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Bringing Up Bill

theodp writes "Over at the WSJ, Bill Gates Sr. describes what it took to turn an unruly 12-year-old into Microsoft's founder and the world's richest man. This included throwing a glass of cold water in the boy's face when he was having a particularly heated argument with his mother at the dinner table. 'He was nasty,' says Libby Armintrout, Bill's younger sister. 'I'm at war with my parents over who is in control,' Bill Gates recalls telling a therapist, who told his parents that their son would ultimately win the battle for independence, and their best course of action was to ease up on him. The rest, as they say, is history. The accompanying Gates Family Album is also worth a look."

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  1. "at war with my parents over who is in control" by palegray.net · · Score: 5, Insightful

    His life achievements notwithstanding, obviously Bill never outgrew this mentality, from his "open letter to hobbyists" on the antics of Microsoft, especially from the 90s onward...

    1. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by derGoldstein · · Score: 5, Interesting

      This is kind of tabloid territory here, but I am reminded of numerous accounts of "Bill Rage" in MS meetings. If you wanted to pitch an idea, you'd better be able to take on serious verbal abuse, sometimes simply because he didn't like the "name of one of the features" or because he didn't like some other minute aspect.

      There have been so many reports of this over the years that you could really see a pattern forming around his behavior, and people around him had to "adapt" to his eccentricities.

      For the most part, however, these outbursts didn't occur outside of closed doors. You don't see any videos on youtube with gates losing it in front of a camera.
      (not even in the pie incident, really)

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    2. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you wanted to pitch an idea, you'd better be able to take on serious verbal abuse, sometimes simply because he didn't like the "name of one of the features" or because he didn't like some other minute aspect.

      Yeah, and their stuff sucked a lot less back then, too. You wouldn't have seen Vista on Bill's watch; it took a Ballmer for that to happen.

      When a company no longer has someone at the top who is willing to call bullshit for what it is, that company is headed downhill.

    3. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I can't believe now we're resorting to personal attacks on /.

      Even if it's Bill... it's...

    4. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by derGoldstein · · Score: 5, Insightful

      WinME happened on his watch. So did MS Bob, Clippy, and every internet search initiative you can think of.

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    5. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by derGoldstein · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Was missing out on the Internet strategic?
      (and I cringe as I write this... Imagine an internet/web based on MS software...)

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    6. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by jamesh · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Like him or not, Bill Gates is pretty high up in the list of people who had a large effect on the whole computing industry.As a nerd, and a parent, I'm interested in what makes him tick, so I don't make the same mistakes with my kids :)

      His parents must do all right at christmas/birthdays/mothers day/fathers day/etc though... maybe there's something in that.

      I wonder if, deep down, Microsoft Windows was just a way to rebel against his parents? eg "Fine then! I'm going to go and start a computing empire and make my products suckier and suckier and by the time people notice it will be too late for them to use anything else. And it be all your fault! :p :p :p"

    7. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by Hal_Porter · · Score: 2, Informative

      MS Bob was managed by his girlfriend who he later married.

      And actually the Search Doggy from Windows XP came from Bob

      http://toastytech.com/guis/bob.html

      Search Doggy was a very good dog, he always found my files when I lost them.

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    8. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by stonewallred · · Score: 3, Funny

      At risk of being modded down, I liked WindowsME. Once I got an update disc from Gateway it never BSoD on me again and worked flawlessly for five years. Only when my Gateway died, did I switch, and then to Windows 2000. I just went to XP a couple of years ago. Call me technologically conservative or non-geek, but I would rather run a tried, proven and fixed system and benefit from being a real late adopter, than be cutting edge. Cheaper and more reliable my way.

    9. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by Johnny+Loves+Linux · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Like him or not, Bill Gates is pretty high up in the list of people who had a large effect on the whole computing industry.

      I have to agree. The issue I have is how much warping and damage did he cause the computing industry by his desire to win and maintain his monopoly at all costs. I've heard the arguments before that if Mr. Gates hadn't been around that Steve Jobs would have been running the show. That is not an unreasonable argument. My belief is that had CP/M been chosen for the first IBM PC, we would have had a more inclusive community, and more competition based on merits of the software and not on back room deals with crap like per-cpu-licenses or not-allowing-other-OS-to-being-pre-installed, or locking-browsers-with-the-OS. I think that it was a serious mistake of the U.S. legal system not to have broken the Microsoft monopoly into at least 2 companies:

      1. The OS manufacturer
      2. The software vendor

      I believe that history has demonstrated that whenever the Microsoft OS has been threatened, they have resorted to using leverage from their other software to pressure people to stick with their OS (Ex. Microsoft Exchange, Office, etc). Similarly, whenever their software has been threatened they have resorted to using their OS to put pressure on people to stick with their software (Ex. the "hidden apis" that only Microsoft developers knew about in their OS that other vendors such as Wordperfect were not allowed to have or at least not until it was too late.) By breaking the company into 2 parts it would have forced each half to compete solely on the merits of their software and certainly led to more aggressive competition and less FUD crap ("Get the Facts" campaign). I can't help but wonder if campaign contributions had something to do with Microsoft not being split up.

    10. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by flydpnkrtn · · Score: 2, Informative

      I agree with your sentiment on running a "tried, proven and fixed system" but Windows ME was anything but... it was still based on the broken hybrid DOS/Windows model (VXDs, cooperative multitasking... yay!), whereas Windows 2000 was essentially Windows NT 5.

      If you really wanted to stick with a "proven" platform you could have stuck with NT 4 SP 6a :)

    11. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by LordLimecat · · Score: 2, Funny

      Thats because the update disk contained windows 2000. Suprise!

    12. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by lordtoran · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The computing industry is more than just end user desktops, you know.

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    13. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by CAIMLAS · · Score: 4, Informative

      Sorry?

      VisualBasic, Windows 95, 98, ME, ActiveDirectory, Bob, Clippy, win32 API, functionally useless APIs, forced backwards compatibility, intrusive and dangerous default system services, Internet Explorer, MSHTML, and on and on goes the list of half-baked, broken, and abusive technologies which we've had to work around for the past two decades. Policy at MS has always been "we're doing what we want, and don't care about you" with regard to their products; they're brazen, like an undisciplined IT worker is in making system changes.

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    14. Re:"at war with my parents over who is in control" by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 2, Informative

      cooperative multitasking

      Huh? Windows used pre-emptive multitasking since Win95. Of course, you could still disable interrupts if you wanted to...

  2. My take on it by phantomfive · · Score: 5, Insightful

    He grew up in a family with a moderately oppressive mother and a caring yet distant father, who valued intelligence. He talked like a lawyer (he was one), and while he cared about his son, if you wanted his respect you needed to be able to verbalize a coherent and logical argument. These combined to be a powerful motivation for Mr Bill to try to learn everything about the world, since that's what it took to get respect.

    He was a smart guy. He scored a near perfect on his SAT, and went into Harvard.

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    1. Re:My take on it by Shadow+of+Eternity · · Score: 2

      Those last two sentences... one can often have nothing to do with the other.

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    2. Re:My take on it by palegray.net · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I disagree. While quick comprehension is important in life, the ability to synthesize new data from seemingly disparate sources (regardless of the time taken, many brilliant people "think slowly") has had a far greater impact on history.

    3. Re:My take on it by Foofoobar · · Score: 3, Insightful

      He was a smart guy. He scored a near perfect on his SAT, and went into Harvard.

      ... and while at Harvard, he realized that EVERYONE there was smart and scored a near perfect score on their SAT's. Making him average. So he dropped out. Giving further insight into his psyche; if he has ACTUAL competition, he will quit the game.

      This further lends itself to Microsoft' philosphy as a whole. They bought up or destroyed all competition with their monopoly wherever they could so there was no competition. Now that open source and Apple and Google are in town and ganging up on them, they are not having such a good time of it.

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    4. Re:My take on it by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 2, Insightful

      ... and while at Harvard, he realized that EVERYONE there was smart and scored a near perfect score on their SAT's. Making him average. So he dropped out.

      Given that not everyone from Harvard ends up earning a dew dozen billion dollars eventually, I'd say that he did prove his point by dropping out, no?

    5. Re:My take on it by flydpnkrtn · · Score: 2, Insightful

      ... and while at Harvard, he realized that EVERYONE there was smart and scored a near perfect score on their SAT's. Making him average. So he dropped out. Giving further insight into his psyche; if he has ACTUAL competition, he will quit the game.

      Dude he dropped out of Harvard to start Microsoft.... him and Paul Allen saw the Altair as "it's go time." It wasn't some three year old pouting because he was suddenly in the presence of people who were also smart (although being smart isn't necessarily the key to getting into an Ivy league school...)

  3. Re:Eeeep! by alienunknown · · Score: 5, Funny
    You mean this one?

    Isn't he dreamy?

  4. Re:How is this news? by rednip · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Really? How is this not 'news for nerds'? Love him or hate him, he's been one of the most important 'nerds' in the world for the last couple of decades. While I've have only gone over the summary; I believe that it's fairly clear that it's an frank account of his childhood. Also, most of the time when people think of 'nerds' the seem to believe that we're mild, or focused; when in reality we struggle with our 'gifts', perhaps more than most.

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  5. Re:How is this news? by phantomfive · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Because it's a chance to look at Bill Gates (our 'enemy') from a side we've never seen him. A lot of us can probably even relate to him. If you read the article, you'll find out at least five things you didn't know about him, and if you are perceptive you will gain a new view of the man. It's an interesting article (though apparently not to you), that's why it's on slashdot.

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  6. Re:How is this news? by palegray.net · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Believe it or not, there's an awful lot of nerds that honestly have no idea how Gates got his start. I'm old, but many people around here aren't.

  7. Re:How is this news? by derGoldstein · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I agree with your take on why this is interesting, but I especially think the "our enemy" remark hits the nail on the head. If this was about Larry Ellison, it probably wouldn't have made it in. If the article were about Steve Jobs, it would have made it in for completely different reasons.

    Yes, he's very influential, but it's his *controversial* nature that makes this especially interesting.

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  8. Perfect Qualities For.... by maz2331 · · Score: 4, Funny

    It sounds like the perfect qualities and personality for conquering an industry. Maybe we should be glad that he stayed out of law, or we could have ended up with a real control-freak president here.

    1. Re:Perfect Qualities For.... by sortius_nod · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm not sure whether to mod you insightful or funny, so I'll just post... I really think this is quite a valid opinion.

      I'm probably the first to despise Bill for his tactics with regards to computers, but I can only imagine what it'd be like if he was a politician. Makes me kind of thankful that he stayed with stealing other people's software...

    2. Re:Perfect Qualities For.... by RichM · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It sounds like the perfect qualities and personality for conquering an industry. Maybe we should be glad that he stayed out of law, or we could have ended up with a real control-freak president here.

      Please, don't go giving him ideas.

    3. Re:Perfect Qualities For.... by jellomizer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If a control freak was president he would be very unhappy. Being president there is way to much entropy and with the checks and balances you do not have full control. So you need to get congress to go along with your ideas, the same with the judical system, and many of them do not like the fact that you are in power and will fight you every step of the way. Then you have a general population who will determine if you get an other term or not. Or to replace the people in congress with the guys who hate you. A controll freak would not be happy there as they have little control of what they do.

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  9. Re:How is this news? by Martin+Blank · · Score: 4, Informative

    I have much less respect for Larry Ellison than I do for Bill Gates. Gates might have been difficult to handle behind closed doors, but Ellison is just outright arrogant all over, from ignoring San Jose Airport's landing restrictions (and eventually getting a waiver for them) to withdrawing a $115 million pledge to Harvard University just because they changed presidents. I have also heard from people who have worked at Oracle that Ellison is at least as difficult to work with as Steve Ballmer, and that Oracle's management cares much less about the technology than about the money even when compared to Microsoft.

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  10. Re:How is this news? by derGoldstein · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Personally, I'd replace the word "respect" with "acknowledgment". The MS/WinTel strategies (if you can call them that) were effectively an implementation of organized crime behavior. It's been a while since it's been in the news, so people forget just how severe, and numerous, the allegations were.

    Here's a brief reminder.

    I wouldn't place the word "respect" in the same paragraph as him. This scale of abuse of power doesn't occur by accident.

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  11. Re:How is this news? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Steve Jobs ain't no polyanna to work for either :P If anything, his fits, rage, pressure, and 'reality warping field' are legendary and well known traits. He alienated people. He rejected people sitting for job interviews because he considered them too square to work at Apple. He was fired from his own company for his behavior, for his mismanagement. He screwed over entire project-teams, even playing them off against each other inside the company. Just go watch "Pirates of Silicon Valley". Gates's claim to fame is his extreme competitive edge. That's not so bad. He was a card shark in college, a truly great negotiator, etc.

  12. Honestly, I wonder... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Would I have been better off growing up the son of a wealthy parents? I feel like most of my life thus far has been spent catching up to where the wealthy are right out of college. Sure, it's not exactly comparable -- time has given me more experience and perspective than almost any 22 year old -- but were all those years of figuring out how to afford to do what I wanted to do really beneficial to me? I've been reasonably wise in hedging my bets and am now able to afford trying to create and sell software on my own, but did being poor give me anything worthwhile or is it just fate's way of giving me (and others like me) the shaft?

  13. I guess the point of this would be by rastoboy29 · · Score: 3, Funny

    I guess ultimately Bill Gates, is just this guy, you know?

    1. Re:I guess the point of this would be by MichaelSmith · · Score: 2, Funny

      I guess ultimately Bill Gates, is just this guy, you know?

      Good to hear it from his brain care specialist.

  14. Re:Eeeep! by alienunknown · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm sorry. To show how sincere I am with my apology, here is a totally non-related picture.

  15. Re:How is this news? by IamTheRealMike · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think it's pretty clear that organizations, even big ones, tend to reflect the personalities of their leaders - especially when those leaders have strong personalities. This is very visible with Microsoft, Apple and Google. They're very different companies and I think that's largely down to the way Jobs, Gates and L&S are as people.

    Microsoft and Apple are both pretty darn important, and I think Jobs and Gates have pretty darn similar personalities. They both seem to be hyper-aggressive, very controlling A-types who don't think twice about intimidating their "minions". I think that also sums up Microsoft and Apple as companies. So studying Gates can tell us more about the Microsoft of the 90s, which is an interesting topic for anyone in the tech industry.

  16. Ah The Power of the Celebrity by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I always think its funny when I hear or read interest pieces on a Celebrity's life. Bill Gates, according to the article synopsis, was a fiercely independent child, possibly even a brat, that was at odds with his parents. How many people in the world are there like this? And yet, its Bill that we write and read and care about because Celebrity drives and organizes social patterns....In the words of Robert M. Pirsig:

    "Celebrity is the Dynamic Quality that primitive social patterns once used to organize themselves. That gives celebrity a new importance.

    None of this celebrity has any meaning in a subject-object universe. But in a value-structured universe, celebrity comes roaring to the front of reality as a huge fundamental parameter. It becomes an organizing force of the whole social level of evolution. Without this celebrity force, advanced complex human societies might be impossible. Even simple ones.

    ...

    It was crazy. People going over Niagara Falls in a barrel and killing themselves just for the celebrity of it. Assassins murdering for it. Maybe the real reason nations declared war was to increase their celebrity status. You could organize an anthropology around it.

    ...

    Even a policeman's uniform is a kind of celebrity device so that you will do what he says without questioning him. Without celebrity nobody would take orders from anybody and there would be no way you could get society to work.

    ...

    Money and celebrity are fame and fortune, traditionally paired as twin forces in the Dynamic generation of social value. Both fame and fortune are huge Dynamic parameters that give society its shape and meaning. We have whole departments of universities, in fact, whole colleges, devoted to the study of economics, that is fortune, but what do we have that is similarly devoted to the study of fame? What exactly is the mechanism by which the cultures controls the shapes of the mirrors that produce all these different images of celebrity? Would analysis of that mirror-changing force enable the resolution of ethnic conflicts? Phaedrus didn't know..."
    - Lila, Chapter 20, Robert M. Pirsig.

    ... And so Bill Gates is a big enough celebrity to have his personal life dug into by the media. His social patterns and examples will be passed on from generation to generation. Funny, I would rather have Larry Wall be in a role that big instead....

  17. Re:How is this news? by El+Lobo · · Score: 3, Funny

    It's always Sunday for kdawson, friend.

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  18. Still, Mommy got him going by dltaylor · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Some of us remember when M$ was just producing crappy CP/M-80 compilers and assemblers. How crappy? It took me years to get out of the habit of writing "&array_name[0]", instead of "array_name", since C80 didn't use the latter correctly. (I understand that about version 6 of the M$-Windows "C" compiler they finally got it working; 5 didn't handle "if ((do_input) && inb())" correctly, since it would do the inb() first, at least in some circumstances).

    After IBM was stupidly (as it turned out) snubbed by Digital Research, Mary Gates happened to meet an IBM exec at the club, and when he mentioned that they were looking for an operating system for little computers, she made the connection between him and Bill.

    We all have her to "thank", first for bearing him, then for putting him into position to bully us.

    1. Re:Still, Mommy got him going by Tablizer · · Score: 2, Informative

      Some of us remember when M$ was just producing crappy CP/M-80 compilers and assemblers. How crappy? It took me years to...

      ALL early PC products had problems. The early adopters were fairly forgiving of such because they knew they were trading time for money (cheaper machine). Early Apple II's leaked so much radiation that they couldn't legally call them "comsumer products". The first TRS-80's crashed quite often. Etc.

      After IBM was stupidly (as it turned out) snubbed by Digital Research, Mary Gates happened to meet an IBM exec at the club, and when he mentioned that they were looking for an operating system for little computers, she made the connection between him and Bill.

      It's not quite that simple. IBM *did* offer CPM on it's PC's along with MS-DOS. CPM just didn't know how to play the game as well as Gates. Gates was an avid poker-player and knew how to sacrifice in the short-term for longer-term gain. CPM's team didn't seem to understand this, going for the early buck. Microsoft's patience has paid off for it many times. True, when you have spare cash, you have the luxury of waiting more than other companies.
           

  19. Re:How is this news? by CRCulver · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Just go watch "Pirates of Silicon Valley".

    As entertaining as that made for TV movie was for people who already knew some of the history, I think it would be better to recommend the movie's source material, Paul Freiberger's Fire in the Valley . The movie strips the whole colourful story of 1970s Silicon Valley down to Gates and Jobs, leaving out the many other important personalities involved.

  20. Yet another puff piece... by QuietLagoon · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Trying to put a soft human side to the person who stole innovation and profits from the PC industry, who used illegal leveraging of a monopoly to build his wealth.

  21. Re:I for one.. by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    He should be taken out back and shot instead of making him out to some 'geek hero', which is is not.

    Yeah, he is. Just because you hate him doesn't mean plenty of people don't admire what he's been able to accomplish. I don't always agree with the man's methods, but the fact remains that what he's done is damn impressive.

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  22. Softcard introduced Bill to IBM by Jecel+Assumpcao+Jr · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The IBM people saw that business people using the Apple II normally had a Z80 Softcard from Microsoft with CP/M and several Microsoft tools and applications. They decided that their machine should have this as well.

    In their meeting with Bill, they were shocked to find out that CP/M belonged to a different company. Bill Gates immediately called Gary Kindall and told him he was sending some very important people to talk to him. The IBM people went to California and when things didn't work out they came back to Seattle and Bill promised to supply an OS himself.

    Don't trust me on this - see what the people actually involved said about it:

    http://www.pbs.org/nerds/part2.html

  23. Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" by slagheap · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Gladwell's latest book "Outliers" has a chapter about Bill Gates. Overall the book is about how a certain very few people are able to have outrageous success. The standard American story of this is that through hard work and determination that anything is possible. Gladwell points out that in most cases it requires a lot more than grit and determination it also requires being in exactly the right place at exactly the right time with exactly the right skills. (I know... duh. Right? But it is a good book).

    For Bill Gates... he went to a wealthy private school whose Mom's organization decided to buy a computer terminal in 1968! Bill would have been one of a handful of teenagers in the world who had access to a computer in those days (and one that didn't require punchcard programming at that.) Later he and Paul Allen were able to get access to U. of Washington computers late at night. As a result they got jobs programming during high school.

    I don't remember all the details, but Gates (and a similar story for Bill Joy of Sun) had lots of very unusual, very lucky situations along the way that led to him being a young very skilled programmer at a time when virtually no other people in the world would have had that level of experience (10,000 hours).

    He was a smart, tenacious kid, but Microsoft wouldn't have happened if he hadn't had access to that terminal when he 13 years old.

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  24. Outliers by TrekkieTechie · · Score: 2, Interesting

    For another perspective on Bill's success, and a deeply interesting look at success in general, check out Malcolm Gladwell's Outliers .

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  26. Re:I for one.. by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Wow. You just compared Bill Gates to brutal, genocidal dictators. You officially have no sense of perspective. Good day.

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  27. Re:No, hes not by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 2, Informative

    Except he did, at one point, help code the products.

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