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Having Your ID Stolen Leads to Job Loss, Prosecution

ConfusedVorlon writes "The BBC reports on the sad case of Simon Bunce. Mr. Bunce had his identity stolen, and credit cards were made to capitalize on the theft. Some of those cards were used at sites offering child pornography, and as a result Mr. Bunce was swept up in Operation Ore. The poor man was prosecuted for his 'crime', and was eventually found innocent, but in the meantime he lost his job. It took him six months to find another at a quarter of the salary. 'The police's computer technicians take several months to examine [his computers and records], and Mr Bunce could not afford to wait to repair the damage done to his reputation. "I knew there'd been a fundamental mistake made and so I had to investigate it." Recent surveys suggest that as many as one in four Britons have been affected by it. In 2007 more than 185,000 cases of identity theft were identified by Cifas, the UK's fraud prevention service, an increase of almost 8% on 2006.'"

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  1. and yet... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    no one will care, because thats acceptable to protect the children.

    All ongoing posts will be the back and forth on this concept.

    1. Re:and yet... by compro01 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed and hence clamorous to be led to safety by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, most of them imaginary." -H. L. Mencken

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  2. This is what is wrong with... by zappepcs · · Score: 5, Insightful

    How society prosecutes child pornography... like a lynch mob: guilty until proven innocent and no recompense for those poor souls that did not deserve to be labeled and treated like some monster.

    There is way too much leniency given to law enforcement in the process of stopping child pornography. WAY TOO MUCH.

    I'm not saying that child pornography is good or even just 'not bad'... I'm saying that lynch mob mentality in prosecuting anyone suspected of it is absolutely the wrong thing to do.

    Sex crime laws and their enforcement (at least in the US) are criminal in themselves. They are, at best, mostly subjective in nature and enforced with the tact of a nuclear weapon.

    Victims are stigmatized, penalized, emotionally brutalized, and then forever branded as someone that people can't trust.

    Laws are good to have. Not all laws are good laws. A law set by a community that cannot be amended or repealed is not a law, it's a dogma. These laws need some changes, big ones.

    1. Re:This is what is wrong with... by SerpentMage · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Oh you are not kidding here.

      My wife and I have over the children from our in-laws. And they sleep in the bed with my wife. Just like kids do.

      Though when that happens I on purpose stay away and sleep in the guest bedroom or what have you. The first time I did this my wife looked funny at me. I said, "think about it, think really hard about it."

      It took her a moment or two and then she realized that I as a male cannot easily show emotion to children... There is a barrier that I have to erect, as I don't want people to ever think the wrong thing. Why? Because of the reason you said, Guilty first, innocent later.

      And often it depresses me...

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    2. Re:This is what is wrong with... by nwf · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And that's why when I've talked with folks they say they won't even get involved if a child seems to be in trouble in public except by calling the police. The laws implicitly state, "don't get involved with kids." Discipline is abuse, too, so let 'em do whatever. No wonder they end up as screwed up teenagers.

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    3. Re:This is what is wrong with... by rtb61 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It is not really society. Mass media at work, fear sells lots of copies, hence mass media will push stories like terrorism, child abuse and other crime stories. Sell more media and, you sell more advertising. Politicians then feed off the media blitz and blindly follow what is nothing more in reality than a mass media beat up. So typical modern corporate thinking of profits before any thought of the harm caused to society, besides it is a little persons problem, the nobodies who can't afford lawyers on call.

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    4. Re:This is what is wrong with... by penguinchris · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That thinking only takes you so far - the idea is that if you take away the market for it by pursuing those that pay money for it, then the producers will have less incentive to produce it.

      Which, of course, is ridiculous - it's the same thing with drug possession laws. The war on child porn is as ineffective as the war on drugs, but is not criticized as often. If you criticize the war on child porn, you risk painting yourself as someone who likes child porn, which is MUCH worse than being painted a drug user.

      But then, in both cases, if the users are being pursued, presumably some of them will be persuaded to move their interests elsewhere. In the case of child porn, even if someone has a really strong attachment to it, in most cases they should be able to condition themselves to enjoy non-child porn instead. If not, they should be able to seek help for it if they desire, without fear of prosecution.

      The point is that it's more complicated than you suggest. Going for the producers of child porn should obviously be the primary goal, but is not the complete solution - with a whole bunch of people now lacking a supplier, what will happen? A new supplier will show up, almost immediately.

      Something radically different needs to happen if the government wants to effectively combat illicit industries like this.

      Like your friend, I do not think an outright war on these industries is the answer; it is already proven to not work and it doesn't make sense to begin with. But while legalizing drugs and controlling them through the government seems like a perfectly reasonably solution, proposing to legalize child porn (even just possession of it) is completely different. If there is nothing against possessing it, then there will be an even bigger market for it (probably much bigger than anyone wants to admit) - which means there would have to be legal producers of it, which defeats the purpose, or the illegal producers will just continue producing and distributing it - in fact it's likely even more producers would pop up.

  3. Re:I disagree... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's what happens when you get involved in a witch hunt, which is exactly what this bullshit is. Anyone who calls it anything else is a closet pedophile. Why else do they fight so hard "to protect the children"? They mean, to protect the children from hypocrite lying shitheads like themselves.

  4. Simon Tuttle? by memorycardfull · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Or Simon Buttle?

  5. It's terrible by erroneus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    with few exceptions, 'justice' leans in particular ways. Where children and child support are concerned, it's children first and anything else is a secondary consideration such as whether or not a man is the ACTUAL father of the children.

    In a case such as this, at least in the US, a person might at least be able to sue the government for malicious prosecution and collect damages specifying that since the accusation ruined his life, that the government should therefore pay for it for a long, long time.

    I have personally experienced what an accusation can do to one's employability... not even a conviction, just an arrest or an accusation. Is this an acceptable part of the justice system? I don't think so. While it's important to 'care for the victims' it's EQUALLY important to protect the rights of the accused until there is enough evidence to prove something is wrong.

    In the particular case under discussion, they should never have arrested him based on credit card transactions. That is not proof of identity or of anything other than a transaction was made. And if no other evidence of a crime was present, the most they should have done is attempt to verify whether or not it was actually he that made the transaction or someone else. They could do much of that without even bothering the poor guy.

    The reality is that this man is a victim of a crime... not necessarily a crime that is actually described in law, but still a violation of his life. I can't see that as acceptable. I think England is one of the last places I'd want to live... but then so is the U.S... and that's where I am now.

    1. Re:It's terrible by ZorinLynx · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I've always wondered this as well.

      Why can't they investigate these cases *discretely*, so that if the investigated party is innocent, his life isn't ruined? Do it in a way that neighbors, friends, and employers won't find out. It should be between the accused and the government until the person is proven guilty. This way, if they are found innocent, they can continue with their lives as if nothing happened.

      Unfortunately, law enforcement and the government likes to make a big show of things. Breaking down doors at 6AM, multiple police cars, so much attention that it attracts news media. The result? The person's life is ruined before it's even known if he's guilty or not.

      Discretion. Is it really that hard?

  6. Re:I disagree... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    People these days can't even bother to wait for all the votes to be counted before having the new leader of their country announced, why in the world would they wait for someone to be found guilty before treating them as such?

  7. Suspicion, not ID Theft by gillbates · · Score: 5, Insightful

    This man's problems were caused not by ID theft, but by suspicion of crime. It would be no different if someone seeking revenge reported him on an "anonymous tipline".

    The real problem, as I see it, is that even though one may legally be innocent until proven guilty, when it comes to dealing with the public at large, the accused is presumed guilty until proven innocent, and sometimes even afterward.

    Mr. Bruce's problems were caused by the society in which he lives, not the ID theft.

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    1. Re:Suspicion, not ID Theft by memorycardfull · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I say random chance! Every single day relatively innocent and decent people get accidentally pulled into the complex moving machinery of modern human society and are destroyed or mangled.

    2. Re:Suspicion, not ID Theft by nuzak · · Score: 2, Insightful

      > That exact phrasing isn't used. SO WHAT?

      Christ, touchy much? I'm saying it's a well-enshrined principle, much in the same way that they didn't need to spell out what habeas corpus meant, the mere mention of it was enough.

      > Absolutely wrong.

      You have an interesting definition of "absolutely". None of those amendments give a mention to the presumption of innocence, but to "the due process of law" of which it is presumed to be a part.

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  8. This one is not. by khasim · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If you can solve the "identity theft" problem, you won't have to worry about this in the future. Whether kiddie porn is involved or not.

    And we've been over, often enough, the various means of solving "identity theft". The problem is that the burden is on the victim, not the bank issuing the cards. Despite the bank having far more information and resources than the victim.

    If we would just validate the transaction instead of the "identity" of the purchaser, we'd be able to eliminate this fraud.

    1. Re:This one is not. by WaltBusterkeys · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Banks aren't the only problems. All of the giant database companies (like ChoicePoint) have giant bullseyes on their databases for hackers. They can implement all of the security measures in the world, but the data will still leak out with all of the negative consequences.

      Each data broker intentionally has all of the information that's required to open any kind of loan account, from a credit card to a car loan to a marker at a casino. And so all it takes is one clever hacker to get that data out for a few thousand (or a few tens of thousands) of customers and *poof* he's able to create tens of thousands of fake loans by impersonating the customers whose information he just stole.

      Until we see some legislation regulating security for data brokers we'll never see the end of identity theft.

    2. Re:This one is not. by bumburumbi · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Each data broker intentionally has all of the information that's required to open any kind of loan account, Until we see some legislation regulating security for data brokers we'll never see the end of identity theft. Looking up the name, address and personal identification number of anyone in Iceland is a trivial matter, I think all the banks offer this as a service to their online banking customers. I've even seen parts of the national registry available on BitTorrent. And yet, identity theft is not a problem here as far as I know. With more and more personal data floating around on computers all over the world, guarding that data will become more and more difficult. I think it would be more fruitful to try to fix the financial system so that even with this data, identity theft were not possible. How exactly to achieve this I have no idea.
  9. Hmmm.... by Otter · · Score: 5, Insightful

    And it's not like it's far-fetched to think that the people purchasing child porn might use stolen or misappropriated credit cards to do so...

  10. This Isn't Just About Child Porn by CheshireCatCO · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I think other posters have missed the point a bit by focusing on the fact that this case was about child pornography. Yes, that's a particularly egregiously aggressively policed crime, but it's hardly the only time cops will use credit cards to track who they think committed a crime. (Nominal) ownership of the credit card used should *never* be considered sufficient evidence to charge someone with *any* crime. It's probable cause to investigate, sure, but not to charge. It's only about one step more reasonable than charging someone because their real name matched the screen name used.

    1. Re:This Isn't Just About Child Porn by Bryansix · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Exactly. You hit the nail on the head. Police forces need to do more investigation in today's day in age to actually make sure that the evidence is saying what they think it is saying. I've said it before but Credit Card companies don't use a strong authentication system to sign people up. This is THE CAUSE of the whole Identity Theft scheme being run nowadays.

    2. Re:This Isn't Just About Child Porn by QCompson · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think other posters have missed the point a bit by focusing on the fact that this case was about child pornography. But what other crime could be committed using a credit card that carries even half the societal scorn as child pornography? With other crimes you face financial ruin and possible jail time; with a child pornography arrest you get the financial ruin, the jail time (lengthier than most other crimes you could commit with a CC), and there is the added bonus of being transformed into a living monster who nearly all of society wishes to punish over and over again.
  11. Re:Think of the children! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Hey, this guy was convicted.
    No he wasn't. That is in fact the entire fucking point of the article: that despite not being convicted, in fact despite being very very innocent, everyone labelled him a paedophile as soon as the police kicked his door in. He, and the many like him, have effectively been lynched by the public.
  12. Damn lies by nicklott · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Recent surveys suggest that as many as one in four Britons have been affected by [ID fraud]. In 2007 more than 185,000 cases of identity theft were identified by Cifas, the UK's fraud prevention service

    WTF? One in four? are you insane? that would be 15 million people. Does that really seem likely? Anecdotally I know substantialy more than four people and *none* of them have had their identity stolen. They are still the same people I used to know (although with ID theft the way it is who can tell?).

    OK, Cifas (whoever they are) pursued 185k cases last year. There are 65M people in the uk. 65,000,000 - 185,000 = 65,000,000 (rounded up). That is not 25%, more like 0.025%. If they can only identify 0.1% of the fraud what are they actually doing? I know the gubment wastes money, but that is crazy.

    1. Re:Damn lies by modemboy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They are probably getting creative with the phrase "have been affected by". For example, if you take the posted article, at a minimum your could say this one instance of ID theft affected 3 people, Simon, his wife, and his father. You could even extend that to the rest of his family as they cut off contact with him.
      Even if you limit it to financially affected, significant others and children of someone who suffers from identity theft are all affected directly.
      So basically it is a useless made up number... ;)

  13. He had nothing to hide by BoberFett · · Score: 5, Insightful

    He had nothing to hide because he was innocent, so everything worked out in the end, right?

    1. Re:He had nothing to hide by khallow · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Indeed, he even got a job that paid a full quarter what he used to get! Fairy tale ending!

  14. Re:This kind of thing could happen in USA by QuantumRiff · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I've seen the errors and crap that go into a very small database, holding records on a few thousand people. I would be scared to death to entrust anything to a much larger one. The thing that really scares me is the "private" databases. I can do a FOIA request against the federal databases to make sure my info is correct, I can get a copy of my credit report if I am denied credit because of my report, but what the hell recourse do I have if I am denied employment because the HR person ran me through a "private screening database" and saw that I (erronously) had a bad/criminal record? When is the last time an employer told you why you weren't getting hired? How would you know who to contact to ensure it was accurate?

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  15. Fraud, not theft by CSMatt · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This is a case of fraud, not theft. This man's identity was not "stolen," but used fraudulently in an attempt to gain illegitimate access to goods and services under the guise of someone else. Using words like "identity theft" is no better than the RIAA calling copyright infringement "theft."

  16. Re:The USDOJ Strikes Again by flerchin · · Score: 3, Insightful

    And that's why it's never wise to pay for porn.

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  17. Child pornography is the new witchcraft by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Child pornography is one of a few accusations where a person is presumed guilty until proven innocent... and even after he's proven innocent.

  18. Re:I disagree... by DaedalusHKX · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Your tax dollars hard at work... so when they demand or you hear "pay your fair share" what are you paying for, exactly. Billions are spent on policing, and finding new "prevention" methods in the criminal arena, while in medicine they are treating symptoms rather than causes. Strange how in each field, the wrong approach is taken.

    By all accounts I've read (and some old timers I've talked to) each generation expects more from the governments, pays far more and gets far less. The same is true of medicine. More toxins find their way into our food, our entertainment and such. I have old timer friends who used to be coke heads in the 50's. They tell me that clean coke (not crack and the like) made people relaxed, not hostile and seeking to kill for another fix. Strange? I get similar stories from potheads I've known in college. Strange that the police would punish nonviolent criminals, while violent rapists and murderers get acquitted? And not even acquitted on technicalities, but on mere "good behavior" or "time served" or more precisely "to make room in prison for tax cheats".

    Tax cheats?? Wtf are we getting for our "fair share" that we have been paying? Highways? There's fucking potholes in DC! Nation's capital has goddamn potholes!! I've seen private toll roads with NO POTHOLES!! I've seen private estates and gated neighborhoods, "End Municipal Maintenance Here" read the sign. Far better roads, lower crime, and my friends living there all owned weapons, and didn't ever call the cops. They had armed security, well paid armed security at the neighborhood gates. Perhaps until people stop demanding things of gods and governments, those gods and governments will have no reason to demand things of their ignorant worshipers.

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  19. Re:I disagree... by Captain+Splendid · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Oh great, let's all move into gated communities, and do balkanization from the ground up!

    Dude, Snow Crash was a novel, not a manual.

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  20. Dispute on bills... by DaedalusHKX · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Actually I had such a dispute. Damaged my credit pretty badly at the time. I still refused to pay. To make a long story short, a man's word is not worth gold anymore, a man's word is worth not a penny, while other men's words about that man are worth more than gold.

    Makes you wonder why so few people are responsible nowadays... perhaps because all they have to do is be robots at work, and vege at night. Had they had to live up to what it was they said, life might be a bit different... for all of us.

    The question that must be asked is... "what makes a bunch of bankers and liars for a living, make their word more worthwhile in people's eyes than the word of a man who actually produces something tangible and sells it for a living and therefore has at least some chance that he isn't just a liar for a living?"

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  21. Its because of f@cking "think of the children" by unity100 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    morons.

    yea it is. im no psychopath, badass wannabee or anything. i just recognize stellar shit when i see it.

    this 'child pornography' scare has been made into a modern day witch hunt. its totally stupid and idiotic. no less than a medieval witch hunt - you just need to be accused by someone to be prosecuted. try it. just accuse someone, and watch their computers getting confiscated. their sensitive data, passwords, everything passing through some obscure personas in local police department.

    mankind really lacking in wisdom. higher the level of disgust/horror a crime induces, the higher they are regarding that crime.

    hundreds of thousands of people around the world are dying every year due to various atrocity related events, genocides, strifes, terrorism, repression, disease, hunger. but our current overly politically correct public is more appalled at the wake of pathetically negligible percentage of child pornography cases than hundreds of thousands of people dying. what ? when a child grows up, s/he is not important anymore ? s/he dying due to hunger whilst the world has the means to aid them is not something more horrible than a child pornography case ? if you just read this last sentence, and thought that child pornography is a more horrible and bigger crime, even if a second, you need to really straighten up yourself and get smart - because you yourself are judging the seriousness of a crime by the horror it induces, not its real merit. right to life is the foremost right on the face of the earth.

  22. Re:I disagree... by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Maybe they'd wait if, I dunno, we didn't advertise the details of suspects publicly on the basis of some random allegation that has yet to be proven in court?

    Getting back to this specific case, I'm not sure what's more disturbing:

    1. the fact that the guy lost his reputation and his livelihood on the basis of a tenuous link that wrongly affects thousands of people every year, or
    2. the fact that he could build a solid case to refute the charge using only a fairly simple FOI request and matching up the time and place of the criminal use of the card with records proving he was on the other side of the planet at the time, yet the authorities managed to take his computer equipment and such away for several months and take the system took several years to exhonerate him.

    And on an unrelated note, what gives with the weird styling on Slashdot since earlier this evening? Loads of HTML formatting, such as the list above, is completely broken. :-(

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  23. Re:Strange... you missed the whole thing. by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Do you have any idea how much tragedy has been preceded by your kind of posturing bluster?

  24. Re:I disagree... by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful
    "yet the authorities managed to take his computer equipment and such away for several months and take the system took several years to exhonerate him."

    It keeps getting worse in this respect in the US.....they'll confiscate most any and ALL property if you're suspected of a number of crimes. It started out as a way to battle the 'drug lords'...but, now, if they catch you with a roach, they'll impound your car and whatever else they think is connected to your drug money. Now.this spills over into many more areas. Suspected of Child Pron? You go to jail,do not pass go...do not collect $200. And your assets and computers are all seized. IF you ever can get them back.....you're already fucked.

    Again...shows that an idea given to law enforcement WILL be used in new and creative ways never intended in the future...

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  25. Credit card technology is outdated by Max_W · · Score: 2, Insightful
    What is a credit card? All the information is in plain view. The security feature, the CVV, is also visible, but on the other side.

    This is just ridiculous. No, plain stupid. Agree, not more than still using feet and pound for creating machines.

    Why not make an encrypted 6 digits PIN code?

    This is an example as the USA spreads its ineffective obsolete technology around the globe using soft power: advertising, marketing, etc.

  26. Re:I disagree... by chuckymonkey · · Score: 2, Insightful

    What percentage of all men are rapists and pedofiles? We don't have to deal with it because the vast majority of men are not, and never will be. Do you also think that we should treat all muslims as terrorists, all black people as poor second class citizens, all Mexicans and gang members and drug runners?

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  27. Sue the government, then. by master_p · · Score: 2, Insightful

    A big lawsuit against the UK government, most probable carried to the EU level, not only will result in a big compensation (for psychological damages), but also make agencies to be more careful.

  28. Re:Strange... you missed the whole thing. by Malevolent+Tester · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Do you have any idea how much tragedy has been preceded by the idea that fighting back is wrong, that the law will deal with it and that the state should have a monopoly on violence?

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  29. Re:Strange... you missed the whole thing. by halber_mensch · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I dunno....I like to drop about 200-300 rounds every couple of weekends. I'm fairly proficient.
    Shooting at paper targets is a lot different from shooting at live human beings while amped up on adrenaline in a low light situation such as your home.

    If someone is in my house....I pretty much guarantee I have much more firepower than they do...and I'm not even starting to ask for names till I've emptied a few clips.
    And then you find out that your your son/daughter/wife took a round or two from the "few clips" you just emptied. That aside, you are aware that bullets will go through drywall like hot knives through butter, aren't you? Guess what - you probably just wounded or killed one of your neighbours too. Now you've exposed yourself to ruinous civil liability as well as to a long, long stretch in the cooler with a cellie named Bubba who has a thing for 5'6" skinny computer geekboys. You know, I suppose you're right. You're so much better off if you just let the intruders kill you and your kids, rape your wife, take your money, and then be free to do it again at their leisure. That's a much better scenario.
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  30. Re:Strange... you missed the whole thing. by MBGMorden · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Shooting at paper targets is a lot different from shooting at live human beings while amped up on adrenaline in a low light situation such as your home. And the police have practiced shooting at live human beings in low light situations? Understand, the police aren't magical. They shoot at paper targets too, most less frequently then a lot of gun enthusiasts. A lot of the local sheriff's deputies practice at the same range I do, and they're not out there as often as I (nor most of the other regulars) am. The bottom line is like most things in life, most people are always looking for someone else to to the hard work. The "shit rolls down hill" mentality. Well in this case, frustration ain't the only thing at risk. Your life and that of your family is on the line. I'm not waiting 20 minutes for the knights in blue to show up and promise their best to look for the guy that just killed everyone I love. I want to make sure he never gets the chance. An ounce of prevention is worth of pound of cure.
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  31. Re:I disagree... by somersault · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The obvious solution here would be to have an entity charged with policing the police. With all the same resources as regular police have, but only able to arrest and investigate police officers. I thought they already had internal security or something? Question is, who watches the watchers of the watchers? "Quid custodiet custodis" or whatever the latin phrase is :P
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  32. Re:I disagree... by LordSnooty · · Score: 2, Insightful

    But if you consider the poster's experience, the librarian appears to think that "most men are pedophiles and rapists", a crucial difference which makes her behaviour unacceptable.