Studies Confirm That Bad Boys Get More Girls
seattlle foodie sends along a New Scientist article outlining two recent studies that confirm what many have long suspected: bad boys get the most girls. "The finding may help explain why a nasty suite of antisocial personality traits known as the 'dark triad' persists in the human population, despite their potentially grave cultural costs. The traits are: the self-obsession of narcissism; the impulsive, thrill-seeking, and callous behavior of psychopaths; and the deceitful and exploitative nature of Machiavellianism. At their extreme, these traits would be highly detrimental for life in traditional human societies. People with these personalities risk being shunned by others and shut out of relationships, leaving them without a mate, hungry and vulnerable to predators."
...and sluts get more bad boys.
Except for the part where you should also be smart enough to spell "should" and "gorgeous" -- are there any major browsers left that don't auto-spellcheck textareas?
Don't thank God, thank a doctor!
I had the same problem for most of my dating life, with being "too nice". It seems odd that there would be such a thing but there is. I finally got so tired of of getting broken up with the "You are so wonderful, it's not you, it's me" line, that I changed my dating habits completely. I am now happily married and able to let a my natural niceness show through, but to get to that point required the following self-imposed rules.
1. Do not give more than you get from a woman, either emotionally or materially. It is not impressive to them. It's a complete turn off. You might have short term success but in the long term you will lose them.
2. Do not let them do screwed up things to you, and if they do - tell them you are upset about it and act accordingly. Failure to do this makes you weak, and weak is not attractive.
3. If they ever turn you down/break up with you say okay and DO NOT CONTACT them. Be aloof. You have no chance with them at this point unless they come back to you, which they won't if you are still acting weak (which is probably why they left you in the first place).
There's a few more rules but those seem to be the major ones I've broken and I see broken over and over.
I tend to agree with you, American women are the worlds most annoying sluts. They are trained from day one to be 'independent' all the while they are equipped with every slut device known to man in order for them to get men to give them things. This is 'independence'. The government funds 4 years of slutting around called 'higher education' where little work or aptitude is required, only the willingness to go into a debt that will, more or less, last a lifetime. The rate of genital warts in college women today exceeds 30%. In order to facilitate this all academic standards have been eroded. They go about believing this feminism fantasy for as long as possible, but inevitably end up as worn out bitter lesbians, with no function other than to complain and blame. Some progress into a serious state where they actually aim to change 'society' to better serve the purposes of 'women'. It is these people that will help to bring down America in the end, because they require a never ending expansion of the program to alienate Americans from their natural rights of free speech (hate speech in their language), employment (equal opportunity), and family (new divorce, 'rape' laws, etc.). Some even suggest that feminism was designed to destroy our culture from the inside out.
We are currently reaching a phase where American men have become aware of this program for what it is. See http://savethemales.ca