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FTC Says Virtual Worlds Bad For Minors

eldavojohn writes "A new report from the FTC is claiming minors have access to explicit content via online virtual worlds such as those found in online games. The report makes five recommendations to keep little Johnny away from the harms of Barrens chat: Use more effective age-screening mechanisms to prevent children from registering in adult virtual worlds; Use or enhance age-segregation techniques to make sure that people interact only with others in their age group; Re-examine language filters to ensure that they detect and eliminate messages that violate rules of behavior in virtual worlds; Provide more guidance to community enforcers in virtual worlds so they are better able to review and rate virtual world content, report potential underage users, and report any users who appear to be violating rules of behavior; and Employ a staff of specially trained moderators who are equipped to take swift action against rule violations."

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  1. Or parents... by i.r.id10t · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

    Take some responsibility here folks!

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    1. Re:Or parents... by Pieroxy · · Score: 3, Funny

      But why? It so much easier to let the government spend our money and restrict the liberty of all for our lack of action. And there's this cool movie tonight on TV, so I'll think about it tomorrow.

    2. Re:Or parents... by tixxit · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Most people nowadays have liquor cabinets at home and beer in the fridge. In order to protect minors from consuming alcohol, we propose the following measures. Use more effective age-screening techniques to prevent kids from opening the bottles. Child-proof caps and lids would suit this purpose. Use or enhance age-segragation techniques to ensure kids aren't allowed access to parts of the house where the liquor resides. Re-examine consumption filters to ensure that bottles that are drunk by kids are detected and quickly discarded. Provide more guidance to household enforcers (other adults and siblings) to ensure they can accurately detect when a kid is getting drunk and report the kid or discard the bottle. Employ a household staff of specially trained moderators who can watch your kid like a hawk to ensure they don't consume alcohol.

    3. Re:Or parents... by wiredog · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yes. Parents need to be pro-active in defending their children from online threats.

    4. Re:Or parents... by Dotren · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Mod parent up.. beat me to the punch.

      Parents should be the one who ultimately decide whether their kids are ready to join online worlds and, if they're not, prevent them from doing so.

      We as a people should not need a government organization dictating what our children should or should not be exposed too. I realize it's politically incorrect to blame voting parents for anything these days but there is no government rules that will replace a good parenting. Furthermore, I'm starting to realize a good chunk of those pushing for things like this are parents who really don't want to put in the work to raise their children and instead would prefer the government or schools do it for them.

    5. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm not for a second saying that parents shouldn't take responsibility, but I have to say I've been humbled somewhat in this area and do think that whenever possible people should help parents do this by giving them the tools they need.

      Not too long ago my house gained an eleven year old. Before that I just rolled my eyes and said "Parents need to just keep track of what the kids are watching" ... once she was there I suddenly became aware of just how hard that is. The commercials that play during otherwise acceptable shows, for example - not to mention all the problems with knowing what is and is not possible in an online game.

      I don't want to see things censored, but I welcome voluntary attempts to make the colossal task of monitoring easier for parents.

    6. Re:Or parents... by DJRumpy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They didn't restrict anything. They made recommendations. They are doing what a government is supposed to do. If they didn't, you wouldn't have safety in the workplace, safety in toys, safety against harmful chemicals, etc.

    7. Re:Or parents... by Pieroxy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They didn't restrict anything yet.

      There, I fixed it for you.

    8. Re:Or parents... by PitaBred · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why do people insist on trying to control everything their children do? Of course they'll get around it. The ONLY thing you can realistically do is teach them how to deal with things they may not understand, and educate them on what you don't like and why you don't like it. You're not raising a child. You're raising an adult. Teach them how to deal with life.

      And yes, I do have a kid.

    9. Re:Or parents... by fermion · · Score: 4, Interesting
      Both of these are correct. I was exposed to a good amount of what would be called inappropriate content, but most of it was either through my parent of my peer group. My parents took me to museums and classical performances. At both, sometime the content was kind of explicit. My peer group had various materials as well which we all looked at. What we did not have was all this content which I allowed to viewed as a replacement for parenting. TV was much less graphic, and we did not have cable. I did not watch a lot of late night tv until I was well into high school. I did not watch the evening soaps alone. I was sent outside to play and learn about the graphic nature of the world for real, not in virtual reality. It was way more fun.

      The liquor and other poisonous ingestibles are the same. All sane parents keep the kids away from these things.All sane parents make sure small children cannot get to the alcohol, drugs, or drain cleaner. Most of these have child proof caps for as a backup.

      At some age, most kids will learn not to OD on drugs or drain cleaner. I think we all agree that some don't. Also, many parents will teach children about the proper dosage of drugs, alcohol, and the such. This is the serving you get of wine. This is the serving you get of beer. This is when you drink cognac. If you need an asprin, this is what you should take. Clearly not all parent teach such civility, just like not all parent teach how to set a table, which fork to use, or to open doors for others, but the many do.

      But learning and teaching takes time, which is why children can just be set out on their own and be expected to make long term best decisions, which may not be spending 10 hours a day playing the video games, or for a 14 year old trolling for facebook to find an older man to go out with in hope of impregnation, then a house and child support.

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    10. Re:Or parents... by Akira+Kogami · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Sure, if the parenting help from the government actually worked. Kids can still get a hold of drugs and they can still watch porn.

    11. Re:Or parents... by MrTester · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Mod Parent (both of them) down.

      We as a people should not have to tell people to read the article before they run around spouting off.
      Oh. Wait. This is slashdot. What am I thinking?

      "I'm starting to realize a good chunk of those pushing for things like this..." Yeah. "Things like this" are reccomendations that people who are going to host a childrens site really ought to have moderators who can tell when a 20 year old pedophile is sending foul language to my 8 year old daughter on the Build-a-bear site and then do something about it.
      HOW DARE THEY SUGGEST SUCH A THING.

      I am a parent. And $#!@$ you for suggesting that it is lazy of me to expect Build-A-Bear to effectively prevent pedophiles from harassing my daughter on line. There is nothing in this article that states that these things must be implimented everywhere. Its meerly suggesting that sites that are targeted to kids need to make a better effort to protect children.

    12. Re:Or parents... by interkin3tic · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      I personally would argue more that a few kids getting exposed to violence or -gasp- S.E.X. is more than an acceptable tradeoff for freedom.

      The problem with arguing along the lines of "Parents should keep their kids from looking at that stuff" is that we all know they're not going to even take reasonable steps, and we all know that kids are going to find ways around their parents' efforts no matter what.

    13. Re:Or parents... by clone53421 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Friend of mine had 4 girl daughters

      Whew, that’s good to know. I’d have been worried if he’d had any boy daughters or girl sons.

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    14. Re:Or parents... by shentino · · Score: 3, Interesting

      That's a hard sell when these virtual worlds are marketing the crap out of themselves as substitute babysitters so that parents can relax and leave their kids in front of the screen.

      The only marketing done towards children is designed to get the kids to beg mom and dad for the goods. A few tantrums from a spoiled brat are frosting.

      It's all well and good to say parents should take charge, but spend 2 minutes in their shoes and you'd have a bit of sympathy.

      What they need is support, not blame.

      No, I am not a parent (yet anyway), but I am a young adult that was a hellhound to raise. Recently I found out I was autistic, which seemed to put my mom at ease knowing she didn't fail as a parent as badly as she thought she did, and even she had to go it alone while I was young.

      Single mother, with an autistic child.

      Yes, parents have responsibilities, but let's not take their job for granted.

    15. Re:Or parents... by alexborges · · Score: 3, Funny

      You were a very boring teenage brat.

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    16. Re:Or parents... by natehoy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      From the FTC site:

      Of the 14 virtual worlds in the FTC’s study that were, by design, open to children under age 13, seven contained no explicit content, six contained a low amount of such content, and one contained a moderate amount. Almost all of the explicit content found in the child-oriented virtual worlds appeared in the form of text posted in chat rooms, on message boards, or in discussion forums.

      So the FTC studied 27 "online worlds" and of those 14 were listed as open to kids under 13. Of the 14 worlds, 13 of them seem to be doing a good to excellent job of policing their discussion boards and/or chat rooms for inappropriate content. All but one of the sites with inappropriate content were sites that were not registered as open to kids under 13. In other words, not the "Build a Bear" site you mention. The sites actually designed for your daughter (and trust me, I understand your concerns, my daughter is seven) seem to be doing a good job, by and large.

      If you want your daughter to use a particular board, visit it and read for a while. If the moderators seem to be doing a good job of removing anything you don't like, then you make a decision as to whether you can trust their moderation style (which probably includes many of the things mentioned in the FCC report). Then YOU, as a parent, can decide which sites are making appropriate efforts.

      "Being a parent" isn't necessarily a narrow corridor of "watch everything your kid does to protect them." You can occasionally trust others. But it's up to you to figure out who to trust and who not to.

      The ideas mentioned are good ones, but they won't offer adequate protection except the last one ("employ a staff of specially trained moderators"), and that one is impractical for a lot of sites. You're talking about a 24/7 staff of people who can read ALL of the messages coming in and filter them. Plus, there's always a time lag between the time something is posted and the time that even the most trained and talented moderator can catch it and delete it. So even if a moderator is on the job, your daughter might see something occasionally. Plus, you might consider pictures of violent cartoon shows to be inappropriate for your child, while we have an entire TV industry built around this being appropriate entertainment. "What constitutes inappropriate content" is VERY subjective.

      I run a handful of discussion boards, and kids would be welcome at all of them as far as I'm concerned, and I moderate them and keep them clean, but I couldn't afford the lawsuit if one of our members said or did something inappropriate and I failed to "protect the children" because I can't read every post before it's put on the website, and I can't monitor it 24/7.

      This is the conundrum that the attempts to protect our children have put us in. Those of us who are parents want our children protected against pedophiles. Fair enough.

      Those of us who are moderators of discussion boards cannot provide that service with any absolute level of guarantee and still allow strangers to post messages to the discussion boards. Any level of security I offered you would be a false sense, and I'd rather you visit my boards as an interested parent, check them out, and decide whether the community I've built is appropriate for your child. That, in my mind, is proper parenting. You don't have to live along with them on my site, but if you want to trust me, I should EARN that trust, which means YOU, as the parent, need to look at my site and see if you trust me. Just like hiring a babysitter - we don't depend on the government to find us a babysitter who is safe, we depend on knowing the person we're leaving our kids with.

      Personally, I "COPA Filter" everything I put up online that allows user input of any kind. If you signed up for an account on one of my boards, you have to check a little tickybox that says "I am over the age of consent in my state or country, and/or I have legal parental consent to access this bo

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    17. Re:Or parents... by Knara · · Score: 3, Interesting

      While you progress towards valid points, keep in mind that violent crime has been trending down for 20 years now. While people "back then" may not have worried about the psychopathic pedophile behind every rock, it's ironic that these days folks are more worried about it, even though its less likely to happen to any given individual.

    18. Re:Or parents... by BobMcD · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But how does one delineate the reduced risk from the reduced opportunity? At least where children are concerned...

    19. Re:Or parents... by dkleinsc · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually, no, kids aren't stupid. Kids are ignorant a lot of the time, but they aren't stupid. Your average 10-year-old is absorbing information like a sponge. The trouble is that they may not be absorbing the information you want them to absorb.

      Now, here's the real trick, though: if you look at what information kids pay really close attention to, it's what the adults around them our doing. If you want a kid to act a certain way, act in that way around the kid and before you know it they will have picked it up. On the flip side, if you start acting like you don't want them to act, they will pick that up and copy you. It's monkey-see, monkey-do.

      And while other adults do have some influence on kids, the adults with the most influence are mom, dad, and their teachers. Even if they don't admit it, even teenagers will pay close attention to what their parents do. They have more influence than anyone the kid sees on TV or on teh Interwebs.

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    20. Re:Or parents... by Darkness404 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The difference is, lack of safety in the workplace might kill you, same with toys, chemicals, etc. Whats the worst thing porn is going to do to you? Or bad language? The answer is not much. No one has been killed by swear words, no one has been killed by watching porn, no one has been raped by watching R rated movies, etc.

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    21. Re:Or parents... by Knara · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Reduced opportunity to be "harmed" in some generically defined way, or reduced opportunity for kids to be normal kids?

    22. Re:Or parents... by Duradin · · Score: 2, Informative

      Diesel will burn but getting it to go boom requires a bit more effort than a firecracker.

    23. Re:Or parents... by funaho · · Score: 4, Funny

      Ever try to open a bottle of aspirin when your wrist hurts from being at the computer too long?

      Might want to take a break there or you'll get some nasty chafing. ;)

    24. Re:Or parents... by idontgno · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You could quietly kill the dirty infidels.

      You could forbid your kid from ever seeing, visiting, or speaking to the dirty infidels.

      Or you could acknowledge that what you want your kid to learn and not learn is pretty much limited by the fact that the kid's world is a lot bigger than just you.

      If you give your kids a decent moral foundation, sufficient self-esteem as a buffer against peer pressure, and enough critical thinking skills to decide things for themselves, maybe your kids will make decisions on their own akin to what you'd decide for them.

      (I assume we're not talking pre-schoolers here. In that case you have much more direct control.)

      Signed,
      idontgno, proud parent of 3 adult children (who, as far as I know, haven't become axe murderers, drug fiends, or IRS agents.)

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    25. Re:Or parents... by KickInNutsAnalogyGuy · · Score: 3, Funny

      Precisely! Why would any parent give that manner of control over their children to the government? Consider the following:

      Your child needs to be junk-kicked in his man business. Do you want someone like Dick Cheney to be the one junk-kicking your child's man business? Do you want the Supreme Court sending Sonia Sotomayor to your home to junk-kick your child? I certainly hope not. If anyone is going to junk-kick a child's man business, I would hope that the child's parent(s) would care enough not to allow some government official do the junk-kick. Clearly the responsibility of junk-kicking children should lie with the parent(s) of said children.

      Please think before asking the government to take over your responsibilities and joys of parenting.

    26. Re:Or parents... by Hatta · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You don't. You teach them to use their brain, and they handle the rest.

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  2. Riiiiiiight... by Locke2005 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    All this is necessary because kids never hang out with older kids in REAL LIFE and hear those words from them! How about just teaching your kids what is and isn't appropriate -- eventually they are going to have to learn to cope with these bad influences anyway.

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  3. Re:The Internet is The Internet by MrMr · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Don't blame us parents, this is the FTC talking about control.

  4. Because the internet is worse than real life.... by mayko · · Score: 2, Funny

    Surely seeing profane language and a few distended assholes is much worse than smoking cigarettes, sneaking booze from your parents liquor cabinet, hearing older kids use profane language, and looking at some stolen porno magizines...

    Kids have, and will always be kids. They will hear and do things before their parents willingly expose them to it... all except the distended assholes. That is definitely an unfortunate consequence of the internet.

  5. Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 3, Funny

    Champions Online would let my daughter create a cat themed hero, but wouldn't let her name it "Pussy Cat"... I haven't tried naming a character "Dick Cheney" yet.

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    1. Re:Censorship works great!!! by natehoy · · Score: 2, Funny

      That's just a filter. Name it \/ag1na Cat and it'll probably be fine.

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  6. Nanny Business by SirAstral · · Score: 2, Interesting

    We already know the details of nanny government and all that jazz... but when are the businesses going to stand up, pool their money and fight being pushed into becoming nannys themselves? They may think its cool now to have a little power, but soon they will start getting sued by parents for not keeping their little dissident children in line. It won't be facebook, craigslist, and myspace being sued. It will be the companies that run games like WOW, Everquest, EVE, and the rest getting sued for the GM's and Dev's not keeping predators out of the game world.

    People are a sleep at the wheel here!

  7. Keep the kids away from the rest of us by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 3, Funny

    the most irritating people in these virtual worlds are the damn teenagers - I'm all for separating out the populations or at least allowing me to filter out messages from kids. Most adults have at least some level of decorum.

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    1. Re:Keep the kids away from the rest of us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      Most adults have at least some level of decorum.

      What Internet are you on, and how do I sign up?

  8. For what it's worth by nightfire-unique · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm of the opinion that the "real world" with all its war, police brutality, marketing, religion, fear and suffering is worse.

    Really... are sex and swear words that bad?

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    1. Re:For what it's worth by Reapy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      One could argue that lack of experience in dealing with life's 'ugly' side leads to people having unrealistic expectations of what to expect in their life from friends, partners, and family. It can lead to poor decisions when choosing a partner, choosing to have kids, or choosing to even get married. These poor decisions in turn can lead to horribly broken homes, full of grief, misery, or just general lack of "life", which are terrible places for kids to grow up, kids who will continue on developing their own issues from growing in those homes, continuing the cycle.

      One of this country's (US) biggest problems has always been the refusal to even acknowledge half of these problems and examine alternative lifestyles with an open mind. I don't mean just gay/lesbian couples either. I mean a couple who may choose to not have kids, a couple who may live together but refuse marriage, a couple who has an open relationship, having multiple 'friends with benefits'. All of these and more exist out there and work for other people, but if you dare make the mistake of admitting in public that you don't want to be married forever and have 2.5 kids, wooh buddy, something must be wrong with you!

      The more exposure, and even better parental guided exposure, to life that a person (not just a kid) can have, the better. Yes, your 6 year old does not need to know the ins and out's of your divorce, but they do not need to remain ignorant forever. Maturing as a person is experiencing life and understanding more then you did when younger. If you are not experiencing and learning, you aren't growing, and you aren't maturing.

  9. Out of touch bureaucrats? by bughunter · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm convinced that most adults, especially those who claim the mantle of "protecting the children" forget what it's like to be a child.

    I mean, come on. Don't you guys remember the ribald jokes told as early as the first grade, and the whole fascination with that mysterious, taboo subject that nobody who talked about it really understood, and nobody who understood it talked about it?

    I am a parent of a five year old, and I'm far more concerned about advertisements and commercials than I am worried that he'll overhear a reference to boobies or weiners. Exposure to "adult subjects?" Please. Like you never told a joke about headlights or train tunnels when you were six, or sung the "Miss Lucy" song.

    And as for chat rooms and other "predator" hangouts, well, that's another level of threat... one that the media has a whole other set of objectivity problems with. (And common sense and involvement with your child is all it takes to manage that threat.)

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  10. No surprise by royallthefourth · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I remember when I was a minor on the internet I had access to explicit content.

    You know what they're really missing here? Teenaged boys are looking for explicit content and you'll never be able to stop them from finding it.

  11. Prevent Beneficial Interaction by The+Raven · · Score: 5, Interesting

    This whole segregation thing is crap. 95% of interactions between a child and an adult are positive. Segregation leads to 'Lord of the Flies' inbreeding of immature thought. Mixed company is the proper company for a child to have to learn how to grow up to be a sane, responsible, rounded individual.

    Look at our history... children didn't grow up in segregated 'child only' areas... they grew up working with their parents and community members. They were exposed to life.

    I'm of the opinion that over 95% of interactions between a child and adult are positive. How many of you have grouped with an obviously young kid, and helped them through an instance? Asked them to please be more polite, or type neatly, or don't ninja all the loot? Grouping, chatting, and talking with more mature players is what helps children learn maturity (at least in the context of an MMO).

    Perhaps some of the other points of the article have merit, but I'm quite against age segregation. We are a community... act like it.

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    1. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by Alarindris · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Great point. Interesting story I have to add.

      I used to run a WoW guild. Everyone in the guild was between 20 and 40. Or so we thought. Our kickass bear tank that we had for months, revealed that he was 13. We hadn't heard him on vent, so we were just dumbfounded. Very polite, mature, organised, and punctual. Guess what?

      He was home schooled. One of the best youngsters I've met TBH.

  12. true in the real world, too by loshwomp · · Score: 3, Interesting

    [...] minors have access to explicit content via online virtual worlds [...]

    Minors have access to "explicit" content in the real world, too. How is this any different? Are these concerns merely puritanical in nature, or is there evidence that this is actually harmful?

  13. Who needs terrorists... by Duradin · · Score: 5, Funny

    Who needs terrorists when children are doing such a great job of destroying our society?

    1. Re:Who needs terrorists... by sowth · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No, it would be the same. The baby boomers who are running things act exactly like children.

      Arguments based on who is in the better clique, not on the real issues or ways to solve problems or whether or not the government should try to solve certain problems in the first place. Their attempts to solve problems are based upon only a very superficial look at the problem and solution.

      They succumb easily to bribes. They only consider their specific situation--one of the "solutions" for healthcare was to lower the medicare age to 55? That only helps baby boomers and no one else. In fact, the majority of people who are unable to get health insurace for themselves are under 30. Look at these figures. The percentage of uninsured poor is 21% for the ages 25-34 (the highest), and only 7% for ages 55-64. How does decreasing the medicare age to 55 help the healthcare crisis?

      They act like a bunch of immature spoiled bastards who have no consideration for society in general. WTF? Mod me offtopic if you want, but my point is we have a total failure of leadership in the United States. These absurd regulation talks about the internet are just a small distraction from it.

      They are just legislating things for their specific preferences, and most baby boomers don't run any game servers or web sites, so they don't care if your freedom to do such things are taken away. That is why we have these issues. Because they are in control and they don't give a shit about anyone else. In a non-tyrannical government, the leaders would act in ways which are considerate of everyone, but this is not what we have here.

  14. Re:Sounds good to me by Ephemeriis · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I would much rather not have to deal with other people's children or silly rules to protect them. Build kiddie pools and throw the little snots and the content filters in them.

    Except that isn't how it will work.

    The reason we need things like this in the first place is because parents aren't doing their job. If parents were paying enough attention to realize that Grand Theft Auto probably wasn't child safe... Or if parents were actually explaining what is appropriate language and behavior... It wouldn't be necessary to come up with these rules and filters to protect them.

    The fact of the matter is that many parents just toss their kids in front of videogames. It's easier than actually parenting them yourself. It keeps them distracted and quiet while you go do your thing. Except that not all videogames are child-safe. And weeding out the child-safe ones from the adult titles would require effort these folks are obviously not interested in expending. So the ultimate goal here would be to render absolutely everything child-safe.

    Which means that all your videogames would become kiddie pools. And even though you're an adult, you'd have to put up with the content filters and rules that are designed to protect the children of these lazy parents.

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  15. Times have changed by mister_playboy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is "profane" language really such a concern anymore? Every I know who is under 40 tends to swear quite freely... having kids turns them into a hypocrite about the subject or what?

    These concerns have always struck me as very unsophisticated... a belief in magical "bad" words seems pretty backward even by general religious standards... and if you're not religious, than what possible justification is used for the belief in "bad" words? Tradition?

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    1. Re:Times have changed by FlyingBishop · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Alternately, everyone you know who is under 40 is a dick.

      What's polite and what isn't doesn't make sense, for the most part. It just is. Magical "bad" words are there to let people know that you not only don't care for someone/thing, but you despise it.

    2. Re:Times have changed by Nefarious+Wheel · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Is "profane" language really such a concern anymore?

      Damn, that's profound.

      Actually, what's happened is that language considered "profane" has changed it's shape. Example:

      HAY n00b KIN U GIVE ME 5 G FOR A SOWARD?

      I know that sort of language offends me. Maybe it's simply that the parents want to keep the kids out of their games.

      Or: "Your account has been compromised and is now locked. Log in to blizzard.wow-accounts.cardscraper.com to unlock it".

      Yep, profane language still exists.

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  16. No such thing as bad words. by 2obvious4u · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I've got four kids and I've taught them that there is not such things as bad words. Words are a tool of language; its how you use them that matters. There is nothing wrong with the word bitch, especially when used in the proper context. Our genitalia have proper anatomically correct terms, penis and vagina. There is a proper place to use words, you don't talk about penises and vagina in proper company or in public places, the words are not bad, but it is rude because it might offend or embarrass others. The idea that a word is naughty or bad is just as wrong as saying that sex is naughty or bad. None of us would be here without sex, including test-tube babies since at some point in history their grandparents or great-grandparents weren't test tube babies.

    Censorship of thoughts and language of any kind is a bad thing. If you censor a word or call it bad, it will just be replaced by an innuendo or another innocent word will acquire its meaning. Language is like the internet, it too views censorship as damage and routes around it.

    1. Re:No such thing as bad words. by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Preach it, brother. I have done the same with my kids. Further, we've had many conversations around the notion that the religious factions in the US have made talk of sex 'dirty' when it really is simply a natural, pleasurable act that unfortunately can also have some unfortunate side effects (STD, pregnancy, heartbreak). I've told them that I don't particularly think porn is anything that unusually evil, and I don't spend a single minute worrying about them finding some 'bad' place on the internet. As a result, we're able to be pretty open about it, they don't seem to be hung about it, and thus far, at 14 and 17, we've had no issues.

      A couple of generations ago, people learned about sex by seeing it in the barnyard, or by hearing their parents across the room before we were all well enough off to have separate bedrooms. It's only in recent years that people have been able to pretend that sex doesn't happen.

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      I was taught to respect my elders. The trouble is, it's getting harder and harder to find some.
  17. 3.3 by Wiarumas · · Score: 5, Funny

    Sounds like someone at the FTC got ninja looted by a minor.

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    I will bend like a reed in the wind.
  18. As a parent of a 7 year old .... by King_TJ · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I can see a lot of truth in many of the comments posted here.

    I know one of the problem I continually face is in trying to let my kid "go out in the real world and BE a kid". Personally, I'm a big proponent of what Penn & Teller were trying to say in one of their episodes of "Bullshit" .... that the world is NOT more dangerous for kids today than it was in previous generations. In fact, statistically, it's more probable that your kid will randomly be struck by lightning than become a victim of a predator, while playing outside. But my own beliefs and opinions don't dictate what the rest of the community believes either.

    As one example, my girlfriend's 3 year old wanted to play outside, a few weeks ago. We live on a dead-end street, where there are at least 4 other families around with young kids. In fact, the people next-door to us have a 3 year old who loves playing with her 3 year old. So she let her go play, since my daughter and her 6 year old son were already playing outside anyway. Seems reasonable enough, right?

    Well, not more than 10 minutes later, I get a frantic knocking on my front door. One of the neighbors a few houses down was basically demanding I run out and get her kid, because she was standing outside, on the sidewalk, in front of his house, with no other kids around! When I went to get her, she looked a bit puzzled, and didn't even want to come back in. She was simply standing around because she WANTED to, and was in no danger I could see. (Apparently, the 6 and 7 year olds decided to play in a neighbor's back yard, and didn't want her to go with them since she was "too young" to play whatever they were playing.)

    This isn't the first time I've dealt with this sort of thing, either. On several previous occasions, my kid was outside playing, only to be taken by the hand, by an angry parent, and led up to my doorstep. Basically, they tried to tell me I was being irresponsible, because I let my kid play outside and their kid(s) had to go in for dinner, or because they were leaving to go someplace, or what-not. It never occurred to them it might actually be OK for my daughter to walk up and down our street and find her own way back home, when she wanted to come home!

    This is in a low-crime, middle-class suburb, mind you .... I do find it interesting that when I used to live in a rougher, lower-income part of town, I *never* saw these issues. Whether it was because parents were too busy to be bothered with hovering over their kids constantly, or because they just had more common sense and less fear of the "real world", I don't know? But kids of all ages played outside, both during the day and even after dark, on a street that WASN'T dead-end and had no sidewalks -- and everyone got along just fine.

  19. Not Just for Children by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Which means that all your videogames would become kiddie pools. And even though you're an adult, you'd have to put up with the content filters and rules that are designed to protect the children of these lazy parents.

    It's not just video games, and it's not just for children. I recently spent several hours trying to find out how to disable the child protection restrictions on my parent PVR so they could watch their recording of "Downfall", which had been rated 15s. Their complete inability to figure out how to watch a restricted program is I think pretty typical of most users. In short, these restrictions are not just for children. They are for everybody. Like the Great firewall of China, if you can get 90+% of people to just give up on watching what you don't want them to watch, your measures have been a success.

    I should note that the "Downfall" program (criticised as being sympathetic to the Nazi's), was the only program they had ever recorded which had implemented such a restriction. One of the Die Hard films sat on right there on the same screen, completely unrated. Downfall was being broadcast on a British television station, at around the time when far right elements like the BNP were on the rise in England, so I'm fairly suspicious of the whole affair.

    Censorship is not just for kids. It's for everyone too busy or too unskilled to get around it.

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    May the Maths Be with you!
  20. craziness by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I'd be more concerned with what sort of effect being plugged into a virtual world does on brain development, physical coordination, compulsive behaviours, addiction, muscle tone and face to face socialization.

    The focus on dirty words makes this whole thing a stupid joke.

    1. Re:craziness by HertzaHaeon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Games are good for your eyesight, social life, physical health, learning, stress, language skills and economy, among other things.

      Oh, and gaming addiction is mostly bunk.