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The Implications of a Facebook Society

FloatsomNJetsom writes "The site Switched.com is taking a look at the slow death of privacy at the hands of social media sites such as Facebook and MySpace with a link to a report on the creepy practice of Facebook employees monitoring what pages you look at and a thought-provoking video interview with social media expert Clay Shirky — who says that social networks are profoundly changing our ability to keep our private lives private. 'Eventually, Shirky theorizes, society will have to create a space that's implicitly private even though it's technically public, not unlike a personal conversation held on a public street. Otherwise, our ability to keep our lives private will be forever destroyed. Of course, that might already be the case.'"

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  1. Private Lives Private by srollyson · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I don't think that sites like Facebook are "profoundly changing our ability to keep our private lives private." Rather, they're changing our ability to make our public lives more public. This is an important distinction, since these social sites make it quite clear by design that you are sharing your information with your friends and acquaintances. If people really wanted to keep the fact that they got smashed and rode horseback on their friend private, they'd just open up notepad and type away. Instead, they decide to broadcast that on a social website so their friends can see their drunken antics. Don't take this to mean that I condone the practice of Facebook employees (or gov't agents for the tin-foil hat crowd) browsing private profiles. There is an implication of semi-privacy if I set my profile to be viewable by friends only. If a potential employer sees Johnny McDrunkeverynight's public pictures and decides not to hire Johnny, fine. Maybe he shouldn't have used the megaphone (social websites) to broadcast his machismo.

    1. Re:Private Lives Private by trolltalk.com · · Score: 2, Insightful

      ... or people need to start using pgp /gpg, and social networking platforms need to incorporate such technology more transparently into their sites.

    2. Re:Private Lives Private by djasbestos · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I think it's important for users (and developers) of such sites to keep in mind that most people want only a limited degree of visibility. Like you said, people do want to share those drunken escapades with their friends, but not necessarily with strangers, or worse, employers, or worse, mom and dad.

      So it's perhaps prudent to give control over the visibility of content, but at the same time, I think people need to realize that a person's MyFace page is not necessarily descriptive of them in every environment or context. Most people behave differently at work than they do with close friends. And being a lawfully drunk weirdo on your own time doesn't really bear much on your professional life unless you show up hungover. Which could happen either way.

      My point: people should not take these sites too seriously.

    3. Re:Private Lives Private by kieran · · Score: 2, Insightful

      While it's true that people are foolishly publishing information publicly that they could easily keep private, this is essentially a matter of poor user education. There are plenty of people on Facebook who simply don't understand the privacy implications of posting stuff on their profile, and the privacy setting defaults are wide open.

      If we really want social networking to be acceptable to the world at large and to keep the scare stories under control, we need to do a better job of educating users and/or providing accounts with more suitable privacy settings.

    4. Re:Private Lives Private by Silver+Sloth · · Score: 4, Interesting

      we need to do a better job of educating users Who's this 'we' who needs to do a better job of educating users? If you're saying that Computer Studies in school should concentrate far more on issues like this then I agree but the vast majority of users have left school and how exactly are 'we' or whomever, going to educate them.

      It's exactly the same with malware protection, far too many users don't understand the risks in opening e-mail attachments or downloading 'free' wallpaper but there's no way to teach them, nor, in a non-totalitarian society, should there be. It's the price you pay for freedom - the freedom of illeducated users to operate computers.
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    5. Re:Private Lives Private by ZombieWomble · · Score: 4, Interesting
      I think one of the big issues with the development of the social networking sites is that it's not always the person's decision to be featured on facebook - I don't have an account on facebook/myspace/etc, and yet I know there are numerous photos of me, labelled as such, on those sites, because I associate with people who do use them. It's not a big deal at the moment (the photos are only linked in the most tenous of ways, and none of them are particularly dodgy), but there is a potential there - even if someone isn't actually actively participating in such sites, there is likely to be information on them there.

      There is the potential that, as social networking sites evolve, it may be possible to extract a non-trivial amount of information on a person simply from their associations with others, even if they choose not to add any additional facts to the mix.

      I do agree that, at the moment, the majority of the people on these sites are being bitten in the ass by their own stupidity, but I don't think this necessarily holds in the future.

    6. Re:Private Lives Private by peragrin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So it' like a girl who wants to have pornographic pictures taken of her for money, yet is all pissed off when her father buys that very magazine two months later.
      My opinion. You want privacy, You want Only certain people to know certain things. you don't publish them on a website, you don't run around a bar with whomever doing stupid things.

      In general the information on FAcebook/myspace/ etc is ultimately harmless, As those people will tell their co-workers eaactly what thy did anyways

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    7. Re:Private Lives Private by plague3106 · · Score: 2, Informative

      Why should you care what your employees do privately? So he told people he got drunk and screwed a fat chic? So what? Maybe instead of concerning yourself with what-ifs, you should worry about what actually happens. People in your company right NOW could be doing those things, you just don't know about it.

      You're not paying him when he's out partying so you should have zero say on how he conducts himself. If at some point he DOES do something stupid wearing your company logo, deal with it then. Although I don't see Nike getting upset when THEIR logo is worn by a some drunk college kid.

    8. Re:Private Lives Private by MoneyT · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Then you need to speak with the people you associate with about your expectations of privacy. It's not facebook's fault your friends are violating your privacy.

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    9. Re:Private Lives Private by trolltalk.com · · Score: 2, Insightful

      > "privacy is overrated and overvalued. desire for privacy is motivated by largely baseless fears and insecurities."

      ... which is why you posted as an AC ... you have "baseless fears and insecurities"?

      Since you think privacy is useless, why not install a webcam in your shower. After all, according to your premise, all the pedophiles out there should be able to see your kids "neked".

      Pravacy has its uses - one being that people should have better things to do than snoop on other people's lives.

    10. Re:Private Lives Private by tlhIngan · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I think it's important for users (and developers) of such sites to keep in mind that most people want only a limited degree of visibility. Like you said, people do want to share those drunken escapades with their friends, but not necessarily with strangers, or worse, employers, or worse, mom and dad.


      If we can't keep PRIVATE data private (think of all the data leaks - credit card, SSNs, etc), what makes you think we can keep PUBLIC data "somewhat private"?

      Perhaps the operating motto should be "data leaks happen". If you want limited visibility to some event, spread the news in a limited fashion. Otherwise checking the box that reads "friends only" puts the trust into whatever's ensuring that. But some gizmo, gadget, geegaw, what-have-you that someone wrote might (accidentally, ignorantly, purposely) ignore that flag, and boom, it becomes public.

      It isn't new. It isn't confined to these "social networking" sites. After all, if you do something stupid in public, you're counting on everyone around you keeping it quiet so it doesn't show up on YouTube in 5 minutes. Now you're counting on one of your friends also not passing on this to someone else? Sure that "someone else" may not be able to view the source material, at which point it becomes another telephone game. Or someone just saves the picture and emails it to everyone, and soon your boss has it in his inbox.

      To control information dissemination, it requires control on all levels. Don't want the general public to see it? Don't post it. "Friends only" is still public, just you've applied a little bit of DRM on it.

      Ah, maybe that's the solution. You'll have to DRM-protect all this "Friends only" stuff to keep it only between your friends and not your friend's friends (and so on). After all, DRM works great on music and movies...
    11. Re:Private Lives Private by Tony+Hoyle · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's the unequality thing again - it's counterbalanced by the fact that if a marketing company were to do something (don't know what) with my information I could very publically call them scumbags, and ultimately hurt their bottom line.

      eg. if company X gets my (largely freely available) details and starts spamming me, I publically denounce them as spammers.. with evidence. Their ISP shuts down their email, they lose a lot of money.

    12. Re:Private Lives Private by plague3106 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      So you state there are lots, and name two? And the second one having a much higher rate of things like domestic violence and corruption, and you think it matters if they get drunk once in a while? In small towns, yes, you can run into people you met at work, but even that is rare. In larger cities, its a non-issue.

      I'm not sure why you brought up personal behavior that affects your job performance; I already clearly stated that is an issue the employer should handle (and the only time an employees personal life is relevent).

      I can't imagine why anyone would accept a situation where their job affects their personal life, unless the pay is enough to cover that. Otherwise there's no reason to accept such an answer.

    13. Re:Private Lives Private by mgblst · · Score: 2, Insightful

      To be fair, I could upload pictures of you onto a website, and link them with your name. Next time someone searches for you in Google, these will come up. This is a far worse situation for you than being linked to on facebook.

      And one can just imagine what sort of photos someone called Zombie Womble would have.

    14. Re:Private Lives Private by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful
      "we are waiting for a new world, made from people who know what to make public and what not to, because they are fully aware of consequences. the problems like those stated in the article are in my opinion merely transitional. once the new reality sets in, there will be unwritten laws on what to do / what to say / how to behave online, not unlike those we abide by in public IRL. until then, people will suffer for them not being careful and bitch about it. oh well."

      I dunno...the younger age group there, really does not understand or comprehend how their actions being published on the net can have LONG term consequences. It wasn't that long ago I was in that mode of mind, and when you are in the bulletproof years, you needn't worry about anything.

      I think that publishing so called 'bad' behavior (hey, not saying it isn't fun), and all is a bit more glorified these days when you see the likes of Paris and Brittney...getting tons of attention and press for bad behavior. The trouble is, a kid that wants to emulate them, be famous for being famous, doesn't quite see that Paris and Brittney pretty much have unlimited funds available to them. They are wealthy, and do not have to worry about employment, or clearances later in life for good paying jobs.

      In the past as a kid, if you got drunk and did something stupid (again, I didn't say it wasn't fun to pull shit like this)...you hoped it wasn't documented more than some pictures you could get the negatives too. YOu could outgrow these episodes, and heck, at the worst...MOVE away from them to another city.

      But, what gets on the internet stays on the internet...potentially forever. For anyone to see.

      That's just a little scary. A childhood bit of fun, that can harm you for the rest of your life. But, as a kid, you don't think that far ahead.

      I think in the next 10 years when we really start seeing the results of this type of thing, we will see a lot of lives that can reach less that what they potentially could have, or more acceptance of a person's past behavior that was a bit childish.

      If you think the latter, then ask yourself by today's politicians aren't more frank and public about their past 'drug' indescresions...since we are now starting to get well into the age ranks of people where very few are out there that never even tried any before ever. Nope...still taboo if you want to be in public office.

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    15. Re:Private Lives Private by R2.0 · · Score: 2, Informative

      I think the discussion would be enlightened by distinguishing between "privacy" and "anonymity".

      A "private" act or utterance is, in and of itself, hidden. The universe of people who know about it, and the identity associated with it, is limited and controlled.

      An "anonymous" act or utterance is PUBLIC, but the identity associated with it is hidden. So, when "True Colors", by Anonymous, was published, the Whole World knew that there was a person who had access to all this private info about the Clintons, but the identity of the person was limited.

      The way I see it, social networking sites are destroying anonymity, not privacy. As of a few years ago, if I did something stupid in public, though any number of people may have seen me do it, I could be relatively assured that my identity would not be connected with the act. If I don't wear my name on my shirt, I'm probably not going to be recognized (all the more reason dumb college pranks are done naked - not by me, of course).

      But that's blown out of the water now. With ubiquitous imaging and communication technology, the odds of remaining anonymous in an act or utterance is getting vanishingly small. Where before there might be one polaroid of, say, a fraternity pledge class playing football naked at midnight (again, not involving me, of course), now that picture would most assuredly have bee taken digitally. And published. And, where there is a practical limit to the number of times a polaroid can be passed around, thereby limiting the chance for identity recognition, there is NO practical limit to transmission and duplication of digital imagery. SOMEone is going to recognize someone else in a photo. Period.

      Anonymity is dead. The days of being able to do and say stupid stuff in public and not be associated with those acts is over. Keep it private, or don't do it at all, or face the consequences of public actions. It may be that the latter isn't the disaster it's being made out to be.

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    16. Re:Private Lives Private by Oldstench · · Score: 4, Insightful

      [..]the general principle (that pretty much what we use it for is to hide stuff we shouldn't be doing) was about right. I completely disagree with this premise. Privacy, personal space, and the non-invasion of unwanted and unknown others into my life are extremely precious to me and extremely difficult to find in today's overcrowded world.

      By saying that I only use my privacy to hide illegal or 'immoral' activity is total crap. Is taking a shit while reading a book wrong? No. Do I want people to be able to watch me? Hell no. Same goes for having a private conversation with my girlfriend about her bad day at work, sitting in a comfy chair and disappearing into some great music on my headphones, or even jerking off to porn if it suits my fancy. No one else should be privy to that.

      Is a more 'open' society what we really want? I don't believe so. The less I know about the randoms out there the better, as most of them would probably just piss me off or make me sick to my stomach. If some idiot wants to put everything they ever do online and others want to watch their every move, label them as the exhibitionist/voyeurs that they are and be done with it. Don't use it as a rallying cry to try and make society more 'open' as if this would suddenly cause world-peace.

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    17. Re:Private Lives Private by rucs_hack · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I dunno...the younger age group there, really does not understand or comprehend how their actions being published on the net can have LONG term consequences.

      Have you ever considered that they might not care? Seriously, they might not. My son and his friends share things using technology it never would have occurred to me to share. Things I would keep private they share, and these kids will be the ones forming companies and running the technology world in the ot too distant future.

      Privacy means different things to kids now. It may well be that all it will mean in the future is access to your money is restricted.

    18. Re:Private Lives Private by Digital+Vomit · · Score: 2, Funny

      Wouldn't a simpler solution be to stop socializing?

      This is Slashdot, after all...

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    19. Re:Private Lives Private by Joe+Tie. · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Exactly, a lot of people just don't get that this is just a more elaborate version of the same generation gap that's already occurred with the boomers. When a factor shared by a huge mass of a generation is causing them to be excluded from business, someone is going to take advantage of it. Could be the youth themselves, could be businesses which realized that it doesn't make sense to depend on social outcasts to market to the larger majority of the 18-35 demographic. Any company is free to exclude them, but they're shooting themselves in the foot by limiting themselves to spineless twits who get home, close the curtains, and pray that the boss doesn't drive by to see his wife bought a couch which doesn't match the company colors.

      In large part I think this is just a case of generation X getting a bit up there in age, but refusing to admit that they're getting out of touch. Every generation eventually becomes the old men whose ideas of culture become laughably conservative to the one after it. Again, it's just proving more difficult this time around because it happens to be a generation whose defining point in many ways was rebellion against society.

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    20. Re:Private Lives Private by Petey_Alchemist · · Score: 4, Interesting

      There is a great book about this called "The Unwanted Gaze" by Harvard Professor Jeffrey Rosen. He gives many examples about how incomplete context can negatively shape otherwise innocuous information.

      The easy, kneejerk answer is DON'T POST IT ON THE INTERNET IF YOU DON'T WANT IT TO BE SEEN! But that is too simplistic an answer to a complex social problem.

      American privacy law revolves around the idea, proposed by Brandeis and articulated by the Court in Katz, that it is the "expectation of privacy" that users have that determines how much privacy they are accorded.

      When I post to an open thread on Slashdot, I have no expectation of privacy, other than obscurity, and that's not defensible. No one seriously argues that open fora have a high expectation of privacy (although you can make a contextual argument; if I'm "obviously" trolling Slashdot, or making an ironic post, the community may understand my post to mean one thing while an outside observer takes it another way. Look at the 4chan bomb scare or the GNAA. But that's not about privacy, that's about incomplete information.)

      But let's say I have a Facebook with my privacy settings turned all the way up. Colleague A is my Facebook friend because they know me well and I decide to give them access to my information. Now, if I have all these privacy settings turned on, and I trust Colleague A, don't I have some expectation of privacy on my "public" Facebook?

      I'd say yes. But what happens when Boss B threatens Colleague A to let him read my Facebook? I didn't extend access rights to him. In fact, I took affirmative steps to deny such access. Doesn't that go against my expectation of privacy?

      It's an extreme example, but the kneejerkers who just say LOL YOU POSTED ON THE INTERNET IDIOT are ignoring the larger social and legal framework that these networks operate under.

    21. Re:Private Lives Private by magisterx · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Keeping a limited degree of visibility on something is nearly impossible. If someone tells an extremely small number of people with a reason to know (such as medical information to medical professionals, legal information to lawyers, personal secrets to one or two close confidants who know you want it kept in confidence) then they (normally) have a right and reasonable expectation of privacy. If they post it to a large circle of friends, it is no longer private in any real sense. Those friends may tell others who may tell others, and they are generally not under any obligation not to.

      To take a benign example, someone may send pictures of their kids to their immediate family. Your parents may well hang it up on the wall and then all of their guests see it. Putting it on a public website is like shouting it from the mountain, you can expect anyone who wants to know will find out, along with a lot of people who didn't want to know. Putting it on a semiprivate website is like, well, telling all of your friends. You can assume they will tell others and generally have no reason to expect them not to do that. Something that is meant to be truly private should be told only to those that have a reason to know and an obligation not to tell others.

    22. Re:Private Lives Private by thegrassyknowl · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Then you need to speak with the people you associate with about your expectations of privacy. It's not facebook's fault your friends are violating your privacy.

      This is true, but Facebook, Myspace and others provide a really simple means for people to upload photos and associate them with email addresses or real names. They are a data harvester's dream.

      Trying to tell some of the (I'll hesitate to use the word I want) lesser savvy users why I don't want them putting my real name, anything about me or photos of me into the Intarwebs is like trying to talk to a brick wall. They just don't get why it's a problem. One idiot went ahead and actually put my phone number on her myspace page (after my little chat about why not to) with a helpful hint of "he's got a new number now, if he hasn't told you yet here it is". Not like I didn't change my number so that some of those people didn't have it in the first place!!!

      I also had a myspace account that had no identifying marks in it. I used an alias and a dodgy email that I hardly use for anything (except dodgy, incapable of using BCC: to 100 people friends) to sign up to see what it was all about. One of my friends decided to try and add me using that email address and put my real name in one of the fields. Until I deleted it, if you searched for my real name on Myspace you could find that profile even though I'd never entered my true name into it.

      You could probably s/myspace/facebook/g in this post and still be mostly accurate too.

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    23. Re:Private Lives Private by Wes+Janson · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Oh, right, because it's perfectly reasonable that gp must go to every single person who knows his/her name, and politely ask them never to post pictures of them on Facebook/Myspace/etc, or to ever mention their names on the internet. Most normal people would not respond well to requests like that, and most people aren't going to make such requests, even if they value privacy, specifically because of the social repercussions of acting paranoid. There is a distinct trade-off for most people between sacrificing privacy and maintaining normal social ties.

    24. Re:Private Lives Private by Petey_Alchemist · · Score: 2, Interesting

      ...and one more thing:

      If you actually watched the video, Shirky--who is a great guy, by the way--talks about how malls are public places too. But if you went around a mall with a boom microphone, recording the conversations of people near you, people would think you were NUTS, and might even sue you for invading their privacy. Why? Not because they're not in public, but because we have a social understanding that when you're in a crowd, people might hear what you have to say but they don't record it and they don't use it out of the context of the immediacy of conversation.

      Now that's not a perfect analogy for the Internet, because by default everything on the Internet is recorded automagically. But the context part is still true. Even if a comment (like this one) on Slashdot is publicly accessible, if it appeared on CNN tomorrow I'd be just as shocked/uncomfortable/feel like something was slightly wrong as I would be if Anderson Cooper had hidden in a bush and used a directional microphone to catch my idle gossip in the food court.

      As the kneejerkers show, we've begun to develop a social consensus that anything you put on the Internet is public and therefore you should expect that it be read by anyone anywhere anytime. That's the technological reality, and it might be the safest way to look at things.

      But given our social hangups about eavesdropping--that is, observing conversations not meant for your ears and taken out of the context of the community in which they were made--in TRUE public settings, why is this the case?

  2. Idiots, not Facebook, spell the end of privacy. by xC0000005 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If you stand on the corner and scream out your inner most thoughts, don't be suprised if anyone within a few blocks knows (and crosses to the other side of the street when they see you coming). Don't want something known widely? Don't post it on a public web site.

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    1. Re:Idiots, not Facebook, spell the end of privacy. by chord.wav · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I agree. Now, a big part of the problem isn't you screaming what you consider private. Is that you can't control a crowd of known idiots shouting in public every little detail they know about you. Specially when such sites as Facebook don't require your authorization when other people post about you. Regardless of your authorization, if they post it, "they" know.
      On the other hand, if you don't appear at all in any social site, that would sure make you a prime suspect to any NSA agent who would and should order further research on your social habits, probably digging more deep than you would ever wanted to.

  3. Solution: don't join facebook? by VorpalEdge · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not like anyone is forcing you to join it or other social networking sites. If you must join it, just have a cursory account and don't update it, ever. Just use it to read your friend's news or whatnot.

    You can only lose privacy in this sort of thing if you give the info out to begin with. If you don't do that, you're pretty safe.

    1. Re:Solution: don't join facebook? by Rik+Sweeney · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The only problem is that someone can just post a picture of you having a pee in the middle of the street on a Saturday night and then next thing you know, it's in a national newspaper.

      Rather like this

  4. I'd comment on this... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    But I have a feeling someone is watching!

    *gasp*

  5. Egregious nonsense by Angst+Badger · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Eventually, Shirky theorizes, society will have to create a space that's implicitly private even though it's technically public, not unlike a personal conversation held on a public street. Otherwise, our ability to keep our lives private will be forever destroyed. ...Or you could just refrain from posting the details of your private life to the Internet.

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    1. Re:Egregious nonsense by physicsboy500 · · Score: 2, Funny

      But you forget the compulsive typists like myself that can't help but divulge things like their cheating wife and erectile dysfunction on the internet in public forums... wait...

      *submit*

      "DAMNIT!"

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    2. Re:Egregious nonsense by TheViewFromTheGround · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Saying that you can simply refrain from posting the details of your private life to the Internet misses part of the point here. To communicate with many of my friends, who insist on using social networking sites as their main avenues for staying in touch with friends, I am forced to use a privately-owned network where many of my rights may be waived. You could say, of course, that I should not stay in contact with those friends, but in real life it is not so easy to make such demands, especially when we are talking about communicating with relatives and dear friends, often in cases where communication is essential, such as family emergencies. Pragmatically, it just isn't always feasible to say "use the public internet and the (broken) standards for email."

      The phenomena is similar to the shrinking amount of public space in the United States: A popular tourist destination in the city where I live used to be public property, and anyone could come with a sign and a cause and exercise their right to free speech -- including criticizing the government that maintained the large, open-air space. Within the past decade, the city sold the land and put the space under private management, and now one cannot go and peacefully exercise their right to free speech -- the private owner has far greater effective and legal discretion over what happens on their land. Most of us must move quite a bit through the space around them -- roads, offices, parks, hospitals, stores, and even virtual spaces -- and the ownership (common, corporate, or individual) has an effect on what we do and say, and what others can do and say to us.

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    3. Re:Egregious nonsense by R2.0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "To communicate with many of my friends, who insist on using social networking sites as their main avenues for staying in touch with friends, I am forced to use a privately-owned network where many of my rights may be waived. You could say, of course, that I should not stay in contact with those friends, but in real life it is not so easy to make such demands, especially when we are talking about communicating with relatives and dear friends, often in cases where communication is essential, such as family emergencies."

      You are conflating 2 different issues.
      1) People put stupid crap about their personal lives on social networking sites - pictures, poetry (ugh), etc. Solution? Don't do that in your account.

      2) People use their social networking page to communicate with others. Again, don't use the site for important/potentially embarrassing communications.

      Here's where your example gets confusing. You say "many" of your friends insist on using these sites? How does that affect how you deal with "relatives and dear friends" - one assumes a much smaller number. If you want to communicate with less important friends on these sites, talk about less important stuff - keep it banal and bland. For your more important folks, are they really going to drop you if you reserve more important/embarrassing communications for more secure transport?

      And "family emergencies"? Are you kidding? If you are relying on a social networking site to communicate with family members in a crisis, you are an idiot. Ever heard of a telephone? You can still call collect.

      The whole situation isn't black and white. No one is "forced to use a privately-owned network where many of my rights may be waived". You choose to do it. And if you choose to use it for communications that would be better on a more secure network, that's your lookout.

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  6. Future Society by Grandiloquence · · Score: 4, Funny

    I think they're referring to the Facebook Wars of 2013, after which the nominal Facebook World Government will require all citizens to publish their most intimate details online for public scrutiny.

  7. This would only hold true... by TofuMatt · · Score: 2

    ... if you were forced to get a Facebook account.

    Other than what bands I like and what shows I might be going to at local pubs, Facebook knows nothing about me. But the price of putting yourself, and your thoughts, out onto the Internet has always been that anyone can know what you post.

    But that's just it, isn't it: what you make public becomes public. That's not shocking news, unless you think that your boss might not notice your "My boss is a dingbat!" Facebook group/blog.

    If you're happy (or, in some cases, stupid enough) to be posting (semi-)private details of your life on the web for people to see, especially on sites that you really don't control (like a blog not on your own server or on Facebook/Myspace/etc.), then be prepared to face the consequences; we've already heard lots of stories about students/employees getting in shit for what they write on personal pages. We've been forewarned, and to keep acting shocked, appauled, or violated is absurd.

    Your private life is your's, yes, but when you post its details in a public forum... well... shit might happen. Not a new idea.

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    -Matthew Riley "TofuMatt" MacPherson
    I have a website
    1. Re:This would only hold true... by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But that's just it, isn't it: what you make public becomes public.

      Yes, and what other people post about you also become public. Bear that in mind.
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      May the Maths Be with you!
  8. Or you could just, you know by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 4, Insightful

    NOT POST YOUR SHIT ON FACEBOOK!

    Seriously, I'll never understand these stories that seem to make it as though you have no choice but to divulge all sorts of personal details online. No, actually not the case. If you wish, you can simply not participate. I personally don't. You can search Myspace, Facebook, and so on, you'll never find anything about me. I don't have a page, don't want a page. I just don't participate in that part of the Internet.

    However, even if you do, you can simply not be an idiot about it. It is perfectly possible to create a personal site and give away only the kind of details that you are ok with. There's plenty of information on all of us that is public anyhow, maybe you limit it to just that, or a subset of that. You can have a page and not tell everyone everything about your life. The only problem is if you post intimate details, but expect that only the people who you approve of will see it. That is just, well, stupid. Even if the site claims to have privacy features, don't count on it.

    The test I say you should apply is a three factor one: Do you want your mom to know this? Do you want your boss (present and future) to know this? Do you want a creepy sex offender to know this? If the answer to any of those is "no" then DON'T POST IT! Why? Because all three of those people can use the Internet, so all three might come across your page. As such filter your information. Don't post anything you wouldn't want your family to find out, and certainly don't post anything you wouldn't want your work to find out about.

    If people just apply a little common sense to it, it really works out ok. You don't have to participate, and if you elect to, if you are just smart bout it and don't do shit like post pictures of you and your friends getting high, you'll probably be just fine.

  9. Re:this is article is completely stupid by Billosaur · · Score: 4, Funny

    and EVEN IF there is someone out there who is so stupid as to think posting this information is private: who amongst us ever thought it is our duty in this world to protect morons from themselves?

    One word: Congress

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    GetOuttaMySpace - The Anti-Social Network
  10. Baby/bathwater by kieran · · Score: 2, Interesting

    "Don't post it" is a good default option, but these sites are too useful to just ignore like that. At one very basic level, Facebook is an address book: you put in your address and phone number and email in, restrict that information to friends and add people you are okay having it. The result, potentially, is an address book that updates itself automatically as people change their numbers and email/street addresses.

    Imagine that tied in with your phone, and you have something interesting. And FB has many other interesting and potentially interesting uses - the photo tagging is very nifty and the event organising also useful. But you have to be careful about security if you don't want to get bitten on the ass, and being careful with security is not so easy (or perhaps just not so natural) for the non-tech crowd.

  11. Stupid. by igotmybfg · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Several things - first, what the hell is a "social media expert"? Reminds me of the absurdly specific correspondent titles on the Daily Show.

    Second, social networks are populated by voluntary disclosure, and participants have no expectation of privacy. You never know who might be reading it, so I don't put anything on there that I wouldn't feel comfortable putting on a postcard. This is basically implicit inasmuch as you are joining a social network, where the whole idea is to share information about yourself.

    Third, I've found that the best way to defend myself against identity theft is to just be myself, which is to say, boring. Who would want to be me, when even I don't want to be me? Plus, the more time I spend on Facebook, the more I notice that people everywhere are adopting my strategy.

    Fourth, at the end of the day, social networks are just another way to waste time on the internet. There's more to life than sitting in front of a computer. I promise!

  12. Get over it by kscguru · · Score: 2, Insightful
    Or, as Scott McNealy said, "You have no privacy. Get over it." Funny how nobody liked the comment when he made it, yet he was completely right.

    Yes, somebody out there is going to store every bit of data they can because it just MIGHT be useful. Data storage is extremely cheap: if a marketer can get one lead from 1GB of web server access logs, he's making a profit. The feds want to cross-index databases because some analyst thinks terrorists would obscure online activities by using one account to communicate with like-minded people and another account to do research for some attack - and if 500TB of data stops an attack, it's cheap. (The idiot analyst is grossly underestimating the difficulty of cross-indexing databases - hint, names are NOT good primary keys - and it's his manager's fault for approving the idea, but you can't stop idiots with poor management from doing stupid things.)

    Worse, no amount of government laws will protect your "public" data. Oh, laws can keep the government from using it ... somewhat. (In the US, warrentless searches are inadmissible in court - but they aren't illegal, the police can use such evidence to decide to watch you more closely in hopes of getting real, admissible evidence). But laws are not going to keep private companies from using your data. Privacy policies are great, but (IANAL) probably flimsier than EULAs that everybody here on Slashdot derides. And there is always an immoral company willing to violate its own privacy policy for a business advantage. Example ineffective law: in the US, you aren't supposed to use SSNs for personal identification (except for the IRS). So everyone just starts using the last four digits of the SSN, which technically complies but, when combined with just a little more data, is just as invasive. (Hint: there are 300 million people in the US. 30,000 have the same four-digits as you, 600 are in the same state (in California), 5 are in the same city, and none use the same set of banks you do). The law will not protect your privacy. Sorry.

    But what are the effects of this invasion of privacy? A private company could refuse service to you - most companies can already do that for any number of reasons, maybe they don't like your credit history or your choice in web browsers. The government could arrest you - they can already do that for any reason, it's the court that will order your release, and the court is unbiased enough to not care about anything except the charge. Maybe you'll find out your neighbor has a thing for horse porn and think less of him. Well, it's your own fault, if you don't want to know about horse porn fetishes, then don't go looking for them.

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    A witty [sig] proves nothing. --Voltaire

  13. Misunderstanding Facebook by TechnicolourSquirrel · · Score: 4, Informative

    I think one of the big issues with the development of the social networking sites is that it's not always the person's decision to be featured on facebook - I don't have an account on facebook/myspace/etc, and yet I know there are numerous photos of me, labelled as such, on those sites, because I associate with people who do use them. It's not a big deal at the moment (the photos are only linked in the most tenous of ways, and none of them are particularly dodgy), but there is a potential there - even if someone isn't actually actively participating in such sites, there is likely to be information on them there. You're not on Facebook -- this is why you don't understand how it works, but you have recourse here. You can join Facebook, maintain a very small friends list, and set your profile to be unreadable by anybody else. Then you can change your privacy settings so that photos tagged of you are only visible to those on your friends list. This affects even photos tagged of you taken by other people. That way even if one of your friends decides to make their profile public, any photos they tag of you submit to YOUR privacy settings, not theirs. And since they can always see their own photos, they probably will not even notice that you have restricted their material to YOUR friends list. You don't even have to log in to maintain this privacy barrier -- any future photos that are tagged with your name submit to the same privacy settings. You can even go in and tag the photos with your own name yourself so that they WILL submit to your privacy settings. Facebook is not like Myspace -- it's very much better thought through, and much more private by default. In fact I find them to be completely opposite in their core approaches. People who say Facebook/Myspace in one breath generally don't get it.
    1. Re:Misunderstanding Facebook by TechnicolourSquirrel · · Score: 2, Informative
      Actually, in response to your question I tested out my theory (I have a dummy account just for such purposes --shhhh) and it turns out that I didn't really understand Facebook, either. It goes pretty far, just not as far as I just claimed. If you mark 'Photos tagged of you' as private, then people looking at *your* profile will not get a link to see photos uploaded and tagged with your name by your friends. And of course -- if your whole profile is friends-only, even when people see your tags in your friends' photos, they will not be able to click your name and see your profile unless they are also on your friends list. You can also remove any tags to yourself on Facebook, and once removed, they cannot be restored, not even by the person who owns the picture. (This happens to my photos all the time -- women especially tend to be very picky about which photos of them get tags and which not.)

      But that is all just about links: whoever can actually see your photos themselves is in fact entirely determined by the privacy settings of whoever uploads them, not by who is tagged in them. Basically, there was a rather prominent privacy option that I misinterpreted to restrict the photos themselves when actually it only restricts any linkage between your Facebook profile/identity and those photos. Sorry -- my bad. I'm glad you pressed me on it -- as this is good to know.

  14. I predict... by DrVomact · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I think in the next 10 years when we really start seeing the results of this type of thing, we will see a lot of lives that can reach less that what they potentially could have, or more acceptance of a person's past behavior that was a bit childish.

    As a consequence, there will be a grass-roots surge of enthusiasm for "internet privacy legislation", as all the young dolts who have posted videos of their misdeeds start to seriously worry about getting a job.

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    Great men are almost always bad men--Lord Acton's Corollary
  15. Great site by Mantrid · · Score: 2, Insightful

    One always needs to keep in mind that whatever you put on these internet sites could be seen, copied, and used in any way imaginable by virtually anyone. Keeping that in mind, I really like Facebook as it's really allowed me to connect with old college friends etc (from like 15 years ago), as well as other old acquaintances, and current friends. The friend of friends thing is awesome and is probably what makes facebook so addictive and useful. Pretty hard to find the right John Smith, but if that John Smith knows your old friend Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo, then odds are much better it's the right one. It's almost viral, every time I add a new friend within a few days I seem to get more friend invites.

    Oddly I also seem to use it as a sort of secondary email system with some of my friends (probably because they are using Facebook so much also).

  16. Not a very special episode by CristalShandaLear · · Score: 3, Interesting

    'Eventually, Shirky theorizes, society will have to create a space that's implicitly private even though it's technically public, not unlike a personal conversation held on a public street. Reminds of a sitcom episode - I think Boy Meets World or Growing Pains. No it was Blossom. Joey, Blossom's goofy brother, gets caught cheating on a test. So he spends all this time trying to find undetectable ways to cheat. He finally decides to hide the answers in the one place only he can look and that the teachers can't see - in his mind. We are perfectly capable of keeping things private if we choose to do so. The problem I have is when other people give up their privacy, or maybe even a piece of their privacy - and that is used as an argument for that person to surrender their remaining privacy or for everyone else to surrender their privacy as well. We all have the right to determine what is private for ourselves.