex is, what can happen, and how to prevent problems which might arise when having sex, like pregnancy, STDs, etc.

      In fact, i don't see teenage pregnancy as a big risk. Pregnancies usually doesn't kill people, it just requires you to deal with a child or an abortion. AIDS isn't so forgiving.

    6. Re:Jesus by anagama · · Score: 5, Insightful

      These teens are just another example of kids who had no clue, thinking they knew what was best for themselves, without having any idea of what acting responsibly is all about.
      Get real. The GP's point was not that they were making good decisions, it was that their bad decision was inconsequential (it was that great line about dropping a can of fruit on your foot). Seriously, you need to analyze this. Should kids get a criminal record for every dumb thing they do? I did lots of dumb things in my time (although I've never considered losing my virginity at 15 one of them). Despite my mistakes, I somehow managed to get through college and graduate school, run my own small business, and have a rich hobby-life on the side as well. Maybe the kids ought to be grounded or have their network privileges revoked for a couple weeks, but a criminal record? Insanity.

      As an aside, if our laws become so draconian that it's impossible to not be a criminal in some way, might that encourage people to just become rapant law breakers? When you can't win, why try?
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    7. Re:Jesus by Belgand · · Score: 5, Insightful

      While I see (although I do disagree with) you opinion, it is not entirely relevant to this particular case. In this case the claim that these kids "knew it was against the law" is not the point. The point is that they are being prosecuted in a manner that is inconsistent with the intent of the law (and, while IANAL, the minority opinion supports this). These are laws that are designed to prosecute people that prey on children. When we move into post-pubescence, though we often encounter a host of different problems (and part of the problem behind failing to legally distinguish between pedophilia and ephebophilia along with a host of other related issues): is this a relationship between a teen and an adult and generally considered to be the case that the teen knows what they're doing (unlike in most pedophilic interactions) but in which the teen is making poor decisions and generally being manipulated? Or is this the case of, as in this case, two teens of similar age doing what comes naturally to... well, by definition every post-pubescent.

      This distinction is critical because in the first two cases we are dealing with adults taking advantage of (either intentionally or not) someone younger than them. In the latter situation we do not have that same problem. The law is clearly focused merely on preventing the former scenario. This would be tantamount to prosecuting a 17 year-old for owning a naked picture of himself. If he looks at himself naked in the mirror is he getting a hot one-on-one live sex show?

      Further, to put this in the context of your statements, that parents will be held legally accountable for the actions of their children, this entire issue isn't at all relevant. True, you focus almost exclusively on teen pregnancies which are a slightly different issue, but in this case there is no parental liability. These were photographs made in private for personal use. Thus, according to your reasoning -"if 'someone else' is held accountable for the actions of a 17 year old, that 'someone else' gets to dictate the rules" - my interpretation would be that the person being held legally responsible is to be provided with decision-making authority. Since there is no parental accountability in this case the parents would have no right to dictate whether the teens can or cannot do this.

    8. Re:Jesus by j-turkey · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Are you just arguing with the gpp or are you agreeing that these teenagers should be prosecuted for violating child-porn laws? These were two consenting teens who would otherwise be legally allowed to engage in sexual acts under Florida law (where they are being prosecuted). After some quick research, the age of consent in Florida is 16 as long as both partners are under the age of 24.

      The story seems to indicate that the images were not created for the purpose of sale or distribution. The images were privately emailed, and the two mutual sender/recipients were both arrested for producing/directing/promoting child porn and the boyfriend for possession.

      You've clearly outlined how the teenage sex can be risky behavior. However, I do not believe that this is reason for laws preventing consenting teenagers for having sex. Furthermore, in this case, there is no such law. These kids broke a law designed to keep kids safe from adult predators. There was no adult involved in this, they were not coerced, and story indicates that the images themselves were not of the kids doing anything illegal (e.g. sex between adults and minors, or images intended for distribution). The fact that both of these teenagers being prosecuted on a BS technicality which is (IMO) far outside of the spirit of the law is disturbing to me. To me, this amounts to overzealous prosecutors attacking children for creating and possessing forbidden data. It is shameful to me that our government would do this.

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    9. Re:Jesus by Iron+Condor · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Let's look at the numbers of teen pregnancies right now, shall we? It is the other side of the equasion you are presenting, after all.

      No, it is not. To the contrary.

      When I was sixteen, my mother made sure that there were condoms in the house and that I knew where they were. Of course that wasn't in the US. And of course where I come from teen pregnancy is an issue that people mostly read about on the internet, not something that happens a whole lot to real people.

      As long as people like you pretend that folks need to be treated like they cannot be held responsible for themselves, people will act irresponsibly. Allow them to take responsibility and they will gladly accept it -- and be much better people for it.

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    10. Re:Jesus by Cryptnotic · · Score: 1, Insightful

      They've been saying that for years. And they've been doing more and more sex education for those years. Every young girl who's having sex knows what a condom is, knows what it does, and knows that it's a good idea to use it. However, young teenagers are also notoriously irresponsible, so they routinely throw caution to the wind. Some people say that we should try to stop teens from having sex (the abstinence movement). Others say that we should do more sex education. The real solution is that we need to teach teenagers to be more responsible.

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    11. Re:Jesus by 644bd346996 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Teaching teenagers how to be responsible is very very hard. Neurologically speaking, it is always an uphill battle, and frequently only time can impart wisdom. When you consider that most parents don't have the time or willpower to be tough when they should, it is hardly surprising that teen pregnancies are so common.

      But back to that kind of teaching being hard: of the several teenage Eagle Scouts I know, only one is currently capable of getting along in life independently, and barely (his cooking is pretty bad). Also related to scouting, it is very interesting watching a very mature 13 year old become a raving pyromaniac for a few years, and then go back to being a respectable young man and often a good leader. In most cases, if you can get a kid through the teenage years without too much legal trouble and no bad car accidents, they will end up fine, and it can be hard to imagine the person as they were during the wild teenage years.

    12. Re:Jesus by ckedge · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What the FUCK is wrong with you!!!

      You're such a zelous anti-sex absitnence religious nut that you think locking boys and girls who see each other naked in prison for 10 years and ruining the REST OF THEIR ENTIRE LIVES by putting them in a database of sex offenders ... IS REASONABLE!!?!?!

      When I was 16, I could see myself naked. When a girl is 15, she can see herself naked. When a 15 year old boy and a 16 year old girl get together - they can see each other naked - and there's no way in hell that should be THIS illegal!!!

      Yes somewhere between 16 years of age and 6 years of age there needs to be a cut-off.

      If you want to prevent old men from raping young people, fine. If you want to make it illegal for old men to exploit young people by dealing in child-pornography - fine. But there's no way in hell a 16 year old taking a picture of himself or herself should be illegal. Yes maybe it should be a tiny bit illegal if they distribute it to anyone else. But not "ruin the entire rest of your entire fucking life" illegal. If anyone else distributes that picture, that's right back to full blown child-porn illegal.

      FFS - this is why you need Supreme Courts - to put the totalitarian nazi's back in their fucking places. 16, 26 - CITIZEN WITH RIGHTS. Maybe not full rights, but this is stupid simple shit.

    13. Re:Jesus by Trepalium · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Wrong. Abstinence only sex education has become more and more popular in recent times, and specifically excludes all discussion of condoms and other forms of birth control. The rational for the program is that "traditional" sex education encourages these children to become sexually active, so not talking about contraception and instead focusing on pleading with the children to abstain from sex has become what the program has become about instead. Frankly, the "education" from these programs is worse than no education at all, because not only does it fail to provide the children with any useful information, but also gives them something to rebel against. I have the distinct feeling that the support these programs get is less about education and more about social engineering via propaganda than anything else.

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    14. Re:Jesus by bhiestand · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Should kids get a criminal record for every dumb thing they do? Since criminal records get expunged when you turn 18, these kids won't get one. What is your point? I'll respond, even though that's an idiotic thing to say. Even if these kids don't have to register as sex offenders, and their records get "expunged", the records still actually exist. If they ever try to get a security clearance, which is required for a lot of cool jobs, they will have to explain their convictions of child porn peddling.

      Of course, even if there wasn't a single reason for them not to get a criminal record your argument of "Why shouldn't they?" would not give any credence to the idea that they should.
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    15. Re:Jesus by Frozen+Void · · Score: 2, Insightful

      How much rational people can get from believing in invisible gods that run the show?
      Psychotic devotion and complete faith in stories with very dubious origins centuries ago.
      Nothing rational.Thats what true "religion" is:a glorified mass cult.

    16. Re:Jesus by ElleyKitten · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes, making and sending those pictures will have consequences, but that's no reason to make even worse consequences for them. Sending her to jail will do nothing to prevent those pictures from going up all over school. Sending her to jail will probably not even prevent other girls from doing this, because if you're too dense to think that maybe your boyfriend will show all his friends when you break up then you're too dense to think you'd go to jail. If the police left them alone, they'd learn the consequences. It wouldn't be nice, but if you can't protect teens from the consequences of being dumb then you at least shouldn't make them much much worse.

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    17. Re:Jesus by mpe · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The GP's point was not that they were making good decisions, it was that their bad decision was inconsequential (it was that great line about dropping a can of fruit on your foot). Seriously, you need to analyze this. Should kids get a criminal record for every dumb thing they do?

      Especially considering that similar aged people who have done much more harmful "dumb things", e.g. caused serious (even fatal) injuries to innocent bystanders through incompetent operation of motor vehicles, encountering less serious consequences from the criminal justice system.

    18. Re:Jesus by Khyber · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "So what happens if teens are allowed to make their own decisions?"

      We finally learn the harsh realities of life and GROW THE FUCK UP, thank you very much. I was homeless at 16 with my father - you think I didn't have to make a decision for myself and my family to do what was necessary to ensure our survival? You're damned ignorant if you think otherwise, because my father was too distraught and 'shell-shocked' to do much other than wallow in self-pity.

      Back in the founding days, a man was considered a MAN the moment he was able to reproduce, and sometimes EVEN YOUNGER (given the death of head of household.) Remember, our founding fathers regularly had women far, FAR younger than themselves. 40 year olds marrying 14 year old women. Yet in this day and age - oh, NO! Think of the children!

      Teenager = old enough physically to reproduce. We were designed this way, there's no reason for a law to restrict us in regards to how the fuck we were naturally created. There is no reason, whatsoever.

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    19. Re:Jesus by canadian_right · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Abstince only sex education makes as much sense as removing seatbelts from cars because the seatbelts will encourage speeding.

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    20. Re:Jesus by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I applaud you on putting forward a truly mind-bending thought. It took me a surprisingly long time to recognize that I mostly agreed with it.

      But I don't see a good solution to the problem, because the biggest problem is that modern society is just so friggin' complex, that there is no way to educate a fifteen year old in such a way that he/she has a good shot at succeeding in a way that we commonly think of as "independent". Once we've taught them the sort of basic maturity that can allow them to value their own long-term interests and the interests of others (a sometimes impossible task), we still have to teach them a laundry list of knowledge and skills: basic household and auto repairs, how to do their taxes, how to balance a checkbook, how to pay their bills, how to plan and shop for and prepare nutritious meals, how to clean up after themselves, how to manage their time, how to use the Internet, how to drive safely, how to be responsible and effective at their chosen occupation, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. Again, that's assuming that the desire to be an honest, hardworking, successful person already exists.

      Without restructuring of society to abstract away all the tricky bits, it's more than even the most astute teenager can be reasonably expected to handle.

      So, we're faced with the problem: How do we protect them from the consequences of their actions until they've learned enough to manage all of life's various risks, without impeding their maturation, while respecting their autonomy.

      The abstinence-only crowd has one solution: teach them not to do the things that would cause these negative consequences. Don't have sex. It's a simple approach, easy to comprehend. But the bankruptcy of that approach is revealed when you start asking advocates about the exceptions. What happens to those who don't get the message? The more I study their reactions to that simple question, the more clearly I think I understand their conception of the world. They are the "good" people, with a message that other "good" people will accept and act on. If the message is taught loud and long enough, all the other good people will avoid sex before marriage. The rest of them, the ones who don't heed the message, are seen as either acceptable collateral damage or bad people who deserve all the misery and suffering life can offer.

      Sounds harsh, yes. But when I see conservative, religious folks getting fighting mad because somebody wants to take some very simple, very effective precautions to reduce a consequence of "inappropriate" sexual behavior, what else can I conclude? Take the recent insanity over the new HPV vaccine. HPV is an STD that a majority of women will contract at some point in their lives, which is known to raise the risk of cervical cancer. Several states are working on laws that would use the education system to deliver the vaccine to young people. Critics of these plans say that we mustn't carry them out, because vaccinating a sixth grader is tantamount to telling them that it's fine for them to be having sex.

      It seems that the goal of reducing the amount of sexual activity is more important to such people than protecting kids from the harm these kids could inflict on themselves through their behavior. It's like saying that we shouldn't disarm some of the mines in a minefield, because people would be more likely to walk through it.

      The alternative is to protect kids from the potential consequences of risky behavior, as the proponents of comprehensive sex ed suggest. The criticism of that position is usually of the "if we remove all consequences to their behavior, then how will they learn?" It's a strong argument in many other domains. The argument is weaker in the case of sexual activity, because most of the consequences of sexual activity can be minimized or eliminated, leaving an exciting and pleasurable activity in its wake. What they really seem to be asking is, "if our children can engage in consequence-free sex, what leverage do we have in our ques

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    21. Re:Jesus by StikyPad · · Score: 2, Insightful

      AIDS only ruins one life. Teenage mothers ruin two.

      Having a child when you're not prepared is worse than an STD. Don't get me wrong, I agree with the root of the problem -- lack of education and/or access to contraception/protection -- but motherhood essentially ends the education and/or career development of the unprepared parent. Its consequences reverberate through society in the form of welfare and increased crime, whereas STDs pretty much only affect the individual. Given the choice between curing all STDs and preventing all unwanted pregnancy, I wouldn't hesitate to choose the latter. Fortunately the solution to both was introducted almost 100 years ago with the latex condom.. now if we could just get people to use them.

  19. Re:Out of date by MillionthMonkey · · Score: 2, Insightful

    A minority opinion argued that the laws were intended to protect children from exploitative adults, not from other children.
    That's fine in a world where we don't have underage rapists and killers. But that's not our world sadly.
    You mean kids under 18 are free to rape and murder anybody they choose unless we charge them with rape for having consensual sex with one another? There's no way to distinguish those two situations from each other by statute?

    How do you figure, Senator?

    18 years is too old to be prosecuted as a child molester if your "victim" is also 18. You can molest a 14 year old, but another 17-19 year old? I don't think so! Someone who's your age isn't approaching you from the position of power or authority that can be abused by an adult much older than you. Two kids playing doctor don't deserve to be charged as if each was ten years older than the other. This kind of molester is not your age practically by definition. And with this type of abuse, your molester cannot be abused in kind by you, also practically by definition. Child abusers abuse children, not each other.

    They need to let you ripen a bit, so you have the kind of relationship to your victim that an actual abuser might have. The law should at least compare your ages, i.e. subtract them, instead of stupidly comparing each kid's age separately to 18 to determine the guilt of the other. Who wrote this law? This is a bug. Are all Florida's laws this poorly written? I'd be fired for writing code that did that. I should go into politics; it seems like a much easier coding job although you have to dress nicer and give a lot of bullshit speeches.
  20. Re:So then... by BakaHoushi · · Score: 2, Insightful

    *Sigh*

    You just don't GET it. Sex is UNNATURAL, EVIL, and masturbation is a GATEWAY to ORAL SEX and even INTERCOURSE!

    If God had intended for us to have sex, and to masturbate, He would have given us external sexual organs which are proven to help people feel better and healthier when stimulated on a semi-regular basis. He would have given us the desire to do this ourselves, and we'd have plenty of examples in nature to suggest that around the age of puberty, it is desirable and perfectly normal. But you don't see monkeys masturbating in zoos, just like you don't see 16 year old girls and boys with fully-functioning genitals who instinctively want to use them! ...Oh wait...

    (Joking aside, I have plenty of images on my computer that could technically be called child pornography. Granted, none of minors in these pictures are of non-relatives, not in a situation where nudity might not be acceptable [such as, say, a delivery room, which, last I checked, had plenty of nude kids, and photos taken, but do not somehow get labeled as dens of indecency], or of people who even EXIST [anime ain't real, senators]. But hey, I have pictures of kids on my PC which could, theoretically, inspire someone to rape a child someday. Just like how I could, theoretically, get struck by lightning right now, inside, in sunny weather.)

  21. They must have been putting the acid in the water by lowell · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This country that I live in is sick. It has some sort of psychosis, some widespread mental disorder; this disorder affects judgment and reason. It is an illness to remove logic and reason so easily to "protect the children". We are all sick for allowing things to get this bad. These lawmakers and judges and politicians all come from our society, so we get what we deserve. We let these things happen without actually righting the wrongs or fixing the problems. We are all to blame for this. We are in the death throws of our nation. The end is near and we don't deserve anything more than to wither. It is our fault, we could have stood up a long time ago, but we just laid down and let them fuck us.

    Like BSD we are all dead.

  22. Not surprisingly, I disagree by msobkow · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I don't think it has to be malicious at all. For one thing, the judges had to avoid setting an ugly precedent.

    Let's say the photos were made legal, returned to the youths, and no conviction performed. Now there are legal "child porn" photos in their position.

    Snap forward a few years until they're 21, and one of them is desperate for money. And sells their legal photos of their own underage antics. Are those still legal child porn as set by the precedence?

    I think the judges just avoided being blunt about the concern.

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    1. Re:Not surprisingly, I disagree by Wordsmith · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Although it's a sickening scenario, that actually probably should be legal.

      Child porn isn't illegal because it's sick to get your rocks off looking at a child. In fact, when we're not talking about pre-pubescents, it's biologically natural to be turned on by someone attractive - even if responsible adults understand why teens probably aren't really emotionally ready for sexual encounters, and don't have the wherewithall to consent to such encounters with adults who've got far more life experience.

      Child porn is illegal because creating it involves subjecting a minor, who by definition can't consent to sexual activity, to sexual activity. The porn is a product of that process. Making it illegal to buy, sell and possession child porn is akin to making it illegal to do the same with stolen goods, or goods created in illegal sweatshops - it's a way of eating away at the root wrongful activity.

      But when a person makes himself or herself the "victim," that logic breaks down somewhat. Is there really a victim at all? Especially if the choice to sell the pictures comes when the person is an adult, and theoretically responsible for his or her own actions? I can't imagine we'd want to create a precedent where cynical 16- or 17-year-olds are stashing away pictures of themselves to turn a quick buck when they turn 18, but if that's going to be illegal, we really need a different rationale.

    2. Re:Not surprisingly, I disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Let the logic break down a little more; what happens when a 17-year old purposely takes a nude picture of themselves, then sends it out to a bunch of people without notifying them of the exact age details. Can they then claim that those people are all in possession of child pornography?

  23. Re:eh, the US over-reacts one way... by JamesTRexx · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Mind if I'll get back to you on that when I'm 80 and found a willing 14 year old girl?

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  24. And teenagers by porkchop_d_clown · · Score: 3, Insightful

    are notoriously bad at understanding the whole "parenting" concept.

    Ranger is right.

  25. Clearly illegal? by dangitman · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Can someone tell me why "racy" pictures of someone under 18 are "clearly illegal"? The writeup doesn't even try to justify this statement or explain it - it is just said as if there can be no other possibility.

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  26. from my observation by alizard · · Score: 4, Insightful

    not understanding parenting concepts is a trait they have in common with their parents.

    1. Re:from my observation by Original+Replica · · Score: 4, Insightful

      True. There is the arguement that if you can't instill morality and responsibility in the first 15 years, what makes you think that a few more will make the difference? By the time I was in highschool my parents knew they could trust my judgement, they would still want to know what I was up to, but they had stopped making choices for me. For contrast, we all know what happens to kids that come from over structured housholds when they get to college. I think it's called "Girls Gone Wild".

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    2. Re:from my observation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I may not be a woman, but I came from an 'over-structured' household and yeah, I went a little nuts at college too. I drank like crazy for about 6 months and then ended up nearly dead at the hospital, which cured me of my alcoholism and introduced me to the wide world of debt (medical bills). My folks wanted to know every detail of every person I could ever conceivably hang out with and down to the minute wanted to know where I was going and when I'd be home. When I got to be about 16, I decided I knew better than my parents and started to lie about where I was going just so I could have an unstructured night with friends (eg, let's go to Bob's house for a bit- ok now let's go to Joe's house for a bit). Aside from saying I was somewhere I wasn't I always behaved and didn't do anything they wouldn't approve of- I just got sick of the micro-accounting and control. Anyway- you're spot on about what happens. I had sex with my first girlfriend around 15 too (like someone higher up in the thread here), and it didn't ruin me- we knew to be safe. The over-strictness even inspired a little of it- we went so far as to do it with my folks asleep upstairs just to 'stick it to the man' no pun intended.

      College is safely long over, but I definitely think back with some regret. I wish my parents had been less strict, but not one of those parents that just lets their kids do anything- kids love it but later it gets them. I agree that if you haven't put the foundations in place by even 12, without some real help kids are 'doomed' to get in trouble of some kind (pregnancy, the law, etc)- but that a certain diminishing amount of control must extend until college and until that time nearly everything is the parents' business- but not to the point that it requires a pre and post outing interrogation/debriefing. They certainly have a right to know, but an obligation to let their kids learn and live too.

  27. To quote George Carlin by vitality-jtw · · Score: 2, Insightful
    From You're all Diseased:

    "Whatever happened to 'you show me your pee-pee and I'll show you mine'".

  28. If you're too young to consent by aussie_a · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If you're too young to consent to having sex then you're too young to be prosecuted under laws relating to children and sex. Surely someone can't be so young that they don't understand the issues and yet old enough to be prosecuted by the law?

  29. How about this one by GotenXiao · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Age of consent in the United Kingdom is 16.
    You have to be 18 to view pornography.

    So, in short; you can go out and fuck like rabbits and spread your genetic code, but god forbid you see any naked pictures.

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  30. Re:Separation of powers by geminidomino · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You do realize that saying the lawyer-speak equivalent of "this law is fucking stupid" IS the baliwick of the Judicial branch, don't you? You might have heard of the Mighty Council of Super Lawyers Lamda Force 9... at least, that's the anime name... They're probably called something different in Real life. Hell, they're so uber-powered they can make laws go away COMPLETELY by comparing it to an old piece of paper! Impressive stuff...

    There is more than just "seperation of powers" involved. There is a theoretical setup "checks and balances" (although in reality, it works more like it was designed by Blizzard, and the president gets to be the Shaman) where the dickhead lawyers in the legislative branch can make a dickheaded law, and the courts (theoretically) have the power to fix it. Just because a traitor and his cabal of asshats want to call them "activists judges" DOESN'T actually mean that that's not thier JOB.

  31. I cannot STAND by n33kos · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I fully understand and agree with the laws whose purpose is to protect minors from being exploited by adults, but I absolutely cannot stand the ignorant behavior that most adults exhibit. The lawmakers seem to believe that once a person turns eighteen, they suddenly receive vast amounts of knowledge and wisdom that qualify them to make responsible decisions. Conversely, they believe that NO "child" who is under 18 could possibly understand the consequences of their actions.

    Bullshit....

    A seventeen and sixteen year old couple is COMPLETELY aware of the possible consequences of their actions, but unlike the adults who OBVIOUSLY "have it right", they don't care. They don't care because they have their entire lives ahead of them! It seems that the "adults" forgot what it was like to be sexually excited by the person you are involved with. Not only do they have every right to do whatever they want with each other sexually, but to actually believe that "These children are not mature enough to make rational decisions concerning all the possible negative implications of producing these videos." shows direct disrespect toward humanity. Just because the laws say that these people are some sort of primal creatures until they turn eighteen doesn't make it true.

    Could we maybe just accept the possibility that 'children' are humans, not animals.

    p.s. This happens ALL the time. the ONLY reason that these kids are facing consequences in the future is the overreaction of the authorities. Great job, you're fucking up peoples lives because they have sexual desire. (of course its the American way to persecute other people based on your own beliefs. Thats what Jesus would have done! /sarcasm )