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UK Schools Will Fight Cyberbullying

Plutonite writes "The BBC is running a story on UK schools being told by the education minister to fight cyberbullying, by which they mean bullying with the aid of (network-based) technology. Schools have been told to confiscate mobile phones, and, more controversially, to investigate and get material removed from personal social-networking sites. Are schools supposed to be doing this as an extension of their duty to prevent physical bullying in school, or is this is yet another example of governmental intervention where it is not due? Should kids be brought up knowing that their life on the web is being documented and controlled by people other than their parents?"

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  1. Personal experience in the UK by Ckwop · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I was bullied extensively in the early part of my school life. My parents reported it to the teacher and when that didn't work, we went to the Headmaster at the school. The abuse did not stop.

    So I changed schools - and I got yet more abuse. We went through the same procedures again and again and again and it was no use. The teachers didn't want to know.

    I finally made it to High School and then I decided this time, it wasn't going to happen again. Some kid tried it on and I opted to belt him one in the nose. His nose was thoroughly broken and he was out of school for a week.

    After that, I was set for the rest of school. Nobody really tried anything on after that. You see the athaphy that I ran in to in my earlier episodes worked to my advantage now. Precisely nothing was done to me and my schooling carried on as normal.

    It seems that these days we attach an "e-" or a "cyber-" on to a pre-existing social problem and suddenly everyone treats the issue as urgent . The problem with such initiatives is there fail to realise that this is a human problem first and a technological problem a distant second.

    The way to deal with bulling in schools is in my view is very simple. The punishment should be swift, harsh and feared. They should be charged with assault or harassment in a full criminal court and ordered to do a suitable amount of community service. Failure to comply should immediately mean jail-time which should be served in school holidays.

    It's a pity that the type of people who bully are the sorts who have violence all around them at home. As such, the only thing they understand is violence. A short, sharp shock may be enough to put them back on the straight and narrow coupled with some kind of therapy. I do not believe such people are beyond help but if left to there own devices, they will become the criminals of tomorrow.

    Simon

    1. Re:Personal experience in the UK by gardyloo · · Score: 4, Funny

      Anyone who is so into the internet that they stake their emotions into it need some good old fashion electroshock therapy. That sounds fun. Can I get it online?
    2. Re:Personal experience in the UK by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Interesting
      "Instead of resorting to Orwellian methods, maybe they should take some basic steps to reduce actual physical bullying."

      I think we should really make it clear to kids, that what they post about themselves, and others WILL become something that is nye impossible to remove once place on the internet. It really is worse than the proverbial "permanent record" we were all threatened with growing up. In this case...it IS. And it can follow them through adulthood, possibly to haunt them in job applications, etc.

      That being said...I think education should stop AT education. Teach them, but, they are not there to enforce rules off campus. I don't feel that is within their jurisdiction.

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    3. Re:Personal experience in the UK by gstoddart · · Score: 3, Funny

      "Anyone who is so into the internet that they stake their emotions into it need some good old fashion electroshock therapy."

      That sounds fun. Can I get it online?

      Just wire your power supply to your tinfoil hat. :-P
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    4. Re:Personal experience in the UK by OrangeTide · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I was thinking along the same lines. Solution to bullying outside of school should be dealt with by the authorities (and therefor be much more serious), or dealt with (my preference) with physical violence.

      If someone was harassing me electronically for their own amusement it would not be long before I'd jump them, sorry if it's not very politically correct for kids to beat each other up, but to a kid the unreliable PC solutions are of little help. Also some of the abuse can be dealt with electronically, someone sending you terrible message, put them on ignore. (many cell phones will let you ignore numbers too)

      Bullies tend to become corrupt police officers and abusive middle managers. bullies become criminals when they are too poor to afford the education and influence necessary to have a career where their abusive nature can be tolerated.

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    5. Re:Personal experience in the UK by evil_aar0n · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Excellent points, and I agree. "Time outs" and "dialogue" don't do squat. You want to teach a kid not to do something? The judicious application of a bit of minor discomfort - aka "pain" - can go very far. Of course, you can take this to extremes, and it has been, which is why we have parents and other authority figures espousing "time outs" and other useless methods nowadays. "Hey! Teacher! Leave those kids alone!" they say.

      My own anecdote: I was a little turd in school - nothing serious, but a typical wise-ass. One teacher, one time, lifted me by the hair on the back of my head - I deserved it - and that was it for screwing around in his class. I learned. Kids today learn a different lesson: that they can do whatever they want and no one can touch them. Wrong lesson to teach, in my view.

      Sorry you had to endure that crap as a youth.

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    6. Re:Personal experience in the UK by Arthur+B. · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Community service? The kid didn't harm "the community" he harmed you, any damage he owes he owes to you, not to the community. You should also have the option to punch him in the nose, if he believes its ok to do it, then it must be ok to receive it.

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    7. Re:Personal experience in the UK by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful
      "Believe it or not, a lot of us grew up without the "zero tolerance" bs..."

      THANK YOU for the perfect answer!!

      I too remember a time when Mom sent me off to school.....with aspirins in my pocket in case my headache came back or allergy meds if I needed them. I remember taking my new pocket knife to school to show my friends...no problems there, till I got caught carving initials onto something...even then, was given back to me at the end of the day. I remember drawing flip cartoons and notebook pages full of army men, and explosions....and in HS writing about some things in creative writing classes, which back then got an "A" for originality, but, today apparently would get you sent for serious counselling, and put you on a 'watch list'.

      Yep...I remember those days. For some reason, sure we'd get into a fight...but, no one got a weapon pulled on them, and it certainly didn't occur to us to come in school with high powered guns (even though many of us had ready access to guns) and mow our classmates down.

      Funny that....

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    8. Re:Personal experience in the UK by Derekloffin · · Score: 2, Insightful
      I can agree with some of what you say, but not a whole lot. The first thing I really have to disagree with is the very nature of the bully. The violent bully, the stereotypical one you see on TV, is really the least of your worries. Yeah, they can beat you up, but that's easy to prove, and in most cases with competent school oversight this can be effectively neutralized (not totally mind you, you will always have people slip through). It's the psychological bully that is far more prevalent, and worst still far harder to stick it too, and really it is these psychological bullies that are the ones that cyber-bullying is about. They don't have to lay a finger on you and they can still make your school life, and even your life in general a living hell.

      Further, the 'well, stand up to them' argument fails many times in practice. Violent bullies and psychological bullies alike often target the weakest people, those the most isolated and easily intimidated. Even if you do fight them, quite often these types will lose which now may well make the situation worse as not only are they demoralized, but the bully is now even more confident that they have a power advantage. It gets worst still when you're dealing the bully grouping as they are in that much better a position to retaliate against you. What makes this even that much worse with the psychological type is that sadly it is often the victim of the bullying who receives the punishment because of this stereotyping of bullying a purely physical thing.

      I'm very cynical about authorities solving the bully problem, but at the same time I see no real other viable alternative that will work in practice. While bringing the police in may work in some cases, having personally experienced the punish the victim stupidity of same institutions, I'd rather not see it get that serious.

    9. Re:Personal experience in the UK by ultranova · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I was quite happy to see this bylaw get passed. As a victim of bullies for years (until I had no choice but to fight back), I was happy to see that my son (just about 2 years old) shouldn't have to deal with the same things I did.

      If you want to ensure that your son doesn't get bullied, then enroll him into a good martial arts class; the kind which teaches people how to beat the living crap out of people, rather than sports or philosophies. The sad fact is that not being able to defend yourself makes you a victim; and ultimately you can't trust anyone else - not the teachers, not the police, and sure as hell not some politician trying to get political points - to defend you.

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    10. Re:Personal experience in the UK by vux984 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      the bullied finally learning to stand up for themselves, much like the way you did, is the only way the bullying will ever stop.

      Bullshit.

      I've seen plenty of kids who -tried- standing up for themselves, they took a swing at the bully, and guess what?

      Sometimes it doesn't connect. Just more fuel for the bully to mock with.

      Sometimes it connects and the bully shrugs it off. Maybe it wasn't such a great idea to haul off and hit someone who has 30 pounds and 10" of height on you, after all.

      Sometimes it connects and the bully is knocked on his ass and even humiliated and then he and his three friends return the favor at the next opportunity, and the one after that, and the one after that...

      The little guy getting bullied pulling a heroic move out of his ass and dropping the bully on his ass, ending the cycle, and being accepted by the group is a bullshit solution. Yes it happens, yes it can work, but life isn't hollywood and the little guy doesn't always get his hollywood ending when he grows a spine. Sometimes, in the real world, they just break his spine.

      The Reena Virk swarming and murder for example was believed precipitated by some of the stuff Reena had done in a misguided attempt to establish herself as tough, trying to break the cycle of victimization she was stuck in.

  2. should they know... by spiffmastercow · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Yes, they should know it's being documented.. Because it is. Whether it be by schools, peers, google, marketers, Homeland Security, etc., it will be monitored, and it's best they know that.

  3. Adjustments by eldavojohn · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Should kids be brought up knowing that their life on the web is being documented and controlled by people other than their parents? If people need parenting advice it shouldn't be from Slashdot. Come to think of it, if people need parenting advice, they shouldn't be having kids.

    I'm not going to tell UK people how to raise their children and they're not going to tell me how to raise mine. You can go ahead and prepare your kid for what your government is going to force onto them anyways. I personally am going to teach my kids to question everything. Question me, question the government and question any institutions. I'm going to teach them how to do it objectively and how to improve themselves as well as the said institution. And you know what? Maybe my kids will be able to reverse what my generation has let slip out of control. Maybe not. Depends on how you raise your kids. So the question I'm really interested in is how are you going to raise your kids so I know whether I have to prepare mine to be monitored their entire life or prepare them for something we all used to enjoy.
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  4. Huh? by zappepcs · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Are schools supposed to be doing this as an extension of their duty to prevent physical bullying in school, or is this is yet another example of governmental intervention where it is not due? Should kids be brought up knowing that their life on the web is being documented and controlled by people other than their parents?" No, yes, and FSCK YES !

    Kids should know that the Internet is not a playground with safety bumpers on every sharp corner. It is for adults, and there are people out there that will monitor everything they can, people will take advantage of every opportunity. The sad fact is that not enough adults know this yet, so teaching kids about it is a good start at the education that should come with the purchase of Internet services.
  5. Don't Bully: Government hates competition. by Tackhead · · Score: 4, Insightful

    A survey for the union found that 70% of teachers had heard children in their schools using homophobic language.

    When there's insults to be dished out, you will only insult each other using the approved insults!

    The union is calling for pupils' mobile phones to be classed as potentially offensive weapons and for them to be banned during school sessions.

    And when there's abuse to be documented, who'll be documenting the abuse? Who'll be watching the watchers? Not you, Citizen!

    When we point the camera at you, it's for your safety. When you point the camera at us, it's an offensive weapon.

    Don't bully. Your government hates the competition.

  6. Nothing will come of it by allthefish · · Score: 2, Insightful

    No matter what the intentions behind this decree, I don't think anything will change. If J. Random Memorial School sends Facebook a message demanding that they remove a person's comment about a student of theirs, and it does not violate Facebook's TOS, then why would they do it? Most social networking sites aren't based in the UK; frankly, its unenforcible.

    Also, even if social networking sites were affected, wouldn't the "cyberbullies" just find another medium, i.e. AIM/YIM/MSN/IRC/Insert your own acronym? Or independent blogging? There's really no way to enforce this reliably.

  7. E-bullies? Seriously?? by Loosifur · · Score: 2, Informative

    Well, actually, their every e-move IS being documented, by Google, and people other than their parents DO control their lives, such as teachers, government officials, etc. I don't know how it is in the UK but in the US you don't really have much in the way of rights until you hit 18. But, that aside, how far do you take this? What about bullying outside of school? What about bullying when the kid's 20? IMO you do kids a great disservice by insulating them from the hard parts of life, such as the fact that some people are pricks. It's better to learn how to deal with that yourself at a young age than to learn to rely on your parents or the government to come to your rescue.

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  8. To the last question by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Should kids be brought up knowing that their life on the web is being documented and controlled by people other than their parents?


    Yes, they should, because it's true. Why lie to the poor tykes?
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  9. i by kurtis25 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I was bullied in elementary school. By High school I was friends with the kid who bullied me, and yes we had fun with that one. We were talking about bullying in my humanities class, my friend (the ex-bully) raised his hand and said, "I used to bully people," the teacher asked how he thought that made the other kid feel. The bully said, "I dunno," he looked at me and asked, "how did you make it feel?" I said something about not remembering but that he owed me back for all the lunch money he took after he beat me up. The look on the teachers face was priceless. In a real response, it's the schools job (since parents don't seem to know) to help build some character into students. The school should help students to learn what the Internet is and what the future consequences are of action on the net. The school shouldn't play big punisher and use it's hand to punish kids for mean statement written at home. Maybe the school could help parents moniter online life if there are issues or warn parents of potential issues. They shoudl also let paretns know of problems that may be occuring. If a kid is being picked on at school he or she is probably seing the same issues online and hiding them all from parents.

  10. Is Slashdot included? by Marcion · · Score: 3, Funny

    Teachers realm the comments for signs of cyberbullying:

    Teacher: "Now young Sebastian, while I admire your interest in communist era Russia, I'm not sure that image you linked to is really relevant to technology."

    Student: "You must be new here, mod parent down, imagine a Beowulf cluster of those..."

  11. Another well disguised troll?? by Critical+Facilities · · Score: 2, Funny

    Examples cited include threats, intimidation, harassment or "cyber-stalking", unauthorised publication of private information or images, impersonation and so-called "happy slapping". Mr Balls also called for action against anti-gay bullying -calling for schools to promote a "culture of respect" and saying that "homophobic insults should be viewed as seriously as racism"

    I dunno about an article that quotes a "Mr Balls" about "happy slapping".
  12. Re:How do you "cyberbully" someone by Boogaroo · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not that easy. You can't just log off.

    They're filling your inbox with spam.
    They're spamming your blog.
    They're making up websites with your picture and filling it with false "confessions."
    They're making up IM accounts and messaging your friends with the same "confessions."

    There's a dozen more ways kids can be cruel online. It doesn't have to be directed at you while you're logged in to harm you.

  13. Semantics by Sparr0 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I have a problem with the modern vernacular using a single word, "bullying", to encompass everything from name calling to practical jokes to mild or even violent physical abuse. Doing so robs descriptions of the latter of the weight they deserve.

  14. Re:How do you "cyberbully" someone by metrometro · · Score: 2, Insightful

    All 4 of your examples are illegal and carry both civil and criminal penalties. Why does that have anything to do with school?

    Those carry penalties IN LAW. In practice, it takes an informed victim to exercise that legal protection. Does that sound like a middle-schooler to you? I don't expect every parent to understand that, but I think it's reasonable for teachers to be aware of the rules of the game and step in as defenders of kids they see getting attacked online.

    What penalties they set is debatable, but the basic charge of the article: 'we're teaching kids that they're being supervised online' misses the point. They're teaching kids that online behavior has consequences, some of them unpleasant, just like the real world. Sounds like a useful lesson to me.

  15. Couple more things they need to watch out for by Joe+Tie. · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Schools have been told to confiscate mobile phones, and, more controversially, to investigate and get material removed from personal social-networking sites.

    I've also heard there's this new fangled thing called paper that can be used to send nasty comments to people anonymously! Poo has also been known to be used in this manner, while sitting on a doorstep. So just remove paper, pens, hands, poo, and doors from the environment and our children can finally be safe!

    As much as I applaud any attempt to improve the quality of a child's education, attacking the tools they use for bulling isn't going to do anything to the root causes of it. However, sending the kids to an island and having them fight to the death for our amusement....that could work.

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  16. Remember: This is the UK, not the US. by Ungrounded+Lightning · · Score: 3, Interesting

    ... is this is yet another example of governmental intervention where it is not due?

    When considering government interference with free speech and balancing this with libel and other criminal written speech, please remember that the schools and government in question are in the UK.

    The UK government does NOT have a constitutional guarantee of a right to free speech and freedom of the press. Its libel laws are quite different from those of the US as well. (It's one of the major differences between the legal systems of the two - in the US truth is an absolute defense aganst claims of defamation, and "public figures" have an extra burden of proving deliberate malace when bringing a charge.)

    Now the question was about whether such intervention was PROPER. IMHO that doesn't vary as you cross The Pond - though others may disagree. But what's LEGAL, what's standard governmental practice, and the theoretical underpinnings behind decisions and reasoning about them DO differ drastically. So what the courts will let the government get away with, and how to go about getting them to force the government to back off, will also differ greatly.

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  17. Experience in UK - my child in US by Darth_Keryx · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Having lived for 5 years in the UK I saw first hand (and to a degree experienced) bullying. I do not know if Americans realize how serious a problem it is in the UK. The kind of cruelty and abuse one reads/sees in "Harry Potter" might seem foreign and unlikely, but let me tell you that is nothing, just a sample, of what "bullying" can mean in British schools. Serious physical and long term psychological damage. There have been known cases of suicide - the only way some poor kid could escape the daily abuse. For the record my experience was mild compared to some. And yes once I started threatening bullies with "I'm taking karate, you can hurt me today, I'll get you next month" it got better. Frightening but true.

    My first point is simply that I am glad British school might be doing something about bullying. Although we can debate whether the solution is entirely legal or appropriate. But the problem is very real.

    Now to cyberbullying...

    My daughter was the very first victim of cyberbullying at her rather elite private school here in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. (Yes a personal detail.) Pretty bad, although could have been worse. Her teachers cared and tried to take action against the students involved. The administration did squat and hung us out to dry. She handled it well, but over the course of that year (because her parents took it very seriously) she was ostracized, and quickly students and administrators alike got into a "blame the victim" pattern. Her grades plummeted. Often talked about killing herself, yadda yadda yadda. Friendships (such as between us and other parents) ended over this because they would not hold their children accountable. (In a new school now, thriving, grades shot up to A's and 100's. Go figure.)

    Again - my point is simply "cyberbullying is also a serious and real problem that causes real observable damage".

    Whether such policies are legal, enforceable, and so on - that is quite debatable. The website provider (a kind of Facebook for kids) actually took the site down when we complained (we think). Good for them. Violation of policy. The school took the "well, not our network/computers, therefore we can't do anything" line. (Photos of my child were clearly taken at school. Uh...) Technically might be correct. I don't know. My final point is, "Even if schools cannot legally police and enforce every last dang website or IM or whatever... *something* needs to be done by *someone*". The problem is bloody real and so is the damage this kind of filth.

    I appreciate and sympathize with concerns about privacy and excessive government intrusion and all that. I really do. But what then shall we do? Unless we want to deny the seriousness of this problem?

  18. *cyber* bully? by nurb432 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Kids that are effected from *virtual* bullies should get a grip. Its NOT REAL.

    Stop being a baby. Geesh.

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  19. The root problem by damburger · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Politicians are old. Tony Blair was considered to be a 'youthful' PM coming to power in his 40s. The technology that shapes our lives is young, and constantly evolving. I'm only 26, grew up nuts about computers, and already I feel as if I'm starting to slip behind the curve, its frightening to me so its probably terrifying to them.

    The country is run by technically illiterate near-pensioners who are slapping e- and cyber- prefixes on everything in a fit of desperation. The result is idiotic initiatives such as this, which aside from being a waste of time and money, present an opportunity for the more savvy political players lurking in the shadows to invade peoples privacy and crush their civil liberties.

    From a techie point of view, Gordon Brown might as well be Leonid Brezhnev. A relic of a past era making crappy decisions based on the principles of his own time, without regard for the reality of the present. Young people in the UK need to kick out the gerontocracy and start making informed technology policy.

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